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Thank you for this content guys- you are doing a service to society with these episodes!

She has good vibes! Bring her back for another topic

Is Tai single? 👀Respectfully.

Oh my god! I have an anecdote regarding veto power. I was briefly dating a girl that turned out to be in a hierarchical polyamorous relationship. I had veto power invoked against me. This girl and I were planning on trying a different form of intimacy. Her partner said NO because he didn't like the way that it made him feel. HARD NO. DEAL BREAKER. I don't ever want a third person exercising authority over my relationship. That is a gross usurpation of power, especially if motivated by jealousy, as was the case in this anecdote. Having another man exercise authority in the form of veto power over my relationship (or potential relationship) with a girl is highly patriarchal, overbearing, and multiple layers of problematic. SMASH THE PATRIARCHY!!!

Or the partners they chose don't want me to be involved they really want the person all to themselves.

My partners are usually the only one that is allowed to interact with others or have friends. I don't interact much anyway, but I don't mind my partner hanging out or having friends. I should be able to trust you, and you should expect me to be able to trust you and be able to be around people and/or your friends. You, as my partner, should not be around people that you dont feel safe around.

Very important if you are talking about it just because your partner is not ready does not mean they may never be. I say this because I remember talking about this with my partner, and they would wait until I was sick or trying to will my body back to healthy or homeless caring for kids just kept me off balance to go out and fk me over😏😔 Couldn't wait to lock me out of some shyt.

If it wasn't for men like this, I wouldn't even know good men even exist anymore. I am supposed to believe they don't exist for only me or someone like me, but the truth is bitter men exists and if I didn't meet them personally, I wouldn't have even known that either 🙄🤦🤣

Do opposites work in these relationships. Like two people, not the same, can they be compatible, though.

This is absolutely such a beautiful conversation. My ears are in heaven 🫠🫠

She's making me want dreads again. Lawd they look so good thick like that.

How do you deal with the negativity from family and friends. And losing some of those people cause of not being in a traditional relationship. We are a triad

Maaan....shes kinda toxic....He's being reasonable and trying to articulate and the whole time she's here like "WRONG"....man of patience and steel here.

My husband and I are new to this. Where is the best place to get started, in terms of finding someone? What are some of the main things we should look out for, or beware of?

This conversation was soooo helpful. I'm only half way in

That’s a good idea sleeping in another room, used to do that years ago.

Love these conversations

I have a question. When you are going into a poly relationship but your main goal is to be married to the man. You are not really into women and you refer the relationship as a couple with a permanent side. To me that's red flags. How can you relay that to your partner. Because the other person in my eyes only doing it to be with him.

Movement has been such a huge part of my reclamation of self, it helped me to uncover unconscious beliefs remaining in my body even after renouncing religion. I felt like my sacral area wasn’t mine, i believed it was something i had to keep in check to avoid predation and if i move it its only to invite male interaction. I’m learning to express my sensuality cathartically and as a form of self intimacy. I was very numb to my body with a hyperactive mind. The first stretch of my spiritual journey was extremely ungrounded trying to perceive other dimensional beings and life beyond earth. Meditation was easiest just after a run when my blood was pumping and i was breathing heavily. Connecting the chakras to a deeper understanding of anatomy has worked wonders. With bodily awareness improving so is my ability to empathise and transmute hostility back into love. Now I’m increasingly becoming aware of the blood pumping throughout my arms and head even while lounging. Sometimes it creeps me out but then I cant help but be in awe of how consciousness has taken shape in us. I’m really good at to dispelling a migraine using my hair and neck. My neck stretches are now leading me to feeling my upper spine. I find myself intuitively stretching and dancing in a way that revitalises my body and increases its capacity to contain juddering. I’m coming home to my body and realising that the most powerful insights are within. With generational curses also comes generational gifts. I believe my body holds the score of our entire evolution.

Beyond valuable, i hope you guys aren’t too disheartened by the lack of engagement. Your podcast is exactly what i needed on my journey right now thank you <3 sending you love from london

What are your thoughts on group marriage?

I've been interested in making this transition for a few years now after a lot of spiritual work, energy work and self reflection. So glad I found your channel! Thank you both! 💞♾️💞

This is so needed

Hilarious

This is beautiful I’m about to cry. This is exactly what I want

Your union is beautiful and your level of communication is to be desired. I believe you guys are articulated this topic very well thank you for this.

Love this thank you

I’ve always been into women, just the thought of sharing a guy if i was in a relationship was insane, until I met a female friend back in 2021 she talked about how a man needed, a tribe a union 2 women he can build and grow with, I looked at her like she was crazy. Fast Forward it’s 2023 now it got me thinking like damn over the years is this what every guy needed to not cheat, and this was fearful for me at a point, health wise I didn’t want nobody stepping out I wanted to understand this situation a bit more, I’m currently Single but I want to give this a try, Just doing this with the right man. Now when I meet men I tell them this is something I’m interested in, now I’m like how long should I wait to invite someone else in if I’m getting to know a guy lol?

What do you do when you both started in a monogomous dynamic and jumped into poly/nonmomogomy and you don’t know if this is truly for you?

I just came upon you channel and am learning so much! Thank you for sharing your lifestyle

what can you find in other guys ??? A LOT

Lot of ppl are poly for the wrong reasons or were never meant to be poly at all

My girlfriend is on a date right now while im here watching this.

I just discovered yall and your podcast and I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YALL! I have shared it with both of my partners and anyone else I met in the poly world

I love how I can return to this video when I need it ❤❤ solid insight

I just discovered your podcast and yall are awesome.

This a open relationship

Therapists are a luxury

Imo. You shouldn't be 100 percent committed to any relationship. No matter the dynamic. Being 100 percent committed to one person is codependency

I told my wife 2 years ago that we need to change the dynamic because i needed to connect with others, and she assumed that i was cheating and left. Im not mad but I have no regrets. I was honest with her. Moral of the story. The LS will amplify any insecurity.

I have so much respect for teh both of you and you all help me alot in my own situation thank you so much fot that

I LOVED this talk!!! best talk I‘ve heard so far about being poly oh my god 🧎🏽‍♀️🧎🏽‍♀️🧎🏽‍♀️

17:04 I'd like to know if Joe would see the benefits of a triad with Reese and another man? Because if she is not bisexual then a triad with another woman is not going to seem like an attractive prospect at all. Great podcast though guys.

Omg this is exactly the conversation I need to have and I wish it would go this smoothly. Thank you so much for a real life example of how this can be a productive and freeing conversation vs one that seems to be more destructive and unfruitful

I enjoy watching your thoughtful conversation about CNM relationships. I hope the ongoing dialogue you share will demystify the falsehoods about poly and create more informed relationship dynamics.

Your plants are amazing!!

I just loved this conversation!

New subscriber here they poly thing just crossed my mind I got so many questions but I’ll drop them as they come along 💪🏾💯

Loving the conversation. Y’all are my new favorite cast on this subject

I appreciate you guys doing what you do. I recently came across your videos and I have got so much out of them. Thank you for sharing and being so open with your lives!🙏 You're making a difference!