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Strict Parents At Their Worst! Crazy Rules & Helicopter Parenting [Compilation] (r/AskReddit)
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OP: So my parents were pretty strict
OP: [proceeds to provide several examples of child abuse]
When this is your everyday life, it gets hard to admit it wasn't normal.
I went through many of these things in the video, I just thought it was normal until I was 19 when I first went to a friend's house and saw what a normal family looks like, sometimes kids don't even know they're being abused.
As someone who'd fearfully watch my aunt and grandma scream and run into rooms beating my cousins with wood spoons for years whenever I went to my grandparents ot aunt's home, I thought it was normal until I suspected at 12 that it could be abusive and it took me until I was 13 years old to confirm what I'd witnessed for years of my life was an abusive, toxic aunt with massive anger issues. I constantly worry about them because I have severe trust issues and I had very bad experiences with people you're supposed to go to for help. Society sucks.
FlashRebel true
I went through some of the stuff in the video as a kid and it becomes a regular thing once it happens for so long. I literally thought that being punished for being possibly visibly depressed was normal but now it's considered abuse.
Strict: be home at 9 or get grounded. These: abuse.
be home at 9 is normal for me since nowadays where I lived is very dangerous. I used to go home around 1 am (with my mom but it was really fun because she allows me to buy stuff I wanted and not certain things because I was like 12 at the festivals since the products there are very very low quality and some can be easily ripped off) and ever since my grandma demanded my mom to never take me out again ://
@AnnaMarie Murray im sorry you had to go through that
"Now that you are 16 years old, I think you are responsible enough to have-"
Me: A partner? A job? A car?
"-a glass of water in your room."
Not even 14.
Allowed to have a bottle of water in my room.
@@lusharaafton1081 I started drinking bottled water in 7th grade (around 12-13). I had water bottles in my room all the time. That was all I drank, and I practically lived in my room.
@@saraflint2982 My mom gets mad about water glasses in my room. It's not that she's worried about me making a mess( I'm old enough that it's not going to be very likely to happen). I'm not sure what it is. I think she just really hates clutter.
@@lusharaafton1081 i was able to have food in meh room at 10 and even then did it before. im 13 btw. a l s o i dont have a bedtime i just go to sleep when im tired tbh but idk i havent had one for 6 years sooooooooo
@@tristantheoofer2 thats awesome
"Okay kids , what's the number one rule?"
"Don't murder pedestrians."
Totally accurate . Kids always want to murder pedestrians .
but this is a pretty normal thing everyone understands what's special about that
Chara intensifies
do they think kids see pedestrians and think " i want to kill you" like what
At first I kept on thinking for the OP to say on GTA ( if you don’t know it’s Grand theft auto and you can kill random people and stuff)
Wait murdering pedestrians isn't normal?
This isnt titled correctly. This isn't strict parents this is abusive parents
There's a general stigma in most societies in the world that all abuse must be physical. Add that to the psychologically-damaging thought processes hammered into most people that 'other people have it worse, so you shouldn't complain' and 'you have to love the people that birthed you or were birthed by the same people as you', and it's easier to see why people deny abuse. Because it's easier to propagate lies and maintain the status quo than it is to fix the problems. My own psychologist has succumbed to at least the last thought process mentioned. That's why I'm getting a new psychologist.
Whats the difference?
Strict parents in the end don't actually care about their child, though. They couldnt be half assed to actually be like a normal parent so they just limit/get rid of everything and everyone they have in life so they dont have to go through that extra work being an ACTUAL PARENT. fucking christ it makes my blood go interstellar from parents like this. Ffs.
@@darealrylocke6531 You alright buddy?
i don't think so..
@@darealrylocke6531 Well there is only so much I can do or say but fight the good fight. You'll get where you want to be eventually. If that happens to be away from certain people then do it.
Bread is the gateway drug, before you know it you catch your child snorting a line of toast crumbs to get that next high.
Toaster leavins' (Married With Children)
Bread is poisonous, if you eat enough you will eventually die.
Yes you can overdose on bread, don’t overdose 🍞
My friend once got high on bread. I think they put cocaine in the stuff
Dude... This isn't funny...
I know, so dangerous.....these kids need to stop cause they know better
These aren’t “strict” parents, these are abusive parents. How the HELL CPS didn’t get involved in half these stories will always boggle me.
Because CPS is useless
Sounds like all these parents are boomers, they didn’t have to deal with worrying about CPS like we do now. Hell my kids are 10 apart and I didn’t worry much with kid 1…I also wasn’t like any of this so there’s that.
So true especially at 4:29 like OP's brother was literally SHOT?!
Parent: Injures child
CPS: You hear sum?
Child: Hasn’t showered in a day
CPS: Hippity hoppity, your child is now my property
@@mancave10369 very true!
All the talk about abusive parents aside, I really liked the one who’s engineer dad bought him complicated legos.
My mother is a PE teacher and she buys me pricy dancing gear. Money is the only thing she never denied me,but the dancing gear is LIT AF 🔥
same
Yeah sounds like he actually wanted the Lego but needed an excuse to buy it
the lego one is just wholesome and not as bad if you a lego addiction thwn its fine
gotta love how the ones, who build their whole life around being christian, with the goal of being some of the best people in society, end up being among the worst and they don't want to accept that fact.
Remor Gamer bro low key some of us our d heads
Oh no I'm gonna turn out fucked up and I'm scared :))
Yeah I am Christian but I 100% agree that some religious fanatics go way to far and go against the bible
/there religion
*cough cough* my mom...
i noticed that a lot in these types of videos
“We weren’t always whipped,”
Me: oh thank god
“I was punched a couple times”
Me: well never mind
I was thinking the same way
The fact we even think "thank God" that they weren't ALWAYS whipped is so sad..they should never have had to go through that in the first place
I got hit in the back of the head once my entire family was in the room and they denied it happened 😅
I know it’s not but that’s kind of my way of saying that it’s a bad memory but I’m good now, sorry for that miscommunication
@@trainosaurousrex4472 I know how it is. It's funny now... even if it wasn't then
And these parents wonder why their children don’t speak to them as adults?!
Or why their.svrewed up and on drugs!! Hiw could you come out normal and happy after this bs!! Smh I wish them all the best!!
Many of these parents are narcissists. They have no insight and believe they are ALWAYS right and never do anything wrong.
@@nopcshere6097 Agreed
Legend has it that they are yet to find their own kids.
@@nopcshere6097 Basically,yes.
ALSO KNOWN AS:
"Wikihow to make my kids hate me and immediately cut me out of their lives the second they're able to?"
My older brother and I told our mother that we are atheist (moms a Christian) and you want to know the horrible thing she did? Nothing. She respected our decision because she is a good mother.
I feel yea, I told my mom about being agnostic and we had a long, emotional conversation about it. She turned to God after me dear ol dad passed away, I let her know that despite my religious differences, I still loved her and wanted her to be happy, I'd still pray with her and talk to her about god. She understood and would love me being agnostic or anything, shes a great mom!
You are very lucky. My family would never accept me for being an athiest if they find out. Good luck to you & your family.
Same thing happened to me, but when she’s drunk she tries to convert me back, and still refers to me as Catholic even though I’m an atheist.
My dad’s a lot better about it. He had the more religious family, but he’s super accepting now. He’s a great dad, they’re both good parents :)
I wish my mom was this nice. She'd beat the gay out of me if I complimented girl my age or younger. Even my friends
Zeena Lyounsi No offense, but I wouldn’t count her as your mother. She doesn’t seem like she actually loves you, if she did, she’d support everything that decide for yourself. And the fact she’s using violence supports it even more. Stay safe, okay?
When will parents realize being controlling just makes your kid go nuts because they aren’t used to freedom
Sadly, i think that never
I think it would just drive the kids away from their parents
They will never realize
And I’m one of them
YES!!
When I was about 18 or so, I witnessed a foster parent sit his 6 year old with ADHD in a chair and expect him to sit still - no books, toys, cards, nothing! He didn’t assault him, but the expectation was insane!
He was the director of a show I was performing in, so understandable you don’t want the kids running around playing noisy games.
But why the poor little boy wasn’t allowed even a book is something I’ve always been confused by. 😞
I suffered from daily migraines for upwards of 3 years. It was nothing short of torture. My parents refused to take me to the doctor because they may suggest birth control and that would "open doors." I was a very shy 12-15 year old at the time who had never even kissed anyone.
I can only imagine most of these kids became suicidal
Bingo! Especially when you are completely unprepared for adulthood and can't function, no one understands, and when you DO try to get psychological help it just makes things worse (throwing all sorts of pills at you, committing you, stigma, etc.) The good news is you can make it through this... things aren't perfect, but you can get to a good place eventually. There are times it feels hopeless, but it is always worth it when you get there.
@naejimba exactly. I’m almost 25 and I’m only just now learning to start thinking for myself. I’m trying to move out (secretly) eventually so I can try and become more independent, but it’s hard when I was literally brainwashed to second guess every thing I did. People don’t realize just how screwed up I am and don’t understand why I’m so scared of not being perfect. I got my first B in college last semester and I bawled my head off because I was worried about my family’s reaction. I am so unprepared for adulthood socially, mentally, and skill wise... it’s terrifying. I’m dreading the moment I actually start dating because I have so much baggage. 😢
@@teslynnalbrecht3553 , as for the dating... I would say it ruined a couple of relationships for me. The silver lining is I learned from the experience and now can have a somewhat normal and healthy relationship with someone if I wanted (just not really interested in that at this point in my life). You kind of just have to accept that you WILL make mistakes... and that is OK as long as you learn from them!
Anything you can do to gain independence is a good thing; the sooner the better. If you don't have a family that will be positive and supportive, the best thing to do is find some friends... actual friends that will be there when things get rough, and then support the shit out of them as well. XD
It can be tough, but it is best to try and deal with mistakes instead of getting "stuck." Even if you can only get a shitty job, it is best to stick with it and not have gaps in work history, or no one will want to hire you. I have a 146 IQ and McDonald's won't even call me lol. It doesn't matter that I did a lot of odds and ends on my own. My problem is I tend to have a lot of anxiety in social situations and retail is not a good fit... but the only kind "legit" job I can get. I'm not giving up, but I don't know what to do at this point.
Or in some cases rebellious
Yeah. My Mom is controlling to some extent. The worst part is that my twin sister (who doesn’t let herself be controlled as much) became the scapegoat and I went along. Last night I realized I treated my sister like my Mom treated us and realized I needed to stop and that my Sis is right sometime and isn’t trying to “make a fool of me.” When she kicked us out for arguing, I spent the night at my uncle’s trying to suppress suicidal thoughts. I no longer seriously consider them as a real option, but every time my Mom yells at us or humiliates me I get them. I even wondered if she was right to blow up. I couldn’t tell if it was okay to get mad. I just felt like I had no choice but to leave the house when she told me to. She is stressed over the Coronavirus and like always takes her frustrations on us. She then told my sister and I that we cannot come back until we mend our relationship. I decided we will do just that. I will apologize to my sister for everything and list the things we need to improve on. Still, my Mom overreacted and I will move out once this pandemic is over. I love her and she was a great Mom, but I’ve had enough.
My parents grounded me and took my car away permanently and sold it when I was 18! because I went to church to pray after dropping my sister off at school (I didn't have a first hour) instead of waiting at the school parking lot. They also didn't allow any of us kids to have cell phones so I had no way to let them know. I had NEVER snuck out or had a boyfriend or had a drink or went to a party or ANYTHING! I never had gotten in trouble at school and I got straight A's! I went above and beyond ANYTHING they asked me to do and it still wasn't enough. I moved out and got married a month later JUST to escape their craziness. This is ONLY the tip of the iceberg. I was also grounded off reading for MONTHS and MONTHS as a child because I enjoyed it, we didn't have internet or cable TV at all until I was 15, tracking device installed on my car at all times (which was how they knew I went to church across the street from the school and wasn't in the school parking lot) I didn't have a cellphone until I was married and moved out, I read the entire BIBLE through (all 4000 pages) in 5th grade because I had been grounded off of reading for so long! Wasn't allowed to watch anything but documentaries or children PBS shows (dragon tales, Arthur ECT until I was 15) I enjoyed exercise too much (we had a home gym with a stationary bike and treadmill because my parents were wealthy) so they would lock up my only pair of running shoes, we lived so far out in the country there wasn't another neighbor for 4 miles and we lived on a gravel road so I was never allowed to go over to ANYONES house, my parents would LOCK the pantry and fridge up so we couldn't eat unless we asked (neither me nor my only sister have EVER been overweight) and even then we could ONLY eat serving sizes (you try ONLY eating 6 Doritos). I ended up developing anorexia at 16 and my parents forced me to move in with my grandparents because "they couldn't handle me anymore'. That sounds like a better place and it really was BUT I had a little sister 5 years younger than me who I had practically raised and I had always protected and covered for with my parents. She was so sick and unhappy and they turned all their anger on her when I was gone so I begged to move back home 6 months later so I could protect her! My sister ended up on antianxiety and antidepressants as a preteen and she ran away from home the day she turned 17 to escape my parents too. We are both doing so much better now ten years later. She is married to a army guy and they have a daughter. I divorced the lame dead beat I married to get away from my parents when I was 24 (4 years ago) and I am now a hospice nurse engaged to be married next month. I do NOT speak to my parents at all anymore.
Just wow
That's not strict parenting...
That's child abuse.
Imagine opening a bag of Doritos and only eating 6 before throwing the rest away. Yikes.
oh my gosh that is insane I'm so sorry I read that whole thing I hope you still go to church congrats on your marriage
@asaeampan unfortunately the truck was never in my name. My sweet grandfather gave ME the truck but signed it to my parents so my parents had total control. Im still salty about it this many years later xD
A friend of mine had started hanging around a boy who I had math class with. Apparently, the boy had started developing a crush for my friend, and word got out to his parents. His parents grounded him.. from my friend? He doesn’t have a phone, and he claims that he’s very limited to any kind of electronics in his house. So, his parents grounded him from hanging out with my friend. Not only that, but his parents hated my friend. They went to her work searching for her. Luckily, she wasn’t there. They also wanted to file a restraining order on her. She didn’t do anything, she’s a very kind girl. The boy no longer goes to my school. I’ve been told that he’s been sent to military school, but i’m not sure if that’s true.
Thats so messed up
??? That's not strict parenting. Wtf is this???
@@thefull9746 abuse
"All kids deserve parents,
But not all parents deserve kids."
- Some wise dude I forgot the name of
My dad tried to be strict with me. Told me I couldn’t date until I was 16, couldn’t go out at night, couldn’t wear skimpy clothing or makeup etc. jokes on him I’m asexual and had literally nil interest in any of those things anyway. Now he’s practically begging me to start dating because he wants grandkids. Fat chance, old man
Lmfaoooo
My dad didnr have those rules, other than probrly not dressing like a slut with i never did cause im tomboyish
He still asks me when ill get a boyfriend cause I'm antisocial as fuck. Like most parents dont want their kids to go hang out or shit and my parents are like "do you want a party? Do you want to go to Disney? You can have frienda over whenever you want" lol
We’re you mormon? Lol
Get nae-nae'd
same for mine, except it's not dating til college but i dont plan to anyways. im not confident enough for skimpy clothes and i'll be 17 entering college and that's good enough for me lmao
I'm convinced some people have children solely to torture them. Like, the people who tortured small animals as children grew up and gave birth to their new victims.
America loves enabling these types with how useless the school system is, and cps.
@@WereCreed i was actually dragged out of class in middle and high school several times by cps investigating my father. They never bothered to do anything because we didn't have bruises. He still acts surprised that his daughter ran away and the son he threw out wants nothing to do with him.
@@adramelke1722 my mother was a nurse when I was younger, and I remember her telling me about a young girl around 6 or 7 who came in with a broken arm, covered in bruises, naturally she called cps, they did 'an investigation' and found nothing was wrong
Around 6 weeks later she said the same girl came back dead/dying [I can't remember which it was, sorry] after the dad bashed a blender against her head.
So I get it, cps is fucking useless
Edit: unless your parents smoke weed. THEN THEY HAVE AN ISSUE.
the school didn't call cps because they thought something was wrong. my sister had spoken with a councilor and that was who had called them. cps was on my ass for several years after what my son's mother said about me in family court so she could get custody. she told family court that i was a drug addict, drinking addict, gambling addict, violent, abusive, and several other things. I actually made money playing poker for a long time and i fully admit to being intensely aggresive, but i'm not violent in the least. i don't make threats or break things or hurt people. i might drink 2-3 times a year(no that's not a typo). when my son was about 6 and she was actually married to the guy who would eventually beat the crap out of her(she left him very soon after and took the kids with her, apologized to me about the family court stuff, doing very well today actually) and my son had picked up on his habit of being violent. I had squatted down to say something to my son and he didn't like it so he punched me. I gave him a pretty firm slap on the cheek and gave him about 5 seconds before i asked him if that was something he enjoyed. I think i got my point across.
I’m absolutely convinced the boomers couldn’t wait to take their childhood out on us and now still treat us like that while treating our children like gold in the same interaction. They also couldn’t wait to get older so they could act like assholes and claim old age or we’re just soft.
My mom screwed me up by always telling my sister and me that we were too fat. My sister was overweight then and stuffed herself into my clothes so I figured I was the same. She would ask my pediatrician to tell me that I had to lose weight and he would tell her that I'm in a perfectly good weight, I wasnt overweight. She always compared me to my thin cousins, they wore a size bigger than me. We were all around the same height....I thought I was fat because I was a size 5 and my friends were a size 3 at the most. I was the heavy friends at 130 pounds. She hid snacks from us, she would buy a big bag of chips and whatever it is that we had when she opened it, was all we could have and then she would hide it and throw it out because they got stale. So not only did I think I was fat, now i binged whenever we were at a party or i was with friends. She also made us stop having dinner at around 10 because we were too fat. Didnt change my body, and it took about a week to get used to.
When I left my house I got pregnant by my now husband and couldn't gain enough weight for my pregnancy so he made me eat more food because my ob/gyn though I wasnt eating to gain weight. So I was finally free to eat whatever I wanted and now I weight 200 pound and wear size 13 pants. It's hard for me to control my cravings, and to limit my food. Now I actually look like the way I felt throught high school and middle school. It sucks, but my mind fits my body now.
I recently started therapy and started going to the gym but it's hard not to get that out of my mind. My sister's a size 4, she used to weight 230. And I just started my journey to be healthy.
I love my mother, but that really fucked with me and I'm making sure my daughter doesn't go through with what I did.
What sucks the most is that I was hot and I didnt even enjoy feeling good about it, and definitely not now
Im 44, and I'm so proud of these young people, many in their 20s, who had the courage to go no contact with abusive parents. A lot of people my age didn't know where to turn. There was no internet until our late teens, and communities were much more isolated. Even now it's often hard for a young person to be taken seriously when they disclose that they're being mistreated. That said, I am grateful to see a more open discussion about abuse.
When are parents going to learn that controlling isn’t parenting
Never
When boomers die out
Ikr
These people shouldn't have kids they're fricking psychopaths
Unfortunately, Hardly Ever / sent to prison
WTF??????? These are not strict parents, they are abusers !!!
Winner. Winner.
Tbh, I feel like "strict" is more often used as a code word to cover up abuse. Like, half the shit that people will say "oh they're just strict" is either super unhealthy/controlling or just straight up abuse.
@@khaleesireyna731 Being strict is just a an excuse to be a abusive monster since it NEVER works.
@@Mario87456 I agree!
That poor bitbull omg I'm crying so hard omg he was just a sweet bb that did nothing wrong but died so horrifically he did nothing and was so loving and amazing and omgimgoingtoscream
Reading this gave me 2 seizures
When I was younger my dad was pretty abusive.
One time my dad pulled me by my hair to my room because I went to his room while him and my mom were doing it.
I have flashbacks of this and I'm positive I have undiagnosed PTSD. A therapist once told me that I should go to a psychologist or something like that to be properly diagnosed. I never was and probably never will be because of my negligent mistake of a mother.
A couple of hours ago I had a breakdown. I was suicidal, I wanted to die. I planned on shooting myself because my mom is forcing me to go to live in the middle of nowhere and the rest of my family has been pressuring me to stay down there in that hell hole with them. I couldn't take it anymore I was so overwhelmed and felt like I had nowhere and no one to go to until someone I talked to online messaged me and that person possibly saved my life because I was literally seconds away from walking into my parents closet and blowing my brains in front of my dad. That person asked me what distracted me from the thoughts of suicide, I told that person to just change the conversation, that person asked what I wanted to talk about and I picked music which led to him telling me to look up music on TH-cam which led me to a video that really opened my mind.
Fuck abusive parents.
I hate hearing things like this and not being able to help, im sorry for what you went through
Epic internet guy
I'm sorry for your shity parents man. If you need any help we're all here for you
I also believe that the fathers who won't allow their teenage daughters (or in some cases adult daughters) to watch kissing scenes or that force them to dress conservatively or keep them from ever having contact with boys or having a boyfriend have a weird jealous lust for their daughters and that's why they won't allow them to develop normally. They can't stand the thought of "their" property ending up with a different man.
I don't think it's that but now I'm uncomfortable o..O
Linda Thetford There may be a few weirdos like that but no, that’s the exception. Many fathers like this are worried about their daughters getting taken advantage of by the wrong guy or any guy really. They also remember what boys at that age are like. There are also those who do it as a way to exert control over others. I would say that most, however, have a keen awareness of how the world works and love their children enough to set boundaries that will help them later in life. There are those who take it too far, but I have serious doubts that it’s as nefarious as the OP suggests.
@@positiveecho326 yeah but there's a BIG difference between keeping your daughter safe by not allowing her to date certain guys, setting a curfew and setting dress standards, AND not allowing an teenager to watch kissing scenes or develop normally sexually by exploring sex in a healthy and educated way. I'm not saying all fathers are like what I described just the fathers that take it wayyyy too far give off this vibe.
my dad is like that. couple months ago he saw me with my boyfriend on the street, got out of his car grabbed me by my hair and dragged me into the front seat. I got punched in the head during this ride home so when we arrived I was nearly unconscious. Then he yelled at my mum for raising a slut and told me I'M HIS PROPERTY UNTIL HE DECIDES TO GIVE ME OUT INTO MARRIAGE. I'm 20 yo guys....
@@saral19 you need to get away from this situation immediately. Take only what you need. File for a restraining order against him. What you are describing is abuse and sounds like it will escalate. Don't look back and enjoy your life. It only belongs to YOU.
“He has an AUTOGRAPHED painting of 2-D from the band Gorillaz that was a gift from a mutual friend.”
Me: aw
“Ripped up the moment he got home.”
Me: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!
Road Waffle
I KNOW!!!
Goodness... 😥
that that me really mad ide love to have that aaAAA
REEEEEEE😭
*cocks gun*
I am 13 and I didn’t realize the emotional pain my mom has put on me through my life
She had never hit me but my parents are divorced and they would constantly yell. She now always yells at my sis and I feel like those characters in tv shows that everyone makes mean jokes about. Like a background character in my own life. I hate loud noises and yelling makes me cry. Not until recently did all this catch up to me and my sis(16) and now I know why I am so jumpy. My dad and my stepmom and my sis all kinda joke about me, but I’m a bit overweight and have bad acne so it hits really hard. Sorry for the long comment but j had to share it all
im sorry you had to go through this and I hope one day everything becomes better for you......also you remind me of a friend I miss...if you ever want to vent or you need a friend you have a random 15 year old here for ya
@@dbl3323 Thanks, that really means a lot to me
@@emmylouispog your welcome and seriously I would love to make you happy and help, don't be afraid to ask
rename to the "needs CPS thread"
"dancing is the Devil's activity"
That's funny, because I attended a Catholic school and distinctly remember a hymn sung during mass with the lyric "I am the lord of the dance, said he."
O yeah that song!
That one was my favorite, although as elementary kids we sang a much more upbeat version than the traditional slow and somber way
I loved that hymn as a kid. It's odd some christians think that.
I've never been to Catholic school, but I love the idea of that song. Seems nice.
Miss that my daughter loves singing and dancing
Dang, maybe we just shouldn't let helicopters have kids
Just Some Bigfoot With Internet Access under rated
Just Some Bigfoot With Internet Access 111 likes 1 comment...
damn that apache attack heli looking hella fine tho
Bro WHY ARE YOU LITERALLY EVERYWHERE
yes
As a Christian, I can confirm that not everyone who is a Christian acts like the Christian parents in this video.
The christain parents in this are just abusive and cant call themselves christian
I wouldn't even consider them "Christians". I come from a Christian family and act nothing like these idiots. There were some rules but I wasn't shuned and castrated for being a human. God gave us all freewill
@@tremorchristlester4688 exactly
A family friend of my parents tried to exorcise me when I had a panic attack as a kid because she thought I had Satan inside of me. LoL
@@theycallmet3061 f
I am the child of one of those people that responded to a depressed child with "go pray about it". If I had not had such an empathetic doctor that realized what my home life was like, I would be dead.
Yes, except they're too dumb to realize verbal abuse brings about depression. And anxiety. And paranoia. And the struggle to understand if you're good enough. And the good lying. And I need help.
Dude if you have to ask your parents permission to drink water, how were you not hella dehydrated all the time
Some people get enough liquid intake from food that they can survive from it, but if that's your only source of liquid, it will definitely leave you hella dehydrated until you start drinking something.
We had school and I sneaked out some juice
My body has literally started to soak up water 😂 my mom loves me but wonders why I take such long baths
from experience, i actually just asked for some water and filled up a whole waterbottle and used it for the whole day. if she said no i would just fill it at school
Before I started drinking water frequently, I used to get carsick a _lot._ And why didn't I drink water? Taste. Being dehydrated and backed up made water taste worse than it would have, plus any water that was plastic-bottled just tasted bad al around. ... I usually drink Mountain Valley Spring Water now, which can come in glass or plastic. It's $15 or $20 for 5 gallons in glass (after buying the jugs.)
That one 17 year old raised by fundamentalists that treat him as if he was 5 was pretty depressing. Hate to see what happens when he becomes an adult
Does he even know that all of that is wrong
Time Stamp?
Its like waiting for a train to hit a truck and all you can hope is that it goes throught the truck and not derail
Alexis Bailey Thanks!
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I've always had emotional problems and when I was little if my dad got mad he would scream his guts out at me for whatever I did that made him mad. Like if I forgot to take a cup down from my room or Was late for bedtime.
Now I start to tear up whenever somebody raises their voice because I'm scared I did something wrong.
I suffer from the same thing, but because of my mother. She is a pretty violeng person, and when I was little, due to some insignificant feud in school with another classmate, she, in her always prominent uncontrollable anger, managed to break my jaw. Now I am 18, fully grown, bigger than my dad, and guess who is having problems regarding health in general?
I do this too. My mother would have a predictable 3 day pattern of anger. Day 1: transgression day. Hours upon hours of yelling and screaming about whatever horrible god awful thing I did. And how I was a horrible god awful person. Once it was because there were spots on the dishes I washed which later turned out to be water deposits and not grime or dirt. Day 2: silence. The cold shoulder all day. No speaking to me at all. I was not worthy of even eye contact. Day 3: silence broken with quips about my shittiness. Snide remarks peppered throughout the day full of passive aggressive hostility. But she was at least speaking to me so it was an improvement. Day 4: sunshine and rainbows again and she was back to normal.
When I finally learned how to communicate my own anger (as only she was allowed to be angry) I now also have a three say cycle of anger. Day 1: silent resentment. Day 2: the explanation of transgressions. Day 3: no contact with transgressor. Day 4: sunshine and rainbows once more. At least I don’t yell and scream and I tell them ahead of time I just need space and time to cool down. I do my best not to give the cruel cold shoulder I received in childhood
I used to be good friends with this boy from middle school through grade 10. His (adoptive) parents were batshit; if he got so much of a B on any of his grades he was grounded from everything for 6+ months. Like no phone, no hanging out with friends, no going out, no fun, nothing. He was grounded for half a school year once, then they extended it to the entirety of summer break just because they could. The only things they let him do was eat, study, pray, and go to church. I don't think they'd even let him play guitar while grounded.
They had complete golden child/scapegoat dynamic going on; they treated his brother the complete opposite. They'd let his brother play games rated past E (so like T, M and up), and would let him do whatever he wanted. Friend was the scapegoat, friend's brother was the golden child (even though he was, for all accounts, behaviorally worse.)
It got to the point where he ran away and my mom and I picked him up at our bus station, but his mom called and demanded we bring him home.
When the door shut, we could hear her immediately screaming at him and everything. It sucked ass.
It all came to a head one year when my friend got into drugs. It started pretty innocently at first, smoking weed and such... Then he wanted to get into selling it. I switched lockers because if he was found to have it on him or in his locker, I didn't want to get in trouble by proxy. He would run away at night, sleep on the ground, then go to school and sleep before classes if he could.
Then he went missing... They found him a week or so later in our local downtown east-side high on meth.
It sucked seeing him go downhill like that. He had a promising future as a musician and was incredibly smart, and amazingly kind.
Last I know, I think they disowned him and he went back to live with his biological mom. I'm still friends with his adoptive mom on FB, and there's absolutely no trace of him in what she posts. It's like she completely erased his (and his brother's) existence from her and her families life.
I started cutting him out of my own once he started trying to deal weed though, and I somewhat regret it but like... What else could my then-14/15 year old self do?
Wherever he is now, I hope he's clean and getting back on track. He was a really, really good kid and I feel horrible that his adoptive parents were so horrible to him. He deserved better.
You know those "girls gone wild" videos? Every one of them came from strict homes.
You have to let your kids have some freedom. Enough to make small mistakes or as soon as they are free, they will go wild and make big mistakes.
Exactly.
Agreed as well
@@daisymay6505 Thanks for your support.
No matter how much parents don't want their kids to make the same mistakes they did, some of life's lessons are only learned through trial and error. No amount of parenting lectures or textbooks can prepare a kid to be independent if they've never been allowed to behave independently
I can agree. My coworker had very strict and religious parents (they were jehovah witness). He got used to how his parents were. That was until he got older. He realized that he doesnt really believe in his religion anymore and he is breaking the JW rules: dating, celebrating holidays, and drinking ( this started pretty recently the drinking and celebrating, he is turning 21).
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You have no idea how loud I cheered at the part where the OP beat the crap out of their parents and just bolted
I was cheering for him as I heard that
I was cheering for them too, I have personally imagined doing a much milder version of this to my mom, since she is abusive mentally/emotionally and not physically and I love my dad. Like slapping her and telling her how I really feel about her then bolting and seeing how long it takes them to find me. Honestly the parents in this video deserve it.
My parents, especially my mom, had weird rules for me because I was the youngest. They put an age limit on what I could and couldn't do. They wouldn't allow me to walk the half a block to the local library until I was 14. After the age of 12, I wasn't allowed to dress up for Halloween. They say that I couldn't go back to college or date or have fun because I "squandered my life away," and I can't do that any of that now. I didn't get out of the house until my late 20s. My parents were strict, self-righteous hypocrites who blamed me for everything, criticized everything I did, treated me like a child all my life, screamed at me for the slightest error. I didn't even get my driver's license until I was 27. I kept failing because I got tired of driving with my parents and them screaming at me every 5 seconds. Now, I'm out of the house, I'm trying to heal from past traumas and doing the things they said I couldn't do because of age.
I'd have stop asking their permission. That kind of power (to be asked permission) you have to earn when speaking to a grown adult. Make your life yours.
Parents: "Ha ha, let me assert my total uncontested superiority over my progeny by physically injuring them, destroying their possessions, and preventing them from developing any sense of self-worth"
Parents 10 years later: "Why does my child not respect me after all I did to raise them, how disrespectful"
I feel like these people shoulda called the police already
A lot of these people need two things: a hug, and help shrink wrapping some of these parents' cars
@@jonathangottemoller167 the hero we all need
Why use shrink wrap when you can use napalm
@@foundationagentredacted9908 I think you should use the napalm on those so-called 'parents'
That one where the guy punched his mom and broke a plate over his dad's head was my favorite (too lazy to look up the timestamp). So satisfying to see he exacted revenge and escaped them.
i can't find his name on reddit do u know it ?
Mine too. 😆 Its at 44:57.
@@ringheader thanks
So glad someone showed their parents how they *really* felt
When the voice said the part about the plate being smashed over his head I kind of chuckled a little just because of how casual the voice sounded.
"Vicky the Babysitter was too mean"
Isn't that the point of antagonistic characters in most tv shows/stories?
9:41 to 11:56.
damn, during those 2 minutes made me realize how lucky some of us are to have good parents. that nearly brought a tear to my eye.
21:03 I cried during that one. Animal abuse just makes me cry.
Same
That one messed me up.
F
Animal Abuse is part of a law
He could probably have saved the dog though
"You shouldn't have passed the 6th grade"
"You shouldn't have passed 7th"
"I don't see how you got out of 8th grade you hardly went to school"
I missed about a month due to anxiety, stress, and just hate for the people in the town, but things like this were said so much for a year till the next one was being said. My dad is the good parent now, but my mother raised me.
I kinda feel lucky that just a lot of yelling is mostly all i got.
Did she not want you to go to school?? Ever??
Yeah, she's dragged me to school when an anxiety attack held me still
I got this too!
"You're never going to graduate!"
"You're going to be held back a year! Do you want that!?"
"You're not trying hard enough!"
"You're lucky your teachers were nice enough to let you pass!"
"They're just pitying you!"
Every single friggin year it was the same fight. I only got held back once because I got transferred to a new school and had to start over. Passed every year with C's and B's and graduated on time. Took some college courses last year and I was the top of my classes. I didn't get bad grades because I was stupid or because I didn't try hard enough. I got bad grades because I was abused and emotionally/psychologically exhausted and stunted.
You think they were happy with my 4.0's? No. They couldn't even congratulate me, and hopefully now they can see that my problem all along was THEM.
"I'll never know why your teacher gave you a 10"
I was always a straight-A student,and the rest of my classmates get 5's (passing grades,around a D,for americans) out of the kindness of teachers.And yet he (my grandpa) compares me to them just because of hating me...
"Why are you not going to school"/"You're too lazy to go to school"
I have a total of 3 weeks and a few days amounted of missed school days this whole year,and last year too
"You're not even sick,you're pretending"/"Stop pretending it hurts"
I was obviously sick,like,normal flu.
And sometimes,whenever i feel pain,im "pretending",a few days ago,one area below my ribs hurt SO MUCH i barely got up out of the bed to tell my mom,yet my grandpa says i was faking it (even tough i took a pill,idk what pill,for that immesurable pain)
My vent,i shall update it (PS.I always overthink stuff,so it is surprizing i actually went trough with the comment)
Edit: swear words, for very small things,like how i untied my shoes.
Sometimes i got hit,and then hit again for saying "ow",like a simple,wispher like "ow"...all for small things like how i washed my hands. (I was also called a bitch multiple times...i'm male)
Looking at all of these stories, I'm glad I have parents that actually love me. If it wasn't for my mom I would be at least half deaf, my dad was off supplying food and weaponry for troops in a desert (I forgot which one) for months just so he could get a stable job, and I learned how to cook when I was about 7. I am super lucky and honestly, I don't deserve such loving parents, but I'll still cherish it as if I was adopted into the sweetest family in the world after being in an extremely toxic family.
Did it take you a lot of time to adjust? Do you still have behaviors from your birth home that have stayed with you?
This should be renamed “children of abusive parents: how bad was it?”
21:03
So after reading this...
who else wants to find this person's father and skin him alive?
Nah bruh, we get a dog of the same breed, tie the guy up, and let the dog go feral on him. Give him a taste of his own ironic medicine
Basically becoming the next Ed Gein.
@N Of Unova
I like this plan
YESSS
*spawns pit bull via gmod tool gun with malicious intent*
Dad: *makes gadget that cuts phone line when it’s past **8:00*
Son: *cant call police when house gets broken into*
Dad: :o
Dad: surprised pikachu face
>:0
"wasn't allowed to watch 'Animaniacs' as a child because the title said 'maniacs'"
if your parents knew half the stuff in that show they'd be protesting it every day lmao
“Let me never complain about my parents again”
Loved that. And fully agree.
Bad things are bad.
No one's problem is less important.
If you complain for a reason than that is still just as valid.
90% of this is abuse and why theres drug addicts and alcoholics. Feel like there should be a test to decide if ya can have a kid. Then again my mom probably wouldnt be allowed to have kids cuz of her mental issues even tho shes the best. esp compared to my stepdad and bio dad. Stepdad was very much like a drill sergnant lots of yelling and berating to make sure i did should properly. Now that i'm 26 hes much more chill even tho i had to move back in with my parents do to a break up. My bio dad was just an abusive asshole atleast mental and emotionally and very manipulative. Hes now in an abusive marriage (that he has a kid with she's decent with the kid just very lazy and encourages her own daughters entitlement and makes my other brother cleans the house by himself and verbally berate him all the time) and refuse to speak or see him so im glad his family life is shit. Oh i forgot i got yelled at more cuz i am the oldest in both house holds (mom's and bio dad's) so i was the role model. they also did way too much stuff for me and used food as a way to show love so ive always been over weight. I didnt start becoming independent is when i moved into my own apartment with really shitty roomates and then again when i moved in with my ex fiancee. I think thats why my stepdad is more chill cuz i proved i can survive on my own. My mom however has always been encouraging to my studies, hobbies, friends, jobs and relationships and still takes care of me if i ask for help tho i mostly try not too even if its obvious i really need help cuz im hopelessly confused.
Most of these are abuse. Being strict is one thing, being abusive is something else.
I have parents that grounded me from everything but schoolwork for the slightest mistake from anywhere from a month to months on end.
Most recently, I just got ungrounded after a month and a half of being grounded. The reason? I called my best friend at 1 am (they knew because they have a spy app on my phone) because I was having a major panic attack (hyperventilating, sobbing so hard you feel like you're suffocating) over my grades (which had dropped because my parents were making me do everything around the house and I didn't have a lot of time for studying and homework) and didn't want to wake them up.
They took away my ability to talk to anyone other than them and my little brother for a month and a half saying I (17) need to learn how to depend on them (who always complain about how they don't understand why I'm panicking/ scream at me for panicking/ belittle me for my reasons) more than people who I "wouldn't even be friends with after high school" (we've been friends for almost 10 years)
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LOG 1
At the time of writing this it is 4 AM.
I have officially lost all my hope in the world. This story pulled my heart strings so bad and I literally am close to tears.
11:56 that’s neglect. OP, your parents could face serious charges. And I hope they do!!!!!
This is borderline sadism
My dad yells at me when I voice my opinion
“YoU’rE tAlKiNg BaCk To Me”
Same
Same but only if I’m winning
"You just have an answer for everything!" -said the parent that insisted on asking me questions that they didn't actually want an answer to
So stupid when they're allowed to yell at their kids but the kids aren't allowed to so much as raise their voice
As a teacher-in-training, it’s heartbreaking that I will have students that have abusive/neglectful home lives like this.
Can’t lie I shed a few tears going through this video. Can’t finish it.😢
This actually made me cry. This is mostly abuse & I desperately hope these kids/ grown people who survived the abuse, know it is not okay. Also enter mental health services they are great & can truly help. Much love.
Growing up, my dad was in the military. He was so used to yelling, that whenever I got in trouble, i couldn’t help but cry from the yelling (which was a lot), so if someone yells at me, I can’t help but cry.
When i was also growing up, my mom was constantly on drugs, so i’m really sensitive to that stuff
I have a very low pain tolerance due to the fact that my sister used to “physically abuse” (not sure what else i could call it) and verbally hurt me growing up. I hate my body, and my voice, and my hair, and my height thanks to my sister.
My mom abandoned me and my sister when I was 10/11 for about two or three years. Because of that, I have a fear of abandonment. I always lose friends because of that.
Along with all of that, my sisters friends used to tell me that “my depression wasn’t real” and that “my suicidal thoughts was for attention” and i was always told that my sister was the real one with depression, and that i was taking it.
oh so much things to talk about with my therapist
oh my god jesus crist hey u got a insta account ? i would love to contact u
Detroit Become Walking Dead Is Strange ^^^ same here, we can make a group chat and chilling all 3 there
Can you cut contact with them? It will help your depression
I’m sorry you had to go through that. I was a bully to my little sister when we were growing up and I have such guilt and shame about it once I was older. She ended up turning the tables on me in high school and was really cruel and would say things like “I don’t care about your feelings” and would yell at me for chewing food too loudly, clearing my throat and generally just existing in a way that bothered her at that moment. Once I drove my bf home (we lived in the same complex) and she ratted me out to our parents. Her whole teenage time was spent basically just being a mean asshole.
I’ve apologized to her a few times for my behavior when I was little but the most I get out of her is “I don’t remember that”. Our family was and still is, though to a lesser degree, very dis functional. I hope you find happiness and are getting the help you need now. Know that our past is not our future, and sometimes us needing to thrive demands our separation from toxic family members.
No kinda love like christian "love"
It's not God's love, I can tell you that much. . . .
I’m a Christian myself, and I agree.
Last I checked, Christian’s are supposed to be accepting.
Try having muslim parents lmfao its way worse
@@FulllNameUnknown wym
The rule where grandparents often keep children from leaving the table with food still on their plate is pretty common in the generation that was young during and just after the great depression, where that wasted food was a matter of life or death for some. It doesn't justify the conduct in the slightest, only explains it a little in some cases.
@ that family that's anti-goth: I physically need to see ur family photos because I have the weirdest feeling half your wardrobe is khaki
I got yelled at a lot growing. up. I got yelled at by my mom because the door to my room was thumping. I had my window open, and another window was open elsewhere in the house. So... there was a pressure difference in the house resulting in my door moving. She said I was sitting there thumping my door to annoy her. I got beat when I tried to explain what was happening, called a liar.
I spent most of my time on job sites with my father when I was not at school. I missed out on things with my friends. I got yelled at a lot by him. I have blocked/repressed so much of my childhood that I have no idea WHY I hate that man... but I loath him with all of my being. he once tried to drown me because I accidentally splashed him while playing in a -pool with friends. Another time as punishment he took my glasses away because I had been sent to my room as punishment. Later that day he started hitting me for something and I just shut down. rocked from the punches. when he stepped back I asked if he was done and he said yeah. I punched him in the mouth and knocked him down and said as I walked away, don't EVER touch me again. That was when I was 16.
He lives in a nursing home now and I no longer speak to him. I hope he rots. My mom has calmed down a lot since I was a kid, but i still remember dreading coming home.
Oh yeah... got yelled at when I was 20, had taken vacation and spent a couple days with friends after finding out my GF at the time was cheating on me. Yeah... I am 20, an adult and can make my own decisions. M parents got a divorce soon after that.
Edit, I have always suffered from depression and self esteem issues. As such talking to girls when I was a teenager was difficult. My parents would poke fun of me and embarrass me in front of girls. Thank you, it was hard enough to talk to them, did not need you to mock me in front of them. I don't date, and never have had a date. Even though I have had girlfriends, I never dated.
P: petty reasons to be strict.
A: angry almost everyday.
R: rules only prisons would keep.
E: evil kind of personality.
N: never a feeling of safety when around.
T: teenagers have no freedom.
S: seriously scary.
😡
Huh, that's a funny way to spell 'abusive fucker'.
Sofia Reyes` I cannot tell witch letter is worst. It’s either T or N.
I agree with all of that list
What are you, 12?
Me?
The dog story made me cry. What kind of sick bastard would do that?
Title: Strict Parents At Their Worst!
Should be: Religious Parents At Their Worst!
Ultra Fundamentalist Religious Parents At Their Worst!
This makes me so grateful for my parents. Theyre pretty chill most of the time
Same, my parents are really good with me and i love them a lot
same here but I just hate the fact my dad thinks my depression isn’t real...
"If their powers weren't from God, where did they get them from?"
The parents who said this had obviously never heard of the Morphin' Grid.
I mean, by the logic of these wierd christians themselves, nothing can happen without god allowing it to happen. Therefore, the acquisition of any powers are endorsed by god simply by "fact" that if god didnt want them to obtain any powers he would prevent it.
@@kawaiizeraora8091 either that or if the power doesn't come from 'god' it comes from 'satan' and is therefore evil and the piece of media is evil and the people that made it are evil and want to 'normalize sinful things' and 'turn kids away from god', and 'good christian kids' shouldn't watch/read/play it (I'm being sarcastic and mocking, in case you couldn't tell. I grew up with conservative christian freaks for parents)
@@anthonycrowley2264 "With God all things are possible." According to the religion of christianity, nothing on this earth, or anywhere in existance for that matter, occurs without the permission of God. So for powers to be given by Satan to human would still be approved by God.
@@kawaiizeraora8091 Maybe, but still, when Christian parents like that say 'if the power/magic doesn't come from God, where does it come from?' about characters with magic/powers, they are nearly always purposefully implying that 'if it doesn't come from God, it comes from Satan and is therefore evil', which is why they don't allow their kids to watch the thing in question. I know from experience because my parents said/did the same thing about stuff like Harry Potter and Pokemon when I was a kid
I was a gifted child as a kid so my mother expected for me to be perfect. I went to a private funding school and I had to be top of my class because of the private school there was a bunch of wealthier kids than me since I was partially accepted for being smart. My mother always chose my friend even though I was never able to have playdates, sleepovers, or anything like that I was only allowed to hang out with them in recess. She also worked which stressed her out a lot and when I didn't do something right she would yell at me and most of the time hit me. My older sister was also her favorite and to her she was perfect even if I had the better grade and everything I sadly ended up hating my sister I don't anymore since I opened up to her about all the mental and physical abuse. The daughter of the man my mother had an affair with used to bully me and fat shame me even though I was underweight I stayed friends with her 2-5th grade. My mother didn't like her and at that time I didn't understand since she was just like her and when I told her that she slapped me and said for a smart person I'm stupid. Anyways I ended up having Bulimia and my mother didn't want to get me diagnosed since it was all in my head I still struggle till this day. 8-12 years old I always had a schedule in which began since I woke up until I went to bed never having anytime of my own or time for hw since I was smart I was expected to do it during the drives to my next destination. Since I was never allowed to go out I always stayed at home my neighbors had a daughter a year younger than me and she played in her backyard one day she heard me reading and I told her why I couldn't play she said it was okay and that she would just sit behind me and listen to me read. It took my mother 1 years to find out why I went to the backyard often when I was home once she found out she was absolutely livid and complained to the girls parents. We ended up moving a few month later luckily before that and downloaded snap without my mother knowing . Anyways we moved to a small unknown town with no private schools so I ended up going to public when I saw the freedom these kids had I was really jealous and decided to rebel against my mother. She ended up complaining to the school counselor because my grade where going down and everything saying it my fault. I had to go to therapy and the lady told me that I have depression and social anxiety. Even though I was 13 and rebelling I made sure I didn't do anything too bad since I didn't want anything to go on my record because I still want a good life. I got a little more freedom like being able to chose my friends and them being able to come over and stuff. From someone else perspective it might've not been a lot but its more than I had in years. My mother only treated me like this because my sister was able to go out when she was still in middle school and other stuff that I didn't. I also had nannies growing up since my mother didn't have time for me those nannies always had kids my age and they were always so mean to me I never said anything because I was afraid my mother would hit me. My sister tell me to get over it since were Mexicans and its normal but honestly I don't care if its normal its toxic all this trauma and more has caused to OD 3 times already and I've failed every time. I can't do things without over thinking and questioning if I'll get hit if I fail even though my mother doesn't hit me anymore I still flinch when someone near me raises their hands or comes near me aggressively or talks aggressively. There's also other things that I'm to scared to write about. I opened up to two friends about this and when they met my mom they thought I was lying because she acted like an angel around them and once they left she would criticize me. I still find myself sometimes comparing to other of how much better they are because of my mother. Anyways sorry for my whole life story I just really wanted to tell someone without being told that I'm lying. Thank you for reading till the end have a wonderful day you human.
I’m sorry you had to endure such a abuse as an innocent child. I hope you are better now, out living your own life and finding your own happiness.
Man i almost cried ;-; i hope you escaped that hellhole,or atleast smashed a plate in your mothers head
Why I have absolutely zero faith in the country of America.
Sincerely,
A. Non-American
Hearing these break my heart! These stories are exactly why I'll always have a bed, a warm plate of food, a hug and love for any of my kids friends that need it ❤️
Okay I'm not even 10 minutes into the video but most of this is straight up abuse on the parents part
These people seem to confuse "strict" with "criminally abusive"
Something the truly abusive parents need to hear: "You may have made my body, but you are not my parent(s). You failed as a parent, and due to your behavior, I was a fool to ever love or respect you when I did. You ensured that you destroyed those feelings with such wretched behavior. Maybe we can fix things and get to a better state, but that's up to you. As of now, you aren't my family."
I've had cerebral palsy all my life, and used crutches to get around when I was a child. One day when I was twelve, my stepdad got annoyed with me when I used my crutches to walk a few feet to turn my bedroom light off. He thought I'd grown too "dependent" on them, and thought I should be attempting to walk unaided. Bear in mind, I couldn't walk without crutches more than a few steps without falling over--as long as I kept up momentum I was okay, but the minute I stopped moving, down I went.
In short, he banned me from using crutches for a week. Consequently, I went several days stumbling from wall, to wall, to chair, to table in a futile attempt to get around---never more than a few steps at a time, because I knew if I fell I'd hear it from him. My mom put a stop to it after three days, after I fell backward into our Christmas tree.
4:10 this is not a "very strict" father, this is an abusive one that should be reported to the police (as a lot of other parents in this video should)
Honestly strict parents create the best liking sneaky sometimes criminal little shits, the exact thing they tried to avoid. Why ? Because there own childhood was filled with fear and dictatorship parenting and I can attest to that.
Future parents don’t restrict your kids because you are afraid if the world they’ll grow up in, they’ll just rebel and do all the shit u tried to protect them fromthe fact that u do this shit means u had no confidence in your ability as a parent and shouldn’t be one anyway.
Ps That autographed 2D picture story broke me since I’m a massive gorillaz fan
TheCrippledNinja I’m pretty sure absent fathers create that
Zero Todona the eaxact opposite infact overbearing parents cause this , did u not read what I said?
@@moistsquish It's absent fathers. Studies have shown that you are far more likely to grow up to be a criminal, no matter your race if you do not have a father figure in your life. Sneaky criminals, maybe not, I think that is all based on intelligence, but criminals overall? Absent fathers.
@@patriot9487 you know how to get a 14 year old on the street back like those people. You know how to never speak to your children again ack like those people. You know to get hard drug addicts be like those people. The tighter the grip the more a child will try to run and disobey.
How do you get an autograph from something that doesn't exist?
37:17, her parent's actions weren't about the parent's fear of their daughter living on her own after getting that good job-- their actions were about their fear that their daughter was doing better than them.
What they did was an act of sabotage.
I've been there before with my own parent where they sabotaged me going to college by refusing to fill out my financial aide paperwork.
I'm not allowed to spend nights or days with my partner without texting my Mother about it. But if I tell her it's with my partner she will get mad.
So I lie and tell her I'm staying with my brother instead.
If I'm going to be away from home I need to tell her why and when I'll be back.
I'm 21.
The one where the mom refused to get help for her kid with the fractured ankle and stuff reminds me so much of my own parents and their bullshit.
Growing up my best friends dad was mentally, verbally, emotionally and physically abusive to her. If I was there he would treat me the same way. Scream at us, destroy her bedroom and make us clean it up, told us we were stupid and would kick her with his army boots as often as possible. He tried to kick me once, and only once, in front of my mom. She told him she would have her boyfriend snub him out if he ever physically touched either of us again. He would berate me with racial comments because I mom dated a black man, this was in elementary school.
My mom was no prize either. Yeah she made sure no one else hit me, only because it was her form of enjoyment to do it herself. She was an alcoholic. Black out drunk. I’d miss school because of bruises and marks, I’d have to take out of the tub when she was to drunk and fell in, I’d have to put her to bed. She yelled at me for reading the Bible on my own. She did nothing when I was molested by her best friends son. When I turned 13, she got sober and found God. She was one of those “SUPER CHRISTIANS” that said everything was evil. Music I listened too, clothes I worn (despite the fact that she bought them for me.). Didn’t do anything after her boyfriend tried to make out with, I was 13 and he was old, he’d been dating my mom since I was 3, she continued to date him. My friends and I would have to wait outside if he was over when we got to my house after school so my friends didn’t have to listen to them having sex. I was forced to go church. Huge church that often hosted Jim and Tammy Faye Bakker, picket abortion clinics and talk to drug dealers and such on weekend nights to bring them to god. She was a sober drunk, so the screaming never stopped. She only stopped hitting me when I finally asked her if she was done cause she was getting tired. I didn’t cry anymore. It was my fault if her hair didn’t do what she wanted, couldn’t find something, broke her hair brush. I was never good enough. Always told me that. I was raped at 14, she didn’t notice or care that I had a black eye or fat lip, I didn’t tell her, I knew she wouldn’t do anything. At 17 I went to a serious in patient, lock down rehab center which was in wing of a hospital. My mom had no idea I had an eating disorder or did coke or had been doings it for a few years, couldn’t tell there was a problem despite the fact the I’m 5’10 and I weighed 95lbs.
Sadly she always tried to give me parenting advice. I reportedly had to tell her that I didn’t need or want it because she didn’t raise me, I raised myself. Eventually she called CPS on me, but had to back down when the cops got involved and told them I was a great parent. She just wanted my daughter. She did everything to come between my daughter and I, telling my daughter she didn’t have to do what I said, to only talk to her about problems. She destroyed my relationship with my daughter and was happy about it. She’s gone now and I always have mixed feelings about her.
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That story was so emotional :( I almost cried!
50:49 I struggle with the same problem now as an adult of feeling like wanting anything or doing something without permission is an inalienable sin.
I stayed over at my current gf's place two nights ago, and could not shake the nauseating dread of having a conversation about what's considered "appropriate" as my mother texted me asking if I'd be home that night. I had had too much to drink, so I said, "No." Her reply of "Okay..." nearly gave me an ulcer. She hasn't brought it up, and all other conversation with her about my gf has been civil, so I'm a bit calmer now.
In college, I got out of an abusive relationship, and I moved in with a friend on a design team I was on, and after moving in, we had about eight other people over for a party to ring in the new year, and I reflexively CALLED MY MOTHER to ask what she thought of me "cutting loose" with beer pong and a LARP drinking game. I was floored and dumbfounded when she said, "Dude, you're 22..." I so badly wanted to ream her, but she was paying my rent at the time, so yeah...
In freshman year of high school, I remember writing in the margin of my math notes a deranged, psychotic rambling about how desire was "the great bane," and an "insufferable curse," and about how, "I want to not want; to be free of wanting." I was also on some pretty cheap and strong meds at the time for ADD, and I still would honestly rather be a somber psycho than a gibbering, inattentive mess. Still fucked me up after graduation when I found that margin passage tho.
My family is fairly christian/conservative, and I think these subreddits and video compilations have given me some respite after college. I may not have been beaten to a paste or neglected to starve, but I'm not alone. And for now, that's plenty.
I once called my mom during highschool and asked her for permison to skip math lmao. She said yes
i love how people say some of these people should not be allowed to have kids but in all honesty these people should not be left alive.
I am so sad about the gorillaz one where the autographed photo of 2d got ripped up. I had a similar situation
My dad had the same thing but with a Bon Jovi poster. This would have been in the late 80s when he was the shit.
My parents are amazing and never yell at me but I’m still afraid to get in trouble so I always try to do really good.
36:54 I think that’s kinda cute way of handling swear words for kids. I mean, as long as they weren’t holding your head in the toilet to make you say “beep". Sounds like they allowed you to watch the same stuff as your friends with the caveat of acknowledging that you remember the words as ‘bad’. I wouldn’t mind having a friend go “beep!” every once-in-a-while XD
This is one reason why I’m not religious, along with the fact that I just don’t believe in gods or deities
Me neither.
My mom can check any of my things whenever she wants and says if i pay for them then i can have privacy.. she wont let me get a job tho?
she NEEDS acsess to even more information then i have about my school
cant close my bedroom door ever even at night where i have migraines and the light hurts
im writing this on a school chromebook because i have no phone no tv no computer or any access to internet
i cant walk ANYWHERE alone or without an adult in the family not even my own backyard or my bestfriend's house which is one street down
drug tests twice a week (this one is kinda my fault tho) but not just for weed and nicotine no no EVERY SINGLE DRUG IN EXISTENCE like heroin and fentanyl included and my mom messed up on the tests and it was positive for benzos when i didnt do anything yet my mom got mad at me she also got mad when the negative like was FAINT even tho the test says the faint line is still negative
one time i snuck out so i had to sleep in the painful (im very tall) living room couch for a week and she put pots and pans in al the doors
cant eat past 9pm and if its past 9pm im not allowed to take my required sleeping pills
didnt get mental health help for 3 years and even tho my mom is a psychology major she still believes mental illness is in ur head and you can control it
my mom said spices are better then medicine and white people have cancer bc they dont season their food and dont have meds bc they are bad
cant hang out w anyone ever i have never been to a football game or stayed afterschool
my mom gave me a baby monitor/ tracker to take to school and no phone
not allowed to wear makeup or take it to school
she has a "bad feeling" abt my bestfriends who she has known for 4 years. they are perfect kids the only thing which isnt THE BEST PERFECT STUDIOUS KIDS EVER are that mi friends are gay
my mom censored my cards against humanity pack to make it only good answers
when i put Polaroids on my wall she had to check if it was any of my friends she didnt approve of
have never been home alone in my life etc.
This is so messed up
I’m so sorry, hope you can seek help or have somebody close to help you :(
I hope things has gotten better for you.
I literally don't want to look at what my teens are looking at!! I swear their phones are sticky and full of cooties!! No thanks! Do your weird sh** and keep it to yourself!!!
It feels so strange to hear about families like this. My family never cared about ANYTHING.
As in, if I need something, it would usually take me weeks of asking for my dad to even make a phone call (once I had to walk around on a broken and purple foot for like a week haha). Never taught me anything, I've tried to do things on my own, but have been yelled at or given a "tone" for doing it wrong. No chores, no rules, no one cares. If nobody asks my dad to get more food, he just won't, unless it's stuff that he wants.
I think this is probably part of why I have such an issue with asking for help or even offering to do things for other people, I always feel like I'm doing it wrong and that I'm going to be yelled at for it. Even when I do things like clean my room, I always do it quickly and in private.
I broke my arm when i was 5, i told my dad he told me to stop crying and when i didnt he slapped me in the mouth, he told my mom and siblings to ignore me. 2 days later, im still crying and on my knees begging to go somewhere and my mother takes me to the hospital, there they find out its broken but just *barely* started healing and then a child abuse investigation starts and they just packed us up and moved across the state
No one will see this but when I told my parents I was suicidal the said its hormones
Ouch. I mean yeah lots of teens anxeity and depression gets worse. But to respond to that sutuation with that is disgusting. I really hope you're doing better.
Most of the time, it's the parents fault for making you feel suicidal
My mother, when she found out, said I was basically faking it. No, mum, I am not.
The one at 20:00 made me cry so much 😭😭😭
To the young man who lost his father to 9/11... Your father thought of you as he went in and I am quite certain that some of the last thoughts in his mind were of you and his family. And no, your father wasn't suicidal, he was doing what every other firefighter did do and would have done that day. Your family has been through so much and I am so sorry for the losses you have experienced. I know that doesn't make it any easier though
Lmao once my mom punched me in the face, slapped me one other time too when I was on the phone with a friend. She used to beat me so hard she broke a wooden back scratcher on me. She put me through lots of stuff to lose wait. Pills, shots, illegal forms of both. Since I was in middle school. She made me lie about my sexual abuse and to thia day wont beleive it happened. She constantly threatened to give away or throw away my dog, and when she died she says she missed her. When I got into a car crash with my brother I was so worried and scared about people breaking too hard I cried. She would make fun of me for it. My mom doesnt accept me as a boy, or gay, and she says she's never going to beleive me
I was always so scared of making her mad that I never asked to go outside with friends. I'm a burnt out gifted kid that just wants to die. Now I'm 18 and I cant imagine doing anything with my life, I'm turning 19 this year and i have nothing to look forward to
Nothing i do is good enough, nothing that makes me happy is worthwhile. I'm nothing, and that's how I'll stay
Write. Start doing fiction. Worldbuild a fantasy world. It works wonders.
@@wamlythecrabgod2199 oh I have, I've just been going through it again. Fiction is my savior. Thank you for the advice too, life just gets rough and the past piles on ;