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Hates kids
Never uses protection
Has kid
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It kinda sounds like he is taking this 'i hate kids thing to an extreme '
@@CC.64no fr. I can understand being a bit annoyed by them to the point of somewhat avoiding them to a normal extent, but this is extreme even for someone who “hates kids”
@@missweirdo1077you think he secretly wants to bang the kids? That’s why he avoids them and can’t stand to be near them. That’s the only thing that makes sense for that source of anger
The absolute state of people and responsibility lol
@@missweirdo1077most people who hate kids at least have a soft spot for their own… Like that’s a bare minimum
The "I hate kids" guy....why didn't he just get a vasectomy 😂
Because he’s not just a piece of shit, but an irresponsible one lol
My exact thoughts....
Why would he. He's not the one struggling with pregnancy if it happens 😂😂😂
@@sobeksrecviem7275 he will be when children service gets his tail
@@shay-in-her-20s Ah, but he wouldn't see that until it happened. 😂
I have a cat with a bobbed tail. we found her with a severely infected tail and a high fever. It had to be amputated. She does in fact look like a funny rabbit, but she's the cuddliest cat I've had in years.
Breastmilk is dirty!?!? BTCH-IN-LAW IS TRIPPING! My son was allergic to all formula... even the hypoallergenic formulas because the synthetic vitamins it was comprised of were not being absorbed in my son's gut. He was starving slowly. I had to feed him donated breastmilk and raw goat milk with added nutrition in order for him to be able to grow. Don't mess with your grandkid's food if you are not aware of what they can and can't digest.
That says more about her personal hygiene than anything else.
Moral of the story, never mess with somone else's baby's food without consulting the parent/s or understanding their diet needs
No literally. Like me as an infant my stomach couldn’t process breastmilk. And I could only consume a specific brand of formula and it had to be make with rice milk rather than water. my grandmother decided my mom was being too picky and fed me the same formula as my cousin. I spent the whole night vomiting and screaming. Grandma never had me alone again
Ok it's also hilarious that the teen called mom's boyfriend "your replacement" to his father. If you're gonna be a deadbeat, expect to be treated like one
The homecoming parent is 100% the a-hole. He could have ✨️used his words✨️ to communicate that he would like her to ask before making plans, and then she can ask next time. When she says there is only one freshman homecoming, and he says there are more to come, you can never count on that! Think of all the students who didn't go to junior prom in 2019, thinking, "There's always senior prom next year," and then never getting a chance to go to 2020 prom when school went remote for the pandemic. Causing your kid to miss out on one-of-a-kind experiences to teach them a lesson to ask when you could have tried communicating this expectation with words first -- and then getting INFURIATED when the child won't let him confort her -- REEKS of control. It makes him the a-hole
Textbook narcissism.
1. I'm going to hurt you for no reason.
2. If you react to me hurting you by holding me accountable and not kissing my ass then I'm going to hurt you more.
3. You're out to get me.
My son was a graduate of 2020. No prom and no
Walking across a stage for his diploma. Sad 😢
@@carolinasones1541I feel you. We watched my niece’s high school graduation over zoom. No prom. Her sports were canceled. This was sad.
@@carolinasones1541my son and step son both graduated 2020. It was sad all they missed out on😢
If he hates kids, he should of got a vasectomy or used protection.
Condoms break
But agree with the vasectomy
Also he did the second Best option, worse than the lack of a parent is a bad parent.
Yes! Thank you! I haven’t felt the need to comment until this story, if you *hate* kids so absurdly then get a vasectomy.
Hate is a very negative and bad emotion. You can say I very much dislike kids. But hatred has no place in anyone’s vocabulary.
The guy who is constantly saying he hates kids to the point he wishes they didn’t exist, seriously needs to seek therapy because honestly that feels like a major red flag. Someone having that much vitriol in them is typically not a good sign.
I honestly don't mind if people don't like and don't want to have kids, but having that much hatred for a group of people who are litterally just starting out in life and who have very little experience is wild, yeah kids do stupid things, but you should blame the parents as poor parenting is a major reason for kids who express bad behavior.
EXACTLY! That was painful/cringy to listen to. You don't have to like kids. That's fine but going that far is extremely unsettling and strange.
@@spoingelerboibreally, anyone with half a brain would understand someone who doesnt want kids and that sort of thing, just like for people who do want them. But anyone under 25? He said he had issues growing up because of kids? Dude, YOU were a kid. The issue is YOU. It's a major red flag
Sounded like he has some disorder or maybe autistic or something, otherwise I can't explain that behavior
WIth the girl that missed homecoming - I guarantee that she will remember that her dad did not let her go for the rest of her life and will always have negative feelings about it.
I agree it's a no-brainer she's supposed to go there why she would have to ask if she can go is ridiculous it's something that you do like going to prom that's a no-brainer the dad is just pissed because he wants to be the decision maker and he put his feelings over his daughter's feelings and he's a bad father for it and I'm all for you know kids listening to you but when something is so obvious as a homecoming dance that you're that stupid as a father you you need to go to parenting classes that's what you need to do and get over your I'm the boss you better ask me first mentality
Well, he’s going to have a daughter that goes no contact with him. He will deserve every minute of that. That’s the kind of father he is. I hope he has no more kids. They definitely do not need a father like that.
My Dad never let me go to dances at the time I was upset but got over it.
@@Meli22352009no you did not get over it. You don’t have to lie for him.
The guy who hates kids: there are people who don't like kids, but I've never heard of such blind hatred for all children. This actually seems like something he should seek help for. This is not healthy, and seems to actually negatively impact his life.
imagine telling a person recovering from an eating disorder that one of their ways steps to recovery is bad and selfish
Right? As the SIL demands HER eating habit gets supported by EVERYONE else.
Especially when guilt is such a common aspect in eds, often reinforces the ed behaviours, + plays a key role in some ed cycles
@@lorireed8046 Statistically, 88% of people who suffer from particular EDs admit to using the acceptable ED of Veganism as a cover for their active ED. (Overeaters don't use this particular cover, others do) Unless there is a legitimately diagnosed medical condition, human beings are genetically designed to eat from all food groups in moderation. (Moderation varies by age, biological g*nder, and health condition) Refusing to eat anything from one or more food group is, by definition, an ED, as it is "an unhealthy relationship with food" (the medical definition of an ED).
@@bethanyhanna9464my guy did you just censor the word gender?
Breat-milk story: I'd argue the mother in law is actively harming the baby by getting rid of perfectly good breast milk. It doesn't just feed babies, it passes along antibodies to the baby, and studies show breast-fed babies are less likely to develop allergies. The sex corrupting the milk thing sounds like purist bull****.
(No shade to moms who do use formula or those who use a mix, not everyone's circumstances are different)
Ayo that twin who called out her sister ATE 👏
>Is deadbeat dad
>Son tells him he's being replaced
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The guy in the story refusing to let the daughter go to the homecoming dance is a control freak jerk. The daughter may be "back to normal" but you better believe this will fester for years and will be in their relationship for a long time. His refusal to let her go was petty, based solely on his ego and if I were him, if he ever expects her to truly forgive him, I'd truly apologize and talk it through. She never hid it from him, she obviously never thought he'd object. She was excited to share it with him, and he shut her down for no real reason but his petty control issues.
I believe it’s more of a respect thing not a controlling one. Granted the guy shapes the story that way. A father that has limited time and doesn’t have anything to rectify the missed time, if anything it’s all were jerks
@@deltadelta6582personally as a freshman going to my first homecoming in two weeks, if I got excited and showed my dad all the things I got for hoco and he said I wasn’t aloud to go just because I didn’t ask him first I would distance myself from him and not go to his house as often. No one was trying to f him over, it’s all in his head and personally I’m Privilege as a child of divorced parents to be able to choose who’s house I go to and don’t, but personally that’s just my opinion
@@booscloud it’s not just about going to homecoming it’s about it falling on his time with her. That’s where the respect side comes into play. If it was on the moms week and he tried doing that I’d wholeheartedly agree with you. It leads to allowing her to just do whatever when she’s supposed to be there regardless of what he says. If the roles were flipped would it be the same way? Would it be different? The world may never know. But I know if it was my kid I’d have said something when she wrote it on the calendar. Like if her dad said she could go on a trip with her friends out of town on one of the days she was supposed to be with her mom and didn’t say anything and she was just gone it’s of a similar philosophy. He could have avoided it all by saying “hey that’s a week you’re with me, I need you to talk to me first for events things like this.” It’s all about communication. But again if it’s on a mom week and he was doing that he’d definitively an ass, this is more being petty unless they’ve had this convo before.
The vegan woman is like if someone went into a church and got offended that there were people praying.
She just loved the control she had over everyone. I can't imagine having just 2 (SIL and one grandmother ) vegans in a family and the entire dinner is about them. Nah, that's insane.
As the guy said ... you make compromises for everyone .
My twin and I had to do that on many things LOL We were mirror opposite. But we did and we laughed. We used to just accept it without issues.
AND OMG.... this is the first time I've EVER talked about her and said "we were" and "we used to" !!!! 😢
Vegans are su h hypocrites things still die for them to eat their veg trees die for their furniture. She just sounds like a control freak.
Exactly and the fact that they allowed her to control family events for years was her big hit
Dude all vegans do this, my friend group contains a vegan we Share a monthly dinner and we always make her a vegan dish, but when it's her turn to cook we are forced to eat her gruul. I just bring McDonald's now
If Mr Hates Kids didn't want kids, he should have either double-bagged, gotten snipped, or abstained altogether.
Double bag? Two condoms is actually worse cos the friction wears them down
@@Meela9088i mean double protection can also mean that she is taking the pill or made other precautions to prevent a pregnancy.
double bagging is worse than single bagging. edit that out
Shit happens 🤷🏻♀️
@@dia2722
Didn't say double protection.
He said double bagged, two completely different things in this context.
1:37:56 OP is a raging AH. He’s just trying to flex on his ex that he has veto power or something. He doesn’t care about “teaching her a lesson” so she doesn’t become manipulative, he’s mad that he didn’t get included so he’s throwing a tantrum. What a horrible father. If he keeps this up, he’s going to be in a home at the first whisper of “hip-replacement”
Finally, a video I can listen to while doing something actually productive...
About the story with the grandma commenting on the daughter’s appearance.
My grandma did the same thing with me. Can confirm that this WILL mess up the child and give them horrible self-esteem and even self-worth. Cut the grandmother out of her life. Trust me, the granddaughter will be better for it, and if the husband won’t stand up for his daughter and cut off the mom, leave him and take your daughter.
Ohhhh man. If my mom called my kid ugly ONE time, she would be out. Absolutely not. You will not make my kid feel bad about things they can’t change.
Oh that got me fuckin heated.
The first story: immediately NTA, if op was planning a GNO instead of a GNI, he would’ve probably accused her of wanting to flirt with other guys while she’s out and demand the same thing of bringing his guy friends. If he wanted a boys night he probably would’ve been like “but Saturday is for the boys” if the shoe was on the other foot.
Yea, this guy sounds awful tbh, the example of what an "alliade" is, a mess up dude using fake rethoric to manipulate a woman into believing he's good. That's really not a good signal.
If they would just talk with each other, I think things could work out she just wants to hang out with her girlfriends... He wants to spend time with her. I bet he likes to hang out with his guy friends too I imagine. This is a "they're all assholes" scenario.
@@rene280195 I completely agree. He makes words like “misogynistic” useless! Like WTF, how is a girls night in ever misogynistic??
First one sounds like a manipulator, being upset with a girls night in, she would be better off not having a relationship with the guy
It reads like he just did not want his girlfriend alone with her friends
Agreed sounds like a non issue like wow she invited friends over just called it something else. Sounds super controlling
It seems like he just wanna spend some time alone with his gf. It seems like they have these get togethers often and she's neglecting her relationship. Maybe she should just be single
Switch the gender and yall would be singing a different tune😂😂😅😅
My opinion is that both genders need their own spaces. Women need time alone with other women as much as men need time alone with other men.
the bride not wanting her disabled brother in law in the wedding pictures because of his wheelchair is pissing me off so bad.
Bro hates kids so much but never thought to get a vasectomy…
The story involving the women wanting op to lie about how they met at the wedding is such a hypocrite. She complains about how op values others opinions over how she feels but that's exactly what she's doing. She values her family and friends opinion about how they met over his feelings.
That screamed manipulative narcissist
The part where the person was allergic to Peanuts is scary. My husband is allergic to cinnamon, and in the past 7 years I even ASK different places if there is cinnamon in it, especially the dessert. I just started cooking with brown sugar, because I'm overly cautious. 😂 I don't even allow apple jacks in my house. He needs to pay her medical bills and thank whatever ditties he believes in that the person allergic didn't actually☠️
The vegan lady compares herself to someone who would be insulted by people praying in a church.
I see it a bit different:
I am deathly allergic to a lot of stuff, like 20+ foods. I never expected my partners to not eat the food that i am allergic to but we do have certain rules when it comes to what is cooked where, what is washed how.
When it comes to kissing: I always ask what they ate/drank. Usually all my partners in the past made sure to remember to warn me/brush their teeth and use mouthwash and wash their face/lips if they ate something i was allergic to. So both sides contribute to me not having an allergic reaction, so in case one fucks up, there is still a „safety net“
So her having a reaction is not just his fault. I too always always always make sure that nothing is in my food and nothing can harm me and ultimatly, it is my responsibility. I have so many allergies that sometimes even my parents forget about one/are scared to forget about one and ask if they cook something for me. So dont get me wrong: a supporting environment is utterly important but it is my allergies, my responsibility. I would never ever ever blame it on somebody except they hid something from me.
So it is at least partly if not mainly her fault as well.
But maybe my view stems from living in a country with public healthcare so i never has to think about paying for an anaphylactic reaction. But i certainly do fear them because they are horrible.
My brother is deathly allergic to most nuts, but in particular peanuts, and very few people outside our family take it seriously enough. If we go out to eat, he tells every waiter to notify the chef about his allergy. In some rare places, a chef comes out and assures him personally on a dish-to-dish basis.
Some places act huffy and ask "how allergic?" Oh I don't know, it will KILL HIM, that bad enough? Or are you also happy allowing your customers to develop rashes just because you're too lazy to ask the fucking kitchen to adhere to appropriate hygiene?
I didn't eat a peanut until I was late teens, and when I did, I thought, wtf is the big deal? Sure, they're fine, and I might eat them when he's not visiting, but if he is, I deep clean and throw away anything nut-related.
His partner grew up eating them, and when they got together, stopped eating them outright. Because not eating peanuts is a miniscule sacrifice to make for the person you love, irregardless of the fact that it might kill them if you do.
The boyfriend is 100% at fault for not considering her allergy, and he easily could have killed her. He should pay the medical bills, end of story.
Absolutely! @@jackattwood1021
@201111chris so you are comparing situations where only one person is involved with this situation? Also i would not deem eating something as being „reckless“ behaviour, so no involuntary manslaughter lol. Also as someone affected myself, i know to always ask and make sure. She made the decision to kiss him too, which also caused this, same as him eating the nuts. So both people make a mistake in my opinion. Situation would be different if he lied to her, which would be unacceptable. But she did not take care of herself (which as someone with severe allergies you always have to do). F.e it would be my fault too if i reacted to food from a buffet if i did not make sure nobody contaminated the food with stuff i am allergic to. And it is also my obligation to make sure nobody in my family/nobody of my friends fucks up and forgets at some point.
As i said, it is something BOTH of them have to take care of and make sure to avoid, so she did fuck up just as badly as he did. Just bc only she is affected does not mean it is only his fault.
As a mother of 4 boys, 2 married, if I see them mistreating their wives in any way, especially on social media, you can bet they would hear about it from me. Unfortunately, a mother often has more credibility with their son than a wife. 😢
In that story the mother was also trash. She literally just pulled a full on misandry and admitted she treats men like crap and expects them to put up with it. Sounds like her son just learned from her 🤷♂️
To the story about the family gathering, the big issue that I see is that everyone expects op to utterly ignore his wife's feelings like he should tell her that she's out of line for wanting to do both families at the same time under One Ruth and start a new tradition where everyone gets together. I don't think it's appropriate for either side of the family of anyone's family to tell somebody that they should tell their spouse to shove their feelings because someone else their feelings are far more important. That's a recipe for a marital disaster
The story of the OP outing his sister needs more information. OP is tha AH if they were told in advance that the sister was waiting to tell her kids about her trabsition, but if that wasn't clearly communicated, than that is a faux pax that could have been completely circumvented.
It didn’t sound like it was communicated period. Also whether the trans person told their kids or not, they were going to find out
Bro the trans person should have told the kids especially because they have pics of them as a child I don't think op is the ah the way the daughter reacted says alot also
If it’s not communicating that they WANT you sharing that information then you DONT SHARE THAT INFORMATION. You got it completely backwards. If it’s not communicated that they are comfortable with you telling people, you don’t fucking tell people. Cis people need to learn how to mind their own fucking business.
@@purplebanana6420a trans person is never required to share their trans status unless you’re their doctor. Fuck off.
@@1998rules13should’ve been on the TRANS PERSONS terms, not a nosy cis family member.
Kid not excluding his bully. He setting boundaries
24:46 Well, if the dad didn't want to be replaced he dang well should have put the kids first, like, ever. And this is coming from someone that actually knows the people involved, having been friends with the op for around 30 years now. Can confirm her version of the ex.
Storage unit story: as someone who collects things such as Lego, trains, transformers, comics and some other smaller items, I side with OP and think he needs a new wife. There’s no way I’d even move in with someone who wanted me to ditch all of my stuff let alone marry her.
Yeah for real the stuff you collect is a part of you. It holds value and if he can’t even keep it in a storage unit and didn’t tell you says volumes about her as a person.
I'm not even a collector and I side with OP...
Hundred percent this. My husband spends 100s of dollars on legos at a time- it's one of his greatest joys. He has a blacksmith's house that is HIS BABY and I know to always be careful and treat it gently because he loves it so much. We've moved twice in the last year and a half from 2 apts into a permanent home and each time I've made sure to secure it so the little apple tree doesn't get broken, or the tiny swords next to the forge don't get lost because if they did he would notice and probably cry. My eyeballs about FELL out of my head when I heard this story- her behavior strikes me as extremely callous, selfish and controlling. A person's loves don't have to make sense to you, especially your partner- you just have to support them. Obviously there are stipulations because life is a gray area, like if it becomes a hoarding situation, but from the details of the story she just sounds extremely miserable to have to live with.
My husband knew I was a keeper when I 1. pulled out my own collectors figures when I moved in and 2. pulled his toys out of the attic and put them on display. A home is for both of you, not just one. I think at worst, there should be compromise. If there is a spare room, allow him to decorate however he wants or let him decorate a room that isn't the main room. Personally, we have toys and posters in every room...His study is exclusively his, the main room is mostly but not entirely mine, Kitchen/Dining room is his, bedroom is mine. We didn't discuss it, it just happened that way!
@@BIGDagpppp😊ppppp😊
As a ginger, I was never bullied about my hair colour. The curls, yea. But that's because my mom had no idea how to properly take care of them
I think Gingers with freckles are some of the most beautiful women.
Red hair is beautiful, especially paired with green eyes. Something about it looks so ethereal.
10/10 recommend letting twins be separate people. Different classes different friends. Absolutely the best of friends together.
There is nothing wrong with telling people that you met on a dating app. My brother and my best friend met their perspective spouses on a dating app and are some of the happiest couples I know.
Story with son kicking mum & new family out make sure you are following Tennant laws. Kicking them out on short warning might give them grounds to sue you as their landlord
Yes, that was the weirdest story. Like 2 months after the father died his mother brought in a new guy? He calls her MOM ( assuming it is his real mother) his father never married her and put everything into the sons name?
I realize Reddit is filled with dumb kids lying for attention and as a kid doesn't understand laws and rules. The boy has multiple properties and doesn't care where his own Mom is? Plus, she just picks a guy and his kids over her own son in just a few months? Yeah... that one really bothered me with that amount of crazy.
That implies they had one. Doubt they did.
Considering he gave them notice when he actually took possession of the properties he should be fine
Only if they paid in some way. Then they would maybe be squatters?? In any case, the state they would change the definition of a tennant.
@@mariedelange1269 most cases as long as you give them notice when you take possession of the property of an eviction they're normally covered.
Glad the guy with massive anger issues, and hatred of children; wasn't around their kid. Sounds like he needs some therapy.
I'm glad my mom is good with my animals. Like, she even buys them bday presents. And she's scared of rodents, Back when I had hamsters and momma abandoned the babies. My mom would help me take care of them when I couldn't.
Tubby: Calling anyone names makes you an AH. However, the fact that the brother is more worried about OP calling the gf tubby & ignoring the fact that the gf is a thief is troubling. OP needs to bring the theft to his parents' attention!
"Calling anyone names makes you an AH" ironic statement 😂
Have your GNI and when it’s over, RUN this guy is trying to put a wedge between you and your friends.
First story: BF act like Michael Scott, when Jan wont let him in the women in the work place meeting
Peanut Allergy: OP NTA. Boyfriend did know her allergy is fatal, and "forgot". Cool. She almost died because of that.
If you're a man and you don't want kids, either wear a condom or get a vasectomy. Not liking kids is not scummy, but gettting someone pregnant then, essentialy, abandoning all responsibility is a scummy thing to do. That idiot makes the rest of us look bad, he has a lot of growing up to do.
For the pregnancy throw up story, i think shes absolutely NTA. Shr stated she told him it was pregancy related. It isnt her fault that the husband is harrassing her about it and refuses to belive its not an ED.
don’t think anyone is really an asshole. it was a matter of miscommunication more than anything.
Would’ve made more sense to reverse the names of the cats since Bucky is missing an arm
My wife runs an unisex hair business. If she was that sick she would stay home. If a state inspector would show up (they will unannounced) I bet they would fine the shop and send the hair dresser home.
Regarding the food thing, aren't we supposed to be taught as children, "you get what you get, and you don't throw a fit!"?
Ikr, but in this case, it's a great way to show OP's kids to take responsibility, which I think is a great way to teach independence
For the allergy story: op isnt at fault, but the boyfreind doesnt have much fault either, the boyfreinds family however are major AHs
What’s up with people thinking their kids can just have other peoples stuff 😂
I absolutely agree with that guy who asked his mother to leave after she was being mean to a little kitten… don’t eff with cats
PB BF: I have a partner with a peanut butter allergy. Instead of getting peanut butter I get Wowbutter. It's a soy spread that tastes like a slightly dryer peanut butter. It's not hard to cut it out of find a sub especially since wowbutter is at Walmart.
Outting your sister to her kids is wild. "Is it justified?" No bro. No.
Omg the ryobi line trimmer one socked me in the jaw. I'm just petty enough that if my partner was like hers (mine would never, we're gay men and he thinks it's hot that I can fix shit that breaks lol) an entire ocean of petty spite would flow forth and I'd tell him If he wants to be "the man of the house" (gag) so badly, he should stop bitching and actually put the effort in to learn the skills and do the jobs he sees as "manly".
something to think about: Just because somebody has the "right" to do something doesn't necessarily exclude them from being an A-hole. I think you often conflate the exercise of ones rights with an unassailable ethical position.
That father who didn’t let his father go to the dance has problems.
11:17 NO! OP didn’t know the parents were keeping it a secret. It their parents job to explain to their kids. Are they embarrassed? Those kids are obviously in their questioning phase, why even keep the adoption a secret? That is a beautiful process, the parents clearly wants & love them… then they need to know the truth.
Your replacement got me rolling 😂
As a child, my mother had informed me that my siblings' dad was not mine. I ended up better. If i were her kids, i would have rather learned that my parent was trans from my aunt/uncle than learning it later. Be honest to your kids. You can't build a relationship off of lies.
I found it weird that it seemed like they were super open with their kids about everything else but them being trans was a huge secret.
I have been the majority homemaker, and literally the only driver in our household for pushing 30 years. My husband got frustrated being the only breadwinner (FYI I was also the sole breadwinner for the 1st 20 years) and claimed I did nothing. 😂😂😂 He forgot I drove him to work, did all of the household chores, all of the shopping, the yard work, managed everyone's schedules, and so much more. Well, I got sick, literally not expected to survive. This meant I wasn't there to do anything for 9 days (I was doing it up until they hospitalized me with Necrotizing Pneumonia). And it took a year to recuperate after coming home. He has NEVER complained about the equality of our roles in the relationship since. It was a scary wakeup call for both of us.
The story about the late check, people live paycheck to paycheck a lot of times. A paycheck being late can cost them their homes and more. OP was the asshole for firing the worker for very justifiable anger
I totally agree. After whooping the boss' ass.. i would have sued for wrongful termination. I wouldnt show up in uniform.
@@rickarevalo911when you put it that way, I can see where you’re coming from
@@rickarevalo911😂 good luck cause you ain't winning. Exceptional circumstances cover late payment. And well done for being the actual AH "kick his ass" because his dad is dying wow
You've clearly never lived paycheck to paycheck if you think that. Not even remotely justified anger. Someone was dying atop being an AH
@@MrChaosTheory09 you've never lived paycheck to paycheck, sure it may be morally wrong to say "idc about your dad, i want my pay" but she needs that money to survive lol, and im pretty sure she wouldn't be worried abt someone's dying father if she was about to get kicked out of her home for example 💀💀
Virgin breast milk only for our babies😂
Never be mean to a person's relatives, friends, or pets. Never.
My take on the allergy: i would compare this to a situation with a vehicle. With a deadly allergy, i don't think the comparison is unreasonable. So, in essence, the OP is in the general vicinity of vehicles all the time and knows to be careful. They don't stand in front of or behind them, they don't lie down underneath them, they don't stay under the hood while someone is operating them. But what the boyfriend did was accidentally swerve into them. Yes, it was an accident, but they're responsible for that accident. It was their negligence that caused the OP to go to the hospital. The OP didn't accidentally bend over to pick something up behind a car and get backed over, but were minding their own business on a sidewalk and had someone turn into them. That makes the other person responsible.
The story at like 1:41:00 abt the house wife working wife insane lunatic husband???? How are you expecting her to keep house and keep a full time job? If you want dinner she has to be there to cook it!
It’s your home, don’t give him a key. Nta
The 🥜 peanut allergy story, they needed to breakup long ago. If you have a deathly food allergy like peanuts, you need to find someone who despises peanuts.
Would still go to the wedding roast the bride and not be in any pics since the gusband wouldnt be in any pics and still get some cake lol
I had a husband who used to tell me , he did 90% of everything, so I gave him back his 10%
When it comes to the trans story: nobody told op not to tell the kids and they asked. Op wasn't the AH and the husband's reaction was over the top. If it was that big of a deal, it should've been mentioned to op not to say anything. Bc that picture was up for YEARS. A kid is bound to ask who the unrecognizable person in a family portrait is.
The storage unit guy. His wife sounds controlling. My husband and I have things from our childhood and neither would ask the other to get rid of any of it. Also red flag on the separate bank accounts. My ex insisted we have separate accounts and he was controlling. That’s why he’s an ex.
Story 1: dump him
Since when did TH-cam start using scams to get people to subscribe to certain channels
I've had Manx cats my whole life and I'm 60. I absolutely love them!
The kid hater isn’t an asshole for telling his son the truth. That’s what he asked not should he have worn protection (nothing’s saying he didn’t birth control fails sometimes) he’s not the asshole for that. Imo he’s not the asshole for not wanting to he a dad either he made it clear and signed away his parental rights. The only assholes are the people calling and texting him insults after the fact. Before that everyone was cool
13:59 my dad is a vegan, I’m almost vegetarian (I’m extremely picky with meat) and we don’t clam that SIL. She’s an internet vegan
Peanut-girl: If he clearly doesnt care about her having the allergie and continues eating stuff etc, she shouldve been smart enough to break up with the lad, since it was not about if, but when it will happen
Story around 5 min:
I had the same with my mother(who rly dislikes cats), but when I told her, that this is both my and my cats place and she lives here, my mother kinda just accepted it - I dont mind not getting visited, we can just meet outside or at her place.
If something happened to one of the neighbours or their kids in the pool, it would be the owner of the pools fault and his insurance would have to try to cover it if he had insurance.
The one with the missed paycheck… she should be suing them
First story.
Not the one who handles paychecks but my grandmother died in January and I had to go see her in December.
My boss no hesitation told me to go.
Even though I'm the the one who runs around so he can lay bricks and not need to stop constantly.
Sympathy is the big factor
You are a worker not the owner.
Do you think writing out a check takes longer than 2 minutes ? Obviously he didn't have to travel out of town , the manager should've (at least) handed her cash from petty cash and yes, they were jerks to her. She could've sued for that firing. You don't fire people right after not paying them.
@lorireed8046 the guy who paid me told me to go and not worry about work
@@lorireed8046 and no idea.
Where we live we get paid a living wage and money goes into your bank instantly not by checks
@@666108 Dude this "story" could've been from the 1970's or early 80's . Don't be silly. It's really weird people think everything on the internet can only have happened after the internet came out.
@@lorireed8046 never was on about money or how you get paid.
That's the part you got stuck on
You are under no obligation to call someone by their title... But they also have a right to stop talking to you.
I just noticed how the OP was using backhanded words and little remarks about "proper family" . Yes, the OP was jealous and she was very much out of line to tell that young one she wouldn't make it through school just cause she didn't think the same as the OP.... also, she refused to say what her field was . Normally that means History, And English or Some Environmental science type degree.
@@lorireed8046The others had their title on their cards. Only OP didn't. ( 35:33 "they all said {title} {full name}").
@@silke3564 Kind of like calling Jill Biden as Dr. Jill, now. Nah, you might have gotten a higher degree but, you aren't a doctor.
I used to have a cat with a stub tail, about the length of a human thumb. Loved her, sweet cat, but it was terrifying when what felt like a mittened hand grabbed your ankle in the dark. Rip Cagney miss you girl.
Vegan story I think a vegan dinner ruins Xmas
Nta, you have the right to eat meat and they don’t have to.
The IVF story hits home. I accepted my inability to have children long ago, and I can’t imagine putting myself and my body through multiple miscarriages. I know she’s desperate for a kid, but her body and what she does with it is her CHOICE and no one should feel ashamed for not contributing financially to something that someone else is willingly doing. Also, I don’t thing the sister is the main problem. The parents are, and it’s evident in their pressure in the sister to have a child and go through multiple miscarriages.
I would like to know if Storytime is a parent, because in some cases when it came with some of the parent ones, he was off the mark. Also as a step parent you have zero rights to enforce anything unless they have parental rights. But otherwise, bang on with nearly all the other types of stories, though in some cases I think the other person is the AH would be relevant. Love this best of 2023. Thanks Storytime.
Step parents have the right to enforce the rules of the house 🤷♂️ doesn’t mean kids can just walk over them gotta have respect each way
That feels like it defeats the point of putting parent in the title-
If you hired a nanny and she didn't follow your instructions to the letter? You'd fire her. Flat out gone.
MIL got fired. Flat out. BTW, formula can cause an allergic reaction. How DARE anyone not feed breast milk to your baby. When I used to babysit, I was scrupulous about instructions. My god. The nerve.
And OP's husband is a wimp. If he can't handle Mom, Mom is banished to the outer solar syatem. OP isn't doing anything. MIL chooses to be a jerk. So be a jerk. But not with my baby.
Ngl all I could think during the cat one was that she should have named the one with the bobtail bucky...
GNI story: I agree that the boyfriend sounds insecure; I plan on moving in with my friend in the future and if she wanted time with her friends separately I wouldn’t begrudge her that and visa versa
And the ginger hair one, my sister has ginger hair (she was born with strawberry blonde hair but it’s developed into ginger) and she’s never once been bullied for her hair colour so I’m not sure what that mother in law was thinking
2:00:15 GREAT father!! NEVER give in to such an entitled, mean and toxic stepfather!
curfew hoa story is another example of Power mad Karen's we need to abolish HOA's as a whole. That curfew wouldn't be enforceable at all because they're an hoa not the parents or the government
My ex and I were supposed to go to dinner with his parents. I’ve had my cat years prior to being with him, but when I was getting ready he told me he hit her because she hissed at him. Broke up on the spot.
The cat probably sensed he was a jerk which was why he got hissed at. He proved the cat right by hitting it.
LMAO the first guy is Ken! OMG in real life! Too funny!
Why on earth is the peanut allergic student not either on insurance, or Medicaid?! If her parents won’t claim her on their taxes, she could backdate Medicaid to pay for all medical expenses. There are so many options that I see no reason that a 20 yr old student has a $5000 medical bill, and yes! In the USA!
5000 sounds like the amount after insurance
In most states, if you're not a single parent or disabled, you won't qualify for medicaid
Not all people with anaphylactic allergies are eligible for Medicaid or disability you have to have a second underlying condition like asthma to be able to qualify for Medicaid or disability even if you have a life-threatening allergy. Also most of the time Medicaid will not backdate insurance and pay for medical bills the 5,000 sounds like it's after insurance play she'll need a new EpiPen which most insurances don't cover.
@@lizmardas9470 i worked as an eligibility tech for Medicaid and Medicare in my county. I know every state is different, but in Colorado, if one person earns even a little more than the poverty line, and no one else claims them on their taxes, they will qualify for Medicaid. I saw many parents opt out of claiming their college age kids on their taxes so the kid can qualify for Medicaid. And as long as they were still within that income bracket the previous 2 months, they will backdate it. Some families had accountants crunch the numbers to see which way made the most sense, and it was usually stop including the kid on your taxes.
@@lizmardas9470'MURICA 🇺🇲🇺🇲🏈🔫🦅
The ones who hates kids a jerk.
in the late check scenario, it sounded like the boss got there the same day, but wasn’t there right away…? so was she going to show up late, grab her check, leave and then deposit it? i need a bigger picture here : /
peanut allergy story: if you are with a partner who had a DEADLY allergy, you essentially have to think like you have that allergy. The guy ate a PEANUT BUTTER CUP. They’ve been together for years and he doesn’t know that seeing one of those in her vicinity is a bright orange flag? I am loathe to imagine that he ate it hours and hours ago and it still lingered in his mouth, so assuming it hadn’t been long since he ate it, why would that taste in his mouth not remind him NOT to put it in hers?
The alternative would look like a daily interrogation, “what was your last meal? Did you have any snacks since?” I don’t have a similar allergy, so IS that a thing people do…?
Im the same way with food. Im recovering from an eating disorder i tried to cut out meat and i started to get really sick and my health was going downhill because i couldn't afford/digest the plant based alternatives so i still eat some meat and prefer wild caught/sustainable meat. Some animals like cats geckos and ferrets aren't meant to go vegan and can die if you mess with their diet. So the same can be said about some humans. I have vegan friends who understand this. 😊
It is Xmas at his house, he isn't the jerk. She doesn't have to be near it. She is being blown out of control
Op is spot on correct.
Regarding the woman with the phone problem, you can sometimes switch the phone to “do not disturb “ or if your phone doesn’t have that, most allow you to put it on “airplane mode” which will both silently send all calls to voice mail. If your husband wants to contact you he will have to leave a voicemail or text. Please consider whether or not this is a sign of controlling behavior. This can be the start of an abusive relationship (not necessarily physically abusive). It sounds to me like he is trying to isolate her. If he begins to try and get you to decrease contact with your family or friends, run. Also if he is verbally abusive, or puts you down, or makes passive aggressive remarks this can escalate over time to a dangerous situation-especially after you have children. I’m not assuming this is what is happening, but you might make contact with a domestic violence nonprofit to get more information. Good luck
Get snipped if you dont want kids. Easy as that. The fact you didnt, and did not take precautions makes YTA!!