Why Narcissist Marry New Supply So Quickly

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  • @IluvBeauty84
    @IluvBeauty84 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I was the supply the narc wanted or pretended to want to marry...only to protect his image. He’s 44 years old 3 kids, tons of failed relationships...always lived at home....I woke up and smelled the coffee and bam!!!! I was discarded!! A blessing disguise

  • @miamiboy161
    @miamiboy161 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    the problem with this is any normal person with intelligence would notice there is something wrong with flipping over to a relationship when you just ended one .without giving your self a healing process to me that is a red flag.

    • @dustydarrius5318
      @dustydarrius5318 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's the gross thing about the narc vermin. They don't need a healing process because they cannot love anyone. We're talking about vicious creatures who do not love their own children or mother. They view other people as disposable 2-dimentional cartoons.

    • @floridagirl5250
      @floridagirl5250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! Why can't people see this? People are so stupid!

    • @floridagirl5250
      @floridagirl5250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dustydarrius5318 you are so right! You are so right! Everything that looks like care with them is totally fake

    • @razasyeda6054
      @razasyeda6054 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Only flying monkeys buy into the narc’s shit. Anyone who can do 2+2 would figure out what really went down.

    • @darcybarwick3766
      @darcybarwick3766 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly…in my case I was with narc for years … I know it’s now in another relationship, hence the reason it’s blocked me on fb .. little does the ns
      know it’s been constantly texting
      telling me how much it loves me
      It really is a sick game to them

  • @dawnelizabeth1828
    @dawnelizabeth1828 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Hi Kevin, I wonder why he got remarried soo quickly! It was like within a year that he married shortly after me! You've helped me understand the why better, good stuff right there! My oldest brother tried to get us back together, however your channel and others helped me to make up my mind to say no! Take care and thanks!

  • @carolloraine223
    @carolloraine223 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I discarded first.
    I suspected cheating.. so no trust.
    So happy to be done with the drama and cycles.
    Thank you, Kevin!

  • @carolloraine223
    @carolloraine223 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Yes....they always have others groomed and in place for when we see the Truth and unmask them.
    Cheaters and Liars have NO place in our lives
    Love yourself and Be Happy !
    Thank you!

  • @marciathehooligan3861
    @marciathehooligan3861 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The narc needs to trap the new supply FAST so everything she has is his. Plus he can say, "Look at me! Im in the ideallylic marriage and everything is sunshine & roses. So therefore, I must be ok".

  • @DOTMH_1
    @DOTMH_1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    He knew I have alittle bit of money. He kept bringing up marriage within two months of knowing him. I cut things off thank God

    • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
      @glitterboxglitterbox1939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rebecca. Oh; wow., he must’ve really loved you or wanted to use you as a great A or a b or c supply then?

    • @DOTMH_1
      @DOTMH_1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@glitterboxglitterbox1939 He wanted to use me.

    • @GoogleUser-wy2vv
      @GoogleUser-wy2vv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DOTMH_1 You felt it.

    • @DOTMH_1
      @DOTMH_1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GoogleUser-wy2vv He was is so evil. Glad he's out my life.

    • @harrietboateng5239
      @harrietboateng5239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      they love life insurance too....he would have married you, get life insurance and send you 6 feet under

  • @russellj.s.257
    @russellj.s.257 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just imagine if a week after a narcissist marrys their new supply and had discarded you,you end up winning the Powerball or Mega millions and either lotto game was at $800,000,000.00 and their new husband or wife cannot compare anymore to you,whoops!!!! Jokes on the narcissist.

  • @brandonjockisch3324
    @brandonjockisch3324 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My narcissist sister is getting married and hasn't even known the guy 2 months they haven't even had one argument she cheated on him and he won't believe it so I don't even tell him because he seems narcissistic as well and desperate it's so disgusting to me makes me physically sick

    • @valshelby7307
      @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well next time if he does cheat take a pic of it and send it to her then she'll believe u then!

    • @dustydarrius5318
      @dustydarrius5318 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      fuk it ~ if he is a narcissist as well then those assholes deserve each other.

    • @hairforfun6366
      @hairforfun6366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Two narcs together? I wonder how that works🤔

  • @valshelby7307
    @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It's all about getting supply in the end!

    • @sullivanadvisechannel
      @sullivanadvisechannel  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yup.

    • @valshelby7307
      @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Kevin Sullivan it's like an emergency situation to them once u leave them!

    • @valshelby7307
      @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kevin Sullivan yeah I tried to confront the new chick about it but I figured she wouldn't care anyways cus she's a pig aha!

    • @valshelby7307
      @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kevin Sullivan Kevin sullivisn I am far from jealous of his new fat ass supply I mean god she almost looks like post malone! Ugly! Lol! :)

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    so they never marry for love huh? It’s always to get something out of the person?

  • @theveganvillainess
    @theveganvillainess 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My ex narc got married just 4 weeks after we broke up 🙄 I kinda laugh about it now because it was really dumb for him to do that.

    • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
      @glitterboxglitterbox1939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Zone 9 yeah don’t feel bad we were all in that situation before though I consider It a learning experience though!

    • @anniegillespie7935
      @anniegillespie7935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It was REALLY dumb for her to do! I saw a picture of her after they were married five years...she had gained so much weight and look so tired. Could the thrill be gone?

    • @theveganvillainess
      @theveganvillainess 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@anniegillespie7935 yes, that is true too, thanks for pointing that out. She put on a tremendous amount of weight too and is obviously miserable.

  • @janetromey7522
    @janetromey7522 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow! My x married 3 mos. After our divorce and got divorced In a month. I think some of the friends thought it was not right. It was an F U to me. He stole from me.
    The next person was a teacher with good benefits.

  • @sugieskincarechannel
    @sugieskincarechannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A friend of mind met this man online early Dec 2020. They got engaged in 2 weeks of knowing each other. She has never been married. He is recently divorced and has 5 kids. He was in a huge hurry to get married. I am very suspicious of this... too fast .... too soon! He blames his ex wife cheating and then "she " left him finally. He makes himself out to be the poor victim. This is going to end badly.

    • @sullivanadvisechannel
      @sullivanadvisechannel  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, it is. It always does.

    • @harrietboateng5239
      @harrietboateng5239 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they use the same tactics...now they gatting married online.....the narc i know married within 6months and they met 3 times. courtship,marriage counselling was all online.....couldnt make this up

  • @victorysky1933
    @victorysky1933 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Well the ex narc boyfriend is on wife number 5 and relationship number whatever thousand. He does have insight of his behavior though. Early on he told me “I can’t be alone.” At the time I didn’t know what that meant but right after the break up he was on to the next within days and married. I didn’t realize that him proposing marriage and having children to me by week three of our dating was a red flag. He is a serious love bomber. Good luck to his 5th wife and all the children she’ll have for him. Narcissists are the trash of the world.

  • @dawnelizabeth1828
    @dawnelizabeth1828 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks again and you're welcome! Take care and love back at you!

  • @zobella8392
    @zobella8392 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was my ex to a T. You described him, his friends and family. A bunch of toxic foolishness.

  • @carolloraine223
    @carolloraine223 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Feel Blessed to have info such as this wonderful vid...it strengthens and empowers all of us!!!
    😙

  • @kathybriggs8902
    @kathybriggs8902 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your video.. very educational, and you get directly to the point.

  • @globalprincess5471
    @globalprincess5471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Microwave generation... I say that as well glad to hear someone else say that

  • @AbsoluteMdot
    @AbsoluteMdot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My Narc ''friend'' has been trying so hard to get her boyfriend to marry her. She tries to manipulate him but he has not gave in to her yet. Praying for him!

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg! There’s a tv series about that too!

  • @floridagirl5250
    @floridagirl5250 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are so spot-on!

  • @arliciawalker
    @arliciawalker 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's Great 👍 Question: And that's Answer that you gave WOW 👌 didn't know that,? 🙄 good video 👍 👏

  • @pleasebekind7056
    @pleasebekind7056 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just found this video and it's just saved me and helped me so much, thank you ❤

  • @valshelby7307
    @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yes, it does make sense to me and thank u

  • @juanalaniz7459
    @juanalaniz7459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank You for sharing your knowledge... Blessings

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Oh; ok I see what your saying now!

  • @valshelby7307
    @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I mean kevin I don't even remember dumping him for good either!

  • @anthonymorales842
    @anthonymorales842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mine to T however and we live in a small community and no one thinks she is stable or honest. What the new has is money

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well yeah that’s true but he’s younger than me and he starting to look more homely now like her

  • @SB-ki7qd
    @SB-ki7qd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mine is same way.

  • @rvz77
    @rvz77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God, your justice takes TOO LONG
    Free will Lord??
    Then let me be the sacrificial lamb.
    If you cannot remove this chalice, so be Your Will.
    I TRUST IN YOU

  • @valshelby7307
    @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u for telling me this kevin Sullivan

  • @MsOnTop
    @MsOnTop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sickening!🙏🏾

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    He did I mean ours was on and off last year and then he stops talking to me guess I asked him when will he come over? And he said that he had car trouble and all that shit I’m like who gets married that fast anyways just like my neighbor too?

  • @sleepwillo3390
    @sleepwillo3390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here’s what’s weird, they try this psychotic bs with people who were not in relationships with them at all. A person who would not care and does not care. Normal people do not care about this type of crap. It’s funny how they act out these ritualistic behaviors even when the behaviors are non applicable toward that individual.

  • @positivevibrations6110
    @positivevibrations6110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Watch out BRW, DFM, who will be your THIRD husband, needs a permanent place to stay......

  • @undercoverboujee8241
    @undercoverboujee8241 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kevin can you do a video on why the down grade then get mad about their choice

    • @sullivanadvisechannel
      @sullivanadvisechannel  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sure. Why Do Narcissist Down Grade Part 1 th-cam.com/video/H6U8BEKP49k/w-d-xo.html

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh; i believed IT already though!

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So it was all a twisted game huh?

  • @callmeishmaelk767
    @callmeishmaelk767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Put everything in trusts.

  • @valshelby7307
    @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So kevin what's the point of getting married then? I thought that it was ok to get married if u fall in love with that person or if their lonely I thought that it was normal to do so?

    • @sullivanadvisechannel
      @sullivanadvisechannel  6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's normal to marry someone you fell in love with, but not just because of love, and not if the person don't love you back. It's not healthy to marry someone because your only.

    • @valshelby7307
      @valshelby7307 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Kevin Sullivan what do I mean by only?

    • @deesee3622
      @deesee3622 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      lonely not only....narcs marry for appearances I think - thats why some of them marry people that have low self esteem and are doormats

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ahaha! So it’s like acting huh?

  • @glitterboxglitterbox1939
    @glitterboxglitterbox1939 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I mean he got married 25 but. he looks older than that though th like he could be 30 years old and even a church member thought he that he was older than me though too!

  • @gregorywilks2990
    @gregorywilks2990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jesus, this guy is hard to listen to…

    • @sullivanadvisechannel
      @sullivanadvisechannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because?

    • @gregorywilks2990
      @gregorywilks2990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sullivanadvisechannel The information is good, its your delivery that needs help.

    • @sullivanadvisechannel
      @sullivanadvisechannel  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In some of my content my delivery is not good, but I'm working on it.