Stay at home mum reacts to HER husband's reaction. DAX - "To be a man"

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  • @Thatsdax
    @Thatsdax ปีที่แล้ว +2647

    Wow love this! Thank you!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +341

      Thank you so much for your comment! That means so much! We love what you do! From one Canadian living in the US to another... Blessings to you!! 🇨🇦🇺🇸 🙏❤

    • @danielnigra1922
      @danielnigra1922 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Dax (Daniel). The world needs you brother. I need you. Sometimes in life we end up on a path in a certain direction, and these paths allow us to met people who we would not normally. This is the beauty of a life. It is so dynamic, forever changing. I pray one day i figure this shit out so i can be happy and proud again.
      Thank you, Brother!

    • @tommyguy4079
      @tommyguy4079 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Dax, I have to tell you man, You and a few other artists have been my lifeblood since I found your music. It is as real as you can humanly possibly get and I really appreciate that sir. From the dark demon battles to the love for the mom all the way to the struggle with Christ. I had a thought to tell you I know I won’t get to meet on this earth but I can’t wait to meet and enjoy your rapping and singing in heaven as you boast Gods Glory. Thank you very much for your existence and your music. I hope you have a great day and I hope this song smashes right into the hearts of the most hardened hearts. We need this song right now.

    • @JohnSmith-mt8fd
      @JohnSmith-mt8fd ปีที่แล้ว +11

      To whom to cry..

    • @zubenthungkingkikon1606
      @zubenthungkingkikon1606 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Do what you can, 😇 with what you have, ⛅ where you are.. 🌈🌈😊🥺

  • @umarorick6763
    @umarorick6763 ปีที่แล้ว +692

    My dad passed with covid. He had cancer as well for the last decade. My mum left us him me and my little sister for another guy who is doing better just after he got cancer. Dad did everything he can to provide us a good home, education and food. I know nobody will read this but im just letting my own heart speak as in right now.. Im so proud of him.. Now im 33 with my own family with 3 kids and doing well myself, my sister got married last 2 years just after he died. All i can say is.. Now im a dad and a husband, this song really caught me.. And i can only imagine how my dad lice his life for us.. I miss you dad.. We miss you.. Rest now and i hope I'm making you feel proud as a father 💔

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I'm reading this 😊 I'm so sorry for your loss. It is a tough road and it really makes you think about your childhood and what our dads had to go through. Your children will thank you one day. God bless you. 🙏

    • @Poweroftouch
      @Poweroftouch ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He died with Cancer not COVID

    • @Sean_Ralph
      @Sean_Ralph ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So sorry for your loss❤

    • @pinupdoll97
      @pinupdoll97 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad suddenly last November, and he was such a great human being. Sending you hugs and understanding your heart. I see you luv. ❤

    • @KnT_Noriiko
      @KnT_Noriiko ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Be proud of that life brother, im sure your father is.

  • @Dolla-Bill
    @Dolla-Bill 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    The fact that she said thank you is all he will need to hear to make it worth it for him.

  • @BOSTONTOCALI
    @BOSTONTOCALI ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Happened to me... I'm 53, bearded man, hardass, Harleys...from Boston. I lasted 40 seconds and I cry every time. Messing you up because it's beautiful bro.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much. You can see his entire video linked in my description! God bless you 🙏

  • @Deajn88
    @Deajn88 ปีที่แล้ว +527

    I'm a disabled man and this song hit me so hard. I'm not afaid of hard work, I just can't do it and it tears me up inside everyday.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm so sorry. I know there are a few men I've talked with who feel this same way. God bless you 🙏

    • @ghostlyhalo2480
      @ghostlyhalo2480 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Hey brother. If no one else has told you, your worth isn’t found in the work you can do. Your worth is much more than that.

    • @phoneixenterprises
      @phoneixenterprises ปีที่แล้ว +19

      With you brother! Ive been disabled since 2013. Before that i worked 2 jobs at times up to 80 plus hours a week so my wife could stay home to raise the boys the way we felt was right. This song hits so hard. But i will say even though i deal with sever depresion at times because i cant do what i use to, My wife has always been there and now supports me. The boys are now grown men that do all thaey can for there family. So i feel like im not a man and a failure and at times everyone wants things from me but when things went down my family showed me that it was not in vein. Keep your head up brother and know your not alone.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@phoneixenterprises Thank you for sharing this! You sound like a good man! Blessings to you!🙏

    • @wootwootyouknow
      @wootwootyouknow ปีที่แล้ว +14

      A person's worth is not in the things they can't do, but in the things they can do. If what you can do is simply to be there for the people you love and find the way to be a source of light in their lives, that's enough.

  • @raymundojimenez9693
    @raymundojimenez9693 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    The fact that she take the time to see what her husband is going through is amazing

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Thank you! It's opened the dialog for us as well. Dax has done something very special for a lot of people!

  • @eclipsestorm1975
    @eclipsestorm1975 ปีที่แล้ว +560

    This is a serious struggle for a lot of men. Dax seriously just made a hard working man's song. We need this out there for the world to hear and see.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Absolutely! I have a feeling this will help a lot of men!

    • @stephenhobbs5883
      @stephenhobbs5883 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely agree I didn't have a dad and my mom was a whore fucking men while me and my friends had to listen and people ask why I'm a fucking mess.

    • @matthewgraham2241
      @matthewgraham2241 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯%

    • @alexfugate688
      @alexfugate688 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It won’t even matter because so many woman will be in denial and say we got it easy

    • @andrewgardner1535
      @andrewgardner1535 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      All men- we all feel this

  • @kylefrandsen2665
    @kylefrandsen2665 ปีที่แล้ว +288

    I'm now happily divorced from a woman who wanted to be a stay at home mom, but she also thought "feminist" meant she didn't have to do "traditional/domestic" work even though I was expected to be a traditional man. The lyrics of this song are all too true to me.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Wow... yes unfortunately feminism has taken a turn for the worst. It used to mean equality and it's morphed into man hating. I've had people assume that I just put my kids in daycare and go out "lunching" and shopping with my girlfriends. 🤦‍♀️ If I'm going shopping, it's with the kids...to the grocery store 😆 I'm glad you're out of that situation! Hopefully you'll find a woman who will appreciate you! Blessings 🙏

    • @kylefrandsen2665
      @kylefrandsen2665 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@MrsRealistic I made it through the pandemic with 100% custody of two kids while the schools were closed and while I was simultaneously fighting to keep the home that I bought and built and while I worked full time paying child support and alimony supposedly so she could afford to set herself up to help take care of the kids. Instead she rented a 1 bedroom apartment and didn't try to get a job - planning to live off me for the rest of her life.
      I never intend to marry or even have a serious relationship again. I actually find that I have one less person to take care of and I don't get criticized because I didn't "do enough" or didn't "do it right". Why would I want to put ANY energy or resources into someone who doesn't add anything to my life and especially when they can take so much from me? I'm happier now than I have been in well over a decade.
      I know. I'm over-sharing. Still traumatized.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@kylefrandsen2665 I don't blame you honestly. I wouldn't want to be dating in this climate either. There are some really shitty people out there... and women are part of that. We've been through really good and really bad...but my vows mean something to me, "for better or for worse," Many women say that, but when the "worse" rolls around, they're gone. I wish you the best and I know your kids will always know how hard you fought for them. 🙌

    • @robertruss305
      @robertruss305 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mine left me 4 months ago.

    • @kylefrandsen2665
      @kylefrandsen2665 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@robertruss305 It can be a rough road, but you will make it to the other side. My divorce took almost 4 years because of the pandemic and custody battle and cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars and I'll never be able to retire, but now I wake up and don't have somebody look at me like I'm the cause of all her misery (she was miserable before and is still miserable). I was able to keep the house I bought and personally remodeled to raise our kids in and still have about 65% custody and I'm happier than I have been in a long time. You CAN do it.

  • @bryanlockyer5724
    @bryanlockyer5724 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    his reaction.. just sums it up for men. so raw and real.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, it was hard to watch. I'm lucky to have him :)

  • @azjugallo
    @azjugallo ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Seeing her reaction to his reaction when the meaning of the song hits him... You can see she just wants to go hold him. This couple knows what's important. This is what we should all strive for.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You're so kind. Thank you for the lovely comment. God bless you 🙏

    • @timothykrshul2833
      @timothykrshul2833 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well spoken

    • @nicksackandy1816
      @nicksackandy1816 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Idk, I feel like she still doesn't quite get it. She thinks he shares his emotions w her, but she's probably getting less than half

    • @rodgentle9605
      @rodgentle9605 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@nicksackandy1816exactly how I see it too. She is making jokes and saying this only applies to "some". Ironically, she is proving the point of the song. And don't get me wrong, I don't think she is a problem or a bad person/wife. Hell, she seems to care so I'm sure she is amazing. But it's painfully clear she absolutely does not get it.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@rodgentle9605 I appreciate your take. We are extremely open with each other and honestly I think many people would be surprised about what we share with each other. But we've talked about a lot of this since this great song came out and it's opened a whole new dialog which has been great. There are things I will never understand of course, and things he will probably not share. We can never truly understand each other simply because men and women are different (are we allowed to say that anymore? 🤪😄) But we joke around with each other a lot and he has a great sense of humor... one of the many things that first made me fall in love with him. We've been together for 17 years and have 3 beautiful children. In the end, we just try to be supportive of one another and show each other appreciation. He actually edited this one for me and liked my reaction 🤷‍♀️ His father was in the hospital fighting for his life when he did this reaction, so the song hit him pretty hard. Thankfully his dad recovered. Thanks for your comment 😊 God bless 🙏

  • @themeez1000
    @themeez1000 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    As a veteran nowadays the feelings of this song are two fold. It legitimately feels like no one cares or understands.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I can't imagine what that's like. Thank you for your service and God bless you 🙏

    • @chevytruckjoe
      @chevytruckjoe ปีที่แล้ว +14

      We care brother

    • @rbhigday5350
      @rbhigday5350 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      as a fellow veteran, i agree completely

    • @billyjoejackson5477
      @billyjoejackson5477 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah... been married once..engaged twice..a veteran... deployed twice..2 conflicts..helped raise 9 kids in those 3 relationships.. Im clean 32yrs..my demons are buried..PTSD pokes me in the ribs now and then..but I'm good.. I stand in the back watching... I'm quiet now... I enjoy the moment.. I have lived..been alone 12 years now.. I'm content... I know what's important in life..I am a Heavy Truck mech..Welder..Auto mech.. martial arts teacher..and I am a veteran.... I cried a good cry...the stories ,... men could tell..

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@billyjoejackson5477 thank you for your service sir. God bless 🙏

  • @trizzyt227
    @trizzyt227 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hubby’s transparency got me balling out . Thank you wifey to continue in encouraging him & balancing . Wow I applaud you both. Much love and big hugs to you and yours .

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much! You're very kind! God bless 🙏

  • @downndirtygaming0666
    @downndirtygaming0666 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Right at the start, he seen what we all seen. To see a grown man cry is one thing, but then stiff up when he gets to his family, we all already know what this song is about an it hits HOME.

  • @joshuawood4140
    @joshuawood4140 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Your husbands reaction brought me to tears thinking about my own father and now being a father, this song just hits home. Thanks for the reaction video.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks so much 😁 This is a fantastic song that I think will really change ideas and perspectives! The Darius Rucker version was fabulous as well! God bless!🙏

    • @joshuawood4140
      @joshuawood4140 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MrsRealistic the 10 min remix gets me every time because of all the different verses.. if you haven't heard it, 10/10 would recommend

  • @Wobu27
    @Wobu27 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    It was incredible to see your reaction to your husband's reaction. I think this should be a series where spouses watch something that moves their spouse and react to it. It could bring us all closer and understand each other better and make us better people because of it.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Thank you! Yes, you're right... we all need a bit more love!! I think it's important since we've become a society of social media and texting...where no one talks anymore!!

    • @margaretduhe7212
      @margaretduhe7212 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agreed 100%. As a woman, mens mental health is not something I think about daily, but I’m so happy Dax made this song. It helps bring awareness to such an important issue. Thank you for your reaction.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@margaretduhe7212 Thank you! Dax has brought a lot of awareness to this and I'm so glad he did!

    • @Midnightproduction23
      @Midnightproduction23 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      agreed!

    • @timwhite4885
      @timwhite4885 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤

  • @georgeelliott3782
    @georgeelliott3782 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    I'm two and 1/2 minutes into this song and I have to say. Her reactions to his facial expressions. She get it. She's understanding her husband.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You're very kind. Thank you 😊

  • @edmatopatriot8874
    @edmatopatriot8874 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I have spoken to my wife about this issue, and she tells me that it doesn't exist. Talk about a knife in the heart.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow, what?! Yikes, I'm sorry 😞

    • @AccessibleNeats
      @AccessibleNeats 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wow, that sucks i hope one day she'll wake up & understand❤

    • @SalihIsaacs
      @SalihIsaacs 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She's hiding behind her words. Some people can't take reality and they respond , rhetorically with strong words, but inside they make jihad with the self....
      Hugging is most powerful when there's pain inside...

  • @ericb3804
    @ericb3804 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I have heard this song about a dozen times. It gets me to tear up every time.
    I have a job that I hate but it pays well enough that I can’t leave. I put in long hours every week to provide a great life for my wife and kids. That is enough for me to be happy.😊

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You're a good man! I bet there are a lot of men out there who are in the exact same position. I hope your family sees your sacrifice! Blessings to you!🙏

    • @920WASHBURN
      @920WASHBURN ปีที่แล้ว

      Boo hoo

    • @CommanderShepard777
      @CommanderShepard777 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@920WASHBURN im dead☠️, but just Curious on how your ass ended up here if your gonna comment that

    • @920WASHBURN
      @920WASHBURN ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@CommanderShepard777 ha ha i just wanted to hear a song, next thing I know its sobfest USA. But seriously men have always had it like this. The only difference is now women are being taught to not appreciate men. As if their life didn't depend on us. Men have always taken the brunt but it used to be repaid with kindness. You could say hi to a woman with being blasted on tic Tok. Hearing about the struggles that 90% of men have is...meh

    • @rramsey9154
      @rramsey9154 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen . I Hate my job but I keep going because it's essential

  • @anthonypowell8591
    @anthonypowell8591 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Thanks so much to you both for your video. I was lucky enough to be part of the project (Guy in truck at the start.) It's so gratifying to see the impact the song is having. Thanks again.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you for your comment Anthony! I got choked up right from the get go when I saw you have to "shake it off" and go in to be strong for your daughter. As a mother, that kind of stuff breaks me. That was a great scene! Blessings to you!

    • @anthonypowell8591
      @anthonypowell8591 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks so much! Keep up
      the great work!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@anthonypowell8591 I sure will! 👍😊

    • @TMBSTNE284
      @TMBSTNE284 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@anthonypowell8591As a guy this videoi made me cry the first time I heard it and everytime since because it hits deep.

    • @danmccaffrey2157
      @danmccaffrey2157 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Having your scene at the beginning of the video was so crucial to bringing men in and making them pay attention to the message of the song, so, big respect to the director for doing that, and, hey, Man, it wasn't a big part, but you absolutely nailed it and made us all notice.
      Well done, Sir, well done.
      I hope you get more of these parts.

  • @nickysasaga2379
    @nickysasaga2379 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I know Dax had an idea of how this song would play out but I bet he had no idea how much it would affect every man the way that it does. I have not seen one reaction video without a man crying. Such a great song!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup...I bet he had no clue it would get this big! It's so awesome!

    • @danielleschiazza6172
      @danielleschiazza6172 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't think he had any idea how most of his music effects people! 😂 seriously man, I can relate to all of his songs.

  • @AndrewJVN
    @AndrewJVN ปีที่แล้ว +84

    As a single guy w/o kids this tears me up for all the husband's and fathers out there. I suffer with my own demons plus taking care of my elderly disabled mother and it's not the same as yall go through, but a struggle nonetheless... My loneliness gets the best of me more times than I care to admit, and sometimes I just want all of it to go away. Stay strong fellas & don't give up hope for a better tomorrow where we don't have to be afraid or feel guilty for being emotional, but still being able to take care of our families and responsibilities.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you Andrew. Your mother is lucky to have you! God bless! 😊🙏

    • @Rodger_Phillips
      @Rodger_Phillips ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hear you @AndrewJVN, as a man, and a son and as a father of 6 two of whom are here with me,
      I am the at home parent and I care for my elderly mother, so I do understand you and let me tell you, yes you can feel this song for the live you are in, it is okay,
      you are still man going through the same struggles to provide for your mother, so please listen to your own words and stay strong, family is not all the same for all of us. your experiences are as valid as we who are fathers.
      Your Mum is lucky to have you.

    • @paulettebarrow9791
      @paulettebarrow9791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Andrew,Taking care of your disabled mother is the most important thing a man can do, much respect. God will bless you for honering your mother

    • @BarefootInAK
      @BarefootInAK 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As a disabled woman who worked hard all my life… i am so grateful for my children who takes care of me, I am so blessed as is your Momma 💛

  • @johnwilson5339
    @johnwilson5339 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Man i really thought i was the only man that cried to this song..im watching this now while my kids are playing..an crying in the room alone..a lot of men sacrifice so much an most women will never understand what we go through...

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for sharing this. Yes, a lot of men feel just like you do. God bless you 🙏

    • @Sterlizia
      @Sterlizia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thousands of us cried to this song man you are def not alone ❤❤

    • @rogermiller2223
      @rogermiller2223 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Deffinatly not alone...

    • @zch91
      @zch91 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Late to the party her but. I bet almost all us men cried to this song.

  • @judir9196
    @judir9196 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching your face, feeling everything your husband is feeling was beautiful! ❤❤

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! Your kind comment means a lot. I get a lot of hate on this song. 🤷‍♀️

    • @judir9196
      @judir9196 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MrsRealistic not sure why the hate? Everything you said was supportive. 🤷‍♀️ I’ve been married for 39 years and adore my husband as you do. This song broke my heart ! I wish you all the best! One couple to another. ❤️

  • @billkelly3310
    @billkelly3310 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    as a single father of 3 little girls this song hits my heart hard ,i recently left a relationship over this exact reason my efforts were minimized by my paramour financially , i want my girls to understand the burdens a father carrys everyday to support their families ,so they dont word things hurtfully in times of stress,the song makes me ball my eyes out

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Good for you! It's so important for our children! Blessings to you!🙏

    • @OmarrMcinnis
      @OmarrMcinnis ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I see you, brother.... I see you...

    • @kiddcloud
      @kiddcloud ปีที่แล้ว

      I had to do the same recently 👊🏾 stay strong!

    • @bryanlockyer5724
      @bryanlockyer5724 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      been there my guy, a single dad of 2, have been for 10 years, always go to bed knowing u did all u could, never doubt ur efforts. as much as we want to, you wont get everything right, but ur kids will know ur there trying. gd luck brother.

  • @bidred73
    @bidred73 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I've got to give my husband his props. He's such an amazing husband & father. I was amazed when I met him what a great single father he was. It was so refreshing. Now when he should be retired & enjoying life, he's taking care of our disabled son, me with MS, and works 12 hours a day every weekend. Never complains. I try to tell him how much he's appreciated as often as I can. If a woman has a damn good husband...don't hold back the praise. Bless them!!
    Great reaction by you and your husband. ❤️

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      More women need to understand that their husband needs to hear they are valued! You sound like you got one of the good ones, as did he! Thank you for your comment!

  • @jamesmerritt4910
    @jamesmerritt4910 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First time watching y’all’s videos. My reaction to this song was the same as Caveman’s first time seeing the video. But watching Mrs. Realistic’s reaction tore me up. You can CLEARLY see the love she has for her husband. It’s amazing. Thank you for doing this.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much! He's a big tough guy... but I'm lucky to get to see the big heart he has as well!

  • @donaldlong1764
    @donaldlong1764 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    It's especially hard on us single fathers, raising kids on their own.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I can't imagine the burden. God bless you 🙏

    • @h8sjws735
      @h8sjws735 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Im with you.. a 16 yr old daughter, and it feels like I'm talking to a wall. But she is the only reason I even try

  • @Michelle-cr7lm
    @Michelle-cr7lm ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was so special. My husband is 57 and beat cancer 3 years ago. He still travels to help restore power to cities that were hit by hurricanes. He works 16 hour days in the Florida heat. We are blessed to have him as a dad and husband.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so glad your husband beat cancer! I pray he continues to have perfect health!

  • @AnimePianoCovers
    @AnimePianoCovers ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Been listening to this song for awhile now. 2 kids myself and I cried like I was there age. Seeing him tear up got me again. Everyone out there single dads, single moms, divorced and happily married people, you got this ❤️ keep it up

  • @Remco74
    @Remco74 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    To be honest, I saw your husband's video yesterday, thought to myself "Why is he so emotional...." and skipped his video. Until your video got recommended, although I have been married for 25 years, I never had such support from my wife, she's on the other side of the spectrum (i work 60+ hours a week, she doesn't work). I loved seeing your reaction. I loved the emotion of both of you guys, i see the love you have for your husband. I loved it from the first minute i started this video. Any man who has a supportive wife as you are is set for life. Although i will soon file for divorce i am hoping to marry a woman as understanding as you are next time. Thank you for this video.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Wow, I'm sorry you're going through that! This is the second marriage for us both (so I totally understand the whole divorce thing!) and we are in it for the long haul! 17 years and counting! Giving up isn't an option for us and we've had to find a way to support each other and make things work. Marriage definitely isn't easy. If you met my husband and saw how much of a *Lion* he is for his family, you'd probably understand his emotions to this song a bit better. 😉 We've learned from many mistakes...lots of bumps in the road! I pray you find a partner in life, who will appreciate what you do. Blessings to you! 🙏

  • @keenfire8151
    @keenfire8151 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    1:38 Ever man has that same reaction when they hear the first verse while seeing that man cry in his truck. You can see him go from excited/fidgety with a smile, to standing still and realizing this is a serious song within about 3 seconds. I think we all do it the first time we hear this. At least I did.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, I felt that too... the song went deep right from the start.

  • @robjohn6943
    @robjohn6943 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Its not about men expressing anything, its about men being taken for granted, not being truly loved and appreciated.

  • @abelvang3677
    @abelvang3677 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Much love to you Caveman. Thank you for showing us your emotions. As a man, I struggled so long with my emotions because I was thought weak if I did. As a veteran, we have to hold our emotions at bay because we can't let it take the best of us. As a father, I can't show weakness in front of my kids or else they start to worry about my problems. When I showed my emotions to my ex-wife, she left me... So I'm glad you found someone who can love you at your most vulnerable. That's hard to find and definitely a catch. Definitely a subscribe to this channel.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you! Yes, it's a balance. Men need to be able to "man up" to protect and lead the family, but that family also needs to know that he loves and cares for them. I've known men who's OVERLY emotional personalities were total turn offs...There's a time and a place for sure. 👍 My husband just happens to have a big heart... but he's the wrong guy to mess with when it comes to his family. You just haven't found the yin to your yang. Women who appreciate it are still out there!

  • @martinmathias2835
    @martinmathias2835 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think this is the best reaction I’ve ever watched, protect your husband at all costs ❤️

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww thank you! I appreciate it! 🙏

  • @victorjohnson9585
    @victorjohnson9585 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Caveman. He's realistic and genuine in his feelings. Thanks for sharing.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He sure is. He's an open book and will tell it like it is to ANYONE 🤣😉👍

  • @TheRejectsAz
    @TheRejectsAz ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I'll be 40 next month and i put a lot of MY wants on hold throughout my life because of the things spoken in this song. I've been engaged twice and both left as soon as things got tough. It always felt like it was my fault we didn't have money, we didn't have nice things, i couldn't take her to dinner ect ect. With the crash of 2008 and 2010, then the pandemic work became incredibly hard to find. I always wanted kids but i never wanted kids with someone i didn't know i was going to spend the rest of my life with. Your husband's reaction was exactly my reaction when i heard this song - to a T.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much for your comment! I'm glad you got out of those relationships before the actual marriage! You need a ride or die woman! We lost everything in the crash, around 2009, so I know that struggle for sure. We had to crawl our way back up and it's a hard road! I wish you better things to come! Blessings to you🙏

    • @danielpeters2282
      @danielpeters2282 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men are only loved so long they are useful

  • @ahoferomeo
    @ahoferomeo ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He's so broken but I know God will see him and every man through the struggles ❤

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We do too! Thank you for your comment! This song was really cathartic and will help a lot of men.

    • @picklerick6988
      @picklerick6988 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfortunately your god doesn't see every man through their struggles which is why suicide in men is more than double the rate of women and it's at an all time high

  • @damadhattahttv
    @damadhattahttv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    to see his tears and your smile of pride in him is amazing and is why you got a new subscriber.

  • @zerraticz
    @zerraticz ปีที่แล้ว +25

    As a single father that's been through a divorce for a lot of the reasons described in this song, I can assure you it hits single men as hard as anybody. I cry every time I hear it, and seeing your husband emotional just made it hit that much more. Thank you for this!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Aww thank you! I meant single guys who haven't been married or have children 😉 But I can imagine for you, having to make sure your child is cared for all alone, this song probably hits on a totally different level! Both caveman and I have a divorce under our belts. Divorce sucks! Blessings to you! 🙏😊

    • @zerraticz
      @zerraticz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrsRealistic 🙏🏻

    • @kevinswanson362
      @kevinswanson362 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We’re out here doing it ma’am. Keep that chin up boys, we got this.

    • @1988Allnatural
      @1988Allnatural 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MrsRealistic Trust me, single guy with no children, and having a woman you love that you saw your future with leave because she didn't think she was a priority when you're working two jobs to be able to provide for a family one day. This song hits us all.

  • @danialquinn2880
    @danialquinn2880 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My wife is a rock and i can be myself and i know she loves me. We have also hit rock bottom ourselves and i feel it makes people stronger as a couple. Funny i drove a school bus and worked my own business long hrs to provide for my family. You and your husband are amazing ❤

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks so much! That's very kind of you! We were only in that situation for about 10 months and I found a job for him here in Texas. It has been a life saver, not only for his career, but our business as well. It's been 10 years now, but like you said, it taught us a lot and was definitely a learning experience! It takes team work. We both have our rolls and I'm thankful to be where we are today! God bless you and your family 🙏

  • @BillNaire
    @BillNaire 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow, this song is so sensitive,too emotional and strong, I'm deeply moved... I'm in tears at 3am early morning hours

  • @runawayrick2461
    @runawayrick2461 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for this. I think many hear these words and blame toxic masculinity when in reality Dax has captured and revealed our inner dialog as men. We're not taught this, it's our instincts.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen!! And society is trying to teach men to go against their instincts! The term toxic masculinity is so ridiculous. I don't know any women who like men who act like women. We're different for a reason! My instincts showed me what to do as a mother...I always listened to my gut. Men have those same instincts to provide, protect and lead their families.

  • @justinsick5083
    @justinsick5083 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Damn… got me all sorts of emotional. Dax has some amazing music! This song hits home so hard! Being an addict in recovery, and having a small family. I’ve got 6 years off heroin and cocaine, and some days I struggle. I struggle with emotions I struggle with life, I struggle with adulting and being a better me. Thank you to you and your husband for the reaction. Definitely going to follow you both!!
    Keep up the great content!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! And god bless you on your journey! 🙏

    • @PamWidener-n3b
      @PamWidener-n3b 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stay on your journey or recovery life is so much better sober hard but better

  • @treasureawingura2630
    @treasureawingura2630 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thanks to Dads in the world... we love and feel your pains.. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @brianpigg3119
    @brianpigg3119 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    I specifically made the decision to not have children bc the generational curse in my family is too strong. As a man that has a disabled wife, this song hits me hard bc I can't tell her what I feel. I don't want her to feel like a burden, so I hold it inside

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I truly hope you have somewhere to voice your emotions! You have to be able to let things out every now and then! Another guy friend, a therapist? Blessings to you and your wife! 🙏

    • @sonofasinner86
      @sonofasinner86 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Brother let me tell u something UR NOT ALONE BROTHER u never will be ur wife loves u like mine dose me then u r in good hands

    • @mikeydonnie
      @mikeydonnie ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you man! My wife became severely disabled 12 years ago due to a rare neurological condition

    • @seamanben3370
      @seamanben3370 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wish I had your insight, I had two kids with an unfaithful woman before I realized how screwed up I am as a human because of the way our father raised us. You are good man , brother.

  • @tcecchinijr
    @tcecchinijr 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    18:25- single (divorced) guy speaking- it effed me up when he says we only loved by what we provide and how only women children & dogs get unconditional love. I got put outta work and outta my family in the same year and was told I was not needed. How true of a story this song is. I’m still grieving losing my everything(wife, boy, girl and 2 dogs) because I couldn’t provide!❤️‍🩹

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so sorry you've gone through this. God bless you my friend 🙏

  • @krystlerobbins3760
    @krystlerobbins3760 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I wish my dad would have spoken up more, when I was a teenager, he walked out on all 3 of us kids. We have not heard from him again almost 20 years later. This does not take away from the other men I have been able to look up to. I was blessed with men who could express themselves and their love for me. My stepdad, my uncle, and my brother are all incredible souls. I love, respect, and appreciate good, hard-working men. Remind the men in your lives how important they are ❤❤❤ thank you for this reaction.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's so heartbreaking! I'm glad you had other men step up to show you love! Not all men are quality, but there sure are some good ones! Blessings to you!🙏

  • @myslinski11
    @myslinski11 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOW! Seeing the wife react to her husbands reaction video brought tears to my 👀 😢. Seeing her cry over his reaction and knowing what he did for his family hit me deep. I’m speechless and thanks for sharing you two. Watching videos like these helps me strive to be a better person.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @myslinski11 aww thank you! God bless you my friend! 🙏

  • @nicholashall9234
    @nicholashall9234 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This hits home so much for me. I can’t listen to this song and break down. I work 75hrs a week just to provide for my wife father and 3 kids whilst being in so much debt and no matter how much I work it never goes or helps

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm so sorry Nicholas 😞 We should all be able to live comfortably on one income like my grandparents could! It's so tough out there right now! Our biggest bill right now seems to be groceries! 3 kids, growing bigger every day and they're eating us out of house and home! 😭 God bless you 🙏

    • @tryingnot
      @tryingnot 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same boat here Nick keep going through it has to get better.

  • @JSAFIXIT
    @JSAFIXIT ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I don't know if you really understand how much it means to a man to truly be appreciated. It makes it so much easier to work through the hard times and keep your head up. Just from seeing him in this video, I can tell that your husband is one hell of a good man and is willing to go to hell and back for you. Most men NEVER hear "I appreciate you".

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your comment! Yes, we've been through a lot, but I think we've come out stronger because of it. 😊

    • @devingeary455
      @devingeary455 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sadly, most women don't understand that all a man wants from his wife is someone who is loyal,respectful, and shows gratitude. Luckily, I have been happily married for over 18 years, and my wife is my biggest cheerleader

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@devingeary455 Amen! We've been together 17 years 😊🙏

  • @momboo22
    @momboo22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was so heart touching. Thank you for sharing it. God bless you and your family.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much!

  • @gloriagarcia5180
    @gloriagarcia5180 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Omg this one tops it off for me of all the reactions. I cried with him. After hearing this song for the 1st time it’s been on repeat and made me appreciate my step dad who raised me since I was 2 years old a lot more! I always had a close relationship with him growing up but I never thought about it in this way!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aww thank you so much! I think that's why this song is so important... it's opened the conversation for people, as well as helped others see aspects of the male psyche that they wouldn't have thought about!

  • @thomasokelleyjr.2850
    @thomasokelleyjr.2850 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This song hit me hard when I first heard it it still hits me every time I hear it. Being a man on disability it's a massive blow not being able to provide like as a man I feel I should. This man knows how to make a song he's an amazing artist. You should watch the remix video he made.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Never feel guilty over something that's not in your control. You're right, Dax is reaching so many people with this song. My husband and I are thinking of reacting to the remix together 😁 God Bless you🙏

  • @RosalindGotsons
    @RosalindGotsons 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes Dax thankyou men can cry we all cry to let it all out my friends Good luck you both l love and light ❤🥰😊😇

  • @RM-mh6jc
    @RM-mh6jc 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He is crying because this hit home to him like all other men. His home is no different.

  • @CHARLIEFOXTROT-qe7mz
    @CHARLIEFOXTROT-qe7mz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What an absolutely BEAUTIFUL reaction from husband and wife. What beautiful people they both are! God bless them!!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're so kind! Thank you! God bless you too 🙏

  • @Pizzagulper
    @Pizzagulper ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Damn I never cried so hard in my life, as much as when it reached the part of nobody crying for you until you are dead. It's true, and it hurts. We are so lonely now a days,and there are an abundance of people to shame us for even mentioning that we hurt, and to push us down again.
    To all you guys out there reading this, If you aren't being appreciated for what you do, let me be the first to tell you, Your doing good man. keep it up champ. Keep looking out for your people, you damn champion.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen 🙌 Thank you for your heartfelt message. God bless you 🙏

  • @donaldpaulson3920
    @donaldpaulson3920 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He told me he read my comment to you. 100% meant all of it, can easily tell genuine as it's gets, that's a man I'd go to war with...hands down. Which this reaction had me crying even more than his original lol, fkn DAX, then your husband, than you with both of them lmao so e twilight zone shit all just punching me in the gut. Glad your channel came up on my feed without even having to look or anything lol was #1 suggested. Seem like amazing good people. Much much love.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're so kind thank you! Yeah, I wonder if Dax knows how many people he's got crying all over the world! 😆 Such a blessing of a song!

  • @dontcarebear4455
    @dontcarebear4455 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First off your hubby made me cry, second you made me cry. Thirdly you guys are awesome. You love each other, you love your kids and you care enough to try and get a loving message out there too. I wish you all the best things you want in life.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much. That's very kind of you! 😊

  • @BenT_bbx
    @BenT_bbx ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I had no idea Caveman was your husband, I follow him too ❤

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup, 17 years and counting! 😁Cheers! 🍻

    • @BenT_bbx
      @BenT_bbx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrsRealistic that's badass! My wifey and I are hitting 25 this November. It's wild how fast it flies by!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BenT_bbx That's amazing! It's rare these days! We've been through the wringer! Marriage isn't easy... but we've found that as we've gone through those trials, we get even stronger!

  • @p8triotmode
    @p8triotmode ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This was such a GOOD IDEA! Thank you SO MUCH for being there for your husband. I can clearly tell that you are a ride or die woman for him and that is awesome. 80% of divorces are filed by women. Of that 80% more than 70% is because of "money issues". What Dax speaks about here is not a minority of women. It is the majority of modern women sadly. The radicalisation of the feminist movement is a massive culprit. Also, the welfare state that incentivizes women to raise children alone without the father in the home. Thankfully I have an amazing mother and father who raised me right. My parents were together all the way until my dad passed away in 2018 and even though he is no longer with us and my mom is widowed they are technically still together because my mom refuses to accept the love of another man and he is always in our thoughts and talked about every day. You are clearly an amazing woman who doesn't fall in with the horrible course that modern women today are on. You clearly love and support your husband and I bet if he were to lose all income, the house, the car and everything else you own that you would STILL stay with him because you love and support him and you truly believe in the vows you made on your wedding day. Again, thank you for sharing your reaction to your husbands reaction. It's really refreshing to see true love and support represented on the screen for a change.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh thank you so much! I'm lucky to have found a good one! 17 years and counting!!

  • @lynngatlin4469
    @lynngatlin4469 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow this is probably the best reaction I've seen so far. I wish i could of seen his reaction with the darius Rucker addition to this song. The words that Darius added to this song was phenomenal.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's so kind! Thank you 😊🙏 I think he has the Darius Rucker version up on his page! I put a link to his original reaction in my description if you want to find his channel! God bless! 🙏

  • @MatthewDuquette2002
    @MatthewDuquette2002 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m so happy for your husband is doing a lot better now😇✝️☮️💙🙏🏻

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks! We lost about a million dollars in real estate back in California in 2009. It was very humbling and a rough time. We fought to get back to where we are now and so thankful to be here!

    • @MatthewDuquette2002
      @MatthewDuquette2002 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It was a long time, but I’m really am happy for you and your husband

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MatthewDuquette2002 Thank you so much. You're very kind!

  • @ydford1790
    @ydford1790 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I loved this reaction to your husband's reaction. I have never seen a reaction from either of you but I saw enough in this one that made me like both of you for your honesty and sharing your thoughts. Thanks for this! Great double reaction!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! I appreciate it!

  • @autumncrawford5084
    @autumncrawford5084 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dax got him crying, got you crying because he's crying, got me crying, cause both of you are crying. omg! Thanks so much for sharing this great song and video❤

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks! Yeah it was a blubber fest! It's a great song! God bless 🙏

  • @shalsa07
    @shalsa07 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you guys are amazing...first time i heard this song i teared up. as the bread winner giving up is not even a choice. am proud of my responsibilities to my wife and my kid. a man does his duty and you leave it all out there, nd rise everyday to do it again. am just as transparent to my spouse, you an amazing encouragement to couples out here. you have a follower and a fun. thank for sharing your stories with us, they've really invigorated. am going through a time of rebuilding and you guys helped give me some perspective and to not be too hard on myself. i wishes both you the best of success and i hope your channels blows up, watched your husband's first then youtube recommended yours after. God bless...with love from Africa

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're a good man! Thank you for your kind and thoughtful comment! Blessings to you! 🙏

  • @butterflymama0838
    @butterflymama0838 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What beautiful reactions!

  • @nickwoyurka6820
    @nickwoyurka6820 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching this honestly made my day and I truly love this 💯 making me cry and all lol 🤘❤️

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!! God bless you 🙏

  • @timroberts3269
    @timroberts3269 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Much love to you and Caveman!!!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you Tim!

    • @timroberts3269
      @timroberts3269 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MrsRealistic I just watched your husband's reaction before yours to him and he had me crying and then you had me crying when you were crying about him crying. 😂

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@timroberts3269 And a good cry was had by all! 😆 Both Caveman and I are pretty big saps 🤣

  • @jordanjandles83
    @jordanjandles83 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are an example of a good marriage and a strong family , may God need all your needs..

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! It takes a lot of work and I think a lot of people give up when it gets too tough!

    • @jordanjandles83
      @jordanjandles83 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MrsRealistic you guys actually remind me of my parents , there was a time when my dad was out of a job and my mom became the sole breadwinner for a while . It got so bad that my father ended up reselling cheap rice on a corner to make ends meat , at one point he looked at my mother and told her to go with the kids and live with her parents but my mother said " We are married , if you suffer we suffer together and when you thrive we thrive together " and this year they're 30 years married and are still silly for each other. 😄😁

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jordanjandles83 That's an amazing story! We've been through the wringer for sure! 17 years and counting!

    • @jordanjandles83
      @jordanjandles83 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrsRealistic I wish more young couples could learn from you guys

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      April 23, 2023

  • @Dragoninja833
    @Dragoninja833 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for being so honest, real and vulnerable. I appreciate you both so much for it.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! That's very kind of you. God bless 🙏

  • @gladyssanchez5928
    @gladyssanchez5928 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This song hit me like so hard, I just heard it a day ago and all I can think of is my dad, how he provided for four kids and wife, food, clothes, bdays, rent and he never told us he had cancer and at 58 yrs.old he passed away. I saw, I spend lots of time with him,he was my best friend, I was his 3rd child and the only one that loved him so much. Sorry for rabbling but this song tore my heart out. 37yrs. Miss you papi.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man. So many keep everything inside. I wish he could have opened up to you about that more. God bless 🙏

  • @vinchinzo594
    @vinchinzo594 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Both caveman's reaction and your reaction had me crying like a baby. I've felt useless my whole life. I have a severe mental illness and I've never been able to hold down a job, and thus I've never been able to find a girl. It makes sense, and I'm not bitter about it. I understand. Nobody wants to be with someone like me, and rightly so. Well, guess what? For the first time in my life, I'm about to start working. It's not a fun job, it'll be backbreaking grueling work, and I'll be cleaning nasty toilets and scrubbing baseboards and all kinds of stuff my mind and body aren't used to. But I think it will be good for me. I'll be making $30 an hour. I'll finally have a sense of purpose. I'll finally get to go to bed exhausted. If it sounds strange to be excited about that, try living 32 years on this planet with no sense of direction, or purpose. Knowing it doesn't matter if you go to bed at 8pm or 8am. Knowing tomorrow will be EXACTLY the same as today. Empty. A worthless, wasted life. I'm sick of it. I don't care how much it kills me, I'm going to do this job, and I'm not going to quit.
    For my potential future wife (unlikely to happen) but also for me. I need this. I need to work. I need to change my own life. God isn't going to reach down and drop purpose into my lap. Purpose comes WITH work and effort and trying and overcoming. That's where the purpose lives. I finally understand. I will overcome. This is my war, and I haven't been fighting it. The enemy has gained a lot of ground. It's about time I take it back.
    God bless you, caveman, and your family. Thank you for sharing your perspectives with me. I am inspired.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Your comment really means a lot to me and hit both me and my husband pretty hard. You have just spoken a new life into existence and that is something many people can't, or won't do. This job will change your life. Your attitude is inspiring! This is a whole new chapter for you. Thank you for sharing something so deeply personal. You can change people's lives with your story! Blessings to you on your new journey!! 🙏

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ncbeachfan2458 What a kind and well put together post. There ARE people who care in this world. Thank you for sharing that.

    • @ncbeachfan2458
      @ncbeachfan2458 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrsRealistic Your very kind, thank you so much for reading it, you CLEARLY get what I was saying. I just pray that he will read it and its received well. I hope it is also read by others who may need some truthful optimism, as well as some tried and true advice. It's a true story and that exact process I described for him, I survived by using it. I pray that he will have similar results, truly. Your amazing Mrs. Realistic, and so is your husband. You are both so very blessed. Please pass on my hello to him and my love to both of you. Take care and God Bless 🙏

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ncbeachfan2458 I hope he sees these messages as well. I truly believe he can have a great future and feel fulfilled! Thanks again for your comment. Blessings to you and yours!

    • @battygirlrachel
      @battygirlrachel ปีที่แล้ว

      just came across this vid and read your comment. Hope things are going well , but even of they aren't as good as you had hoped, I hope you will consider giving us an update... I've felt worthless and like I'm a waste too at times. It's not easy to pick yourself up but once you do, it gets easier and easier. One thing I've learned over time is that no matter how you may feel about yourself, you are still worth the energy and effort you put into yourself. you never know what you are capable of until you try. ❤

  • @Jeff-fd8sc
    @Jeff-fd8sc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Much love for you both. 55 years old here in Ohio. I thank both of you for your reactions. Let's me squeeze out a few tears while everyone else is still sleeping.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aww thank you 😊 God bless you my friend 🙏

  • @cree878
    @cree878 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love a man that can show his feelings 😊

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm very lucky he doesn't feel like he needs to hide them!

  • @danielnigra1922
    @danielnigra1922 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your husband seems like an amazing man. You guys look happy, in love. I personally do not know what this feels like anymore. I have ruined so many aspects of my life and those around me due to emotional issues getting in the way of being who i am needed to be. I miss the feelings and emotions i see you and your husband experience. My wife now literally hates me and reminds me everyday what a piece of shit i am. I get no praise from her and very little from my daughters. I feel so lonely most days, as well guilt and sadness from the decisions i have made affecting my two daughters, my ex wife, and my current wife. Not to mention the emotional pain has caused me to retreat to an addiction of sorts, and avoid my family. It is a cycle i know i must break. I have known this for years, yet here we still are. Many times i have felt like dying would be the best for all parties involved, because my self worth is so low...who would miss me, right?. Thankfully i am still here. I need artists like Dax, Tom Mac, Jelly Roll. Anyone who puts themself out there, on full display.
    Thank you to both you and your caveman. Be well!
    ..and you tube told me this may go against their standards....they dont realize im talking about myself i guess

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow, your story is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry you're going through this. But it sounds like you're aware enough about the issues to rebuild. Miracles happen, pray, even if you don't believe. There will ALWAYS be someone who misses you, even if you don't think so. We've been through a lot of shit... and marriage isn't easy. We weren't always in a good place. My husband said if you need a friend or someone to listen, hit him up any time. 😊👍

    • @danielnigra1922
      @danielnigra1922 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrsRealistic I appreciate these kind words. I am not innocent, tho. I feel to a degree i deserve the anger, mistrust, and shit i get sometimes. Something else i realize is we need to talk through our emotions, but sadly writing these comments on videos is the only outward expression i ever engage in. I just may take your husband up on his offer to talk one day.! Thank you both!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@danielnigra1922 None of us are innocent. I'm guilty of many things I wish I could take back, and so is my husband. All we can do is try to do better moving on! My husband is a pretty open book, so communication isn't hard for him... but I had to learn how to not run away from conflict and talk things out. He and I have very opposite personality types. He's loud and outspoken, and I'm much more reserved. It's a lot of work, but I think everyone can heal given the chance! I truly believe iron sharpens iron...and talking these things out with another man can really be cathartic.

  • @lindaharris5704
    @lindaharris5704 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love the pure emotion from your husband.❤️I thank my husband all the time for everything he does for our family.
    I wish my father showed emotion, but it’s to late to talk with him now.
    Such a great musician.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, some people can't get past the way they've been taught. Some "old dogs" can't learn new tricks :(

  • @steventaylor6881
    @steventaylor6881 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yeah it’s absolutely how much real manhood has declined so much over the last handful of years, im eternally grateful my old man was just like the guy in the music video aside from the alcohol, my dad never touched it. But yeah im not gonna claim to be a big fan of Dax, just not kinda music, but this song definitely hits home for alot of guys. U mind me asking what the home business is? If not that’s ok

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, I feel that way too. I'm lucky to have found a real one! He doesn't get into what he does online. 😉

    • @steventaylor6881
      @steventaylor6881 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MrsRealistic not a problem, just asking lol

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@steventaylor6881 😊🙏

  • @alvinsautosounds
    @alvinsautosounds ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The real problem isn't us working hard God built us to work we know what we supposed to do its The women who forgot what God made them for and to do 😢😢🙏🏽

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're 100% right. But women haven't forgotten... they've been brainwashed to believe that being a wife and a mother is not important and third wave feminism has degraded the family structure that has worked since the dawn of time. My life would be meaningless without my family and my children. Children are wealth. And I don't mean monetarily. Men and women are different and we are supposed to be. The system would like us to all be the "same" and ignore our natural physiology. We are not equal. We are not meant to be. We are both important in the rolls that fit us naturally. But this type of thinking has been labeled "patriarchy". It's ridiculous. Thank you for your comment. God bless you 🙏

  • @michaelruhnke6721
    @michaelruhnke6721 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did not know you were married to the Caveman...this was an absolutely beautiful reaction! I wish and pray the best for both of you! Absolutely beautiful!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! Yup... he's my Caveman 😅

  • @catsinstall
    @catsinstall 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Mrs. Realistic for opening your home to us. Caveman I cried with ya brother.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much for your comment. I appreciate that 🙏

  • @chucklippincott3867
    @chucklippincott3867 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you guys for sharing. It's soo true for us men we all needed to hear this song 🙏🙏🙏

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      This song will go down in history for sure!

  • @kimberlydunlap5577
    @kimberlydunlap5577 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song makes me so emotional and helps me understand the struggles that men go through and the expectations that society puts on them.

  • @billychambliss-oe8fq
    @billychambliss-oe8fq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been there an feel the same way God bless both of you

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks! God bless you too! 🙏

  • @pumkinhead3941
    @pumkinhead3941 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I cant remember the last time i had tears roll down my cheeks this song is absolutely touching on so many levels

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It sure is! The remix had me crying too!!

  • @MissChelsea
    @MissChelsea 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m really glad I found you guys!! It is such a sweet gift to see such a beautiful couple and marriage sharing their hearts ❤

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!! That's very kind of you! :)

  • @kartikadamon
    @kartikadamon ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful show! Beautiful couple! Dax deserves a Grammy. Thank you for sharing this!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! Yes, Dax has broken through to a lot of people! How amazing would it be if he got a Grammy?!

  • @kevinlayton1928
    @kevinlayton1928 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just heard this song today and I couldn’t stop crying! This is the realest song I’ve ever heard

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      True that... it will hit home for so many!

  • @shakitashontajones
    @shakitashontajones 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow😂😂😂 on my birthday, you guys make me cry. I wish every man could listen to this video.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awww! I hope you've wiped the tears and have a smile now! Happy Birthday! 🎂 🎁 🎈 🎉

  • @RosalindGotsons
    @RosalindGotsons 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We all have to do what we can do every day.Yes Dax songs are amazing my friend ❤🥰😊😇

  • @bitofbrownshuga3061
    @bitofbrownshuga3061 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching the look on your face while you watch your husband go through this shows us how much you love and care for him.😊 Thank you for sharing, God bless.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's tough to watch a loved one when they're breaking down like that. Thank you for your lovely comment. God bless you too🙏

  • @steelhanded11
    @steelhanded11 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @Dax speaking for so many of us who won't speak for ourselves in these situation.. You a real one for this sing bro!!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's changing the world! 🙌

  • @Charliano700
    @Charliano700 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful all the way around. Love the way you support your man. Love the story you shared! You all are amazing!!

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! We're in a much better place now thankfully... but we gotta support our men and work like a team or it'll all fall apart no matter what! God bless you 🙏

  • @Gremlin14112
    @Gremlin14112 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Most men do carry Pride in being a Provider, but it's also important to bare, that Pride is the worst of the 7 Deadly Sins...

  • @werejusthavingfun8130
    @werejusthavingfun8130 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I fu@#ing love this man! I was ugly crying in my work truck when I first heard it. Much love for us men that are holding the torch! 🙏

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! That means a lot! God Bless you!

  • @SusieQusie
    @SusieQusie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First time ever seen both of your reactions and you both made me cry. You are an awesome man you are beautiful wife and you are a great couple. You are blessed and so are your children

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's so kind of you! Thank you! God bless 🙏

  • @jigsaw1774
    @jigsaw1774 ปีที่แล้ว

    You two are just a breath taking outstanding, and u managed to tear me up even though i have no kids.. god bless u both and i hope these reactions reaches as many as possible ❤

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      Aww that's so kind of you! Thank you!! God bless you 🙏

  • @Malgor00
    @Malgor00 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 53, and part of the (many) generation(s) raised and told over and over that REAL men don't cry, REAL men don't show emotions. I've been in therapy for years, and this song let me cry for the first time in over a decade. During that decade I lost EVERYTHING, my wife, job, both sisters, and all that time I never cried. You were talking about the "Generational Curse", you as a mother, as a parent, as PARENTS together are the ones to break the curse. Teach your sons that showing emotions, all emotions, is a good thing, a natural thing. Teach your daughters that the men in their lives MUST be this way, and that the men aren't weak when they show their 'softer' emotions.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My husband is also 53. I'm sorry for what you've been through! You're so right, those emotions need to come out. Our boys are very loving and sensitive, but also rough and tumble. Our 12 year old basically took care of me after surgery in 2020 when he was just 10. Daddy couldn't stomach the drains that were coming out of me lol! And we want our daughter to find a quality man who values her and is her strong protector, but is able to be that partner who can open up to her. This is also one of the many reasons we home school... so we have control over what they're learning and not being indoctrinated by people we know nothing about...especially now when the world has gone off the deep end! I'm glad you're getting the therapy you need! Many men won't do that. God bless 🙏

  • @johnpegues5701
    @johnpegues5701 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks to both of you....may the Lord bless you and your family in the year to come.

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much! Happy Thanksgiving and God bless!

  • @adriennewashington3360
    @adriennewashington3360 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very powerful song
    I lost my Dad in 2014 and I miss him so much. If you still have your father here with you please show them how much you appreciate everything they do. I lost both of my parents.. I miss them both. Dax you nailed it

    • @MrsRealistic
      @MrsRealistic  ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry for your loss. My husband lost his mother about 3 years ago and his dad was fighting for his life in the hospital when he did his reaction. He survived thank God. I'm blessed to have my parents still alive, but they live in Canada so I rarely see them. God bless 🙏