The Funniest Girl in NYC

/ shartymarty

[@phillipharris8277]

This interviewer has the rare gift of silence.

[@trevormillard1339]

Don’t think she gave him a choice 😂

[@i.1213]

@@trevormillard1339it’s also the editing that makes it look like he didn’t talk at all…

[@dutchthenightmonkey3457]

@@trevormillard1339it would have been crazy if in an interview she did expect him to talk just as much

[@_goosdetrukendoos_]

😂😂

[@matthoover3674]

Not fluent in yapanese.

[@rhh3828]

“Before I used to over share, now I never share”, she confesses while doing an impromptu interview on the sidewalk with a stranger…she’s right, she’s hilarious

[@joseville]

Sometimes it's easier to share with strangers. But yeah, that was a lol.

[@eunnikins]

now we know why she doesn’t share 😂 it’s all or nothing so she had to quit cold turkey

[@gabrielsanchez5553]

I tried to find a comment about her saying that. 😂😂😂 It is hilarious. She seems like a great person, but so many red flags.

[@specialknees6798]

But it's not oversharing. It's appropriate to the setting. I rarely ever vent personal stuff to people, but if someone came up to me in the streets wanting to know about personal(but not intrusive) stuff, I'd absolutely share.

[@waynepolo6193]

“Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself; I am large. I contain multitudes.” ~Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass

[@powerboatguy2308]

The most awesome gal on the internet. Sort of confident, sort of insecure, good sense of humor. She seems like someone you can ask any question on any subject and enjoy her processing it out loud.

[@FeverFromDaBronx]

I totally agree wit you.......her personality is borderline magnetic

[@AGamersWorld1993]

Him: do you like cheeseburgers?
Her: yes... no... maybe.
Him: how does this conversation make you feel?
Her: sad... happy... angry... actually, none of those.

[@culture88]

she's an aries :)) we the best music

[@kavithamanoharan7692]

You sound like her now.

[@powerboatguy2308]

@@kavithamanoharan7692 Why thank you. ♥

[@noahkelly3212]

I went to elementary school with her and was surprised to see her on my TH-cam feed lol. As hilarious as I remember! Great video and glad to see she’s doing well.

[@TianTianPeng]

hahahahaha cool!

[@SUZSMITH]

She’s awesome

[@Kveldred]

​@@thom7440 Take a guess! I'm sending you the answer psychically right now.

[@cassandro9445]

​@@thom7440🙄💀

[@oldkingcrow777]

​@@thom7440maybe.... shartymarty? 😂

[@tristanmoller9498]

I think what’s so lovable about her is how genuine she is. Feels like she’s comfortable and keeping it real right from the start. No persona to be nice or to impress for an interview, just herself and it’s more than enough.

[@JoeyBoBoey]

Really? Because I have this strange feeling that an ugly dude giving the same statements wouldn’t have garnered a video, let alone gotten your click, let alone kept you engaged for 3+ mins… Let alone gotten a compliment from you.

[@johnp.johnson1541]

Yes, she is entirely comfortable with herself that she needs a therapist to manipulate her mind, letting the therapist define her being.

[@D.A.OhK.]

@@johnp.johnson1541 LOL. Anti-therapy cynics have all the anwers!

[@johnp.johnson1541]

​@@D.A.OhK. LOLZ.
People who seek therapy:
WAAAAAAAA! I''m too lazy to think for myself. I am too lazy to put into effort into building up my character. Can't I buy a better persona, you know like I can with make-up and clothing? Don't you have a magic pill or magic incantation that can make me a more-liked, popular person?
Good luck!

[@pinchebruha405]

She is so naturally pretty too, what a joy to see a young lady not covered in goo and fakery

[@ExitB]

I applaud her being decisively indecisive.

[@CR-yn5sy]

Typical pisces

[@publicalias8172]

@@CR-yn5sy Lmao that's sucha thing to say.

[@jimreadey4837]

I TOTALLY 100% agree!!! Well... actually, maybe not, 'cuz, I dunno, I might not... you know what I mean...?

[@stumpdintallekt397]

She makes a statement then she picks it apart, evaluates it’s accuracy, relativizes it, dismantles it, and then at the end reassembles it again, but partially only.

[@jimreadey4837]

@@stumpdintallekt397 She's a natural deconstructionist.

[@rebecca_stone]

She's so cute and totally in the moment. She's not trying hard to be anything. Wholesome but wacky, awkward but confident... she's like one of those eclectic outfits where you throw together a like a bunch of pieces of clothing and accessories that don't actually go together but it works, and catches people's eye. And so naturally pretty. What a great video capture of a loveable human's personality in just 10mins.

[@TianTianPeng]

exactly hahaha it's so nice

[@XX-mw5fh]

Ga ga goo goo. "I'm great....I have a lot of of improvements... I made myself available..I used to overshare, not I don't share..." This poor girl is struggling with mental illness, clearly. If you find this girl "cute" and "wacky" ask yourself WHY. Would you be so charmed if she were ugly, overweight and 50? Honestly? I doubt you would find as much time for rambling 60-year-olds. You are dominated by the visual.

[@guzelfetkulina9599]

Yep. Thats called effortlessly charismatic. A very rare God given talent, though

[@IrregularrAF]

lol tbh her outfit is mental asylum level, and so is her personality. you're able to ignore all of this because guess what, she's pretty.

[@livingaktive]

I like her a lot. I’ve seen this clips on all my socials and she makes me reflect on my own issues every time. We all have these thoughts and feelings, she just shares hers. Self love and kindness is everything.

[@RichardNikolas]

She is so beautifully chaotic, this was a BLAST to watch 😂😂

[@stevefreeman6646]

Behold! Woman! 🤣

[@CSAcrazy]

This is called “mentally and emotionally unbalanced” yes we as men are attracted to it, even if it leads to our destruction and causes misery throughout the whole process. When we like it and think it’s charming it’s usually an indicator that we are mentally unhealthy as well.

[@keroloswasseforjustkero4680]

U just messed up my brain 😅

[@hereter3546]

"Beautifully chaotic" - this expression makes no sense... Read more books and learn how to write. I don't understand why are there so many stupid comments on youtube. She's just hot and beautiful.

[@lakecityransom]

​@@hereter3546weak criticism

[@PassiveFIRE]

Very rare to see a person so genuinely open and real about who they are. Love that she's already learned so many lessons and grown so much more than she realises. Probably the most wholesome conversation I've seen all year, probably years. A beautiful rare star.
#CelebratingRabbitBrushing

[@xenonmob]

it’s clearly scripted just to elicit this type of response

[@xenonmob]

lmao what is she wearing

[@a320nick]

@Passive FIRE Yes, yes exactly!

[@a320nick]

​@@xenonmobI strongly disagree!

[@bevrosity]

years? I'm sorry

[@Swecan76]

She's so lovable. Beautiful, charming, feminine. A little bit of wackiness.

[@rickyayy]

The perfect combination

[@12onin_Gypsy]

Little bit? 😂😂😂

[@raymondbrown940]

She is absolutely adorable, drop dead gorgeous, and would make millions if she started a TH-cam channel where she just talked! She's mesmerizing. I can't stop watching her. :)

[@SuperOttoify]

I love her "decisive-undecisiveness" :D. She's energetic.

[@guitarforumdude]

Eric, you need to do a 1 year follow up interview. She's so endearingly honest, and funny. Subbed!

[@lonestarr1490]

Yeah, man's gotta walk up and down NYC in the hope of ever finding her again. There are certainly worse ventures to spend your time on, albeit probably more auspicious.

[@justinsixx90]

If you see her again tell her i need her digits lol!

[@voyyez9956]

@@justinsixx90 you think ur the one of 700k viewers that she'll give her digits, Eric, if you see her again tell her i need her digits lol!

[@guitarforumdude]

@@lonestarr1490 her IG tag is literally in the video. I even found it.

[@BrianGreene-rn9uz]

@@justinsixx90 she is 22 years old, attractive and confident and still goes to a therapist. If that isn't a massive red flag then I don't know what is. She is a me, me, me narcissist.

[@petervadiveloospercussione8231]

Great interview. This should be a great 'time capsule' interview in 50 years as an example of how young women were (spoke, thought, felt) in the early 2020's in NYC. I imagine people 50 years in the future will absolutely love this.

[@user-om7re8gx4n]

Yesss

[@vayalavaina]

Such a funny girl. I never get tired of watching this video. All what she says come straight from her heart. RESPECT!!

[@thecityman1910]

I really hope she has found this video and sees how much people love her. I sure do!

[@JohnDoe-ve1pl]

But then she will have some ego issues to unpack with her therapist! Better she just goes on as is, with ignorance of other’s opinions.

[@thecityman1910]

@@JohnDoe-ve1pl I think you are 100% right about that! Unfortunately, we are too late. ha. I did a little (harmless) cyber stalking and saw she had posted this video (and therefore the related comments) on one of her social media platforms (forget which one). So yea, by now she may well be dealing with ego issues. haha Hope not!

[@petersherwood5887]

@@JohnDoe-ve1pl Well said! And yet…

[@BadMannerKorea]

You can't possibly love someone who talks for slightly over 10 minutes.

[@roydondsa]

I don't

[@eto2352]

"I had to grow up so I changed my name to ShartyMarty." This girl is a legend.

[@wheninroamful]

That part made me smile for sure. What a babe and indeed, super funny.

[@happycamper8707]

😅😅😅 that was not lost on me.

[@petersherwood5887]

Caught here is a perfect moment in time when all Martha's stars came down to twinkle together for us. May the passing of the years never fade her guiless essence poured forth.

[@RadioPsychicAstrologyByPepper]

I love your writing and your perspective…. I wish I could look at my own youthful self with even a smidgen of such appreciation and kindness but I know somewhere between my authentic self and keeping myself from making more waves I never intended… ugh I bought the hype of similar critiques to some here and now I am realizing that when I didn’t filter myself etc. my candor and authenticity served as a great way of repelling the people I wasn’t going to want to share any part of my existence with in the first place and I never really miss these unsolicited critics who were trying to smother my light under a bushel. ❤

[@petersherwood5887]

@@RadioPsychicAstrologyByPepper Thanks for the kind reply, Pepper, and the little glimpse into something of your thoughtscape. Grace to you!

[@bretthoffman2128]

Sharty Marty is very Expressive, with her eyes and facial expressions.
Love how She Gives a Show at the End.

[@deependguitar777]

She is freaking awesome!!!! Love her bantering!!!! Cracks me up!!!! Wishing this hilarious and beautiful lady well.

[@anonymoushippopotamus3862]

The most normal woman on the internet. This folks is what a real person looks and sounds like.

[@mitchell7144]

100 %

[@skumflum3768]

She has ADHD for sure but that’s 6-10% of the population so it’s normal I guess

[@KingJT80]

@@skumflum3768 ADHD maybe but she can focus on the convo and not trail off too far. she might just be quirky

[@johnp.johnson1541]

She is normal for these times, as she seems to be the typically mentally undeveloped, damaged individual.
In another time, these people were normal.
James Monroe, 18
Aaron Burr, 20
Alexander Hamilton, 21
James Madison, 25
Their time was 1776.
In her time, Mary Shelley was 21 when she wrote "Frankenstein."

[@KingJT80]

@@johnp.johnson1541 most people from the times of those days could barely read and write unless you had some type of wealth in your family.
shes being a typical quirky girl. nothing wrong with that.

[@JackNorthrup]

She is adorable, absolutely adorable. One of the best street interviews I have watched.

[@tomcoryell]

What a lovely, honest, funny girl. I just love her smile and attitude.

[@michaelsorrentino3346]

She’s really cool!! When I lived in NYC in the 90’s this is the exact type of person I wanted to hang out with- “she’s got it”. Fun and genuine and smart. I hope she makes the best memories in NYC

[@RobbsHomemadeLife]

She makes me smile. Listening to her makes me feel young again. I hope all her dreams come true.

[@MrBrownpotato]

May your dreams come true

[@arconeagain]

She was diagnosed with terminal cancer 18 months after this interview.

[@grahamkey8496]

@@arconeagain what is wrong with you?

[@arconeagain]

@@grahamkey8496 nothing, I was talking about her.

[@gutyourtrust]

@@arconeagain but what you were really saying is "i want attention"

[@DavidAugustine-lc4cj]

I love this woman! Beautiful AND quirky! Women don't get more lovely than this!❤😍

[@Clairecanada98]

She is not beautiful omg 😂

[@TamTranTriZzle]

Dunno how this popped up in my feed, but 20 seconds in, and I'm in love. I need to fnd this woman now. I'm driving 6 hours to NY, and will drive around witrh my windows down yelling "Sharrrttyyy Maarrrtttyyy!!!" "Donde esta!! Donde esta!!! Donde estas chica!!!!"

[@BillyJoeJimBob28]

A lil stalkish there fella. You do have her insta.. 🤔

[@wallygoots]

My ADHD was like "long lost sister!" Her stream of consciousness, positivity, and evident growth as a person is so great! Rock on ShartyMarty! You seem like a delightful human; the kind of soul I want in my circle.

[@sarahselway9341]

💯💯 adhd sis to the max. Love her

[@neithere]

Same :)

[@enriquelunaart]

haha bingo! My brain feels at home with her responses! lololol

[@nicka731]

ADHD is fake

[@menamgamg]

I wish i could be like this because my brain is just like this, but i was always kind of suffocated by my social anxiety and learned to very cautiously choose my words because of people around me judging me whenever i was relaxed and myself let out whatever weird shit i was thinking.

[@markshaz8691]

She’s adorable, absolutely love her honesty and openness.

[@MichaelTurvey1979]

She seems like she’s also the sweetest girl in NYC. Her personality was equally wholesome and genuine with just the right amount of chaos to keep her unique and interesting.

[@falconeaterf15]

She needs to be a guest star on Curb Your Enthusiasm.
Hehe.

[@SingleTrackMined]

She sees all 3 sides of every issue. Wonderful interview.

[@johnp.johnson1541]

So she sees only half then.

[@SingleTrackMined]

@@johnp.johnson1541 What's the matter? Aneurysm?

[@johnp.johnson1541]

@@SingleTrackMined Someone between us suffers from brain damage, but that one is not me.
Good luck!

[@commodorejones8044]

@@johnp.johnson1541 This whole interaction confused me.

[@johnp.johnson1541]

@@commodorejones8044 Odd it has been.

[@loveinthematrix]

She is very much female lead of a drama comedy tv show, Fleabag- energy. I’d love to see how she approaches life closer to her 30’s. The 20’s can be brutal, at least they were for me. Wild!

[@bluemountainw1789]

She’s not in her 30s??

[@jiauyjiauy3777]

​@@bluemountainw1789she said she was 22

[@chickenwings273]

​@@bluemountainw1789did u not watch the video lmao

[@tsubadaikhan6332]

Good on her though. If you don't work out your shit in your 20's you're pretty much stuck with those issues forever.

[@loveinthematrix]

That's like saying if you don't stop drinking alcohol in your 20's you'll never stop drinking - I think if you go to therapy and take responsibility for your issues you can heal at any age. It's definitely harder to change as people get older though@@tsubadaikhan6332

[@markgreenhalgh943]

What a spirit...booming soul. Rare catch, great find. We must praise and capsulate this lace laden beauty. It's like she just came out of the woods from the 60s.

[@themobileman6895]

This girl is an absolute delight!!😀💗

[@briansymmes7917]

If I had met this girl when I was her age I would have been hopelessly in love with her, and she’s way out my league. Coolest girl ever.

[@dsoundso]

And she wouldn’t really now what do do with that love for her so you keep wondering if something would lead up to something and in the end you stay as friends - kind of

[@frankwest911]

Did you mean to say that you're way out of her league?

[@SCharlesDennicon]

If she's as chaotically and funnily cool as she looks, who knows, maybe she wouldn't think you're out of her league. She may be the kind of beautiful girls whose boyfriends/husbands spend their lives thinking their pairing is some sort of misunderstanding (but it's not).

[@cornelisverhoef9282]

@@frankwest911 I think he did.

[@TroisKayas]

I've never thought anyone was out of my league.

[@charliehayward2512]

"If there's a spark,then we'll unpack" 😅 Martha,you are hypnotic ! And gorgeous. Eric,well done for finding this gem of a girl.....more reports on her,please 😊

[@guusless]

th-cam.com/video/J-QaIO0YPTQ/w-d-xo.htmlsi=4AcnpTMr7G0GllTw got two of her records, new album is out soon

[@bullemay04]

That was the most refreshing interview I saw in quite a while! Thank you for sharing your thoughts! You are great!

[@jessie_jess_]

She thinks out loud. It's awesome! We can literally hear her entire thought process. I think she might be an enfp personality type

[@itzzara_6985]

really?? i was kinda thinking entp, i kinda feel shes so similar to me and im entp

[@khplaylistyt9729]

​@@itzzara_6985I know someone the same and she's an intj but Aries moon tho

[@itzzara_6985]

@@khplaylistyt9729 turns out im actually an intj lol, i took the test professionally so yh

[@jamilamohammed1736]

I was thinking a budding Infj, just not fully developed yet, maybe? I’m not sure.

[@sophii.r]

@@jamilamohammed1736yeah I agree.. also not all infjs are rigid. I’m an infj and I’m feel impulsive a lot and restless. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@STANNY8]

Not gonna lie, Martha just captivated me in a way nobody ever has. She's clearly beautiful, but also her character, her rambling, her humour. Interesting Characters like this should be the centre of reality TV shows, not the damn Kardashians!

[@goodolarchie]

I love the confident energy here. Self awareness in real time. The self-hating narcissism. She would make a good stand up comic.

[@nicbarth3838]

Self hating narc would usually be of the covert kind. Overt narcs tend to lack the shame necessary or the self awareness of the existence of shame, usually tho the coverts have self awareness and better capacity for shame. One type hates themselves while the other type loves themselves but on the outside both appear to love themselves.

[@NewsGuyFred]

I love her energy. It’s decisively indecisive. She’s confident in what her problems are and what are good attributes and has a general idea of what she wants but when she has trouble explaining, she quickly looks to correct herself. She has no shame in correcting herself nor any shame poking fun at herself nor any shame complimenting herself.
An “overly confident” person is often a narcissist and doesn’t like to admit when they are wrong. IMO, those people aren’t actually confident but pretend to be. This woman has the confidence I wish to have - no your problems, be okay with them while addressing them, know your good traits, and be honest in life

[@MrSkme]

People seem to casually fling around the word narcissism these days like they have no idea what it means.

[@itskarl79]

Oh, get off the narcissism, it’s like the new N-word in America.

[@themaggattack]

​@@nicbarth3838 ALL people with NPD are self-hating.
Self hatred (and the refusal/pathological inability to ever get past the fear and insecurity of that) is the baseline of what NPD is.
Grandiose narcs are only masking their deep seated self hatred with big, smoke-and-mirror shows of hyper-competitiveness. They smother you with their (fake) sense of high self esteem.
Covert narcs, on the other hand, smother you with their (real, but exaggerated for effect) sense of low self esteem.
Grandiose narcs manipulate by pitying you. Covert narcs manipulate by getting you to pity them.
Many narcs vacillate between BOTH grandiose AND covert. Those are the most destructive narcs of all.
Idk this woman and I wouldn't make any assumptions just based on this one video.

[@rizzexponential]

1:00 that awkward laugh… I lost it 🤣

[@4thorder]

What an amazing interview and amazing person! Very refreshing to see someone just being who they are and lovely at that.

[@nicholas23nyc]

If she had her own channel I'd never stop watching it

[@mhill88ify]

I don't think I'd watch it more than 5 minutes.

[@steveroman3729]

Get a therapist.

[@hamzamalik9705]

@@mhill88ify your that guy huh ?

[@mhill88ify]

@@hamzamalik9705 If you mean "Not dazzled by slightly above mid-looking psuedo-inellectual chick rambling on for several minutes chaotically"....then yeah, guess I am. I don't know, I talk to women all the time though.

[@derfelcadarn8230]

@@hamzamalik9705 yes, he is definitely that kind of guy

[@Dropthebeatonit]

maybe people don't notice it cos she's so fascinating, but the cuts, and the zooms and the camera work are s e a m l e s s . well done Eric. you are a talented man. thank you for having the curiosity and the gumption to bring little miracles of the world out of their hiding place. and into the ether for us all to see. i salute you sir.

[@bprandomised4011]

I didn’t even notice it. Watching back made me realise how smooth it is.

[@nikosurina3613]

@@bprandomised4011 Were you high when u find out?

[@BruisedReedofTas]

I think they're annoyingly distracting

[@carla9368]

I needed to know that making yourself laugh more than anyone else does was not a strange thing, she is so relatable in many ways I hope she finds that happiness.

[@ulrichschluter9120]

She could be a great character actor. So sweet.

[@SeanHung83]

You give her couple questions and she takes it from there. Lol

[@EricJeng]

Lol exactly. Makes my job easy 😄

[@jorejaha]

@@EricJeng update?

[@notsoeloquent]

​@@jorejaha They did not have sex.

[@SireCs133]

@@notsoeloquent😂😂😂😂

[@amyshaw444]

​@@notsoeloquent😅😅

[@user-ut4zw6so6o]

I hope she saves this for when she’s old. How fascinating to have a record of your wonderfulness as a young person.

[@MrDewdad]

Her entire interview was riveting because of her cuteness, authenticity and humour, but the the end with "My name is Martha, and the batting of the eyelashes was perfect" Hollywood, your next sitcom is called "Martha".

[@mingzhangli]

This is literaly a video that made me feel in love for 10 mins. She's so funny.

[@Podobed]

She's so refreshingly beautiful, and not in a shallow looks sense. For this brief 10 minutes, she restored hope in humanity for me.

[@THEpopelonergan]

Chill out.

[@Leprutz]

She looks good cause she looks natural. She hasn't done anything to her yet. No lip job, no dumb fingernails. No huge tits, not full of make up. Even her teeth are not a 100% straight, which makes her look like a real human being.

[@gutyourtrust]

@@THEpopelonergan wut?

[@VGDomination]

She still cheats on men she dates.

[@filippomynot7278]

I feel like she could be my soul mate, but I'm from Argentina so forget it about it

[@jeanniecollard2406]

Oh my word, she is adorable!! Young lady, you are a breath of fresh air. Never change who you are. The world needs more ppl like us. I only stepped into my nutty personality at the age of 51, where i finally had the courage to be unapologetically me. Here you are, 22 years old, and already embracing all of you...well done!! So keep being as nutty and free and funny as you are, ShartyMarty!

[@frankiemolinelli]

"I feel like a lot of people want to hang out all the time...and I'm like why?! Go hang out by yourself"
I have this same thought everyday lol. This was fun to watch! Great editing as well!

[@alycran]

“No one makes me laugh like I make myself laugh”😂

[@jiminycriket]

This girl's got RIZZ. 😎 And she doesn't seem to be trying, or even AWARE of it!
You wanna date, marry, drink, get arrested and hang out with her all at once! 😂

[@guzelfetkulina9599]

Lol😊

[@guillermone1]

SHE IS SO AWESOME....!!!!
I love her.....!!!!
It surprising this video didn't go viral....
Calling her "The funniest Girl in NYC" is an understatement.

[@DuDu5102010]

I feel soooo related to her!!! Authentic and fearless personality!

[@benpyne1228]

Shart Marty should be on a TV show or in movies in theatres RIGHT NOW! 😂🤗👍

[@Clairecanada98]

No

[@kratos_pt1121]

She really is my kind of woman. Complex, likeable and funny, we would never get bored together. This was lovely, thanks.

[@briankenny6883]

Eric,…this was brilliant. Made me laugh. She is like a modern day Anne Hall. The bit about her therapist was absolutely hilarious. Great stuff! All the best, Marty!

[@theb33f45]

she 22 and more genuine than 95% of the female population

[@Kuiugcz2]

Excuse me? She is not even beautiful and smart.

[@guzelfetkulina9599]

So chaotic, yet adorable. Everyone needs Sharty Marty for entertainment in their lives😊

[@allysoncheynes1216]

I really enjoyed this video. She's beautiful inside and outside. What a special human, more special than she believes. I pray that she finds true love and has a long and happy life.

[@Ladiezmann-217]

she‘s just so genuinely kind and comfortable

[@phatjones6263]

I stumbled on this video by accident and she has the same birthday as my daughter, crazy...and she is eerily similar to her as well...loved it! A very refreshing personality...thanks for stopping to talk and making this video...peace

[@meredithmarek1]

She’s absolutely wonderful!

[@sydneyarbor1]

Thanks for posting the whole interview. I'd only seen the shorts, so this puts her more in context. I hope she finds what she wants. And I'm glad she doesn't overshare like she used to!

[@rickduque5799]

The part where she said "I made myself available to everyone, but now I'm like .. F-you", really hit home for me. I'm always saying yes to everything.
Learning a lot from this girl !

[@miahconnell23]

Being overly inclined to “be there” for others-especially if it’s costly to yourself (& what you need to do) could be a trauma response. (*please note, I said “might be,” and not “100% always is)

[@DarkGloComics]

@@miahconnell23 it could also just be ADHD. Which comes with a lot more issues. (I have ADHD)

[@miahconnell23]

@@DarkGloComics any radical changes with meds ?

[@DarkGloComics]

@@miahconnell23 short answer: yes. But at first, after the first few ADHD mistakes you make, you may think it’s not. But after those first 30 days, during the few days between scripts, and then when you get a refill you will *really* notice.
It’s all about expectations. It’s just meant to slow down your thinking and allow you to stick to the moment. GET THERAPY. Get a few wall clocks and maybe. Timer to just run while you shower. Everything needs to be in your line of sight. Keep keys, wallet and daily items handy in a container where you can see it. Everything is on a delay. Especially your emotions. I have more tips.
I pray dearly that if you are on the fence and you do decide to take them-that you are the rare one to have 100% symptom suppression.

[@miahconnell23]

@@DarkGloComics Thank you for your candor & willingness to share. I’m going to look for a chemical testing lab because I had BRILLIANT success with ADHD meds fixing my “non-24 never ever ever could sleep-cycle the way most ppl do” PLUS I started getting tasks DONE (not soley creating “to do” lists on random junk-mail envelopes). But then i noticed some capsules missing, and some capsules tampered with, and things have not been as successful since then 😓😡🤷‍♀️

[@jeffprui]

Wonderful interview. Thanks for sharing!!! Hey, I was in her Vineyard! And I met her twin or little sister in Carson City, NV. Small world. #ilovekindpeople

[@wai701b6]

We need an update on Sharty Marty.

[@iam0verl0rd63]

My God! She's like, so real! People have a lot more to give when they're at the point of not giving two sh!ts anymore. Her honesty is much appreciated.

[@TrickyRicky747]

This National treasure is a thinking man’s beauty. Spontaneous, then rethinks, corrects and can laugh at herself. Having a coffee with her would be like riding a unicorn. Unforgettable and no one would ever believe you. Great job by the interviewer to choose her and get her to open up. Love her unconditionally, cherish her, make her laugh (not cry) and everyday together would be your reward. Wish you well, Marty and hope to hear more from you. 💕

[@Temosha87]

I think she's already drunk a lot of coffee. Charming and very energetic.😁

[@kevinmsmith56]

She's like a scarier, more disturbed version of Amanda Peet

[@mluisaairacatolica]

All the comments already say so much about this lovely girl, but that ending! So romantic! They complement each other so well. He asks - gets silence and listens - and she talks, and he seems secretly in awe! I wish they could get together!

[@Cissyslit]

It’s hilarious to watch someone work out their thoughts verbally. I do this frequently and it makes me chuckle 😂

[@kyhxx]

. etc sh gt bg blls. did it casually in mid .f street wth no 2nd guessing. l°l truly bizarre’

[@tilu3303]

Same - I call it whiteboarding because it's like putting everything out there to sift down to what I really want to rise to the top.

[@RandomUser25122]

She likes talking and she’s breathtakingly honest. We need more of her.
Lists 20+ ideal things an ideal partner a house be “that’s enough”. And then goes on to list a dozen more things 😂 Life with her would be so funny and never a dull moment, I’m sure.

[@Ozow1234]

As a guy who struggles with trust issues I LOVE HER

[@REM1956]

What an attractive girl. She wasn't afraid to lay it out in her sassy, but smart way. She'd be fun to spend time with and talk to. The great questions gave her space to let her guard down and talk off the top of her head. At only age 22 she's made great strides in understanding herself. Would be very cool to see you interview her again sometime. Good job.

[@ilikerealmaplesyrup]

I watch this every couple of months. I pretend I am on a long on a long flight with my book out; sipping on a tonic. Then she sets right beside me.

[@essahsaeidi5543]

martha's vibe and attitude is very relatable but also she is funny in a way that is actually kinda healthy, which is awesome

[@susanplove]

I just came from another street interview show with Miami locals. What a difference in vibe. Lol I love New Yorkers. Yessssss! She’s so New York or the type that NYC attracts. Quirky, stylish, creative, intellectuals who go to therapy!! I miss NYC! ❤❤❤ I hope she writes and pursues standup. She’s so funny! 🥰

[@ferrellslim]

The shitting the pants on the swing is legend af.

[@jestersdead1582]

At 22 you got years to "figure it out" Im 59 and still working on my shit...

[@mikem3789]

She’s ‘made in NY’ and it’s clear from the comments here, she has a fan following. She seems a perfect blend/combination of bff/‘girl next door’/sister/mischief maker/funny comedian/jokester. 😊 Most seem happy to have had the chance to meet her, briefly, in this informal internet interview setting. Cool channel, sharing short stories/human stories. 🙂

[@slicklol]

It’s more so because he released her interview in short form before and people really enjoyed it.

[@johnp.johnson1541]

Four in 10 residents of NYC are foreigners. This girl is nothing like them.
She is a wreck at 22. She said nothing humorous. She revealed herself to be a mess of a mind.

[@switch12345678]

she mumbles a little. is that a slang from somewhere?

[@johnp.johnson1541]

@@switch12345678 Druggy, likely. She seems to be a Long Island Jew.

[@nicka731]

She’s cute. That’s it. Otherwise literally no on would even give her a first glance

[@TimGriggsgallery]

I like your interview style, Eric. You've got a light touch, patients and no particular agenda other than to invite people to share their humanity with us in their own terms and rhythms and inflections and you're able to remain centered and still and let them. And that is a gift. It's kind of a talent. I hope you re-interview many of the people you meet. I think more than just the sum of their stories and opinions and hopes and fears might manifest. We might find some become poets; others might become poems.

[@pills2749]

"...cause we're not gonna get along...WE ARE GOING to get along..." LOL!! Soo good!! Giver this woman her own podcast...just a mic and let it go!

[@charlielynes]

Pure dynamite personality... exudes chaotic charisma.
A joy to view this video.
☮️💚🙏

[@ricksterp4378]

This was one of the most brilliant and amazing interviews I’ve listened to. She is so energized and real. She fears no one’s opinion. And that’s the way ot should be I wish I knew myself that well at 22. She will find a spectacular man who will complement her totally.

[@richcole3931]

well said!

[@kyhxx]

. etc sh is born on march20. insane luck no wondr sh is so fun^

[@MariamMariam-ue7vz]

@@kyhxxwhat’s lucky about a March 20 bday?

[@plica06]

She is so utterly self absorbed no spectacular man would want anything to do with her.

[@JB-is4gt]

Wow you got so much from this that wasn’t there 😂 she’s cute and charming but you sound like a horny old dude lmao

[@AGamersWorld1993]

Him: do you like cheeseburgers?
Her: yes... no... maybe.
Him: how does this conversation make you feel?
Her: sad... happy... angry... actually, none of those.

[@jeh966]

Crazy how much one Person can talk

[@sapodilla25]

You really liked her didn't you 😂
She's definitely the funniest girl. I need her as my best friend asap.

[@deepblue69uk]

I think we would all like to have someone like her in our lives, as a friend or a lover. Simply because, she's so genuine and open. People like this are indeed rare. Best of luck to her!

[@johnp.johnson1541]

Her mind meanders worse than the Sacramento River.

[@klundyates1]

Thank you for saying this, throughout I felt like oh wow this girl is me if I'd started therapy 10 years earlier 😅 because we're "so rare" we don't find many other people like us, and it can feel quite isolating. It's lovely to read that actually people like how different we are, and that I shouldn't hide that bit of me just cause I'm an adult 💚

[@deepblue69uk]

Well I didn't expect the personable reply. Says alot about you Kat. We live in a fairly conformist world at the moment and people are often afraid of things that seem different. Variety makes life interesting. Or as a long dead family member was renowned to say in a Northam English accent, "There's nowt queerer than folk." meant in the old meaning of the word.

[@johnp.johnson1541]

@@deepblue69uk Conformity is a feature human nature. Men have been writing about this since men could write.
Lao-tze will tell you so if you bother to read the work attributed to him, the Tao Te Ching (~ 400 B.C.). And writing extends far before that date.
Most are conformists. Most will be. So the notion of "at the moment" is false.

[@deepblue69uk]

@@johnp.johnson1541 I'm afraid I cannot agree. Whilst we do bind into tribes and similar culture you do get a certain amount of diversity within those groups. Not everyone likes the same music/fashion/hobbies/beliefs...etc. Conformity of thought, styles, behaviour, fashion etc do vary over time. So I think so say that it's entirely false, perhaps, misses the point I was trying to make. However, happy to agree to disagree.

[@shahani6037]

She's definitely traumatized by her previous relationship like me 😂😌 i sound like her. She sounds like me. 😌😂

[@nutsbutdum]

She's so effortlessly cool and she doesn't even know it.

[@melekaktepe2554]

This is, and forever will be, the best/funniest/quirkiest street interview I ever watched. 🤣Legend🙌🏼

[@stevekravcik609]

Genuine, engaging, funny, personable...a lot of great adjectives for this young lady. Loved this. Thank you.

[@T.R.75]

"i think im pretty tolerable" hahaha. i like it.

[@hoser7706]

I LOVE this girl. Metaphorically speaking. We should all be so lucky to have someone this real, funny, goofy, homest and inciteful in our lives. She makes me laugh and seems sooo nice/fun/funny. How can you not like someone this decisive/indecisive that challenges their own statements!? ❤😂. Like was any of this scripted? It is so comdeically genuine and captivating!

[@RJasonKlein]

I would have loved to have met this girl when I was 22, and I would have treasured her - she’s really great!

[@alistairproductions]

Find her now

[@latinboy906]

You would have been sick of her by the time you were 25.

[@saintadolf5639]

​@latinboy906 No way. Who wants cookie cutter normal?? She is a keeper.

[@henri6595]

This girl is great!