apparently there is a point where the atlantic and pacific oceans meet but don’t mix. similarly, instagram reels is where the humor of boomers who are tired of facebook meets the younger generations and definitely does not mix
not to be the embodiment of 🤓☝️ but misinformation hurts me lmaoo. the oceans actually do mix, and currents flow between them all the time. the videos you're probably referring to (the viral one with the waters two different colours and fake caption) are actually from just off of canada iirc where glacier freshwater that's rich in sediment (the light body of water) meets the saltwater of the ocean (the dark body of water). basically they were not of the atlantic/pacific but still a cool phenomenon!! :D
@@AnnamarieForcino omg mother has noticed me but basically it's parents posting a reel of their child who passed due to fentanyl and they ALWAYS show the funeral photos when the beat drops to a skrillex song or some shit
I will say the post about dating a “boring man” actually hit home for me. I think what she is describing definitely could relate to modern dating, but I think what she’s getting at is trauma cycles. Where you constantly put yourself back into chaotic relationships because that is your normal. Your body is used to the chaos of things like abuse, and so you keep going back even though it is detrimental. So when you find someone who isn’t chaotic, your brain can start telling you the person is “boring” and so you break up or self sabotage the relationship because feeling safe feels wrong. Or like you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop. I actually really liked the post.
I also think it was really telling that she made sure to put every instance of the word "boring" in quotation marks as a way to show the difference between what someone's perception might be who is stuck in that cycle, versus what reality is. I really don't think it came off as passive aggressive or mean.
I was looking for someone to say something positive about that one! I've heard the same thing from therapists when they tallk about people with trauma. You tend to gravitate toward what's familiar to you, and that can be dangerous or unhealthy relationships. I agree with you; I don't think it was passive aggressive. She was calling her husband a safe space and a comfort for her.
I had a feeling this was the case, since this definitely hit home for me 😅My first two relationships, while not abusive or toxic, were FULL of intense feelings (which proved quite detrimental in my second relationship). Then I met my current GF and she was the exact opposite of everything I'd come to understand as 'normal' No yelling, no getting passive aggressive like my family often did; just pure culture shock. But because my feelings of love and admiration for her are quite different from my previous relationships, I often worry that I'm not actually 'in love' with her and at that point, I kind of have to present proof to my chaos obsessed brain 😅
Also i think some people feel like they are settling for “boring” when they are transitioning in life, like out of college. Feeling bored isn’t bad, it can be safe
I actually do know two grown divorced men and single fathers (as in, full time custody) of four total daughters, and they are completely 100% straight men. They actually are best friends who got divorced under painful circumstances years apart, resulting in the one guy having to sell his house. So he moved in with his best friend. And their blended family of two straight bros and their four daughters is honestly so much more wholesome and healthy and happy than most “traditional” families I know. I eat Thanksgiving dinner with them every year lol.
I love that idea and how that family reinforced the notion that family is not defined by anyone else and just needs to serve the needs of its members by being kind to themselves and other family members and then turning that compassion out into the world.
this is honestly both so iconic and so wholesome! it really brings out the values of found family and how strong it can be. If they are making it work and having a good time and its so much better then their previous situations, that's such a huge win! I can only imagine how much happier the kids and the dads are in this situation. I'm so glad that you get to hang out with these guys and their family! that's so cool! I genuinely wish you and this beautiful family nothing but the best. that's so genuinely lovely and gave me a lot more hope in humanity. thank you for sharing!
20:26 i have a friend at college who comes to class every day in a full tailored suit (jacket, vest, tie, occasionally hats and WALKING STICKS) and he’s a legend
Yeah same here! Usually I push my boundaries and I am NOT SICK until my knees give out and I'm on the floor and I suddenly can't move properly and my neck starts twitching and I cry and cry and then I can't do anything for a week.
We need to bring back men just being men And by that I mean wearing copious amount of frills and ruffles and a little cravat and jacket I want more Alucard from Castlevania lookin' motherfuckers!
The mindset the first guy is describing is literally just describing the maladaptive coping mechanism present in compensatory grandiose narcissism lmaooooo
@@FundamentallyFlawedNarcissistic personality disorder is not that prevalent. People just call any and all shitty people narcissists now because they are ableist and calling someone a schizo is no longer as socially acceptable as they’d like it to be.
@@scarletgoldenthornnpd isn’t a disability, come on now 🙄 also you don’t have to have npd to have narcissistic traits, and people are allowed to be mad at narcissistic behaviour because it destroys lives and entire societies, literally all the time.
"i don't care if it gets in my eye" Miss, when you go blind in that eye and the doctor explains to your family how this happened, i think you might have second thoughts.
literally i got into an arguement w a woman bc i told her that she shouldnt use her disabled kids for content and make her kids disabilities about themself
@@felixitationsgod yes it’s so infuriating. Heaven forbid these parents listen to the community of adults that experience what their children will and represent the community that will rally around them and be their social support and more when said parents are gone and kiddo has support needs or isn’t able to be independent. I have a ton of good experiences with parents of kids and adults with developmental disabilities and more, just want to mention that too! But in any case this is so very much a problem in that community (parents of disabled children) and I hate how much they make into martyrs, don’t get me started on working for one of those families who intentionally went out do their way to hire naive survivors of their own traumas to take care of young adults with these support needs in a day program. God. I’ll stop. But I hate it.
i really heard “spitters are quitters” in the movie Heathers at age 14 and i was really like “yeah, good argument, i’ll believe this for the next 15 years before i learn to think for myself” 19:19 omg i was thinking you were going to say leave it back in 2014 but you said ten years ago…which was 2014 tooo, aaaaaaa
Haven’t watched the movie but I loooove the musical version of Heathers. Except for the dead girl walking scene. That will be burned into my mind for years to come.
@@CheeseThePurpleDragon i haven’t seen the musical!! i haven’t seen the movie in ages but i liked it when i did. loved winona ryder and christian slater in it
These posts are just dripping with caustic passive aggressive judgement. The kind that sounds confident on the surface but reveals a world of insecurities when given some thought. Except for the gothic phantom of the opera guy. He is amazing in every way. Absolutely magnificent.
I don't know if you'll read this, but your channel has given me a lot of laughs, and has been helping me cope as someone coming to terms with what my beliefs and values are. As a trans man who was raised in a very, VERY Christian home (think preacher's kid, not being allowed to watch "worldly" things like TH-cam), watching your videos has been a breath of fresh air. Thank you for helping me realise that I am not a bad person because I am not a Christian anymore :)
I've been a secular humanist for years, and I've encountered many people with straight-up PTSD from that type of upbringing. I can't even imagine what it must be like for a trans person. Please don't ever let anyone convince you that you're a bad or defective person for not adhering to antiquated beliefs. Just be the best person you can be and love yourself for who you are!
Sending you all the love and good vibes! Also had a similar upbringing and have come to realize I'm a lesbian. Also have found this channel to be helpful to me. Just remember that you're whole, beautiful, and being yourself could never be wrong.
sending you so much love, peace, and assurance within yourself 💞 i love this channel for basically the exact same reasons :) it’s so so tough, and little things like this help! i also love Rachel Oates’ channel if you’re looking for someone else !
Me that one time I was at my grandmas funeral and my creepy uncle told me I’d look prettier if I was smiling (I was nine.)(at the same funeral I did the whip and nay nay and posted it on musically)(it’s what grandma would’ve wanted)
I've also seen a lot of videos about the comments of instagram reels being extremely racist, homophobic, sexist, and every other form of discrimination you can think of, all on just some normal video of a kid who has a disability or something 😭
Ok so the dude with the reeses puffs feels like a soap opera because he picks scenes from k drama's and recreates them in the most emotionless way possible
man, the first one hit so hard. my mother had the same beliefs but in a religious way, and i didn't get the medical care i needed as a kid because it was... disrespectful to God... to "let" illness into your body...??????? and now i have to deal with chronic illness for the rest of my life lmao
The boring thing: That is why quotations were used and she explained they aren't actually boring. That was one of the only ones I agree with to some degree. Granted I have the security with the spark and not the chaos. 😂
As far as the “boring” reel, I don’t think she means it as there’s no spark. I think she means that some people are so used to the being treated badly (being left on read on hit up at the last minute instead of planning) that when someone is consistent and caring, it could be seen as boring. You can feel a spark with a “boring” person
I really liked that take about a safe "boring" guy. While yes, it may look belitting to call someone boring, i really think boring is exactly what i need. My last few relationship crashed and burned with me getting dumped in increasingly soul crushing ways. My current relationship is steady, safe, and has been for 3 long, happy years. My boyfriend is the calm to my neurotic, adhd, anxiety, and depressive episode riddled storm and i love him to bits for it. He completes me. Get you a partner that'll blush when you give them a squishmallow for Valentines day...and then play Doom Eternal with you for hours (we passed the controller back and forth). Or send you completely unhinged tik toks at three in the morning and is the sole reason you even open Tik Tok to begin with Or is willing to go along with and be just as excited about whatever weird niche you happen to be hyper fixating on at the moment, and is perfectly willing to listen to you ramble about slime rancher for hours
omg i met the "you raised one of the boys" truck girl on a cruise and she was WILD. she was complaining about people cancelling her for being racist or something it was so weird.
the "date the boring guy" speech has a point, however, boring isn't great either. an emphasis on stability is important to self reflect on for anyone trying to move away from bad past relationship habits/decisions/tendencies. thought it was kinda deep and hit different tbh
The first reel is so funny to me, because I spent the last 4 days sniffling and coughing and feeling like shit but repeatedly telling myself "No, I'm not sick" but since I wanted to leave the house tomorrow I did a corona test just to be safe, and you'll never guess what it said. Turns out a positive attitude can't beat a positive test result 🤡
I also, as an adult woman, do not have broken thingys, injured thingys, sick thingys or bad thingys and I do not give a poopyloopydookie. Slay. or whatever. XD
16:32 this one. I watched it on Chad Chad's channel (I would suggest all of you to watch it too) but basically he's a narcissistic egotistical ass, filming tiktoks about him defending these girls from bullies or him getting bullied (basic tiktok shit). And what is fascinating is that he also filmed that he accidentally pushed a girl and she drops something and when she approaches to pick it up he picks it and goes to smell her front side and she pushes him away. I know this didn't make any sense but honestly I too don't know what was the video about but that's exactly what was shown.
Thank you for making this video ! I've had asthma since I was a child but after I told my body I don't NOT consent to having asthma it stopped immediately! ❤
That "date the boring guy" lady is just someone who grew out of her wild phase, that's it. And she seems to think that's some kind of big eureka moment she needs to share and educate others about, as if the vast majority of people aren't going through it. 😂😂 Like literally, ya'll wait until you're in your 30s. You'll get it then. 😂
As a woman in my 30s, she’s talking about a history of traumatic relationships, not “wild” ones. She was probably raised by psychologically manipulative and unsupportive and abusive parents or came across all kinds of abuse in her early relationships, and soon after you come to terms with all of it, you are very grateful for how “boring” potential partners are.
Like… let’s not be misogynistic. It’s not a wild phase, is a “cognitive dissonance induced by the realization that the world is unsafe and you can’t know who could harm you.” LET ME BE SUPER CLEAR ABOUT THIS: We are SO DAMNED GRATEFUL for trustworthy, consistent, caring men with emotional intelligence, the motivation to divide labor equitably, an eye for the hurt of others, and more. PLZ BE THE EMOTIONALLY MATURE AND HEALTHY “BORING” GUY (Or gal or pal!) bc I would ADORE the opportunity to get to know you and see if our dreams and values match! Otherwise, you still have so much value and you should work on the dynamic that makes you unable to be that guy, because I also don’t want you to become jaded because it takes hurt and experience to understand how we tend to choose wrong partners for ourselves when we’ve had trauma and especially when it’s unresolved and untreated. CHOOSE THE BORING GIRL, TOO! We just need to prioritize the concept of dating to enjoy yourself and not put pressure on what it becomes or to make ourselves less lonely. I know from personal experience that loneliness by itself is very unlikely to kill you, and while that doesn’t do much for your state of being right now, it does suggest an end to that suffering and more importantly: a time in the future where your emotional maturity and frank conversations about who you have turned you into something you didn’t see coming: happiness and contentment. We’re all aiming for that, eh?
@@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533 As a woman in my 30s who didn't go through any of this to the point where it'd leave marks, I can tell you I feel the exact same way about my partners. And all that happened to me is that I grew older, wiser, out of my 20s and decided stability is more important to me in a relationship than adventure. I'm sorry you went through what you went through, but the plain truth is that the 20s are generally a person's second childhood. For most people, their 20s are the age where they discover all the joys of being an adult and they indulge in it as much as their situation allows. That includes experimenting with sexuality and relationships. This isn't misogyny, this is a fact that applies to the people of pretty much every stable country. Not everything is is a sob story. Some things can just come naturally without trauma having to beat a person there.
16:28 the love story of the peanut-butter chocolate combination. Not always getting along, but in the end seeing the spark deep within and coming together to form the perfect cereal. The enemies to lovers story we really need.
That guy just needs to change how he says he’s sick, so it’s not “self deprecating.” He’s not sick; he’s siiiiiIIIIICK, dawg. Yeah, it’s a dumb idea but not as dumb as that guy believing he can “The Secret” his way into being immune to broken bones, viruses, bodily dysfunction, and illness.
The bad boyfriend video honestly felt concerningly relatable, I am in no way diagnosing someone over the internet, but as someone with borderline personality disorder that is how I felt for a good few years, It's not a healthy attachment style and can be very frustrating and confusing and stressful, you want to be a good person and partner but you just find yourself clingy and freaking out over the smallest things, causing you to lash out, beat down on yourself, or try to control the situation. It can make you scared of even yourself. I was horrified of what I was becoming, I was scared I was becoming a bad person fundamentally. It's been years since I was diagnosed with BPD, I have been healing and learning how to cope with it, finding out what it was actually helped a lot with it. Though, I still have my issues of course, It's the ol' emotional dysregulation disorder after all. It is something that can cause a lot of issues with your relationships between friends, family, lovers, and change your view on yourself entirely. That video feels like a plea for help to me I suppose. Enough rambling though, I hope that man has genuine people in his life he can go to, and I do hope he sees a psychologist or therapist, to find out whatever he's experiencing even if it isn't BPD, I just know it hit a little too close to home personally. I supposed I wanted to talk about this since I didn't see anyone else talking about it.
Billionaire man’s advice is truly life changing 🤯‼️I started telling myself I no longer have Narcolepsy, and suddenly? I’m awake ❤🥹🕊️ I’m gonna try this with my Rheumatoid Arthritis too! I’ll let y’all know how it goes 😌 I can already feel my joints healing as I type 😽💞
the way i’m sitting here like “oh what? overly tanned girls with spider lashes in baseball hats, sitting in their trucks, rapping wouldn’t be that big in 2009” WHAT DO YOU MEAN 2014 WAS TEN YEARS AGO??
i’m late but i need u to know that the first sleep specialist i saw (for debilitating chronic fatigue) told me that i’d feel better “if i had a better attitude about it”
I'm so glad we've moved on from 'cringe' as a stand-in for the r-slur. It's so good to be able to watch an amalgamation of people making fools of themselves on the internet without interjected ableism.
In regards to the "boring guy" one, my partner and i refer both to ourselves and each other as "boring", because we bring each other peace and feel safe and secure. Boring, at least for me, was always my goal, meaning i dont have to be on constant fight-flight mode :) that being said, we do now have an ongoing joke about calling me an old lady, because i went out with a guy a few months ago that said i had the interests of an 80 year old (i wanted to play cards), and i got home and told my partner and he said "well. Hes not wrong", but he finds it a good thing, hence, we cant stop the joke now xD
insta recommended me the fuzzy jacket guy too! in the vid i saw, his jacket was pink and he said "if you believe in yourself, you'll grow. if you believe in shit, shit will grow." and i'll take that to my grave.
9:58 as a queer person myself i really feel the need to chip in that spitting is definitely worse than swallowing because it's permeating the rest of your mouth. like if u do it right when u swallow u dont even taste it
Omg all I’m going to say is that these instagram reels are honestly truly insane …. I think Instagram Reels has some funny stuff on it but the ones you’ve shown are beyond bizarre… Your commentary is as always hilarious and on point …. Sarcastic, spiky Anna Marie is one I’m always definitely on board with … also loving the checked shirt , wooly hat combo …
17:56 my exes mom in middle school called me clingy, and she was right. I had to reevaluate my whole life and start caring about myself first. Totally saved me. Him on the other hand.. he treats women like they’re trash and his mama never noticed, me and the mother of his child saw each other at a club and had a wonderful convo 😂
Where are y'all getting these unhinged Reels? Have I hacked the algorithm? Mine are like 90% cute animal videos (usually cats). Also (as a fellow homosexual, your assumption was correct) I love the beanie & flannel combo! You look great in the sapphic uniform.
9:11 when that gets in your eyes it HURTS!!!! Also that is someone else’s bodily fluid and should not go in your eyes at all. A lesson I learned a few times please don’t make that mistake
“I chose not to become a billionaire when I was younger and watched Annamarie Forcino when she stated that they didn’t like billionaires on her channel which is why I stay at 999,999,999 dollars” - Alice Ågren 1:20
21:12 I have around eleventyseven questions, like 1) where's your blurple coat from? b) are the boots snakeskin? 3) why you assaulting that poor gnome? Yknow? A woman has questions. ✨
It’s so funny watching the first clip and being sick with a cold. I also feel like knowing your sick and accepting that helps you takes steps to get better. Like sure I could pretend I’m not sick but that would only strain my voice more. Instead I’m chilling eating some warm soup to help me feel better. You gotta care for your body not fight against it ❤
I'm glad I'm not the only one who had this thought. Second I saw the guy I was like..."this looks like an Alucard cosplay." They did slay though. Edit: Managed to track down the reel and he is not a cosplayer! Just a Vamp Goth fashion enthusiast. Which, honestly, is even more of a slay.
It’s so hard for me to go on ig now because of how aggressive and cruel the commenters are. Not only that but they’re incredibly uninformed, toxic, and violent. From defending predators to being actual predators. It’s exauhsting
apparently there is a point where the atlantic and pacific oceans meet but don’t mix. similarly, instagram reels is where the humor of boomers who are tired of facebook meets the younger generations and definitely does not mix
this was a beautifully written comment
awww tysm
not to be the embodiment of 🤓☝️ but misinformation hurts me lmaoo. the oceans actually do mix, and currents flow between them all the time. the videos you're probably referring to (the viral one with the waters two different colours and fake caption) are actually from just off of canada iirc where glacier freshwater that's rich in sediment (the light body of water) meets the saltwater of the ocean (the dark body of water). basically they were not of the atlantic/pacific but still a cool phenomenon!! :D
They do mix. The only reason why there would be a visible line is because of differing temperatures and currents. But they definitely do mix.
Even if it’s not entirely accurate, the analogy still stands
also idk if you ever saw one but the "whoever sold my child fentanyl" reels are INSANEEE
the WHAT?
@@AnnamarieForcino omg mother has noticed me but basically it's parents posting a reel of their child who passed due to fentanyl and they ALWAYS show the funeral photos when the beat drops to a skrillex song or some shit
@@zenzen1308dude......what????????????
@@zenzen1308 huh??????????? LMFAOOOOOO
@@zenzen1308WHAT
First guy is me when I’m manic 🙏🏻🫶🏻
It's over when it hurts to swallow
This guy proposed like: "do you wanna do the marrige thingy?"
u wanna do the kiss thingie?@ohkaylalala
me proposing to my future husband 🏳🌈
@ohkaylalala Yeah sure, why not, it's simple I guess-
Man, as someone who's 31, and has chronic pain - I need to stop self deprecating. Apparently my doctors like wasting my time.
fr, just say you don’t have chronic pain, that’s how I cured my autism/j
@@PenneyLan same! just say "go away (insert thing you want to go away)" /j
@@lollia61 facts
so sorry, ashleigh....have you considered smiling? 😊
@@AnnamarieForcino gosh if I haven't heard that from so many guys 💀
I will say the post about dating a “boring man” actually hit home for me. I think what she is describing definitely could relate to modern dating, but I think what she’s getting at is trauma cycles. Where you constantly put yourself back into chaotic relationships because that is your normal. Your body is used to the chaos of things like abuse, and so you keep going back even though it is detrimental. So when you find someone who isn’t chaotic, your brain can start telling you the person is “boring” and so you break up or self sabotage the relationship because feeling safe feels wrong. Or like you’re waiting for the other shoe to drop. I actually really liked the post.
I also think it was really telling that she made sure to put every instance of the word "boring" in quotation marks as a way to show the difference between what someone's perception might be who is stuck in that cycle, versus what reality is. I really don't think it came off as passive aggressive or mean.
I was looking for someone to say something positive about that one! I've heard the same thing from therapists when they tallk about people with trauma. You tend to gravitate toward what's familiar to you, and that can be dangerous or unhealthy relationships.
I agree with you; I don't think it was passive aggressive. She was calling her husband a safe space and a comfort for her.
I had a feeling this was the case, since this definitely hit home for me 😅My first two relationships, while not abusive or toxic, were FULL of intense feelings (which proved quite detrimental in my second relationship). Then I met my current GF and she was the exact opposite of everything I'd come to understand as 'normal' No yelling, no getting passive aggressive like my family often did; just pure culture shock. But because my feelings of love and admiration for her are quite different from my previous relationships, I often worry that I'm not actually 'in love' with her and at that point, I kind of have to present proof to my chaos obsessed brain 😅
Also i think some people feel like they are settling for “boring” when they are transitioning in life, like out of college. Feeling bored isn’t bad, it can be safe
I was looking for this comment. That was exactly what I was thinking when I saw the post
It’s a pastime of me and my husband, sending each other the most unhinged reels periodically throughout the day. 😇
it's a love language in its own right!
@@AnnamarieForcino it brings us closer every day ❤️🫶
thats such a valid love language and i adore this for yall.
"Spit or Swallow?" "Girl I'm Asexual"
Mood
My first response would've been; 'Spit it right in your face' but I shouldn't type that, should I.
Neither. Kiss him afterwards and make him decide.
10:37 annamarie saying “no shade to him” after back to back insults that would obliterate my entire perception of myself is killing me
I actually do know two grown divorced men and single fathers (as in, full time custody) of four total daughters, and they are completely 100% straight men. They actually are best friends who got divorced under painful circumstances years apart, resulting in the one guy having to sell his house. So he moved in with his best friend.
And their blended family of two straight bros and their four daughters is honestly so much more wholesome and healthy and happy than most “traditional” families I know. I eat Thanksgiving dinner with them every year lol.
I love that idea and how that family reinforced the notion that family is not defined by anyone else and just needs to serve the needs of its members by being kind to themselves and other family members and then turning that compassion out into the world.
this is honestly both so iconic and so wholesome! it really brings out the values of found family and how strong it can be. If they are making it work and having a good time and its so much better then their previous situations, that's such a huge win! I can only imagine how much happier the kids and the dads are in this situation. I'm so glad that you get to hang out with these guys and their family! that's so cool!
I genuinely wish you and this beautiful family nothing but the best. that's so genuinely lovely and gave me a lot more hope in humanity. thank you for sharing!
“How many letters are in Tuesday?” Seven, Annamarie.
Was looking for this comment honestly
I literally counted the word three times because I was so confused 😂
maybe annamarie was thinking of Thursday instead 😭
@@thedatabase677 SAME
I couldn't stop smirking while listening to first guy telling he 'cured himself' of all ailments, and his body is perfect....WHILE WEARING GLASSES.
"The coolest guy ever" I'm pretty sure is a cosplay of the Vampire Lestat, from Anne Rice's vampire book series.
Pretty damn good cosplay, I think!
As soon as i saw him I started screaming YES YEEEESSS at my screen. My fellow men, we need you to express yourselves!
@@assas1nscreedThe transmascs are bringing back accessorizing and self expression like it's our sole reason to exist, WE KNOW WE CAN DO BETTER
My dogs name was Lestat great dog! A cutie at that. RIP lil fella
That’s cool as fuck, and should be encouraged
this is why i need the comments i thought he was cosplaying/inspired by Alucard Castlevania
That last guy looked like he killed Cookie Monster, skinned him and wears him as a warning to the other muppets.
20:26 i have a friend at college who comes to class every day in a full tailored suit (jacket, vest, tie, occasionally hats and WALKING STICKS) and he’s a legend
Fuckign legend
as someone with a chronic illness I've literally been trying to gaslight myself into not being sick, unfortunately it has not worked so far
Yeah same here! Usually I push my boundaries and I am NOT SICK until my knees give out and I'm on the floor and I suddenly can't move properly and my neck starts twitching and I cry and cry and then I can't do anything for a week.
Just over here pretending my body can make the kinds of collagen without the DNA/RNA it needs.
As someone who also has chronic illness,
Just try harder!
/j
i just want to say i love the victorian-esque vampire edgar allen poe guy they slayed so hard shoutout to them
real i have never fallen in love so quickly
We need to bring back men just being men
And by that I mean wearing copious amount of frills and ruffles and a little cravat and jacket
I want more Alucard from Castlevania lookin' motherfuckers!
The mindset the first guy is describing is literally just describing the maladaptive coping mechanism present in compensatory grandiose narcissism lmaooooo
Gaslighting yourself 👌
I honestly had no idea how prevalent narcissism actually was until social media happened lol
@@FundamentallyFlawedNarcissistic personality disorder is not that prevalent. People just call any and all shitty people narcissists now because they are ableist and calling someone a schizo is no longer as socially acceptable as they’d like it to be.
@@scarletgoldenthorn HOW MANY LETTERS IN DEVOURED?????
@@scarletgoldenthornnpd isn’t a disability, come on now 🙄 also you don’t have to have npd to have narcissistic traits, and people are allowed to be mad at narcissistic behaviour because it destroys lives and entire societies, literally all the time.
Instagram Reels are Reel scary
This comment is funnier than the people Annamarie is reacting to in this video
@@alicebthegachaweirdo8378I’m glad you like my dad jokes
I’ll be reel scary if 😡🤬😡
@@silverofthesunbearsmy timbers have been shivered
@@PenneyLanThat’s right, reel Alpha’s like me can turn any timber shivered 💪😎
*Annamarie pointing at me *
“You. You’re gay.”
I’ve never felt so seen by a TH-camr.
Same but I'm bi
"i don't care if it gets in my eye"
Miss, when you go blind in that eye and the doctor explains to your family how this happened, i think you might have second thoughts.
It can make you go blind?? 😨
@@bunniiacanything getting into your eye can. It can’t do it by itself I don’t think but it could maybe cause infection or a bad immune reaction
I've had strep for a month straight. I wish I had known I have the power within to heal a bacterial infection.
you got this
Right? My partner is recovering from major surgery. She's gonna be so excited when I tell her she can just decide to be better tomorrow!
Try having it for a month gay maybe that’ll help
I read strep as strap 😅
my heart goes out to whoever posts a reel that isn't ironic (especially those moms who post their disabled children)
literally i got into an arguement w a woman bc i told her that she shouldnt use her disabled kids for content and make her kids disabilities about themself
@@felixitationsgod yes it’s so infuriating. Heaven forbid these parents listen to the community of adults that experience what their children will and represent the community that will rally around them and be their social support and more when said parents are gone and kiddo has support needs or isn’t able to be independent.
I have a ton of good experiences with parents of kids and adults with developmental disabilities and more, just want to mention that too!
But in any case this is so very much a problem in that community (parents of disabled children) and I hate how much they make into martyrs, don’t get me started on working for one of those families who intentionally went out do their way to hire naive survivors of their own traumas to take care of young adults with these support needs in a day program.
God. I’ll stop. But I hate it.
Me with POTS- “I can stand without fainting”
Damn. Didn’t work
“I can consume enough water and salts that the simple weight of them will hold me in place despite POTS”
i really heard “spitters are quitters” in the movie Heathers at age 14 and i was really like “yeah, good argument, i’ll believe this for the next 15 years before i learn to think for myself”
19:19 omg i was thinking you were going to say leave it back in 2014 but you said ten years ago…which was 2014 tooo, aaaaaaa
Haven’t watched the movie but I loooove the musical version of Heathers. Except for the dead girl walking scene. That will be burned into my mind for years to come.
If the nut dispenser wouldn't let you hock a massive viscous loogey into their mouth to be swallowed, why allow any of their bodyfluids in your mouth?
@@CheeseThePurpleDragon i haven’t seen the musical!! i haven’t seen the movie in ages but i liked it when i did. loved winona ryder and christian slater in it
@@Pepper-sg5rc The musical is awesome!! You can find the slime tutorial online! (Called slime tut. To avoid the copyright bots)
These posts are just dripping with caustic passive aggressive judgement. The kind that sounds confident on the surface but reveals a world of insecurities when given some thought.
Except for the gothic phantom of the opera guy. He is amazing in every way. Absolutely magnificent.
Nothing beats the feeling of taking out my fan to do the intro with her
the two gay guys that divorced their wifes and moved in together was very heart warming for some reason. im very happy for them, but also jealous af
I don't know if you'll read this, but your channel has given me a lot of laughs, and has been helping me cope as someone coming to terms with what my beliefs and values are. As a trans man who was raised in a very, VERY Christian home (think preacher's kid, not being allowed to watch "worldly" things like TH-cam), watching your videos has been a breath of fresh air. Thank you for helping me realise that I am not a bad person because I am not a Christian anymore :)
I've been a secular humanist for years, and I've encountered many people with straight-up PTSD from that type of upbringing. I can't even imagine what it must be like for a trans person. Please don't ever let anyone convince you that you're a bad or defective person for not adhering to antiquated beliefs. Just be the best person you can be and love yourself for who you are!
love seeing wholesome comments :3
Sending you all the love and good vibes! Also had a similar upbringing and have come to realize I'm a lesbian. Also have found this channel to be helpful to me. Just remember that you're whole, beautiful, and being yourself could never be wrong.
sending you so much love, peace, and assurance within yourself 💞 i love this channel for basically the exact same reasons :) it’s so so tough, and little things like this help! i also love Rachel Oates’ channel if you’re looking for someone else !
@@helenpage8151so much love to you 💞 you’re wonderful and you’ve got this !! i wish you so much luck and peace as you continue to grow into yourself
17:05 As a wise man once said, “Reese’s Puffs, Reese’s puffs. Eat em up, eat ‘em ep, eat ‘em up, eat ‘em up!”
REESES PUFFS 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
REESES PUFFS🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Me that one time I was at my grandmas funeral and my creepy uncle told me I’d look prettier if I was smiling (I was nine.)(at the same funeral I did the whip and nay nay and posted it on musically)(it’s what grandma would’ve wanted)
Thank you for sharing your story
rip grandma she was a real one
I've also seen a lot of videos about the comments of instagram reels being extremely racist, homophobic, sexist, and every other form of discrimination you can think of, all on just some normal video of a kid who has a disability or something 😭
Ok so the dude with the reeses puffs feels like a soap opera because he picks scenes from k drama's and recreates them in the most emotionless way possible
man, the first one hit so hard. my mother had the same beliefs but in a religious way, and i didn't get the medical care i needed as a kid because it was... disrespectful to God... to "let" illness into your body...??????? and now i have to deal with chronic illness for the rest of my life lmao
As a person who has instagram and watch its reels, it’s a digital warzone. Especially reading the comments there.
Points at me (a lesbian): a homosexual!
You're correct madame
The boring thing:
That is why quotations were used and she explained they aren't actually boring. That was one of the only ones I agree with to some degree. Granted I have the security with the spark and not the chaos. 😂
if yr curious the guy at 20:45 is wearing ouji fashion !! its sort of like lolita fashion but a little more practical and androgynous ^_^
As far as the “boring” reel, I don’t think she means it as there’s no spark. I think she means that some people are so used to the being treated badly (being left on read on hit up at the last minute instead of planning) that when someone is consistent and caring, it could be seen as boring. You can feel a spark with a “boring” person
As someone who craves chaos I actually get her point. I love the chaos but I need the calm.
The sequel we always knew we needed.
20:35 unironically, this person is probably one of the coolest people I’ve seen, I want to be them when I’m older
I really liked that take about a safe "boring" guy. While yes, it may look belitting to call someone boring, i really think boring is exactly what i need. My last few relationship crashed and burned with me getting dumped in increasingly soul crushing ways. My current relationship is steady, safe, and has been for 3 long, happy years. My boyfriend is the calm to my neurotic, adhd, anxiety, and depressive episode riddled storm and i love him to bits for it. He completes me.
Get you a partner that'll blush when you give them a squishmallow for Valentines day...and then play Doom Eternal with you for hours (we passed the controller back and forth).
Or send you completely unhinged tik toks at three in the morning and is the sole reason you even open Tik Tok to begin with
Or is willing to go along with and be just as excited about whatever weird niche you happen to be hyper fixating on at the moment, and is perfectly willing to listen to you ramble about slime rancher for hours
omg i met the "you raised one of the boys" truck girl on a cruise and she was WILD. she was complaining about people cancelling her for being racist or something it was so weird.
the "date the boring guy" speech has a point, however, boring isn't great either. an emphasis on stability is important to self reflect on for anyone trying to move away from bad past relationship habits/decisions/tendencies. thought it was kinda deep and hit different tbh
The first reel is so funny to me, because I spent the last 4 days sniffling and coughing and feeling like shit but repeatedly telling myself "No, I'm not sick" but since I wanted to leave the house tomorrow I did a corona test just to be safe, and you'll never guess what it said. Turns out a positive attitude can't beat a positive test result 🤡
I also, as an adult woman, do not have broken thingys, injured thingys, sick thingys or bad thingys and I do not give a poopyloopydookie. Slay. or whatever. XD
“I don’t believe in getting sick” is literally a Barney Stinson quote..
20:31 a king, we need the Victorian aesthetic back ❤️
I HEARD the ellipses in “this is why law enforcement can take forever to come..to an emergency”
😂😂☠️
1:56 No, he must be a REEL Billionaire
16:32 this one. I watched it on Chad Chad's channel (I would suggest all of you to watch it too) but basically he's a narcissistic egotistical ass, filming tiktoks about him defending these girls from bullies or him getting bullied (basic tiktok shit). And what is fascinating is that he also filmed that he accidentally pushed a girl and she drops something and when she approaches to pick it up he picks it and goes to smell her front side and she pushes him away. I know this didn't make any sense but honestly I too don't know what was the video about but that's exactly what was shown.
*proceeds to pull out one of the biggest toy I've seen this week for an ad break*
You go size queen
Thank you for making this video ! I've had asthma since I was a child but after I told my body I don't NOT consent to having asthma it stopped immediately! ❤
That "date the boring guy" lady is just someone who grew out of her wild phase, that's it. And she seems to think that's some kind of big eureka moment she needs to share and educate others about, as if the vast majority of people aren't going through it. 😂😂 Like literally, ya'll wait until you're in your 30s. You'll get it then. 😂
As a woman in my 30s, she’s talking about a history of traumatic relationships, not “wild” ones. She was probably raised by psychologically manipulative and unsupportive and abusive parents or came across all kinds of abuse in her early relationships, and soon after you come to terms with all of it, you are very grateful for how “boring” potential partners are.
Like… let’s not be misogynistic. It’s not a wild phase, is a “cognitive dissonance induced by the realization that the world is unsafe and you can’t know who could harm you.”
LET ME BE SUPER CLEAR ABOUT THIS:
We are SO DAMNED GRATEFUL for trustworthy, consistent, caring men with emotional intelligence, the motivation to divide labor equitably, an eye for the hurt of others, and more.
PLZ BE THE EMOTIONALLY MATURE AND HEALTHY “BORING” GUY (Or gal or pal!) bc I would ADORE the opportunity to get to know you and see if our dreams and values match! Otherwise, you still have so much value and you should work on the dynamic that makes you unable to be that guy, because I also don’t want you to become jaded because it takes hurt and experience to understand how we tend to choose wrong partners for ourselves when we’ve had trauma and especially when it’s unresolved and untreated.
CHOOSE THE BORING GIRL, TOO! We just need to prioritize the concept of dating to enjoy yourself and not put pressure on what it becomes or to make ourselves less lonely. I know from personal experience that loneliness by itself is very unlikely to kill you, and while that doesn’t do much for your state of being right now, it does suggest an end to that suffering and more importantly: a time in the future where your emotional maturity and frank conversations about who you have turned you into something you didn’t see coming: happiness and contentment.
We’re all aiming for that, eh?
@@saritavenkatapathynaidu9533 As a woman in my 30s who didn't go through any of this to the point where it'd leave marks, I can tell you I feel the exact same way about my partners. And all that happened to me is that I grew older, wiser, out of my 20s and decided stability is more important to me in a relationship than adventure. I'm sorry you went through what you went through, but the plain truth is that the 20s are generally a person's second childhood. For most people, their 20s are the age where they discover all the joys of being an adult and they indulge in it as much as their situation allows. That includes experimenting with sexuality and relationships. This isn't misogyny, this is a fact that applies to the people of pretty much every stable country. Not everything is is a sob story. Some things can just come naturally without trauma having to beat a person there.
16:28 the love story of the peanut-butter chocolate combination. Not always getting along, but in the end seeing the spark deep within and coming together to form the perfect cereal. The enemies to lovers story we really need.
As someone who is SICK right now- that man is saying nonsense
That guy just needs to change how he says he’s sick, so it’s not “self deprecating.” He’s not sick; he’s siiiiiIIIIICK, dawg. Yeah, it’s a dumb idea but not as dumb as that guy believing he can “The Secret” his way into being immune to broken bones, viruses, bodily dysfunction, and illness.
1.) man i really should just walk off my joint problems
2.) THE VAMPIRE DUDE WAS SO COOL OMG
The bad boyfriend video honestly felt concerningly relatable, I am in no way diagnosing someone over the internet, but as someone with borderline personality disorder that is how I felt for a good few years, It's not a healthy attachment style and can be very frustrating and confusing and stressful, you want to be a good person and partner but you just find yourself clingy and freaking out over the smallest things, causing you to lash out, beat down on yourself, or try to control the situation. It can make you scared of even yourself.
I was horrified of what I was becoming, I was scared I was becoming a bad person fundamentally. It's been years since I was diagnosed with BPD, I have been healing and learning how to cope with it, finding out what it was actually helped a lot with it. Though, I still have my issues of course, It's the ol' emotional dysregulation disorder after all.
It is something that can cause a lot of issues with your relationships between friends, family, lovers, and change your view on yourself entirely. That video feels like a plea for help to me I suppose.
Enough rambling though, I hope that man has genuine people in his life he can go to, and I do hope he sees a psychologist or therapist, to find out whatever he's experiencing even if it isn't BPD, I just know it hit a little too close to home personally.
I supposed I wanted to talk about this since I didn't see anyone else talking about it.
I fully describe myself as generally boring 😂
It's not self depricating or an insult, it's just the truth😂
"none of those words are in the Bible" made me spit my hit out 🤣🤣
4:29 “She seems lovely, I wish her the best” 😂😂😂 new favourite
Man that vampire guy is my new transition goals holy shit
Billionaire man’s advice is truly life changing 🤯‼️I started telling myself I no longer have Narcolepsy, and suddenly? I’m awake ❤🥹🕊️
I’m gonna try this with my Rheumatoid Arthritis too! I’ll let y’all know how it goes 😌 I can already feel my joints healing as I type 😽💞
the way i’m sitting here like “oh what? overly tanned girls with spider lashes in baseball hats, sitting in their trucks, rapping wouldn’t be that big in 2009” WHAT DO YOU MEAN 2014 WAS TEN YEARS AGO??
i’m late but i need u to know that the first sleep specialist i saw (for debilitating chronic fatigue) told me that i’d feel better “if i had a better attitude about it”
Im manifesting nutritional value to my body
Im manifesting healthiness
Im manifesting mental wellbeing
I don't deprecate myself
Im immortal
I'm so glad we've moved on from 'cringe' as a stand-in for the r-slur. It's so good to be able to watch an amalgamation of people making fools of themselves on the internet without interjected ableism.
In regards to the "boring guy" one, my partner and i refer both to ourselves and each other as "boring", because we bring each other peace and feel safe and secure. Boring, at least for me, was always my goal, meaning i dont have to be on constant fight-flight mode :) that being said, we do now have an ongoing joke about calling me an old lady, because i went out with a guy a few months ago that said i had the interests of an 80 year old (i wanted to play cards), and i got home and told my partner and he said "well. Hes not wrong", but he finds it a good thing, hence, we cant stop the joke now xD
For the "boring" husband I've got a feeling that's a "nice" guy that has finally found someone and know is renting about it on social media
insta recommended me the fuzzy jacket guy too! in the vid i saw, his jacket was pink and he said "if you believe in yourself, you'll grow. if you believe in shit, shit will grow." and i'll take that to my grave.
i hate instagram reels bc one lady makes dresses and makes it look easy. rn im making my first dress and its HARD
I like how you posted this well i was watching one of the cutest, sweetest, instagram reels ive ever seen lmao
share with the class, please!
Oh man I don't even remember what it was lmaoooo
9:58 as a queer person myself i really feel the need to chip in that spitting is definitely worse than swallowing because it's permeating the rest of your mouth. like if u do it right when u swallow u dont even taste it
Ah yes let me change my brains chemical makeup to stop my executive dysfunction and my constant anxiety
Let me join you
@@notchpoodles5864 please do we can be anxiety buddies together :D
The manifesting undercut pairing the Gucci jacket with the $5 Temu shoes is giving me an aneurysm ngl.
*me at 19:54
“T-U-E-S-D-A-Y…. 8?… 7… 8?…. T-U-E-“ counting on fingers*
Omg all I’m going to say is that these instagram reels are honestly truly insane ….
I think Instagram Reels has some funny stuff on it but the ones you’ve shown are beyond bizarre…
Your commentary is as always hilarious and on point ….
Sarcastic, spiky Anna Marie is one I’m always definitely on board with … also loving the checked shirt , wooly hat combo …
17:56 my exes mom in middle school called me clingy, and she was right. I had to reevaluate my whole life and start caring about myself first. Totally saved me. Him on the other hand.. he treats women like they’re trash and his mama never noticed, me and the mother of his child saw each other at a club and had a wonderful convo 😂
Where are y'all getting these unhinged Reels? Have I hacked the algorithm? Mine are like 90% cute animal videos (usually cats).
Also (as a fellow homosexual, your assumption was correct) I love the beanie & flannel combo! You look great in the sapphic uniform.
I was just thinking the same thing. All I get are puppies, kittens, and other cute furry critters.
Well, if that's the only content you consume, most reels will be normal stuff. But sometimes something crazy slips through.
9:11 when that gets in your eyes it HURTS!!!! Also that is someone else’s bodily fluid and should not go in your eyes at all. A lesson I learned a few times please don’t make that mistake
“I chose not to become a billionaire when I was younger and watched Annamarie Forcino when she stated that they didn’t like billionaires on her channel which is why I stay at 999,999,999 dollars” - Alice Ågren 1:20
21:12 I have around eleventyseven questions, like 1) where's your blurple coat from? b) are the boots snakeskin? 3) why you assaulting that poor gnome?
Yknow? A woman has questions. ✨
“None of those words are in the Bible “ 😂😂😂
This video feels more unhinged than normal and I’m living for it
“I don’t have any ailments” says the man literally wearing glasses
11:40
Now, THIS is a perfect example of the phrase "You were hotter with the hat/mask/ect on."
Besides the officers from Jin-roh: The wolf brigade.
It’s so funny watching the first clip and being sick with a cold. I also feel like knowing your sick and accepting that helps you takes steps to get better. Like sure I could pretend I’m not sick but that would only strain my voice more. Instead I’m chilling eating some warm soup to help me feel better. You gotta care for your body not fight against it ❤
Vampire phantom of the opera person was so slay
3:39 "just don't be depressed LMAO"
11:48 anna that pronunciations of the silly word was really intense for that not to lead to a joke about *mcsplooge*
This made me chuckle I am chronically ill and the amount of times I've actually been told to think positive to make myself better is insane xx
I’m sobbing.
I'm like 90% sure goth guy is just an Alucard cosplayer and I'm living for your reaction
I'm glad I'm not the only one who had this thought. Second I saw the guy I was like..."this looks like an Alucard cosplay." They did slay though.
Edit: Managed to track down the reel and he is not a cosplayer! Just a Vamp Goth fashion enthusiast. Which, honestly, is even more of a slay.
@@Strawberry-Sorbet they did in fact slay which is the best part 🤣
@@Strawberry-Sorbet do you have a link??
@@Strawberry-Sorbet who is he?
8:16 I feel called out
no joke when i say that gothic vampire dude is peak gender envy for me
Yep....full fo cringey things and things that wouldn't catch my attention even with my ADHD
It’s so hard for me to go on ig now because of how aggressive and cruel the commenters are. Not only that but they’re incredibly uninformed, toxic, and violent. From defending predators to being actual predators. It’s exauhsting
you can tell Ann has been facemaxxing for these videos! Too bad she had to break the mewing streak to record 😔
i don't know what a mew or face max is but thanks!
@@AnnamarieForcinosome weird terms that the insecure dudes on tiktok use 😭 could be a whole video in itself tbh
Australian here. Can confirm that is completely normal. So much so in fact, that we were very confused when Pretty Fly for a White Guy was released.
I really hope he does have “bone thingies” and “tendon thingies” and “muscle thingies” cause you kinda need those “thingies” to like, you know, live?