How To Truly Love Yourself - Lisa Nichols
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The Lisa Nichols Show is a place where you can come at any given time to get the step by step tools you need to live the life that you want. In this episode, Lisa talks about how to truly love yourself.
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I am so grateful for the advice and guidance that you give. I only realized now, at 34! that I should not rely on others to validate me. It is a battle I fight everyday. I can wake up so happy and positive but one negative comment from someone else can change my state of mind completely and break me down. I still have a long way to go. You always seem to give me the right guidance exactly when I need it. Thank you 🙏🏼
#PREACH #BOL Relationships are to compliment not complete
I learning to love myself. but sometimes it is so hard when the world gives you the feeling like no one loves you.
Thank you Lisa, "OMG! I still can not believe I'm watching your videos FREE!. As someone whose motivating the high school learners "Lisa, you have no idea how much I got motivated by you"
I love your videos because they contain teachings
#BOL. Yes, YES! Such a wonderful reminder that you will never "arrive" as there is no arrival. And when I step back and really think about it, thank goodness!! So many times I "arrived" somewhere in my life only to realize it wasnt the end point of what I wanted anyway. Thank you Lisa for these videos, I listen everyday! ❤❤
Thank you.. I needed this. I need to love me madly.. BOL‼️‼️
Hey Lisa! Love Love LOVE you girl!... I would appreciate a message about feminism. It's a LOST ART! There is so much power in owning and manifesting your feminine prowess, and with 3 boys and 2 brothers in a male orientated industry I struggle to find my inner strength as a female every day. How do you do it?
Miss Lisa you are phenomenal!!!
Bol for me was needing someone to compliment me not complete me
#BOL "Never expect someone to love you more than you love yourself." Preach.
Amen!
My friend want ppl to love him more than he loves hisself but he doesn't show us nothing but his sexualized version of love I think his idea of love is only with sex/woman
#BOL I'm not perfect , I'm just learning to perfectly manage my imperfections 🤷🏾♀️ #yesyes
I'm a young man, and when I tell I have been inspired and educated from this sister. I truly have changes to make. #bol #relationship
Lisa I remember the first time I saw you in the SECRET...I knew you were special and that you would be a blessing to people all over the world and that you are indeed... Thank you and blessings be with you always🙏💓👏!
2years down the line, l love this video, falling madly in love with myself daily!! BOL!! Tx my dearest Lisa ❤️
I don't want to win the argument, I want to not react to the situation but look at ways to communicate in a better way
The other BOL for me is I am learning to truly fall in love with myself deeply. I am learning to not rely on others for any kind of validation. I need to trust my own deep validation for my own self. It isn't out there. It will never be out there! It is in me. So I have been learning how to embrace managing being single, in every sense of the word. I need to embrace being ALONE with SELF. I am still healing so much from past relationships. I am trusting to listen to myself more and just relax. Thank you for your words Lisa!
You can do that
You is doing good
#BOL
"NEVER expect someone To LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOIRSELF"
"I own my bright light and I own my shadow" how beautifully said ♥️
Dear Lisa, I was taking notes and had an a hah moment when you said, when there is anger- what does that person need or desire? I have never looked at anger that way. Thank you. Then I was still writing and you where at the end of you show saying, you might be the only person today telling me that you believe in me and love me... I STARTED CRYING. Thank you sister from another mister. xoxo
"Before you madly fall inlove with another person, fall madly inlove with you coz then you'll bring that love into the relationship" this touched me and I am thankful because it has taught me to love me first. Thank you Lisa. You just don't know how much I needed to hear these words at this particular time. Self love.
“I am not perfect... I learned how to perfectly manage my imperfections “! Wowwwwwwwww that hit apart of my soul I didn’t know I had. You read my spirit. I always knew I didn’t want to be perfect but I didn’t know how to articulate that I wanted to perfectly manage my imperfections! Wow, now I’m ready to conquer the day! Subscribed!
BOL!!! I lost an amazing person because o hated my self!! And I translated that into my relationship. “I’m not good enough” “I’m not pretty enough” “I’m a burden!” And the more he tried to convince me I was wrong, the more I thought he was just saying what I wanted to hear and didn’t meant it! I put the entire responsibility of my happiness in his hands.
He ended things, and I was angry, but then, I started to realise he did what he had to do for him! He was exhausted and lost. Fast forward 6 weeks and I realised that he did what he had to do for him and inadvertently did what he had to do for me! In 6 weeks I worked so hard on loving me that I realised had he not ended things, I would have never had the drive to better me and start loving me!
The sentence that hit my soul, was when you said The way you love you is the 1st example of the way they get to love you. That speaks such volume!!!!
No one can love me more than I love yourself. I learned this, eventually.
One of the best things I am learning is to love myself which is allowing me to love others more.
BOL!! The BEST VERSION of ME IS FINALLY HERE.. 2018 IS MY YEAR! So glad to have found her.. YESSZZZZZ! CAN YOU FEEL IT
Thank you!!!
I loved the part about looking to meet the need under your partner’s emotional words of anger, hurt, or fear. Sometimes we get caught in the heat of the moment, and how right we are, forgetting the possibility for service, in that growth because of the current challenge.
If you don't show up for yourself and love yourself first, others will not. It all starts within. Thanks for the reminder and great video Lisa!
This is amazing I’m learning to love myself and your messages are helping me a lot,thank you very much,I’m engaged and I’d love to be somewhere before I get married to the love of my life...I’m a work in progress
Lisa thank you! I am post-depression, post-suicidal and pro-maximizing my potential as a motivational speaker who has been overdone and overcome the enemies within and without and fully recognize after re-cognizing my being/worth and mission that I have much to offer those like the person I was a real life example of now is the time to Become all you were created to be.
BOL! Greetings from South Africa. Lisa, TH-cam introduced you to me Nov 20, 2016. My journey to recovery to life started that day. I saw one of your interviews. It changed my life. All of me is now a remake. Relationships, all of them, have changed. I love it most when you speak from your heart.
thank you thank you thank you... I took 2 thing from this today, I am my own rescue. I am 100% complete in this moment.
Hi Lisa, were you reading my mind? This is exactly what I need to work on. Thank you for all you do! I am so grateful for your positive light.
I had to watch this twice. It was so powerful for me because I was never loved by my mother so I never had that example of what it feels like to be loved unconditionally. But I can love myself that way. Unconditionally. And I cried. It was powerful. Thank you.
W💓W! Speechless here. I needed this talk. God bless you, Lisa!
YASSSSS!!!!! #BOL - imperfectly perfect ✨👌🏽 thank you sooo much Lisa for the reminder of all the possibilities - always look forward to your videos 💕✨
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2 Timothy 1:7 For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind. "Fear 😨 job is to sabotage your mind"
“Turn up the Self-Love Thermostat”
Powerful!!
Love it!!!!
I love you! I been learning sooo much from you. I am 27 and I finish a 9 year relationship and only now I am learning to love myself and getting to know the real me. Keep the videos coming. Am I would like you to talk to the single mum's that are trying to do the best.
I needed to hear this Lisa! BOL! It's like saying don't expect anyone to love you if you don't love you. #Work in progress😁
Lisa Nichols thankyou for your words. I am on the journey of loving my self fully and completely.
I'm always feeling like I have to prove my love, we talk two different language. We love to be right in every conversation. With me have dyslexic I say things out of order he would say, so that Shut me down of getting my point across. I believe in everything you say, I am learning to love myself, and saying Kenya you will be ok. OMG HELP!!!
#BOL I own me.... I own my bright light and my shadow ... falling madly in love with me!! The way that I love ME, shows others how to love me
This is a reminder to continue improving at being my own best friend. And to continue to improve how I love myself.
How do i fall madly in love with me!....what does self love really mean😭
Hi... You can find a video made by me on "how I started my self-love journey" I hope it helps
Yes !!! Please give a full show directly dedicated to this
How to love myself deeply
Mother yourself, adopt yourself, let the version 2.0 help the version 1.0..first acknowledge your existence just like another human being, & now start with friendship just like someone u met for the first time & then slowly let this friendship become dating & then love & marriage..but all this with yourself..plus u share the harmony inside u the overflow of ur cup with others, first we fill our own cup..we treat ourself the way others treated in the past especially parent’s & friends during our early years, self love is difficult because it wasn’t mirrored to us in the past..be the mom u always wanted, be the friend uve always wanted be the lover uve always wanted all this to urself..
@@dublewr2194 omg thank you so much your comment literally saved me tonight, I am going to start to get to know me and love me as someone I just met. I will forever be grateful for you, although I don’t even know you, I hope life is treating you well. ❤️
@@nima4729 thank youu, your feedback makes me feel so good! Yes am doing well, but we’re together in this journey of self love, better late than never! I love myself first then only can i truly love another. How can a begger help anyone you see! 🌷🌿
#BOL I always say that I can’t be in a relationship with someone because I can’t imagine being intimate with someone. But I’ve just realised that it’s not them, it’s that I MYSELF cannot imagine someone looking at me and wanting to be intimate with ME. Love you Lisa
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I think i have found you at the right point of my life. All your videos have something in them that speaks to me. I am in the process of finding myself, learning to love myself so that i can learn to love everyone and everything around me. Do you have any exercises which you recommend for self love, forgiveness and letting go of the past ? l am also taking that step to better myself and would love it if you could give me some pointers. I love what you do, it is truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing this video.
BOL: Speak from a place of Harmony, not willing to get the last word.
I’m truly getting more unconditional love and support for myself, all in the name of miss Lisa
I love you Lisa, this REALLY resonated with me! Thank you so much!
Wowoooooo. Falling madly in love with myself before i fall madly in lover with another. You speak to me Lady Lisa. GBU.
Thank you Lisa!!! I needed this after a horrible brake up and lots of mental and physical pain you helped me remember I need to love myself again. I’m ready to take the step to be a better and amazing me
Lisa, I’m finally courageous enough to say B.O.L !🤗 I have been practicing the mirror talk for 2weeks now and I feel so great about myself . I am really a work in progress thanks to you. By the way, this video is exactly what I needed this night . Thankyou!
WOW WOW WOW!!!!! #BOL "Can't look for a relationship to help me be complete, that's a lot of pressure on that individual" I thought I was showing how much I loved and needed him and that he should appreciate being "the one to complete me" HA!!!! when all the while it was too much pressure. Now I finally understand why it ended and have a bit of closure. I have to love me first!
Praise God for the knowledge He have given you my sister Lisa, God bless
I can’t rescue myself - only Jesus can do that.
I truly appreciate you and LOVE being within your tribe. Thank you for believing in me. It does my ❤️ wonders!!! BOL!!💪🏾👑 You’re such a phenomenal force 🌺
So I had a BIS 'Breakthrough in Silence because I'm listening to this at work and i wanted to BOL.This was right on time! Thank you Lisa. #BOL all day long!
Lisa, god keeps showing me he is with me. I’ve been on a self-love journey to move myself from unhealthy relationship this was a #BOL moment, do you hear me!!!! Your message is allowing me to further deepen the love to the core and realize it. I’m worthy whole & complete now with healthy
boundaries and can trust myself. Thank you
LaToya Fortson . I love your videos
YES YES YES!!!! Do the work of understanding your wholeness and completion on your own, it's an individual process. I truly believe you come into a relationship to allow the other party to experience the overflow of your heart and love for yourself!
I pull the expectation out of it and make loving myself more fiercely. Bringing the love that is needed in order to keep growing in self love. Thank you Lisa Nichols....
Hello im just to the channel because as I was listening to one motivational video I was definitely excited to of had come across this one,because I'm battling how to love myself and to constantly not go back to that negative state of mind,which lately I've been feeling very unfulfilled in life that seems like does everything I do has to be wrong as for personally for once I want to feel wanted of course by the same sex because I'm a guy who loves other guys so I feel myself steady searching for the right one and haven't had any luck because I've been looking in all the wrong places trying to seek validation from these dudes especially on the dating/hookup apps smh so I know I've been rambling on but I just wondering what should I do?
MY MY MY!!!!! Girl this is a spot on confirmation of what i say to myself and others. Thank you!
Thank you I needed this! Thanks for the ah ha of that a perfect relationship with my mom does not exist... I am excited to try again tomorrow! ❤️
Few days I`m making the Excersises with the mirror.........I feel myself..............absoluteley Yes....... We need more Excersises.............also to writing down the negative thoughts.........I couldn` t believe it.....I`m moving forward! Those physical Excersises are necessary.....
Wow! This video was TRUE confirmation about embracing one's Self and Love Journey. You are truly a gem Lisa for enlightening us on approaching, experiencing and appreciating our path in life through your videos, workshops etc.
I get teary eyed every time your express, belife, and love for us! "I love you too!"
I do love this, I’ve started loving myself but I know I learnt more on being conscious about it watching this. Thank you Coach
Lisa... when u said I am ur sister... OMG that hits me to the core. I got my NO MATTER WHAT book today and I could feel your presence in each n every word of it. I mean it... I thank God that he made me find you at the very right time of my life.
Before someone fall in love with u.... fall in love with urself that nobody could love you more that yourself.... ahh blown my mind 😀
B O L !!! yea its my job to complete myself . All things are possible with GOD . Thank you For allowing me the Blessings that help me to get up and stand up knowing I am a part of a loving and caring Tribe.
"I own my bright light and I own my shadow" #BOL #BOOM. so eye-opening that I can own the good, the bad and the growing parts of me and use them to become a better version of myself. I'm 19 years old and I feel blessed to have all this useful information at my disposal as I become an adult. sending love from Trinidad & Tobago.
You’re amazing! It makes sense some of the chaos in my relationships because never even thought to love myself in it all. Thank you
❤❤❤ thank you Lisa
#BOL I run away from fear of rejection, I have lived with this all my life, I was even rejected from family and was not told of my fathers passing, I tried to reach out but they always rejected and pushed me away. I am to be my version of what you do so i can gift everyone Flight within their Light
Stepping into an empty space, thank you for believing in me and loving me more than me!
BOL>....No one can love me more than I love myself........... I can only love others if I first love myself...............
#BOL
Don't expect someone else the way you love yourself....Ilove ME more than before yeppeeyy
thank you..thank you..🤗
BOL!!!! Today for the first time I've bought something for myself without feeling guilty. Yes, yes!!!!
What had me, is the fact that I want love and want to be loved but I forget sometimes how to love me first. I'm scared of love, been hurt so much that I forget that in all this craziness I have to think of me first, love me then others can do same.
#BOL lisa you're fantastic...much love to u...
So thankful to god because i can hear and see you.... I'm from india🙃🙃
HOW TO DEVELOP THE PERCEPTION TO DISCERN THE COUNTERFEIT FROM THE REAL. NOT I LY FRIENDSHIPS SYMBIOTIC RELATIONSHIPS AS WELL AS ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS ⛓️🔨⛓️🔥💞🎼🎶⚔️📖
I always thought I loved myself more than I actually am. I have put up with too much in relationships. I need to say no more and value me more. Thank you for opening my eyes. ❤️ u Lisa.
This message never gets old...When you stated, "Relationships mirror the love you give to yourself..." #BOL
I just started watching your videos. I’m grateful to have found you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and enlightenment. I’m still learning the phrases and terms but thank you for your reassurance and teachings and comfort 💓🥺👉🏾👈🏾
Something I've been doing since this past summer 🌞 2023 is think of times when I've been really proud of how I handled myself in different situations. Then I think about what I want to say . Then I get in a good light ( my favorite is outside) I make sure I'm looking my best while I'm looking into the camera 🤳🏽 of my cellphone. I start talking making a short video. Some are 13 minutes, some half hour or 3 minutes. I save the best one's to listen to later and remind me of how strong and courageous I have been, just getting BETTER with time. I am totally honest in my videos taking my time. This has really been a blessing for my soul. The woman I was years ago is NOT the woman I am TODAY. ❤️
Lisa...u calm my mind when I listen to u...lisa..please listen...this thing happened to me...I was busy running along my path and I'm starting a divorce..yet I met this man online...we connected like nothing else and I'm really sad cuz he's not giving 150 percent yet everytime I move on, he comes back...I'm in tears and feel weak and like I don't want anyone to interrupt this bubble..am I in love?...does love do this? Am I creating this? Is this all in my head?
Oh, phenomenal topics, conclusions, way of presenting your excellent ideas -- this is it! Exactly what I need to hear, Lisa! Thank you so much! Your own self-love is an example of how they are expected to love you. Wow! The fear of getting hurt -- can I ever relate to that! -- versus the possibility of NOT getting hurt, and finding love. That's what I'm growing toward right now. Thanks again. Linda Jay
P.S. Just one thing: "Explanation points" are actually "exclamation points." (Writer/editor here...)
Lisa, thank u for ur teachings. This video is what i needed for today.
God bles you for bringing joy, wisdom, love, harmony, growth.
I want to be a Better Version of myself at a HIGHER LEVEL. A relationship is so suppose to compliment me (I said this for years) now I love the breakdown of it. Thanks!!How do I fall madly in love with me? EYE OPENER!!!
In arguments from defense to harmony wow. Time for me to turn on my self love thermostat.
Girl you better speak to my soul and prune my life. Whew. Thank you for this guidance and the next steps in my Self Love journey.
Super love your videos Lisa. I am LOVE that needs no protection. I am love. I don't 'NEED'it when I am all full of it. I am A pillar of Love :) So relationship needn't come and complete me at all. Relationship is one where we share, being a complete source of LOVE myself :) . If I am LOVE, no valediction is necessary
#BOL... Turning up my self-love thermostat! Thankyou Lisa!!!
Lisa you are a true blessing! You have no idea how much your words of encouragement and love have spoken to my heart. I am just recently in self discovery mode. I have to really learn how to love myself again. I have been married to the same man for 14 yrs, dating for 3 years prior. I am now realizing I have to show him how I need to be loved by my own example of loving me. WOW!!!
BOL! FOREAL FOREAL!
Wow!
I searched "how to truly love yourself" and found you first and I will never regret for my decision.
Your voice is so calm, nice and like ASMR to my ears.
I liked your words "Don't ever expect someone else to love you better than you are loving yourself."
By now, I have been doing so many things to love myself and sometimes things get worse and I start feeling that all of my attemts were useless. That I am not truly loving myself. So, I was waiting for someone to love me and to complete me.
I always wanted to feel that 100% love from myself.
I always wanted to feel everything that I learned from my psychological therapies, motivation videos, works with the mirror. I did all of them. But I couldn't fully and truly feel that love.
Now your words also motivated me. They gave me a hope that I'll still and again and again continue my journey to self love.
And I will always remember: I am complete. I don't need relationships or anything else to feel complete. I need them just to sharpen my love and my strength.
Thank you!
WOOOOOW......YOWZAH! #BOL "I'm a better version of myself and my greatest self is emerging?!" WHOOOHOOO...I so needed to hear that. I've been looking for this, for you for quite some time now and I am so very thankful I'm here, present and open to receive. I had a moment of "compassionate clarity." I realized I was pouring so much into everything and everyone else, being mother, wife, daughter, etc...that I totally forgot about me. I was hardwired into thinking this was how it is to be done, period. Now, I'm focused and determined to fall in love with who I really and discover my true purpose. I'm committed to doing this sacred work of loving and respecting myself so that I can give my best to my children, my husband, etc... I'm excited about this revelation and from the bottom of my heart, I thank YOU!
I am responsible for my wholeness and completeness... I fully accept that responsibility.
What is loving yourself when you have limiting beliefs from trauma endured? I'm still attracting people it seems with trauma just like I have.
#BOL I needed to hear that I am 100% complete in this moment, ofcoz i can always engage at higher levels but i am complete right now...yipeee. Sometimes there are pressures of being underserving coz you can't do somethings others can do but now i know better. I have to be patient with me as i grow to become the best version of myself. I am super complete right now but growing to my higher levels. Yessssss!!!💃🏽💃🏽🤩
is there a self love series. Im trying to fall in love with myself. I really enjoyed this video and want to do the work to truly fall in love with myself and hold onto it.
You can check self-love journey on my channel "selflovedoesmiracles" channel.. I hope it helps
I am affair that I will not reaching my higher power. OMG HELP!!! I love myself just need to be ok with a my truth being Dyslexic is fearful as is. But I get it, then I tell myself do I need to share my truth with people? I don't know.