This has to be one of the most unexpected experiences. Being 50 years old and girls 20-30 years my junior not only wanting to date, but taking the initiative. 👀 The weirdest thing.. 🤔 In a positive way, I guess. 😉
As long as she's at least 18 years old, it's all good. Everyone has different opinions on how big or small age gaps are acceptable, and they're all just opinions. There's no clear rule. It only becomes a problem if you let it bother you. Big age gaps have been the norm for all of human history and still are in Eastern countries today. It's only in modern Western countries that it became taboo because of modern ideologies like feminism and egalitarianism.
next time a girls says this to me in an interaction, conversation, while asking her out, because i know that sometimes women will say this, just so they can be sure, they will sometimes say "are you asking me out?", i would say to her: 'DUH!!!!!!, OF COURSE I'M ASKING YOU OUT, I'M A GUY!!!!, ITS WHAT WE DO!!!!!!', i feel that will make me feel good about myself for saying a rude asshole response, just expressing sarcasm in a resentful way, because i know i'm not the only guy in the world that has always hated and resented how asking someone out has always been and probably forever will be on the mans shoulders, being the one to make the first move, make advances and start interactions, be an interesting conversationalist, ive always been a fan of the belief that men need to be better talkers, be a better conversationalist than women do in order to be successful at dating have better social skills than women do overall, escalate things, take the god damn lead all the time. its another reminder, and i know people will say to never compare ourselves to others, don't worry about what others don't have to do or deal with, focus on you, but i get annoyed and enraged that there are even dating coaches for women, because i will never understand why would women need help on how to attract men when they don't have to be the ones to pursue, or approach, take any action on their part, that doesn't require any jackshit of skills, doesn't require any learning, any behavior development. Ya i will never understand and it makes me laugh and cringe when people say women need skills to do well in dating on their part, how? just exist and be pretty is not a skill, because being beautiful is not a skill since its not behavior based.
Im 38 decent looking, single guy. Full time job at a casino, All the chicks love me😊whatevs... Got this younger 20s checking me out. Turned my head around to check her out while her and that BF were walking by. She wipped her head so fast i swore her hair made a bullwhip sound!😂 The next day she was walking ahead of her man and making HIM carry the coffees! She was in a rush and looked like she was doggin him for some reason 😂 the Next day she got in my path without that BF while i was on the way to the bar! It happened so fast i had no time for a quick witted response so i just said excuse me and kept going. Damn, do i sense a break !💔 Next time i get her alone its on!😂🎉 It is easier when a girl can see your higher value/maturity and actually try things to get you! Never even talked to her b4 that short run in. She sure had no problem ditching that dork and getting in front of me! Feel bad for the guy i really do, but Shes gonna make her choice and may the better man win! Hypergamy is a cruel trait of female nature! 😂 If she's a toxic girl, she'll cheat with me. If she's a good girl. That was a breakup and she's giving me the shot!😂
@@grit1679 I dunno, it seemed to be at least somewhat fact based, it's more that it's repetitive in the extreme, of the last 10 videos or so 7 or 8 have been essentially the same content under different titles. And now they've picked up this nasty habit of wrapping an ad in content, as if youtube isn't annoying enough with incessant ads, I'm not buying any of that shit out of spite.
I find myself feeling weird about a situation. Me and this girl at work have a connection. We’ve already established that. We know we want each other. We give each other the eyes. Lean in together. Flirting heavily. But … she’s 21 and I’m 40. And that stops me from advancing. I feel weird. I don’t want to feel like this creep dude. I’d rather have her make the first move so it’s not so weird. But I don’t think she understands that. Am I wrong. I mean for feeling weird that I’m a lot older.? I don’t want to end up not shooting my shot and losing out because I’m overthinking.
Presuming you’re a guy, yes you’re wrong (shocker huh?). You need to watch much more vids of this nature to understand why she’s expecting you to showcase your maturity and take lead. The real question is, is she just a flirty girl or is it specific to only you? And please, be honest with yourself.
@@HeadlessAce being honest with myself yes. She is specifically into me. We’ve established that. We’ve spoke about it in flirts. How we look at each other. And we talked about it. But I’m not a Casanova by any means. So I’m kinda shy I guess when it comes to this. I guess I second guess myself. I see her tomorrow so I gotta figure this out.
I’m 60 and have regularly dated women in their 20’s and early 30’s. By not being direct to her you both lose. If you are direct and catch her off guard because she was just flirting, it will righter push her forward towards you; will appreciate your boldness, but decline; or, file a sexual harassment complaint with H.R. Be bold. The only thing you have to lose is your job. 😆
I'm 59 and she's a 38 year old single mom she keeps giving weird signals to get to know her. I'm getting ready to ask her out with out getting fired from my job. We have been coworkers for 6 years now and I just don't want her to file sexual harassment against me for asking.
Some of these are true for me with a girl at work and im still kinda assessing the situation because she's dating another guy but I know they've just had a rocky period but she's 18 and i'm nearly 34 >
Don't do it. Not worth it. Not necessarily the age, but if she's with a guy and flirting, and at work, that's not a good sign. Unless it's a job you plan on leaving, then I'd say go for it. I wouldn't ever go for an under 20 unless she's got both parents in her life and displays maturity Meaning she doesn't try to start fights with you and respects you. Also gotta realize that age they wanna go out and party and get black out drunk. Not girls you wanna fall in love with. They will betray you. Unless you just wanna wet your whistle
Hi joya me and my female best friend had to stop texting January this year and now we are texting does this mean that she is still very interested and into me
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Absolutely. Don't put yourself on the bench until she's blown your whistle. Sometimes young women appreciate training from an older guy.
Yes, some are drawn to your maturity. A lot of younger guys are messing around and not serious with not much going on.
If she’s blown my whistle I’ll be happy 😃
Really needed to hear this today. I’ve been feeling so out of touch with myself lately. I need to make some changes
Joyanima - I love how you used "piqued" multiple times 😉
This has to be one of the most unexpected experiences.
Being 50 years old and girls 20-30 years my junior not only wanting to date, but taking the initiative. 👀
The weirdest thing.. 🤔 In a positive way, I guess. 😉
That would be women!
Girls= female children.
Women= female adults.
I suppose you don’t refer to yourself as a boy co sidering that you’re an adult!
thank you for all your insight and suggestions, there's nobody better!
What no jumper?
Refreshing and cool difference of apparrel.
What we wear speaks as much as our body language
I'm attracted to Joyanima. Georgeous...
Ok, so there's this younger girl, and it just seems weird that she would just want to be friends with me. But how big of an age gap is too much.
As long as she's at least 18 years old, it's all good. Everyone has different opinions on how big or small age gaps are acceptable, and they're all just opinions. There's no clear rule. It only becomes a problem if you let it bother you.
Big age gaps have been the norm for all of human history and still are in Eastern countries today. It's only in modern Western countries that it became taboo because of modern ideologies like feminism and egalitarianism.
As someone who is 38, plus or minus 10 years from my age is where I'm comfortable at. Anything younger, just seems weird to me.
@@norayr3975 perfectly answered, I totally agree 👍
Half your age plus 7
Either way be careful she could have a boyfriend in her age group on the side. And use you like a used car.😮
Yep, I have more women interested.. the older I get! Strange.
I'm gonna go with the tried and true "How you doin'?"
1:49 oh my, women and their "boundaries"
next time a girls says this to me in an interaction, conversation, while asking her out, because i know that sometimes women will say this, just so they can be sure, they will sometimes say "are you asking me out?", i would say to her:
'DUH!!!!!!, OF COURSE I'M ASKING YOU OUT, I'M A GUY!!!!, ITS WHAT WE DO!!!!!!', i feel that will make me feel good about myself for saying a rude asshole response, just expressing sarcasm in a resentful way, because i know i'm not the only guy in the world that has always hated and resented how asking someone out has always been and probably forever will be on the mans shoulders, being the one to make the first move, make advances and start interactions, be an interesting conversationalist, ive always been a fan of the belief that men need to be better talkers, be a better conversationalist than women do in order to be successful at dating have better social skills than women do overall, escalate things, take the god damn lead all the time.
its another reminder, and i know people will say to never compare ourselves to others, don't worry about what others don't have to do or deal with, focus on you, but i get annoyed and enraged that there are even dating coaches for women, because i will never understand why would women need help on how to attract men when they don't have to be the ones to pursue, or approach, take any action on their part, that doesn't require any jackshit of skills, doesn't require any learning, any behavior development. Ya i will never understand and it makes me laugh and cringe when people say women need skills to do well in dating on their part, how? just exist and be pretty is not a skill, because being beautiful is not a skill since its not behavior based.
Im 38 decent looking, single guy. Full time job at a casino, All the chicks love me😊whatevs... Got this younger 20s checking me out. Turned my head around to check her out while her and that BF were walking by. She wipped her head so fast i swore her hair made a bullwhip sound!😂 The next day she was walking ahead of her man and making HIM carry the coffees! She was in a rush and looked like she was doggin him for some reason 😂 the Next day she got in my path without that BF while i was on the way to the bar! It happened so fast i had no time for a quick witted response so i just said excuse me and kept going. Damn, do i sense a break !💔 Next time i get her alone its on!😂🎉
It is easier when a girl can see your higher value/maturity and actually try things to get you! Never even talked to her b4 that short run in. She sure had no problem ditching that dork and getting in front of me! Feel bad for the guy i really do, but Shes gonna make her choice and may the better man win!
Hypergamy is a cruel trait of female nature! 😂 If she's a toxic girl, she'll cheat with me. If she's a good girl. That was a breakup and she's giving me the shot!😂
just a quick note: if her voice lowers ... look for an apple, 'cause if there's an apple there's going to be a tree.....run.
What?
Solid gold 🪙
Woa😍 Looking extra beautifull in that dress D 😍❤😊🥰
Top 14 Baby!
lemme guess, they touch and remember stuff and ask you if you've eaten?
@@grit1679 I dunno, it seemed to be at least somewhat fact based, it's more that it's repetitive in the extreme, of the last 10 videos or so 7 or 8 have been essentially the same content under different titles. And now they've picked up this nasty habit of wrapping an ad in content, as if youtube isn't annoying enough with incessant ads, I'm not buying any of that shit out of spite.
Def by area age matters in my town lot n stigma don't get break
Absolutely known 😁👍♥️💯
I find myself feeling weird about a situation. Me and this girl at work have a connection. We’ve already established that. We know we want each other. We give each other the eyes. Lean in together. Flirting heavily. But … she’s 21 and I’m 40. And that stops me from advancing. I feel weird. I don’t want to feel like this creep dude. I’d rather have her make the first move so it’s not so weird. But I don’t think she understands that. Am I wrong. I mean for feeling weird that I’m a lot older.? I don’t want to end up not shooting my shot and losing out because I’m overthinking.
Presuming you’re a guy, yes you’re wrong (shocker huh?). You need to watch much more vids of this nature to understand why she’s expecting you to showcase your maturity and take lead. The real question is, is she just a flirty girl or is it specific to only you? And please, be honest with yourself.
@@HeadlessAce being honest with myself yes. She is specifically into me. We’ve established that. We’ve spoke about it in flirts. How we look at each other. And we talked about it. But I’m not a Casanova by any means. So I’m kinda shy I guess when it comes to this. I guess I second guess myself. I see her tomorrow so I gotta figure this out.
I’m 60 and have regularly dated women in their 20’s and early 30’s. By not being direct to her you both lose. If you are direct and catch her off guard because she was just flirting, it will righter push her forward towards you; will appreciate your boldness, but decline; or, file a sexual harassment complaint with H.R. Be bold. The only thing you have to lose is your job. 😆
I'm 59 and she's a 38 year old single mom she keeps giving weird signals to get to know her. I'm getting ready to ask her out with out getting fired from my job. We have been coworkers for 6 years now and I just don't want her to file sexual harassment against me for asking.
Oh 😲 you look so pretty ❤😍
Thanks beautiful Anna
Some of these are true for me with a girl at work and im still kinda assessing the situation because she's dating another guy but I know they've just had a rocky period but she's 18 and i'm nearly 34 >
Don't do it. Not worth it. Not necessarily the age, but if she's with a guy and flirting, and at work, that's not a good sign.
Unless it's a job you plan on leaving, then I'd say go for it.
I wouldn't ever go for an under 20 unless she's got both parents in her life and displays maturity
Meaning she doesn't try to start fights with you and respects you.
Also gotta realize that age they wanna go out and party and get black out drunk. Not girls you wanna fall in love with. They will betray you.
Unless you just wanna wet your whistle
Brehh definitely not worth it
Stay away or you’ll be sorry. 25 and above.
bro your voice would be so perfect for an AI assistant, you should cast for the next siri or Jarvis
Whass a matta with 3 in one head to toe? 😮😂
What if she stands really close to you when she's talking to you? I mean more than anyone else.
It means she likes you. Try putting your arm around her....if she moves in closer to you....she likes you.
@@johnmessick9946 Haha. Girl was timid and got scared at the end. I just turned around and walked out of her life. Nothing else to do.
@@Leondrius I guess that is her loss
And I have to ask what are you referring for the age difference....what 5 years ...10 .... 10 plus??
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Hi joya me and my female best friend had to stop texting January this year and now we are texting does this mean that she is still very interested and into me
WAIT WHAT HAPPEN TO THE 💀 TATTOO'S. ???
I like you❤❤❤
She remove her skull tattoos? Looks so much cleaner great video Anna 😊
I was wondering that too....definitaly looks better now imo.....im old fashioned
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Anna are you looking for maturity?
I think of you all the time 😘😘.
🥳🥰😘🤩😍
All woman are intressed if you have money or power
A woman shows her femininity by LOWERING her voice?? Ya sure about that?😅😅😅
Get it wrong though, you in prison.
In the real world it doesn't matter that much get off your loo and join the real world
Really this makes you look fake doing advertising 😢
Which brings the question are you really fake?