@@1dering11 Isn’t it ironic that they don’t make that much them selfs yet bring down people who make the same them as them and get mad when the guy who makes more isn’t interested in her character.
My dad raised 5 kids on a very basic salary. My husband raised 8 kids with his own business. We lived lower middle income.. My kids lived on ten acres and played hard with simple toys and steady good food. I didn't need money. I needed a steady husband and daddy. My husband was the best at both!! Good life.
I don't know how someone is able to have a lot of kids (subjective I know), earn sufficient income to support the family, and be a good parent. It's entirely possible to do so, but it makes it more difficult and I don't think most people can handle that. As such that is very impressive!
@@RedDevilStudio Yeah the inflation makes this nearly impossible now a days. Its rare for someone to provide for a wife and 5+ kids unless they make great money, live in a rural area with lots of property or live on a tight budget.
As a 19 year old. I am going into the military with an associates degree in Criminology summer of 2022 and i have a vision to come out after my 4 years and build my pockets, character, soul, and overall person.
All men "need" to have purpose. That confidence that attracts women doesn't come from making a certain amount of money. It comes from being on your purpose in life. If it make 6 figures, so be it. If the women you get are with you cause you make a certain amount, then they're the wrong kinda women to invest your time in to.
But all women are like that, but it's not about the money itself, it's that the money brings stability, poor men are the only ones getting defensive and arguing about stupid shit like this when it doesn't even matter, it's survival of the fittest winner takes all even mine, anything else is wishful thinking
@@toginfinity8418 it's hypergamy. You can't fight it. You gotta compete. Winners win all the time. Losers lose all the time. Turn yourself into a winner. "Women don't like average men anymore." Then don't be average. Nothing great ever came from an average man, and there's nothing to praise about complacency. Contentment is poison to ambition.
@@Buddy330 Oh yeah I know for sure, but there is sure a thing as innate advantages, I'm not saying this for me but you do know that not all men are able to, even if they want to, rise higher, as you know we are not born equal some are just going to be nothing in the eyes of strangers no matter what.
Part of being a man is having the courage to stand tall and extend the invitation to a lady. If they say no, it's ok, say no problem & goodbye. Woman who really like you no matter their beauty or status will go anywhere! Stay true to who you are gentlemen.
@Z A You are talking about cohabitation-thats NOT dating. It makes me sad that y’all don’t know how to DATE anymore…it is why your lives (male and female) are so f**** up…
@@sherryda2018bb You're barking up the wrong tree. I have no intentions on dating or marrying a feminist western woman. I confirmed this with my east Asian lady.
When I was growing up my mom taught me and my sister that we needed to be able to support ourselves, so that we did not need to find a man to take care of us because we could take care of ourselves. She want us to be able to find strong partners in life & not just a provider. When I got married, I had lived on my own for 3 years and I married my husband because he told me that I didn't have to work if I didn't want to but if I did the money I made was for my use and not the household money. We both pay the household expenses and up keep. We both took care of raising our daughter. He is not a millionaire but we are not in debt and our daughter gets to go to the college of her choice without student loans. We also taught her not to settle for just any man but to look for one who will make a good partner who will support her choices and she can support his.
They way your mom raised you and your sister is the exact same way I raise my 2 daughters. I really want them to do the things they want to do before settling down and not to settle for second best but what's best for them
I don’t think Kevin was saying that a man needs to afford his woman a lavish life, but as a man if you’re starting a family he should be able to afford the expenses that comes with that i.e. food, shelter and clothing (not Gucci and prada😂)
This man spitting facts. Why would a high value man (money wise) feel the need to treat a woman right because he has tons of options. Even F&F say that they have options, they take those options always just wanting the “eye candy” and if they aren’t they should. To me high value are the ones with the good qualities outside of money. Money should be a “added bonus” not a requirement.
high value man is a man who is attractive to most of women. It has nothing to do with be a man. A man.. no A Man do not have to be high value, and high value man do not have to be A Man.
@@igortytarenko9136 I realize there may be a language barrier but not sure what you mean. Many podcasts say “high value” is mainly money wise. I did put in my opinion, so I put my personal spin on it and I appreciate your spin on it too.
@@bradleymcconnell470 what I mean is: a Man is a guy who know what is loyalty, respect, stay tru to others, himself and his beliefs. A high value man is a guy who makes money and in good shape, a guy who is attractive for girls. A Man may or may not be a high value man, just As high value man may or may not be a Man.
I just thank God that I live a simple life and that my dad raised his daughters to take care of ourselves without compromising our character because it has caused me to be completely unattracted by superficial things and superficial people. I don't know what happened to lead us to believe that a human being is only worth the amount of money they make. We are literally walking created beings. There's no way God made someone who wasn't worth everything to Him. We just need new mindset and new hearts.
At age 50, what's better than money, a nap. This sounded crazy to me as a youngster growing up, but I completely understand today. I almost cry evertime I take the benz and Porsche in for maintenance, I smile when the dodge and Honda goes in.
that's good but until they become high value men should have some help among the way to even get there without having a job that give you that top earning money
Kevin is partially right. All men need to strive to make over 6 figures because of the cost of living. However all men shouldn’t be disqualified if they don’t. When Kevin references the 60’s when 80 percent of Black people were married, the average of the men didn’t make 8 times above average. It’s true but you gotta be careful with that. Not everybody qualified to be husbands is going to make 100,000+ when you meet them.
Kevin never said this. He regularly talks about average earning Black couples working together and stacking their money. Living separately and maintaining two households is financially defeating.
He is not talking about a man(in this particular case). He is describing high value man; and there is a difference between two. Not all men are height value men and not all high value men are men. High value men is a guy who is attractive to women, a man is a guy who know what is respect, loyalty and who is true to himself and others.
Division has been done by Black women focused media, feminists, LGBTQ. Kevin is actually helping BM and BW reconcile and try to work together. Hypergamy and divest twitter crowd is the cause of the division.
man that last part you discussed at 24:00 is so true. Even though i get the fact of my dad handling everything he did not prepare his wife, my mother for is eventual absence. He passed away and my mom had to learn how to pay all the bills and manage everything. thanks to my sister being a financial advisor she has helped our mother learn where to put money and where she could trim the fat in order to save for her retirement. Its definitely a lesson I have learned through their experience in hopes of not repeating. me and my fiancé talk about everything from finances to religion to just basic expectations and desires. we are intentional about laying everything bare and creating an atmosphere where we both can be vulnerable and yet accountable.
I feel like when people say things like that they believe that a woman wont leave you if you do pay for everything, which is false. It happens everyday
In my 20's I had some wives and I was broke as shit. Not proud of that now in my 30's but their husbands "paid the cost to be the boss" but that has nothing to do with a woman's loyalty. It is sad that dudes think that paying for everything guarantees loyalty, trust, submission, etc.
Kevin Samuel discusses the high value man who is making 6 figure income as well as a few other traits. Woman today want that 1% man and they themselves are not in the 1% of woman.
My only discrepancy was in the beginning...Kevin said a man should pay for everything, ok aight, if you can...But he didn't say you're not a man if you don't / can't
Exactly. He set up a false narrative to argue against. Sad. Kevin once told a woman that if she wanted to make a man wait for sex, she should pay for the dates.😂
There is much wisdom here. Much passion as well. I think i need to stay here a while and let it soak in. This is my first introduction to Kevin Samuels too ... .powerful.
I live in Northern California and not the Bay Area. I am older and divorced I make the bottom six figures and figured this out a while ago. I dated women several times a week and was paying for EVERYTHING and found I was struggling to pay my bills. I had women calling me and started telling them sorry it wasn't in my budget or gave them the option to do something that was less costly. The ones that cared about me or liked me for me took the cheaper option or offered to pay. If they are making as much or more then me why should I have to pay every time if they are the ones that want to go out and do something?
@@humbleservant7797 he said if you can’t afford a women don’t chase one. which means that if i could afford a women then i should be chasing one which we don’t do over here.
I appreciate your channel, brother. Thank you for posting these kinds of videos. That time investment you're putting in will get you where you're supposed to be in no time. 💪🏼👍🏼
I know I can be difficult some times men dont really get my need to be independent but at the same time be pampered so I will just stay single and I am ok with that
The comment was taken out of context. A man should be able to pay because 1) if you're living within your means then you can "afford to pay", 2) the person that you are investing in should understand your "present" circumstance 3) it was meant to motivate you to be on & stay on your grind. The purpose was to help the female maintain her feminine ways at every level.
Growing up I never knew how much my mom or dad made, I just knew that whatever my dad said goes, if money becomes obsolete today it’s the leadership of men in relationships that’s gonna dictate success
I still remember a woman leaving me because she said i was not making enought to support a family, i told her, im in college now, just wait for me, i will make it, 3 years later what i was set up to make i did it and got the finalcian freedom i wanted, if she would have waited for me we been having a family now.
@Christina R No she was a real woman who loved her husband... She would do anything for anybody how women should be but now yall all masculine with dogs and cats. Foolish and they say women mature faster...
Salute to this reaction, and mad respect to that gentleman speaking straight truth. I actually shared this video with my sons, because of all the jewls within it. Something he said which I'm not hearing enough, is striving to be a man of faith. I understand it's 2021 and a different time, but this point on God should always be at the forefront. As man and father that's 42 and married 22 years, I absolutely and whole heartedly agree. Awesome video
15 years in the military and thank God for the money mentors I found along my journey. It's almost criminal how easy you can be a millionaire by 50 if you have the discipline to do so.
I think Kevin is saying "it is what it is" and not that it's necessarily right that men should need to pay for everything, because of what women are wanting, if they want those type of women. Problem is, the majority of women, especially within certain communities of women, are like this, sadly.
There are too many women contributing to their home and supporting themselves for this to be true. The majority of women are fine supporting themselves. Someone who wants you to pay all the bills and wants to keep her money for herself, that's a red flag. That woman like that will not respect or submit to if the tides turn financially.
@@sugarwaterpurple5280 women that look for someone to be able to pay aren't necessarily gold diggers, but looking for someone to be able to provide not just for her but for her /their future children. That's what he's talking about. This is why women always truly look for someone who is greater than them. This is supported overwhelmingly by studies and statistics.
Even the workers at Ruth Chris isn’t making that! There are more retail than corporate. One corp runs the 10 - 20 businesses of that name brand ex:target, etc.
Yes ...they always want a " ready " male to lock in...if she cant rise with me as I attempt to get better then don't come to me when I reach my height.
God bless him and you. This is the best video of yours I have ever seen. Truly out done yourself.! Tfs!!! Women becoming high earners, be sure of what you want. Know your priorities. Know that finding an equal earner may not happen. Remember love and family is priceless. The character is more valuable than earnings
I’m with Anthony on this. I rather be a mans man, a man of morals character and ethics then a perceived “HVM” by the modern women. The modern “HVM” is determined by the modern women not men.
Fam. I don't think your Asian friend's story is sad. Man's got his life goals. He's moving. If the ladies pass h8m over they ain't the right ones for him.
If I could like this video a thousand times I would! As I woman that has been in both kinds of relationships, I would much rather be with a man that treats me right rather than a man with a big account that will probably be arrogant af. I searched for a man that would show my kids the right way to live and the right way for a relationship to be. No we aren't rich but we have cars to get us back and forth to work and we work together to build and mutually respect each other and each others opinions. That's more important to me than some ahole coming in smacking me around in front of my kids or even in secret, yelling at us to do what he wants then buying us ice cream and gifts after trying to make us forget about it even though I still have the mark to prove it truly happened. ITS NOT WORTH IT!
I work for local government, I am paid decently but I’m certainly not “rich” but I am almost entirely debt free, have a condo, my own truck, and am able to save a good amount of money every month so that I am always richer than I was previously. That’s enough for me for now, and when I am ready to (which will be relatively soon), I have money set aside for investing in the things I want to for the future. Just because it doesn’t happen immediately doesn’t mean it’s not going to happen or that it’s not worth working toward fellas. Persistence and dedication will get you anywhere you want to go.
Isaiah 3: 16-25 Jerusalem’s Women Judged 16 The Lord also says: Because the daughters of Zion are haughty, walking with heads held high and seductive eyes, prancing along, jingling their ankle bracelets, 17 the Lord will put scabs on the heads of the daughters of Zion, and the Lord will shave their foreheads bare. 18 On that day the Lord will strip their finery: ankle bracelets, headbands, crescents, 19 pendants, bracelets, veils, 20 headdresses, ankle jewelry, sashes, perfume bottles, amulets, 21 signet rings, nose rings, 22 festive robes, capes, cloaks, purses, 23 garments, linen clothes, turbans, and shawls. 24 Instead of perfume there will be a stench; instead of a belt, a rope; instead of beautifully styled hair, baldness; instead of fine clothes, sackcloth; instead of beauty, branding.[d] 25 Your men will fall by the sword, your warriors in battle. 26 Then her gates will lament and mourn; deserted, she will sit on the ground.
I feel bad for men because a lot of women see men as banks/safes/atms. Ladies, have your own money, so when you encounter a man, the only thing he can offer you is his character. And if his character is not of purity, he got to go.
MTR’s latest video and videos like these help ensure me that this black man-o-sphere space is not becoming an echo chamber. Hearing opposite opinions in a respectful way is great for keeping people informed
Funny you should say that because MTR has stolen a ton of my talking points from my terminated channel (like the test women point, rating girls on livestreams and etc). He even made a video bashing red pill that he stole almost word for word from my current channel. Even eve used my Johnny Bravo talking point. He seemed to have slowed down when I commented calling him out. Thay even made Kevin Samuel's change his streams to members only chat cause he know I was coming for him. These are false prophets that steal from smaller channels.
I agree 💯 percent with both of you. As a mother of two young men. I try to tell them to focus on your self. Because, the right young lady would understand. Especially when she's out here doing the same.
This is something I needed to watch because this has proved my point for my other female friends. Men shouldn’t be anything and everything just to impress anyone. I have told my boyfriend that he is a man that is too hard working to impress me or any other women. I have told him that I loved his mindset and his personality for me to even care about anything financially. When it comes down to investing, I want him to focus on his future purchases that he would want or need in his life. I don’t want someone to pay everything for me especially he has something to build toward.
Being 'a man' is not determined by the wallet 'thickness'. A man takes care of his family best he can. A man is there for his children, guiding them down the path to being upstanding adults, teaching them where and when he can. A man is true to his word - if he says he's going to do something, he does it, or if he cannot do something he speaks up then. A man does not run when things are too difficult (or boring).
When this man said the average salary in 42K a year, people need to know it means all salaries are included and the top high salaries are so high that the datas become a complete non-sense. It means less than 1/4 of the whole people really get to those 42K. If you want a more realistic number, you pull out the equation (let say) the 100.000 highest salaries and the 100.000 lowest salaries. Then you get a number more around 25K than the 42K this man is talking about. In reality, the largest majority of men can not pay for everything any longer and it will be more and more true with the energy crisis to come. In France, electricity and gas bills are meant to increase by 50% by 2050 and it will be worse for home rents as the offer will go decreasing while the demand will the opposite. Kevin Samuels makes me laugh sometimes when I see how disconnected from reality he is. I particulary smile when he talks to some women with a lot of despise when he is himself father and divorced with kids. And twice if I'm right. Meaning, he's not an example to follow. Not to mention how he's rejecting all the wrong on women while putting men on a pedestal.
Just want to add my two cents. KS largely talks in regards to high value men. So it isn't that he sees men as not being men based on income, it is more of an accountability ploy to get men to work harder and not be satisfied with having an average job. I don't believe they are disagreeing, the KS sound byte doesn't provide enough context for the quote. KS provides uncomfortable truths to produce higher outcomes. AO is harping on the sound byte but he is neglecting the fact that many many people are not financially savvy and are literally living pay check to paycheck and that the modern dating market is based on one's income. One quote I love to think about comes from the Fresh and Fit podcast: A king can marry a peasant and she becomes a queen, but a queen would not look a peasant's way.
I’d agree with KS if she’s being a good companion, being there for me when I get off of work, taking care of dinner, showing appreciation for me, as I do the same for her. But if she’s being untrustworthy, or nags when I can’t take her to Texas de Brazil every week then HELL NO
I dated a Colombian(born) girl once, only lasted 3 months. I’m American Colombian. It got to a point we were going out almost every night and I eventually told her that if you want to keep going out like this I couldn’t afford to and I would appreciate it if she could help out every once in a while. She got pissed. I’m the man, I suppose to pay for everything. I asked her “you would never treat me for a night out?” She thought for a second and then said, I SWEAR, “Well I would if it was you birthday”. My response ? With the deepest layer of sarcasm in my voice. “ My birthday?! Omg I’m so lucky you would treat me to a dinner for my bday. What a wonderful girlfriend you are.” We broke up a week later. Why a week later? SHE WAS SO HOT!
The first mistake for any man is to allow someone else to define you.
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Yes
Women will do that for you. And if you don’t make enough money they will dump you.
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@@1dering11 Isn’t it ironic that they don’t make that much them selfs yet bring down people who make the same them as them and get mad when the guy who makes more isn’t interested in her character.
My dad raised 5 kids on a very basic salary. My husband raised 8 kids with his own business. We lived lower middle income.. My kids lived on ten acres and played hard with simple toys and steady good food.
I didn't need money. I needed a steady husband and daddy. My husband was the best at both!! Good life.
Now that’s what I call the American dream. 💪🏽🙏🏼 a big family and stability. Don’t get much better than that in my book.
I don't know how someone is able to have a lot of kids (subjective I know), earn sufficient income to support the family, and be a good parent. It's entirely possible to do so, but it makes it more difficult and I don't think most people can handle that. As such that is very impressive!
So does he make all the money or do you both work to support your family?
Most modern women would’ve found that not enough. Most modern women eventually will leave someone like that.
@@RedDevilStudio Yeah the inflation makes this nearly impossible now a days. Its rare for someone to provide for a wife and 5+ kids unless they make great money, live in a rural area with lots of property or live on a tight budget.
Women don't care about a man's struggle. They wait at the finish line.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
they think they the trophy with no skills horrible shape and attitude
True
Don’t date one of those
My thing is if you got it all what do you need me for I want a man I can grow and build with together
As a 19 year old. I am going into the military with an associates degree in Criminology summer of 2022 and i have a vision to come out after my 4 years and build my pockets, character, soul, and overall person.
You keep going bro I believe in you
Can’t find who asked
Open a TSP (thrift savings plan), when you get in the military, I wish I did.
Im becoming an aircraft mechanic when I go into the air force I have the same idea when I get out in 4 years too. Best of luck to you my friend
Maybe finish your degree and go in as an officer.
KS speaks on "High Value Man" not the average man
Ppl seem to not remember that part. And men who are in the process of becoming hvm.
but a lot of women believe they deserve a HVM but are not putting in the work for one
That's true too
Yeah I think the guy in the video missed the high value part
@@hookdahustla ..That's y men control relationships...it's the man decision
All men "need" to have purpose. That confidence that attracts women doesn't come from making a certain amount of money. It comes from being on your purpose in life. If it make 6 figures, so be it.
If the women you get are with you cause you make a certain amount, then they're the wrong kinda women to invest your time in to.
Facts 💯🤷🏿♂️
But all women are like that, but it's not about the money itself, it's that the money brings stability, poor men are the only ones getting defensive and arguing about stupid shit like this when it doesn't even matter, it's survival of the fittest winner takes all even mine, anything else is wishful thinking
@@toginfinity8418 it's hypergamy. You can't fight it. You gotta compete. Winners win all the time. Losers lose all the time. Turn yourself into a winner.
"Women don't like average men anymore." Then don't be average. Nothing great ever came from an average man, and there's nothing to praise about complacency.
Contentment is poison to ambition.
@@Buddy330 Oh yeah I know for sure, but there is sure a thing as innate advantages, I'm not saying this for me but you do know that not all men are able to, even if they want to, rise higher, as you know we are not born equal some are just going to be nothing in the eyes of strangers no matter what.
@@toginfinity8418 Bro I was still getting poontang back when I was broke 😂
Ladies this is 100% true. Make sure you keep an income because your spouse may drop off the Earth. Don't set yourself up.
I agree God bless the child that has his own.
You can pay for everything just on your budget. This is what my dad taught me
Part of being a man is having the courage to stand tall and extend the invitation to a lady. If they say no, it's ok, say no problem & goodbye. Woman who really like you no matter their beauty or status will go anywhere! Stay true to who you are gentlemen.
Wise words OG
@John High well go vet....what the hell you doing here wasting time? Smh
@John High yeah stop talking
Facts
Husbands and wives owe each other, boyfriends and girlfriends don't owe each other anything, in America we think dating is marriage and it's not.
Bingo
Go tell that to the divorce courts..
@@proverbs3133 There is no divorce courts for dating….stop treating dating like marriage…it is not now and never will be…
@Z A You are talking about cohabitation-thats NOT dating. It makes me sad that y’all don’t know how to DATE anymore…it is why your lives (male and female) are so f**** up…
@@sherryda2018bb You're barking up the wrong tree. I have no intentions on dating or marrying a feminist western woman. I confirmed this with my east Asian lady.
When I was growing up my mom taught me and my sister that we needed to be able to support ourselves, so that we did not need to find a man to take care of us because we could take care of ourselves. She want us to be able to find strong partners in life & not just a provider. When I got married, I had lived on my own for 3 years and I married my husband because he told me that I didn't have to work if I didn't want to but if I did the money I made was for my use and not the household money. We both pay the household expenses and up keep. We both took care of raising our daughter. He is not a millionaire but we are not in debt and our daughter gets to go to the college of her choice without student loans. We also taught her not to settle for just any man but to look for one who will make a good partner who will support her choices and she can support his.
Marriage isn’t a partnership. Unless you’re gay
They way your mom raised you and your sister is the exact same way I raise my 2 daughters. I really want them to do the things they want to do before settling down and not to settle for second best but what's best for them
When you judge a man on the quantity of his wallet instead of the quality of his soul, you'll never be more alone than when you're with that man.
I don’t think Kevin was saying that a man needs to afford his woman a lavish life, but as a man if you’re starting a family he should be able to afford the expenses that comes with that i.e. food, shelter and clothing (not Gucci and prada😂)
This is true. Especially because if you’re going to have kids, chances are you will be down to 1 income for awhile.
Yes. I thought he was saying that as well, then he mentioned the latter and it's possible to survive off a decent budget.
they know exactly why he’s saying. trust me
This man spitting facts. Why would a high value man (money wise) feel the need to treat a woman right because he has tons of options. Even F&F say that they have options, they take those options always just wanting the “eye candy” and if they aren’t they should.
To me high value are the ones with the good qualities outside of money. Money should be a “added bonus” not a requirement.
high value man is a man who is attractive to most of women. It has nothing to do with be a man. A man.. no A Man do not have to be high value, and high value man do not have to be A Man.
@@igortytarenko9136 I realize there may be a language barrier but not sure what you mean. Many podcasts say “high value” is mainly money wise.
I did put in my opinion, so I put my personal spin on it and I appreciate your spin on it too.
@@bradleymcconnell470 what I mean is: a Man is a guy who know what is loyalty, respect, stay tru to others, himself and his beliefs. A high value man is a guy who makes money and in good shape, a guy who is attractive for girls. A Man may or may not be a high value man, just As high value man may or may not be a Man.
All men have a ton of options. Broke men cheat, too..
@@blahblahblah3722 sure they do but that’s not the point.
I just thank God that I live a simple life and that my dad raised his daughters to take care of ourselves without compromising our character because it has caused me to be completely unattracted by superficial things and superficial people. I don't know what happened to lead us to believe that a human being is only worth the amount of money they make. We are literally walking created beings. There's no way God made someone who wasn't worth everything to Him. We just need new mindset and new hearts.
At age 50, what's better than money, a nap. This sounded crazy to me as a youngster growing up, but I completely understand today. I almost cry evertime I take the benz and Porsche in for maintenance, I smile when the dodge and Honda goes in.
My dude KS is talking about high value men
Right
that's good but until they become high value men should have some help among the way to even get there without having a job that give you that top earning money
He's talking about high EARNING men, not high value.
That kind of pressure is staggering, but I think it more about the drive for leading or being that modern hunter/gatherer
Kevin is partially right. All men need to strive to make over 6 figures because of the cost of living. However all men shouldn’t be disqualified if they don’t. When Kevin references the 60’s when 80 percent of Black people were married, the average of the men didn’t make 8 times above average. It’s true but you gotta be careful with that. Not everybody qualified to be husbands is going to make 100,000+ when you meet them.
Kevin never said this. He regularly talks about average earning Black couples working together and stacking their money. Living separately and maintaining two households is financially defeating.
He is not talking about a man(in this particular case). He is describing high value man; and there is a difference between two. Not all men are height value men and not all high value men are men. High value men is a guy who is attractive to women, a man is a guy who know what is respect, loyalty and who is true to himself and others.
@@igortytarenko9136 good assessment
Division has been done by Black women focused media, feminists, LGBTQ. Kevin is actually helping BM and BW reconcile and try to work together. Hypergamy and divest twitter crowd is the cause of the division.
@Ujine iSRAEL How do you think is the best approach or what is the disease?
Kevin is always speaking from the point of view of be the best version of yourself.
Thank you for saying this because it needed to put out more ppl need to hear this ❤️
man that last part you discussed at 24:00 is so true. Even though i get the fact of my dad handling everything he did not prepare his wife, my mother for is eventual absence. He passed away and my mom had to learn how to pay all the bills and manage everything. thanks to my sister being a financial advisor she has helped our mother learn where to put money and where she could trim the fat in order to save for her retirement. Its definitely a lesson I have learned through their experience in hopes of not repeating. me and my fiancé talk about everything from finances to religion to just basic expectations and desires. we are intentional about laying everything bare and creating an atmosphere where we both can be vulnerable and yet accountable.
A good man is always working towards his goals and has a passion for his future life.
I feel like when people say things like that they believe that a woman wont leave you if you do pay for everything, which is false. It happens everyday
In my 20's I had some wives and I was broke as shit. Not proud of that now in my 30's but their husbands "paid the cost to be the boss" but that has nothing to do with a woman's loyalty. It is sad that dudes think that paying for everything guarantees loyalty, trust, submission, etc.
@@jarvisthrasher22 facts I had that lifestyle in my twenties also yep provision does not guarantee those things.
@@IDTification You understand the game. Stay safe out here man !!
@@jarvisthrasher22 Yes sir. Stay safe out here too bro!
Lead with money and you'll get those who are seeking just that.
If they are not there for you at your lowest, they don't deserve to be there for you at your highest.
Kevin Samuel discusses the high value man who is making 6 figure income as well as a few other traits.
Woman today want that 1% man and they themselves are not in the 1% of woman.
Great video, I'm glad I was able to catch the content. Many men can benefit from this.
My only discrepancy was in the beginning...Kevin said a man should pay for everything, ok aight, if you can...But he didn't say you're not a man if you don't / can't
Exactly. He set up a false narrative to argue against. Sad. Kevin once told a woman that if she wanted to make a man wait for sex, she should pay for the dates.😂
@@cliftonconnor9389 😂😂 exactly
One of your best shows, working on my self and the people who care for me!
I don't know this brother but I can tell you, God is speaking through him. Let those who have ears, listen.
He's awesome and I listen to him a lot. Give him a listen. AO (Anthony O'Neal) he deals with more financial stuff.
There is much wisdom here. Much passion as well. I think i need to stay here a while and let it soak in. This is my first introduction to Kevin Samuels too ... .powerful.
I live in Northern California and not the Bay Area. I am older and divorced I make the bottom six figures and figured this out a while ago. I dated women several times a week and was paying for EVERYTHING and found I was struggling to pay my bills. I had women calling me and started telling them sorry it wasn't in my budget or gave them the option to do something that was less costly. The ones that cared about me or liked me for me took the cheaper option or offered to pay. If they are making as much or more then me why should I have to pay every time if they are the ones that want to go out and do something?
Thanks for reviewing this video... definitely eye opening. Subbed to their channel!!
he said only 6-9 % earn more then 6 figures men not all men and says modern woman dont respect men today that mom and grandma did
If you cant afford a woman... don't chase one. Nowadays, women are bills... and that's it.. You don't buy a car you cant afford.
so you’re saying that if you could afford her stupidness, you would go out with her and pay for it?
@@ap3055 hell no! no woman aint worth the headache!
As mechanic i tell ppl this all the time. Espically when the car breaksdown and you cant afford to fix it.
@@ap3055 you missed the woman are bills are. He never suggested paying for them, simply letting you know how life works.
@@humbleservant7797 he said if you can’t afford a women don’t chase one. which means that if i could afford a women then i should be chasing one which we don’t do over here.
I agree with you and Anthony O’Neill 💯👍🏻
This is cap Kevin never said that shit
I appreciate your channel, brother. Thank you for posting these kinds of videos. That time investment you're putting in will get you where you're supposed to be in no time. 💪🏼👍🏼
I know I can be difficult some times men dont really get my need to be independent but at the same time be pampered so I will just stay single and I am ok with that
Keep up the good work. True peace is what you get when you find a good spouse. Keep your heart open and your mind sharp.
All modern women have to do is “be” & still many of them refuse to SMH
The comment was taken out of context. A man should be able to pay because 1) if you're living within your means then you can "afford to pay", 2) the person that you are investing in should understand your "present" circumstance 3) it was meant to motivate you to be on & stay on your grind. The purpose was to help the female maintain her feminine ways at every level.
We need to hear Kevin Samuels exact words
Great information! Thank you!
Growing up I never knew how much my mom or dad made, I just knew that whatever my dad said goes, if money becomes obsolete today it’s the leadership of men in relationships that’s gonna dictate success
I still remember a woman leaving me because she said i was not making enought to support a family, i told her, im in college now, just wait for me, i will make it, 3 years later what i was set up to make i did it and got the finalcian freedom i wanted, if she would have waited for me we been having a family now.
No cap, me and Anthony went to church back in the day. His mom's was our choir instructor💯
Great video bro all facts I teach my son an daughter the same thing everyday cause this goes both ways
"For men, we have to be those things and more." Facts.
My grandmother made more money than my grandfather and she still loved and respected him... Also cooked and was submissive.
Pretty much the same setup with my parents
@Christina R No she was a real woman who loved her husband... She would do anything for anybody how women should be but now yall all masculine with dogs and cats. Foolish and they say women mature faster...
Salute to this reaction, and mad respect to that gentleman speaking straight truth. I actually shared this video with my sons, because of all the jewls within it. Something he said which I'm not hearing enough, is striving to be a man of faith. I understand it's 2021 and a different time, but this point on God should always be at the forefront. As man and father that's 42 and married 22 years, I absolutely and whole heartedly agree. Awesome video
Finally, someone with some damn common sense.
I agree with this brother. Buy a house, before you get a spouse. Create a life, before you get a wife
Why was that video taken down?
15 years in the military and thank God for the money mentors I found along my journey. It's almost criminal how easy you can be a millionaire by 50 if you have the discipline to do so.
A man does what he can and when he cant, a cold beer and a good laugh will do just as good
I think Kevin is saying "it is what it is" and not that it's necessarily right that men should need to pay for everything, because of what women are wanting, if they want those type of women. Problem is, the majority of women, especially within certain communities of women, are like this, sadly.
There are too many women contributing to their home and supporting themselves for this to be true. The majority of women are fine supporting themselves. Someone who wants you to pay all the bills and wants to keep her money for herself, that's a red flag. That woman like that will not respect or submit to if the tides turn financially.
@@sugarwaterpurple5280 women that look for someone to be able to pay aren't necessarily gold diggers, but looking for someone to be able to provide not just for her but for her /their future children. That's what he's talking about. This is why women always truly look for someone who is greater than them. This is supported overwhelmingly by studies and statistics.
Even the workers at Ruth Chris isn’t making that! There are more retail than corporate. One corp runs the 10 - 20 businesses of that name brand ex:target, etc.
This video is it right here. I appreciate y’all doin this keep it up💯
Kevin Hart out here spittin TRUTH!!! Str8 up 👍👍👍
a big point it seems is that men are expected to just start successful. we gotta work for success and i feel women arent even realizing that today.
Yes ...they always want a " ready " male to lock in...if she cant rise with me as I attempt to get better then don't come to me when I reach my height.
God bless him and you. This is the best video of yours I have ever seen. Truly out done yourself.! Tfs!!!
Women becoming high earners, be sure of what you want. Know your priorities. Know that finding an equal earner may not happen. Remember love and family is priceless. The character is more valuable than earnings
This was a more realistic view on life. I subscribed because I respect the content I heard.
I’m with Anthony on this. I rather be a mans man, a man of morals character and ethics then a perceived “HVM” by the modern women. The modern “HVM” is determined by the modern women not men.
You can be a male and have money and still not be a man
Fam. I don't think your Asian friend's story is sad. Man's got his life goals. He's moving. If the ladies pass h8m over they ain't the right ones for him.
Total solid advice!!!
If I could like this video a thousand times I would! As I woman that has been in both kinds of relationships, I would much rather be with a man that treats me right rather than a man with a big account that will probably be arrogant af. I searched for a man that would show my kids the right way to live and the right way for a relationship to be. No we aren't rich but we have cars to get us back and forth to work and we work together to build and mutually respect each other and each others opinions. That's more important to me than some ahole coming in smacking me around in front of my kids or even in secret, yelling at us to do what he wants then buying us ice cream and gifts after trying to make us forget about it even though I still have the mark to prove it truly happened. ITS NOT WORTH IT!
In his defense, Kevin Samuels is very clear about men NOT dating, especially taking care of a woman if they haven’t done the work to be able to.
Yep. Only a fool would listen to Kevin Samuels.
Man spitting facts....100%
Alvin Toffler is the philosopher being quoted. Beautiful quote.
Truth too that
I work for local government, I am paid decently but I’m certainly not “rich” but I am almost entirely debt free, have a condo, my own truck, and am able to save a good amount of money every month so that I am always richer than I was previously.
That’s enough for me for now, and when I am ready to (which will be relatively soon), I have money set aside for investing in the things I want to for the future. Just because it doesn’t happen immediately doesn’t mean it’s not going to happen or that it’s not worth working toward fellas. Persistence and dedication will get you anywhere you want to go.
Isaiah 3: 16-25
Jerusalem’s Women Judged
16 The Lord also says:
Because the daughters of Zion are haughty,
walking with heads held high
and seductive eyes,
prancing along,
jingling their ankle bracelets,
17 the Lord will put scabs on the heads
of the daughters of Zion,
and the Lord will shave their foreheads bare.
18 On that day the Lord will strip their finery: ankle bracelets, headbands, crescents, 19 pendants, bracelets, veils, 20 headdresses, ankle jewelry, sashes, perfume bottles, amulets, 21 signet rings, nose rings, 22 festive robes, capes, cloaks, purses, 23 garments, linen clothes, turbans, and shawls.
24 Instead of perfume there will be a stench;
instead of a belt, a rope;
instead of beautifully styled hair, baldness;
instead of fine clothes, sackcloth;
instead of beauty, branding.[d]
25 Your men will fall by the sword,
your warriors in battle.
26 Then her gates will lament and mourn;
deserted, she will sit on the ground.
KS usually speaks about HV men. I agree with him if you don’t have the finances but the guys KS speaks on has the income & resources. Wrong rant here.
Correct. Don't know what this guy is talking about?
Me neither. I saw the show where they got this quote from. Completely taken out of context
This video is pretty much highlighting the difference of the 2 in more depth where KS doesn't cover in this much depth. Its an objective approach.
Count me as confused. His rant is all wrong.
I feel bad for men because a lot of women see men as banks/safes/atms. Ladies, have your own money, so when you encounter a man, the only thing he can offer you is his character. And if his character is not of purity, he got to go.
Never let someone else define your value and brilliance!
Whats the name of ur other channel?
MTR’s latest video and videos like these help ensure me that this black man-o-sphere space is not becoming an echo chamber. Hearing opposite opinions in a respectful way is great for keeping people informed
Funny you should say that because MTR has stolen a ton of my talking points from my terminated channel (like the test women point, rating girls on livestreams and etc). He even made a video bashing red pill that he stole almost word for word from my current channel. Even eve used my Johnny Bravo talking point. He seemed to have slowed down when I commented calling him out. Thay even made Kevin Samuel's change his streams to members only chat cause he know I was coming for him. These are false prophets that steal from smaller channels.
I agree 💯 percent with both of you. As a mother of two young men. I try to tell them to focus on your self. Because, the right young lady would understand. Especially when she's out here doing the same.
Marriage is a UNITY, you are absolutely correct.
Dude I love this channel. Interesting views. Definitely learning from this channel. Thank you for these videos.
This is something I needed to watch because this has proved my point for my other female friends. Men shouldn’t be anything and everything just to impress anyone. I have told my boyfriend that he is a man that is too hard working to impress me or any other women. I have told him that I loved his mindset and his personality for me to even care about anything financially. When it comes down to investing, I want him to focus on his future purchases that he would want or need in his life. I don’t want someone to pay everything for me especially he has something to build toward.
These women for most part in this time are delusional! The monetary isn't what real success is about? It's part of it but not the whole picture.
Being 'a man' is not determined by the wallet 'thickness'. A man takes care of his family best he can. A man is there for his children, guiding them down the path to being upstanding adults, teaching them where and when he can. A man is true to his word - if he says he's going to do something, he does it, or if he cannot do something he speaks up then. A man does not run when things are too difficult (or boring).
Both are right only differences are that one can afford more then the other so it goes to staying in your lane and dont count other peoples money
He taking what KS said outta context simple as that. Them women want the lifestyle but fail to realize what it takes to be with these types of men.
I completely agree with bro. KS has his moments where he's not always right, and thats okay. Great to hear a good perspective
When this man said the average salary in 42K a year, people need to know it means all salaries are included and the top high salaries are so high that the datas become a complete non-sense. It means less than 1/4 of the whole people really get to those 42K.
If you want a more realistic number, you pull out the equation (let say) the 100.000 highest salaries and the 100.000 lowest salaries. Then you get a number more around 25K than the 42K this man is talking about.
In reality, the largest majority of men can not pay for everything any longer and it will be more and more true with the energy crisis to come. In France, electricity and gas bills are meant to increase by 50% by 2050 and it will be worse for home rents as the offer will go decreasing while the demand will the opposite.
Kevin Samuels makes me laugh sometimes when I see how disconnected from reality he is. I particulary smile when he talks to some women with a lot of despise when he is himself father and divorced with kids. And twice if I'm right. Meaning, he's not an example to follow. Not to mention how he's rejecting all the wrong on women while putting men on a pedestal.
Just want to add my two cents. KS largely talks in regards to high value men. So it isn't that he sees men as not being men based on income, it is more of an accountability ploy to get men to work harder and not be satisfied with having an average job. I don't believe they are disagreeing, the KS sound byte doesn't provide enough context for the quote. KS provides uncomfortable truths to produce higher outcomes. AO is harping on the sound byte but he is neglecting the fact that many many people are not financially savvy and are literally living pay check to paycheck and that the modern dating market is based on one's income. One quote I love to think about comes from the Fresh and Fit podcast: A king can marry a peasant and she becomes a queen, but a queen would not look a peasant's way.
U gotta pay the cost to be the boss if not most of wat he say can’t apply to u because u want have leverage
I like your new channel how have you been AOK
If anyone knows what video he said that in. I would like to see.
I’d agree with KS if she’s being a good companion, being there for me when I get off of work, taking care of dinner, showing appreciation for me, as I do the same for her.
But if she’s being untrustworthy, or nags when I can’t take her to Texas de Brazil every week then HELL NO
Kevin has brought that up many times but it’s the women who don’t want them
He’s one of my favorite financial advisors.
I've never been materialistic. Give me a godly man that treats me and the kids like gold instead of giving me gold.
I dated a Colombian(born) girl once, only lasted 3 months. I’m American Colombian. It got to a point we were going out almost every night and I eventually told her that if you want to keep going out like this I couldn’t afford to and I would appreciate it if she could help out every once in a while. She got pissed. I’m the man, I suppose to pay for everything. I asked her “you would never treat me for a night out?” She thought for a second and then said, I SWEAR, “Well I would if it was you birthday”. My response ? With the deepest layer of sarcasm in my voice. “ My birthday?! Omg I’m so lucky you would treat me to a dinner for my bday. What a wonderful girlfriend you are.” We broke up a week later. Why a week later?
SHE WAS SO HOT!
Nice work
16:06 “what’s more important being treated right or being treated like crap” Lmaoo what a complex question … 🤔
Kevin Samuels was talking about high value men and he was saying just do it for your wife. I think my guy just misunderstood.
Exactly. Kevin's statement was taken out of context. This shows how information meant for a few, doesn't apply to the many.
Women abandoned their traditional role so I see no reason for a man to embrace his traditional role. Let women work themselves into an early grave