You're not wrong. I've always prided myself on being thoughtful and kind, and as much as my looks have fluctuated over the years, I've never had an issue attracting men of all types/social status'/age/financial standing. It's not about my standards or their standards, it's about how mutually kind/supportive we are to each other.
@Alan J Of course I'm using my personal experience to understand what they're saying. We're subjective creatures, so I'm relating my experience to the message being given. I don't see why you have such an issue with my comment. I was agreeing with a lot of what the 2 women were saying.. And for the record, it's called 'Anecdotal*** evidence'. 👌
I think it comes off as you saying regardless of what your still attracting men? Idk. But i will say, and im sure youll agree. After a while, attracting kind of means nothing if nothing is sticking. And i think alot of women value attracting more than actually keeping. If your not keeping. Its pointless to attract. And the keeping part is out of women control. You have to have sometime of HUMAN value for a man to want to stay.
@@Alpha_apex Yeh, my comment was not an "end all, be all". Nor was I commenting on the value of looks, I was just reiterating that being KIND and SUPPORTIVE are key things when it comes to attracting a potential relationship, rather than trying to check off boxes on some personal 'list of deal breakers'. You're getting totally focused on some "implied meaning" that you're attributing to my choice of words. I wasn't arguing the logistics of attracting vs. keeping a man. And I wasn't saying "I aTtRaCt MeN nO mAtTeR wHaT I LoOk LiKe, blah 🥴 blah". What I was saying, is that regardless of looks, attracting *people* is a lot easier when you are **kind** and **supportive** to all people, and not looking to fill your own agenda with a list of standards that aren't vital for a healthy relationship.
@@eyden1562 yea i can agree to that. And i understood your post. But i have to correct you on me being focused on something. Lol. I was just continuing the conversation as far as attracting is concerned. My begginning sentence was just guessing thats how it may have came off to the other person
@@Alpha_apex That makes sense. "How it came across" was definitely not how it was intended. 👌 In very straightforward terms, it was intended to mean that "my looks have mattered less, and my character has mattered more." My apologies, I was reacting to being misinterpreted. You weren't rude by any means.
@Mrs Better Betty, that is great that you and your husband have that understanding, but we all need to be realistic here, not every marriage or every relationship is going to work. For some it may be that they just grew apart, like my wife and I and we grew apart because we focused solely on our children, which in high and site was wrong. Also let's face it not all relationships are meant to last , we would like them to, but its just a fact of life all wont last.
@@mikeaskme3530 I feel like if you go into the marriage knowing it can be temporary, then why get married? It’s “til death do us part” and that’s exactly how you should treat it. It’s called a vow for a reason, but I’m sorry to hear about your marriage ending. I hope you find happiness and love!
@@charlescouch2785 I love this topic I wish people would be more realistic. My parents were married for 35 years and there was a time that my dad worked and my mom was at home, then also my dad Lost his job and my mom had to carry the family financially, then they both Work they both had to take care of the house, on-top of that they both had to decide who goes to the dentist with us, who attends teacher parent meetings who helps with home work, who puts us to bed just because my dad had a job didn't mean that he stopped being a dad, J because my mom was at didn't mean that she say around watching tv all day
@@GameOn71213 Yeah I’m a fan of this topic as well I just turned 47 I’m divorced and I’ve been looking for a wife for like four years and the women that I come across or just not what I’m looking for and it just seems like none of the women want to hold their own weight they’re just looking for a free ride for me financially stable man call me I’m not good provider a good man and I just don’t understand how things work now these I was raised how you were raised with both parents contributing equally and that’s what I’m looking for
"And on the 6th floor there wasn't any men, only cats and dogs" :DDDDD First time I heard this "store-story" I realized WHY women are so hard to please and the store for the men getting an woman is 100% correct! :D Logic and realism is our strength!
Some things I've noticed missing among the modern female crowd are the ability to accept constructive criticism and the ability to look at things from another's perspective. Those are very important features that have been discontinued, so to speak.
@@KarlaBedminister If you hold these abilities, you are not modern in the sense that I am speaking here. By modern, I'm speaking of the ones described in these videos. Some describe them as "woke", but they are anything but.
its because men lost communication skills. Its really not hard to give a woman constructive criticism respectfully. same with giving a different perspective. Men now and days get frustrated when they feel challenged which is worse.
We men are simple creatures, we really don't ask for much at all, that story she told is very much reality. That's just proof that they are hard to please no matter what you do.
lets be honest its all about supply and demand. Women have alot of demand so they get to be picky. Most women have too many options so they get attitudes and become entitled because of simps
No, they are not hard to please. There's a criteria for pleasure at all levels. If you can't meet it it's not because it's impossible because other men do it...
@Marc Minor so true, I was telling a female friend of mine who was having a hard time finding a man, I asked her do you understand what men truly want and need and she didn't get it. I told herb it comes down to the 3 Fs she asked what is that, i said. F*ck us, Feed Us and Feed our Ego from time to time. We aint complicated creatures,
Then men should do it if they want it done to them- stop looking for the pretty girl, love the ugly one and she'll become pretty or stop looking for the long hair and the short hair one will grow, etc.
On one of the two vacations as a child. I remember bein in a giftstore, true story. Saw a box on one of the shelves, the lid read "Everything you need to know about women" Opened the box and on the inside was written, "Sorry, couldn't find a box big enough."
A past coworker of mine put it into words for me in a way I'll never forget. "We should always expect more from you, but we should never have to offer you anything, you're the provider, you're the male, and that's your job. Women shouldn't have to prove themselves to you, we're already perfect." This was from a female coworker of mine from 2014. It's been 7 years since then and it was thanks to her that I gave up on dating, relationships, and seeking marriage. Because some people will never be satisfied with what you offer, and of course it's not just limited to women either. The current era has set the bar too high for any and all expectations and I'm tired of it. I'm working on myself, but for myself these days. I just want to enjoy life at this point and I no longer need a partner to do it.
I have seen the husband/wife store in the past and I always get a laugh. It does summarize the key differences between men and women. You have a great channel. Happy new year to you and your family.
I heard about it years ago but i was a kid so i didn't know about what it really meant till i got older and been in the circle of women to know even if not dating just being friends with them can make you know this statement.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 Yes indeed. I have been married almost 30 years and can confirm this from my own experiences and observations. I would say most men are glass half full, while most women are glass half empty.
I would have went to the forth floor, but only to because I don't real care for most of that. I would have went there because I was still looking for respect.
A Story about this issue: Two years ago, I fell in love with a girl named Aiyanda; she was reputed at my school as the ugliest and was often bullied, (even though she honestly looked pretty good...) Befriending her was... difficult to say the least, she often pushed me away, believing I had ulterior motives and was just looking for sex... But one day she got into a fight and was suspended, I found her in my neighborhood with a knife, so I desperately tried to stop her. After some struggling I managed to throw the knife into the lake and she yelled to me; "Why do you care?!" And I answered; "I... Won't let someone else make the mistake I made..." She looked at me in shock as I removed my jacket to show my scars from a previously attempted suicide. I told her this; "I've been through this type of thing before... And I pushed everyone away... Please let me be your friend..." And after that, we became friends... Moral of the story: A Woman's Standards can be lowered... I guess... I'm just trying to help...
@@kadejamckinzie3 Alot of women are second choice and even playing second fiddle their whole life bc the man couldn't get who he really loves and wanted so he settled for the next "like"
@@KarlaBedminister That’s disgusting. Why do that to someone? That means no matter what he will NEVER love his partner the way that she loves him. It’s impossible.
Even though I think like this it’s refreshing to hear other women say this, I quit talking too my female friends of years because of their negativity and they let me know my thinking about relationships is not out of the ordinary!
My boyfriend wouldn't have went to the 3rd floor. Sports doesn't matter to him. He loves I'm nice and love sex. He knows I have his back and will not let anyone degrade him. Not even his family which they sadly have in his past in front of hid exs which all of them in one way or another did something or said something that his family does. He broke it off with them. The ones that broke it off with him wanted kids which he can't have anymore and always said it from the beginning that he can't. They all said they are fine with it and will accept his sons but lied. They all damaged him sadly. We have been best friends for years. Which I got him out of the dark place he was in when we first started talking back then. He knows he can come to me about anything. I can do the same with him. To me he's perfect. It's their loss and my gain. We talk about how modern women are and always agree how bad they are. You can't expect to be treated like a queen if you don't treat him like a king. I wouldn't change him for the world.
Yes its really that simple if you want someone to treat you properly then you got to do the same for that person your dealing with to.I don't know why some girls cannot get that and then they wonder why guys gets upset or don't try hard enough even when dating for so many months or years.
I just realised that ego is the biggest problem and reason of problems that modern people are dealing with. I realised that the more comfortable life we live the higher ego becomes. Now i finally understand why its much better in sense of morality in 3rd world countries. I finally understand thats its better to live in poor place with less comfort doing fisically hard work but also have your mind in pease than living a comfortable but lonely life in a rich place. It's mindblowing
My neighbor has a brand new Mercedes. I have a 24 year old Nissan Maxima. Many people look at the outside and think I'm a loser. What they don't know is that I'm a programmer that lives off only 20% of what I earn. The rest is invested regularly.
Your right. Just like this video says, any bump in the road makes a person feel like they can do better and pack up and leave. I’m not sure why people chase perfection in people and relationships in an imperfect world. They are setting themselves up for a ton of upset cause each relationship will have its ups and downs. It’s their damaging ego.
I have been married for 15 years and it is hard. Woman are just so miserable. Always complaining and in a bad mood for no reason. I don't ask for anything but for my wife to be nice.
Am married almost 30 years and based on personal experience and observations, women are just not as happy as men regardless of their family, possessions or career situations. In my view, most men are glass half full while most women are glass half empty.
@@thegamingniceguy3181 sorry to hear about your marriage struggle but you should check out a book by the name of "How to become a 3%man" by Corey Wayne. It will help you fill your knowledge gap.
Man... hearing the woman's one was sad. When I was self reflecting myself, I didn't want the first floor but when I heard the 2nd floor, I just stopped right there. 3rd floor was still careless bc I'm not a sporty guy. But man... the women wanting to tippity top spot when it's unrealistic asf... so insane. Relationships would be so much better if women lowered their expectations to a reasonable level like how the average man is.
You problem is you want women to lower their expectations. Have you seen the majority of the relationships around you? Women have lowered their expectations and many aren't happy with those choices...women need to get what they want.
Too many Cinderella, Snow White stories. Even if they have careers they'll throw it away for a prince to take care of them. There was only one reverse movie called Cinderfella w/ Jerry Lewis. And even that movie he became rich when he found the treasure his father left him. So even though he got the princess he had to have the cash to back it
@@aphilipdent Not true women do tend to keep their jobs and stay in their careers. Now, the only thing that might change that is when the couple decides to start having children. Women, who will leave their jobs for a man with money don't have careers they've built. I live around many of those couples.
@@SuperTruthful women lowered their expectations? Lmao by what? Crossing off one or two of the 9739263 items on their checklist? Still much higher than the avg men's expectations. Idk about you but women on avg still have much higher expectations than men on avg when it comes to relationships. And the fact you said many women aren't happy *still* is literally proving our point in the video that it's impossible to please a woman these days. It doesn't take much to please a man mind you. And man, how entitled can you be to say "women need to get what they want" as if they're owed the whole world and our belongings, resources, etc? This is why yall won't stay happy, you think you need an excess of resources when you can do fine with just the basic needs. Idc who it is, no one is owed anything, man or woman. The problem is women constantly want more and more than what's necessary in a relationship and men are simple to satisfy as the video demonstrates. If you want to keep thinking women deserve more and more, then have fun struggling in the dating scene. Being humble is not all that bad, more people need to try that instead of being "what's in it for me? And I want more and more from you."
@@Apocalypse754 Women aren't the reason men are having issues with women? Men have these expectations that women don't feel the need to meet. Women can protect themselves especially blk women been doing it on their own for so long...no need for a man. A provider..women are getting educations and starting their own careers earning their own money..So women don't need men for that. women need men to father their children but marriage isn't needed for that. So, in actuality what does a woman today need /or want a man for???
I’m so grateful for this video. I’ve never dated and never been with anyone…this is one of the reasons why. I KNEW I didn’t have a good enough direction in life to go date anyone. I know I needed to know who I was as a person, as a female/woman and how I would need to be to function best as a mother and a wife whenever I become one. I’m still taking my time so I know exactly how to approach a man in the best way possible. I’m enjoying the journey in learning more about women, men, and how we both as individuals can function BETTER in society. I want a blueprint that works and is healthy for both genders. Divorce is off the table so I need to know who I’m really gonna be with and vice versa. Thanks for this video! This is absolutely awesome! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Frfr as a young bul, I just want a real woman at this point. I've lived for too much of my life as a shut in. Unfortunately most modern women won't look my way, but that doesn't mean all of them won't
I Remember Back in my sophomore year (2015) of high school my English Teacher had us do this In class survey about our preferences on Relationships / What we want in a partner. (1 = Not important - 10 = Absolutely Must have) of the 4 things on the survey the 3 Biggest ones were Money, Looks, & Personally. I was able to see alot of the surveys cuz The teacher asked me to Collect them from everyone. Most of the girls in the Class had answered 8-10 on all of them, while the Most of the guys had mostly answers ranging between 3-7. I myself had chosen. Money - 4 Looks - 4 Personally - 7 Most Men don't ask for much. Mainly just Be Nice, Be Faithful, don't look like you crawled out of a dumpster & DON'T Fucking Nag us about Stupid shit that don't matter & has nothing to do with us. IF I Find a woman. I want someone who I can Treat like a best Friend But also be intimate with. (We ain't gotta Do the nasty every week but at least once or twice a month is good enough for me.) It's just unfortunate that I had to come to the reality that I was born into a time and generation that that simple wish will not even be possible
I dealt with a single mother who seriously told me that seeing them naked is like finding the lost city of Atlantis. I responded let me guess each of those guys who nailed you and never called you again each has a piece of the map?
@@eldenlion5850 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️. how many kids tho 3 or more. you right. but if she has twins and another child she get a pass. Im not saying you wrong. But i met a chick who has one child and the pops passed away. some got reasons why they got a kid and is single
@@LazyKingAus No one knows how many men a lady has been with. So...... lie detector test! I would love to see the look on their faces just for bringing that up.
My Uncle conducts his marriage like that. Divorce is not an option. He and his wife are upper class, well-traveled, and still deeply in love. Been that way for over 30 years. I’ve heard KS mention something somewhat similar. He was sharing a notion he picked up from some lady. She chooses to forego the “getting to know you” portion of relationships. It’s about sticking to your guns. You can’t hop in and back out of everything in life. If you’re in an abusive situation, I understand you having to vacate, but for most couples, we have spats and allow them to end our relationships. I needed this video. Thank you.
The problem with women now and days is that they put so much emphasis on looks. They want someone to look better than them. This is almost impossible. Women are the beautiful creatures. Men are suppose to provide and protect.
See this is my thing. I want someone who could easily film adult content but that is actually a wonderful person. I will easily settle for the wonderful person even if she looks like a dog. As long as she is kind, loving, affectionate, and we see eye to eye on moral issues and how to raise our future children... Imma put on ring on that. Big tits are nice and all but as my favorite teacher once said, "Looks fade but dumb is forever." Truth.
Nah not anymore bruh too many fat chicks lmao. + All these beautiful girls look like shit without make up. Your car and bike can always look pretty though ;).
This is 100% false, that’s just how you perceive things you live in a fantasy world.There are plenty of men who look more gorgeous than women and they never put on make up. I’m saying this as a straight man women can be beautiful but more likely than not they use makeup and from my experience there’s handsome men everywhere you just don’t see them a lot just like women men are also beautiful creatures we just aren’t attracted to them. So you’re more inclined to be bias towards women.
This sort of impulsive/emotional behavior reminds me of my younger days at church when I was taught "Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly." In other words, impulsive emotions allow you quick satisfaction/instant gratification but it does not build character to overcome obstacles in life.
"Lower your expectations, not your standards." Don't look for prince charming (cause he's kind of a dick anyways). Look for someone with your morals, your standards. If you have to blot out some of your shopping list to be with them, that's ok.
Women may start taking things off their shopping list as they get closer to the wall but they will always remember the original list and think that they settled for 2nd best.
@Karla Bedminister if your expectations are Gucci bags when you can't afford them and your standards align expectations then your going to end up very unhappy. I suspect that you don't know the difference between standards and expectations and are going to spend a lot of time with cats drinking wine and blaming men.
For me I'd like her to enjoy staying fit and have a great personality. I've found that women who are 6's end up being 10's for me if they have a great personality. She should also have good character, be kind, affectionate, be feminine and yeah, enjoy sex, I will not enter into a loveless sexless marriage. I'm ok with no sex outside of marriage but in a marriage I won't tolerate it. They also have to like the boring guy who is faithful and kind. Nice and kind is not the same thing. I'm kind but I'm not nice. And the last thing is a prenuptial agreement, I won't marry without one of those being signed by her, if she decides to leave she gets nothing.
And if a woman expects those or sets these same standards she would be a accused of being woke, modern or whatever and asked to lower her expectations and standards...?
@@KarlaBedminister No, a modern woman refuses to submit to a man and has masculine characteristics. She's combative and does whatever she wants. In addition, love isn't on her mind only money, status and what she can get out of the relationship not what she can put in. It takes 100% input from both parties for it to work but the man is the leader, he has final decision making authority in the relationship. A modern woman makes foolish decisions in her 20's i.e. sleeping around, drinking, partying and coming to her senses a bit too late in her 30's and 40's. They find faithful and kind men in stable relationships to be boring. Confident, assertive, smooth talking players like Chad and Tyrone are more exciting. Relationships are treated as a game to modern women.
@@kadejamckinzie3 A nice person is easily taken advantage of, manipulated and walked over. These will sometimes compromise character in order to be liked by somebody and they won't always speak the truth in order to spare somebody's feelings. They tend to lack confidence, aren't assertive and be yes men. They can also be cowardice. A kind person sets boundaries. They aren't rude but they won't let people walk over them. They aren't jerks but they aren't push overs either. They'll tell you the truth without necessarily being mean though speaking the truth itself can be taken as rude. These know when to be helpful and where to draw the line. They are confident people who will not compromise character for validation or be liked by people. They have standards they know when to say no and lay down the law when they have to. He's Confident, assertive and intelligent but he isn't a player.
@@KarlaBedminister There's nothing wrong with wanting a man to be faithful and have financial stability or even desire for him to be fit and attractive. The issue is not reciprocating, are you also faithful? Do you also stay fit? As far as financial stability goes do you also work and aren't lazy? are you willing to contribute 100% of your income to support the family or is his income the primary thing you desire and want him to be the sole provider? Will you leave the relationship if he is no longer able to earn due to an injury? Is there more to man then just his money? Would you turn a blind eye to cheating just because he's rich? Are you willing to sign a prenup to show him it isn't all about the money or do you just want to rob him blind in a divorce? Do you have realistic standards or are you only going after 100k and over salary guys who are 10% to 1% of the population? Are you willing to submit to him and let him be the leader of the relationship or do you want to fight him for control?
You know what's crazy about the story? The income of the customers is never stated or mentioned. Think about it. Women kept ascending the floors believing they could purchase the ever increasing prices of the husbands for sale. If the currency was value, then the potential customers always believed they had enough currency. I can almost promise you that a good chunk of those women thought they, themselves, were enough. Edit: Yes, I know the stores are fictional.
you don't think you're enough???why wouldn't a woman not think she's enough? That shit doesn't make sense. so you walk around saying, i'm not enough, right?
@UCwVJ2KI1jH2idAyER23EP-w Now you don't know me but, i'm entitled, i think i'm good enough, i think highly of myself, i masquerade it as i deserve better, i have overcome and i'm the table.. your advice is i need to humble myself and look at things differently. Translation ...become a doormat for a man. LOL Not happening in my lifetime. Boy, Bye!
@SuperTruthful Worth enough, but to who? You have a bracket. A girl making 25k a year has no value to a 6 figure man. A girl that has no humor is unhappy to the man that loves to laugh. A woman that is ignorant is an annoyance to an intellectual man. Vice versa. People value you for how you value yourself. A humble person will not say they deserve more than what they themselves are.
@@user-jn3bt3ep3d So that's why the men didn't go to the other floors- they had third level characters and settled for that until they can find some of the others on the other floors- they didn't choose from so they could fantasize, pursue and cheat.
@@KarlaBedminister not facts at all there’s a difference between be entitled thinking you deserve this and having high expectations most women today are entitled they do not have high expectations and unwilling to in their words “settle”
Wait. So after yrs of telling women, "they can have it all". Calling them princess when they little girls and calling them queens in their adult yrs, You really expect them not to believe it? Psychology is really misunderstood.
They told women to aim for the stars. Set your expectations high or else what do you expect to get and what quality of a man do you expect to attract. Now the men of present want these same women but complain that they can't match up to the high standards. I remember when women had to wake early, sleep late, be required to cook perfectly, sew professionally, iron neatly, clean spotlessly, dress modestly, act decently, speak softly, have a certain body type and be pretty and reputable even virgins while men were accepted as they are- dirty or clean, smelly or not, faithful or not, jobs or not, honest or not and the woman had to marry them or else be scorned.
@@KarlaBedminister In my opinion. Watching my grandmother, and my mom, how they use to get up early, handle their business. And never complained to their spouse about house work. Just like my dad, never complained about being the protector and provider. Tells me, ppl just love to whine and complain about everything. My grandmother use to get on her hands and knees to clean floors. She use to polish her husbands shoes, and do things, todays women would complain about. So i respect the women of the past. Because i believe they did more in the household, and they were expected to carry themselves with integrity. Today's women. Can be onlyfans stars, baby mothers, or simply ppl with no talent or skill. And they are revered like the women who kept their homes in order and actually made food from scratch. But in regarding my previous comment. Psychology works, if you keep telling ppl something, especially all their lives. Then eventually they will believe it. Men have been calling their little girls, princess since they were young. They grow up, being called queens, especially with all these guys out here, telling women what they want to hear. And this is part of the reason, alot of women on social media, crave attention. Because it's validation. Males contribute to alot of the behaviors, that goes on. Because many reinforce it.
@@Xuisj Men were told women like to hear sweet words. Women in my area do a lot of manual work and cook from scratch everyday. They even work on the roads cleaning the sidewalk, etc.
I grew up in the age of rampant teen pregnancy. When I got out of the military I was 28. So I took it as an expectation that most the women in my "dating/relationship" pool will have at least 1 kid. It is a matter or "reading the room".
This singular conversation between these ladies reveal a whole lot about women, and makes me so upset that I have to deal with the mass of them that continue to be unreasonable with what they truly need.
@Karla I understand what you're trying to say, but a need can be unreasonable as well. A need is assessed based on a subjective set of criteria. The criteria may be tighter (or maybe more imperative) for defining a need vs a want, but its still subjective.
@@covermedown while subjective. Yes. but its not wrong to set a standard and stick by it man or women. No need to settle for less. Unless you are not that yourself. But looking for someone who is equal in energy, work, effort is not wrong. Yall just dont know how to talk to women.
@@LazyKingAus "“The funny thing about the word ‘settle’ is of course, it sounds bad; the language matters. But of course, if you're starting from an unrealistic place then ‘settle’ isn't a bad word.” - Suzanne Venker" There may be a need to settle for less if you want to avoid continuing to end up with nothing, and specifically because of foolish dreams and entitled thinking. And looking for someone who is equal in energy, work and effort is not necessarily right either. Complementary relationships (i.e one party complements the other and vice versa) don't require equal things from each other by default. They require that they both 'fit' each other though. That is a different requirement, expectation and approach. If equal 'fits' in some aspect then great, if it doesn't then don't make it a requirement. On another note (for anyone else who is reading), men and women are not the same. They don't require the same things, can't give all of the same things, and they are not equal in all things.We've been trying to force the square peg of 'men and women are basically the same' into the round hole of 'satisfying and thriving relationships and society' for decades now and it's causing us just a whole lot of pain and no good.
Awww yes I love Suzanne Venker!! She is amazing! I don't even consider myself a woke woman, I am traditional and try my best to embrace my femininity. But I'm an A type woman and former feminist, happily married. I listened to one of her audiobooks and it helped change my marriage like, almost overnight. If any ladies are here, I really hope you look into her content! Her advice is solid!
My husband and I have this conversation all the time. He talks about his coworkers not wanting to go home bc their wives just nag the crap out of them.
@Neil Stewart it's a long story man, but it didn't take long at all. From the moment I told her I wasn't working but I'm hustling, at that moment she showed her true colors because l was suggesting she should get her own job so she can provide for herself and "our" kid since the things I was hustling weren't being bought as fast as before, the face she gave me said it all. She called for a "break". A couple months later, I found a job and some change to keep my stomach somewhat full. After she found out I was working, she tried to get back with me, but I wasn't going to make the same mistake again. That decision was one of the best decisions I made in my life.
I met a girl about 8 years ago who stopped and realized that her list of desired qualities in a man was that unrealistic. In fact she took a step back and saw that all the guys that did have those traits were gay Ken dolls. Not only were they not in her dating pool, the ones that she did find still did not meet her expectations. She made some real changes after that.
When 2 real woman discuss the inflated bs that woman of today wants and expected from all man you know it’s a real discussion. A lot of woman needs to see this video.
The fact that you can be on the top floor (an Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos) and the woman will still walk out on you thinking they can do better really solidified my belief Most of the datingcontent out there it’s just that; entertainment, content. There is no motivation to pursue women or “be better” for that pursuit, as women have no interest in a true human connection or committed monogamous relationship anymore; they’d truly rather be single and die alone than waste positive human emotion on an average man.
Not all of us are like the majority. I promise. Though I myself have no friends and don't trust women because I've too been brutally heartbroken by my "friends."
Personally as a woman, my main standard is could I tolerate the next 50+ years stuck with you. Could we tolerate and be okay with each other even when things aren't rosy. Life can be hard and if we can get through tough times that's most important too me. Example what will happen if we struggle to have kids, or someone loses their job and we have to make do. I plan on only marrying once.
You never know if you can do that. There can happen shit in life that will really test both parties and you can niot foresee those. I am not gonna say you are such kind of woman but there are so many stories about women that basically bail on their man once life really hits him hard. He loses his job and the prime income is gone? "Woman has left the building." And I am pretty sure the women didnt think right from the start that they would act like this. Most think their lives will be great and rosy and what not until their lives arent...
@@KorashSyndikat I understand there are some very selfish individual and those women suck. My life up until now hasn't been rosy and I have never been able to rely on my family. I honestly used to have a long list when I was younger and honestly after having survived suicide, my perspective on life changed. All I want is just a good companion. That's the person that stays by your side. Friends will come and go, your children will grow up and move on with their own lives and that person beside you stays. Although some say life is short, life can also be very long and mundane. Having someone who is a good friend and partner is very important to me. Someone I can also be a good friend and partner to. I just want to build up with someone no matter what it is. I does make me sad that there are truly women out there who care so little for their partners but rather what that partner can give them. It's incredibly selfish and honestly lead to a very miserable life. I cannot image being truly satisfied whilst depending on another person for your lifestyle.
@P T wdy you mean? What are are ultimatums that I've layered our? I'm very confused by your interpretation. All I stated was I just want a good companion, is that too much. Don't people go into marriage planning on staying with the person they marry. I plan on marrying once as in I hope to never divorce the partner I chose. That doesn't mean it will work out with a happily ever after.
@@arnitaxavier9446 Nah youre good, thats perfectly reasonable, Its just that not many people think like that anymore sadly and some might find it weird. I have the same aspiration as you when it comes to marriage and relationships. This type of thinking is the minority now sadly.
That sounds reasonable. As long as this person enhances my life, is a good companion, is genuine and loyal, is smart with finances, and leads a healthy lifestyle, that’s really it. It’s not that difficult, I don’t think, it mostly comes down to being a somewhat smart person with a good heart and open mind
Found your channel a week ago and loved it. I’m thankful for the TH-cam algorithm because I wouldn’t have seen this one without it. Subscribed. Fire my dude, straight fire
Here is the formula to happiness. Ignore it if you choose, but its the truth. Act according to your highest exitement and have 0 expectations for the future. I laughed my ass off for years thinking that was BS, but im stubborn so of course I learned the hard way.
Only issue I have with “settling” is I’ve seen woman marry a man that lacks the looks they go for, but have the money and it’s a intimacy lack marriage. I have no issue with a man that’s like a mechanic for example, but I have issues dating because no man has sparked that intimacy part of me..
@@smallbusinessdreams she’s probably had so much sex she can’t pair bond properly anymore because she’s done so with so many men. That’s also a possibility to consider, but you speak on that it’s an issue. Crazy how something legit as that can stop women from having intimacy
@@newstart1847 here’s the thing, I don’t care about your background. On a broader scale majority women aren’t “virgins til marriage” as you claim in an online setting.
I am glad that these women touched on things that I absolutely agree with. There was nothing I heard that was wrong. I wish more women would have this way of thinking. These new-age women are something different.
When she got to the 3rd floor with sports, as soon as I said I'm good here she said the others have never been visited lol. I shit you not. We're not hard to please. Just because we're simple does not mean we're stupid. Forgive me, I forgot who said that so I can't acknowledge and credit them.
I more than likely stopped at 2 or 3. That's the minimum for me. Well a job where we male the same amount and don't belittle each other, are patient with each other, and kind while building each other up.
Quality Video! 👌 Im 20, all i look for in a woman is that of settle,not cheating because thats a big issue for me. Im a very loyal guy, im not someone that goes out looking for multiple women to have lots of chicks and cheat with the main girl. No, quite the opposite. Personally i struggle to find a good girl because of where im in life. Right now im working on me fixing things inorder to have a good life. Stay up kings
Man i love this ive stayed being humbled and sweet because being the loving person i am is not hard but when you have these mofos using you and treating you like shit it becomes very clear that mofos dont deserve a trusting woman or man at times but im surely going to send this to my homegirls who want more then too much
Thank you for your videos, they make me think about things I haven't thought about, so I can continue to work on myself. But also it's a good feeling to see that I'm so different from the modern "woke" woman. I always have been open minded, but it has never been a bigger strength than it is now.
Check it. When met my man I made $8 more an hour than him. But...if I'm being honest I wasn't prime. I was 26 with 2 kids. 1 ex husband, 1 baby daddy. He had no kids. 19 years later WE have 4 kids and 2 grand-babies. 2 are MY nephew & neice that we adopted. And guess what....I've been able to be a stay at home mom for the last 12 years. He grinds for his family. He made it a point to advanced in his career to provide for us. How was I able to bag this awesome man? Being respectful and considerate. Doing the little things like bringing him his dinner plate. Making sure he has clean unders. Being appreciative of everything he does for us. I may not drive a brand new escalade but i have the love and the loyalty of a good man. And there is nothing that can replace that
Bitterness is ugly no matter who wears it. I like your personality/soul AOK. I subscribed to your reaction channel with Ghosts and you made me laugh out loud so many times-ty. Then you mentioned this new channel so I subscribed to it as well. I have watched maybe 20-30+ episodes so far, and several are putting me off. I sense your heart, goals, needs and desires to be pure and good. I agree with most of your views and opinions, but there seems to me to be a streak where you become gleeful at stinging women. I think portraying a humble determination and desire to help women change would go better to further your message and goals. All stinging women will do is shut them down and push them away- even if they agree. I too like helping, I hope you take this as it is meant. One kind-meaning person to another.
No one can ever replace my wife she chose me and saved my life. She forevermore be my peace. Glad I found the best on out there “ my diamond in the rough”.
Dang, just watching this and thinking back on life in general, they spitting a lot of truth. I mean, right now I'm almost 23 and my standards for a girl have always been that they just be nice and stay loyal to me when it comes to our relationship. That's it, anything else, we can work through together.
The more I watch him the more I realize how different I am. I grew up with one piece of logic that I got from my grandmother who grew up in the "you don't leave your husband" era. She told me that if you fall in love with the mind and heart of your partner you'll never be disappointed. It is something that made me in that store story realize I stopped on the second floor and in doing that found peices of the 5th that I got for free
People say foolishness like lowering standards or settling to make it seem as if the other person is beneath them. When your expectations are so unrealistic and out of the realm of reason compromise will feel like settling.
The funny thing ive realized is that to not be a decent person takes MUCH more effort than just being decent to us. I just want peace all around. And for me being mean or being hurtful tales more effort for me than just being a good person. I dont need or want alot from a woman never needed alot to begin with.
lol, I was thinking to myself if I had to pick, I'd just say "the floor under the top"...lol, not surprising at all to see how women think. It's all catching up to them now though.
My woman has 2 kids from another guy, and I intend to stick around. BUT! She’s a very agreeable girl, and lets me be a man and lead our household. Supports me in every endeavor. Puts up with my bad moods pretty well while not being a doormat. She’s f-ing GOLD to me, and I try to give her everything she wants in return. Ladies: take some notes if you want a man.
As a female I would have stopped at 2 or 3 unless a anime option was added. Cause I want someone to watch anime with. My standards is decent I think. Mines is someone who likes anime/games , who haves a job or a goal they are trying to accomplish. And some who kind. Also, who can tolerate cats. Because I have a cat I love dearly. Besides that idc about anything else.
@@royalecrafts6252 if that means im biased then idm. I wanna be with someone im compatible with. Most people if not all have some type of bias views. But I truly don't think my list is unreasonable. But who knows people might think what I said is too much or w.e
I would like to see something on how this hate toward men came about. When did it really start taking root. What started it. So yeah I would love to see a thoroughly researched video on that.
Research the behavior towards women from men and you've got your answer. when women started working and were no longer dependent on men they realized that with their money their didn't have to take any crap from those men. Before women were abused and there was no place for her and her children to go. Today, later!
There were always groups of hate towards men for generations, go back to WW2 when women had to work in the factories to build weaponry because the men were drafted off to war, that started the we're strong just as men thing. But this truly took root in the mid- late 60s, feminism was used to offset the civil rights movement. By the 70s more women liberation ideologies were pushed, more and more women were starting to outnumber men in schools. By the 80s, it was already a puissant movement, this is where the "Men are stupid, farting, beer-drinking Neanderthals", the attack on masculinity was now in full effect. By the 90s the media ran with it; talk shows hosted by women who had men on as predators, deviants, or very abusive , or women who overcame sometype of trauma (Sally Jesse Raphael, Oprah, Rolanda etc). We started seeing more and more women anchor sports news, news desk etc (which I'm all for BTW). By then, the attack on men was even stronger, look at shows such as Married with Children, Home Improvement, ANY show where there's a mother, father and kids, the father was always depicted as a irresponsible, buffoon who couldn't run a home or discipline his own kids and/or didn't know how to fix anything around the house. All that for comedy purposes, which were viewed as true. The only time we saw a woman viewed as irresponsible was I Love Lucy. By the turn of the 21st century, men are now looked at as organisms who're taking up space just for being a man. And with almost every genre of music showing women being heart broken (just like men) from Mary J. Blige to Taylor Swift etc, compare those songs to breakup or "rising like a phoenix" type songs to "I've fallen in love" songs, which will get more play? Now it's all about being a boss chick ,bad b---, ms independent. And of course, more and more women are becoming CEOs of fortune 500 companies. So this is just part of it. I know it's lengthy..
It started when women realized they don’t actually need a man for anything and started questioning whether their presence was valuable at all.Both sexes realize they don’t need each other and now they are wondering if they even want each other.
@@Mr.Edwards233 I grew up with most of that. I was bullied (boys and girls), told I was ugly, stupid, fat, and so white I could blind them. Had been cheated on, paid for everything cuz he worked buy had no money or car (yeah that ones on me), but I have never hated men to this level (or any level) of insanity. Can't wrap my brain around it. My daddy always said I had a high level of common sense and a strong heart for the underdog. You can't blame the present for the past. Thank you for the lesson. Don't understand it but have a greater insight of it.
This is not a foreign concept to some of us that were raised in the church at a certain time. I say certain time because I came up in a small church with many older couples and a pastor that was not a prosperity pusher. So I had a different idea of marriage even though I come from a broken home. Divorce was not an option with with these married couples that I knew. I understand that its not always the case that people have the examples that i did. I got married at 28 and before I married I made it clear I was only doing this once. My wife was on the same page being raised similarly. We have been married for 11 years now. You gotta have realistic standards and for most....being tied to one person for life is unrealistic because they do not understand all of the benefits that come along with it. Lots see it as a burden. Gotta vet your husbands and wives thoroughly. It took me 10 years to decided this was the right one and the right time. We started young and ignored the "oh enjoy this and that because you have time" mentality that some of our parents had. Sometimes we do not have as much time as we think.
In the manufacturing world you have specifications you must meet and Cpk values. Some companies want Cpk and have no interest in meeting specifications. That’s how I see this video and how women behave.
social media is to blame for the way dating is today. And not just dating biggest problem is a lot of people don't THINK or ask questions anymore. everything is taken at face value. ONLY GONNA GET WORST. dam near everybody is faking there life styles just to impress others so sad
What I’ve learn if you want a happy relationship , the women has to pick you & as the man you have to be aware of whose choosing you. If you you can’t tell if a chick picked you. Then ya probably need to work on yourself more cause it’s very obvious when a chick wants/needs your attention. Consensus- Gents do the work on yourself become the prize and share yourself with a women you deem worthy of your time/money/resources etc
Haha I for sure thought they were going to say “if a woman passes a floor where the man exceeds their own value, they cannot choose a husband anymore,” or something like that 😂
You're not wrong. I've always prided myself on being thoughtful and kind, and as much as my looks have fluctuated over the years, I've never had an issue attracting men of all types/social status'/age/financial standing.
It's not about my standards or their standards, it's about how mutually kind/supportive we are to each other.
@Alan J Of course I'm using my personal experience to understand what they're saying. We're subjective creatures, so I'm relating my experience to the message being given. I don't see why you have such an issue with my comment. I was agreeing with a lot of what the 2 women were saying..
And for the record, it's called 'Anecdotal*** evidence'. 👌
I think it comes off as you saying regardless of what your still attracting men? Idk. But i will say, and im sure youll agree. After a while, attracting kind of means nothing if nothing is sticking. And i think alot of women value attracting more than actually keeping. If your not keeping. Its pointless to attract. And the keeping part is out of women control. You have to have sometime of HUMAN value for a man to want to stay.
@@Alpha_apex
Yeh, my comment was not an "end all, be all". Nor was I commenting on the value of looks, I was just reiterating that being KIND and SUPPORTIVE are key things when it comes to attracting a potential relationship, rather than trying to check off boxes on some personal 'list of deal breakers'.
You're getting totally focused on some "implied meaning" that you're attributing to my choice of words. I wasn't arguing the logistics of attracting vs. keeping a man. And I wasn't saying "I aTtRaCt MeN nO mAtTeR wHaT I LoOk LiKe, blah 🥴 blah".
What I was saying, is that regardless of looks, attracting *people* is a lot easier when you are **kind** and **supportive** to all people, and not looking to fill your own agenda with a list of standards that aren't vital for a healthy relationship.
@@eyden1562 yea i can agree to that. And i understood your post. But i have to correct you on me being focused on something. Lol. I was just continuing the conversation as far as attracting is concerned. My begginning sentence was just guessing thats how it may have came off to the other person
@@Alpha_apex That makes sense. "How it came across" was definitely not how it was intended. 👌
In very straightforward terms, it was intended to mean that "my looks have mattered less, and my character has mattered more."
My apologies, I was reacting to being misinterpreted. You weren't rude by any means.
My husband and I agreed when we were married that “divorce” would never be part of our vocabulary. 15+ years later and we’re happier than ever.
@Mrs Better Betty, that is great that you and your husband have that understanding, but we all need to be realistic here, not every marriage or every relationship is going to work. For some it may be that they just grew apart, like my wife and I and we grew apart because we focused solely on our children, which in high and site was wrong. Also let's face it not all relationships are meant to last , we would like them to, but its just a fact of life all wont last.
Congratulatios both to you and your husband. God bless that union for eternity. 🙏💖🙏💖
Congratulations on dedication
@@mikeaskme3530 no excuses besides documented abuse. Even if you grow apart for 10years you are supposed to stick it out until one of you dies
@@mikeaskme3530 I feel like if you go into the marriage knowing it can be temporary, then why get married? It’s “til death do us part” and that’s exactly how you should treat it. It’s called a vow for a reason, but I’m sorry to hear about your marriage ending. I hope you find happiness and love!
I'm so lucky I have a woman that is patient and understanding of my faults and accepted me for me, and I her.
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She’s a keeper bro 100 %
@@charlescouch2785 I love this topic I wish people would be more realistic. My parents were married for 35 years and there was a time that my dad worked and my mom was at home, then also my dad Lost his job and my mom had to carry the family financially, then they both Work they both had to take care of the house, on-top of that they both had to decide who goes to the dentist with us, who attends teacher parent meetings who helps with home work, who puts us to bed just because my dad had a job didn't mean that he stopped being a dad, J because my mom was at didn't mean that she say around watching tv all day
God bless
@@GameOn71213 Yeah I’m a fan of this topic as well I just turned 47 I’m divorced and I’ve been looking for a wife for like four years and the women that I come across or just not what I’m looking for and it just seems like none of the women want to hold their own weight they’re just looking for a free ride for me financially stable man call me I’m not good provider a good man and I just don’t understand how things work now these I was raised how you were raised with both parents contributing equally and that’s what I’m looking for
"And on the 6th floor there wasn't any men, only cats and dogs" :DDDDD
First time I heard this "store-story" I realized WHY women are so hard to please and the store for the men getting an woman is 100% correct! :D Logic and realism is our strength!
Somebody had to clean the litter boxes on the daily. Lol.
Dogs and Cats. Hilarious!!
Some things I've noticed missing among the modern female crowd are the ability to accept constructive criticism and the ability to look at things from another's perspective. Those are very important features that have been discontinued, so to speak.
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I'm considered modern but I still hold these abilities...
@@KarlaBedminister If you hold these abilities, you are not modern in the sense that I am speaking here. By modern, I'm speaking of the ones described in these videos. Some describe them as "woke", but they are anything but.
its because men lost communication skills. Its really not hard to give a woman constructive criticism respectfully. same with giving a different perspective. Men now and days get frustrated when they feel challenged which is worse.
Another discontinued feature: critical thinking skills.
We men are simple creatures, we really don't ask for much at all, that story she told is very much reality. That's just proof that they are hard to please no matter what you do.
lets be honest its all about supply and demand. Women have alot of demand so they get to be picky. Most women have too many options so they get attitudes and become entitled because of simps
"Simps... Simps... desperation for pvssy".
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@@davidw8249 agreed. If they are supplying then they should be demanding...🙌
No, they are not hard to please. There's a criteria for pleasure at all levels. If you can't meet it it's not because it's impossible because other men do it...
@Marc Minor so true, I was telling a female friend of mine who was having a hard time finding a man, I asked her do you understand what men truly want and need and she didn't get it. I told herb it comes down to the 3 Fs she asked what is that, i said. F*ck us, Feed Us and Feed our Ego from time to time. We aint complicated creatures,
Surprisingly, when you love someone just as they are. Flaws and all they can't help but blossom into their best self
And end up being that person on the top floor
Surprisingly 😂😂😂😂😂
Not if they don't want to.
Then men should do it if they want it done to them- stop looking for the pretty girl, love the ugly one and she'll become pretty or stop looking for the long hair and the short hair one will grow, etc.
@@KarlaBedminister nah
On one of the two vacations as a child. I remember bein in a giftstore, true story.
Saw a box on one of the shelves, the lid read "Everything you need to know about women"
Opened the box and on the inside was written, "Sorry, couldn't find a box big enough."
A past coworker of mine put it into words for me in a way I'll never forget.
"We should always expect more from you, but we should never have to offer you anything, you're the provider, you're the male, and that's your job. Women shouldn't have to prove themselves to you, we're already perfect."
This was from a female coworker of mine from 2014. It's been 7 years since then and it was thanks to her that I gave up on dating, relationships, and seeking marriage. Because some people will never be satisfied with what you offer, and of course it's not just limited to women either. The current era has set the bar too high for any and all expectations and I'm tired of it.
I'm working on myself, but for myself these days. I just want to enjoy life at this point and I no longer need a partner to do it.
I have seen the husband/wife store in the past and I always get a laugh. It does summarize the key differences between men and women. You have a great channel. Happy new year to you and your family.
I heard about it years ago but i was a kid so i didn't know about what it really meant till i got older and been in the circle of women to know even if not dating just being friends with them can make you know this statement.
@@mysticstrikeforce5957 Yes indeed. I have been married almost 30 years and can confirm this from my own experiences and observations. I would say most men are glass half full, while most women are glass half empty.
Men are simple...Kindness ranks very high for me.
I would have went to the forth floor, but only to because I don't real care for most of that. I would have went there because I was still looking for respect.
A Story about this issue: Two years ago, I fell in love with a girl named Aiyanda; she was reputed at my school as the ugliest and was often bullied, (even though she honestly looked pretty good...) Befriending her was... difficult to say the least, she often pushed me away, believing I had ulterior motives and was just looking for sex... But one day she got into a fight and was suspended, I found her in my neighborhood with a knife, so I desperately tried to stop her. After some struggling I managed to throw the knife into the lake and she yelled to me; "Why do you care?!" And I answered; "I... Won't let someone else make the mistake I made..." She looked at me in shock as I removed my jacket to show my scars from a previously attempted suicide. I told her this; "I've been through this type of thing before... And I pushed everyone away... Please let me be your friend..." And after that, we became friends...
Moral of the story: A Woman's Standards can be lowered... I guess... I'm just trying to help...
Heart warning. Cheers to you.
I can only hope you two are still together? She's lucky to have a person who helped her in a real time of need.
Hard connection, bit iffy. But the story itself was amazing. Good on you man.
@@GSP-76 He stopped at friend zone.
@@GSP-76 Yeah, we're still friends...
If you tell a man you are settling for him, or if you even think you're settling... it's a bad word.
yup i’m out…if i even suspect that i was a place holder or 2nd best i’d leave. i just couldn’t put up with it.
Yeah, if you aren't first choice she'll be unhappy for that reason which means a lot of misery coming the mans way. No thank you.
No one wants to be someone’s second choice.
@@kadejamckinzie3 Alot of women are second choice and even playing second fiddle their whole life bc the man couldn't get who he really loves and wanted so he settled for the next "like"
@@KarlaBedminister That’s disgusting. Why do that to someone? That means no matter what he will NEVER love his partner the way that she loves him. It’s impossible.
Even though I think like this it’s refreshing to hear other women say this, I quit talking too my female friends of years because of their negativity and they let me know my thinking about relationships is not out of the ordinary!
I have watched Bettina Arndt's stuff for awhile. She is anti 3rd and after feminism. She sees what it has done to relationships.
anti 3rd?
@@davidw8249 3rd wave
@@mathieul4303 I've never heard that term before now I gotta look it up
My boyfriend wouldn't have went to the 3rd floor. Sports doesn't matter to him. He loves I'm nice and love sex. He knows I have his back and will not let anyone degrade him. Not even his family which they sadly have in his past in front of hid exs which all of them in one way or another did something or said something that his family does. He broke it off with them. The ones that broke it off with him wanted kids which he can't have anymore and always said it from the beginning that he can't. They all said they are fine with it and will accept his sons but lied. They all damaged him sadly. We have been best friends for years. Which I got him out of the dark place he was in when we first started talking back then. He knows he can come to me about anything. I can do the same with him. To me he's perfect. It's their loss and my gain. We talk about how modern women are and always agree how bad they are. You can't expect to be treated like a queen if you don't treat him like a king. I wouldn't change him for the world.
Respect. Like your mindset. I'm sure your man is happy to have you as his queen. You and your man and family stay blessed.
@@unknowninfinite8081 Thank You. You stay blessed as well
Do you have twin sister or a poorly constructed clone of yourself somewhere? Asking for a friend, ahem...
@@Farhan_049 I wish I had a sister. I have brothers. No clone of myself. I'm sorry.
Yes its really that simple if you want someone to treat you properly then you got to do the same for that person your dealing with to.I don't know why some girls cannot get that and then they wonder why guys gets upset or don't try hard enough even when dating for so many months or years.
I remember the pastor read this at church 10 years ago. It still hits the same today.😂
I just realised that ego is the biggest problem and reason of problems that modern people are dealing with. I realised that the more comfortable life we live the higher ego becomes. Now i finally understand why its much better in sense of morality in 3rd world countries. I finally understand thats its better to live in poor place with less comfort doing fisically hard work but also have your mind in pease than living a comfortable but lonely life in a rich place. It's mindblowing
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My neighbor has a brand new Mercedes. I have a 24 year old Nissan Maxima. Many people look at the outside and think I'm a loser. What they don't know is that I'm a programmer that lives off only 20% of what I earn. The rest is invested regularly.
Your right. Just like this video says, any bump in the road makes a person feel like they can do better and pack up and leave. I’m not sure why people chase perfection in people and relationships in an imperfect world. They are setting themselves up for a ton of upset cause each relationship will have its ups and downs. It’s their damaging ego.
I have been married for 15 years and it is hard. Woman are just so miserable. Always complaining and in a bad mood for no reason. I don't ask for anything but for my wife to be nice.
@Neil Stewart Yes, since it's the only one I have ever been in. I dont know if it's like that for other people.
Am married almost 30 years and based on personal experience and observations, women are just not as happy as men regardless of their family, possessions or career situations. In my view, most men are glass half full while most women are glass half empty.
@@thegamingniceguy3181 sorry to hear about your marriage struggle but you should check out a book by the name of "How to become a 3%man" by Corey Wayne. It will help you fill your knowledge gap.
@@thegamingniceguy3181 I hear ya. The modern woman influence is poisonous for married women everywhere.
I tell my wife "You're never happy!" and she hates it. Women are always looking for more after you've given them your all.
Man... hearing the woman's one was sad. When I was self reflecting myself, I didn't want the first floor but when I heard the 2nd floor, I just stopped right there. 3rd floor was still careless bc I'm not a sporty guy.
But man... the women wanting to tippity top spot when it's unrealistic asf... so insane. Relationships would be so much better if women lowered their expectations to a reasonable level like how the average man is.
You problem is you want women to lower their expectations. Have you seen the majority of the relationships around you? Women have lowered their expectations and many aren't happy with those choices...women need to get what they want.
Too many Cinderella, Snow White stories. Even if they have careers they'll throw it away for a prince to take care of them. There was only one reverse movie called Cinderfella w/ Jerry Lewis. And even that movie he became rich when he found the treasure his father left him. So even though he got the princess he had to have the cash to back it
@@aphilipdent Not true women do tend to keep their jobs and stay in their careers. Now, the only thing that might change that is when the couple decides to start having children. Women, who will leave their jobs for a man with money don't have careers they've built. I live around many of those couples.
@@SuperTruthful women lowered their expectations? Lmao by what? Crossing off one or two of the 9739263 items on their checklist? Still much higher than the avg men's expectations. Idk about you but women on avg still have much higher expectations than men on avg when it comes to relationships.
And the fact you said many women aren't happy *still* is literally proving our point in the video that it's impossible to please a woman these days. It doesn't take much to please a man mind you.
And man, how entitled can you be to say "women need to get what they want" as if they're owed the whole world and our belongings, resources, etc? This is why yall won't stay happy, you think you need an excess of resources when you can do fine with just the basic needs. Idc who it is, no one is owed anything, man or woman. The problem is women constantly want more and more than what's necessary in a relationship and men are simple to satisfy as the video demonstrates. If you want to keep thinking women deserve more and more, then have fun struggling in the dating scene. Being humble is not all that bad, more people need to try that instead of being "what's in it for me? And I want more and more from you."
@@Apocalypse754 Women aren't the reason men are having issues with women? Men have these expectations that women don't feel the need to meet. Women can protect themselves especially blk women been doing it on their own for so long...no need for a man. A provider..women are getting educations and starting their own careers earning their own money..So women don't need men for that. women need men to father their children but marriage isn't needed for that. So, in actuality what does a woman today need /or want a man for???
I’m so grateful for this video. I’ve never dated and never been with anyone…this is one of the reasons why. I KNEW I didn’t have a good enough direction in life to go date anyone. I know I needed to know who I was as a person, as a female/woman and how I would need to be to function best as a mother and a wife whenever I become one. I’m still taking my time so I know exactly how to approach a man in the best way possible. I’m enjoying the journey in learning more about women, men, and how we both as individuals can function BETTER in society. I want a blueprint that works and is healthy for both genders. Divorce is off the table so I need to know who I’m really gonna be with and vice versa. Thanks for this video! This is absolutely awesome! 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Frfr as a young bul, I just want a real woman at this point. I've lived for too much of my life as a shut in. Unfortunately most modern women won't look my way, but that doesn't mean all of them won't
I Remember Back in my sophomore year (2015) of high school my English Teacher had us do this In class survey about our preferences on Relationships / What we want in a partner. (1 = Not important - 10 = Absolutely Must have) of the 4 things on the survey the 3 Biggest ones were Money, Looks, & Personally. I was able to see alot of the surveys cuz The teacher asked me to Collect them from everyone.
Most of the girls in the Class had answered 8-10 on all of them, while the Most of the guys had mostly answers ranging between 3-7.
I myself had chosen.
Money - 4
Looks - 4
Personally - 7
Most Men don't ask for much. Mainly just Be Nice, Be Faithful, don't look like you crawled out of a dumpster & DON'T Fucking Nag us about Stupid shit that don't matter & has nothing to do with us.
IF I Find a woman. I want someone who I can Treat like a best Friend But also be intimate with. (We ain't gotta Do the nasty every week but at least once or twice a month is good enough for me.)
It's just unfortunate that I had to come to the reality that I was born into a time and generation that that simple wish will not even be possible
A lot of the women in the Caribbean are fitting your criteria.
Caribbean women are the best
@@mypublic8507 nah i have 1 pure psychopath n not americanized either
The Husband Store is 💯 facts!
I dealt with a single mother who seriously told me that seeing them naked is like finding the lost city of Atlantis. I responded let me guess each of those guys who nailed you and never called you again each has a piece of the map?
just cause she has babies doesn't make her ran through you do know there is 7 billion people on this planet.
@@LazyKingAus Whatever you say you tool.
@@eldenlion5850 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️. how many kids tho 3 or more. you right. but if she has twins and another child she get a pass. Im not saying you wrong. But i met a chick who has one child and the pops passed away. some got reasons why they got a kid and is single
@@LazyKingAus No one knows how many men a lady has been with. So...... lie detector test! I would love to see the look on their faces just for bringing that up.
@@heedmywarning2792 🤷🏽♂️ you never know its never deep tho.
Brings me a lot of joy seeing women call out other women for a lot of the issues women are causing.
Who's calling out the men...?
My Uncle conducts his marriage like that. Divorce is not an option. He and his wife are upper class, well-traveled, and still deeply in love. Been that way for over 30 years. I’ve heard KS mention something somewhat similar. He was sharing a notion he picked up from some lady. She chooses to forego the “getting to know you” portion of relationships. It’s about sticking to your guns. You can’t hop in and back out of everything in life. If you’re in an abusive situation, I understand you having to vacate, but for most couples, we have spats and allow them to end our relationships. I needed this video. Thank you.
Wish I could give this 1000 thumbs up! Thanks for posting.
jada smith needs to here this
The problem with women now and days is that they put so much emphasis on looks. They want someone to look better than them. This is almost impossible. Women are the beautiful creatures. Men are suppose to provide and protect.
See this is my thing. I want someone who could easily film adult content but that is actually a wonderful person. I will easily settle for the wonderful person even if she looks like a dog. As long as she is kind, loving, affectionate, and we see eye to eye on moral issues and how to raise our future children... Imma put on ring on that. Big tits are nice and all but as my favorite teacher once said, "Looks fade but dumb is forever." Truth.
Yea but that has to also do with having attractive kids. Also they like to feel like the man with options chose their narcissistic selves lol
Nah not anymore bruh too many fat chicks lmao.
+ All these beautiful girls look like shit without make up.
Your car and bike can always look pretty though ;).
This is 100% false, that’s just how you perceive things you live in a fantasy world.There are plenty of men who look more gorgeous than women and they never put on make up. I’m saying this as a straight man women can be beautiful but more likely than not they use makeup and from my experience there’s handsome men everywhere you just don’t see them a lot just like women men are also beautiful creatures we just aren’t attracted to them. So you’re more inclined to be bias towards women.
Very true. I never want to look better than mine or any woman.
This sort of impulsive/emotional behavior reminds me of my younger days at church when I was taught "Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly." In other words, impulsive emotions allow you quick satisfaction/instant gratification but it does not build character to overcome obstacles in life.
"Lower your expectations, not your standards."
Don't look for prince charming (cause he's kind of a dick anyways). Look for someone with your morals, your standards. If you have to blot out some of your shopping list to be with them, that's ok.
I would expect their standards to align with expectations...🤷🏾♀️
@@KarlaBedminister agreed
Women may start taking things off their shopping list as they get closer to the wall but they will always remember the original list and think that they settled for 2nd best.
@Karla Bedminister if your expectations are Gucci bags when you can't afford them and your standards align expectations then your going to end up very unhappy.
I suspect that you don't know the difference between standards and expectations and are going to spend a lot of time with cats drinking wine and blaming men.
@@jamingaming9251 take out the blaming men part, and it sounds like a good life to me. My cat, some wine, I'm happy as a clam.
For me I'd like her to enjoy staying fit and have a great personality. I've found that women who are 6's end up being 10's for me if they have a great personality. She should also have good character, be kind, affectionate, be feminine and yeah, enjoy sex, I will not enter into a loveless sexless marriage. I'm ok with no sex outside of marriage but in a marriage I won't tolerate it. They also have to like the boring guy who is faithful and kind. Nice and kind is not the same thing. I'm kind but I'm not nice. And the last thing is a prenuptial agreement, I won't marry without one of those being signed by her, if she decides to leave she gets nothing.
What is the difference between kind and nice?
And if a woman expects those or sets these same standards she would be a accused of being woke, modern or whatever and asked to lower her expectations and standards...?
@@KarlaBedminister No, a modern woman refuses to submit to a man and has masculine characteristics. She's combative and does whatever she wants. In addition, love isn't on her mind only money, status and what she can get out of the relationship not what she can put in. It takes 100% input from both parties for it to work but the man is the leader, he has final decision making authority in the relationship.
A modern woman makes foolish decisions in her 20's i.e. sleeping around, drinking, partying and coming to her senses a bit too late in her 30's and 40's. They find faithful and kind men in stable relationships to be boring. Confident, assertive, smooth talking players like Chad and Tyrone are more exciting. Relationships are treated as a game to modern women.
@@kadejamckinzie3 A nice person is easily taken advantage of, manipulated and walked over. These will sometimes compromise character in order to be liked by somebody and they won't always speak the truth in order to spare somebody's feelings. They tend to lack confidence, aren't assertive and be yes men. They can also be cowardice.
A kind person sets boundaries. They aren't rude but they won't let people walk over them. They aren't jerks but they aren't push overs either. They'll tell you the truth without necessarily being mean though speaking the truth itself can be taken as rude. These know when to be helpful and where to draw the line. They are confident people who will not compromise character for validation or be liked by people. They have standards they know when to say no and lay down the law when they have to. He's Confident, assertive and intelligent but he isn't a player.
@@KarlaBedminister There's nothing wrong with wanting a man to be faithful and have financial stability or even desire for him to be fit and attractive. The issue is not reciprocating, are you also faithful? Do you also stay fit? As far as financial stability goes do you also work and aren't lazy? are you willing to contribute 100% of your income to support the family or is his income the primary thing you desire and want him to be the sole provider? Will you leave the relationship if he is no longer able to earn due to an injury? Is there more to man then just his money? Would you turn a blind eye to cheating just because he's rich? Are you willing to sign a prenup to show him it isn't all about the money or do you just want to rob him blind in a divorce? Do you have realistic standards or are you only going after 100k and over salary guys who are 10% to 1% of the population? Are you willing to submit to him and let him be the leader of the relationship or do you want to fight him for control?
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You know what's crazy about the story? The income of the customers is never stated or mentioned. Think about it. Women kept ascending the floors believing they could purchase the ever increasing prices of the husbands for sale. If the currency was value, then the potential customers always believed they had enough currency. I can almost promise you that a good chunk of those women thought they, themselves, were enough.
Edit: Yes, I know the stores are fictional.
I was shocked she didn’t mention any changes to the man’s income or career to be honest.
you don't think you're enough???why wouldn't a woman not think she's enough? That shit doesn't make sense. so you walk around saying, i'm not enough, right?
@UCwVJ2KI1jH2idAyER23EP-w Now you don't know me but, i'm entitled, i think i'm good enough, i think highly of myself, i masquerade it as i deserve better, i have overcome and i'm the table.. your advice is i need to humble myself and look at things differently. Translation ...become a doormat for a man. LOL Not happening in my lifetime. Boy, Bye!
@SuperTruthful Worth enough, but to who? You have a bracket. A girl making 25k a year has no value to a 6 figure man. A girl that has no humor is unhappy to the man that loves to laugh. A woman that is ignorant is an annoyance to an intellectual man. Vice versa. People value you for how you value yourself. A humble person will not say they deserve more than what they themselves are.
@@user-jn3bt3ep3d So that's why the men didn't go to the other floors- they had third level characters and settled for that until they can find some of the others on the other floors- they didn't choose from so they could fantasize, pursue and cheat.
I tell that to every woman that I date, “ lower your expectations, you won’t be disappointed “!
yes, the will be disappointed bcuz they won't get what they want.
@@SuperTruthful so entitlement?
I tell them go for it! If you can get past Idris Elbas security and his wife then shytt go for it.
Because you couldn't rise to the occasion...ppl are supposed to have high expectations. That's what the world before and now is about
@@KarlaBedminister not facts at all there’s a difference between be entitled thinking you deserve this and having high expectations most women today are entitled they do not have high expectations and unwilling to in their words “settle”
I'm picking up what these women are putting down!!! Great video! 👍😉
Wait. So after yrs of telling women, "they can have it all". Calling them princess when they little girls and calling them queens in their adult yrs, You really expect them not to believe it? Psychology is really misunderstood.
They told women to aim for the stars. Set your expectations high or else what do you expect to get and what quality of a man do you expect to attract. Now the men of present want these same women but complain that they can't match up to the high standards. I remember when women had to wake early, sleep late, be required to cook perfectly, sew professionally, iron neatly, clean spotlessly, dress modestly, act decently, speak softly, have a certain body type and be pretty and reputable even virgins while men were accepted as they are- dirty or clean, smelly or not, faithful or not, jobs or not, honest or not and the woman had to marry them or else be scorned.
@@KarlaBedminister In my opinion. Watching my grandmother, and my mom, how they use to get up early, handle their business. And never complained to their spouse about house work. Just like my dad, never complained about being the protector and provider. Tells me, ppl just love to whine and complain about everything. My grandmother use to get on her hands and knees to clean floors. She use to polish her husbands shoes, and do things, todays women would complain about. So i respect the women of the past. Because i believe they did more in the household, and they were expected to carry themselves with integrity. Today's women. Can be onlyfans stars, baby mothers, or simply ppl with no talent or skill. And they are revered like the women who kept their homes in order and actually made food from scratch. But in regarding my previous comment. Psychology works, if you keep telling ppl something, especially all their lives. Then eventually they will believe it. Men have been calling their little girls, princess since they were young. They grow up, being called queens, especially with all these guys out here, telling women what they want to hear. And this is part of the reason, alot of women on social media, crave attention. Because it's validation. Males contribute to alot of the behaviors, that goes on. Because many reinforce it.
@@Xuisj Men were told women like to hear sweet words. Women in my area do a lot of manual work and cook from scratch everyday. They even work on the roads cleaning the sidewalk, etc.
I'm so very happy with my husband of [as of yesterday] 13 years. SO GLAD I'm no longer dating.
I grew up in the age of rampant teen pregnancy. When I got out of the military I was 28. So I took it as an expectation that most the women in my "dating/relationship" pool will have at least 1 kid. It is a matter or "reading the room".
Just watched a video of her today. All I can say is, EYE OPENING!
This singular conversation between these ladies reveal a whole lot about women, and makes me so upset that I have to deal with the mass of them that continue to be unreasonable with what they truly need.
For real… modern women are so illogical these days smh
A need cannot be unreasonable...a want can be, however.
@Karla I understand what you're trying to say, but a need can be unreasonable as well. A need is assessed based on a subjective set of criteria. The criteria may be tighter (or maybe more imperative) for defining a need vs a want, but its still subjective.
@@covermedown while subjective. Yes. but its not wrong to set a standard and stick by it man or women. No need to settle for less. Unless you are not that yourself. But looking for someone who is equal in energy, work, effort is not wrong. Yall just dont know how to talk to women.
@@LazyKingAus "“The funny thing about the word ‘settle’ is of course, it sounds bad; the language matters. But of course, if you're starting from an unrealistic place then ‘settle’ isn't a bad word.” - Suzanne Venker"
There may be a need to settle for less if you want to avoid continuing to end up with nothing, and specifically because of foolish dreams and entitled thinking.
And looking for someone who is equal in energy, work and effort is not necessarily right either. Complementary relationships (i.e one party complements the other and vice versa) don't require equal things from each other by default. They require that they both 'fit' each other though. That is a different requirement, expectation and approach.
If equal 'fits' in some aspect then great, if it doesn't then don't make it a requirement.
On another note (for anyone else who is reading), men and women are not the same. They don't require the same things, can't give all of the same things, and they are not equal in all things.We've been trying to force the square peg of 'men and women are basically the same' into the round hole of 'satisfying and thriving relationships and society' for decades now and it's causing us just a whole lot of pain and no good.
Awww yes I love Suzanne Venker!! She is amazing! I don't even consider myself a woke woman, I am traditional and try my best to embrace my femininity. But I'm an A type woman and former feminist, happily married. I listened to one of her audiobooks and it helped change my marriage like, almost overnight. If any ladies are here, I really hope you look into her content! Her advice is solid!
My husband and I have this conversation all the time. He talks about his coworkers not wanting to go home bc their wives just nag the crap out of them.
I love that you made a separate channel for this content even tho I watch both I go to different channels based on my level of sobriety
I will chose level 3 (if they had mentioned it) and then when I heard level 4 & 5, I was like 👀 WHY?
Level 6 is a major burn 🔥🤣
Thanked God for showing me my kid's mom's true colors. Money hungry and status hungry and NO elevation, mentally, and spiritually.
@Neil Stewart it's a long story man, but it didn't take long at all. From the moment I told her I wasn't working but I'm hustling, at that moment she showed her true colors because l was suggesting she should get her own job so she can provide for herself and "our" kid since the things I was hustling weren't being bought as fast as before, the face she gave me said it all. She called for a "break". A couple months later, I found a job and some change to keep my stomach somewhat full. After she found out I was working, she tried to get back with me, but I wasn't going to make the same mistake again. That decision was one of the best decisions I made in my life.
I met a girl about 8 years ago who stopped and realized that her list of desired qualities in a man was that unrealistic. In fact she took a step back and saw that all the guys that did have those traits were gay Ken dolls. Not only were they not in her dating pool, the ones that she did find still did not meet her expectations. She made some real changes after that.
I would like to see that list...haha
6th floor for women, hysterical. So true.
When 2 real woman discuss the inflated bs that woman of today wants and expected from all man you know it’s a real discussion. A lot of woman needs to see this video.
The fact that you can be on the top floor (an Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos) and the woman will still walk out on you thinking they can do better really solidified my belief Most of the datingcontent out there it’s just that; entertainment, content. There is no motivation to pursue women or “be better” for that pursuit, as women have no interest in a true human connection or committed monogamous relationship anymore; they’d truly rather be single and die alone than waste positive human emotion on an average man.
Not all of us are like the majority. I promise. Though I myself have no friends and don't trust women because I've too been brutally heartbroken by my "friends."
Personally as a woman, my main standard is could I tolerate the next 50+ years stuck with you. Could we tolerate and be okay with each other even when things aren't rosy. Life can be hard and if we can get through tough times that's most important too me. Example what will happen if we struggle to have kids, or someone loses their job and we have to make do. I plan on only marrying once.
You never know if you can do that. There can happen shit in life that will really test both parties and you can niot foresee those. I am not gonna say you are such kind of woman but there are so many stories about women that basically bail on their man once life really hits him hard. He loses his job and the prime income is gone? "Woman has left the building."
And I am pretty sure the women didnt think right from the start that they would act like this. Most think their lives will be great and rosy and what not until their lives arent...
@@KorashSyndikat I understand there are some very selfish individual and those women suck. My life up until now hasn't been rosy and I have never been able to rely on my family. I honestly used to have a long list when I was younger and honestly after having survived suicide, my perspective on life changed. All I want is just a good companion. That's the person that stays by your side. Friends will come and go, your children will grow up and move on with their own lives and that person beside you stays.
Although some say life is short, life can also be very long and mundane. Having someone who is a good friend and partner is very important to me. Someone I can also be a good friend and partner to. I just want to build up with someone no matter what it is. I does make me sad that there are truly women out there who care so little for their partners but rather what that partner can give them. It's incredibly selfish and honestly lead to a very miserable life. I cannot image being truly satisfied whilst depending on another person for your lifestyle.
@P T wdy you mean? What are are ultimatums that I've layered our? I'm very confused by your interpretation. All I stated was I just want a good companion, is that too much.
Don't people go into marriage planning on staying with the person they marry. I plan on marrying once as in I hope to never divorce the partner I chose. That doesn't mean it will work out with a happily ever after.
@@arnitaxavier9446 Nah youre good, thats perfectly reasonable, Its just that not many people think like that anymore sadly and some might find it weird. I have the same aspiration as you when it comes to marriage and relationships. This type of thinking is the minority now sadly.
That sounds reasonable. As long as this person enhances my life, is a good companion, is genuine and loyal, is smart with finances, and leads a healthy lifestyle, that’s really it. It’s not that difficult, I don’t think, it mostly comes down to being a somewhat smart person with a good heart and open mind
Found your channel a week ago and loved it. I’m thankful for the TH-cam algorithm because I wouldn’t have seen this one without it. Subscribed. Fire my dude, straight fire
I seen this same scenario but on a different channel this is great and it is very true
Here is the formula to happiness. Ignore it if you choose, but its the truth. Act according to your highest exitement and have 0 expectations for the future. I laughed my ass off for years thinking that was BS, but im stubborn so of course I learned the hard way.
So, what I learned from this. Men need to raise our expectations. We need more choices in the lower levels.
Lmao just the beginning got me 😂😂😊🤣😆 keep going
Only issue I have with “settling” is I’ve seen woman marry a man that lacks the looks they go for, but have the money and it’s a intimacy lack marriage. I have no issue with a man that’s like a mechanic for example, but I have issues dating because no man has sparked that intimacy part of me..
Seems like a you issue. You fall in love with the man. You are supposed to be the pretty one. Not the man.
@@smallbusinessdreams she’s probably had so much sex she can’t pair bond properly anymore because she’s done so with so many men. That’s also a possibility to consider, but you speak on that it’s an issue. Crazy how something legit as that can stop women from having intimacy
@@19thGalaxy I was a virgin until marriage shows what you know ..
@@newstart1847 here’s the thing, I don’t care about your background. On a broader scale majority women aren’t “virgins til marriage” as you claim in an online setting.
This was your best video to date!!! I have to share this to all my friends (male and female)
I am glad that these women touched on things that I absolutely agree with. There was nothing I heard that was wrong. I wish more women would have this way of thinking. These new-age women are something different.
When she got to the 3rd floor with sports, as soon as I said I'm good here she said the others have never been visited lol. I shit you not. We're not hard to please. Just because we're simple does not mean we're stupid. Forgive me, I forgot who said that so I can't acknowledge and credit them.
It's most women of all colors that have delusional standards.
Your content crosses into all demographics, keep doing what you do.
19:50 this is just like Cortez and the burning of the ships.
Bro I got married and she kept it from her family for 6 months and nvr attempted to leave the house. That was my mistake. Had to learn from it.
Men, if there was a floor of women that love technology and space. Oh my goodness. #GeekLife!!!
And astrology doesn't count ladies
Lol we definitely exist! #GeekLife
Am sure there was on the 4th, 5th and 6th floor, sadly no man has ever made it that far.
@@ziletales These men were not interested in technology...😂
@@KarlaBedminister Lol, its not a high requirement.
This is the best video I've seen on your channel. Excellent analysis and commentary of these 2 extraordinary ladies. 👍
Brooo real ish I stopped on the second floor
I more than likely stopped at 2 or 3. That's the minimum for me. Well a job where we male the same amount and don't belittle each other, are patient with each other, and kind while building each other up.
I saw that husband video on TikTok and I shared it.
Quality Video! 👌
Im 20, all i look for in a woman is that of settle,not cheating because thats a big issue for me. Im a very loyal guy, im not someone that goes out looking for multiple women to have lots of chicks and cheat with the main girl. No, quite the opposite. Personally i struggle to find a good girl because of where im in life. Right now im working on me fixing things inorder to have a good life. Stay up kings
Man i love this ive stayed being humbled and sweet because being the loving person i am is not hard but when you have these mofos using you and treating you like shit it becomes very clear that mofos dont deserve a trusting woman or man at times but im surely going to send this to my homegirls who want more then too much
Thank you for your videos, they make me think about things I haven't thought about, so I can continue to work on myself. But also it's a good feeling to see that I'm so different from the modern "woke" woman. I always have been open minded, but it has never been a bigger strength than it is now.
Check it. When met my man I made $8 more an hour than him. But...if I'm being honest I wasn't prime. I was 26 with 2 kids. 1 ex husband, 1 baby daddy. He had no kids. 19 years later WE have 4 kids and 2 grand-babies. 2 are MY nephew & neice that we adopted. And guess what....I've been able to be a stay at home mom for the last 12 years. He grinds for his family. He made it a point to advanced in his career to provide for us. How was I able to bag this awesome man? Being respectful and considerate. Doing the little things like bringing him his dinner plate. Making sure he has clean unders. Being appreciative of everything he does for us. I may not drive a brand new escalade but i have the love and the loyalty of a good man. And there is nothing that can replace that
You both respected one another and worked together and that's beautiful.
Amen boo! I do the same for my man as well☺️It’s the small gestures and showing appreciation they love the most 🙏
We respect you
Thanks everyone!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾brilliant!
Bitterness is ugly no matter who wears it. I like your personality/soul AOK. I subscribed to your reaction channel with Ghosts and you made me laugh out loud so many times-ty. Then you mentioned this new channel so I subscribed to it as well. I have watched maybe 20-30+ episodes so far, and several are putting me off. I sense your heart, goals, needs and desires to be pure and good. I agree with most of your views and opinions, but there seems to me to be a streak where you become gleeful at stinging women. I think portraying a humble determination and desire to help women change would go better to further your message and goals. All stinging women will do is shut them down and push them away- even if they agree. I too like helping, I hope you take this as it is meant. One kind-meaning person to another.
No one can ever replace my wife she chose me and saved my life. She forevermore be my peace. Glad I found the best on out there “ my diamond in the rough”.
Dang, just watching this and thinking back on life in general, they spitting a lot of truth. I mean, right now I'm almost 23 and my standards for a girl have always been that they just be nice and stay loyal to me when it comes to our relationship. That's it, anything else, we can work through together.
The more I watch him the more I realize how different I am. I grew up with one piece of logic that I got from my grandmother who grew up in the "you don't leave your husband" era. She told me that if you fall in love with the mind and heart of your partner you'll never be disappointed. It is something that made me in that store story realize I stopped on the second floor and in doing that found peices of the 5th that I got for free
God Bless you. You are rare.
@@smallbusinessdreams thank you but sadly I wish I wasn't.
People say foolishness like lowering standards or settling to make it seem as if the other person is beneath them. When your expectations are so unrealistic and out of the realm of reason compromise will feel like settling.
Part 2 plzz my guy. 💯🤝
Love this genre of videos thanks for uploading
WOW ! WOW ! WOW !
Total TRUTH !
The funny thing ive realized is that to not be a decent person takes MUCH more effort than just being decent to us. I just want peace all around. And for me being mean or being hurtful tales more effort for me than just being a good person. I dont need or want alot from a woman never needed alot to begin with.
lol, I was thinking to myself if I had to pick, I'd just say "the floor under the top"...lol, not surprising at all to see how women think. It's all catching up to them now though.
My woman has 2 kids from another guy, and I intend to stick around. BUT! She’s a very agreeable girl, and lets me be a man and lead our household. Supports me in every endeavor. Puts up with my bad moods pretty well while not being a doormat. She’s f-ing GOLD to me, and I try to give her everything she wants in return. Ladies: take some notes if you want a man.
As a female I would have stopped at 2 or 3 unless a anime option was added. Cause I want someone to watch anime with. My standards is decent I think. Mines is someone who likes anime/games , who haves a job or a goal they are trying to accomplish. And some who kind. Also, who can tolerate cats. Because I have a cat I love dearly. Besides that idc about anything else.
Good on you 🖖
You still are aiming for someone who just shares something you like, bias relationship or partnership can get you far, it CAN, doesnt mean it will
@@royalecrafts6252 it wouldn't be biased unless she's unwilling to compromise with her partner
@@emane42 still biased
@@royalecrafts6252 if that means im biased then idm. I wanna be with someone im compatible with. Most people if not all have some type of bias views. But I truly don't think my list is unreasonable. But who knows people might think what I said is too much or w.e
"🎶lowered 🎵 expectaaations🎵🎶"
keep thinking about Mad TV. 😂
Great video Brother
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I would like to see something on how this hate toward men came about. When did it really start taking root. What started it. So yeah I would love to see a thoroughly researched video on that.
The rise of feminism is what's responsible.
Research the behavior towards women from men and you've got your answer. when women started working and were no longer dependent on men they realized that with their money their didn't have to take any crap from those men. Before women were abused and there was no place for her and her children to go. Today, later!
There were always groups of hate towards men for generations, go back to WW2 when women had to work in the factories to build weaponry because the men were drafted off to war, that started the we're strong just as men thing. But this truly took root in the mid- late 60s, feminism was used to offset the civil rights movement. By the 70s more women liberation ideologies were pushed, more and more women were starting to outnumber men in schools. By the 80s, it was already a puissant movement, this is where the "Men are stupid, farting, beer-drinking Neanderthals", the attack on masculinity was now in full effect. By the 90s the media ran with it; talk shows hosted by women who had men on as predators, deviants, or very abusive , or women who overcame sometype of trauma (Sally Jesse Raphael, Oprah, Rolanda etc). We started seeing more and more women anchor sports news, news desk etc (which I'm all for BTW). By then, the attack on men was even stronger, look at shows such as Married with Children, Home Improvement, ANY show where there's a mother, father and kids, the father was always depicted as a irresponsible, buffoon who couldn't run a home or discipline his own kids and/or didn't know how to fix anything around the house. All that for comedy purposes, which were viewed as true. The only time we saw a woman viewed as irresponsible was I Love Lucy. By the turn of the 21st century, men are now looked at as organisms who're taking up space just for being a man. And with almost every genre of music showing women being heart broken (just like men) from Mary J. Blige to Taylor Swift etc, compare those songs to breakup or "rising like a phoenix" type songs to "I've fallen in love" songs, which will get more play? Now it's all about being a boss chick ,bad b---, ms independent. And of course, more and more women are becoming CEOs of fortune 500 companies. So this is just part of it. I know it's lengthy..
It started when women realized they don’t actually need a man for anything and started questioning whether their presence was valuable at all.Both sexes realize they don’t need each other and now they are wondering if they even want each other.
@@Mr.Edwards233 I grew up with most of that. I was bullied (boys and girls), told I was ugly, stupid, fat, and so white I could blind them. Had been cheated on, paid for everything cuz he worked buy had no money or car (yeah that ones on me), but I have never hated men to this level (or any level) of insanity. Can't wrap my brain around it. My daddy always said I had a high level of common sense and a strong heart for the underdog. You can't blame the present for the past. Thank you for the lesson. Don't understand it but have a greater insight of it.
Contentment is the cornerstone of happiness
That's hilarious about the top floor 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Susan Venker is pretty good. She is worth a listen. She spits facts.
Narcissism is running rampant through modern day females.
This is not a foreign concept to some of us that were raised in the church at a certain time. I say certain time because I came up in a small church with many older couples and a pastor that was not a prosperity pusher. So I had a different idea of marriage even though I come from a broken home. Divorce was not an option with with these married couples that I knew. I understand that its not always the case that people have the examples that i did. I got married at 28 and before I married I made it clear I was only doing this once. My wife was on the same page being raised similarly. We have been married for 11 years now. You gotta have realistic standards and for most....being tied to one person for life is unrealistic because they do not understand all of the benefits that come along with it. Lots see it as a burden. Gotta vet your husbands and wives thoroughly. It took me 10 years to decided this was the right one and the right time. We started young and ignored the "oh enjoy this and that because you have time" mentality that some of our parents had. Sometimes we do not have as much time as we think.
In the manufacturing world you have specifications you must meet and Cpk values. Some companies want Cpk and have no interest in meeting specifications. That’s how I see this video and how women behave.
Yooo before I even heard her talk about the 4,5,6 floor I said "that's her right there" #level3 😂
social media is to blame for the way dating is today. And not just dating
biggest problem is a lot of people don't THINK or ask questions anymore.
everything is taken at face value. ONLY GONNA GET WORST.
dam near everybody is faking there life styles just to impress others
so sad
Facts bro. Great content!
ladies, manage your expectations according to your value and current situation on the market....
What I’ve learn if you want a happy relationship , the women has to pick you & as the man you have to be aware of whose choosing you. If you you can’t tell if a chick picked you. Then ya probably need to work on yourself more cause it’s very obvious when a chick wants/needs your attention. Consensus- Gents do the work on yourself become the prize and share yourself with a women you deem worthy of your time/money/resources etc
Haha I for sure thought they were going to say “if a woman passes a floor where the man exceeds their own value, they cannot choose a husband anymore,” or something like that 😂
If that were the case, majority of women would have to go to the basement, lol.
No one tells a lady "He's out of your league". But the opposite...!