4 UPDATES: Husband's Parents Who Picked The Golden Child Over Him All His Life Show Up At His...
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- 4 UPDATES: Husband's Parents Who Picked The Golden Child Over Him All His Life Show Up At His Funeral & Threaten To Sue If His Property Doesn't Go Under Their Name. So I Played The Recording of my Husband Which he Told me to Show to His Parents Privately.....They Couldn't Believe What They Saw
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I (44, female) recently lost my husband (48, male). We had been together for 20 years, married for 12. Five years ago, he had been diagnosed with leukemia and a few weeks back, he passed away. Honestly, I have made my peace with it. I know that I’m gonna miss him terribly, and my life is never going to be the same again. I highly doubt that I will ever be able to love somebody as much as I loved him, but he’s in a better place now and he was really sick the last few months of his life, so I’m just relieved that he is finally at ease now.
The end of this story proved my point that in cases of extreme favoritism neither child is loved. I want a sequel where we see officially how this ends in court.
Same I love legal "tea", specifically when it's frivolous 😂. Also I just wanna make a note, I was not expecting Jack to come around, like at all. I was airing on the side of caution that the parents destroyed what decency was left in him. But to know he felt bad, wanted to make amends a good bit before his brother died, but was understandably scared of receiving back what he had put out; makes him likable. Guy hardly knew his brother to try to remind himself his brother was morally a better person, and likely would have accepted his brother's apology. He assumed his brother would react like most people online reject him, and burn what's left of the bridge; which I find reasonable as I share this fear. When you put up walls and tried to burn bridges in your past, it's easy to become afraid of everything you did coming back on you the same way. I feel bad for Jack, he missed out on a few years with his brother because of his anxiety.
I want more updates: I wanna hear OP is in touch with Jack and building a brother-sister-in-law relationship, the parents lost the case. Maybe OP found a new partner or she just surrounds herself with her side of the family + Jack. Don't miss understand me, I don't fantasize about OP falling in love with Jack. I fantasize about her fostering a relationship with Jack that both her and her husband missed out on. Basically I wanna hear "Jack is family". 😂 I won't get it, but I can at least pretend that's the ending.😂
When my wife died, her mother decided that I was insignificant and felt everything, including the house I own, was hers. I known her longer than she knew her husband. but the cruelty towards me after her passing was unfounded, and clearly unwarranted. But a narcissist is a narcissist and no common sense will break through.
hope she had a will.
OP should have sent them the video on the most public social media available.
Any lawsuit should be countered with a Countersuit for ten times as much. OP shouldn't have invited anyone to her home. That's what public places are for.
At least her parents were there.
at least she wasn't alone, too many stories where people meet alone with people that want to cause them harm...
Why not take that recording to a lawyer first? Seems way too risky to put it anywhere near your trash in-laws.
Hopefully, they made extra copies of it.
@@ladyv5655 Thats a good idea! I hope they leave OP alone, though. Losing someone is already a tough and stressful situation as it is. Don't need vultures hanging around making things harder.
This is entirely correct. Taking it to their home was wreckless and dangerous. It could have been taken away from you, or you could have been accused of something. It should never have been anywhere at the time. It was entirely possible at that time that threats of a lawsuit were just idle threats. And if so, the tape could have never seen the light of day. If they did wind up suing you, it should have been played for the first time for your lawyer. Then before a judge.
The lawyer probaby already knew about the video, since he would have been the person to verify "this is the husband's will". I see the husband being smart and telling the lawyer the game plain after his death, that way his parents couldn't contest his state of mind. It would prove forethought (of sound mind and body), not deterioration of the mind (not of sound mind or body).
playing the video was not wrong, he asked you to play it. I would have done it in front of a lawyer, so you would have an additional witness. NTA. Hugs to you, and good luck! Was he a bit too forgiving to his parents early on, yes. But that is a classic trauma reaction for people who were raised like that. You did the right thing, and the best thing,helping him heal, find his courage, and set strong boundaries. Nice shiny spine there!
oh how I would love an update on this one! just to see the shock on the parents face when their golden child testifies and all their plans and lies fail within seconds of his testimony
Can they even find a lawyer to push this forward?
So sorry for your lose OP. And im sorry your in- laws are giving you a hard time. Dont let them tear you down. You can do this. You will be okay in the end.
OP you did nothing wrong, and your in-laws are horrible people. Go to a lawyer and make sure you are prepared to slam dunk these awful people. And I suggest you post the video of your husband and what he had to say about his parents publicly to all of the friends, family, and coworkers because these people deserve to be shown to be the monsters they are. I am sorry for your loss. My daughter and her children just lost her husband of 20 years a couple of months ago to colon cancer. He was 40 and they have 5 children aged 20 to 8 years old. My daughter's in-laws treated her horribly along with his 17-year-old with gender issues during the last few days of his life, and after his death. Because of their horrible treatment they will no longer be a part of their grandchildren's lives. They treated my daughter bad enough that both the 17-year-old and the 14-year-old never want to speak to them again. Honey, you do not need nasty people in your life.
"they were just here for peace"
Hahahahahaah!
A piece of his estate, you mean.
How poor taste to demand this at the funeral!
Her husband must be rolling in anger with what he sees seriously that poor lady can't grieve in peacefulness with that much toxicity
This one sounded real. The only thing that puzzled me is OP kept saying the will was ironclad. I, personally, cannot see how the in-laws could prevail even if there was NO will. Maybe this is a different country than the States.
OP's dad making her BiL a cup of tea suggested to me that perhaps this wasn't in the States.
Playing the video in your lawyer's office would've been a good idea. A witness to tell them they're FOS legally.
But they didn't consider confronting you to demand your business and your property AT THE FUNERAL to be rude and inappropriate?
Cameras, security monitoring, new locks, the video kept in the lawyer's safe.
Don't trust Jack. He could be a double agent for his parents.
I don't know what country of origin this is, but if it's in the US, parents have no inheritance rights. When there is a spouse, whether there's a will or not despite the delusional thinking that's not how it works
Oh no! He sounds like a good, kind man. The family took advantage of his good nature.
The parents who have a golden child do them no service by spoiling them. The golden child will never be able to function in the real world because of the constant coding.
Op in-laws tried to play stupid games and end up looking like fools in the end
Damn, but they are delusional.
Watch them become unhinged when they lose the lawsuit. Their entitlement and delusions are too strong to see reality plus that they ruined the relationship with their son.
And the wife believed the brother-in-law to be sincere???
(Before updates.) NTA OP. Like with a Will, you owe the deceased person the honest disbursement of their estate just as they have stated in their Will. The whole reason your husband devoted his sparse energy to making this video is so his parents would know how he felt about them and to protect you for when they came circling to see what they could get from his estate. You would not have been honouring his wishes had you not shown them the video, as he had intended you do.
Why wasn't the house and business and other assets in joint names? That would have solved many problems.
Your husband was no doormat. If he had stuck with his parents and let them treat you like crap, THEN he would have been one, but he sounds like a very nice person and a good man.
Personally, I'd have waited until his parents sued, then came out with the video at the hearing.
You’re honoring your husband’s last wishes. It’s not like they got nothing.
AITA … certainly NOT !!! Husband made that message for his horrible parents !!! You were absolutely right to play it for them !!! That’s who your husband intended it for !!! It’s a shame that there are people like your in-laws !!!
YOU know the truth and have no reason to dwell on the nasty things they said … and you also know your husband’s true feelings!!!
YOU are amazing and I am so sorry for your loss. I will be certain to
keep you in my prayers !!! 🙏🙏🙏
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P S • I typed this after just two updates ! 🥰
i would not have exposed jack that way
The only ones who wins in contesting wills are the lawyers. In Australia when a will is contested it is the will itself that pays to protect itself. So if there is money involved, the money will be gone in the end.
You only followed your husband's last wish. What a toxic parents.
Agree with everything they want and tell them meet you in 1 week. Then never speak to them again
Ha. Jack wants to marry a rich widow. He hasn't changed and he is working with his parents.
I don't know estate laws in OP location. But if had OP get her name, and husband's name on house deed, nobody else name. No more BS about in-laws trying to take her house.🤷🏼♂️
he was a "door door door door doooor maaaaaaaaaaaat"
Why the golden children always deadbeats
Because they always had everything handed to them, they were not trained to do things for themselves.
Because they never have to work or even take responsibility.
Parents who do this WANT the golden child to be dependent on them. It's part of the power dynamics.
@@mbyerly9680 Yea, it seems to be some sort of insurance policy to keep one kid dependant so that they're obliged to be their carer in later life.
@@Fete_Fatale but still they don't care
Yet they didnt want to speak to him one last time. I feel the money hawks cicling.
Don't be stupid, you did nothing wrong! His parents were terrible to your husband, they deserve nothing!! They gave nothing, they get nothing!!!
Thank you
Oh I would so love an update..if/when it becomes available?
No. He told you to play it for them. He left that for them. That is all they get from him. And dont act like they really were upset about his death.
Is Jack making amends as a friend of Bill?
If an individual can't even take care of these simplest of problems, then I wonder if you are worth living your life.
Such wicked parents also very shameless I no they will get jack shit bcuz they don't deserve nothing so unbelievable
Pure greed in the first story
Hire a Pitbull Lawyer and protect your family and Business....They are Owed Nothing since they mistreated him for Golden boy. No contact and restraining Order on All of His Family. Wow what a bunch of insensitive toxic people...🚩🚩🥺 Very sorry for thr Loss of your husband....Follow the Will....
Deepest condolences for your loss, and I am sorry he had such a terrible family and they are no better than vultures,they are extremely warped people tell them if they have money I see you in court I think the only thing was he called them out on their bull shit
I had some leave me a message for the children from a first family who ghosted their father after he died they called the solicitor since I had his power of attorney I told the solicitor the message he left but if in court with my hand on a bible swearing a oath then looking at them and using his exact suggestion to the children he reared and gave them a significant sum the Christmas he last saw them then they opened the door and told him to F off
So his final message was a little more to the point but I told their solicitor to go ahead they would be paying my travel expenses and getting those words said in public and would do that if they forced me to I believe you owe it to honour to carry out exactly what you are instructed to do
OP, you are not wrong. Your husband is right. It is right to tell his parents how they treated him. It was his right. They are horrible people.
I hope you are able to greive and live as happy of a life as you can.
Sorry, i have a hard time believing stories like this. If they were married then any property would have been in both names. And if they doing that business together same thing. So his family had no say whatsoever.
Sometimes when money is involved people will go crazy trying to figure out how to get some or all the money after someone death
A point that I made. The only factor that made it seems unreal.
@MrBeevee5 you would be amazed the shit some people try to pull.when my brother died my mom tried taking his family home from the wife and kids I had to stop my mom and explain she had no right to anything that was his fun
Your audio volume is EXTREMELY low. Please fix it. It isn't consistent from one video to the next. FIX IT PLEASE!!!!
Girl posted her story on the internet and couldn't take people talking bad about her story. Should'nt be fishing for encoragement on the internet darling. It goes both ways. Always.
Trolls are everywhere on the internet. It is to be expected ahead of time.
Really bothers me that they have this english women reading these stories and trying to make this seem like it could happen here. It can't. This is one of those east asain stories. Pure fiction. No proper speaking english women can change that.
You're bothered about the narrator being white? Wow...
@@SCP01986 I actually love Japanese culture. I have a problem with AI produced stories that aren't written by a real person and passed off as real. Real Japanese culture includes wonderful art,literature and poetry. I am actually a real fan of their anime as well. Ithink
Also in Japan the wife inherits everything if there's no will. ONLY IN THE AI WORLD IS THIS HAPPENING
One last thing. You are really not well informed about how these stories are produced . Are you one of these people who actually think they are real??
@@nancyoneill-buck6033 Thete is a will, OP’s husband wrote one when he was diagnosed and it said all goes to OP, not the MIL, FIL, or the brother. He also made a video in case anything was tried at the funeral or after. That’s all in the original story and updates.