Navigating Brotherhood and Real Friendships | Fridays with Tab and Chance
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 ก.ย. 2024
- Todays episode we have a special guest, out brother: Carlos Coleman. Today is about brotherhood and friendship. We talk about Los and Chance's friendship, how it started, how men come to build friendships in their adult lives. Lets get into it!
About the hosts
Guest Carlos Coleman: / losography
Tabitha Brown is the world's favorite mom and auntie! She is an Emmy award winning show host, actress, a 3-time New York Times Best Selling author and a 4 time NAACP Image Award winner. Follow Tabitha Brown: / iamtabithabrown
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Chance Brown is a father, mentor, retired police officer, entrepreneur, and youth basketball coach. If you ask him, he’ll tell you he is a professional human! Follow Chance Brown: / teamchancebasketball
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I'm a 57 year old black retired Police Officer who has had no male friends. This video meant everything to me. THANKS
I love seeing Chances evolution in front of the camera. We went from not wanting to talk at all to full blown monologues!
And it's great because we are all flawed I love it!
❤Love it too
People need Tab & Chance because some people don't have that representation of great friends, amazing parents, and outstanding spouses. I personally don't have an outlet but I'm inspired every week when I watch. I'm healing and learning through yall.
Well said
I second this!
❤ this conversation
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I love them because they let you know that they’re life wasn’t/isn’t perfect! Chance today was amazing! ❤❤
“When my wife can’t be there. It feels amazing, to have somebody who you know really gives a damn about you.”
Whew. The peek into real, vulnerable, pure men friendships. Love to see this type of representation getting more platforms
This was one of y’all best episodes! Chance almost brought me to tears because I felt his sincerity & appreciation for Los. Los seems so genuine & down to earth, you all do! It’s so inspiring seeing how mature & transparent you both are! It gives me hope as a black female that there are still good hearted men in the world! I love that you’re using your platform to spread growth & positivity! 💕
This was an AMAZING episode to see the vulnerability of black men in a fashion that allowed them to bond as friends! Beautiful and Carlos thank you for being that dude for Chance. That story of him being on stage and you keeping him straight, spoke volumes!
Amen! ❤
I watched this twice, and cried twice at the same spots😢
Send this to your black Sons, Brothers, Uncles, Friends, Boyfriends and even Husbands.
Tab, Chance and Los this was everything!🙏🏽
Amen! ❤
Carlos has a gift of communicating effectively. That's a blessing because a lot of people in struggle with that.
I so appreciate the vulnerability between these two Brothers.
The friendship started over $40 and dreadlocks. Life is funny and full of surprises. Look at the irony in neither one of them having dreads anymore but got Tab! I love this beautiful conversation. Friendships matter so much to our growth and navigation through life.
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I’m a woman and I’m single but I thoroughly enjoyed this convo. Teaches me about how men are. 🙏🏾
If yhu didn't kno....❤pay attention 😊
The remix was on point. 🙂
I love this! I get so tired of extending true friendship and not getting the same in return. I just stick with my husband. My mom used to say, “You can count on one hand how many true friends you will have in a lifetime !” Ya’ll are from NC so I know you have heard that too.
You actually can meet and have new friends, but you must take time, know whats important to you in friendship and see it it develops with those new additions.. Not all friends have to be long term, but just take time and recognize who wants to truly know you, and who just truly wants to be just a part of your existence.
@@karinbrown6797I agree, but it’s very hard because I keep running into people and family that Chance was talking about. Those who are happy when they are on top and I’m not or they just don’t want to hear anything about my blessings. Life is too short. I’m good with my circle being my husband. He is my best friend. ❤ I still love and pray for positive things on their behalf, but until I find my “Los” or “Carlos” lmbo. I’m good.
Watching Chance open up through the years has been beautiful 🙏🏼
This was OUTSTANDING dialogue
Mrs.Brown. You one hell of a woman. It was all about business. Chance, I’m going to give you your props. You didn’t take it personal. God really used y’all three.
I really appreciate Chance sharing his perspective on the game console counseling. That benefit never once crossed my mind. Thank you for your transparency.
Love this❤
This is what TRUE GENUINE FRIENDSHIP looks like. What I gathered from this video between Chance and Carlos is there were six key things that led to the success of their 20 year friendship:
✅ respect
✅ honesty
✅ communication
✅ support
✅ lack of ego
✅ reciprocity
Chance, you have always wanted to give this testimony. The thing is, the world wasn’t ready to receive it, until now. It’s all in Gods timing! Big Los!!
Wow Chance, much respect. Thank you for sharing your inner man.😊
I love the brotherhood between Chance and Los! I also love the vulnerability between both couples ❣❣
This has been the most beautiful display of true black manhood. Thank you for this opportunity. This should go VIRAL💙🖤
This segment was without a doubt one of the best and most real men’s conversations I’ve heard. I found it to be very therapeutic. Well done to all.
The way this ministered to me as a 28 year old woman… whewww! I’m going through a season of mind renewal by God and He is teaching me how to maneuver in relationships that I care about. This was so on time. Thank God for both of you guys’ transparency ❤️
Thank you Chance for the growth! Thank you Tab for sharing Chance with us. Thank you Los for being a great friend! Love y’all transparency! ❤❤❤
Great conversation. When Chance said “Tap me in.” I saw two grown men, being Vulnerable and Transparent👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This conversation was so good and powerful! 👏👏 Thank you Chance and Carlos! Another great episode Tab and Chance! 🙌
I love hearing men being like this with each other. Thank y’all for being vulnerable. ❤❤❤❤❤
EXCELLENT EPISODE!!!! If you can't be solid throughout life and vulnerable with people you call friend, what do you have? LOVE TO SEE THE BROTHERHOOD!!!!
I cried, I laughed, and I'm so happy y'all did this episode. Hi Big Los!! Thank you Chance for letting Los know in front of the world how much you appreciate him. Thank you so much Tab for looking out for your husband and introducing him to his best friend. Our God is so faithful!!!
I wish more men had real friends like this ❤❤❤
A blessing in transparency, thanks for sharing this amazing experience with two amazing brothers! Tab, you did that!
This was an absolutely beautiful episode. The world needs to know that black men can truly love and support each other.
I love this!!! To see Chance’s growth is so inspiring!!!!!!!!! The way he speaks his truth and love on his friends is amazing!!!
This has GOT to be one of the best episodes EVER!
Chance done 'grewed' up🤣
Real talk this made me really appreciate 2 of my good friends. I love this even more so with men❤
One of my favorite episodes! I appreciate the male transparency and brotherhood.
Chance had me in tears!!! Thank you so much for this episode.
Love this episode! Love to see a good healthy friendship between black men! Lord know that's what they truly need!
We need more story times with Los!
Chance you got me teary eyed 🥹 this was a beautiful conversation
This episode was ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. I loved the very real conversations of the brothers and Tab you were a great facilitator. This was powerful to me as a man that's older than both of these men. Thank you.
Chance said Tap Me In 😂😂
This was an AMAZING episode! I love to hear real men speak from the heart & show vulnerability. That was some real ish when you both spoke on how you were able to separate yourselves from those who didn't value you the way you did them. And Chance brought me to tears speaking on his brother Los being there for him when he needed it the most. I loved everything about this, and Tab, you did that!! 😅❤🙏🏿💚
I thoroughly enjoyed this episode! Thank you Chance and Carlos for being transparent and honest! Great job, Tab!
YES . ... start with honesty from the beginning
This conversation was absolutely refreshing! I love the TRUE friendship.
That's one of those people that's heaven. Sent from. GOD LIKE A RAM IN A BUSH. THAT'S. Ur extended family member. GOD give. U a Brother. That stick closer. than a friend. CONGRATS that. Y'all recognize a GOD given gift to the 3 of. You. Westside LA. Cali Roro 🎉❤😊
I love watching both of them. Tab and Chance is very inspiring to me on so many levels. Times when, I want to cry but when I watch them they make me smile laughing is so much needed in my life. Thank Mr. & Mrs. Brown ❤️💙❤️💙🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
That is how a real brother friend man treat one another that is an amazing relationship I applaud you both and God Bless your relationship ❤ Amen I just wanted to cry for the realness I can’t verbalize the words to say how proud I am know that you have this in your life 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I just love you Chance and Tab. And all the honesty that you put out. ❤❤
I just love them!
I love this outward expression of love amongst brothers! This is so needed. And many are in depressed states because they need this type of friendship. I pray that this video reaches those that need this confirmation and show of love. ❤
I loooooved this episode. This is so needed. Black men so need to hear these types of conversations. Being vulnerable is something that many need a roadmap on. It is the gateway to meaningful long lasting relationships.
This one right here. Black men being open and vulnerable. Yes!!!!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Great episode. Hardest lesson learned was accepting when a season has ended that you were holding on too.
This episode has been enlightening, encouraging and is found in the scripture. True friendship is powerful. Chance’s vulnerability is real. Tabitha heard from God when she connected these two. 💞
“Now when he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.”
I Samuel 18:1 NKJV
WHAT IVE LEARNED DURING THESE LAST 5 YRS OF MY 65 YEARS OF LIFE ... ASSOCIATIONS/FRIENDSHIPS ... REASON, SEASON OR LIFETIME. THEY ARE NOT ALL SUPPOSED TO LAST. THEY ARE FOR A LIMITED TIME SOMETIMES.
Absolutely. I'm 69 yrs old and have learned the same thing. I totally agree.
I loved every bit of this! 💜
This is what real men look like!
I loved this! It was wonderful to see such strong friendship between men. I pray all men have trusted male confidantes that can also hold them accountable, they can be vulnerable with and truly love. Also not letting the "little" things slide was so good!
Lovin this authentic transparency episode
today! Kudos Chance and Big Los!!!👏🏾👏🏾❤
Chance so mad at the remix!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
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This was “Very Good”, I aspire to have healthy community such as yours.
It's my 2nd time looking at this. I must say thank you, Chance. I was once there with people who I thought were my friends and family. when you down, people love that, and when you up, it's different. 😢 I'm okay with it. That's their LOST.Thank you, Jesus.
That was one of the BEST episodes EVER 🙌 Thanks for sharing Guys.
I really enjoyed this interview. Listening to men, Black Men express themselves was really refreshing. All the men I ever known think Communication is a weakness. Thank you for sharing yall journey ❤
One of the best episodes ever!
Love the transparency. As a woman, this has been healing. 🥰
This is probably one of my favorite episodes! We need more of this from our black men!
So good to see Black men truthfully "CHOP IT UP". I'm with you 100% Tab, for me it wasn't GENUINE ❤❤❤
#prayersforusALL 🙏 🙏 🙏 🤲 🕍
I pray this goes viral in our community.
You know I love Tab & Chance but this one right here just just exploded my mind because I be saying, wondering and thinking why we as a people can't get to this place with one another. We have got to learn how to be transparent and authentic with one another for real. I love this show for real but today it has went up 100% more if that's possible, and is. To see men grown mature honest and transparent men on a level like this and teeth & tongue still intact. I love this..I thank God for showing the world that relationships like this can will and do exist but you gotta want it and God can give it to us. Thank yall thank yall thank yall for doing this I'll be forever grateful 🙏.
51:42 made pause and tear up for a minute. Because yes! I appreciate this conversation so much. It's always so good to see what can happen when people make the conscious and continued effort to pour into a connection. The fulfillment of it all. For those of us "hard workers" in relationships, I hope reciprocity finds us all. As Teddy P said, "it's so good loving somebody and somebody loves you back.❤
Of all the Friday's With Tab and Chance...this one has hit home the most! Thank You So Much. Real talk.
LOVED this episode. It is beautiful to see this level of transparency and vulnerability between black men. Sister Tab, YOU DID THAT!!🗣️😄
I love Tab and Chance! These segments are always heartfelt, real, "feel good" segments. I love this!
Chance that was really emotional. You got me tearing up! ❤
Such a refreshing conversation. Love the transparency between our Black men, so needed. Thank you!
I love watching Friday's with you guys. Always a good topic and inspiring
I loved this episode... Our men need each other..... We are descendents from tribes..community. support systems. We cannot do this life alone. .I repeat, our men need each other and they need family. Thank you for this very special episode. I was moved to tears so many times. Bless all who have true friends... there is nothing like it... I met my best friends 50 years ago and we are still going strong. I thank God each day for my ability to recognize God's truth. He has always stressed the bonds of true love in family.( family meaning blood and those we have connected with)
I love y’all friendship Tab,Chance and Big Los❤👍🏽🙌🏽
This episode touched my soul. It was timely as well for myself as my husband as we navigate changes within our adult friendships. I absolutely love the story and the tangible love shared between The Browns and Colemans. Chances soliloquy was excellent and heartfelt! Friends like Los are rare and other friends will hate on their presence in your life. Oh but to have a friend that will stand 10 toes down and let it be known THIS IS MY FRIEND AND HE HAS BEEN THE TTPE OF FRIEND RO ME THAT IVE NEVER KNOWN…I love to see it. Give people their flowers while they are here and let it be known that idc who feel a way about it! Yeah we were moved over here! Felt.
I love y’all fa real! This truly brightened my day. Praying for an unexpected miracle Mr and Mrs.Carlos! Be blessed have a great weekend ya’ll❤️
53:30 Los is absolutely right! ATL folk is REAL serious about celebrating and lifting up our people! If you can't be happy for somebody, then you don't rock with them like that frfr! #ATLhoe #ATLien
Your episodes and topics just keep getting better and better. I'm always crying because they are so relatable. Thank you for sharing and know that you are touching many lives!!!
This was amazing🔥I hope and pray more men will build their relationships on integrity, vulnerability and love!!
Love this episode ❤ Thank you Los
I Love you guys ❤❤❤ tonight show was true, it’s so hard to find a true loving friendship Once you find one keep it and love on it! God Bless you guys ❤🙏🙏😘😘
I absolutely love this! Praise God for such friendship!
The story of Los coming over for the first time took me from crying to laughing so hard😂😂
Excellent Episode!! Thank you!❤
Chance and Carlos wow thanks for sharing I love man having great relationships and not ashamed! What a breath of fresh air!!!
If God is for us who can be against you -Romans 8:31-39? I'm so excited for this beautiful sista!!!! I'm looking for that wine tomorrow too. ❤❤❤
This was amazing to see two men have this kind of deep friendship.
Whew! This hit home. This was a much needed conversation. Thanks Kings and Queen
Love, love, love this episode! ❤❤❤
It's the opening for me😂😂😂
Tell the people, Chance!!!!👏👏👏👏💙💙
I felt everything Chance said.My best friend and love of my life passed but before he did, nobody understood his cry outs,if you never experienced what he was going through with his Cancer how could you tell him"Well be glad you're alive". Sometimes it's not about your thoughts but putting yourself in that person shoe's and saying"What would I want my friend or family say to me." I was his go to person & the last time I talked with him before passing he expressed what I meant to Chance almost had me in tears.
I loveeeeeee this. I wish more men had good and genuine friendships like this. The world would be a much better place