It's simple, when it's convenient for them they will use it, otherwise they will do everything in their hands to avoid responsibility. This is not a gender centered issue, it's common human nature.
Her statement about "emotional vulnerability" being important for relationships shows how women treat them, like soap opera, and don't get that kind of "relationship" is a major turn off for men in fact.
everything right apart from the conclusion. 😂 One thing is taking care of your wife that ticked all the boxes. Paying on the first date,to a completely stranger that nowadays will very likely not tick any of the boxes and be a casual bang, is a completely different thing. Guys, don't pay on the first date, equality first, whenever she proves herself, then you can start to act as a husband. Otherwise, it's just pearls to the swines
Personally I have to disagree with you end statement. In todays world it is very easy to be taken advantage of financially by women that have no actual desire to date you or just want a free meal. I could go on 20 dates with 20 different women, pay for them, and still be rejected 20 times. That's just way too big of a financial investment in this day and age of inflation and low salaries. The first date is always a split for me, and once I know you stick around and are actually interested in dating me, you get the girlfriend-treatment and I will pay for and do things for you.
I feel like this is very generalizing. As a women, personally I'd pick the guy who wants to go 50/50. Later on it's fine for whoever earns more to spend more and to split tasks according to ability and availability, but while getting to know each other I am certainly not interested in being taken care of. I am also not more attracted to people who are taller/make more money/have higher social status, these traits would make me self conscious, feeling like I can't contribute to the relationship. Worked out well for me, I am happily married to someone of a very similar background who splits expenses and housework with me. May be completely different for other people and you do you, but the ideas in this video certainly don't apply to everyone.
What you are saying about unequal split of childbirth etc is only relevant to marriage and starting a family. But this has nothing to do with starting a relationship, dating or sex. Most people don't want a family or children with someone they are going on the first date with. It might happen later, but it's a separate arrangement. So how is going through the pain of childbirth any relevant to paying on the first date, I have no idea.
It's simple, when it's convenient for them they will use it, otherwise they will do everything in their hands to avoid responsibility.
This is not a gender centered issue, it's common human nature.
This video was so satisfying to watch
Her statement about "emotional vulnerability" being important for relationships shows how women treat them, like soap opera, and don't get that kind of "relationship" is a major turn off for men in fact.
Let's get real, equal rights... but only when it benefits them.
Hey, you're a seriously underrated TH-camr! Your videos are always so interesting!
Thanks man! I really appreciate it
@@austin_milne You're welcome, man. Cheers!
Great video buddy!
You’re doing awesome work-keep it up!
Very good video, Austin. Educational but also high quality. Keep it up and I can see you growing a fair bit!
Thanks man!
everything right apart from the conclusion. 😂
One thing is taking care of your wife that ticked all the boxes.
Paying on the first date,to a completely stranger that nowadays will very likely not tick any of the boxes and be a casual bang, is a completely different thing.
Guys, don't pay on the first date, equality first, whenever she proves herself, then you can start to act as a husband. Otherwise, it's just pearls to the swines
Personally I have to disagree with you end statement. In todays world it is very easy to be taken advantage of financially by women that have no actual desire to date you or just want a free meal. I could go on 20 dates with 20 different women, pay for them, and still be rejected 20 times. That's just way too big of a financial investment in this day and age of inflation and low salaries. The first date is always a split for me, and once I know you stick around and are actually interested in dating me, you get the girlfriend-treatment and I will pay for and do things for you.
can you please link the studies you are refrencing?
Of course they want equality. As long as they are more equal than everyone else.
I feel like this is very generalizing. As a women, personally I'd pick the guy who wants to go 50/50. Later on it's fine for whoever earns more to spend more and to split tasks according to ability and availability, but while getting to know each other I am certainly not interested in being taken care of. I am also not more attracted to people who are taller/make more money/have higher social status, these traits would make me self conscious, feeling like I can't contribute to the relationship. Worked out well for me, I am happily married to someone of a very similar background who splits expenses and housework with me. May be completely different for other people and you do you, but the ideas in this video certainly don't apply to everyone.
If they could the internet would not overrunning the internet.
What you are saying about unequal split of childbirth etc is only relevant to marriage and starting a family. But this has nothing to do with starting a relationship, dating or sex. Most people don't want a family or children with someone they are going on the first date with. It might happen later, but it's a separate arrangement. So how is going through the pain of childbirth any relevant to paying on the first date, I have no idea.
Hey first again
Second!