My Motorcycle Saved me after my son died - Tribute to Nick Miner

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2024
  • On October 23, 2022 my son died in a traffic crash. Once I started riding again my motorcycle saved me. It was therapeutic. It allows me to process my sons death. Allowing me an outlet to express my feelings. This is my Christmas gift to my son Nick. Riding is literally saving me!

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  • @davehowie03
    @davehowie03 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is gonna make me cry. I can already tell.

  • @philchesne8497
    @philchesne8497 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, my friend I’m in a similar situation, my soon turning 17 years old son died in May 2022. My way to grieve is to ride my bike as we were supposed to do on the following summer 2023, but it will never happen with him. I share your pain my friend. Phil.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Phil I’m so sorry for your loss. I truly know the pain you live with everyday. Me and my son did everything together. My son was gonna graduate this year and we were gonna do our trip. You should take that trip because he will be with you. They now see the world through our eyes and they only way he can go is if you go. If you decide to go let me know where you end up, you never know we might cross paths. Enjoy the ride and find some peace my friend!

  • @joecamilleri2584
    @joecamilleri2584 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello my brother first i am So Very Sorry for your loss i lost my son also and yes my motorcycle saved me as well i have my sons work gloves zip tied to my handle bars he rides with me everywhere i go much love to you God Bless our boys live in our hearts

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m sorry for your son, our sons live through us. Im just trying to survive right now and riding is my therapy. God bless you and enjoy the ride!

    • @joecamilleri2584
      @joecamilleri2584 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MidLifeMotoCrisis We share the same pain i took trips on my bike and it helped me survive i am from New Jersey my son also played football he was a great athlete as well he also wrestled he was just 20 great to message you if i can help you feel free to reach out

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joecamilleri2584 yeah man! Please feel free to reach out anytime. Your son was so young like my Nick. If your ever in Florida hit me up, we can share some road sometime. Thank you 🙏

  • @suzintru1
    @suzintru1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Grieve when you must, laugh when you can, and always love. RIP #8. 🙏

  • @BackRoadzRider
    @BackRoadzRider 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    such a great tribute to your son. grief is like love having no place to go, and real men do cry.

  • @tonyriley2995
    @tonyriley2995 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I so sry for your loss my heart go out to you your family and especially your young son God be with you all and comfort you

  • @BrianDawe
    @BrianDawe ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Looking forward to watching this 🙏❤️

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would love to come and see you perform one day!

    • @BrianDawe
      @BrianDawe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MidLifeMotoCrisis would love to see you! Let’s do it soon!

  • @BrianDawe
    @BrianDawe ปีที่แล้ว +4

    That was an incredible tribute. Thank you for sharing this with everyone. At the end when you show Nick’s highlights you can actually feel his enormous presence through the video. You can see the impact he had on others. Continuously praying for you guys. His legacy will live on forever through you, your entire family, and the countless lives he touched. 🙏❤️

  • @Eds_PanAm
    @Eds_PanAm ปีที่แล้ว +4

    damn son.....🙏💙 sorry for your loss......but a beautiful tribute video man

  • @aramis2wavy-.502
    @aramis2wavy-.502 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    may he rest in peace forever #8 🙏🏼

  • @neildewitt2869
    @neildewitt2869 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Merry Christmas! Let tge spirt of the season help you through life. Remember you always have people listening and sharing. Your not along. A friend from Alaska. Merry Christmas!

  • @kevinbannon923
    @kevinbannon923 ปีที่แล้ว

    10 years ago our son Kevin Marc Bannon passed away at 21. He had a very giving heart but he got caught up in the opioid crisis and passed away. I also ride for therapy. The pain seems endless sometimes. Keep the wheels spinning.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss. Yeah man keep riding until we get to meet them again!

  • @santiagorosado946
    @santiagorosado946 ปีที่แล้ว

    My condolences brother 😢 I can only imagine your pain and suffering man…

  • @jimmytad
    @jimmytad ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow Derek, I offer you my deepest sympathies. 🙏

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much. It’s been so hard. My son was my everything. I miss him so much! One day we will see each other again!

  • @jorgereyes9137
    @jorgereyes9137 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an amazing tribute ! . My Motorcycles have the same effect on me and my son .

  • @Wind.Road.Therapy
    @Wind.Road.Therapy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My apologies for missing the Premiere. So touching 🫂 what a wonderful tribute to your son, Nick. I wish I would have had the opportunity to have met him❤️🩶🖤

  • @DerrickT412
    @DerrickT412 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful tribute video! As a parent I can’t imagine what you and your family have been going through. But at the same time, the fact that your son passed away while attempting to help his fellow man says a ton about the way he was raised. Nothing but respect for you my man. Praying for your family 🙏🏾❤️

  • @31637thcourtne
    @31637thcourtne 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a beautiful tribute. I pray for your family all the time. Be Great #8.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks you my friend! One day at a time.

  • @TheAbandonedWell
    @TheAbandonedWell 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Goddamn… made a grown man cry.. awesome video man. Much love, and respect for you and your family.

  • @mkelley51
    @mkelley51 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m new to your channel. I’m so sorry for the loss of your son. Beautiful tribute brother.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, it’s been a struggle to deal with. There are good days and bad. I’m just taking it one day at a time!

  • @sallyshepard6730
    @sallyshepard6730 ปีที่แล้ว

    My thoughts and prayers are with you 🙏❤💔. Please stay strong. 🙏

  • @1RaceLifestyle
    @1RaceLifestyle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Praying for your family! My daughter goes to the Same school, and my wife volunteers for a lot of the games. From one fellow motovlogger to another, keep the rubber side down! Maybe I'll catch you around town or at a game one day! God Bless! 🏍🏍 ✌️

  • @jerrycan5643
    @jerrycan5643 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m your newest subscriber, I watched a couple of videos and started watching this one. First of all, let me say how very sorry I am for your loss, my deepest condolences to you and your family. I’m a 60 year old biker who has 3 daughters, the thought of losing any of them is unbearable to think. I’m not ashamed to admit that I cried when I watched this video. 💕💕

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m working on living life again. Thanks for supporting the channel. I got some new videos coming soon.

  • @ohiobackroads1548
    @ohiobackroads1548 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your family is in my family's Christmas prayers. I lost my granddaughter 2 years ago and found piece riding my motorcycle. I will have Nick in my thoughts as I ride the 2023 season. God bless and safe riding from OHIOBACKROADS.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry to hear that, yes riding has been very therapeutic! Thank you so much!

    • @ohiobackroads1548
      @ohiobackroads1548 ปีที่แล้ว

      @MidLife MotoCrisis I also have a small channel that I post my rides on. I'm planning on some trips out west this up and coming. season . You have any road trips planned. I also moto camp and just explore this beautiful country we live in.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ohiobackroads1548 yes I’m planning on going west for 2023. I’m gonna go to Colorado and ride all the good roads.

  • @larry-the-weekend-explorer
    @larry-the-weekend-explorer ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice tribute to your son,
    may he rest in peace,
    and may God comfort your family.

  • @master6676
    @master6676 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank You.

  • @TobyNorthEN
    @TobyNorthEN ปีที่แล้ว

    Derek, this is a beautiful tribute to Nick. You are 100% right. The impact he left on others and how they do things in remembrance of him... is how his legacy lives on. Hang in there and remain steadfast as best you can for your Family. Do not forget, NONE OF YOU ARE ALONE!

  • @ramblinjay3816
    @ramblinjay3816 ปีที่แล้ว

    This hits hard man. I wish i had a closer connection with my brother. The issue is everyone is so stubborn while i sit on the sideline always playing the good guy trying not to fall into all the chaos. Everyone is always just worried about money and more money and what is better than what. The competition tears people apart and from reality.
    Take care man.

  • @jonflis7330
    @jonflis7330 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ive been watching your videos for awhile. I could not bring myself to watch this, I finally did. Thank you for sharing your pain, hurt and giving your son the opportunity to live on. I lost my brother unexpectedly in 2021, its no where close to loosing a child (I'm also a father of two) however, THIS....I needed to see this and inspire me. My brother and I were riding buddies when we could. He lived in Ohio, me in Georgia (retiring this year from the Military). We had big riding plans for the future. I have been stressed to ride, afraid almost to miss him. You said it, "it hurts".....but it's what we do to live and honor those we loved, those we lost too soon. Thank you... and may Nick forever be remembered as the amazing person you raised him to be.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would say you continue the adventure and go on those big rides you and him planned to honor him. My son called me everyday on my last trip and after he pasted he sent me a sign to let the adventure continue. We take them with us and it’s the only way they will be on that trip! They see through our eyes now. Ride on and enjoy it cause we only live it once! Thank for the kind words.

  • @brianmarkowitz84
    @brianmarkowitz84 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing this story. Im sure it wasn’t an easy thing to do.

  • @VVoltz
    @VVoltz ปีที่แล้ว

    My deepest respect and sympathies for you and your family for your loss. Thank you for posting this, it was very, very touching, heartfelt and beautiful. Merry Christmas

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you I appreciate it. Merry Christmas to you as well.

  • @ScramblerStories
    @ScramblerStories ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful video Derek, very moving. Your son is definitely proud. Much love to you, Deanna, and the whole family. I can't imagine how difficult it's been, but we''re here if you ever want to talk. I think that Sportster Scrambler is a great idea, hope we can do a video together one day. ❤

  • @mimithemagnificent
    @mimithemagnificent ปีที่แล้ว

    RIP Nick. You’re so missed by so many. I hope you’re at peace wherever you are. God bless you and your parents and brothers and family and friends. 😢❤🙏🏼 #lln8

  • @BillTheHarleyGuy
    @BillTheHarleyGuy ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this video was greatly put together ,what an awesome tribute to Nick 👍

  • @TheManhu01
    @TheManhu01 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome tribute Derek. Love u guy’s. Nick will always be great.

  • @sarahornquist8516
    @sarahornquist8516 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am sad I never gotta meet him. Thinking of you guys this Christmas and sending love. Incredible video!

  • @brianl4310
    @brianl4310 ปีที่แล้ว

    awesome video thank you for sharing my god keep you and you family and you go through this trying healing time

  • @WhiskeyChaser
    @WhiskeyChaser ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful video Derek

  • @TexRider
    @TexRider ปีที่แล้ว

    So sad, very sorry for your loss.

  • @garywaters2563
    @garywaters2563 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is awesome brother! Love you!!

  • @teeetekkr3xx
    @teeetekkr3xx ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro your son's tragic demise touched me in some way IDK how or why but I seen it on fox 35 about the cemetery being assholes I wanna help out anyway if possible idk how I can reach you but I'm here for you guys...

  • @davehowie03
    @davehowie03 ปีที่แล้ว

    Derek, this is a beautiful tribute. I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart hurts for you.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, maybe we can meet up again at FA campout in March. Missed everyone this past event.

    • @davehowie03
      @davehowie03 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MidLifeMotoCrisis I missed it as well. It will be awesome to get there again in March.

  • @ShesShiftingGears
    @ShesShiftingGears ปีที่แล้ว

    Derek thank you for sharing Nick with us. This is a beautiful tribute. Sending you and your family love today. Merry Christmas.

  • @neildewitt2869
    @neildewitt2869 ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you going to Sturgis in August? I'll be their! My condolences and prayers bro! So sorry for your loss!

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes as of right now, I’m going. Never been and life is to short not to go do the things I’ve always wanted to do. Thank you

    • @neildewitt2869
      @neildewitt2869 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MidLifeMotoCrisis get with me and you can ride along if you want. Do you have a place to stay? Give me a call I can tell you about it. 15 years experience.

    • @MidLifeMotoCrisis
      @MidLifeMotoCrisis  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@neildewitt2869 no place to stay yet. Haven’t planned it yet beside I know I’m going. Where would you be riding from?

    • @neildewitt2869
      @neildewitt2869 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MidLifeMotoCrisis I'll ride from Milwaukee and Harleys 120th anniversary. I live in Alaska but will be down their around 7th or so and in Milwaukee on 12-16 then ride to Sturgis.

    • @neildewitt2869
      @neildewitt2869 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MidLifeMotoCrisis call me. Do you have my number? If not send email and I'll pass it on but delete it as soon as you get it so I don't get hacked again please.

  • @Makeouthill.3615
    @Makeouthill.3615 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I go to lake nona i heard about this very sad😢

  • @bradboustead1682
    @bradboustead1682 ปีที่แล้ว

    😥

  • @GratefulOverlander
    @GratefulOverlander ปีที่แล้ว

    Brother, I'm so sorry for your loss. His angel will always be with you as you cruise down the road.
    Much love my brother.
    RIP Nick. Gone but never forgotten 💙💙💙