If you've ever been in a terrible funk, what are some ways that help you to get out of it? Asking for a friend 😅 As always, thank you so much for watching ♥
When I’m feeling down or sad I like to either put on some of my favourite songs and sing along or put on sad songs and gave myself a good cry Either way it generally helps Feel better ❤
I couldn’t help but giggle when you prepped us to look at the sink - I expected a mountain of sticky funky plates - but then you pan over and show us the cutest little stack of demure lady dishes. lol. And thank you for sharing your true self with us and trusting us with your vulnerability. You are so refreshingly human, and it’s a gift to show others we aren’t alone in these very real experiences and feelings. I’m glad you got to feeling better the next day. 🫶
Just an observation. You really love your space and maybe you were needing to spend more time in your safe space before you had to leave for an extended time away from home. Remember to honor, love and accept yourself right where you are. Life is both sides of the coin, we can’t have the joy without experiencing the funk as well. We have to sit in both, that’s just life. Sit in it, acknowledge it but don’t stay in it. Thank you for sharing your emotions with us and for being vulnerable. I hope your trip is successful and you have a wonderful time at your events. I hope as you wear your dresses you feel the warmth and love of your sister and mom. Thank you for this vlog. Cheering you on from Southern California !
A real funk from you is so much more honest and relatable than the phony, forced conviviality that exists on other creators’ channels. You know the ones - where everything is always sunshine and roses and smiling and so goshawful fake. Whoever first said “this,too, shall pass” knew what they were talking about.
Hey girl, thank you for putting a real video out about just being stressed and overwhelmed. I totally feel that and you’re not alone! And I love your channel
A wise person once told me when your overwhelmed ask yourself, hungry angry or tired. If it is in your power to fix any of those things it’s a great place to start. It’s ok to have off days, they make us appreciate the good ones. Feel better 😊
Don’t sweat it Gail…we just like hanging out with our Girl in NYC…it’s all good, really. Glad to see you again no matter the content. Like we are there in your place visiting with you. It’s just life! ❤
I'm so glad you posted this. Again, Gail you feel to me so emotionally real, raw and while I'm sorry you were in a funk... it happens to all of us. I think you hit it on the nail ... clothes are super important. they are literally the first and immediate way of introducing ourselves to others. I lived in NYC for 10 yrs and in DC for 6 and I didn't figure out my clothes/style situation until 1. I became an artist and 2. I left the east coast and moved to Portland, Oregon where I've discovered people aren't expected to conform, nor look a certain way, nor be a certain way. Here people are encouraged to be and become their true selves. So long as no harm is done nor won. Which I think is healthy, fair and wise. I think you're a creative (you are) who needs to be in a more creative ... flow/career/lifestyle. Perhaps. I don't know. I see you from the perspective of someone who is needing and wanting to be more creative herself. You inspire me, and I thank you. (p.s. Hope you had a good trip) (p.s 2 neosporin works great on pimples, just keep clean and apply 2-3xday)
We all have those days. You’re not alone. Pray on it 🙏. You will be blessed. I hope your trip was amazing and wonderful ❤. I’m watching this several weeks later. I enjoyed it. 😊🎄💗 have a blessed day and a wonderful Christmas 🎅 and a Happy New Year 🎉💛
I just retired from a high intensity job that required 40-60% travel. The absolute most-stressful part of the job was packing for trips. I was always in a bad place the night before a trip. I finally resorted to something like a work “uniform” of mix & match outfits. Once I boarded the plane I always felt much better. I wish the same for you.
Hi Gail, We all go through funks, just like you, but you are strong enough to share your funk with us; thank you!! Also, your kitchen sink and “dirty dishes” looked pretty good; your dishes were rinsed off and clean looking; so nothing to be embarrassed about there!! 🫶🏻 Safe travels, and packing I find stressful too. Playing fun music helps me while packing and cleaning. 😍
As a 75-year-old retired professional I've had many meetings and way too many trips during my career. After too much overpacking and worrying, I finally whittled everything down to this formula: 1 Blazer, 1 neutral trousers, 1 midlength skirt, 1 crisp white blouse, 2 patterned tops, 1 colorful scarf, 1 casual outfit to travel there and back (turtleneck and jeans for a casual meeting.) and one cocktail dress. Don't let the small things get to you, Gail. Life is life and it is what it is. And truthfully nobody's really going to notice what you're wearing because they'll be too interested in you. Best of luck!
I get SAD in winter. I find things can just feel more tiring and overwhelming. Don’t beat yourself up. These things always pass! I sometimes go to bed mega early on days I’m just feeling meh. Cup of cocoa or similar and a good book :) x
Hey Gail, I appreciate your honesty. This is an honest Vlog and you know we all enjoy you and your life so thank you for sharing it. Try not to be so self-conscious about it because everybody goes through this we all have shitty days. I’m glad you’re sharing.
Feel good just knowing how many people, relative strangers, you make feel like friends with these warm invites into your cozy home and peeks into your creativity. This should tell you, what you mean to others is a blessing, definitely not a reason for funk!
This is all of us Gail - don’t be so hard on yourself. When Im in a funk doing something to move my body sometimes helps but sometimes its just emotions that I need to allow a moment to flow through me and then its done.
I'm so glad you posted this Gail, I'm in a funk too. The last couple of days everything has been going wrong - as I sat down to watch this I knocked over a full glass of water which went all over my desk and laptop! I was supposed to be going out this afternoon, but I'm now going to stay in a watch a film, as we have a big storm hitting the UK and I just want to curl up and do nothing. Thanks for sharing with us, it felt like I was hanging out with you in your apartment. I hope you're now feeling brighter and having a good weekend - I love both those dresses!!
Thanks for being courageous enough to share your funky side. Very happy to hear you have de-funked since filming ♥️ Watching this, I just wanted to give you a hug and pour you another glass of red.
Gail, we all get frustrated at times, especially during the holidays. It sounds like you have some fun events to attend in DC. Since you enjoy your job, I’m sure you will perk up at the events that you said you enjoy. Relax when you can, while you’re away. Your apartment is looking very nice and festive.😀
Gail , I love the hair cut and even though are struggling with clothes "right now" I just want to say you always look put together so trust yourself and stop thinking so much- you got this. Have a safe and successful trip.
thanks for being SO honest (love your Sister’s dress and how nice to wear your Mom’s dress, too…keep it in the family). As others have mentioned, you are SO real and people appreciate that!!! Amazingly you got your suitcase zipped👏👏. Sink…not too bad looking, but when life feel yucky, everything feels off. And sometimes you just have to have mac and cheese😊. Hope your trip went well and thanks for sharing. Because I am on a “news fast/vacation”, your videos are such a nice break from “the world” and remind me that life continues to go on and on, with the highs and lows we all face each day❤
Just loving exactly exactly exactly your bestest honesty, and absolute dedication to us viewers. Please be well, safe and puhleeeeezzzzzz.....do not get STRESSED. This life is so precious and dear. So let's live simply, chill and embrace health and above all CHEER. Sending hugs , love and safety!😂❤
We all have times like the one you are going through. I am 79 and have found that for every day of our life, there is a reason why it is either good ,bad or indifferent, what we take out of each day is what is really important. I don't know who said it but (this too shall pass )It will be ok. Stop , take a deep breath and proceed forward! Love sent your way Take care
Gail, I love your videos. Even the ones you think aren't worth watching. You're super relatable, funny, down to earth, and creative. Thanks for giving us a peek into your life even when you're having a bad day, or night. I hope your work trip went well. I loved both of the dresses. So pretty.
I’m so glad that you released this - we ALL get into this kind of funk (I’m in one right now actually, haha - 40 year old living in DC area!) and this made me feel comforted in being reminded that it’s okay and we all go through it. I do sympathize though - it’s not fun at all! Also, if you’re ever so inclined, I think a cool and fun video to watch would be you showing your photography gear and explaining what you use certain things for (without getting into any of your job specifics). I’m always intrigued by what other professionals use for their jobs! I hope that the funk passes soon and things feel better for you (and all of us who may be in a kind of funk).
I feel your pain over packing, it is so taxing , drawing and exhausting to the brain. I guess it takes thought and planning and I kinda wear what I feel that day.. I love this vlog nothing disappoints, it’s everyday life , figuring out as we go and we got to do on our own cause lord knows it aint easy at times when you are single..
Hey Gail! 😊 I totally get that pre-trip stress - those moments when you're just not feeling the whole packing scene can be so real! First off, can we talk about those glasses? They are absolutely incredible - seriously the most beautiful frames I've ever seen! 🤓 I noticed how much work goes into creating content like this - an 18-minute video might seem short, but the behind-the-scenes shooting and editing is no joke. Major respect for putting in all that effort! If you ever want a hand with editing or just want to chat about content creation, I'm here. Keep slaying those videos and rocking those amazing glasses! 💯🌟
You and your apartment are adorable. Packing is the worst thing in the world besides doing taxes. Also - I noticed "high yield savings" on fridge. Amazing:)
I like this, but I forgot to comment when I was watching it so I went back. I could watch paint dry with you. You are so down to earth and so entertaining. And I get it having a hard time packing and leaving. I watched your New Year’s video about cleaning your closet and that was so good one of your best I would say❤ me and Otis🐶 Massachusetts
I literally get stressed to pack just for an overnight trip. I despise packing , I’m always afraid I’m gonna leave something important behind. Love your Vlogs, Gail !❤
So glad you decided to post this Gail - it’s a slice of real life and sometimes real life isn’t perfect. Sorry you were in a bit of a funk and were stressed about packing - I am a firm believer that ‘tomorrow is another day’ and I hope you enjoyed your trip! Love the Christmas decor and your formal dresses are gorgeous❣️
It took me way too long to learn that when one of those days comes up, I just have to lean into it & accept it. The more we seem to fight those days, the harder the universe reminds us it is not our call to make. Like a rain storm, we just have to ride it out. I now take those days as a not so subtle reminder that no matter how much I think I am in control, there is a lot I have no say in. And when the clock hits 12:01AM, a new day starts. And yes, food helps, too. Hope you enjoyed your work events. You seemed excited about them.
Hi Gail, as weird as it may sound it's 'nice' to see real life content that we can relate to, it's a breath of fresh air. There's so much contrived fake 'perfect ' stuff on social media that just isn't true to life. That's fine if thats what folk want, an escape into a make believe World, but many of us enjoy the every day reality stuff, something you show, funks n all! You do you, we like your content, and like you, you're one of us; we all have those yucky days... & yep we've all stuggled to zip a fat suitcase! lol 😊
Green dress is gorgeous! You’ll look beautiful. Like I tell my daughter……..only way to the other side (of a mood) is to muddle through. So, you’re doing just fine. Wish I could help u pack. I was a flight attendant and I’m a pro at packing. Hope you find some joy this week in DC. You’re a lovely woman! ❤️👍🍷☀️💪
I love your Christmas decor. ❤. I have lights up, tree , etc. I love just enjoying the lights , turning off table lights and floor light. Husband…..turns enough lights on to Do Surgery. Kinda defeats my vibe. Safe travels
Congratulations on your new pimple....hopefully it won't hang around long enough to warrant being named like an actual member of the family 😊 Great dresses, I'm impressed you packed for a few days/ events in such a little case tbh. Clothes-wise, have you considered nuuly (or similar) rentals until you decide what styles you want to go for?
Watching you reminded me of myself. I love to travel but also hate packing. I now get all the clothing out that I would need and more. Particularly things I like to wear. Then I start culling and working out what would go together and start packing. It’s always stressful. Enjoyed watching you pack. Don’t be too hard on yourself.❤
So good to see you again. I’d been thinking of you! Hope you have safe travels and a positive work trip. Don’t worry about your videos. To me you’re always interesting to visit with. Be well ❤
Gail you will be fine hun it’s that time of the year ! Call your Mum or a family member who makes you smile ! You’re so young and gorgeous young lady so don’t beat yourself up over the small stuff ! Depression is a real thing in life for all of us this time of year ! You just need some time with family or friends you trust and just enjoy one night or day for you ! I love your little videos and I can’t wait to see more of NY and the things you enjoy and don’t get me started on seeing NY in the snow ❄️ so sending hugs 🤗 and lots of 🙏🏻 for you hun ❤️ it gets better sweetheart ! Just one day at a time 😊🎄
And yeah, I think a lot of us prefer, moody, honest Gail, as opposed to the vlogger who is always happy, perfect and everything is great and are super hiper al the time. Plus girl, remember youre liing everybody's dream life! You live in New York, have an amazing apartment that you've made your own, you have beautiful clothes, you have my dream life!
We all have those days, we all have so much going on. Give yourself a break and be kind to yourself. I am 65 and still have those days but I try to just let them happen, because you just cannot be happy all of the time and that's okay. Hope your trip went well and see you soon. xoxox
I’m sorry it was “bleh” day. That said thank you so much for sharing what I think we have all felt. It’s your honesty and “ realness” that endears you to us and feels forms community. I hope your trip was productive and FUN!
I'm Not much of a girly girl but a good way to boost your mood is to get fussed over. When you get to DC maybe there is a salon you can go to - get an up do and have your make up done for the formals. Play up your hair and the dresses will take care of the rest.
Being in a funk around the holidays can feel extra tough because there's often this expectation to feel cheerful, but it's okay to acknowledge that you’re not feeling your best.
The video is fine… Real life, real people, real careers and real moods…. that’s what it’s all about right? Just a suggestion… Try to bring a clothes steamer with you or double check that there is one in your hotel room and that can help cut down on prep time since things may get wrinkled during the packing/traveling stage anyway. Also, try to have things that can go with more than one item what is now commonly called a capsule wardrobe where let’s say a white button down blouse can go with a pair of jeans, pair of dress pants, under a sweater/cardigan, etc. that’s just one example but might be helpful to be able to mix and match so you’re not feeling like you have to have a separate outfit for every day. Also tap into hotel dry cleaning and laundry services that could be helpful if something can’t be worn a second or third time after wearing it for work. Your career sounds like a great one and I’m happy for you. Sounds like you found something you really like.📸🎥
I love to trave but I get the same anxiety when I pack, it takes me forever and I just stare at the clother, but I've noticed that what helps me, is to just bring a bunch of clothes that I know they a match, plus some neutras, and dont stress about planniing outfits. I just decide what Im gonna wear once I'm there, and it's ess stressful, because I know everythig wil match!
Hey Gail I’m a new sub. I saw you for the 1st time a few days back and watched several vid’s back to back your attire is fine the comfty look is not hurting your persona. I am 47 and only wear certain attire on certain occasions. Be you we love you that way!
Packing is a headache. I just returned from a ttrip to Florida and deciding what to pack was a chore even though I previously check the weather there. I could have done more. Had a wonderful time anyway
I'm glad you stopped recording. It was hard to see you crippled by the act of packing a bag. I can relate to being overwhelmed by what seems to be a simple task and it just snowballs into more and more stress.
Awww, Gail, you are so cute! You should see me pack…literally takes 5 minutes, goes in a leather duffle, grab passport, jacket & go. ❤. Have a good holiday, and more wine! 😊
OK kiddo, now is the time to take care of yourself :) Get enough sleep. If you are having trouble sleeping, play some relaxing music and take a warm bath. Do it up right with bubbles and candles. Meditate if you don't already. Get out of the house and take a walk. I was never into gratitude journals, but I do follow the example of Stacey Flowers and do a gratitude walk. I express how grateful I am for every little thing, and darn it if it doesn't help! Don't isolate. I know that's hard with your traveling, but be kind to yourself and know that you are doing the best you can right now. And lastly, this too shall pass. Promise.
Packing is the worst I am going on a trip in mid January and just last night I was already stressing about how I should iron the clothes I am packing! The brain is really an uncooperative beast at times
You're very wise to keep info about your work off of your channel. Some creators don't and end up in hot water. Your skin looks good to me, but since I had breakouts well into my 30s and tried many things, I'll offer this tip: Serious Skincare's glycolic cleanser was the best at clearing my skin (which didn't have severe acne but maybe more than yours). I'd even tried prescription remedies, but I found that cleanser to be the best. They also have a benzoyl peroxide product, but I found the cleanser to be best for me. I recommend it to everyone and still actually have it. I use it in the summer when the heat and pollution make my skin feel gross. Try ONE bottle only and see whether it works for you. You might get some very fine peeling for 2-3 weeks after you start while your skin is adapting, but no redness. Just gently buff it away with a damp washcloth. That brand is at QVC and they also have their own web site.
Hello Gail: Bottom line here is: we are here for you....and for each other. Please don't worry about any poor moods or less than perfect videos. I enjoy your company, and wish I could say: "This too shall pass". Kind regards, M. in Upstate New York
By now you are in Washington and perhaps some jitters are gone ? Is it the formal attire and events that make you anxious ? Just an FYI There is a product caed Febreeze Wrinkle Release...spray it on the wrinkles and shake them out. Works better if you know your outfits ahead of time and also put them hung for a while in the steamy shower after you showered.Can also pour some into a small spray bottle in case things get wrinkled on arrival. You've got this !
If you've ever been in a terrible funk, what are some ways that help you to get out of it? Asking for a friend 😅 As always, thank you so much for watching ♥
Exercise really can help. Try taking a walk each day for the adrenalin and fresh air. Feel better!
When I’m feeling down or sad I like to either put on some of my favourite songs and sing along or put on sad songs and gave myself a good cry
Either way it generally helps
Feel better ❤
You could always hang out with your favorite uncle! You are the coolest ever !
@@iraschulman9536 now this is a guaranteed way to feel better
I like to take a walk or get lost in a good book. Hope you are feeling better!
Don’t feel like all videos have to be perfect; this is real life! Thank you for your videos!
I couldn’t help but giggle when you prepped us to look at the sink - I expected a mountain of sticky funky plates - but then you pan over and show us the cutest little stack of demure lady dishes. lol.
And thank you for sharing your true self with us and trusting us with your vulnerability. You are so refreshingly human, and it’s a gift to show others we aren’t alone in these very real experiences and feelings. I’m glad you got to feeling better the next day. 🫶
😅 those seemed like a mountain of dishes to me! Haha
Just an observation. You really love your space and maybe you were needing to spend more time in your safe space before you had to leave for an extended time away from home. Remember to honor, love and accept yourself right where you are. Life is both sides of the coin, we can’t have the joy without experiencing the funk as well. We have to sit in both, that’s just life. Sit in it, acknowledge it but don’t stay in it. Thank you for sharing your emotions with us and for being vulnerable. I hope your trip is successful and you have a wonderful time at your events. I hope as you wear your dresses you feel the warmth and love of your sister and mom. Thank you for this vlog. Cheering you on from Southern California !
Thank you so much for the kind words ♥️ and yes - I think it definitely takes a toll when my time home is cut short
A real funk from you is so much more honest and relatable than the phony, forced conviviality that exists on other creators’ channels. You know the ones - where everything is always sunshine and roses and smiling and so goshawful fake. Whoever first said “this,too, shall pass” knew what they were talking about.
Appreciate it!! ♥️
I try to tell myself, "You're just one day away from a better day"
Love this
That’s a beautiful way to think about it.
No worries, Gail... we all love you! We've all been in a mood!
Hey girl, thank you for putting a real video out about just being stressed and overwhelmed. I totally feel that and you’re not alone! And I love your channel
A wise person once told me when your overwhelmed ask yourself, hungry angry or tired. If it is in your power to fix any of those things it’s a great place to start. It’s ok to have off days, they make us appreciate the good ones. Feel better 😊
So true - and thank you!
Add lonely to that. It spells HALT.
Don’t sweat it Gail…we just like hanging out with our Girl in NYC…it’s all good, really. Glad to see you again no matter the content. Like we are there in your place visiting with you. It’s just life! ❤
Thank you so much!
Exactly 😊. I’m fairly new to your channel, but always look forward to watching a new post. We’re good here. You be you
Stop beating yourself up. You are adorable and real. Hugs
🫶 thank you
I'm so glad you posted this. Again, Gail you feel to me so emotionally real, raw and while I'm sorry you were in a funk... it happens to all of us. I think you hit it on the nail ... clothes are super important. they are literally the first and immediate way of introducing ourselves to others. I lived in NYC for 10 yrs and in DC for 6 and I didn't figure out my clothes/style situation until 1. I became an artist and 2. I left the east coast and moved to Portland, Oregon where I've discovered people aren't expected to conform, nor look a certain way, nor be a certain way. Here people are encouraged to be and become their true selves. So long as no harm is done nor won. Which I think is healthy, fair and wise. I think you're a creative (you are) who needs to be in a more creative ... flow/career/lifestyle. Perhaps. I don't know. I see you from the perspective of someone who is needing and wanting to be more creative herself. You inspire me, and I thank you. (p.s. Hope you had a good trip) (p.s 2 neosporin works great on pimples, just keep clean and apply 2-3xday)
We all have those days. You’re not alone. Pray on it 🙏. You will be blessed. I hope your trip was amazing and wonderful ❤. I’m watching this several weeks later. I enjoyed it. 😊🎄💗 have a blessed day and a wonderful Christmas 🎅 and a Happy New Year 🎉💛
Thank you for the kind words, I really appreciate it 😊
We all have those days girl!!! Just be authentic it is way more appealing, then acting like everything is perfect. ❤❤❤❤
I just retired from a high intensity job that required 40-60% travel. The absolute most-stressful part of the job was packing for trips. I was always in a bad place the night before a trip. I finally resorted to something like a work “uniform” of mix & match outfits. Once I boarded the plane I always felt much better. I wish the same for you.
Thank you ♥️
Hi Gail,
We all go through funks, just like you, but you are strong enough to share your funk with us; thank you!!
Also, your kitchen sink and “dirty dishes” looked pretty good; your dishes were rinsed off and clean looking; so nothing to be embarrassed about there!! 🫶🏻
Safe travels, and packing I find stressful too. Playing fun music helps me while packing and cleaning.
😍
Thank you! ♥️
As a 75-year-old retired professional I've had many meetings and way too many trips during my career. After too much overpacking and worrying, I finally whittled everything down to this formula: 1 Blazer, 1 neutral trousers, 1 midlength skirt, 1 crisp white blouse, 2 patterned tops, 1 colorful scarf, 1 casual outfit to travel there and back (turtleneck and jeans for a casual meeting.) and one cocktail dress. Don't let the small things get to you, Gail. Life is life and it is what it is. And truthfully nobody's really going to notice what you're wearing because they'll be too interested in you. Best of luck!
Thank you so much for the formula! I will definitely refer back to it!
I get SAD in winter. I find things can just feel more tiring and overwhelming. Don’t beat yourself up. These things always pass! I sometimes go to bed mega early on days I’m just feeling meh. Cup of cocoa or similar and a good book :) x
Love these suggestions, thanks for sharing 🫶
Yup
Thank you for your realness!! Keep it up. The authenticity is refreshing.
Hey Gail, I appreciate your honesty. This is an honest Vlog and you know we all enjoy you and your life so thank you for sharing it. Try not to be so self-conscious about it because everybody goes through this we all have shitty days. I’m glad you’re sharing.
Thank you, Madison 🫶🫶
The dresses are beautiful!
Thank you!! Shoutout to my sister and mom 😂
Feel good just knowing how many people, relative strangers, you make feel like friends with these warm invites into your cozy home and peeks into your creativity. This should tell you, what you mean to others is a blessing, definitely not a reason for funk!
I love your new arrangement in your bedroom…..and enjoy your videos so much!
Thank you!!
This is all of us Gail - don’t be so hard on yourself. When Im in a funk doing something to move my body sometimes helps but sometimes its just emotions that I need to allow a moment to flow through me and then its done.
I'm so glad you posted this Gail, I'm in a funk too. The last couple of days everything has been going wrong - as I sat down to watch this I knocked over a full glass of water which went all over my desk and laptop! I was supposed to be going out this afternoon, but I'm now going to stay in a watch a film, as we have a big storm hitting the UK and I just want to curl up and do nothing. Thanks for sharing with us, it felt like I was hanging out with you in your apartment. I hope you're now feeling brighter and having a good weekend - I love both those dresses!!
I've heard about the storm over there - stay safe!
Thanks for being courageous enough to share your funky side. Very happy to hear you have de-funked since filming ♥️
Watching this, I just wanted to give you a hug and pour you another glass of red.
That is so kind! Another glass of red probably wouldn't hurt haha
You always look amazing. I enjoy your vids. Don't sweat it, you'll look great and be great. Funks are ok; we all have them. 💕💕💕
That is so kind - thank you!
Gail, we all get frustrated at times, especially during the holidays. It sounds like you have some fun events to attend in DC. Since you enjoy your job, I’m sure you will perk up at the events that you said you enjoy. Relax when you can, while you’re away. Your apartment is looking very nice and festive.😀
Appreciate the support 🫶
We all get like that some days , don’t beat yourself up you are human . Sending good vibes and hugs 💞
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Gail , I love the hair cut and even though are struggling with clothes "right now" I just want to say you always look put together so trust yourself and stop thinking so much- you got this. Have a safe and successful trip.
Ugh thank you, that is so kind 🙏
Your ability of showing yourself so vulnerable is so attractive
I really enjoyed this video I appreciate you being authentic. It takes talent and motivation to vlog. Keep up the good work.
thanks for being SO honest (love your Sister’s dress and how nice to wear your Mom’s dress, too…keep it in the family). As others have mentioned, you are SO real and people appreciate that!!! Amazingly you got your suitcase zipped👏👏. Sink…not too bad looking, but when life feel yucky, everything feels off. And sometimes you just have to have mac and cheese😊. Hope your trip went well and thanks for sharing. Because I am on a “news fast/vacation”, your videos are such a nice break from “the world” and remind me that life continues to go on and on, with the highs and lows we all face each day❤
Just loving exactly exactly exactly your bestest honesty, and absolute dedication to us viewers. Please be well, safe and puhleeeeezzzzzz.....do not get STRESSED. This life is so precious and dear. So let's live simply, chill and embrace health and above all CHEER.
Sending hugs , love and safety!😂❤
We all have times like the one you are going through. I am 79 and have found that for every day of our life, there is a reason why it is either good ,bad or indifferent, what we take out of each day is what is really important. I don't know who said it but (this too shall pass )It will be ok. Stop , take a deep breath and proceed forward! Love sent your way Take care
Thank you for this!
Gail, I love your videos. Even the ones you think aren't worth watching. You're super relatable, funny, down to earth, and creative. Thanks for giving us a peek into your life even when you're having a bad day, or night. I hope your work trip went well. I loved both of the dresses. So pretty.
That means a lot, thank you! ♥️
I’m so glad that you released this - we ALL get into this kind of funk (I’m in one right now actually, haha - 40 year old living in DC area!) and this made me feel comforted in being reminded that it’s okay and we all go through it. I do sympathize though - it’s not fun at all! Also, if you’re ever so inclined, I think a cool and fun video to watch would be you showing your photography gear and explaining what you use certain things for (without getting into any of your job specifics). I’m always intrigued by what other professionals use for their jobs! I hope that the funk passes soon and things feel better for you (and all of us who may be in a kind of funk).
I feel your pain over packing, it is so taxing , drawing and exhausting to the brain. I guess it takes thought and planning and I kinda wear what I feel that day.. I love this vlog nothing disappoints, it’s everyday life , figuring out as we go and we got to do on our own cause lord knows it aint easy at times when you are single..
Hey Gail! 😊 I totally get that pre-trip stress - those moments when you're just not feeling the whole packing scene can be so real! First off, can we talk about those glasses? They are absolutely incredible - seriously the most beautiful frames I've ever seen! 🤓 I noticed how much work goes into creating content like this - an 18-minute video might seem short, but the behind-the-scenes shooting and editing is no joke. Major respect for putting in all that effort! If you ever want a hand with editing or just want to chat about content creation, I'm here. Keep slaying those videos and rocking those amazing glasses! 💯🌟
Thank you!
@@theregoesgail and what about video editing? I can help out with that can we discuss further about it?
@ thank you but no thank you! I enjoy editing my videos
Staying human is hard and beautiful at the same time! Continue to be you! Sending love and support!!
You and your apartment are adorable. Packing is the worst thing in the world besides doing taxes. Also - I noticed "high yield savings" on fridge. Amazing:)
You have absolutely no need to apologize. Enjoy your adventure. Everyone will be focused on what they look like not what you look like.
So true
Good choices for your formal events. Congrats on closing your suitcases!!! Safe travels!!!
I like this, but I forgot to comment when I was watching it so I went back. I could watch paint dry with you. You are so down to earth and so entertaining. And I get it having a hard time packing and leaving. I watched your New Year’s video about cleaning your closet and that was so good one of your best I would say❤ me and Otis🐶 Massachusetts
OH wow, thank you!
@@theregoesgail no, thank you for taking the time to do this for us❤❤
I literally get stressed to pack just for an overnight trip. I despise packing , I’m always afraid I’m gonna leave something important behind. Love your Vlogs, Gail !❤
So glad you decided to post this Gail - it’s a slice of real life and sometimes real life isn’t perfect. Sorry you were in a bit of a funk and were stressed about packing - I am a firm believer that ‘tomorrow is another day’ and I hope you enjoyed your trip! Love the Christmas decor and your formal dresses are gorgeous❣️
Thank you, Tina! Happy holidays!
It took me way too long to learn that when one of those days comes up, I just have to lean into it & accept it. The more we seem to fight those days, the harder the universe reminds us it is not our call to make. Like a rain storm, we just have to ride it out. I now take those days as a not so subtle reminder that no matter how much I think I am in control, there is a lot I have no say in. And when the clock hits 12:01AM, a new day starts. And yes, food helps, too. Hope you enjoyed your work events. You seemed excited about them.
Thank you for sharing this wisdom!
Sending love to you. Happy New Year, wishing you peace, happiness, great health prosperity in your new year. 🎉❤
Hi Gail, as weird as it may sound it's 'nice' to see real life content that we can relate to, it's a breath of fresh air. There's so much contrived fake 'perfect ' stuff on social media that just isn't true to life. That's fine if thats what folk want, an escape into a make believe World, but many of us enjoy the every day reality stuff, something you show, funks n all! You do you, we like your content, and like you, you're one of us; we all have those yucky days... & yep we've all stuggled to zip a fat suitcase! lol 😊
So glad you enjoy the content and can relate ♥️
Every one has off days. I’m glad u uploaded video because it’s real life and like many have said relatable ❤
Somehow you made your funk relatable and quite endearing.
Green dress is gorgeous! You’ll look beautiful. Like I tell my daughter……..only way to the other side (of a mood) is to muddle through. So, you’re doing just fine. Wish I could help u pack. I was a flight attendant and I’m a pro at packing. Hope you find some joy this week in DC. You’re a lovely woman! ❤️👍🍷☀️💪
Gail you are human that is why this is a good blog
We’ve all been there. Hope you enjoyed your trip
I love your Christmas decor. ❤. I have lights up, tree , etc. I love just enjoying the lights , turning off table lights and floor light. Husband…..turns enough lights on to Do Surgery. Kinda defeats my vibe. Safe travels
Congratulations on your new pimple....hopefully it won't hang around long enough to warrant being named like an actual member of the family 😊
Great dresses, I'm impressed you packed for a few days/ events in such a little case tbh.
Clothes-wise, have you considered nuuly (or similar) rentals until you decide what styles you want to go for?
😂 luckily it's already on it's way out! & yes I've considered those! The trips to the post office/Fedex store sway me otherwise
Watching you reminded me of myself. I love to travel but also hate packing. I now get all the clothing out that I would need and more. Particularly things I like to wear. Then I start culling and working out what would go together and start packing. It’s always stressful. Enjoyed watching you pack. Don’t be too hard on yourself.❤
Thank you ♥️
you have really nice taste. I love your videos - you give me great ideas for decorating my apt. Love your videos.
Love to hear this!
So good to see you again. I’d been thinking of you! Hope you have safe travels and a positive work trip. Don’t worry about your videos. To me you’re always interesting to visit with. Be well ❤
Aw thank you so much! 💗
You’re a real sweet girl, I think the world of you. Stay as you are, you’re the real deal 🥰
I want a sister just like you!
That is so kind 🫶
Hey Gail 👋 nice hearing you are a photographer - very cool I see your artistic eye in you apartment decor. Thanks for sharing your videos with us ;)
Thank you for watching!
Gail you will be fine hun it’s that time of the year !
Call your Mum or a family member who makes you smile !
You’re so young and gorgeous young lady so don’t beat yourself up over the small stuff !
Depression is a real thing in life for all of us this time of year ! You just need some time with family or friends you trust and just enjoy one night or day for you !
I love your little videos and I can’t wait to see more of NY and the things you enjoy and don’t get me started on seeing NY in the snow ❄️ so sending hugs 🤗 and lots of 🙏🏻 for you hun ❤️ it gets better sweetheart ! Just one day at a time 😊🎄
Thank you, Margaret!
You took the train to Washington...I take the train instead of a plane if I can ..I have found it has a calming effect...hope it did that for you!
Yess I always prefer the train when traveling to DC 🙂
Yep, I'm still watching! You're doing fine.
I enjoyed watching all of your vlogs, and this one was different from the usual; 🙂it's real life. Merry Christmas.
Happy holidays!
And yeah, I think a lot of us prefer, moody, honest Gail, as opposed to the vlogger who is always happy, perfect and everything is great and are super hiper al the time. Plus girl, remember youre liing everybody's dream life! You live in New York, have an amazing apartment that you've made your own, you have beautiful clothes, you have my dream life!
Dont suffer in silence. Reach out. It always makes me feel more hopeful to be around others and share how I'm feeling.
Totally - outreach always helps!
We all have those days, we all have so much going on. Give yourself a break and be kind to yourself. I am 65 and still have those days but I try to just let them happen, because you just cannot be happy all of the time and that's okay. Hope your trip went well and see you soon. xoxox
Thank you, Wanda!
I’m sorry it was “bleh” day. That said thank you so much for sharing what I think we have all felt. It’s your honesty and “ realness” that endears you to us and feels forms community. I hope your trip was productive and FUN!
Thank you for the kind words 💕
Lol Gail we ALL get irritated and overwhelmed at times 😊
Cheering you on, it will all work out, 😊
It’s all good. We’re just happy we get to see your life. Hope you feel better😊 soon
Thank you!
Gail those dresses are so beautiful,I have a piece of luggage like that mine is yellow
I'm Not much of a girly girl but a good way to boost your mood is to get fussed over. When you get to DC maybe there is a salon you can go to - get an up do and have your make up done for the formals. Play up your hair and the dresses will take care of the rest.
Ugh great idea - I'll save it for next time!
Just subscribed, thought I always was!!! Yep, this too will pass!! Have a safe, fun trip!
So glad you're here!
Being in a funk around the holidays can feel extra tough because there's often this expectation to feel cheerful, but it's okay to acknowledge that you’re not feeling your best.
100%
@ ❤️❤️
Everyone has down days, so you are no different. I think it fantastic that you persevered anyway.
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The video is fine… Real life, real people, real careers and real moods…. that’s what it’s all about right? Just a suggestion… Try to bring a clothes steamer with you or double check that there is one in your hotel room and that can help cut down on prep time since things may get wrinkled during the packing/traveling stage anyway. Also, try to have things that can go with more than one item what is now commonly called a capsule wardrobe where let’s say a white button down blouse can go with a pair of jeans, pair of dress pants, under a sweater/cardigan, etc. that’s just one example but might be helpful to be able to mix and match so you’re not feeling like you have to have a separate outfit for every day. Also tap into hotel dry cleaning and laundry services that could be helpful if something can’t be worn a second or third time after wearing it for work. Your career sounds like a great one and I’m happy for you. Sounds like you found something you really like.📸🎥
I’m on day 52 in this hospital going nuts darling. You got this
Omg -- I hope you're able to go home soon!
@@theregoesgail no no time soon hun. It’s the hardest experience of my life ❤️❤️❤️
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I love to trave but I get the same anxiety when I pack, it takes me forever and I just stare at the clother, but I've noticed that what helps me, is to just bring a bunch of clothes that I know they a match, plus some neutras, and dont stress about planniing outfits. I just decide what Im gonna wear once I'm there, and it's ess stressful, because I know everythig wil match!
10/10 advice - thank you!
Hey Gail I’m a new sub. I saw you for the 1st time a few days back and watched several vid’s back to back your attire is fine the comfty look is not hurting your persona. I am 47 and only wear certain attire on certain occasions. Be you we love you that way!
Thank you and welcome!
I make a list of items for the trip. And try to pick items that can easily interchange.
Smart!
We all run out of spoons sometimes ♥️ Big hugs
Packing is a headache. I just returned from a ttrip to Florida and deciding what to pack was a chore even though I previously check the weather there. I could have done more. Had a wonderful time anyway
I know that feeling! It’s always a struggle 😅
You are sharing with friends no worries and take care.
Hope it all worked out for you.
Thank you!
Your videos are so interesting. You've inspired me. Curious do you use a mic when you're doing audio outside filming? Or just the iPhone?
I'm so glad to hear that! And so far just my iPhone -- I will sometimes adjust the audio when editing
I'm glad you stopped recording. It was hard to see you crippled by the act of packing a bag. I can relate to being overwhelmed by what seems to be a simple task and it just snowballs into more and more stress.
Snowballing is the worst 🫠
Love the dress and the shoes and the vlog❤❤❤
So glad!
Authentism.
Great video.
And she's beautiful too.
Awww, Gail, you are so cute! You should see me pack…literally takes 5 minutes, goes in a leather duffle, grab passport, jacket & go. ❤. Have a good holiday, and more wine! 😊
You make it sound so effortless! 😂 Jealous!
@ oh honey! Virtual hug! How glamorous is your job that you can do formals… You’ll be great & look fab! 🤩
🤗. Peace 🕊️
OK kiddo, now is the time to take care of yourself :) Get enough sleep. If you are having trouble sleeping, play some relaxing music and take a warm bath. Do it up right with bubbles and candles. Meditate if you don't already. Get out of the house and take a walk. I was never into gratitude journals, but I do follow the example of Stacey Flowers and do a gratitude walk. I express how grateful I am for every little thing, and darn it if it doesn't help! Don't isolate. I know that's hard with your traveling, but be kind to yourself and know that you are doing the best you can right now. And lastly, this too shall pass. Promise.
New sub. Love your vids!!!❤
Welcome! 🤗
Packing is the worst I am going on a trip in mid January and just last night I was already stressing about how I should iron the clothes I am packing! The brain is really an uncooperative beast at times
Truly
Morning from Hawaii getting ready for Christmas enjoy life too
Happy holidays! ✨
@ and my birthday is this Monday
I love your channel.
Thank you so much 🥹
NYC Vlog it came a good video
You're very wise to keep info about your work off of your channel. Some creators don't and end up in hot water. Your skin looks good to me, but since I had breakouts well into my 30s and tried many things, I'll offer this tip: Serious Skincare's glycolic cleanser was the best at clearing my skin (which didn't have severe acne but maybe more than yours). I'd even tried prescription remedies, but I found that cleanser to be the best. They also have a benzoyl peroxide product, but I found the cleanser to be best for me. I recommend it to everyone and still actually have it. I use it in the summer when the heat and pollution make my skin feel gross. Try ONE bottle only and see whether it works for you. You might get some very fine peeling for 2-3 weeks after you start while your skin is adapting, but no redness. Just gently buff it away with a damp washcloth. That brand is at QVC and they also have their own web site.
Thanks for the recommendation!
Hello Gail:
Bottom line here is: we are here for you....and for each other. Please don't worry about any poor moods or less than perfect
videos. I enjoy your company, and wish I could say: "This too shall pass". Kind regards, M. in Upstate New York
♥️
By now you are in Washington and perhaps some jitters are gone ? Is it the formal attire and events that make you anxious ? Just an FYI There is a product caed Febreeze Wrinkle Release...spray it on the wrinkles and shake them out. Works better if you know your outfits ahead of time and also put them hung for a while in the steamy shower after you showered.Can also pour some into a small spray bottle in case things get wrinkled on arrival. You've got this !