Being married is NOT an achievement for many these days. If your company is not better than my PEACE, then I'm better off alone. This goes for all genders.
Both my wife and I finally got married (and became parents) late in life. I was 48, she was 40. We both had our reasons and situations/circumstances. That's alright. God was faithful and brought us together at HIS perfect time. To those men and women who know the Lord, then through prayer and His leading, follow Him. Don't get caught up with others' opinions and their human wisdom.
Exactly! My husband and I were 42, first-time marriage for both of us. I was waiting on God, and my husband was waiting on me. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
@@deejones6446 the first conversation. I met her through a mutual friend. After our first conversation I told our friend she is my wife. 2 years later we got married.
I'm so sick of people getting on the internet telling people who to love, how to date, and how to live. If you're in your 30s on up and you're single good on you it's your life live it how you want
they're called content creators for a reason. They don't even believe the crap that comes out of their own mouths , it's all for hits, likes and hopefully more money. Unfortunately you'll always find people dumb enough to eat up this garbage.
TY. 🎯💯 They ate two main reasons why younger BM aren't marrying BW today. First of all, they don't even believe in marrying a woman period. They're the type that believe in " getting the milk without paying for the cow", as the phrase goes. And women are stupid for letting them do that. 2, they're selfish and don't believe in commitment. It's so easy for them t9 just walk away from responsibilities like their own CHILDREN! 👎 My Pops got married young, and had kids! The man did his best to keep a stable home and provide for and raise his kids right. He had 3 jobs back to back at one time! Too many lazy losers out here today!👎
@@user-ye4bu6xh4cso what🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️does his wife work? Is she happy? Is she a single married woman?? You only know HIS side….ill wait to hear all sides of the story
I will never understand why married men feel the need to criticize single women. He should be focused on guiding & influencing men to be good husbands. This narrative is tired like how he looks. 😅
@@vickie6752And happy like she said! My mother is 63 and divorced! She said it’s the happiest she’s ever been in her life. Studies show that single childless women are the happiest demographic.
I'm in my 30's (never married, no kids) and I love the peace and financial stability. For a lot of us, it has nothing to do with being f'ed up...I just don't care. If it happens, it happens.
Yes I think that personally I was messed up in my twenties and like schuler said I didn't have any WIFE skills nor mindset. I just turned 30 and have healed my trauma and developed a wife mindset now due to all the effort I put in in my 20s. So just because u were messed up in your 20s doesn't mean u are still messed up in your 30s. I was one that needed time. And also, I DIDNT CARE. Every woman is not out here looking to be wifed up. I'm sure if I pushed for that, I would have been married by now.
Interesting. And did you have the same smoke for KS? That his main complaint…that he wasn’t married. Now you get a valid critique from a married man and something is wrong with him, again? Hmmm
@@leeolie3728 His critique isn’t valid that’s the point. He married the first person that gave him some attention and now he’s bitter, thinking he can speak on all women 😂
Call me “f@@ked up” all you want🤷🏽♀️ I’m 40 never married, no children, educated, employed, no criminal record and minding my business. I love it over here🥰
Not everyone dates for sex . It's a thing called toys . Yall b so hurt that women wnt even hook up for sex no more . Sex ain't everything especially with how nasty yall men are
🙋🏽♀️😂😂😂I’ll take Fuk’d up in my 50’s for $500 Alek. I’m not doing nothing for nothing. My kids are grown… Now I Am FREE🙌🏽🙏🏽💯 Hallelujah🧚🏾♀️💃🏽🤸🏽♀️🧘🏽♀️ I want to be left TF alone🥰
🌟Preach it Sister Girl!!! I hear you & stand by ya huntyyyyy!!! I’m middle aged divorced & living my best peaceful life in my home sanctuary!! Loving my life completely💃🏾
Oh people...he's going for sensationalism to boost his career, or lack thereof. I think folks in their 30s and 40s should be happy they're still alive with the way this country is headed.
Definitely some valid points of how WOMEN have evolved. Woke women are choosing careers and financial stability over false validation from merely being someone's wife.
Not the immigrants!😂 That's why we'll be out numbered in 10 years, our women are conditioned to be a boss! The immigrants will be working on a second generation after 15 years they are building communities right in our face
And then there are people getting divorced in their 40s/50s because they realized they only got married to meet societal expectations not because it was something they chose for themselves
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c nobody is saying that... The more men like you and men like this post the more you validate women needing to stay single.... The Bible says it is not good for a man to be alone. It doesn't say anything about a woman being alone. If you know the Bible so well you will know you're lying of thinking is not in line with God's way of thinking.
Oh Shuler King you have said IT. I grew up in the countryside in the Caribbean and by the age of 20, I had exceled in cooking a 5-course meal + baking, maintain a household and a profession as a draftswoman and much more. I don't have to say how much these achievements scared some men away. Once a guy asked me if I beat men? continued saying I seems intimidating. 😒😒 It was not until I turned 30, I met an amazing Brother who can appreciate everything about me. Bottom line, folks are being raised differently these day and there is nothing wrong with being in your 30s and 40s just meeting the perfect person for you.
As a woman in her 40's, I was married to a wonderful man for more than 17 years. I've chosen to stay single for the last 4 years, so I can love myself, focus on me and enjoy time with my teenage daughter and friends. Travel and not answer to anyone. Life if just nice being single. I'm not alone, because my hobbies are life. So, please leave us alone while we living our best life before curtains come down. 🍷
Married to a wonderful man for 17 years then chose to stay single. You really don't make no sense and you are selfish. Don't count on me to congratulate your bad decision that man suffered. Some people don't like their energy and time to be wasted. If you didn't want to marry , then you had to say it. Next time instead of a wonderful man , choose a criminal, he wouldn't mind matching your nonsense.
EXACTLY!!! I'm 43 and I realized that it was a blessing in disguise for my marriage to NOT work. I was with my ex husband for the tail end of my 20's and married to him my entire 30's .... I hate that I wasted all of my youth being "married" only for it to end in divorce. I've been single 5 years and I feel GREAT!!
The downside to his opinion, like many others, even in politics, is that it's on a public platform, unfortunately. Somebody(s) is going to listen to this and pass the message along. It'll continue to spread like wild fire
@@ShayWilliam341The question was, I hope he keeps the same energy for men. The reply was, he does. Then you replied, you must be a broke mommas boy. Do you really think your insult, disguised as a comment made any sense. This is the foolishness that keeps a lot of women single. Two people had an intelligent back and forth, and you interrupt with stupidity
Some folks like myself, have already been married and just realized that they made a huge mistake. I wasn’t about to stay in a marriage just to say I have a man. I’ve never been that desperate, and never will be! God knows I gave it my all, but he was not mentally or financially ready! My advice to anyone, regardless of age, is to take your time to get to know someone, and don’t let anyone rush you!!! Be fully convinced that you are ready to walk down that aisle before you say I do! I wish I would let this podcast negro shame me into thinking, something is wrong with me 🤌🏾 LMAO 🤣 I know I’m not perfect, but trust I’m definitely single by choice! I’m 39, still fine, no kids and got my own shit! I’ve never been happier in my life, than I am right now -as a single woman! I don’t take anybody’s shit! 😂 I’m not looking for marriage, not even looking to date. I just want to travel and enjoy life ❤️ and I am doing all of that without the stress of a man! If that’s considered “f*cked up” then so be it! 🙄 And idgaf how much money Anton got or however many years he’s been married, that don’t make him God! You don’t know everyone’s background, so remember not to generalize folks, cuz you’ll look hella ignorant! 😏✌🏾
I made a similar comment! I've seen comments that he's a multimillionaire and has been married over twenty years. Good for the woman that married him! I want a good looking, working man!
I was married in my 30's, and i HATE that I wasted the last of my 20's and ALL OF MY 30'S in a marriage that FAILED...... Tell him, his bald head, and his extra grandpa esque beard to go away from us with this foolishness. He doesn't have the ATTRACTIVENESS to advise anyone.... Thank you.
SAME!!!! I feel I wasted my early 20s on one awful guy in particular b/c I just didn't know how to pick well. I'm glad I turned down the marriage proposal b/c I just wanted to be married. I'm glad my god-mother talked me out of it.
😂😂😂 CHILE These men all going to be in a group home together if they keep listening to some of these podcast broken bros.Just because you got a platform doesn't mean you speaking wisdom
@@Tellthetruth-ns9ze🙌🏾 you're the first person I've ever seen point this out. Everyone is in such a rush to be married without an understanding as to why.
Who in the HELL is THIS wannabe counselor to tell others what or who they are if not married at a certain age?? People have the RIGHT not to want to be married at ANY age! I'm so damn tired of all these "DR. PHIL'S" coming onto social media spewing that bullsh!t💩
@DeionSardines What is not being held accountable here? You think people need to listen to some stranger who talking out his butt and just assuming everyone single over 30 or 40 in the WHOLE world is only single for the same 1 reason? That's delusional and just trying to dog on people who lives don't conform to his beliefs. If you want to be accountable like that you better ignore what your parents told you and go ask this man to raise you because I am sure there are some things your parents taught you that he doesn't agree with. Go make him your God 😂
I'll be 36 this year and I've been abstinent for my entire 30s as well. I was married in my 20s and got out of that madness. No kids, don't want any. I've never been happier and more emotionally at peace. Hooray for both of us. 🎉❤
@@jazzygirl4140 I’ve never been married and won’t ever be married.. and I’m a struggling single mother of two kids by two different men.. I don’t like or enjoy sex.. the only reason I was ever in any type of relationship was for the purpose of a family..
@@jazzygirl4140 never received any pleasure and never had anything provided.. and I don’t believe in god .. that explains my reasoning behind my celibacy.. what’s your reasoning?? 🤔🤔
@@jilliannotice8852 It wasn't something that I specifically set out to do. After I got divorced, I dated a little. However, I noticed that I was always happier by myself and the idea of being married, living with someone, being responsible for a relationship all the time, was never my desire. I don't want to live with anyone, I don't want to deal with things I wouldn't deal with on my own, I don't want to be responsible for someone else's sexual desires. Basically, I just like being single and abstinent. That's it.
@@jazzygirl4140 what about your desires though?? I have a past, two kids by two different people .. I never received pleasure, meaning a man has never given me an orgasm .. so when you say that without giving a solid honest explanation it doesn’t seem real ..
And what he needs to know from a woman who is 44 with her own home, her own car, an RN with her BSN .. a lot of men these days don’t wanna work for shit. They ain’t mature enough to put in the effort of marriage so wth should I allow myself to be wifed up and settle for less than my parents have JUST so I can say I’m married.. no thank you .. and if I’m so f..Ed up I have yet to have an ex who hasn’t tried to rekindle .. not 1..and this statement proves my point .. immaturity made you think that bs was actually true.. dumb dumb
Exactly, Brother Shuler. I mean, has this gentleman closed his eyes to all these older women getting married? Im heading to my niece’s wedding Sunday. And she’s 38!!
You'd be amazed at how many men discard or ignore wifely material, and there are women who do the same with men, I guess we'll just have to try to find each other before it's time for the nursing home 🤷🏾♀️
Ecclesiasticus 26:23 A wicked woman is the portion to the wicked man. The answer to how did every man miss the great woman? Many good women out here, its just too many wicked men that dont deserve the good woman. 1 Corinthians 7:8 To the unmarried and the widows it says its better to remain single. So any male talking like a woman owes her body WE DONT so back off and look yourselves in the mirror and ask God to reveal your life on why you dont have a good woman. Many males have disregarded wife material women for ridiculous reasons. If she doesn't look a certain way or have certain qualities he doesn't want her totally ignoring how humble and submissive she was around him. Oh well, alot of the reasons these males can't get a good woman is their fault. Ladies, we are not obligated to give our bodies to no male, if you want to remain single, Its NOT A SIN!! Please seek God and learn the Bible for yourself, you have no idea of the peace I have when you put God in the center of your life. When you do that He will make things possible and be the best friend and provider you will ever need. He was there for me in situations no Man could get me out of. Stay safe out there and I love you.
Yup. Until this Day, I can cook a dish better than any restaurant. I can sew, My house is always spotless and a place of tranquility for me. I'm self employed so I can also pick up work from anywhere in the world if I choose to. Single life is beautiful.
I learned how to cook from home. My granny and dad taught me how to cook. The rest I picked up from cooking shows and just creativity. Granny RIP❤💐 taught me how to sew. She taught me how to iron & put my outfits together. I taught myself how to do hair (perm, braids, and now locs since I be natural ❤❤😊) My parents taught me how to clean. The essential life skills that WE ALL NEED REGARDLESS OF GENDER. I’m a boss chef too & even received compliments from those who went to culinary school etc. I never thought that I’d live to see the day where people are envious of you for knowing how to do essential things. I’ve had grown ass women hate on me for knowing how to cook etc.🤷🏿♀️🤣
A lot of theses online personalities are just regurgitating statements they’ve heard someone else say over and over. Unfortunately because we live in an era of egotistical, emotionally damaged, intellectually challenged, attention seeking, no game having, children masquerading as adults with no true opinions of anyone let alone themselves. We are witnessing a societal collapse of free thinkers bold enough to be true to themselves.
@@Channing-i6b basically a co dependent... thats why i married the women i did. because we BOTH do house chores cook for the family work and pay the bills etc some would call it "50/50" but i dont like to give it a label. and i dont know why a married man is worried about what ANY single women is doing. .
@@latoyafarrell8135Well some of us do know how to fish lol I’ll just substitute that for hunting. But, in 🇯🇲 I’ve watched them kill meat like it’s nothing & prep it right there😅
Back in the day, black women did all that and where did it get them? No damn where. So today, these young black girls growing up seeing they grandma struggle, they momma struggle and they auntie struggle. And they thinking, shiiiiiiit I don't think so. Can you blame them? Being a BMW has gotten black women nowhere. I'm glad this generation is breaking the cycle and focusing on themselves!
He sounds absolutely crazy! What about the women who are single NOW in their 40's who were married throughout their 20's and 30's and taking the necessary time to HEAL and relearn themselves?🤔 Women who want to build their relationship with God and WAIT for the man HE has for her?? I'm SOOOO glad I'm looked upon as "f'ed" up by the WRONG man!😩 Praise the Lord! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾It helps weed the counterfeits out! 💅🏾🙏🏾
Yes, the people were different… They wanted to build lives together and raise strong families, and that difference has been devastating for our young people / black families. 😢😔
Sad that some ppl really feel this way. I had someone ask me what's wrong with me because I'm single. 🙄 everybody got an opinion...honestly ppl need to mind their business
@@clutch236its true. Its been studied before men and women are biologically made up different. One big difference being men are capable of receiving and reciprocating love while women are not capable of reciprocating love
Nah the women now are messed up and everything is ruined can’t really blame a guy for not being married. Being married for a guy means he has to forfeit his stuff to somebody that doesnt even actually love him but is pretending to
Everyone doesn't want to get married. Especially considering how murky the dating pool is now. There are a lot of emotionally infantile and hurt folks out here. I don't want to be with anyone who doesn't enhance the quality of my life. And vice versa.
Only 25% of Black Americans are getting married now. The lowest by far in the country. Back in the 50's we had the highest rate of marriage. Something is wrong with the young, Black dating world.
@@cliftonconnor9389 A lot of our parents and grandparents' marriages weren't healthy. Many of those relationships were financially, physically, or emotionally/mentally abusive. Some of the men had secret children scattered around. Being married and having a healthy, quality marriage are two different things.
@@ButterflyBree These are the lies we tell ourselves to justify our toxic behaviors today. People like to use the worse case scenarios and then pretend that it was the majority of instances. It was not. So I guess only Black American families had these types of issues so we are the worse now for creating nuclear families? This younger generation is selfish, combative, and have no idea how to form pair bonds.
@@ButterflyBreeTHANK YOUUUUU!!!@ People out here romanticizing traumatic and dysfunctional marriages solely because 'they stuck it out'.... Hell, they had NO CHOICE! The trash box Neanderthals cosplaying as Men today just want to be able to do the same f'd up ish to women their moms, grannies and great grannies had to put up with. A woman couldn't get her own damn bank account until the mid to late 70s without a husband's consent or his being added to it, no matter her wishes, which is beyond messed up! And don't get me started on shitty Medical professionals and the patriarchal ideals on Women wanting to get their tubes tied or getting a hysterectomy....
Thank you!!! Spend your energy guiding some men to be suitable partners for women! What has happened is a generation of women have watched their moms, grandmothers, sisters, friends, aunties, etc be dogged over and over by immature "gown baby men," and they've opted to instead go to school, create businesses, start careers, stack money, travel, and live lives free of the stress that a man and an illegitimate child brings you. It's not that those women don't want to be married. It's that they don't want ridiculous stress. There was a time when women were so desperate for the love of a man and children that they allowed themselves to be baby mamas, but so many women are opting out of that. You have to actually be a decent person now to have access to their wombs, and they prefer to be married before they pop out a child. These men are mad that these women are stepping up and taking more charge over their lives and have more options. It used to be that women could not open bank accounts without men and really could not survive financially without men. It's still harder to have one income instead of two, but if you have one income, and you're only supporting yourself instead of out-of-wedlock children, it's easier, and it's without the stress of having to rear and raise a child by yourself. Those women have longings to be married and to procreate just like many other women, but they don't want the headaches. If you can't enjoy marriage and children, there is no point in experimenting with either one. There is no point in allowing a man to string you along for 7, 8, or 9 years and not marry you. Those days are over. Those days are for the birds. Women might *desire the company of men, but they do not *need men, and men are finding out that women truly realize this now. That's why they're online in this incel / red pill space being mad at the world, watching porn, whining, and committing violence.
I took a chance at 22 and got married I definitely wasn’t ready but I knew I wanted a family and to be a great father and husband. I found a woman who loved me for me. But yeah I recommend 30-35 you’re in your career and are ready to lead. Marriage is definitely a game changer with the right spouse.
He too busy focusing on the opposite sex rather than his own. Get the brotherhood back and leave sisterhood alone. Stay in your lane ladies & gentlemen
Great analysis brother Shuler King, shame on him trying to shame single women, tired of these folks exposing their ignorance on the internet thinking they know everything
He was the blueprint for these men. I think he enabled the brokenness in them, such as the pain, anger, frustration etc. I'm sure he touched on some things that were of truth, but everything else seemed to be of negativity and hate
Exactly! My brother was telling me "without men women would be in the stone age!" as though men and women dont need each other for society & our species to exist.
Anton would be another average dude without social media. You can tell he never had much attention from women before. He's trying to be another Kevin Samuels, but it's not working.
Listen, it took some of us until 40 to realize we were far better than what we gave our 20’s and 30’s to. Any man would be blessed to snatch my 42 year old self up.
At 54, I ENJOYED ALL my 20's - worried about that Freak-Nik documentary - rat-nigh. Got married. Got divorced. Had my daughter at 34. Got married at 42 and now a happy widow. Women got more options than getting married.
He’s getting the attention he was seeking with the senseless comments. Tbh the only reason to get married in your 20’s is your biological clock. Other than that most people are not emotionally, financially, or spiritually stable. We truly need life experience and wisdom to have a better chance of staying married.
Back in the Day, you were ready at 18yrs old to start your life! you could move out, get a stable job, an apartment, go to college or join the military; but you were ready to be an adult. Today, Child hood has been pushed way up into their mid 20s. Hell in some states, Parents are required to pay Child Support for Kids in college until they are 26! That's crazy as hell.
You speaking facts Shuler, him he basing that off his OWN choosing, and show me a masculine MAN worth marrying these days and I'll show you a AWESOME WOMAN that'll stand by him.... PERIODT..
Yep. Facts Shuler. Different generation 40/50 years ago. My Ma and Dad had a 3 bedroom, 2 bath home in the 70's/80's when my brothers and I were born. Dad was a short order cook, worked in a food distribution center, worked at local grocery stores in the meat department, and was a taxi driver (on the side). Ma was a stay at home parent until my siblings and I were old enough for school. Then, she re-entered the workforce. Ma is close to retirement, but still holding it down. ✊🏾 Dad passed away in 2010, but he worked until he couldn't anymore due to health. He was "the hardest working man in showbusiness." He had SCD and would come home many a day with ruptured capillaries in his legs (from standing long hours), but he'd wrap up his legs with compression calf leggings, and go back to work the next night. He truly believed, "a man who did not work, should not eat. And a man who did not provide for his family was no man at all." Harsh words some might think by today's standards, but growing up without a father taught him what he never wanted to be to his children. Unknown. ☝🏽
Shoulder don't know what he is talking about. If a woman don't want one man two call her own, then something is definitely wrong with her. It is human nature for men and women to have a total commitment to one another. That will never change. Call it marriage or whatever else. If things have changed so much, then ask Shuler why is he married
Yeah that was a century ago when that shit was even possible. And I'm not even gonna go into detail about what he must think about disabled men who can't work.
@MsJoyce31202 until she 50 and lonely when nobody wants her unfertile old self. However, black women in their minds think they are viable at any age.😢 I could on size ,economic status , kids count status, let me stop.
@@CenlalowellMany. You don't talk to women much. Women get downplayed for being single, married, widowed, and etc. Why date or marry men who see all of us the same anyway?
That's like making ASSumptions as to why couples have not had any children yet. Maybe, just maybe....the one she was going to marry Died. Also, being that women outnumber men, maybe women should be questioning why men in that age range are still single.
Don’t they always have a touch of Urkel to them??😂 that’s what I use to say about Kevin Samuels. I only watched snippets of a few videos and I use to be like “I know good and well these women not letting URKEL big brother rate them and tell them about relationships”🤦🏽♀️🙄😂😂😂
Being married is NOT an achievement for many these days.
If your company is not better than my PEACE, then I'm better off alone.
This goes for all genders.
Beautiful comment.
Say it AGAIN!! I prioritize my peace of mind over being in a relationship, for the sake of it.
Thank you!! 🙏🏾
Absolutely! Put that on a billboard, frame it! Well said, my friend.
Surely! ❤
Both my wife and I finally got married (and became parents) late in life. I was 48, she was 40. We both had our reasons and situations/circumstances. That's alright. God was faithful and brought us together at HIS perfect time. To those men and women who know the Lord, then through prayer and His leading, follow Him. Don't get caught up with others' opinions and their human wisdom.
Exactly! My husband and I were 42, first-time marriage for both of us. I was waiting on God, and my husband was waiting on me. He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.
Thank you for your wisdom
Amen
Amen!!!
Amen 🙏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
That man - this is what happens when people find out that talking trash online gets them money. Sad days we live in.
He’s a very successful man with a great marriage… how about you? I think it’s more telling about Schuler King always putting down his own community…
@@ginaj617 Thanks for the feedback, Gina.
I married the greatest woman on this planet when she was 39 years old.
Awww ❤
☺️❤️
So sweet! 🥰🙏🏽🥰 How long before you knew she was the 1?
@@deejones6446 the first conversation. I met her through a mutual friend. After our first conversation I told our friend she is my wife. 2 years later we got married.
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c go away red pill.. you are itching to find something wrong with this lady. I saw your other comments.
I'm so sick of people getting on the internet telling people who to love, how to date, and how to live. If you're in your 30s on up and you're single good on you it's your life live it how you want
Thank you! It's just downright annoying at this point.
It's that "Manosphere" nonsense. I use to think it was some good in it until I saw it all for what it REALLY was.
Same, it's so tiring
they're called content creators for a reason. They don't even believe the crap that comes out of their own mouths , it's all for hits, likes and hopefully more money. Unfortunately you'll always find people dumb enough to eat up this garbage.
Anton Daniels likes to beat down on black women 😂 it’s what he does
People so worried about arbitrary standards, they forget how to be happy. There's a ton of married, broken, & miserable people, in their 20's.
TY. 🎯💯 They ate two main reasons why younger BM aren't marrying BW today. First of all, they don't even believe in marrying a woman period. They're the type that believe in " getting the milk without paying for the cow", as the phrase goes. And women are stupid for letting them do that. 2, they're selfish and don't believe in commitment. It's so easy for them t9 just walk away from responsibilities like their own CHILDREN! 👎 My Pops got married young, and had kids! The man did his best to keep a stable home and provide for and raise his kids right. He had 3 jobs back to back at one time! Too many lazy losers out here today!👎
True!
The wall is undefeated. 😊
@@Kevin-bq7tithe wall doesn't exist....
When did we start listening to clearance rack rickey smiley...
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😂😂😂Clearance rack r.s 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 my stomach hurts😂😂
Great value Rickey Smiley
Rickey from WISH
😂 Damn!
Rickey Smiley's Grandpa is treading on thin ice.
😂😂😂😂
I'm hollering, I initially thought it was him 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Rickey Smiley was my first thought. 😂😅
Twins
@@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 me too
I find people who get married late in life stay married and usually married the right person for themselves....
Well to each is own if someone wants to remain single doesn't mean they are[ F'up ] he's [F'up ] for saying that.
Amen!😊
He says a lot of suspect sh*t
I can’t believe that people think something is wrong with you if you’re single.
Right! And what the hell is his status??
@@user-ye4bu6xh4cso what🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️does his wife work? Is she happy? Is she a single married woman??
You only know HIS side….ill wait to hear all sides of the story
If you are unmarried in your 30s/40s, congratulations. You didn't miss shit.
Say it again for the folks in the back.
You are what you attract
Congratulations on what? Being alone?
@@RR-zl8pg What's wrong being alone?
@OzonebxGaming you do know opposites attract also🤪🤣🤣
I am 47 and single, with no children. It is peaceful and drama free. Every woman does not want to be married
Until that loneliness kicks in.😊
@@Kevin-bq7tiStop deflecting your personal feelings onto others. It’s pathetic. Everybody is not a sad loser like you.
😂😂😂
@@Kevin-bq7tiNope, a man doesn’t come with entertainment, he comes with drama that we can do without! We can do bad all by ourselves!
@@blackqueen164is that what you tell yourself to justify your singleness?
I will never understand why married men feel the need to criticize single women. He should be focused on guiding & influencing men to be good husbands. This narrative is tired like how he looks. 😅
lmao
You said that! 😊
It’s constructive criticism. Stop whining.
@@JonathanHebrews Ok, then explain the "constructive" part with evidence please.
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I'm 60 and I am not wifed up and I'm very happy with myself
51 not wife up and what?
@@vickie6752And happy like she said! My mother is 63 and divorced! She said it’s the happiest she’s ever been in her life. Studies show that single childless women are the happiest demographic.
@@laurencameron3150what studies 😂😂😂
@@Kloutkulture Google it like I did! 😂😂😂
Show me please! I wouldn’t dare want to be a single mom!
Im so GLAD I didnt get married in my 20s. I was still growing. Figuring out myself. Im BLESSED.😊
I'm in my 30's (never married, no kids) and I love the peace and financial stability. For a lot of us, it has nothing to do with being f'ed up...I just don't care. If it happens, it happens.
Forreal. I have a lot more peace single than in a relationship.
Yes I think that personally I was messed up in my twenties and like schuler said I didn't have any WIFE skills nor mindset. I just turned 30 and have healed my trauma and developed a wife mindset now due to all the effort I put in in my 20s. So just because u were messed up in your 20s doesn't mean u are still messed up in your 30s. I was one that needed time. And also, I DIDNT CARE. Every woman is not out here looking to be wifed up. I'm sure if I pushed for that, I would have been married by now.
That married man is so bothered by single women, it’s so weird to me.. I think he’s jealous
I got that feeling from him Everytime he opens his mouth..
Interesting. And did you have the same smoke for KS? That his main complaint…that he wasn’t married. Now you get a valid critique from a married man and something is wrong with him, again? Hmmm
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c speak for yourself
@@leeolie3728 His critique isn’t valid that’s the point. He married the first person that gave him some attention and now he’s bitter, thinking he can speak on all women 😂
@@user-ye4bu6xh4cNo good pu**y and peace with a job🤑 hahaha every women that is single don't have kids.
Call me “f@@ked up” all you want🤷🏽♀️ I’m 40 never married, no children, educated, employed, no criminal record and minding my business. I love it over here🥰
Still getting ran through and miserable.
Not everyone dates for sex . It's a thing called toys . Yall b so hurt that women wnt even hook up for sex no more . Sex ain't everything especially with how nasty yall men are
I’m 50 so that make me really f@@ked up
@@JonathanHebrews😳What if she’s celibate? Or dikin?
Yeah aight
Don't rush to get married times are different and so are people
Bootleg Rickey Smiley needs to stick to his day job instead of saying things for attention online!
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He spoke facts
@@sheltonalexander3924Exactly
He didn't have that smoke for Boyce last week when he told hem he looks like a cross eyed Rick Ross tho.he always got smoke for black women.
🙋🏽♀️😂😂😂I’ll take Fuk’d up in my 50’s for $500 Alek. I’m not doing nothing for nothing. My kids are grown… Now I Am FREE🙌🏽🙏🏽💯 Hallelujah🧚🏾♀️💃🏽🤸🏽♀️🧘🏽♀️ I want to be left TF alone🥰
🌟Preach it Sister Girl!!! I hear you & stand by ya huntyyyyy!!!
I’m middle aged divorced & living my best peaceful life in my home sanctuary!!
Loving my life completely💃🏾
Your wish is granted we don't want you.
We think Same Great Mind Think Alike
Oh people...he's going for sensationalism to boost his career, or lack thereof. I think folks in their 30s and 40s should be happy they're still alive with the way this country is headed.
lol
Amen to that!
He has to try some sort of gimmick because its hard looking at him for no reason. Then he opens his mouth, it doesn’t help.
Say it louder for the people in the back, please👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯
Definitely some valid points of how WOMEN have evolved. Woke women are choosing careers and financial stability over false validation from merely being someone's wife.
Not the immigrants!😂 That's why we'll be out numbered in 10 years, our women are conditioned to be a boss! The immigrants will be working on a second generation after 15 years they are building communities right in our face
they realized later they want to be a wife and the boat has left the dock. Choose wisely
And then there are people getting divorced in their 40s/50s because they realized they only got married to meet societal expectations not because it was something they chose for themselves
@@CenlalowellNot true at all.Being a wife isn't all its cracked up to be.Yall are just mad we dont care about being a wife anymore.
@@user-ye4bu6xh4c nobody is saying that... The more men like you and men like this post the more you validate women needing to stay single.... The Bible says it is not good for a man to be alone. It doesn't say anything about a woman being alone. If you know the Bible so well you will know you're lying of thinking is not in line with God's way of thinking.
Oh Shuler King you have said IT. I grew up in the countryside in the Caribbean and by the age of 20, I had exceled in cooking a 5-course meal + baking, maintain a household and a profession as a draftswoman and much more. I don't have to say how much these achievements scared some men away. Once a guy asked me if I beat men? continued saying I seems intimidating. 😒😒 It was not until I turned 30, I met an amazing Brother who can appreciate everything about me. Bottom line, folks are being raised differently these day and there is nothing wrong with being in your 30s and 40s just meeting the perfect person for you.
As a woman in her 40's, I was married to a wonderful man for more than 17 years. I've chosen to stay single for the last 4 years, so I can love myself, focus on me and enjoy time with my teenage daughter and friends. Travel and not answer to anyone. Life if just nice being single. I'm not alone, because my hobbies are life. So, please leave us alone while we living our best life before curtains come down. 🍷
Married to a wonderful man for 17 years then chose to stay single.
You really don't make no sense and you are selfish.
Don't count on me to congratulate your bad decision that man suffered.
Some people don't like their energy and time to be wasted. If you didn't want to marry , then you had to say it.
Next time instead of a wonderful man , choose a criminal, he wouldn't mind matching your nonsense.
May I asked what happened to this wonderful man of 17 yrs?
EXACTLY!!! I'm 43 and I realized that it was a blessing in disguise for my marriage to NOT work. I was with my ex husband for the tail end of my 20's and married to him my entire 30's .... I hate that I wasted all of my youth being "married" only for it to end in divorce. I've been single 5 years and I feel GREAT!!
@@LamarA-bq1zz exactly ! What a disaster, I wouldn't want to be in his place. What a waste🤦♂️
Amennnn!!
That is his opinion, which does not mean anything to nobody but him. I hope he keeps the same energy for men 🤷🏾♀️.
He does, u should subscribe to him, since u single
The downside to his opinion, like many others, even in politics, is that it's on a public platform, unfortunately. Somebody(s) is going to listen to this and pass the message along. It'll continue to spread like wild fire
@@DeionSardines You sound like a mamas boy who still lives at home and broke 😂😂😂
@@ShayWilliam341The question was, I hope he keeps the same energy for men. The reply was, he does. Then you replied, you must be a broke mommas boy. Do you really think your insult, disguised as a comment made any sense. This is the foolishness that keeps a lot of women single. Two people had an intelligent back and forth, and you interrupt with stupidity
Some folks like myself, have already been married and just realized that they made a huge mistake. I wasn’t about to stay in a marriage just to say I have a man. I’ve never been that desperate, and never will be! God knows I gave it my all, but he was not mentally or financially ready! My advice to anyone, regardless of age, is to take your time to get to know someone, and don’t let anyone rush you!!! Be fully convinced that you are ready to walk down that aisle before you say I do!
I wish I would let this podcast negro shame me into thinking, something is wrong with me 🤌🏾 LMAO 🤣 I know I’m not perfect, but trust I’m definitely single by choice! I’m 39, still fine, no kids and got my own shit! I’ve never been happier in my life, than I am right now -as a single woman! I don’t take anybody’s shit! 😂
I’m not looking for marriage, not even looking to date. I just want to travel and enjoy life ❤️ and I am doing all of that without the stress of a man! If that’s considered “f*cked up” then so be it! 🙄 And idgaf how much money Anton got or however many years he’s been married, that don’t make him God! You don’t know everyone’s background, so remember not to generalize folks, cuz you’ll look hella ignorant! 😏✌🏾
My child is in her 30s and she is not settling. She wants to get married but shes not marrying just anyone. She will be a great catch. ❤
Some folks just need to shut their mouth. He's one of them.
look at that man and then ask yourself why you would care about his opinion...
Chile… thank you. Why would anyone care what this man thinks? 🤷🏽♀️
I made a similar comment!
I've seen comments that he's a multimillionaire and has been married over twenty years. Good for the woman that married him! I want a good looking, working man!
THIS👏🏾!😂
@@denesejamerson6540😂🤣😂Then he should fix his face because FaceCard DENIED👹🪳
I wish I could like this more than once
I don't believe most of us are ready and equipped for marriage until we are in our 30s anyway soooooooooooo
I was married in my 30's, and i HATE that I wasted the last of my 20's and ALL OF MY 30'S in a marriage that FAILED...... Tell him, his bald head, and his extra grandpa esque beard to go away from us with this foolishness. He doesn't have the ATTRACTIVENESS to advise anyone.... Thank you.
I'm glad someone else noticed that too...😖..Got the nerve...
Not his bald head😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly
SAME!!!! I feel I wasted my early 20s on one awful guy in particular b/c I just didn't know how to pick well. I'm glad I turned down the marriage proposal b/c I just wanted to be married. I'm glad my god-mother talked me out of it.
Yall do know he's been almost married for 20 years 🤔
😂😂😂 CHILE These men all going to be in a group home together if they keep listening to some of these podcast broken bros.Just because you got a platform doesn't mean you speaking wisdom
Just a question, why is he broken?
He’s married for over 20 years Why do people hate hearing the truth 😭
@@ohhaiJess96 There's a lid for every trash can. Probably to some preference who's running them pockets.
@@Tellthetruth-ns9ze You'll quote the Bible, then have sex while not being married tomorrow. Stop it 😭
@@Tellthetruth-ns9ze🙌🏾 you're the first person I've ever seen point this out. Everyone is in such a rush to be married without an understanding as to why.
Who in the HELL is THIS wannabe counselor to tell others what or who they are if not married at a certain age?? People have the RIGHT not to want to be married at ANY age! I'm so damn tired of all these "DR. PHIL'S" coming onto social media spewing that bullsh!t💩
Not everyone want to make sacrifices and compromise for the sake of a relationship. Some ppl enjoy not being tied to and responsible for someone else.
EXACTLY!!!!!🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
That part 👍
His comments do nothing to move men and women forward. We need to lift each other up!❤
Most respectable comment.
Best comment 💯💯💯
So u agree with not holding men & women accountable? 🤦🏿🤦🏿
Thank you for the positivity!!!!!
@DeionSardines
What is not being held accountable here? You think people need to listen to some stranger who talking out his butt and just assuming everyone single over 30 or 40 in the WHOLE world is only single for the same 1 reason? That's delusional and just trying to dog on people who lives don't conform to his beliefs.
If you want to be accountable like that you better ignore what your parents told you and go ask this man to raise you because I am sure there are some things your parents taught you that he doesn't agree with. Go make him your God 😂
I got married at 54 to my twin flame and soul mate. I’m so happy. Glad I waited and never listened to these losers.
Currently 37, and I’ll be 38 the end of this year .. I’ve been celibate my entire 30’s and this will continue for my 40’s 🦅🦅
I'll be 36 this year and I've been abstinent for my entire 30s as well. I was married in my 20s and got out of that madness. No kids, don't want any. I've never been happier and more emotionally at peace. Hooray for both of us. 🎉❤
@@jazzygirl4140 I’ve never been married and won’t ever be married.. and I’m a struggling single mother of two kids by two different men.. I don’t like or enjoy sex.. the only reason I was ever in any type of relationship was for the purpose of a family..
@@jazzygirl4140 never received any pleasure and never had anything provided.. and I don’t believe in god .. that explains my reasoning behind my celibacy.. what’s your reasoning?? 🤔🤔
@@jilliannotice8852 It wasn't something that I specifically set out to do. After I got divorced, I dated a little. However, I noticed that I was always happier by myself and the idea of being married, living with someone, being responsible for a relationship all the time, was never my desire. I don't want to live with anyone, I don't want to deal with things I wouldn't deal with on my own, I don't want to be responsible for someone else's sexual desires. Basically, I just like being single and abstinent. That's it.
@@jazzygirl4140 what about your desires though?? I have a past, two kids by two different people .. I never received pleasure, meaning a man has never given me an orgasm .. so when you say that without giving a solid honest explanation it doesn’t seem real ..
That dude is making wild generalizations that don't hold water. But as they say, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
One man’s trash is another man’s garbage!
The worst thing that happened to people that need attention is social media
Being single is a choice, this dude is on some BS
Not necessarily. Some women want a man but have too much baggage. Being single forever is not a choice, if no one wants to chose you
And what he needs to know from a woman who is 44 with her own home, her own car, an RN with her BSN .. a lot of men these days don’t wanna work for shit. They ain’t mature enough to put in the effort of marriage so wth should I allow myself to be wifed up and settle for less than my parents have JUST so I can say I’m married.. no thank you .. and if I’m so f..Ed up I have yet to have an ex who hasn’t tried to rekindle .. not 1..and this statement proves my point .. immaturity made you think that bs was actually true.. dumb dumb
Not for a lot of ppl actually 😂. Those ppl need to be left alone for good reasons 😂😂
No it's not, because if you can attract the man you want you would be tied down already.
Ugly people are forced to be single, tbh.
His glasses tricked him into thinking he was smart smh . Have a seat sir and leave the internet alone.
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Exactly, Brother Shuler. I mean, has this gentleman closed his eyes to all these older women getting married? Im heading to my niece’s wedding Sunday. And she’s 38!!
I feel like some people can’t comprehend that some women prefer to be single, childfree. Not all of us want a husband, children, etc.
If you don't want a husband then that is not normal. Aren't you a woman?
You'd be amazed at how many men discard or ignore wifely material, and there are women who do the same with men, I guess we'll just have to try to find each other before it's time for the nursing home 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly.
Exactly
That is the problem. Too many of us say we are not settling when they themselves are average as hell.
Or simply live your best life before it's over, dust off that passport and see how they live in other parts of the world.
Ecclesiasticus 26:23 A wicked woman is the portion to the wicked man. The answer to how did every man miss the great woman? Many good women out here, its just too many wicked men that dont deserve the good woman. 1 Corinthians 7:8 To the unmarried and the widows it says its better to remain single. So any male talking like a woman owes her body WE DONT so back off and look yourselves in the mirror and ask God to reveal your life on why you dont have a good woman. Many males have disregarded wife material women for ridiculous reasons. If she doesn't look a certain way or have certain qualities he doesn't want her totally ignoring how humble and submissive she was around him. Oh well, alot of the reasons these males can't get a good woman is their fault. Ladies, we are not obligated to give our bodies to no male, if you want to remain single, Its NOT A SIN!! Please seek God and learn the Bible for yourself, you have no idea of the peace I have when you put God in the center of your life. When you do that He will make things possible and be the best friend and provider you will ever need. He was there for me in situations no Man could get me out of. Stay safe out there and I love you.
He's speaking from HIS experiences. There is nothing to do with us.
I remember being in the kitchen cooking with my mom and grandma. They cooked everything from scratch….Also Home economics was a mandatory class.
Yes! I took home economics in middle school. I loved that class!
Yup. Until this Day, I can cook a dish better than any restaurant. I can sew, My house is always spotless and a place of tranquility for me. I'm self employed so I can also pick up work from anywhere in the world if I choose to. Single life is beautiful.
I learned how to cook from home. My granny and dad taught me how to cook. The rest I picked up from cooking shows and just creativity.
Granny RIP❤💐 taught me how to sew. She taught me how to iron & put my outfits together. I taught myself how to do hair (perm, braids, and now locs since I be natural ❤❤😊) My parents taught me how to clean. The essential life skills that WE ALL NEED REGARDLESS OF GENDER.
I’m a boss chef too & even received compliments from those who went to culinary school etc.
I never thought that I’d live to see the day where people are envious of you for knowing how to do essential things. I’ve had grown ass women hate on me for knowing how to cook etc.🤷🏿♀️🤣
Yes and those are life lessons everyone should have learned.
She may be selective and not willing to settle for just anybody just to say she's married.
People married out of necessity back then. You don’t have to now.
A lot of theses online personalities are just regurgitating statements they’ve heard someone else say over and over. Unfortunately because we live in an era of egotistical, emotionally damaged, intellectually challenged, attention seeking, no game having, children masquerading as adults with no true opinions of anyone let alone themselves. We are witnessing a societal collapse of free thinkers bold enough to be true to themselves.
This needed to be said! 🎯
Can’t you tell he’s a Kitten heels cult member.
PREACHHHHHH🤌🏾🤌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Great value Ricky Smiley giving out relationship advice, I hope he understands marriage is not mandatory.
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Unmarried women outlive married women. And married men outlive unmarried men.
True. Now think about WHY? married women carrying the entire family while married men relax, get home cooked meals, and a housekeeper.
@@roseiswine8294 Right. And a nurse, social appointment keeper etc.
@@Channing-i6b basically a co dependent...
thats why i married the women i did. because we BOTH do house chores cook for the family work and pay the bills etc
some would call it "50/50" but i dont like to give it a label.
and i dont know why a married man is worried about what ANY single women is doing. .
Stop it Shuler "She knew how to embalm bodies?"😂😂😂
I was walking with 'em until then. Heard that like, "Say what?" 😳😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂She also knew how to hunt
@@latoyafarrell8135Well some of us do know how to fish lol I’ll just substitute that for hunting.
But, in 🇯🇲 I’ve watched them kill meat like it’s nothing & prep it right there😅
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I thought that was Rickey Smiley. That's Dickey Frowning.
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Not Dickey Frowning!!!!😂😂😂😂Put your phone down…I hereby place you on punishment!😂😂😂😂
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@@missmusic2k I'll go sit in the corner.
Lol 🤨😭‼️
If you are unmarried in your 30s and 40s, congratulations, you didn’t fall for it💯
They say every time a man disrespects a woman he loses a centimeter of his hairline 🫣
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He keeps talking, and that's not all he will lose.😂😂😂
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Might have some truth to it because my hair longer than Samson. 😂
Coming from someone whose 22, if you're in your 30/40's don't let somebody tell you your worth.
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FACTSSSSS! And thank you for saying this. You may have truly helped someone with the truth💯💯👏🏾👏🏾
Back in the day, black women did all that and where did it get them? No damn where. So today, these young black girls growing up seeing they grandma struggle, they momma struggle and they auntie struggle. And they thinking, shiiiiiiit I don't think so. Can you blame them? Being a BMW has gotten black women nowhere. I'm glad this generation is breaking the cycle and focusing on themselves!
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He sounds absolutely crazy! What about the women who are single NOW in their 40's who were married throughout their 20's and 30's and taking the necessary time to HEAL and relearn themselves?🤔
Women who want to build their relationship with God and WAIT for the man HE has for her??
I'm SOOOO glad I'm looked upon as "f'ed" up by the WRONG man!😩 Praise the Lord! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾It helps weed the counterfeits out! 💅🏾🙏🏾
Yea while many married women are feeling stuck in a marriage. 😂
Right...miserable and wish they were single. Most of them don't have jobs, so they asses stuck with the cheating ass spouse. Couldn't be me!
Yes, the people were different… They wanted to build lives together and raise strong families, and that difference has been devastating for our young people / black families. 😢😔
Sad that some ppl really feel this way. I had someone ask me what's wrong with me because I'm single. 🙄 everybody got an opinion...honestly ppl need to mind their business
PEACE is more important than marriage. And if you don't have PEACE in your marriage... 🤣
Amen❤
How did every man miss that great woman? She turned them down. That’s the answer
This appears to be a popular opinion among men. What about men who haven’t married and are in their 30s and 40s? Are they washed up too?
No men & women are different
No difference!
@@DeionSardines lol
@@clutch236its true. Its been studied before men and women are biologically made up different. One big difference being men are capable of receiving and reciprocating love while women are not capable of reciprocating love
Nah the women now are messed up and everything is ruined can’t really blame a guy for not being married. Being married for a guy means he has to forfeit his stuff to somebody that doesnt even actually love him but is pretending to
A single woman is happy to be financially stable, free of man-child drama, and wrinklefree👏👏👏👏
Lmao but most at that age have 3 kids
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@@deon3133 😮
Stop the 🧢!
YES!!!! AMEN!!!! Now a days, they all body and NO BRAINS!!! No home training whatsoever!!!!
EVERYBODY got one. And Opinion. DOESN'T MEAN YOUR RIGHT.
Everyone doesn't want to get married. Especially considering how murky the dating pool is now. There are a lot of emotionally infantile and hurt folks out here. I don't want to be with anyone who doesn't enhance the quality of my life. And vice versa.
Only 25% of Black Americans are getting married now. The lowest by far in the country. Back in the 50's we had the highest rate of marriage. Something is wrong with the young, Black dating world.
@@cliftonconnor9389 A lot of our parents and grandparents' marriages weren't healthy. Many of those relationships were financially, physically, or emotionally/mentally abusive. Some of the men had secret children scattered around. Being married and having a healthy, quality marriage are two different things.
@@ButterflyBree ⬆️THIS!!!⬆️💯
@@ButterflyBree These are the lies we tell ourselves to justify our toxic behaviors today. People like to use the worse case scenarios and then pretend that it was the majority of instances. It was not. So I guess only Black American families had these types of issues so we are the worse now for creating nuclear families? This younger generation is selfish, combative, and have no idea how to form pair bonds.
@@ButterflyBreeTHANK YOUUUUU!!!@
People out here romanticizing traumatic and dysfunctional marriages solely because 'they stuck it out'....
Hell, they had NO CHOICE! The trash box Neanderthals cosplaying as Men today just want to be able to do the same f'd up ish to women their moms, grannies and great grannies had to put up with. A woman couldn't get her own damn bank account until the mid to late 70s without a husband's consent or his being added to it, no matter her wishes, which is beyond messed up!
And don't get me started on shitty Medical professionals and the patriarchal ideals on Women wanting to get their tubes tied or getting a hysterectomy....
Bro just put a Target on his back, he just made himself public enemy number 1.😂😂😂😂
On purpose 😂
😂😂😂 FACTS
1-2-& 3 🤣 Who hurt his feelings?
@@deejones6446 Someone over 30 🤣
This is a waste of time 😂
Thank you!!! Spend your energy guiding some men to be suitable partners for women! What has happened is a generation of women have watched their moms, grandmothers, sisters, friends, aunties, etc be dogged over and over by immature "gown baby men," and they've opted to instead go to school, create businesses, start careers, stack money, travel, and live lives free of the stress that a man and an illegitimate child brings you.
It's not that those women don't want to be married. It's that they don't want ridiculous stress. There was a time when women were so desperate for the love of a man and children that they allowed themselves to be baby mamas, but so many women are opting out of that.
You have to actually be a decent person now to have access to their wombs, and they prefer to be married before they pop out a child. These men are mad that these women are stepping up and taking more charge over their lives and have more options.
It used to be that women could not open bank accounts without men and really could not survive financially without men. It's still harder to have one income instead of two, but if you have one income, and you're only supporting yourself instead of out-of-wedlock children, it's easier, and it's without the stress of having to rear and raise a child by yourself.
Those women have longings to be married and to procreate just like many other women, but they don't want the headaches. If you can't enjoy marriage and children, there is no point in experimenting with either one. There is no point in allowing a man to string you along for 7, 8, or 9 years and not marry you. Those days are over. Those days are for the birds.
Women might *desire the company of men, but they do not *need men, and men are finding out that women truly realize this now. That's why they're online in this incel / red pill space being mad at the world, watching porn, whining, and committing violence.
Why some people always feel the need to shame others? Why? In this case, is this going to change something in his life? Can we let women breathe 😑
can we let men breathe? men have to work twice as hard today to marry women that are twice as sorry as the women of the past.
Toni Braxton said it best..."just let me breathe please!" 😂
I took a chance at 22 and got married I definitely wasn’t ready but I knew I wanted a family and to be a great father and husband. I found a woman who loved me for me. But yeah I recommend 30-35 you’re in your career and are ready to lead. Marriage is definitely a game changer with the right spouse.
He too busy focusing on the opposite sex rather than his own. Get the brotherhood back and leave sisterhood alone. Stay in your lane ladies & gentlemen
Look at him.
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@@sweetpea74127😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yep,this definitely is a different time, well said Shuler. ❤❤❤
Great analysis brother Shuler King, shame on him trying to shame single women, tired of these folks exposing their ignorance on the internet thinking they know everything
And those women are living longer bitter and stress free
Amen!😂
Dudes really want to take Kevin Samuels place so bad it’s crazy
He was the blueprint for these men. I think he enabled the brokenness in them, such as the pain, anger, frustration etc. I'm sure he touched on some things that were of truth, but everything else seemed to be of negativity and hate
Yep!
@@cosmicbeauty5682 Why do you say he's broken? It's just a question
I was looking for this comment!
Yep,
And they'll also join him right in the grave!
Exactly Shuler, they were mature and had life skills. Also they were committed to each other!!!
Start holding these platforms accountable that promote this gender war nonsense. We need each other.
This! 🎯
Exactly! My brother was telling me "without men women would be in the stone age!" as though men and women dont need each other for society & our species to exist.
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Thank you brother 🙏🏽
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Anton would be another average dude without social media. You can tell he never had much attention from women before. He's trying to be another Kevin Samuels, but it's not working.
Not everyone is interested in being MARRIED!!! Some people rather have PEACE over EVERYTHING ❤❤❤❤❤
Well shoot, im almost 26 and never had a boyfriend yet. Guess im in trouble too then! 😂
He didn't learn anything from K. Samuels life. Poor Tink Tink. He may have to experience it himself.
Listen, it took some of us until 40 to realize we were far better than what we gave our 20’s and 30’s to. Any man would be blessed to snatch my 42 year old self up.
It's always a slect few but the majority is the problem, most of the women and men now were young parents.
At 54, I ENJOYED ALL my 20's - worried about that Freak-Nik documentary - rat-nigh. Got married. Got divorced. Had my daughter at 34. Got married at 42 and now a happy widow. Women got more options than getting married.
Is being widowed an option?🤔🤔
@@curtishancock432 being a HAPPY widow is an option. The adjective makes all the difference.
But women have an expiration date
😂😂😂😂 alright angel
@@pastoryoda2789pastor indeed.
Hey Lil Darryl! "Leave us alone!" wit this played out foolishness. 🤫
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Amen brother you said a mouthful g full of NOTHING BUT FACTS 💯
Mr. Potato Head needs to stop judging folks and make sure he is marriage material.
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He’s getting the attention he was seeking with the senseless comments. Tbh the only reason to get married in your 20’s is your biological clock. Other than that most people are not emotionally, financially, or spiritually stable. We truly need life experience and wisdom to have a better chance of staying married.
Back in the Day, you were ready at 18yrs old to start your life! you could move out, get a stable job, an apartment, go to college or join the military; but you were ready to be an adult. Today, Child hood has been pushed way up into their mid 20s. Hell in some states, Parents are required to pay Child Support for Kids in college until they are 26! That's crazy as hell.
Not master splinter giving his opinion 😅😂😂
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The best answer of what he is looking like.
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🥷🏾 just be saying anything sometimes.
Where did he lie? I guess a bunch of single people in the comments.
@@curtishancock432 nah I’m actually married dawg, but nice try.
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You speaking facts Shuler, him he basing that off his OWN choosing, and show me a masculine MAN worth marrying these days and I'll show you a AWESOME WOMAN that'll stand by him.... PERIODT..
Yep. Facts Shuler. Different generation 40/50 years ago.
My Ma and Dad had a 3 bedroom, 2 bath home in the 70's/80's when my brothers and I were born. Dad was a short order cook, worked in a food distribution center, worked at local grocery stores in the meat department, and was a taxi driver (on the side). Ma was a stay at home parent until my siblings and I were old enough for school. Then, she re-entered the workforce. Ma is close to retirement, but still holding it down. ✊🏾
Dad passed away in 2010, but he worked until he couldn't anymore due to health. He was "the hardest working man in showbusiness." He had SCD and would come home many a day with ruptured capillaries in his legs (from standing long hours), but he'd wrap up his legs with compression calf leggings, and go back to work the next night.
He truly believed, "a man who did not work, should not eat. And a man who did not provide for his family was no man at all." Harsh words some might think by today's standards, but growing up without a father taught him what he never wanted to be to his children. Unknown. ☝🏽
Shoulder don't know what he is talking about. If a woman don't want one man two call her own, then something is definitely wrong with her. It is human nature for men and women to have a total commitment to one another. That will never change. Call it marriage or whatever else. If things have changed so much, then ask Shuler why is he married
Yeah that was a century ago when that shit was even possible.
And I'm not even gonna go into detail about what he must think about disabled men who can't work.
What if she was married and then her husband passed away people forget about that.
Everyone doesn't want to be married
Maybe she doesn’t want to be married.
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@MsJoyce31202 until she 50 and lonely when nobody wants her unfertile old self. However, black women in their minds think they are viable at any age.😢 I could on size ,economic status , kids count status, let me stop.
How many women have you heard say they never want to be married? Come on
@@CenlalowellMany. You don't talk to women much. Women get downplayed for being single, married, widowed, and etc. Why date or marry men who see all of us the same anyway?
@@90ejb lol, okay. I'm married to one for 20 years. I know what I'm talking about
That's like making ASSumptions as to why couples have not had any children yet. Maybe, just maybe....the one she was going to marry Died. Also, being that women outnumber men, maybe women should be questioning why men in that age range are still single.
“You lucky if they have ONE life skill”. 😂Smh.
A cross between a cracked-out Isaac Hayes and urkel😂😂😂 best marriages are mature marriages💯👍🏾
Don’t they always have a touch of Urkel to them??😂 that’s what I use to say about Kevin Samuels. I only watched snippets of a few videos and I use to be like “I know good and well these women not letting URKEL big brother rate them and tell them about relationships”🤦🏽♀️🙄😂😂😂
@@SheIsFearfullyWonderfullyMade 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☠️☠️ooo I can see that what your saying 🤣🤣you are 💯 correct 🤣🤣🤣
Touch of sassy too😂