Thank you, dear heart, for sharing your life with us, for telling it so beautifully. No hype, no Queen-like nonsense, but straight from the heart. And, I appreciate that you tell it carefully, unhurriedly. I finish your video wondering why I haven’t met a lovely man like you. I wish you every happiness.
I'm glad my hubby and I had an open relationship for a short time. We both truly learned what we are to one another, that was year 6-7 of our relationship. We learned that some men are the pinnacle of jerks. We're now in our 25th year together, and we're monogamous now and can't imagine being apart from one another... I love my Sasquatch!
@@lgbtqarchives I grew up in the 60's and 70's. I knew I was gay when I was about 13. But it was not safe and I wanted a family. I got married at 20 and had three kids. After 25 years she cheated and left. I raised 3 kids alone. I had my one and only relationship with a man at 56 but he died so I'm 65 and alone now.
@@russellbogrett605 I’ve heard many stories from men of your generation, so I totally understand how complicated your situation was. When the right times comes and if you decided to share your story, I would love to work on your story. It’s an open invitation.
Nice guy. Wow...even tho his family was accepting (apparently), what a betrayal to be outed like that. As a young man you don't have the toolset to deal appropriately, but as an adult that would have been an immediate relationship ender, despite the seeming positive outcome with the family.
There are so many broken gay men out here. I just want to say that relationships are more than just sexual compatibility. Having fun, and making memories outside of the bedroom is what makes a relationship loving, respectable, and long-lasting. People are more than just sex objects. People in general, heterosexual and homosexual, need to realize this. It makes way for a better life. Thanks for sharing your story.
Absolutely! On top of all that, when you have a damaged community, everyone suffers, EVERYONE! It's really a simple concept. I don't get why people fight against equal rights, same sex marriage, access to healthcare and all that good stuff. What's in it for them? We'll never understand.
Thank you for the share. I’m pushing into my forties and understand each event of your life because I’ve had the same perspective. This video hit home.
Because this is what's necessary in order to be content with yourself and your life. Also you have to love yourself in order to love others in a healthy manner.
It always amazes me when gay dudes talk about how they were able to have sex with a lady. This is nothing against the guy telling the story, but I could never (physically) go through it. When I was in 8th/9th grade I thought I was gonna have to grow up and marry a lady so I was trying to hide the gayness. I went on a date with a girl and kissed her and it felt very unpleasant (nothing against the girl). After that night I had to come out (to myself) because I knew there was no way I would be able to fake it with a woman.
Yes, but not everyone feels exactly the same about that. Some have zero attraction to a female, but anything goes. On top of that, those who were brainwashed or whatever, learned to force their body to do certain things. They were able to perform, but it doesn't mean they enjoyed it, so there's that too.
i can relate to your story cause my first expericence was with an older white friend of the family and he wanted to help me with my fantasy and we enjoyed each other
Ooooo, a gay married (to a woman) man falling in love with a straight married man. The grief, the sorrow, the tears - been there done that.... Yep, know what he's talking about....
I was puzzled by your being offended when your first LTR got interested in someone else. Why not let him pursue it and welcome him back when he realizes the other can not compete with you? You had the same experience when you "found another," only to be swiftly disillusioned. Many women let their husbands roam and learn, sooner or later, and welcome them back. This is one of those stories which I think of as stuck in "creation mode." Always creating, but ... nothing final. We gay guys have to forgive ourselves. We of a certain age had no exemplars. Hopefully, young today's young gay guys have some exemplars.
Agreed - for you and I and maybe lots of others. But so what? Best not ‘to begin’ and be judgmental. We are all different - with varied outlooks, levels of tolerance, expectations. One man’s red flag to another may be green, amber or colourless. This individual has lived/is living a life to the beat of his own drummer - as do we all surely?
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarokatuh ,salam buat Ayah yang lagi berbicara semoga Ayah senantiasa di berikan kesehatan serta Panjang umur dan semoga Ayah yang gagah dan ganteng serta berjenggot ,semoga Ayah sehat selalu serta selalu berada dalam lindungan Allah SWT ,Aamiin Yaa Robbal Aalamiin .
i do not see any difference in being Gay or str8 both make love the same way enjoy the same way have the same feelings only education society religion education and idiocy made the « apoarthaid of shame ».. i lived alone since i was 23 y o i never told anyone made my business with men and women how i act sexually is a very private thing .. do you yell i am jew christian mormon or biddhist ? No ! should becthe same about sexual preferences
Cultural issues are always secondary to religion and nowadays they wonder why people (including straight people) are leaving religion behind more than ever.
If you're going to drop a comment like that about someone's life or character, you should also be prepared to present some facts. If you're not going to do that, then maybe you shouldn't judge someone just like that without sharing the reason why ...etc. It'd be different if you were commenting on a random pet video , but that's not the case here.
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As gay men, we need to learn to love ourselves first and foremost.
100% if we don't love and accept ourselves, we will never love our partners in a healthy manner.
A fine story. Thanks for telling it. Peace and good will to you and yours.
Thank you, dear heart, for sharing your life with us, for telling it so beautifully. No hype, no Queen-like nonsense, but straight from the heart. And, I appreciate that you tell it carefully, unhurriedly. I finish your video wondering why I haven’t met a lovely man like you. I wish you every happiness.
I'm glad my hubby and I had an open relationship for a short time. We both truly learned what we are to one another, that was year 6-7 of our relationship. We learned that some men are the pinnacle of jerks.
We're now in our 25th year together, and we're monogamous now and can't imagine being apart from one another... I love my Sasquatch!
What a wonderful/powerful statement:
“ I love ❤️ who I am”…when a person can reach this point in his/her life then living begins! 😊
Thank you so much for sharing your story and giving me a better understanding of homosexuality. I appreciate your bravery.❤️
The hardest person to come out to is ourselves.
It’s easier now, but society did make it incredibly hard even at an individual level. So many people ended up in strange places they didn’t belong.
@@lgbtqarchives I grew up in the 60's and 70's. I knew I was gay when I was about 13. But it was not safe and I wanted a family. I got married at 20 and had three kids. After 25 years she cheated and left. I raised 3 kids alone. I had my one and only relationship with a man at 56 but he died so I'm 65 and alone now.
@@russellbogrett605 I’ve heard many stories from men of your generation, so I totally understand how complicated your situation was. When the right times comes and if you decided to share your story, I would love to work on your story. It’s an open invitation.
Thanks for your heartfelt story. We need to share these in order to be visible.
Nice guy. Wow...even tho his family was accepting (apparently), what a betrayal to be outed like that. As a young man you don't have the toolset to deal appropriately, but as an adult that would have been an immediate relationship ender, despite the seeming positive outcome with the family.
There are so many broken gay men out here. I just want to say that relationships are more than just sexual compatibility. Having fun, and making memories outside of the bedroom is what makes a relationship loving, respectable, and long-lasting. People are more than just sex objects. People in general, heterosexual and homosexual, need to realize this. It makes way for a better life. Thanks for sharing your story.
Absolutely! On top of all that, when you have a damaged community, everyone suffers, EVERYONE! It's really a simple concept. I don't get why people fight against equal rights, same sex marriage, access to healthcare and all that good stuff. What's in it for them? We'll never understand.
@@lgbtqarchives💯
Thanks for your candour. And what a handsome dude!
beautiful story and a beautiful man. May you both be happy forever.
Yours is such a beautiful and moving story. Thank you for sharing it.
𝐖𝐨𝐥𝐟 𝐁𝐞𝐞𝐧𝐞, a gay man from Texas shares his incredible life experience as a gay man.
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Oh, what a beautiful story! I did hope for some positive conclusion and I heard it.
Thanks for sharing.
All the best in your journey!
Thank you for sharing your story! All best!
Thank you for the share. I’m pushing into my forties and understand each event of your life because I’ve had the same perspective. This video hit home.
How are things progressing for you in general?
What a nice story, thanks for sharing
Cool story 😊👏👏
Yeah, realising vs accepting.
Gorgeous guy, love your story and your voice.
Thanks for sharing your story!
Beautiful 🎉
What a sweetheart.....and handsome
❤️❤️❤️❤️ lots of love and affection ❤️❤️❤️. Watching from Meghalaya, north east India.
Daddy so cute and so nice
Please do NOT post the same comment over and over.
This is a beautiful man. ❤
I love myself... first and foremost!
Why ?
Because this is what's necessary in order to be content with yourself and your life. Also you have to love yourself in order to love others in a healthy manner.
Wolf amazing name
8:15 - What a handsome man!
It always amazes me when gay dudes talk about how they were able to have sex with a lady. This is nothing against the guy telling the story, but I could never (physically) go through it. When I was in 8th/9th grade I thought I was gonna have to grow up and marry a lady so I was trying to hide the gayness. I went on a date with a girl and kissed her and it felt very unpleasant (nothing against the girl). After that night I had to come out (to myself) because I knew there was no way I would be able to fake it with a woman.
Yes, but not everyone feels exactly the same about that. Some have zero attraction to a female, but anything goes. On top of that, those who were brainwashed or whatever, learned to force their body to do certain things. They were able to perform, but it doesn't mean they enjoyed it, so there's that too.
@@lgbtqarchives yes. I respect that everyone is different.
I felt exactly the same.
i can relate to your story cause my first expericence was with an older white friend of the family and he wanted to help me with my fantasy and we enjoyed each other
but he knew that i was striaght and he told me that he will keep it a secrect and we visit each other and i told him that i wanted him
I Love old man💙
I am watching you from India 😊 happy to see you🤗
Good to have you here. We have a lot of viewers from India.
@@lgbtqarchives❤
Ooooo, a gay married (to a woman) man falling in love with a straight married man. The grief, the sorrow, the tears - been there done that.... Yep, know what he's talking about....
I was puzzled by your being offended when your first LTR got interested in someone else. Why not let him pursue it and welcome him back when he realizes the other can not compete with you? You had the same experience when you "found another," only to be swiftly disillusioned. Many women let their husbands roam and learn, sooner or later, and welcome them back.
This is one of those stories which I think of as stuck in "creation mode." Always creating, but ... nothing final. We gay guys have to forgive ourselves. We of a certain age had no exemplars. Hopefully, young today's young gay guys have some exemplars.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ love to you 💋💋💋💋 and you are very very nice to you
Cava monam ci Karim du Maroc bizou done moi lwatsap ok ❤❤♥️♥️🔥🔥👄🌹🌹💔💋💋
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The mythology of Christ/Christianity disgusts me! Totally crippling BS.
And that's all on them. They're the reason why many of us feel the way we do.
Ilove,you❤💋💋💋💘💘💘
There are so many red flags in this story that I don't know where to begin. So I won't. I'll just say Good Luck!
Agreed - for you and I and maybe lots of others. But so what? Best not ‘to begin’ and be judgmental. We are all different - with varied outlooks, levels of tolerance, expectations. One man’s red flag to another may be green, amber or colourless. This individual has lived/is living a life to the beat of his own drummer - as do we all surely?
Not everybody needs to be taught how to love.
Assalamu'alaikum warahmatullahi wabarokatuh ,salam buat Ayah yang lagi berbicara semoga Ayah senantiasa di berikan kesehatan serta Panjang umur dan semoga Ayah yang gagah dan ganteng serta berjenggot ,semoga Ayah sehat selalu serta selalu berada dalam lindungan Allah SWT ,Aamiin Yaa Robbal Aalamiin .
Sorry, but I couldn’t understand what you were trying to say.
God he is a slow speaker.
i do not see any difference in being Gay or str8 both make love the same way enjoy the same way have the same feelings only education society religion education and idiocy made the « apoarthaid of shame ».. i lived alone since i was 23 y o i never told anyone made my business with men and women
how i act sexually is a very private thing .. do you yell i am jew christian mormon or biddhist ? No !
should becthe same about sexual preferences
Cultural issues are always secondary to religion and nowadays they wonder why people (including straight people) are leaving religion behind more than ever.
This guy sounds like a mess.
Comparing his life to your own and stating facts or just randomly typing something because you can?
@@lgbtqarchives The former.
If you're going to drop a comment like that about someone's life or character, you should also be prepared to present some facts. If you're not going to do that, then maybe you shouldn't judge someone just like that without sharing the reason why ...etc. It'd be different if you were commenting on a random pet video , but that's not the case here.
@@lgbtqarchives You can't tell me what to do.
I just did. Baseless attacks without explanation will be deleted.
I love you..
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