This is so relatable. Before I started building my relationship with Christ, I was constantly approached. Now it’s very rare and when it does happen it’s a compliment and then we part ways. We are definitely being protected by God.
After I got baptized in June, no man approaches me to date me or even ask me for my number. The men I have conversations with, God makes them so clear they’re not for me that I wouldn’t even inquire further (doesn’t believe in marriage, has children, etc.) Before I found Jesus, I had entire rosters of men!
Everything you said reminded me of 1 Corinthians 7: 27, where it says, " Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. " God has a way of bringing people to marriage. We are not called to seek partners but to seek God.
When I first read this story, I found it so timely. Sometimes I wonder if I'm asking for "too much," especially as a black woman. Society makes it seem like we should accept anything and any man interested in us, but that story reminded me to STAND UP and never settle for someone who does not put forth effort and intention! Everytime I go out I notice men would stare or would later say that they "Assumed I was in a relationship or married" and that theres a way that I carry myself that I wasn't aware of. I wasnt sure what to do with that because I'm single but I realized that it isnt a bad thing.
i prayed God shield me and my future husband from the counterfeits and that we recognize each other when we see each other. and my dating life has been DRY BONESSS ever since. hopefully his dating life is as dry as mine too
Love this! I've been through a lot of caos not able to recognize who is counter or not. At this moment I just want my peace back :( TY for sharing, will use this prayer
Love this. I noticed pattern in my life as well. I can date a [great] guy + suddenly I’ll go from dream girl to him not wanting to be with me anymore. It’s happened so many times. It’s like suddenly their heart hardened/turned [with no true reason] + truthfully ik it’s God. I was hurt time again but ik who God is reserving someone incredible for me. Idk who he is or what God’s plans for us are but it’s major + worth the wait.
I have experienced this as well. Just a few months ago. “…from dream girl to him to him not wanting to be with me” as painful and confusing as that can be, God has a plan far greater than anything we could ever imagine.
I think God can be protecting us and I also think there is also the possibility that other (dark) forces can be at work preventing/delaying Kingdom spouses from coming together. I think it's important for each us to seek the Lord to get an understanding of our specific situation. For example in the bible there's an example of a blind man that Jesus goes to heal and the disciples ask who's sin caused his blindness and he said his wasn't due to any sin. There isn't a blanket approach when it comes to the spiritual. These videos can be insightful, however we must each have our own relationship with God and seek confirmation from Him directly.
I’m so glad you said this. I’m experiencing this right now. The guy I was talking to and I had instant chemistry-our first date lasted 8 hours. This is just to give you context of how deep we first started. Last week, he ended things so abruptly by ghosting and leaving me to pick up the pieces. I’m going through so much right now and watching these type of videos and reading comments like yours helps the heartbreak. I saw a future with this person and secretly told myself: “Even if things weren’t to work out-there’s no bad blood because I genuinely care about this person.” I feel discarded and like I never meant anything to him. But maybe, he couldn’t handle the woman I am and the woman I’ll become. I don’t have all the answers, but I know God does. I’m trying to trust Him even in my lowest moments. This guy and I were practically twins, we have the same birthday and birth year, went to the same high school, act the same, had similar mutuals-it felt like I was looking at another me, who just so happened to be a guy lol. I know, I’m not over it yet and I think instead of seeking a new relationship, I’ll try to build the one I have with God. Because even through the pain that I am going through, I believe His plans for me are beyond my wildest dreams. I’ll leave you with a Bible verse that popped up on my phone this week. Proverbs 19:21. God Bless! ❤
10:11- YES!! I feel like God has been protecting me from men my entire life!!! I used to be angry at God for not sending me someone, but now I'm realizing it is God who is protecting me! 💯 Can relate!!
Girl, so relatable, everytime I meet a potential christian dating Men, there’s always a way God is telling me “nope it’s not him”!! I think that He’s obviously hiding me too.
the story of Jacob and Leah hurts me so much bcz Jacob loved racheal wholeheartedly so now imagine being Leah in this story knowing that you were put in a situation that you couldn't get yourself out of then thinking by giving that 7 children six sons and one daughter he will love you im so happy that when she realised her worth and focus on god .bcz you can't try to please something in the dark and day light it doesn't appreciate your efforts ..she focused on god look at what god did for children yes was rejected not the chosen one from the get go but her womb gave birth to lineage that would give us Jesus Christ .yes in some situations YOU CAN BE REJECTED AND NOT BE THE PREFERRED ONE BUT GOD WILL ALWAYS SHOW YOU FAVOUR .
Also Abraham sent his servant to find a wife for Isaac. And the servant spotted Rebecca. And Rebecca was drawing water . She was working minding her business. Because he who finds a wife find a good thang !!
Yes ! I am experiencing the same thing. And I also experience people telling me there is a glow and how beautiful I am. I’m like okay God thank you for protecting me and letting your light shine through me. Because the word says he will beautify the meek with salvation.
Your experience is my life right now. I met a guy recently and during our conversation he said, if a lady refuses to have sex with a guy during dating/courtship, it means she doesn’t love him. I asked, so is he saying that love=sex? 🤔 And he said no but, blah blah blah and went on and on. 😒 I said well, I’m that lady that will not compromise when it comes to that until I get married and guess what, I haven’t heard from him and I thank God. I’m not going to disobey God to please man.
you’re so right, haven’t been on a date at all this yr since deciding to intentionally walk w the Lord in Mar/Apr ‘24. I even been on the apps, didn’t get asked on one date 😂 but last yr when I was out in the world , was on the apps and dating left and right! completely agree, it’s God’s covering and protection over us, and a lot of times we’re coming in contact with spirits, so the spirits in people also recognize we have that protection on us!
This is sooo true omg. I think this is applicable to friendships too. When you take your walk seriously, people who usually befriend you, no longer do it. Only specific people get to do that. God is for sure covering us (his daughters) from both potential friends and partners that aren’t meant to be in our lives.🙌🏾✨✨✨❤️
Yes and I’ve noticed this years ago and it’s a blessing. I try once taking matters into my own hands and omgeeeee I’ll never question God’s plan for my life again!
Yes ! I rarely EVER get approached when I used to get numbers left and right ! I was like is there something wrong with me ? But it makes perfect sense and I’m so thankful for it now. ❤
I can so relate. I feel the same way. In 2024 I really started to take notice to it. I said to myself God must have me under a veil because chile nobody approaches me. While I am grateful for it I guess I just wanted a little affirmation that I am still attractive to the opposite sex. A little while after I had that thought. I heard someone say you don’t need to be seen by every man the man that is for you will see you. Right now I am happily single and I only want what God wants for me. When the time is right it will happen naturally. Thanks for sharing so I know I’m not crazy😅
It’s funny how He thought he was cutting you off your chances with him bc you don’t drink. 😂 God is amazing! Like how does His presence in your life repel men who’s either ill intentioned or less than confident enough to feel he has a chance? Idk but rejection is absolutely Gods protection and I love it‼️🙌🏾
Several months ago, I realized that God had been covering me my entire life. It was the times when I chose to uncover myself that I was exposed to harm. Now that I’m in my 30s, I’ve chosen to stop pursuing relationships in my own strength and human effort. Instead, I’ve chosen to submit my self to the protection he has always desired to provide me with. I’m choosing to trust His spirit to guide my husband to me. After all, If he’s faithful to fulfill his word, and guide the beasts of the field to their mates (Isiah 34:16)-Why wouldn’t his spirit guide men and women created in His own image into Christ-centered marriages that would glorify him?
O M G!!! This video was spot on!!! I noticed the same shift and took it as something was wrong with me because men don’t approach me anymore. This was confirmation and clarity that it’s protection! WOW!
Yesss! I’ve been experiencing the same thing in my dating life. Ever since I’ve been in alignment with Christ, I haven’t been getting approached by men at all and I was starting to wonder…like dang do I still got it 😅 but what you said is so true! God has us covered and not sending no mess our way! What’s for you won’t miss you. Our kingdom marriage is coming sis! Keep doing what you’re doing! ❤🙏🏾
I think I have experienced this and it has been hard for me because of my insecurities. I came to the Lord at 18 and before that I was out here, which is sad because I was so young. At that point though everything was cut off... It has been a challenge because I've failed so much and have been desperate because I'm always trying to "just make it work" because I have seen that hiding as a barrier, rather than a blessing. God has been so faithful to me though I have not been. The enemy is often speaking lies to me about the fact Im getting older and my time is almost up or that this must be happening because I'm such a horrible person. UGH I really hate the devil he does not fight fair at all. But I appreciate this topic and am going to take addressing my insecurities more seriously so I can be confidently hidden and stop floundering and moving from under God's wing.
I had been feeling this way and even spoke about it to a friend recently, and this just gave me the peace I needed to be okay with being covered by God until I am ready to be revealed to the people, places, and things meant for me. 💕
I really relate to the things about guys not asking me out anymore! I really did realize that God has someone absolutely wonderful for me and I just need to wait. It gets hard being young and longing for a relationship but knowing what God has in store for me helps a lot!
I can def attest to this, once I got serious about my self love and discernment over who I allow into my life it's like a filter around me. I've been celibate for over a year and even people who have potential as a future partner I've noticed the resistance/delay on us connecting, knowing that even if someone is my divine compliment we both have to be at a point that's conducive for a healthy and purposeful relationship
yes girl. ever since I've been leaning into my relationship with God the same has happened to me- it feels like Ive been made invisible. But I'm super grateful for it because I know there's a reason that God has hidden me. Plus- I would rather not have my time wasted. Love this video.
This was good. I’ve definitely been experiencing the same thing and it affected my confidence. I thought I lost my aura points lol but the Lord is just hiding me for a greater purpose❤️. This gave me hope.
I couldn’t agree with you more!! I can relate to how guys interact with me lately. It used to frustrate me also but I’m SO thankful for God’s protection!
Absolutely when I said this resonated with me 10000000000% it truly did and it’s crazy bc although I do approached often it never goes anywhere….I just chalked it up as my introverted nature and I’ve had my share of love and relationships but I am noticing that things have definitely shifted thank you for this discussion because it hit home I am thankful and giving God all the Glory for His protection!!!!!!
This definitely spoke to me. I’ve been feeling like this for a few months now, I’m like Jesus I ain’t fione no more?! No but seriously, this was great. As u spoke I start to reflect on how I was b4..dating just to say I had something happening in my life, but in reality I ain’t want those people! lol ..Or the ones I liked, it would just end suddenly …and in the worst of ways. So although lonely and bored sometimes.,I’m super grateful for the growth that’s come forth🙌🏼.
Thank you for this message! I remember a few years ago, going on date after date and experiencing the worst from those men and I literally told the Lord, “hide me for my husband!” And when I say he is doing just that..because I have seen a significant decrease in getting approached by men. It started to mess with my self esteem but then the Lord reminded me of what I prayed! I have faith and patiently waiting well! 🙌🏾
Yes, this has been happening to me for quite some time. Thank you for shading more light on it. I’m grateful for God’s protection. Men compliment and show kindness through gestures but not ask me out 😊. I was starting to feel I like you were like unwanted but nope. This has cleared that up
I loved this. This was the first video I've seen of yours and now I feel so encouraged to know there are other young single women who are pursuing God first. Thank you so much for this video, beautiful!!
I love the direction of your channel. I saw clips of you when you used to talk about relationships, but that discourse was never my cup of tea personally, but once you came out for Christ, I hit follow. I’m so happy for you my sister in Christ. You look beautiful, as always. 🙏🏾💕💅🏾
Oh my goodness yes! I prayed for God’s discernment & protection in finding my husband and I’ve hardly had a date. I know that this is his protection! Thank you for sharing that with us. Praise the Lord for his protection! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Perfect timing , I'm having the same experiences with men and it been a year with my walk with the Lord. ❤😊 Hours ago I was reading the book of Ruth and I'm currently in the Ruth season.
I wish every woman who desires to be married and have a God centered marriage would come across your video or another video with the same truth centered message!!!! Jesus is Amazing!!!!!!!!
I still get approached at gas stations when I don’t wear makeup by all kinds of booger bears and it irks me so much! But on days where I’m full glam hardly anyone comes for me. It’s really a flex when you’re not getting approached as much anymore!
Yes I so relate! I noticed it also happened when o reached a certain age. I think that says a lot about some men and who they are praying on. I also think it has to do with knowing who you are and whose you are! You are not seeking and desperate! You are content! I think men can sense that and won’t try it because they know you aren’t easy. I have had this conversation soooo many times because it feels like it has been YEARS!!!
Hi Amani! I just came across this video and your title caught me attention. I listened and I can honestly say I've been going through the same thing since deciding to walk with Christ. God is covering us and preparing us just for who He has for us. ❤🙏🏾🙌🏾
I saw your video but didn’t click, the Lord kept putting into my spirit hiding in plain sight. And I resonate with this. I made peace initially it was disheartening because I am believing God for marriage. But I trust God and his process
24:30 I needed to hear this. I was asking myself in my head, “Am I serving the Lord? Should I be doing something else?” And right when you said that I realized that God’s purpose is always working and as long as we glorify Him we are serving Him.
I really enjoyed this podcast, I was just scrolling through TH-cam and came across it and I was led to watch this video! a quick subscribe and like. Absolutely love your podcast. I pray the Lord will continue to use you to reach the world!
Yes I used to be approached, Dmd, quite literally sought after. But I prayed and asked God for my husband “the one he has for me!” And I still get complimented and what not but there is no further pursuance. And that is a constant reminder that God wants me to focus and chase him and no one else
I have noticed this a lot too. I’m just 19 but I have never been asked out, just complimented. This video was eye opening. I always just thought I wasn’t worthy of a relationship but I’m working on my relationship with God and I believe his will is more beautiful and good than mine ❤ Note: I’ve never seen this channel before. I think this was just what I needed to hear tonight.
I can definitely relate, men don’t approach me like they used to!! It’s almost as if they’re intimidated by me now because they can sense the Jesus in me and no longer feel comfortable asking me out and wasting my time so they just drop a compliment and leave 😅😂
Girlll I saw the caption and I was like I think I will relate with this and I really do!! Ever since I decided to take my relationship with God seriously it feels like God has been hiding me for some reasons. Men would literally take my number and never text me… which is new. I was like it definitely gotta be God protecting me for some reason!!
I feel like I’ve been hidden for years. I’m 19 and I still haven’t met anyone except for when I was 16 but only once. Ik I’m still young but it would be nice to at least experience something real. It gets really lonely like I know God has plans for me but a lot of the times I just get sad being with him.
💯💯 Well I can relate from a woman perspective but I can definitely relate from a male perspective. Once I realigned myself and ask for wisdom knowledge and understanding.Let Your Will Be Done. He hide me in plain sight. I could really go on for days with some of the topics you discuss on your channel. Good content. You popped up on my feed and been listening all night on the road. I am now a new subscriber 🙏🏾💯
Wow this is so true! I had a conversation with a friend recently and I was telling them that I think God is blocking me and blinding me. I have the same interactions! I also don’t find people attractive or interesting!
I just love your intensity as a woman❤ like I know you really don’t play just by the way you speak😂 This was so helpful. A much needed conversation. I’ve always watched you but now that we’re sisters in Christ, Im tuned in fr!
If the lord put it on your heart to change the name then you should definitely do so!! Don’t worry about what people know you as the lord will bring in whoever needs to be here!
I’m 17 and I don’t really get approach to at all, I guess because I’m still young but at the same time it makes me feel disappointed being the only friend who haven’t dated even once or even haven’t given her first kiss. However I think it’s better to wait in the Lord and have my heart intact my whole life waiting for the one he has for me 🙏🏾
Above all of this love and always seek God, but One day you will be 22/23 and you’ll realize the least of your cares or attention should go towards a man, especially not one that doesn’t even have interest in the connection he has to the perfect love of Christ . It’s so normal to feel this way too but just know ,We are given so many blessings in youth please look into creative things you can do in school, after school whether that’s science or cosmetology school or management , etc, pray for bravery, pray for creativity, get money & save for when you get ideas for good times and love on your community like Christ loved it, and do the hard things like sticking to a Bible plan and forgive those who wronged you -keeping people you don’t have boundaries with at a distance. And appreciate your friends dearly. The world and our harmones are deceitful as to what will bring us joy but trust me it is not in a boy n will never be for long, but seeking the Kingdom first, will help you navigate that person when the timing is right.
You're doing right young lady! Wait on God to send you the right person because it's going to be the best and you don't have to go through all these issues that other people have gone through. Like she said take it as God's protection.❤
Trust me it's best this way! This was the exact same thing at your age and I have never regretted it! Just know God deeper and deeper in His word and prayer & at the right time it'll happen. He already knows - He's the perfect orchestrator so just wait and worship
What everyone else is doing isn’t Gods best. I was pregnant at 15. You don’t need a relationship now. It sounds easy for me to say but get to know yourself and God. There’s a time for relationships. Enjoy college. Travel. Find out what you like and don’t like.
I relate to your message I'm 17 too and i know the struggle of feeling left out but rather choose purity and wait for the one that God has for u,it's worth it to wait for a Man of God!!
Yes I have experienced a difference in how guys react to me as well. I am older and thought it was that but no I realize it's God's covering ..and I am thankful.
I don’t know if this is confirmation that I needed to watch this video but my initials are A.W. and I felt the Lord directed me to this video! Thank you so much for sharing this video! I needed to hear this more than you know!
“If the Lord has put marriage on your heart, he has a person for you.” WOAH
This is so relatable. Before I started building my relationship with Christ, I was constantly approached. Now it’s very rare and when it does happen it’s a compliment and then we part ways. We are definitely being protected by God.
Oh my goodness sis I thought I was imagining things!!!!! The same exact thing is going on with me!
@@shakeenasmith1193me too at first it bothered me but now I feel like God is truly protecting me.
After I got baptized in June, no man approaches me to date me or even ask me for my number. The men I have conversations with, God makes them so clear they’re not for me that I wouldn’t even inquire further (doesn’t believe in marriage, has children, etc.) Before I found Jesus, I had entire rosters of men!
Everything you said reminded me of 1 Corinthians 7: 27, where it says, " Are you unmarried? Do not look for a wife. " God has a way of bringing people to marriage. We are not called to seek partners but to seek God.
and "He who finds a wife finds a good thing" not "she who finds a husband"
Amen 🙏🏽
@@harleighstringerperiod 💯
The story of Jacob & Rachel is the opitomy of "if he wanted to, HE WOULD" 😂
When I first read this story, I found it so timely. Sometimes I wonder if I'm asking for "too much," especially as a black woman. Society makes it seem like we should accept anything and any man interested in us, but that story reminded me to STAND UP and never settle for someone who does not put forth effort and intention! Everytime I go out I notice men would stare or would later say that they "Assumed I was in a relationship or married" and that theres a way that I carry myself that I wasn't aware of. I wasnt sure what to do with that because I'm single but I realized that it isnt a bad thing.
i prayed God shield me and my future husband from the counterfeits and that we recognize each other when we see each other. and my dating life has been DRY BONESSS ever since. hopefully his dating life is as dry as mine too
Love this! I've been through a lot of caos not able to recognize who is counter or not. At this moment I just want my peace back :( TY for sharing, will use this prayer
@ it works! praying peace and clarity over your life 🫶🏽
This is how it should be 🥹
Love this. I noticed pattern in my life as well. I can date a [great] guy + suddenly I’ll go from dream girl to him not wanting to be with me anymore. It’s happened so many times. It’s like suddenly their heart hardened/turned [with no true reason] + truthfully ik it’s God. I was hurt time again but ik who God is reserving someone incredible for me. Idk who he is or what God’s plans for us are but it’s major + worth the wait.
I relate to this so much
I have experienced this as well. Just a few months ago. “…from dream girl to him to him not wanting to be with me” as painful and confusing as that can be, God has a plan far greater than anything we could ever imagine.
I think God can be protecting us and I also think there is also the possibility that other (dark) forces can be at work preventing/delaying Kingdom spouses from coming together. I think it's important for each us to seek the Lord to get an understanding of our specific situation. For example in the bible there's an example of a blind man that Jesus goes to heal and the disciples ask who's sin caused his blindness and he said his wasn't due to any sin. There isn't a blanket approach when it comes to the spiritual. These videos can be insightful, however we must each have our own relationship with God and seek confirmation from Him directly.
I’m so glad you said this. I’m experiencing this right now. The guy I was talking to and I had instant chemistry-our first date lasted 8 hours. This is just to give you context of how deep we first started. Last week, he ended things so abruptly by ghosting and leaving me to pick up the pieces. I’m going through so much right now and watching these type of videos and reading comments like yours helps the heartbreak. I saw a future with this person and secretly told myself: “Even if things weren’t to work out-there’s no bad blood because I genuinely care about this person.” I feel discarded and like I never meant anything to him. But maybe, he couldn’t handle the woman I am and the woman I’ll become. I don’t have all the answers, but I know God does. I’m trying to trust Him even in my lowest moments. This guy and I were practically twins, we have the same birthday and birth year, went to the same high school, act the same, had similar mutuals-it felt like I was looking at another me, who just so happened to be a guy lol. I know, I’m not over it yet and I think instead of seeking a new relationship, I’ll try to build the one I have with God. Because even through the pain that I am going through, I believe His plans for me are beyond my wildest dreams. I’ll leave you with a Bible verse that popped up on my phone this week. Proverbs 19:21. God Bless! ❤
Yess I love being Gods daughter. They know they’re not ready and not to play with Gods OBEDIENT kids!
I met my husband when I running errands for my small business,so ,true I met my husband in my purpose. Great video . Thank you
I am very proud, and excited with the direction you're taking your platform by God's instruction. It's beautiful to witness!
10:11- YES!! I feel like God has been protecting me from men my entire life!!! I used to be angry at God for not sending me someone, but now I'm realizing it is God who is protecting me! 💯 Can relate!!
This is happening currently but I prayed for that type of covering and forgot 😂😂so God had to remind me “ma’am you asked me to hide you” lol
You’re hilarious dear 😂
“Why would I accept crumbs from you ? …” wooo! Amen !
Girl, so relatable, everytime I meet a potential christian dating Men, there’s always a way God is telling me “nope it’s not him”!! I think that He’s obviously hiding me too.
the story of Jacob and Leah hurts me so much bcz Jacob loved racheal wholeheartedly so now imagine being Leah in this story knowing that you were put in a situation that you couldn't get yourself out of then thinking by giving that 7 children six sons and one daughter he will love you im so happy that when she realised her worth and focus on god .bcz you can't try to please something in the dark and day light it doesn't appreciate your efforts ..she focused on god look at what god did for children yes was rejected not the chosen one from the get go but her womb gave birth to lineage that would give us Jesus Christ .yes in some situations YOU CAN BE REJECTED AND NOT BE THE PREFERRED ONE BUT GOD WILL ALWAYS SHOW YOU FAVOUR .
The woman in the well. "I was rejected by many" But not the Messiah. (The chosen series!)
God chose her though her husband didn’t. She held the honored position in the end.
Also Abraham sent his servant to find a wife for Isaac. And the servant spotted Rebecca. And Rebecca was drawing water . She was working minding her business. Because he who finds a wife find a good thang !!
Yes ! I am experiencing the same thing. And I also experience people telling me there is a glow and how beautiful I am. I’m like okay God thank you for protecting me and letting your light shine through me. Because the word says he will beautify the meek with salvation.
Your experience is my life right now. I met a guy recently and during our conversation he said, if a lady refuses to have sex with a guy during dating/courtship, it means she doesn’t love him. I asked, so is he saying that love=sex? 🤔 And he said no but, blah blah blah and went on and on. 😒
I said well, I’m that lady that will not compromise when it comes to that until I get married and guess what, I haven’t heard from him and I thank God. I’m not going to disobey God to please man.
you’re so right, haven’t been on a date at all this yr since deciding to intentionally walk w the Lord in Mar/Apr ‘24. I even been on the apps, didn’t get asked on one date 😂 but last yr when I was out in the world , was on the apps and dating left and right! completely agree, it’s God’s covering and protection over us, and a lot of times we’re coming in contact with spirits, so the spirits in people also recognize we have that protection on us!
this is so relatable omg I went from getting sm attention to none at all when I got closer to God and Im thinking like is smth wrong with me
This is sooo true omg. I think this is applicable to friendships too. When you take your walk seriously, people who usually befriend you, no longer do it. Only specific people get to do that. God is for sure covering us (his daughters) from both potential friends and partners that aren’t meant to be in our lives.🙌🏾✨✨✨❤️
Yes and I’ve noticed this years ago and it’s a blessing. I try once taking matters into my own hands and omgeeeee I’ll never question God’s plan for my life again!
Yes ! I rarely EVER get approached when I used to get numbers left and right ! I was like is there something wrong with me ? But it makes perfect sense and I’m so thankful for it now. ❤
I can relate lol sometimes I am bothered by it but recently God revealed to me that it’s his protection. Saving me from heartbreak and etc 🙏🏾
I just found your podcast yesterday, and I love it. You’re absolutely right about the Lord’s isolation.
I can so relate. I feel the same way. In 2024 I really started to take notice to it. I said to myself God must have me under a veil because chile nobody approaches me.
While I am grateful for it I guess I just wanted a little affirmation that I am still attractive to the opposite sex.
A little while after I had that thought. I heard someone say you don’t need to be seen by every man the man that is for you will see you.
Right now I am happily single and I only want what God wants for me. When the time is right it will happen naturally.
Thanks for sharing so I know I’m not crazy😅
It’s funny how He thought he was cutting you off your chances with him bc you don’t drink. 😂 God is amazing! Like how does His presence in your life repel men who’s either ill intentioned or less than confident enough to feel he has a chance? Idk but rejection is absolutely Gods protection and I love it‼️🙌🏾
Yess I just get compliments. I was at the gym the other day and this man complimented me then kept it pushing. We are covered
Several months ago, I realized that God had been covering me my entire life. It was the times when I chose to uncover myself that I was exposed to harm.
Now that I’m in my 30s, I’ve chosen to stop pursuing relationships in my own strength and human effort. Instead, I’ve chosen to submit my self to the protection he has always desired to provide me with.
I’m choosing to trust His spirit to guide my husband to me. After all, If he’s faithful to fulfill his word, and guide the beasts of the field to their mates (Isiah 34:16)-Why wouldn’t his spirit guide men and women created in His own image into Christ-centered marriages that would glorify him?
O M G!!! This video was spot on!!! I noticed the same shift and took it as something was wrong with me because men don’t approach me anymore. This was confirmation and clarity that it’s protection! WOW!
Absolutely and I’m grateful for his covering over my life!
Yesss! I’ve been experiencing the same thing in my dating life. Ever since I’ve been in alignment with Christ, I haven’t been getting approached by men at all and I was starting to wonder…like dang do I still got it 😅 but what you said is so true! God has us covered and not sending no mess our way! What’s for you won’t miss you. Our kingdom marriage is coming sis! Keep doing what you’re doing! ❤🙏🏾
You good girl! Thank you for the ENCOURAGENT! I love how you said "Girl, stand up!"
🙂 I decide to enjoy my lonely waiting periode thanks to this video. Cherish my parents company, build my projects, grow my knowledge and faith in God!
26:31 "quality over quantity" AMEN!! 💯 Agree. Everything you said is so true!! It's best to wait on God's timing.
I think I have experienced this and it has been hard for me because of my insecurities. I came to the Lord at 18 and before that I was out here, which is sad because I was so young. At that point though everything was cut off... It has been a challenge because I've failed so much and have been desperate because I'm always trying to "just make it work" because I have seen that hiding as a barrier, rather than a blessing. God has been so faithful to me though I have not been. The enemy is often speaking lies to me about the fact Im getting older and my time is almost up or that this must be happening because I'm such a horrible person. UGH I really hate the devil he does not fight fair at all. But I appreciate this topic and am going to take addressing my insecurities more seriously so I can be confidently hidden and stop floundering and moving from under God's wing.
I had been feeling this way and even spoke about it to a friend recently, and this just gave me the peace I needed to be okay with being covered by God until I am ready to be revealed to the people, places, and things meant for me. 💕
My jaw FELL on the floor when you said 30th birthday!! You genuinely look so early twenties
Yes! I feel the same. And I appreciate the protection 🙏🏽
I really relate to the things about guys not asking me out anymore! I really did realize that God has someone absolutely wonderful for me and I just need to wait. It gets hard being young and longing for a relationship but knowing what God has in store for me helps a lot!
I can def attest to this, once I got serious about my self love and discernment over who I allow into my life it's like a filter around me. I've been celibate for over a year and even people who have potential as a future partner I've noticed the resistance/delay on us connecting, knowing that even if someone is my divine compliment we both have to be at a point that's conducive for a healthy and purposeful relationship
yes girl. ever since I've been leaning into my relationship with God the same has happened to me- it feels like Ive been made invisible. But I'm super grateful for it because I know there's a reason that God has hidden me. Plus- I would rather not have my time wasted. Love this video.
This was good. I’ve definitely been experiencing the same thing and it affected my confidence. I thought I lost my aura points lol but the Lord is just hiding me for a greater purpose❤️. This gave me hope.
I couldn’t agree with you more!! I can relate to how guys interact with me lately. It used to frustrate me also but I’m SO thankful for God’s protection!
Same for me and I knew God was protecting me for my husband. New subbie! My initials are AW also. Wow! Great content…
Absolutely when I said this resonated with me 10000000000% it truly did and it’s crazy bc although I do approached often it never goes anywhere….I just chalked it up as my introverted nature and I’ve had my share of love and relationships but I am noticing that things have definitely shifted thank you for this discussion because it hit home I am thankful and giving God all the Glory for His protection!!!!!!
This definitely spoke to me. I’ve been feeling like this for a few months now, I’m like Jesus I ain’t fione no more?! No but seriously, this was great. As u spoke I start to reflect on how I was b4..dating just to say I had something happening in my life, but in reality I ain’t want those people! lol ..Or the ones I liked, it would just end suddenly …and in the worst of ways. So although lonely and bored sometimes.,I’m super grateful for the growth that’s come forth🙌🏼.
Thank you for this message! I remember a few years ago, going on date after date and experiencing the worst from those men and I literally told the Lord, “hide me for my husband!” And when I say he is doing just that..because I have seen a significant decrease in getting approached by men. It started to mess with my self esteem but then the Lord reminded me of what I prayed! I have faith and patiently waiting well! 🙌🏾
If God has put it in your heart, obey him, everything else will follow and work out, change your name if God has instructed you to ❤
Yes, this has been happening to me for quite some time. Thank you for shading more light on it. I’m grateful for God’s protection. Men compliment and show kindness through gestures but not ask me out 😊. I was starting to feel I like you were like unwanted but nope. This has cleared that up
I loved this. This was the first video I've seen of yours and now I feel so encouraged to know there are other young single women who are pursuing God first. Thank you so much for this video, beautiful!!
I love the direction of your channel. I saw clips of you when you used to talk about relationships, but that discourse was never my cup of tea personally, but once you came out for Christ, I hit follow. I’m so happy for you my sister in Christ. You look beautiful, as always. 🙏🏾💕💅🏾
Oh my goodness yes! I prayed for God’s discernment & protection in finding my husband and I’ve hardly had a date. I know that this is his protection! Thank you for sharing that with us. Praise the Lord for his protection! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Perfect timing , I'm having the same experiences with men and it been a year with my walk with the Lord. ❤😊 Hours ago I was reading the book of Ruth and I'm currently in the Ruth season.
I wish every woman who desires to be married and have a God centered marriage would come across your video or another video with the same truth centered message!!!!
Jesus is Amazing!!!!!!!!
Thank you, Amani. There are so many gems 💎 in this clip. May God continue to bless you❤
I still get approached at gas stations when I don’t wear makeup by all kinds of booger bears and it irks me so much! But on days where I’m full glam hardly anyone comes for me. It’s really a flex when you’re not getting approached as much anymore!
This is crazzzzy, yes . I just had this conversation this my mom and aunt , it’s God protecting me. My goodness I can definitely attest to this
Hidden gems are God’s favorite jewels! Love this! 🩷🥹💎
Yes I so relate! I noticed it also happened when o reached a certain age. I think that says a lot about some men and who they are praying on. I also think it has to do with knowing who you are and whose you are! You are not seeking and desperate! You are content! I think men can sense that and won’t try it because they know you aren’t easy. I have had this conversation soooo many times because it feels like it has been YEARS!!!
The story about Ruth was what we learned in church on Sunday ❤❤❤
Yes!! I love this video 😊 and definitely can relate! Thank you for sharing this! ❤
Thank you . This is so honest and true.Minding your business and doing the last thing God told you to do . Delighting yourself in the lord.
This is probably one of the best podcasts ive watched with the bestttt wisdom God bless you !
Dating is a waste of time. I did that. A complete waste. None of them. So it's better to sit back, relax, and wait😊
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Hi Amani! I just came across this video and your title caught me attention. I listened and I can honestly say I've been going through the same thing since deciding to walk with Christ. God is covering us and preparing us just for who He has for us. ❤🙏🏾🙌🏾
I saw your video but didn’t click, the Lord kept putting into my spirit hiding in plain sight. And I resonate with this. I made peace initially it was disheartening because I am believing God for marriage. But I trust God and his process
Never saw it that way what a beautiful revelation. May God give you all the viewers and subscribers who are meant for your purpose🙌🏼
Thank God!!!!! And thank you for putting out this video Ma’am.
24:30 I needed to hear this. I was asking myself in my head, “Am I serving the Lord? Should I be doing something else?” And right when you said that I realized that God’s purpose is always working and as long as we glorify Him we are serving Him.
I really enjoyed this podcast, I was just scrolling through TH-cam and came across it and I was led to watch this video! a quick subscribe and like. Absolutely love your podcast. I pray the Lord will continue to use you to reach the world!
Yes I used to be approached, Dmd, quite literally sought after. But I prayed and asked God for my husband “the one he has for me!” And I still get complimented and what not but there is no further pursuance. And that is a constant reminder that God wants me to focus and chase him and no one else
Yesss the covering of our LORD and Savior is active in the realm of the spirit🙌🏽🙏🏾💙
You are changing lives beautiful queen !!!
I find people get so bad at me now. And it’s always the lukewarm ones.
really enjoyed this message, my first time here!!!! Holy Spirit knew I needed this message.
Thank you for sharing this topic I feel so wholesome it’s like I’m having a full circle moment ❤
So so so soooo happy to be affirmed that I’m just a part of the number of Gods daughters whom He’s protecting 🤎🤎🤎
Im Gods girl before anyone else!" That really touched my heart thank you and God bless you!
I have noticed this a lot too. I’m just 19 but I have never been asked out, just complimented. This video was eye opening. I always just thought I wasn’t worthy of a relationship but I’m working on my relationship with God and I believe his will is more beautiful and good than mine ❤
Note: I’ve never seen this channel before. I think this was just what I needed to hear tonight.
GOD I THANK YOU FOR YOUR PURPOSE FOR EACH OF YOUR CHILDREN!
If God is putting it on your spirit, change the name.
I can definitely relate, men don’t approach me like they used to!! It’s almost as if they’re intimidated by me now because they can sense the Jesus in me and no longer feel comfortable asking me out and wasting my time so they just drop a compliment and leave 😅😂
Maam your so special and I love you with all my heart. Im a 10 year old who loves jesus
You should change it to “ Amani Talks with God “ it just came in my spirit ❤
Girlll I saw the caption and I was like I think I will relate with this and I really do!! Ever since I decided to take my relationship with God seriously it feels like God has been hiding me for some reasons. Men would literally take my number and never text me… which is new. I was like it definitely gotta be God protecting me for some reason!!
I feel like I’ve been hidden for years. I’m 19 and I still haven’t met anyone except for when I was 16 but only once. Ik I’m still young but it would be nice to at least experience something real. It gets really lonely like I know God has plans for me but a lot of the times I just get sad being with him.
Story of my life! For the past few years, I’ve always said "God is hiding me for a reason " 🙏🏾😢
❤ Thanks for this! ❤
This was so good and so relatable! Love this ❤
💯💯 Well I can relate from a woman perspective but I can definitely relate from a male perspective. Once I realigned myself and ask for wisdom knowledge and understanding.Let Your Will Be Done. He hide me in plain sight. I could really go on for days with some of the topics you discuss on your channel. Good content. You popped up on my feed and been listening all night on the road. I am now a new subscriber 🙏🏾💯
Wow this is so true! I had a conversation with a friend recently and I was telling them that I think God is blocking me and blinding me. I have the same interactions! I also don’t find people attractive or interesting!
This was awesome! Thank you so much!
That season of isolation is right before the elevation! This is a great episode! I’m going to share! ❤
I just love your intensity as a woman❤ like I know you really don’t play just by the way you speak😂 This was so helpful. A much needed conversation. I’ve always watched you but now that we’re sisters in Christ, Im tuned in fr!
If the lord put it on your heart to change the name then you should definitely do so!!
Don’t worry about what people know you as the lord will bring in whoever needs to be here!
I’m 17 and I don’t really get approach to at all, I guess because I’m still young but at the same time it makes me feel disappointed being the only friend who haven’t dated even once or even haven’t given her first kiss. However I think it’s better to wait in the Lord and have my heart intact my whole life waiting for the one he has for me 🙏🏾
Above all of this love and always seek God, but One day you will be 22/23 and you’ll realize the least of your cares or attention should go towards a man, especially not one that doesn’t even have interest in the connection he has to the perfect love of Christ . It’s so normal to feel this way too but just know ,We are given so many blessings in youth please look into creative things you can do in school, after school whether that’s science or cosmetology school or management , etc, pray for bravery, pray for creativity, get money & save for when you get ideas for good times and love on your community like Christ loved it, and do the hard things like sticking to a Bible plan and forgive those who wronged you -keeping people you don’t have boundaries with at a distance. And appreciate your friends dearly. The world and our harmones are deceitful as to what will bring us joy but trust me it is not in a boy n will never be for long, but seeking the Kingdom first, will help you navigate that person when the timing is right.
You're doing right young lady! Wait on God to send you the right person because it's going to be the best and you don't have to go through all these issues that other people have gone through. Like she said take it as God's protection.❤
Trust me it's best this way! This was the exact same thing at your age and I have never regretted it! Just know God deeper and deeper in His word and prayer & at the right time it'll happen. He already knows - He's the perfect orchestrator so just wait and worship
What everyone else is doing isn’t Gods best. I was pregnant at 15. You don’t need a relationship now. It sounds easy for me to say but get to know yourself and God. There’s a time for relationships. Enjoy college. Travel. Find out what you like and don’t like.
I relate to your message I'm 17 too and i know the struggle of feeling left out but rather choose purity and wait for the one that God has for u,it's worth it to wait for a Man of God!!
Needed to hear this ❤
This is the story of my life 😂 glad to finally understand. Now I can stop questioning the reason and appreciate it! Thanks for the insight ❤
Yes I have experienced a difference in how guys react to me as well. I am older and thought it was that but no I realize it's God's covering ..and I am thankful.
I don’t know if this is confirmation that I needed to watch this video but my initials are A.W. and I felt the Lord directed me to this video! Thank you so much for sharing this video! I needed to hear this more than you know!