CHRISTIAN GIRL CHAT| let’s talk modesty + secular music + growing in Christ + sin & more!
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My secular music testimony: I have always been a social butterfly. Did cheer my whole life and have yelled acting goofy, doing dances in front of thousands in my cheer career. I graduate hs and continue working and going to college. Out of no where I get social anxiety, extreme paranoia, and insomnia. God put it on my heart that our tongues speak life and what we allow our eyes to see and ears to hear have impact. I realized singing those violent songs was speaking death over myself and hearing secular music was making an impact to my thought life. The same week I swapped to only Christian music I had 2 girls I’ve never seen before come up to me at work and ask to pray for me. In the cereal aisle the girl praying asks God to calm my anxiety, give me peace and comfort, even asks Him to give me a good nights rest tn. I was SHOOK. I knew God was showing me through them that He was hearing my prayers and seeing my struggles. After she finished the other girl looked at me and said “God showed me a vision of you singing Christian music in your car” The gasp I gusped😧. She then said “He wants you to continue to do that” Now I’m crying by the fruit loops at work. I told them my story and told them to continue to do what they do bc they make a difference. After that I had to take my 15min break because I was a wreckkkk. That was over 2 years ago and now I post a “Daily Concert” along with my Christian playlists to help expose people to different styles of Christian music.
Amen!!
I really want to stop listening to secular music. Do you have a spotify gospel playlist?
I have three on my page available to the public!
I have three on my page available to the public!
Amen, I have a similar story ❤
Lately I’ve been living luke warm. I listen to gospel music and mostly just that when I’m alone but when I’m with others I feel the need to play secular music even when they don’t ask. My flesh caters to the world easily when I’m around others, I cuss and gossip. I don’t want to be that person, I want to be who God want me to be, please pray for me, I’m learning to walk BODLY in God’s word.
You'll get there friend🫂🫶🏼❤️
God loves you, may God bless you
“Let her be content with the circumstances she has now, while still giving her room to dream for more!😭🙌🏾”…thank you Maya🥹
This one spoke to me as well🙏🏽
I haven’t been feeling that fire and desire to fix my relationship with God as I found myself drifting away from him. I know how wonderful life is when my relationship with God is strong and I love the person I am when I have God flowing in my being. Picking my Bible up is very hard and praying is even harder. I can’t seem to separate myself from the word and it’s killing me because I want to better my relationship with God and for it to be what it was before! Hearing you saying that you won’t always feels that fire and that it takes time to get there comforts me. Me wanting to fix that relationship says something and I pray that God lights up that fire in my heart and that he gives me the strength to fight this world and to fight my flesh. I pray that he gives me the desire and want. I can’t do this by myself but I know anything is possible if it’s done with the Lord. May he work his wonders into my life and bring me back to him. I pray in his holy name, Amen.
I relate to you a lot with this comment. I’ve been also struggling with this I’m not sure if this will help you at all but it has helped me by deleting the social media apps off of my phone. I have no idea if that is contributing to your struggle but Jesus is with you and knows what you’re going through all of it! I haven’t been able to pick my Bible up but I read James this morning and deleted it and that has helped. God is with you!
Figure out what are the biggest distractions you may have while chilling with God (reading, praying, talking, meditating). Social media , thoughts and even tiredness can be used as distractions. I think if you commune with God, although you may not “feel” like it, it can begin to make you feel closer to him. He’s always near but sometime we do kinda lose interest. It SUCKS! But a good thing too Is to keep people around you who is strong in their walk and take things day by day. Watch sermons on what you’re feeling or podcasts. This walk is a relationship and it takes intentional love. I know exactly how you feel though.
I can agree with your comment 😭🙏🏾💖
I understand but staying away from your Bible and not praying isn’t going to help! This is when you run to God full force! Deny your thoughts and your flesh of this negative thing and continue to pray more and continue to read the Bible more. Pray and ask God to bring that fire back! And he will but FIRST you must put in the work. Read Matthew, reading about Jesus brings so much joy to me and I hope it does the same for you. I love you and I pray for all of yall strength
@@angeldenise6911 I will do that! Thank you🫂❤️
I screenshot literally 30 min ago where I saw someone use the analogy saying refusing to pray because of your sins is like refusing to take a bath because you’re dirty. I was going to send it to someone in particular that has a legalistic view and believes completely that they’re too far from God and because of their sin that God won’t hear their prayers. So he refuses to pray. No coincidences! And! I was just thinking like an hour ago how much harder it is to talk to those we know well about the gospel, friends and family are the most defensive, especially when you bring up that they’re sinners, no matter how much in love we say it… but we still have to glorify Him and spread the truth, the way, the LIFE!
God is GREAT, He is above everything. I need to pray and seek more fellow Christians to have as friends because I have very few people that believe in Him and they have a religious view instead of a personal relationship…
And yes, it is ALL that deep. EVERYTHING is spiritual. ❤ keep spreading the gospel Maya! ✝️
I still occasionally smoke weed. But I’m currently pregnant with my rainbow baby so I’ve quit cold turkey. But before I found out I was pregnant every time I smoked I felt guilty. My husband is a “pothead” and has smoked it since he was 11. And every time he don’t have it to smoke he becomes mean and angry. I’m constantly praying for him. I think even after I give birth in February I’m not gonna smoke anymore I’m feeling really convicted about it.
I stopped smoking after the decision to not abort my baby which was all spirit lead. Such a beautiful gift and shift of life. I quit cold turkey and honestly the journey 2 years later has been graced beautifully. I feel more clear and energetic day to day. I now understand that the abuse of the marijuana plant is not right. People may say it is for medicinal reasons or for mental health and while that may be true we have to seek the Lord to bring true and complete healing. Keep warring for your husband. Ask the Lord to reveal to him his addiction to bring up the root to the surface. Repent for unknowingly encouraging his usage. be patient the Lord will hear you and he will answer accordingly. Best to you and your family❤
Marijuana is not the way to go thank God you quit stay strong
Supporting you @kaylaburch21
I stopped smoking completely after my pregnancy.
I felt this I too stopped cold turkey when I became pregnant my daughter is 3 now and I tried smoking soon after having her but I would always feel sick to my stomach and just super anxious and jittery. My boyfriend still smokes and drinks heavily and I’m praying he soon is delivered we have to just keep them in prayer and be the example of righteous living and God will work everything out as he plans . I pray for a safe and healthy pregnancy, delivery, and a healthy baby for you. God bless you 💕
Listen to the Lord and lean to Him because in our weakest moments He gives I strength!
I’m a wardrobe stylist that specializes in modest fashion and one thing I find discouraging is seeing Christian women shame each other on what their preferences of modesty should look like as if it’s a one size fits all. Modesty looks different on everyone. Individuality in the Lord is a beautiful thing 🧡
I love how you said you would never wear a turtle neck cause I’m the same way fr 😭 it’s not my personal style preference.. However some of my clients request me to find them some and it looks so cute on them styled up!
I was just saying this it’s been a debate on if ppl should share their spiritual journey with social media but you have shown just how beautiful accepting God into your life is he can literally create anyone into a clean heart and it hits so close to home for me because i definitely was very worldly in my teens and in my 20s God has given me new eyes I am no longer bound to who I used to be!
I really wanna transition into modesty. God has really been putting it on my heart. I love how you said it was a slow transition because I’m realizing it’s gonna take me awhile to rebuild my closet and style! I’m excited though.☺️
“IT IS THAT DEEP” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Okayyyyy!
You are so right about the secular music. As children of God, our lifestyle should glorify him. Secular music certainly does not glorify God nor does it edify our spirit.
The points about secular music are really good! It really impacts your mood and that used to have me in a chokehold because it was something that allowed me to be “in” and I let it be part of my identity. But, listening to worship, praise, and other types of gospel music has been life changing. The Bible says “speaking to yourselves in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord;”
Ephesians 5:19 KJV
Just started the video but I know the secular music is the one I struggle with the most 😭😭😭 because I feel like you can listen to both as long as your heart posture is in check but I know it’s so controversial and it can be a slippery slope depending what you’re listening to😭
Hello, I feel the urge to share this with you , I was of the same school of thought till the Lord finally delivered me through His Word. James 3:11-13 talks about how a spring can’t produce both fresh and salty water. The music may seem “normal, not harmful,just a feel good song” but you have to think about who it’s from. My thoughts are, as long as whoever made the song isn’t a follower of Jesus(and we confirm this by looking at their fruits) then the music they make does not glorify God even if they say things like “thank you God”.
It was a struggle at first for me to give it up but the HolySpirit helped me. Also they’re wonderful Christian artists in several genres that make music that glorifies the savior. It’s been 4 years and I only listen to gospel/ Christian music. If He did it for me , He can and will certainly do it for you if you let Him.
Sending you love❤
Stay blessed!
i felt the same way until the holy spirit gave me that CONVICTION and lemme tell you i feel so much peace now and more intimacy with God now.
God showed me that a lot of artist i’m listening to disrespect and mock God. A lot of artist also use dark magic in their music to get famous. They also make music which goes against song (whether explicit or just glamorizing sin) And i thought to myself why do i find pleasure in things that go against God.
AND GIRLLL when i tell u i loved secular music i had tons of playlists and i would listen to all types of music all day. But i still sacrificed it for Jesus and let go of that idol. I did because i loved Jesus more than i loved secular music and to be obedient to him.
i didn’t understand why i had to let go of secular music but i still trusted Gods understanding above mine. the day after i deleted all my playlist God gave me so much peace. And till this day i have so much revelations and see so many things i wouldn’t have if i were still listening to secular music. secular music was truly blinding but now i am free.
i have a lot of playlist on apple music my used is “elannia” God bless you 💕💕💕
@@elani9624 I’ve never even thought of it like that thank you so so so much 😭😭😭😭
@@berylachiambo6969 I can’t thank you enough for this break down 😭😭😭 this makes so much sense!
Thank you again so so so much!
i was literally just talking to my friend about how i was beginning to feel lukewarm in my faith, and how scared i was of the idea. and the first thing that popped up on my youtube was this... whew the Lord knew i needed to hear this
GIRL YOU’RE ALMOST AT 500k!!!!😆🥳🥂♥️
i’m sure everything hasn’t been easy and perfect but motherhood and being a wife and child of God just looks so peaceful on you we can see the fruit of the spirit on you flourishing
Definitely needed to hear this. I’ve been struggling with my journey for some time now. And that quote that you mentioned, “Be mindful of the way that you live your life, because you can potentially be the only Bible somebody reads” hit deep. As believers we are the light of the world, and we need to set an example for those around us, especially unbelievers. God bless🙏🏽❤️
This came right on timeee!!! God recently convicted me of living a lukewarm life and I chose a side and that side is the side of the Most High, Jesus Christ. Secular music and how I was dressing was a big one for me, and the way I got rid of all of my music that would draw me away from God I knew it was the Holy Spirit working through me because I am a music head. I can’t thank God enough for his grace and mercy and for saving my soul! I love this video!
The prayer at the end literally felt like you were praying for ME. Bought me to tears. The past three years have been a WHIRLWIND. I was in love and realized the man I decided to have a child with was rather the opposite of who I thought he was 8 months into my pregnancy. He became extremely abusive in my pregnancy and beyond. He left us when my son was 4 months old and I cant even put into words how difficult things have been spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and financially the past three years of getting fired from my job and laid off from two others. It is almost impossible not to feel like you have been forgotten about. Partnered with a deep love for love and all dating being an absolute disaster to this day. I am finally getting closer to God. Ive been prayong hard even though it very much felt for a long time like I was talking to nothing. Three years of no good news will definitely do that to you. A year of unemployment will do that to you. I drove for Lyft and that ate away at my pride. I knew how capable I was with sales and marketing experience and driving for lyft felt like a waste of my brain. Not even mentioning a custody battle, 18,000 dollars in unpaid child support, and an ex that does literally nothing for our child but takes time out to belittle me. Alot of weed and drinking to survive the storm.
All to say, thank you Jesus. I worked hard and got my real estate license and i finally got the job of my dreams in new home sales. I always asked God what I did to deserve the way ive been treated and the way life was going and He told me one day I will ask the same thing but in awe of the life around me and the things ill accomplish. Three years I couldnt see it, but I finally can. Im surely experiencing alot of imposter syndrome. I genuinely cant believe something GOOD happened. Something I genuinely wanted and needed. But its finally happening. I SEE GOD.
I want so badly to achieve marriage but with everything coming im trying to accept that this just may not be the time. And like I said earlier - I love love. And thats the problem. I need to love God more than I do romantic love. He knows if I got my husband right now - ill admit - id drown in that man and lose sight and therefore lose my relationship. Its so hard to silence that deep desire but switching to praying for my husband and his life currently has been life changing and a great reminder that this is in His hands. This have been dry and barren as far as dating but I just have confidence my husband is praying for me to, and praying nobody comes into my life to hurt and use me. All to say - I see Jesus now. I was in the dark but maintained my faith. And now I SEE HIM. And ill never leave him again ❤️ im trying to transfer over to Christian content only and Lord help me get away from secular music and dive into Christian music. The process is processing, but just thank you Jesus for bringing god fearing women like you to my phone .
This video has brought me to tears 😭😭 “he can only equip you with what he knows you can handle” this has been in my spirit for so long I’ve been asking God for certain things that haven’t happened yet and it’s made me feel like God has forgotten about me and hasn’t heard my cries and I haven’t to realize he’s just pruning me for the desires he has placed in my heart and I just couldn’t hold it in Maya thank you so much for this video 😭😭😭 I have had the song All Things Are Working by Josh Copeland all week and it resonates with me and the prayer felt like he was speaking through you for me 😭😭😭
Thank you. At the end of 2023 I did a secular music detox just to get some positivity and clarity before entering 2024. It was a refreshing and needed time. Ironically, four days before 2024, I found out I was pregnant with my first child...a Blessing I never expected/imagined. Unfortunately, I miscarried, and since I'm just I don't know... feeling lost, questioning everything, not talking to or going to GOD, and instead praying as if I'm going through the motions smh.
God is with the brokenhearted. Psalm 34
@@isabelarodriguez6529 Thank you!🙏🏽
So close to 500k🥹🥹🥹
I am so glad you made this!
Beautiful needed to hear this❤❤❤
This blessed me so much ❤
Yes love needed this right about now ❤
Thank you for this honestly I needed to hear this...❤️🙏🏼
From self care to the most important self care which is inner work!!! You are doing amazing love🥹🥹 thank you so much for all these gems 🫶🏾🥰
Indeed!🤍
I was waiting on one of these videos ✝️🤲🏼💓
YAY MAYA!! so excited for this vid
BABBYYYY I just love this content
This came on time for me. So needed
Thank you maya ❤
This message was so blessed! Thank you!
thank you muchh for sharing with us these things ! , may God bless you 🫶🏽
We need more of these girl ❤
Thank you for taking your time to explain your answers.
Thank you for this video, very much needed, and thank you for your prayers. God Bless you always.
I absolutely love this series!!! Please continue to make these videos 🩷🙏🏼
This was beautiful Maya thank you and thank God for using you❤
Thank you Maya for your prayer! ☺️
I absolutely loveeee our chats… and The Chosen!!!!!!!!!!!! It is sooo eye opening
You’re always such a blessing to watch🤍🤍we love you
Thank you for this content!!! 💓🫶🏽
Bless you my sister, thank you so much for this girl chat 💜💜💜
this really spoke to me 💕. God bless you
Thank you so much girl,loved this
And thanks for that prayer definitely needed it🙏🏾♥️
I love these sit down and chat videos so much! Thank you for being transparent with us ❤️
I absolutely loved this! Thank you so much ❤❤❤
Thank you for this ❤
What a powerful video and testimony.
I needed this🥺❤️ you are truly a vessel. Restoration came through you in this season😭🔥
Such a beautiful and powerful prayer at the end!! God bless you!!
Maya G back at it again with another video! I love this segment, 1000% keep doing these.
Love this Maya!!
This was really realistic & needed tbh
This video was such a blessing! I am literally in tears 😭😭Thank you for making this video!! May God continue to bless you!!
This was so good! ❤ I’m glad I found you.
Thank you for doing this video, The wisdom you possess at your age is so amazing. You truly have a calling. I needed this message 🙌🙌
I love this!! Everything was on point! Thank you for sharing🩷
Love this so much
This was so dope❤
Congratulations 🥳 for 500k❤️
This video just gained you a new follower! Loved everything you had to say girl!
Thank you for this video Maya❤
wow thank you so much for this, your transformation is inspiring !!
You are a breath of fresh air in today's society.
this is such a beautiful video, thank you for this Maya💞
This is real good ❤
Just beautiful video thank you so much sis in Christ ❤️🥹
I love everything about this omg thanks for sharing your experience thoughts etc I’m working on my spiritual journey & it is beyond amazing GOD bless you sis needed this!!!🫶🏾🙏🏾💜
This video helped me a lot! Thank you so much for posting this 💞🫶 God bless all of you!
I love when you end the video with prayer Maya thanks girl ❤🫶
That prayer at the end>>> girl thank you🫶🏿🫶🏿
We loved thisss sis!! Please make more faith content! God anointed your for this!! 😍🙏🏽❤️
thank you so much for this video. it’s so honest and motivating and just amazing. God is so good for using you to make this video. Thank you sister! 🩷🥲
Love this video and the obedience & grace to share your walk with us. It is not in vain !❤
Beautiful conversation ❤ and thank you for the prayer 🙏🏾
Your words on marriage brought me so much peace. Thank you for sharing.
Amen! That was such a beautiful and powerful prayer I really needed that!praise God! I loved this!! Thank you Maya for being so real and honest this really was so helpful and such a blessing!
MAYA!!!!!! 👏 THAT PRAYER BABY!!!!! 👏👏👏
i love every single one of your videos girl
I needed this so much I recently gone back to church .
This was amazing and so full of God’s love and awesomeness 🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️ I can testify to all of this and stand in agreement with you on all that was spoke on Sis. This was so encouraging to my spirit & walk with Christ!
thank you for sharing this Maya, i been watching your videos & following your insta since you were literally in hs. And am happy for the lives you’ve changed since and now, I really needed this. May God bless your family 🤍
Big sister energy! Thank you for sharing. I'd love to see more of these.
Girl, good job answering the questions. God is so good! When we humble ourselves God will do wonders!!!!Love u Maya
Love this chat! I love seeing people go through their own personal journey and being able to see the REAL of it all can really help others in their own personal walks. We will constantly be growing and getting closer to Christ and that’s the beauty of it all. You talked about all of this so well and so gracefully ♥️
That prayer at the end almost had me in tears because that was for me!
love this video so much 🩷🫶🏽
Just what I needed to hear! Got me through my 2 mile walk today. And that prayer was speaking to me. God bless 🙏🏾❤
I really loved this❤️, love how you mention he gives you peace nd calmness and I’m in need of all that and prayers, I been having this fear of swallowing my food it’s a lil weird but it’s been heavy in my mind I really pray I overcome it
Thank you Maya! God is using you for his kingdom 🙏🏼
Girl I needed this. God really puts things into perspective. I have
neem feelimg so far from God. Thank you girl!!!!!❤
I am glad that he has reached you, and held onto me when I needed it just like right now coming across this video. I needed that prayer today, thank you for sharing your story there is so much that we miss. Amen.
That prayer Maya!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for the prayer at the end of your video, I feel like that was truly meant for me! I'm so glad to be your subby sister in Christ ever since I've been watching your channel, I've learned so much from you at the big age I am, but overall, your channel has been such a blessing to my life❤🥰
GIRL there was a peace 🕊️ an entire peace over me listening to you speak and pray and testify! I loved this and already love you sis! Wow just wow. Sent this to all my friends and even my hubby because we all need a piece of what you're putting down today!! Thank you so much for making this! ❤✋🤗
Hi, I was like let me see if Maya posted and here it is! Wow. Such a great video so far.
So many good points in this video! This is why I love your videos, as a young Christian girl I aspire to be like you in so many ways! Thank you for this video, Maya. You are a blessing 🩷
Amen 🙏🏾 Loved this ❤ Thank you for sharing and letting God use you 🙏🏾