Once you are saved you are ALWAYS saved. The Bible is very clear that you cannot lose your salvation. To be able to lose salvation means that you play a part in your own salvation which is not true. If you can lose something that means you found it to begin with. And we do not save ourselves. The Lord holds our salvation. If a saved person tells a lie and dies before asking for forgiveness, hell is not their destination.
@@jasminegreen2979I agree. It's a complex topic, but we can specifically look to Matthew 7:21-23. This is Christ saying these words. Being "saved" does not mean anything if your salvation is spoken with your mouth, but does not reside in the depths of your heart. Another scripture to point to is Matthew 15:8. It's possible to profess that Christ is your Lord and savior, but to not allow that belief to transform how you live. Of course Romans 10:9-10, which is the salvation prayer states that "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved". So once someone is truly saved, by professing it with their mouth, and also believing it in their heart, that salvation is everlasting. However the reality is that a lot of people out here that state that they are saved, or believe that they are saved, have hearts that are far from God and that belief in Him never truly got anchored in their heart. So it isn't as simple as, I got saved when I was 20, lived how I wanted to live, was an enemy to God and His children, but deaths knocking at my door and my destination is still heaven. It doesn't work like that, when you're a willing worker of iniquity. Of course, in the context that Amani states in her comment however, of course if you're a true believer in God, and you love Him, and you fall short in an area prior to death, your heaven card isn't revoked. It all comes down to our heart posture truly, and whether or not our belief and reverence for The Lord is simply lip service or if it's the real thing. Only God can judge that, but His beautiful Word certainly gives us a guide to gauge where we are and what is/isn't acceptable. Great video Amani, and im loving your content 💗
@@AmaniWortham you can definitely forfeit your salvation though, and then what? -“Keep working out your own salvation with fear and trembling.”-Philippians 2:12. -Heb. 3:12-14 -Mark 13:13 -Phil.3:12-14 -John 15:1-6
@@jasminegreen2979 Amen! 1 Timothy 4:1 and James 5 the last two verses of that chapter tells us we can leave the Faith and leave the Truth.These people are decieved thinking once saved, always saved.1 Timothy 4:1 says in the last days some shall depart from the faith .Which mean at one time they were saved and in the faith.But in the last days will depart from that faith in JESUS.The word of GOD is very clear on this.
Babyyyy one thing about God is that he will move SWIFTLY!!! When you ask him to remove people who do not align, not only will he answer the prayer but he will not renege! You can pray for the Lord to change his mind, we can compromise but the Lord is faithful & he’s a gentlemen & his WILL, will be done. You are absolutely right, we have free will but it’s limited.
Ahhhh Amani the same thing happened to me. It got so crazy he tried to play Christian for me but when I started standing on business he said that I was “doing too much” LOL. I had a dream that he left me for someone else and I could not get a full night of rest next to him! God not only broke off our relationship but didn’t allow me to move miles away from my family. Maannn how my life has changed. I just had a nightmare about him the other day while on my FIRST fast ever.
I had a dream he was leaving like 3 years ago, In ‘22. Woke up crying, he said he would not leave me. Dude ended up leaving in October of 23 and God told me to let him go. I did and he left. I promise you it feels hard, but once it’s done and all over it’s like a breath of fresh air. Hard, YES. Worth it, YES! Listen to God. This guy was giving me so much spiritual warfare that it was crazy.
Thank you for sharing your testimony. Thinking of all those Tik toks that were clowning talm bout oh she broke up with a good man, a good man ain’t enough for yall. Meanwhile you were encountering spiritual WARFARE. Imagine nightmares every night smh thank you for speaking truth!
Yep! I grew up in the church too, was saved at 10 but I became disobedient when I was a teenager until I was 22. Had a boyfriend at the time, ended up being very convicted about the relationship and also didn't want him in that way anymore and God gave me the courage to break up with him (took 3 years) The Lord snatched me back up at 23!! I'll be 25 in March. I love how you break everything down in your story ❤
Girl LITERALLY the EXACT thing happened to me! Age and all 😭I turned 25 in November and rededicated at 23 after backsliding as well. I pray your strength in the Lord to keep going 🩷
@ManiyaGrice Omg yes! ❤️ Praise God you're back in the zone! Thank you so much sister I pray that God continues to strengthen you and help you stay encouraged on your walk 💗
The fact that I’m going through the same conviction and I got notified when you dropped this video it has to be the Holy Spirit….I actually broke up already last month because the relationship isn’t Godly, if I’m being honest he distracts me from my walk with God but still I went back to him out of fear and ‘what if I made the wrong decision’ and now it seems even harder to let go…. Now I’m just confused,I over think a lot, i don’t know how to break up for the second time & I feel like God won’t help me I have to do it myself…
This popped up on my YT feed and I’m inspired by your testimony!! I have 3 kids with this man, but I cannot help but feel like I am a single mother. And I can’t help but feel I’m gonna regret leaving him but I cannot shake this anger and feeling of needing to leave! Maybe I need to dig deeper into my relationship with God to fully hear him. ❤ thank you for sharing!!
I was in a relationship with a godly man and I felt something was off the entire time, but I kept saying no this is good cause he loves God and is devoting his life to Christ too. But I was so exhausted, when I finally broke up with Him I no longer felt tired or restricted from living out my purpose in Christ. You are right, sometimes our callings in the kingdom aren’t aligned. God uses the Holy Spirit to speak to us, we just gotta submit and stop being stubborn 😂
@ not an excuse, I was more of a go getter and hospitality type of individual, and he was more of a observe and pray. I learned a lot from him by not always having to take action because not everything is my responsibility. He also learned a lot from me to be more active than passive. However, he didn’t really move to support me in the ministries I was serving in, but he also said he desired serving in a ministry together with his life long partner. Kind of paradoxical. Long story short, he felt like he wasn’t himself, and I felt like I had to keep myself contained to keep him content. There were other things, but even the community around me said they felt like he wasn’t the one for me. God spoke to me in my quiet time, I saw things (especially in hindsight), and he shared his views as well. I didn’t have peace, and now that I am single and serving God I have so much peace, and I’m fully focused on Him
What women have to understand, is society and the world and culture can, and do unfortunately affect "Christian" women. I know of a "Christian" woman who was trying to date and she wanted to be "supported" doing Ministry. This requirement and request sounds very innocent, until women read their Bible and learn Ministry is NOT just the Church and or organization or building. The Apostle Paul uses marriage as example, men love your wife as Christ loves the Church. So there has to be a prepared and smooth transition from dating to marriage and "women" knowing, understanding and accepting their role in the home, church, community and workplace. We can look at Ruth, after reading Ruth's story, Ruth needed Naomi to explain to her, when Boaz was interested. Now my Sister, I personally do not know you, and one size do NOT always fit all. But what I will say is there are a lot of carnal, modern women in the Church, attempting to use, " their ministry and calling" as an excuse not to accept another blessing, which can be marriage, God can have for them. Like was stated, many beautiful, godly, fit, educated, successful women want to be married and supported in ministry ok sounds good. But now there is women saying we Brothers should follow you women to your Church. Or we men should allow you women to be the "pastor's adjutant" which is inappropriate. God is always first, but women, black, white and whatever race, have to be prepared to allow their husband to be the leader and or pastor, or like the Brother said, women can be using Church as an excuse to be "independent" and modern and masculine and not submissive. Bishop Cameron I Nelson Ministries-Memphis, Knoxville, Brentwood ( Men's Monumental Conference- Akron)
God told my aunty to leave her boyfriend when she gave her life to Christ 10+ years later the Lord gave her her husband who is now a Pastor and they serve the lord together accros the World
This is powerful. Thank you for your honesty and sharing… Yes I agree even when choose to walk away from God he still chooses to stay! Im grateful he didn’t leave me where he found me 🙏🏾👊🏾
A word!!! 🗣️ that is so true, just because we fall short and slip away from God, he never takes His hands off of us. His plans for us WILL get done. I am a walking testimony of this Thank you sis! Keep going ❤️👏🏾
I love Amani’s boldness when she speaks it’s her greatest strength. I understand that it can be intimidating for some people (lol, that’s how I found her channel). It was for me too in the beginning, but now I love it. It’s something we need more of when done in the right way. Boldness is something I pray for a lot this year, but I think it will come with age too. I think it’s truly a gift.
oldest daughter of a large family and moved to houston for my freedom too girl! 😂 this is a beautiful story and i’m so proud of your obedience. God is really speaking through you 💓
Wow this is soooo good and something we all need to hear!! I was exactly where you were actually a few times but I didn’t have the spiritual maturity to cut it off when I knew I should have. The Lord is going to bless you so much for that level of obedience. Thank you so much for sharing your story. 🩵
This was powerful, thank you for sharing this 🙏🏾. I was doubting my decision to end my relationship, but your testimony reinforces everything I was feeling.
This was bomb I went through a breakup from my abusive husband because the Lord kept saying I’m unequally yoked. And if I want my children saved I got to go. I went in the relationship not understanding I was unequally yoked. And I had to go for the children and the devil has used him for temptation to come back by him having everything my kids prayed for like bunk beds and everything and it looked as if that was the perfect route to fix my marriage but he has not changed sadly. Also Amani you are AMAZING at story telling!!!! Please do some more story times!!! They teach while you share
Thank you for telling this testimony. I myself, have experienced something similar; however, what resonated with me is that my I believe my 19yr daughter is going through this currently. You gave me hope that in her timing God will turn it all around. Praise God!
Thank you so much for your video, it had me in tears just watching a few minutes of it, and I felt the Spirit on me in the room, I just recently broke up with my boyfriend well I typically called him friend never boyfriend cause I knew I was to young to be dating but there came a time around three weeks ago that I felt to end our relationship and after I've been getting nightmares at night to where it kept me from going to sleep again but I soon as I started praying against that devilish spirit of attack on me, threatening me that somebody's gonna harm me because I stepped in obedience to God's voice through my pastor. I was also raised in church all my life and there are things the enemy will try whatever he can to kill, steal, and destroy. But extra love and thanks to your videos. Keep doing the good work in helping others. I keep you in my prayers and God bless! ❤️🥰
Whew! We had so many similarities, night life, relationship I thought was leading to marriage. Although I fought to keep that relationship it ended out of no where and looking back I can see how it lead me back to the Lord. Thanks for sharing your testimony. Especially the ending as women we can compromise for love but there is no greater love than the love of our father!! 🤎 Bless you sis 🙏🏾
Wow!!! Your story is my story! Currently trying to end my relationship as well. Thank you for sharing! God truly got my attention with your story. I’m also from Syracuse, moved to Atlanta with my family, but wow! I’m on day two of my fast and I come across your video! Wow! Thank you
I watched this in total awe because I had a similar experience, only my relationship was for almost 6 years and it took me almost 2 years to yield to the prompting of God to end things which I did in October last year and I can’t even begin to share the number of things God has revealed to me concerning this guy and the relationship since then…it’s all so shocking and I’m here completely blown by how God communicates with and protects us
Sunday afternoon here in Douala, I dont know why I decided to open this video as usually after the church service I come online to follow another church service. However I am just going to add my 2 cents here... Dear beloved, when God tells you to leave a relationship, do it ASAP. Let it hurt you there and turn that pain to God. This act of obedience plus that pain will make you worship God like never before and propel you into your destiny. If you delay, you are delaying God's process and plans for your life. I have learnt the hardway. Dont make the same mistake like me. Be blessed
The dreams part of attacks and fights in dreams. Exact thing happened to me my whole relationship. And they stopped when we broke up. OMG this is a testimony!!!!!
I understand that our salvation is not through work, I’m just saying some people think that they can be out there doing whatever sin and still think that it’s all good because they’ve been saved, but what I’m saying is that if we step away from God and living proudly in our sins God forbid that we die without repentance. It’s not an attack on anyone but thank you for taking the time to reply like I said before I love your channel. God bless you.
Thank you. I am dealing with this now. Been together 10yrs, we are unmarried because I keep declining, yet at the same time he makes me feel bad for wanting to leave. This just validated what God is trying to show me and sometimes we have to be the bad guy, even when we aren’t 😢
"I stayed away because I knew that being a saved Christian but choosing to walk in Disobedience for years I knew that once I stepped foot back into a church the Lord would snatch me back up and for six years I didn't want that" THIS!! really hits home, coming from a person growing up in the church since my childhood. sometimes we choose to stay away from the LORD because we don't want the constant conviction of the Holy Spirit while living in disobedience. Thankfully God is merciful and He always makes a way for us to return to Him, our first love
Omg!!! I had to pause the video as soon as you mentioned the nightmares and 3am wake ups. This was happening to me with the last guy I was dating. He was staying over all the time and every time I would have dreams that I felt were spiritual warfare. He would tell me how I would be screaming in my sleep. There was a vivid dream I had where a young blonde white woman was sitting in my room and she told me she was going to destroy me. At some point he just disappeared on me and ghosted me for months after we had been together for a year. I was shocked that I wasn’t devastated over it but I was extremely concerned about him. The nightmares and 3am wake ups ended when he left. He came back around but things weren’t the same and I felt like God really wanted me to end things with this guy so I pretty much cut him off last Sept. What’s strange is recently I have been having dreams about him. Not sure what it means but I have no intentions of going backwards.
Amani, I so admire your clear and direct relaying of this experience and how when you made the decision to break up and fully submit to the Lord, you recognized the Spirit moving in your life. There are so many parallels and lessons you pulled from the parable of the prodigal son into your personal walk! Jesus says in Luke 12:24 to "consider the ravens, for they neither sow nor reap, which have neither storehouse nor barn, and God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds." If God can care for the "least of these," surely He cares for us! The chapter concludes with a call to "seek the kingdom of God, and all these things will be added unto you." I praise God for how He moved in your life and has filled you with such conviction, I believe increased discernment is a gift that God has given to you a generous amount! I admire the way you speak the truth clearly and succinctly! Young women (and men) need to hear more truth, especially in such perilous times. May God bless your walk and journey!
That’s wild ! Because I be having dreams like someone breaking in or some hostage situation where the killers walking around my house looking for me things of that nature
Ok wait, I’m only 4 mins in but…. Are we living the same life?? I grew up in a small town in upstate New York, the oldest girl in my family, dad was a pastor and grew up in the church, moved to ATL in college for FREEDOM. I’m 28 now and have reclaimed my faith for my self making Jesus my #1 for real after having walked away from him for years. Thank you for your sharing your story!
I had the same thing happened when I was in the wrong relationship.I literally woke up early in the morning and I saw a demon flash before my eyes.I also had another dream were I beaten up badly by demons.Crazy and scary I'm glad I'm out of that relationship.It was years and years ago,but you talking about the nightmares I was like,yea I remember that.
Whoa we have exactly the same experience, the kind of person we had, the duration of the relationship, the same time frame of the relationship break-up etc this is mind-blowing tbh 😂😮
Scripture says without vision people perish. (Proverbs 29:18) Its important that a man knows what God is calling him to do. It ignites a purpose driven life. Only then can a woman truly be a "help meet" for that man. (Gen 2:18-20) Otherwise, God won't truly be the center that holds it together 🙏🏽 Along with that is a need for accountability to elders and faith-based friends that can bring checks and balances to the couple. 🙏🏽
No, sorry this is not true, Amani. Once save does not mean you are always saved, when you walk away from your relationship with Jesus. The Bible says in Phillipians 2:12 work out your salvation with trembling and fear. God means exactly what He says about sin. He will not be mocked. As Christians yes, we will still make mistakes but, we should not be planning to sin and practicing a sinful lifestyle. Once we are truly walking with Jesus, our sinful nature should start becoming less and less... And our growth in Christ Jesus increases more and more, by precious Holy Spirit transforming us, as we yield to God Almighty!! ✝️ 🕊
NOT TRUE. If you can lose your salvation once, it’s stands to reason you can lose it twice, three times, four times. Which also means you can recover your own salvation once, twice, three times. Which means you control your salvation. If you can lose salvation that means that people are being born again multiple times throughout their lives. NOT TRUE. Phil 2:12 is referring to liberties in Christ and about our salvation being personal, it’s not saying that you can lose it. There’s not one scripture that supports losing your salvation. But there’s MULTIPLE that says God holds and seals our salvation. That it’s a gift that we have nothing to do with. Read Ephesians 2. Read John 6:37. If I can lose my salvation, that I had nothing to do with gaining to begin with, then that means my sin overpowers the miracle of being born again. NOT TRUE
@@AmaniWortham We will just agree that we disagree. Years back, Holy Spirit showed me how the church has been deceived in believing this. Remember apostle Paul is talking to the church and warning the church. Also, keep in mind scripture where Jesus says "depart from me I never knew you". We are not to play around with our salvation. Anyway, God Bless.
You should watch your words. It wasn't the enemy and what qualifies you to say that? Never ever say, Holy Spirit was the enemy talking. Make sure you're certain of what you are talking about before you get out here leading people astray. Remember, God will hold you accountable. You have misunderstood the story of the prodigal son, period. Yes, Jesus will receive back a repented backslider point is; you shouldn't make it a practice of intentionally falling away from God. We have free will so, when we are tempted by the enemy God always gives us a way of escape. When you chose to disobey God, that's completely on you and your decision. Again, God will not be mocked, He knows we know better when we have knowledge of His word. So, please stop pretending that people can't avoid sin. That's a lie. You like anyone else were very much so, consciously aware of making a choice to willfully sin. And again, Jesus is talking to Christians too, when he says "depart from me I never knew you". There are so many Christians out here that don't truly have a relationship with Christ Jesus and are just playin' church. God is not one to be toying with, so don't mess around and find out you were wrong. We all are to daily apply God's word & watch our posture daily before God with the upmost reverence for Him. Don't let your pride cause you to stumble.
And I’ve commented a few times. A lot of my old life has shed. I just wouldn’t give up dating and sex. But yesterday I made up my mind. If you refuse to court me and marry me and always follow God. There’s nothing to talk about. Nothing. I had a guy interested in me but he was extremely interested in the sex part. I can’t just be your gf that’s not good enough. I told him never mind. And in February I’m getting my purity ring
Can I ask a ?? What was your ask of God once you had that encounter at Church? You didn’t say any kind of click bait like most TH-cam videos “This is for you” “God said you will see this when you’re ready” But Holy Spirit led me to this early Sunday morning and it’s like a MIRROR image of my current life. I’m asking Him to get me out of this relationship. My spirit is tearing from it. ❤ your humility and genuine honesty will help many in Christ awaken Edit: I typed this 3 minutes after I said the prayer that you literally just spoke about wow!! Remove him if he’s not my husband
I had a similar situation where while I was sleep I audibly heard God tell me to break up with him to where it woke me up while I was at his house. I broke up with him that morning.
@ no I wrote it right. The whole point of salvation is to save us from ourselves, our sin, and eternal separation from God. If we can’t lose salvation, then it would be simple for everyone to just walk into heaven with no consequences for their sin. Mercy does not run out, but God can definitely give and take away whatever he wants. “Shall we continue in sin that mercy may abound? Surely not.”
This was bomb I went through a breakup from my abusive husband because the Lord kept saying I’m unequally yoked. And if I want my children saved I got to go. I went in the relationship not understanding I was unequally yoked. And I had to go for the children and the devil has used him for temptation to come back by him having everything my kids prayed for like bunk beds and everything and it looked as if that was the perfect route to fix my marriage but he has not changed sadly.
This testimony was years ago. God told me to break up with my ex.And I prayed for God to break us up b/c I couldn’t do it.And guess what that’s exactly what He did.
So now my question to you is: Day 3 post-break up, almost 23 years old, finishing up a Master’s Degree in Business Admin., working part-time, but struggling to get out of bed even with faith in the Lord.. What do I do? When does it end? I want him to call and break no contact just so the discomfort can end but I know that that is only going to hurt me. What do I do? When does it end?
Spiritual: 1.Take all of your anxieties to God in prayer. Talk to Him. Cry to Him. Tell Him all the things. 2.Stay in your Word. Fill the spaces of your mind with His Word. Let it build you up where you’ve been broken down. You want to be very careful during this very vulnerable time that you don’t fill yourself up with other idols. Be filled by Him and Him alone. 3.Continue to allow your prayer circle and accountability to cover you and be strength for you when and where you’re weak. Practical: 1.Feel your feelings. You are sad. So be sad. (For this moment). If you don’t allow your body to process through these emotions and actually deal with them…they’ll get stuck in you. Be real with yourself and those around you. 2. Meditate. This goes along with what the scripture says to do, (so it’s spiritual and practical at the same time) when you begin to feel those feelings of anxiety. Meditate on scriptures about peace. Whatever you’re feeling read AND meditate on the scripture that addresses it. 3. Decompress & Rest. Give your body (physical and mind) rest. Decompress during your transition periods like before and after bed, before and after work. This just makes sure you don’t carry all that emotional stuff in your mind around from thing to thing in your day. 4. Eat right and exercise (be physically active). Taking care of your body plays a major role in taking care of and healing your spirit.
You said someone cannot lose their salvation - what is your view on Mathew 7:22 “Many will say to me in that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?'”. Personally I think of all the Christians like pastors/artist who have lost their way because of pride, fame and money and no longer fear God.
Thank you for sharing ❤ I’m in a similar situation and it’s very difficult for me rn I have been abstaining from sex for about 3 years and unfortunately gave in to temptation and am finding it very hard not to continue
We’re human.. and sometimes we give into our flesh. It happens. It sounds like you truly feel terrible for giving into temptation and that is the first step of repentance. God forgives as long as you repent. Try fasting for a day. Afterwards, try to not put yourself in another situation where it would easy for you to give into temptation. Easier said than done but you got this sister 🫶🏾
Please pray on your statement about “not being able to lose salvation”. Ask God for the truth to be revealed, please do not rely on your own understanding. There are many baby Christian’s watching you and they can easily interpret your message as a pass to continue in sin. Just imagine if you’re wrong. Mathew 18:6 “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to fall, it were better for him that a millstone were hung about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.”
I think it important to say if you died in the 6 year you were denying God , you will not inherit the kingdom of heaven . God can’t not force you to be with him in heaven if on earth you deny him endlessly. You can lose your salvation, a lot of people think giving their lives to God is the only thing they have to do , faith without work is dead, you can claim God abd willing choose to live a life that is contrary to his will. Of course we will sin but there is different between fall short and repenting and turn for your wicked way and a person who has made sin
If I would’ve died in year 6, which is an irrelevant argument since we know from the book of Job that God controls our destinies, so that wouldn’t have happened to begin with, I STILL would have went to heaven. Me sinning does not mean I’m not saved. You sin all the time. You probably sinned today. Did you lose your salvation today? Me not going to church is no different a sin from you cursing. If you didn’t lose your salvation from what you did today then neither did I. Your last sentence didn’t make sense so idk how to respond to that. God doesn’t force us to do anything but you do know that your free will is limited right? You don’t save your self right, so your will in the matter was obsolete. If someone inherits salvation, it has nothing to do with them. God is the only reason I’m saved and I have nothing to do with that and therefore I cannot “lose” what He did for me.
Hate to break it to you but..”Davis”’was your husband.. Some of y’all Overthink Everything… You should have told him why you wanted to stop and saw his real reaction. You breaking up with him is not God removing him…🤦♀️ You had relationship anxiety, that’s all. Please don’t end up like the older generations🙏
There no logical way you think you have better insight into my relationship than I had lol. Also, there’s no such thing as relationship anxiety. Anxiety is literally a physical defense mechanism. That’s why yall get married and divorced within a decade bc you think anxiety thought out your relationship is normal.
@@AmaniWortham sorry to jump in but relationship anxiety is actually a real thing, its not a DSM-5 diagnosis but people who struggle with anxiety disorders can have this. I just wanted to respond because there are people who might have anxiety due to past experiences which might cause this to happen and can be helped by a therapist. Anxiety isn't only a physical defense mechanism it's also sometimes a symptom of trauma even if you're not in danger.
Anxiety is always a defense mechanism even if there’s no actual danger because your body is perceiving danger because of your trauma and your perception of “danger” is what your body responds to. I’ve struggled with anxiety my entire life but not everything in my life brings me anxiety. I’m not anxious 24/7 and most people are not. Situations can trigger trauma, even if they’re small to other people, because of what you’ve already been through and it’s by ridding those triggers than you can begin to rid yourself of the anxiety. So if a relationship is triggering you in any way that sparks your anxiety, run. You don’t just sit in it just bc you’ve always dealt with it.
@ I’m telling you this from research and discussions with my therapist, there are people who are anxious in all their relationships because they experienced some form of trauma in the past. It might not be something that applies to you, but to say that just because you’re feeling anxious in a relationship you must run isn’t necessarily true either. If it’s a fear of divorce or lack of trust in instincts due to previous experiences, then until those issues are resolved, someone will have anxiety in any relationship at one point or the other. My issue with both the original comment and yours is that unless you have examined someone’s relationship deeper, neither of you can diagnose what someone should do. In therapy I’ve learned that if something is giving me persistent anxiety, I first need to figure out the root fear because it might not be about the person/situation and more about something I’m dealing with. The spiritual aspect is important as you shared for you but if for instance Elijah had ran instead of letting God deal with his anxiety and depression he wouldn’t have completed what God’s mission for him was. I think what the original commenter stated about how some people overthink everything is kind of true, especially for Christians and that affects a lot. We’re supposed to ask God for guidance but depending on where you are in your walk with Christ, you should also have grown in wisdom to not only allow emotions and fleecing and prophesy to help make decisions. Many people have had dreams about someone being their spouse and married someone with horrible character or have dreamt of someone being their spouse and put their lives on hold just for that person to marry someone else and missed out on marriage. It is well
Sister Amani, Mercy unto you, and peace, and love, be multiplied. (Jude 1:2 KJV). Once saved, always saved will always be difficult to comprehend and accept. The Apostle Paul told Timothy (some have made shipwreck) of their faith. Paul said we shouldn't continue in sin, so grace can abound. Jesus also said people would say, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity. (Matthew 7:21-23 KJV) One of my favorite stories, being a godly man who does NOT wear women pearls and purses, is about the warrior, Leader and Brother Samson, ( Judges 13-16 KJV). Samson had lived a crazy life, even though he was anointed to be a leader and savior, Samson did not lead his army, or fully respect his Nazarite vow and covenant. My hero loved the wrong type of woman, especially Delilah. Samson was over Delilah's house and he kept playing games with her and around her, until Samson did NOT know The Lord God had departed from him. Thats sad, Samson was thrown in prison, all because of a woman and his parents said there were many beautiful single Hebrew women. All we can say is God, be merciful unto me a sinner. But to think a person backslide and not repent and to say God still have a person's name in The Lamb's book of life, is very presumptuous at the least. Christian historians also bring up how old Church Preachers spoke about Heaven and hell. I am working on being in Heaven, I'm also NOT trying to tempt God in any way. God rejected King Saul, for sin. Bishop Cameron I. Nelson Ministries-Memphis, Knoxville, Brentwood ( Men's Monumental Conference- Akron)
Once you are saved you are ALWAYS saved. The Bible is very clear that you cannot lose your salvation. To be able to lose salvation means that you play a part in your own salvation which is not true. If you can lose something that means you found it to begin with. And we do not save ourselves. The Lord holds our salvation. If a saved person tells a lie and dies before asking for forgiveness, hell is not their destination.
@@jasminegreen2979I agree. It's a complex topic, but we can specifically look to Matthew 7:21-23. This is Christ saying these words. Being "saved" does not mean anything if your salvation is spoken with your mouth, but does not reside in the depths of your heart. Another scripture to point to is Matthew 15:8. It's possible to profess that Christ is your Lord and savior, but to not allow that belief to transform how you live. Of course Romans 10:9-10, which is the salvation prayer states that "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and BELIEVE IN YOUR HEART that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved". So once someone is truly saved, by professing it with their mouth, and also believing it in their heart, that salvation is everlasting. However the reality is that a lot of people out here that state that they are saved, or believe that they are saved, have hearts that are far from God and that belief in Him never truly got anchored in their heart. So it isn't as simple as, I got saved when I was 20, lived how I wanted to live, was an enemy to God and His children, but deaths knocking at my door and my destination is still heaven. It doesn't work like that, when you're a willing worker of iniquity. Of course, in the context that Amani states in her comment however, of course if you're a true believer in God, and you love Him, and you fall short in an area prior to death, your heaven card isn't revoked. It all comes down to our heart posture truly, and whether or not our belief and reverence for The Lord is simply lip service or if it's the real thing. Only God can judge that, but His beautiful Word certainly gives us a guide to gauge where we are and what is/isn't acceptable. Great video Amani, and im loving your content 💗
@@AmaniWortham you can definitely forfeit your salvation though, and then what?
-“Keep working out your own salvation with fear and trembling.”-Philippians 2:12.
-Heb. 3:12-14
-Mark 13:13
-Phil.3:12-14
-John 15:1-6
Everybody just make sure yall heavenly passport is up to date I try hard to die to my flesh daily
@@jasminegreen2979 Amen! 1 Timothy 4:1 and James 5 the last two verses of that chapter tells us we can leave the Faith and leave the Truth.These people are decieved thinking once saved, always saved.1 Timothy 4:1 says in the last days some shall depart from the faith .Which mean at one time they were saved and in the faith.But in the last days will depart from that faith in JESUS.The word of GOD is very clear on this.
@@800naddy Amen
Babyyyy one thing about God is that he will move SWIFTLY!!! When you ask him to remove people who do not align, not only will he answer the prayer but he will not renege! You can pray for the Lord to change his mind, we can compromise but the Lord is faithful & he’s a gentlemen & his WILL, will be done. You are absolutely right, we have free will but it’s limited.
EVERY TIME!
YESSS
Ahhhh Amani the same thing happened to me. It got so crazy he tried to play Christian for me but when I started standing on business he said that I was “doing too much” LOL. I had a dream that he left me for someone else and I could not get a full night of rest next to him! God not only broke off our relationship but didn’t allow me to move miles away from my family. Maannn how my life has changed. I just had a nightmare about him the other day while on my FIRST fast ever.
Man, won’t He do it! He will really show us the truth in multiple ways!
I had a dream he was leaving like 3 years ago, In ‘22. Woke up crying, he said he would not leave me. Dude ended up leaving in October of 23 and God told me to let him go. I did and he left. I promise you it feels hard, but once it’s done and all over it’s like a breath of fresh air. Hard, YES. Worth it, YES! Listen to God. This guy was giving me so much spiritual warfare that it was crazy.
Thank you for sharing your testimony. Thinking of all those Tik toks that were clowning talm bout oh she broke up with a good man, a good man ain’t enough for yall. Meanwhile you were encountering spiritual WARFARE. Imagine nightmares every night smh thank you for speaking truth!
Woahhh. God is really working through you. Honestly the episodes where you just share vulnerably are so healing to hear.
Hey Amani please can you do a video on how you healed from the breakup ? What did you do daily ? Did you cry? How did you handle things ?
I second this, I would want to know how to move from the breakup, the memories, how to now separate families & friends cause all that is hard.
Yep! I grew up in the church too, was saved at 10 but I became disobedient when I was a teenager until I was 22. Had a boyfriend at the time, ended up being very convicted about the relationship and also didn't want him in that way anymore and God gave me the courage to break up with him (took 3 years) The Lord snatched me back up at 23!! I'll be 25 in March. I love how you break everything down in your story ❤
Girl LITERALLY the EXACT thing happened to me! Age and all 😭I turned 25 in November and rededicated at 23 after backsliding as well. I pray your strength in the Lord to keep going 🩷
@ManiyaGrice Omg yes! ❤️ Praise God you're back in the zone! Thank you so much sister I pray that God continues to strengthen you and help you stay encouraged on your walk 💗
@ManiyaGrice Also you are so beautiful 😍 I subscribed to your channel
I’m so glad that it worked out that way for you! God calling us all back
@@Jssierose Thank you 🩷🩷
The fact that I’m going through the same conviction and I got notified when you dropped this video it has to be the Holy Spirit….I actually broke up already last month because the relationship isn’t Godly, if I’m being honest he distracts me from my walk with God but still I went back to him out of fear and ‘what if I made the wrong decision’ and now it seems even harder to let go…. Now I’m just confused,I over think a lot, i don’t know how to break up for the second time & I feel like God won’t help me I have to do it myself…
There's no doing it yourself, I thought the same thing but looking back he was always there with me. Don't stop praying!!!
I’m going through the same thing girl
This popped up on my YT feed and I’m inspired by your testimony!! I have 3 kids with this man, but I cannot help but feel like I am a single mother. And I can’t help but feel I’m gonna regret leaving him but I cannot shake this anger and feeling of needing to leave! Maybe I need to dig deeper into my relationship with God to fully hear him. ❤ thank you for sharing!!
I was in a relationship with a godly man and I felt something was off the entire time, but I kept saying no this is good cause he loves God and is devoting his life to Christ too. But I was so exhausted, when I finally broke up with Him I no longer felt tired or restricted from living out my purpose in Christ. You are right, sometimes our callings in the kingdom aren’t aligned. God uses the Holy Spirit to speak to us, we just gotta submit and stop being stubborn 😂
What was wrong? I feel like a lot of yall are using god as an excuse. Did you solely get with him because of his devotion to christ?
@ not an excuse, I was more of a go getter and hospitality type of individual, and he was more of a observe and pray. I learned a lot from him by not always having to take action because not everything is my responsibility. He also learned a lot from me to be more active than passive. However, he didn’t really move to support me in the ministries I was serving in, but he also said he desired serving in a ministry together with his life long partner. Kind of paradoxical. Long story short, he felt like he wasn’t himself, and I felt like I had to keep myself contained to keep him content. There were other things, but even the community around me said they felt like he wasn’t the one for me. God spoke to me in my quiet time, I saw things (especially in hindsight), and he shared his views as well. I didn’t have peace, and now that I am single and serving God I have so much peace, and I’m fully focused on Him
@ I didn’t solely get with him because of his devotion, but it was one of my top 3
What women have to understand, is society and the world and culture can, and do unfortunately affect "Christian" women. I know of a "Christian" woman who was trying to date and she wanted to be "supported" doing Ministry. This requirement and request sounds very innocent, until women read their Bible and learn Ministry is NOT just the Church and or organization or building. The Apostle Paul uses marriage as example, men love your wife as Christ loves the Church. So there has to be a prepared and smooth transition from dating to marriage and "women" knowing, understanding and accepting their role in the home, church, community and workplace. We can look at Ruth, after reading Ruth's story, Ruth needed Naomi to explain to her, when Boaz was interested. Now my Sister, I personally do not know you, and one size do NOT always fit all. But what I will say is there are a lot of carnal, modern women in the Church, attempting to use, " their ministry and calling" as an excuse not to accept another blessing, which can be marriage, God can have for them. Like was stated, many beautiful, godly, fit, educated, successful women want to be married and supported in ministry ok sounds good. But now there is women saying we Brothers should follow you women to your Church. Or we men should allow you women to be the "pastor's adjutant" which is inappropriate. God is always first, but women, black, white and whatever race, have to be prepared to allow their husband to be the leader and or pastor, or like the Brother said, women can be using Church as an excuse to be "independent" and modern and masculine and not submissive. Bishop Cameron I Nelson Ministries-Memphis, Knoxville, Brentwood ( Men's Monumental Conference- Akron)
That’s what makes it so difficult sometimes. That everything looks right but it doesn’t feel right.
God told my aunty to leave her boyfriend when she gave her life to Christ 10+ years later the Lord gave her her husband who is now a Pastor and they serve the lord together accros the World
This is powerful. Thank you for your honesty and sharing…
Yes I agree even when choose to walk away from God he still chooses to stay! Im grateful he didn’t leave me where he found me 🙏🏾👊🏾
A word!!! 🗣️ that is so true, just because we fall short and slip away from God, he never takes His hands off of us. His plans for us WILL get done. I am a walking testimony of this
Thank you sis! Keep going ❤️👏🏾
I love Amani’s boldness when she speaks it’s her greatest strength. I understand that it can be intimidating for some people (lol, that’s how I found her channel). It was for me too in the beginning, but now I love it. It’s something we need more of when done in the right way. Boldness is something I pray for a lot this year, but I think it will come with age too. I think it’s truly a gift.
oldest daughter of a large family and moved to houston for my freedom too girl! 😂 this is a beautiful story and i’m so proud of your obedience. God is really speaking through you 💓
Wow this is soooo good and something we all need to hear!! I was exactly where you were actually a few times but I didn’t have the spiritual maturity to cut it off when I knew I should have. The Lord is going to bless you so much for that level of obedience. Thank you so much for sharing your story. 🩵
This was powerful, thank you for sharing this 🙏🏾. I was doubting my decision to end my relationship, but your testimony reinforces everything I was feeling.
This was bomb I went through a breakup from my abusive husband because the Lord kept saying I’m unequally yoked. And if I want my children saved I got to go. I went in the relationship not understanding I was unequally yoked. And I had to go for the children and the devil has used him for temptation to come back by him having everything my kids prayed for like bunk beds and everything and it looked as if that was the perfect route to fix my marriage but he has not changed sadly. Also Amani you are AMAZING at story telling!!!! Please do some more story times!!! They teach while you share
This is extremely powerful. Currently experiencing a very similar situation in my current relationship. Thank you for sharing 🙏
1 Samuel 15:22
To obey is better than sacrifice,
This really resonated with me and my recent break up and how it drew me closer to Christ!! ❤I truly appreciate you
Thank you for telling this testimony. I myself, have experienced something similar; however, what resonated with me is that my I believe my 19yr daughter is going through this currently. You gave me hope that in her timing God will turn it all around. Praise God!
Wow! What a powerful message. Thank you for sharing,it really speaks to me because our testimonies have so much in common.
Powerful testimony! Nothing surpasses the peace that God gives when you finally obey Him!
The timing of this is so divine, thank you for posting this ❤
Thank you so much for your video, it had me in tears just watching a few minutes of it, and I felt the Spirit on me in the room, I just recently broke up with my boyfriend well I typically called him friend never boyfriend cause I knew I was to young to be dating but there came a time around three weeks ago that I felt to end our relationship and after I've been getting nightmares at night to where it kept me from going to sleep again but I soon as I started praying against that devilish spirit of attack on me, threatening me that somebody's gonna harm me because I stepped in obedience to God's voice through my pastor. I was also raised in church all my life and there are things the enemy will try whatever he can to kill, steal, and destroy. But extra love and thanks to your videos. Keep doing the good work in helping others. I keep you in my prayers and God bless! ❤️🥰
Girlllllllllll not we going threw the same thing OUT OF OBEDIENCE! At the SAME TIME 🤯🤯🤯🤯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾thank you Holy Spirit
Whew! We had so many similarities, night life, relationship I thought was leading to marriage. Although I fought to keep that relationship it ended out of no where and looking back I can see how it lead me back to the Lord. Thanks for sharing your testimony. Especially the ending as women we can compromise for love but there is no greater love than the love of our father!! 🤎
Bless you sis 🙏🏾
Wow!!! Your story is my story! Currently trying to end my relationship as well. Thank you for sharing! God truly got my attention with your story. I’m also from Syracuse, moved to Atlanta with my family, but wow! I’m on day two of my fast and I come across your video! Wow! Thank you
God will do anything and everything to bring you back to Him. His Love is too Great
I watched this in total awe because I had a similar experience, only my relationship was for almost 6 years and it took me almost 2 years to yield to the prompting of God to end things which I did in October last year and I can’t even begin to share the number of things God has revealed to me concerning this guy and the relationship since then…it’s all so shocking and I’m here completely blown by how God communicates with and protects us
Sunday afternoon here in Douala, I dont know why I decided to open this video as usually after the church service I come online to follow another church service. However I am just going to add my 2 cents here... Dear beloved, when God tells you to leave a relationship, do it ASAP. Let it hurt you there and turn that pain to God. This act of obedience plus that pain will make you worship God like never before and propel you into your destiny. If you delay, you are delaying God's process and plans for your life. I have learnt the hardway. Dont make the same mistake like me. Be blessed
Love seeing your growth I’m so proud of you
I appreciate that! Thank you ❤️
The dreams part of attacks and fights in dreams. Exact thing happened to me my whole relationship. And they stopped when we broke up. OMG this is a testimony!!!!!
I understand that our salvation is not through work, I’m just saying some people think that they can be out there doing whatever sin and still think that it’s all good because they’ve been saved, but what I’m saying is that if we step away from God and living proudly in our sins God forbid that we die without repentance. It’s not an attack on anyone but thank you for taking the time to reply like I said before I love your channel. God bless you.
Hello! Anyone who thinks it’s ok to sin is not saved to begin with. I think that’s the confusion that needs to be cleared up.
Thank you. I am dealing with this now. Been together 10yrs, we are unmarried because I keep declining, yet at the same time he makes me feel bad for wanting to leave. This just validated what God is trying to show me and sometimes we have to be the bad guy, even when we aren’t 😢
Hello sponsor! 👏🏾 Have a good weekend sis, tuned in!
Girllll I have been here 😮💨, thank you Jesus for welcoming me back
"I stayed away because I knew that being a saved Christian but choosing to walk in Disobedience for years I knew that once I stepped foot back into a church the Lord would snatch me back up and for six years I didn't want that" THIS!! really hits home, coming from a person growing up in the church since my childhood. sometimes we choose to stay away from the LORD because we don't want the constant conviction of the Holy Spirit while living in disobedience. Thankfully God is merciful and He always makes a way for us to return to Him, our first love
That relationship numbnesssss is the number one sign it’s not meant to be
I’m literally going through this right now. Word for word. Crazy.
Needed to see this video God is always on time!!
Thanks!
OMG Thank you for this ❤❤❤❤❤
How are you doing there, my beautiful sweet friend.
😮 Girl the way I’m on the edge of my seat 💺 😅 my goodness! This nightmare testimony was good!
Tears in my eyes watching this ly Amani
I just watched your Testimony video yesterday and so to hear more about how the Lord told you to break up with him in more depth was so powerful!!!
Omg!!! I had to pause the video as soon as you mentioned the nightmares and 3am wake ups. This was happening to me with the last guy I was dating. He was staying over all the time and every time I would have dreams that I felt were spiritual warfare. He would tell me how I would be screaming in my sleep. There was a vivid dream I had where a young blonde white woman was sitting in my room and she told me she was going to destroy me. At some point he just disappeared on me and ghosted me for months after we had been together for a year. I was shocked that I wasn’t devastated over it but I was extremely concerned about him. The nightmares and 3am wake ups ended when he left. He came back around but things weren’t the same and I felt like God really wanted me to end things with this guy so I pretty much cut him off last Sept. What’s strange is recently I have been having dreams about him. Not sure what it means but I have no intentions of going backwards.
Praise God!! God is so good!!
This is so crazy identical to my past relationship down even to the amount of time we dated!!
Amani, I so admire your clear and direct relaying of this experience and how when you made the decision to break up and fully submit to the Lord, you recognized the Spirit moving in your life. There are so many parallels and lessons you pulled from the parable of the prodigal son into your personal walk! Jesus says in Luke 12:24 to "consider the ravens, for they neither sow nor reap, which have neither storehouse nor barn, and God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds." If God can care for the "least of these," surely He cares for us! The chapter concludes with a call to "seek the kingdom of God, and all these things will be added unto you." I praise God for how He moved in your life and has filled you with such conviction, I believe increased discernment is a gift that God has given to you a generous amount! I admire the way you speak the truth clearly and succinctly! Young women (and men) need to hear more truth, especially in such perilous times. May God bless your walk and journey!
That’s wild ! Because I be having dreams like someone breaking in or some hostage situation where the killers walking around my house looking for me things of that nature
This is an awesome testimony!!!
Amen amen yes listen to the lord ❤
Ok wait, I’m only 4 mins in but…. Are we living the same life?? I grew up in a small town in upstate New York, the oldest girl in my family, dad was a pastor and grew up in the church, moved to ATL in college for FREEDOM.
I’m 28 now and have reclaimed my faith for my self making Jesus my #1 for real after having walked away from him for years.
Thank you for your sharing your story!
OMG that’s toooo funny lol.
Nice to meet you Amani : ) my first day watching your videos
Love this ❤ thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much!❤
Aww you’re from my hometown Syracuse ❤
Amazing testimony!
Omg 38:50 I’ve put my life in danger so many times by the things I’ve done and accepted. I want what God wants for me
Loved the story amani ❤ always waiting for your videos ...May God's love always guide you ✝️🤍
Hey Amani, I from Brazil, Thank you for your vídeos.
God bless you
Thanks for this video… I’m blessed
I’m the oldest daughter too!!🥹💖💝💝
I had the same thing happened when I was in the wrong relationship.I literally woke up early in the morning and I saw a demon flash before my eyes.I also had another dream were I beaten up badly by demons.Crazy and scary I'm glad I'm out of that relationship.It was years and years ago,but you talking about the nightmares I was like,yea I remember that.
Wow this touched me 🙏🏽 thank you
Whoa we have exactly the same experience, the kind of person we had, the duration of the relationship, the same time frame of the relationship break-up etc this is mind-blowing tbh 😂😮
But unfortunately mine ended up with a terrible heartbreak that I've been struggling with. I hope I'll fully get over it very soon.
Scripture says without vision people perish. (Proverbs 29:18) Its important that a man knows what God is calling him to do. It ignites a purpose driven life. Only then can a woman truly be a "help meet" for that man. (Gen 2:18-20) Otherwise, God won't truly be the center that holds it together 🙏🏽 Along with that is a need for accountability to elders and faith-based friends that can bring checks and balances to the couple. 🙏🏽
No, sorry this is not true, Amani. Once save does not mean you are always saved, when you walk away from your relationship with Jesus. The Bible says in Phillipians 2:12 work out your salvation with trembling and fear.
God means exactly what He says about sin. He will not be mocked. As Christians yes, we will still make mistakes but, we should not be planning to sin and practicing a sinful lifestyle. Once we are truly walking with Jesus, our sinful nature should start becoming less and less... And our growth in Christ Jesus increases more and more, by precious Holy Spirit transforming us, as we yield to God Almighty!! ✝️ 🕊
NOT TRUE. If you can lose your salvation once, it’s stands to reason you can lose it twice, three times, four times. Which also means you can recover your own salvation once, twice, three times. Which means you control your salvation. If you can lose salvation that means that people are being born again multiple times throughout their lives. NOT TRUE. Phil 2:12 is referring to liberties in Christ and about our salvation being personal, it’s not saying that you can lose it. There’s not one scripture that supports losing your salvation. But there’s MULTIPLE that says God holds and seals our salvation. That it’s a gift that we have nothing to do with. Read Ephesians 2. Read John 6:37. If I can lose my salvation, that I had nothing to do with gaining to begin with, then that means my sin overpowers the miracle of being born again. NOT TRUE
@@AmaniWortham We will just agree that we disagree.
Years back, Holy Spirit showed me how the church has been deceived in believing this. Remember apostle Paul is talking to the church and warning the church. Also, keep in mind scripture where Jesus says "depart from me I never knew you". We are not to play around with our salvation. Anyway, God Bless.
That was the devil that told you that sis. Jesus said “depart from Me, I never knew you” to people who weren’t saved period.
You should watch your words. It wasn't the enemy and what qualifies you to say that? Never ever say, Holy Spirit was the enemy talking. Make sure you're certain of what you are talking about before you get out here leading people astray. Remember, God will hold you accountable. You have misunderstood the story of the prodigal son, period. Yes, Jesus will receive back a repented backslider point is; you shouldn't make it a practice of intentionally falling away from God. We have free will so, when we are tempted by the enemy
God always gives us a way of escape. When you chose to disobey God, that's completely on you and your decision. Again, God will not be mocked, He knows we know better when we have knowledge of His word. So, please stop pretending that people can't avoid sin. That's a lie. You like anyone else were very much so, consciously aware of making a choice to willfully sin. And again, Jesus is talking to Christians too, when he says "depart from me I never knew you". There are so many Christians out here that don't truly have a relationship with Christ Jesus and are just playin' church.
God is not one to be toying with, so don't mess around and find out you were wrong. We all are to daily apply God's word & watch our posture daily before God with the upmost reverence for Him. Don't let your pride cause you to stumble.
And I’ve commented a few times. A lot of my old life has shed. I just wouldn’t give up dating and sex. But yesterday I made up my mind. If you refuse to court me and marry me and always follow God. There’s nothing to talk about. Nothing. I had a guy interested in me but he was extremely interested in the sex part. I can’t just be your gf that’s not good enough. I told him never mind. And in February I’m getting my purity ring
Great video thankyou, very helpful
Can I ask a ?? What was your ask of God once you had that encounter at Church?
You didn’t say any kind of click bait like most TH-cam videos “This is for you” “God said you will see this when you’re ready”
But Holy Spirit led me to this early Sunday morning and it’s like a MIRROR image of my current life. I’m asking Him to get me out of this relationship. My spirit is tearing from it. ❤ your humility and genuine honesty will help many in Christ awaken
Edit: I typed this 3 minutes after I said the prayer that you literally just spoke about wow!! Remove him if he’s not my husband
I love your channel I just subscribed, you’re inspo foreal love the vibes ❤ God bless you sister 🙏🌹💝
How many times do we hear christian women say “God told me to break up w him” ❤… thanks for sharing
I had a similar situation where while I was sleep I audibly heard God tell me to break up with him to where it woke me up while I was at his house. I broke up with him that morning.
If once saved always saved was true, then there would be no reason to continue without sin.
No reason to continue without sin? I think you may have written that sentence wrong
@ no I wrote it right. The whole point of salvation is to save us from ourselves, our sin, and eternal separation from God. If we can’t lose salvation, then it would be simple for everyone to just walk into heaven with no consequences for their sin. Mercy does not run out, but God can definitely give and take away whatever he wants. “Shall we continue in sin that mercy may abound? Surely not.”
This was bomb I went through a breakup from my abusive husband because the Lord kept saying I’m unequally yoked. And if I want my children saved I got to go. I went in the relationship not understanding I was unequally yoked. And I had to go for the children and the devil has used him for temptation to come back by him having everything my kids prayed for like bunk beds and everything and it looked as if that was the perfect route to fix my marriage but he has not changed sadly.
"He still had me."
Thank you God for never leaving me 😭🩷
This testimony was years ago. God told me to break up with my ex.And I prayed for God to break us up b/c I couldn’t do it.And guess what that’s exactly what He did.
luv your content
Wow wow wow!!! Praise God!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So now my question to you is:
Day 3 post-break up, almost 23 years old, finishing up a Master’s Degree in Business Admin., working part-time, but struggling to get out of bed even with faith in the Lord..
What do I do? When does it end? I want him to call and break no contact just so the discomfort can end but I know that that is only going to hurt me.
What do I do? When does it end?
Spiritual:
1.Take all of your anxieties to God in prayer. Talk to Him. Cry to Him. Tell Him all the things.
2.Stay in your Word. Fill the spaces of your mind with His Word. Let it build you up where you’ve been broken down. You want to be very careful during this very vulnerable time that you don’t fill yourself up with other idols. Be filled by Him and Him alone.
3.Continue to allow your prayer circle and accountability to cover you and be strength for you when and where you’re weak.
Practical:
1.Feel your feelings. You are sad. So be sad. (For this moment). If you don’t allow your body to process through these emotions and actually deal with them…they’ll get stuck in you. Be real with yourself and those around you.
2. Meditate. This goes along with what the scripture says to do, (so it’s spiritual and practical at the same time) when you begin to feel those feelings of anxiety. Meditate on scriptures about peace. Whatever you’re feeling read AND meditate on the scripture that addresses it.
3. Decompress & Rest. Give your body (physical and mind) rest. Decompress during your transition periods like before and after bed, before and after work. This just makes sure you don’t carry all that emotional stuff in your mind around from thing to thing in your day.
4. Eat right and exercise (be physically active). Taking care of your body plays a major role in taking care of and healing your spirit.
And facts everytime I do that removal prayer they’re gone between 2 days sometimes a week if I’m, reluctant
Amani means Peace -"shalom" in Swahili - my lil bro's name...🥰
wow great video
You are too LOUD ma’am. Thank you for this , confirmed so much.
You said someone cannot lose their salvation - what is your view on Mathew 7:22 “Many will say to me in that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?'”. Personally I think of all the Christians like pastors/artist who have lost their way because of pride, fame and money and no longer fear God.
Thank you for sharing ❤
I’m in a similar situation and it’s very difficult for me rn I have been abstaining from sex for about 3 years and unfortunately gave in to temptation and am finding it very hard not to continue
We’re human.. and sometimes we give into our flesh. It happens. It sounds like you truly feel terrible for giving into temptation and that is the first step of repentance. God forgives as long as you repent. Try fasting for a day.
Afterwards, try to not put yourself in another situation where it would easy for you to give into temptation. Easier said than done but you got this sister 🫶🏾
This exact think happened to me when I use to listen to drake music. I would literally be so afraid to go outside.
OMG! Yes!!!
Please pray on your statement about “not being able to lose salvation”. Ask God for the truth to be revealed, please do not rely on your own understanding. There are many baby Christian’s watching you and they can easily interpret your message as a pass to continue in sin. Just imagine if you’re wrong. Mathew 18:6 “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to fall, it were better for him that a millstone were hung about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.”
2 chronicles 15:2
Uumm… quick question..? Once saved always saved???
I think it important to say if you died in the 6 year you were denying God , you will not inherit the kingdom of heaven . God can’t not force you to be with him in heaven if on earth you deny him endlessly. You can lose your salvation, a lot of people think giving their lives to God is the only thing they have to do , faith without work is dead, you can claim God abd willing choose to live a life that is contrary to his will. Of course we will sin but there is different between fall short and repenting and turn for your wicked way and a person who has made sin
If I would’ve died in year 6, which is an irrelevant argument since we know from the book of Job that God controls our destinies, so that wouldn’t have happened to begin with, I STILL would have went to heaven. Me sinning does not mean I’m not saved. You sin all the time. You probably sinned today. Did you lose your salvation today? Me not going to church is no different a sin from you cursing. If you didn’t lose your salvation from what you did today then neither did I. Your last sentence didn’t make sense so idk how to respond to that. God doesn’t force us to do anything but you do know that your free will is limited right? You don’t save your self right, so your will in the matter was obsolete. If someone inherits salvation, it has nothing to do with them. God is the only reason I’m saved and I have nothing to do with that and therefore I cannot “lose” what He did for me.
Hate to break it to you but..”Davis”’was your husband..
Some of y’all Overthink Everything…
You should have told him why you wanted to stop and saw his real reaction.
You breaking up with him is not God removing him…🤦♀️
You had relationship anxiety, that’s all.
Please don’t end up like the older generations🙏
There no logical way you think you have better insight into my relationship than I had lol. Also, there’s no such thing as relationship anxiety. Anxiety is literally a physical defense mechanism. That’s why yall get married and divorced within a decade bc you think anxiety thought out your relationship is normal.
@@AmaniWortham sorry to jump in but relationship anxiety is actually a real thing, its not a DSM-5 diagnosis but people who struggle with anxiety disorders can have this. I just wanted to respond because there are people who might have anxiety due to past experiences which might cause this to happen and can be helped by a therapist. Anxiety isn't only a physical defense mechanism it's also sometimes a symptom of trauma even if you're not in danger.
Anxiety is always a defense mechanism even if there’s no actual danger because your body is perceiving danger because of your trauma and your perception of “danger” is what your body responds to. I’ve struggled with anxiety my entire life but not everything in my life brings me anxiety. I’m not anxious 24/7 and most people are not. Situations can trigger trauma, even if they’re small to other people, because of what you’ve already been through and it’s by ridding those triggers than you can begin to rid yourself of the anxiety. So if a relationship is triggering you in any way that sparks your anxiety, run. You don’t just sit in it just bc you’ve always dealt with it.
@ I’m telling you this from research and discussions with my therapist, there are people who are anxious in all their relationships because they experienced some form of trauma in the past. It might not be something that applies to you, but to say that just because you’re feeling anxious in a relationship you must run isn’t necessarily true either. If it’s a fear of divorce or lack of trust in instincts due to previous experiences, then until those issues are resolved, someone will have anxiety in any relationship at one point or the other. My issue with both the original comment and yours is that unless you have examined someone’s relationship deeper, neither of you can diagnose what someone should do. In therapy I’ve learned that if something is giving me persistent anxiety, I first need to figure out the root fear because it might not be about the person/situation and more about something I’m dealing with. The spiritual aspect is important as you shared for you but if for instance Elijah had ran instead of letting God deal with his anxiety and depression he wouldn’t have completed what God’s mission for him was.
I think what the original commenter stated about how some people overthink everything is kind of true, especially for Christians and that affects a lot.
We’re supposed to ask God for guidance but depending on where you are in your walk with Christ, you should also have grown in wisdom to not only allow emotions and fleecing and prophesy to help make decisions.
Many people have had dreams about someone being their spouse and married someone with horrible character or have dreamt of someone being their spouse and put their lives on hold just for that person to marry someone else and missed out on marriage. It is well
Hey guys, Anyone have any advice on how to confront a close friend and sister in Christ that happens to be in an ungodly relationship?
Now this is a word !!! I needed to hear this
Pls What is about you and white/grey 🤍 dresses 😅😊. 🙏🙏
Sister Amani, Mercy unto you, and peace, and love, be multiplied. (Jude 1:2 KJV). Once saved, always saved will always be difficult to comprehend and accept. The Apostle Paul told Timothy (some have made shipwreck) of their faith. Paul said we shouldn't continue in sin, so grace can abound. Jesus also said people would say, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity. (Matthew 7:21-23 KJV) One of my favorite stories, being a godly man who does NOT wear women pearls and purses, is about the warrior, Leader and Brother Samson, ( Judges 13-16 KJV). Samson had lived a crazy life, even though he was anointed to be a leader and savior, Samson did not lead his army, or fully respect his Nazarite vow and covenant. My hero loved the wrong type of woman, especially Delilah. Samson was over Delilah's house and he kept playing games with her and around her, until Samson did NOT know The Lord God had departed from him. Thats sad, Samson was thrown in prison, all because of a woman and his parents said there were many beautiful single Hebrew women. All we can say is God, be merciful unto me a sinner. But to think a person backslide and not repent and to say God still have a person's name in The Lamb's book of life, is very presumptuous at the least. Christian historians also bring up how old Church Preachers spoke about Heaven and hell. I am working on being in Heaven, I'm also NOT trying to tempt God in any way. God rejected King Saul, for sin. Bishop Cameron I. Nelson Ministries-Memphis, Knoxville, Brentwood ( Men's Monumental Conference- Akron)