Are You Attractive To Women? (The TRUTH About Attraction)
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"There are only 2 types of pain. One is the pain of discipline and the other one is the pain of regret. The only difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons"
@Goochisz Magoochisz This "quote" is shitty but cmon you get the thing
@@mattrouviere yea bro 😭😭😭
My story...
My crush in my class has a bf... I haven't told her but she generally takes me as a friend... I'm ahead of that guy in academics but he's ahead of me in physique, personality and looks (somewhat similar)... I feel like I'm losing her gradually 😭... Guys I know you're more experienced... And that girl is literally the best in our school.... Please help me out of the situation brothers..
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@The Rise of Jade well said, @anonymous if this doesn't work you shall go for her mother
I wonder if you know, some are too afraid to admit but I’m sure there are men in their late 20s and early 30s who watch your videos too. You speak truth and most of us were too young to realize this early conditioning. Hearing this now makes me realize I wasn’t the only one that felt something wasn’t right. I’m 27.
Age is irrelevant.All that matters is you changing for the better 💪
Same here, I am 27, still living at home (Poland) but I help with the bills and some simple things like fixing, assembling new stuff etc, cooking, I also signed for studies, trying to improve my career and skills, maybe I will reach goals I've set for myself
28 here. Talking to women isn't really an issue, I do attract. But.. Not the ones I want. Thus, Hamzas daily videos help keep me on point, as I already understand what needs to be done. It was awakened with his and Tates help, so I'll be forever in debt to them.
I’m so glad I’ve been working out religiously since I was 15, I’m 28 now, and the amount of pit and confidence I’ve always had because I know broads chase me cause I’m a dime with a big coc according to almost every broad I’ve slayed, feels good man, including my wife
@@buak809 Spokojnie kurba byku ja mam 22 w tym roku i tez niedawno odkrylem tego Brodatego ciapatego typka. Bedzie legancko tylko trzeba się za robotę brać
I spoke with my sister recently and she told me about her male friend. She finds him absolutely charming and hilarious, she said he understands her in a way no one else does and that he's always kind and would make the perfect boyfriend. The only thing is, he isn't that attractive, she straight up told me he is perfect other than the fact that she isn't attracted to him. He's asked her out so many times and has always been rejected by her and keeps asking "why, what is, what can I change" but my sister, out of fear of not hurting his feelings lies. Not to be a little bit Blackpill but he doesn't have the greatest potential but mate doesn't care for his hygiene, fitness or career (granted neither does my sister but then again "women are born with value men build their value") and I think he could have a shot if he optimised those aspects. That discussion just showed me how truly depressing the state of affairs is in life nowadays, but you can take that unfairness and use it to fuel you to become better or you can wallow in your own self pity. BECOME ADONIS AT ALL COSTS, DELAY GRATIFICATION, BE THE GREATEST MAN YOU CAN BE
sag es ihm einfach. er wird es wahrscheinlich eh nicht machen.
exactly , its a slow process , but eventually it gets better . I was very weak at 17 , now at 19 , im not really fit tbh , i started working out two months back , but im confident and proud of myself and for the journey , grateful to have loving friends and family , and ill march on towards success.
U should take him under your wing and help him self improve. Become Adonisssss
@@HAWKsHere and that’s all that matters. Your own validation over your progress and hard work. Keep it up young man, the world is yours.
Wingman him bro
Don't give up we all gonna make it
Won't give up
Stand up, stay strong, we gonna live long
You forgot to add "brah" at the end of the sentence
@@lesgodot3432 can't give up is fine, but won't give up is unacceptable.
This is unfortunately not true. Some people can do everything right and still fail. Some people are just fucked from the beginning. And this number will be increasing as the years go by. I am not one of them though 😎 but I just think this is a comfortable lie to cope rather than a reality to motivate people to not be one of the “losers” in life.
BIG TIP: Don't think the first time you are gonna feel good is after 2 years have passed. That's not how it is. Trust me, brothers, month for month, you start to feel better and better and better. I literally noticed increased attraction after just like 2-3 months. Life gets soooo much better.
And the longer you keep on doing that, the better you will feel!
Trust in the process and do the hard work ESPECIALLY if you don't feel like it.
Thanks dude that kinda motivated me💙🤝
Its one step at a time in the stairs of life! Keep climbing brothers
where do u actually meet them tho lol
Fax
@@crazydude449 try to think of your ideal girlfriend. Where would she spend her free time? Start from there.
I thought that it was weird that I was able to let go of a girl so easily and how other guys would think it's weird that I let go so quickly. Now I realize that it's better to let go then to obsess over a girl or throw a tantrum over a girl
Yup. This man here speaks the truth. I used to have A BIG BIG huge crush On this girl on our class. After A Month of workout. Reading Improvement books. Meditating i now realise having a crush on Girl wont let you Give Any Benifits Other than The Pathetic Soyboy aura it gives you.
Its just a crush. It'd change over the year, get Over It and Move on. OR maybe ask her Out. You never know she likes you.
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What the fuck else are you supposed to do besides move the fuck on with your life?
What the fuck were they expecting you to do???? Frigging weirdos
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That means you are naturally masculine, that is a good thing.
It's a different amount of pain losing in the competition for a girl you are interested in, I thought I was good enough until you lose. However I am using this lesson in life to improve more than I thought possible.
Hi hamza, you’ve actually turned my life around, only 6 months ago i was walking with my head down feeling bad 24/7, being ashamed to speak ,then i started watching your videos and I immediately changed as soon as i started doing what you said i had my first and second kiss, and now i feel awesome,I talk to everyone talk to girls as they were just a normal guy, and im fat, the confidence you gave me made me get in the gym loosing weight and i actually started attracting women and you actually save me from suicide, now im making money, dating girls and my life is awesome, Thank you hamza!
Hamza you’re literally a person that I and thousands of teenagers can look up to and go into the right path of life. Keep up the hard work💪
Ya he teaches u to think with your dick…. Life is not just about getting girls..
@Rolis he's ALSO a comedy *genius*, first 30sec is gold...my sides hurt🤣
@@jackiechun5817 Fr first 30seconds are masterpiece
Nice example thanls
look up to somebody else fatboy
We got this guys just try your absolute hardest and when you feel like giving up just remember we are in a race to get to the top
Do this to improve attraction from females: Thank me later:
a. Get a new hairstyle that suits you;
b. Go to the gym to get shredded;
c. Be genuinely friendly and practise your natural smile;
d. Wear proper clothes that fit you well;
See the results for yourself!
- The Self-Improvement Academy -
I do the opposite of everything here except workout
I got no haircut
I do workout
I don’t like talking to most people kindly
And I wear baggy clothes with a beanie
Im in school en and a girl legit just asked me out 15 mins ago 😹
Remember someone out there will always find you cute you can’t talk to lots of people without being overly nice or even being nice and they’d like to u for keeping it real.
My story...
My crush in my class has a bf... I haven't told her but she generally takes me as a friend... I'm ahead of that guy in academics but he's ahead of me in physique, personality and looks (somewhat similar)... I feel like I'm losing her gradually 😭... Guys I know you're more experienced... And that girl is literally the best in our school.... Please help me out of the situation brothers..
@@Anonymous-oh1xs The truth will hurt, but most guys don't get out of the friendzone unfortunately. Once that barrier is set, it's nearly impossible to break it.
Being in the friendzone can be difficult, but it's important to remember that this is a natural part of life. We've all been there at some point my guy. Instead of focusing on what went wrong, try to focus on the positive aspects of your friendship and continue to be a supportive and understanding friend. If you think that's not sustainable, try hang aroudn with other people.
Remember that there are many other people out there and that you deserve someone who truly values and appreciates you. Keep an open mind and don't give up on the possibility of finding someone who is right for you.
yup, been doing this for a few months, got results pretty quickly.
At first I wanted to watch this video for dating life but then I realised how right u really are.
I ll give an example sustained by what u said(Belief=perception+treatment) even tho it has no connection with dating life
I am at a local football team since 1 year the first 7-8 months were pretty bad, even tho sometimes I d play really good, but then something changed. At one training my coach actually gave me the chance to prove myself, and ofc I was motivated I was 100% sure I can do it(this came from training also). When I tell u I had probably one of the best team training session since I joined this club and even the guy that maked fun of me the most actualy congrutaled me, I was shocked, really like,I couldn t believe it.
I know it was a long messsage that probably no one will read but nust wanted to thank u for the advices and keep up the good work!
stop watching anime
@@n.1028
He already does Football omg you diaqhead 💀💀💀
@@n.1028 i stopped watching, the pfp is from 2 years ago and idk what to put instead
@@TheCannonn thx
Hamza is the only man on TH-cam I trust who touches base on all of these critical yet embarrassing/awkward aspects of our lives. Thank you Hamza, your work is greatly appreciated
im having a presentation in school about this. great content, thanks Hamza, I promise, I'll spread the message!
Hamza I watched your video about motivation yesterday, and implemented it today. I trained so hard at the gym, I never had a better workout in my life. And I took a cold shower as well. I feel very good. God bless you Hamza
Don't compare
Don't try to impress
Be fearless
Do your tasks
Be at present
I needed this badly. Thx for uploading this Hamza. I really look up to you. I just got my heart broken after I asked a girl out who was conversing me for 6 months. These are my heartfelt words. You really saved a degenerate boy’s life tdy. Am not gonna continue my old lifestyle. Thanks for guiding me in the correct path
I hope you grow well 👍
Thanks Hamza, had to go on my alt to comment this. Iv'e been going to the gym improving my conversation skills, studying, reading, and surrounding myself with friends since I've started university. There is this girl I like and from watching this video I realize I still don't believe I deserve her, even though I have always taken care of my body and am not TOO much of a simp. I think I just need to keep improving myself and talking to more people and I hope my self worth will naturally increase.
Let's Take a Moment to Appreciate Hamza and His Consistent Efforts 🌸
Gratitude moment
@@EnesSahin1725 agreed
Man.
Your comment if so feminine.
On God
*what if hamza got videos backed up for days ? And he simply sets one from private to public one at a time every week ?*
Cring
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
@Rose Allen well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer.
@Rose Allen her name is Shelly Renee White, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
@Rose Allen you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
bot conversation bruh
@@JS05 yea the same one you see on bitcoin shit
Absolutely agree about the dm part. NEVER base your feelings on what she says in messages, just ask her out and if she really is into you, you’ll know
Thank you for everything Hamza. Your videos saved my life and my mental health. I started to workout and feel more confident. You are the best channel that I found.
This is so true about the craze behind Zayn Malik in the UK. I am also a brown boy living in the UK and ever since I saw the girls I liked simping over Zayn it gave me immense confidence and in some way made me confident in my skin.
He’s totally right i had a big ego of me being attractive it actually works
I was about to relapse and had porn opened in the other tab.. but I'm glad your video showed up on my timeline and when I saw u spitting improvement facts..
it felt like a strict elder brother talking to me and telling me to not do it.. Quitted the porn. Gonna go start my day and get listed work done now
Remember, confidence is everything. If you believe in yourself, chances are, other people will start to believe in you too. This is true in pretty much true in every situation I can think of.
Confidence does not arise on its own, and sometimes it alone is not enough. Most of it depends on you and your actions.
Confidence comes once you improve on something, it won't come by it self
Confidence works only for attractive people, it´s a positive reinforcement.
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I made a commitment of sorts, to do 25 push-ups a day, I got to the point I could do that with ease, then I stopped for a minute since I was busy but recently I started doing 50 a day either when I woke up or before I go to bed and I gotta say, push ups really work to build confidence you get a rush of sorts
Man this is exactly how I started out and well it kinda snow balled to be the best thing that ever happned to me, I am very happy to hear this keep up the good work🫶🫶
Thank you. Hamza I got pissed off at myself. I see what I did wrong several years ago. As you said since I started improving myself (Since 2020) I saw more women getting close to me. I didn't succeed yet in a relationship or in a one night stand but I saw that girls treated me differently. I would like to say I'm a solid 7/10. I know it might sounds a bit cringe but could you make a video about "Where to meet girls". I'm not a guy that likes to go to clubs etc. I go to the gym, libraries and like shopping centers. Some festivals but that's it. As a man I'm thanking you for this content. I try my hardest each day. I believe that in the future not that far away I will succeed in many aspects of my life. Love from a Polish guy!
He has a video on where to meet girls already bro
@@AS-ie6id whats name
haha I could say the same thing but from a female perspective. I'm an introvert, into books and crafty hobbies. The only guys who share my hobby already have got their own boyfriends. I like music, but very specific genres, so no night clubs for me. Especially since I enjoy having both kidneys intact and not being sold to an Italian brothel, and also not being groped by random dudes that I've just begun dancing with. I also thought about going to the gym, but I don't like that kind of "worky" workout (I do long distance walks in the season and some basic workout at home when it's too warm outside) and I know for a fact that people who go to work out are not into finding dates just f*cking working out there, duh. Online dating has only offered me only two extreme options - compelte f*ckboys who're too good to be true (and indeed they are, often just looking for ONSes) or complete let-themselves-go's who're looking for a queen that'll love them for their 'good heart'. Funnily, I once dated one of those... the good heart was buried under the layers of low self-esteem, a lack of ambition, rudeness and bitterness about 'them rich mother*uckers'. Like, I get it that there's plenty of cool guys that are my equivalents, but it feels like I'd have to go around people's houses and knock on every door to drag those introverts out of their places. tak czy siak pozdr ;)
@@DaniStenko Thank you for sharing. I agree on the online dating. It's really hard to find someone to have a real connection with. Walking is a amazing way to stay in shape. I just prefer to grow my muscle. It gives me more confindence. What type of music do you like? Like the genre?
@@DaniStenko this was enlightening to see that its just not guys that are frustrated
Hamza you are the best! Beacuse of you i bulked! I became stronger! A 10 minute video changed my mind and i think im speaking for millions of people You are the best cult leader we could ever had!
i feel like a deep relationship should def be a mutual type of thing not just only one person obsessing but both
Blackpillers complain about coping, but coping is ultimately what gets us from a bad mindset to a good one. I totally agree with Hamza's point about just believing that you are attractive and just working on yourself you will actually bring you more succes than not wanting to cope because "it's useless" (which ironically is a cope in itself to keep themselves in a bad mindset). Even if results were minimal, I would rather have a good cope making me somewhat happier than being a doomer in life.
i mean it never hurts to belive in yourself, what you ultimative need for every aspect in this life, but there are limits like dont become delusional within in your belives or you end up thinking like women or transgender people, being realsistic is important, but i guess pride is just to sweet even for my sake....
You're basically deluding yourself. Well, keep "self-improving". Eventually, when you wonder why women still reject you, take a good look at your face.
Thanks for the advice. On Monday im gonna use your advice at school thanks again.
I’ve always been very successful with attracting women but as I get older, I’m starting to see my hairline recede and I’m finding it so unbelievably scary because my identity is changing before my very eyes and I can’t do anything about it (I’ve tried). It’s made me realise that for all these years I had a false sense of security because I was only confident because of my looks.
Time to go to turkey
Nature's forced your hand brother, but it's time to find security in your status and in being shredded. Most importantly tho, you must believe that no matter what, you're gonna make it
Jesus said as much and I trust Him
bald head is far more attractive, you just have to actually shave your head and not leave it until your hair loss is actually visible
......take finasteride. ......cut it in half. .....and then minoxidil at night before bed. ....also, microneedleing.
........you should know this stuff buy now. ....the results are amazing. .....Google these things and learn about them.
.......so, you take a shower everyday. ....but now it's time to add to that.
Bro will start killing gods for sport now, get your axe and shave that thing already
He's right I done this 2 years ago and it worked
If im being honest I don't know how to use telegram sorry
Thank you for changing my life man!
editing looking great Hamza! and you're crackin more jokes i love it
I'm pretty sure I recently went up from a 6 to a 7 in attraction, I learned about a girl having an apparently big crush on me from a female acquaintance and also started noticing a couple of girls acting a bit different around me. I'm pretty sure that if I post some good pictures of my physique on social media I'm gonna have some more confidence (I started going to the gym a couple months ago, I was between skinny and skinny-fat at the time as I had been working out at home for the last 3 months and now I'd say I look like I work out when I'm not wearing a shirt) as I am absolutely awkward and a ***** (alternative for cat, youtube wont let me post that) when it comes to speaking to girls I haven't know for a while.
reading this, it almost feels like i posted this comment haha! yeah I'm pretty much in the exact same situation as u. best of hopes brotha, keep grinding u got this
My story...
My crush in my class has a bf... I haven't told her but she generally takes me as a friend... I'm ahead of that guy in academics but he's ahead of me in physique, personality and looks (somewhat similar)... I feel like I'm losing her gradually 😭... Guys I know you're more experienced... And that girl is literally the best in our school.... Please help me out of the situation brothers..
@@Anonymous-oh1xs get a better physique...not just better than him..better than everyone in your school...get more social ,be in the zone ull automatically have a better personality...after that forget that girl and work on something that will make u better...the girl will come along the way
Bro you stalking me or something this is the exact cycle I'm in keep going bro
How tall are you?
The first point the delusion one is so true you dont know I did this before him saying it but still this is super true
I've been telling my friends for years that if you can't tell if a girl is interested in you, she's not. Finally, validation!
Thank you Hamza for changing me for the better. You are my favourite not because you only give self improvement tips but also you are brutally honest
Great video Hamza!
Mindset is important
Some things that have helped me greatly (although might be obvious):
-You have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Self-esteem is paramount
-Get hobbies. Aside from a job or career, having a hobby that you're passionate about will inspire you and give you purpose
-Have a group of solid friends that prop eachother up and that will give you advice or constructive criticism
This video actually changed my beliefs that I was very unattractive since I used to be that way but I've changed recently even though I had the same belief. I'm a sophomore in high school and recently have seen girls just come up to me and ask for a picture or tell me I'm cute and yet still had the belief that I wasn't attractive, thank you Hamza.
tryna get to this stage
in hamza we trust
Hamza you helped me to be more masculine I now work everyday 2 hours a day and I'm 14 but I have a problem I dominated a girl but I wasted it by thinking that she used me and i talked to her about it and then there was a big discussion and in the end she didn't love me anymore but now in class i see her still looking at me and being shy when i'm near her and there is also another girl and with her I want to be serious but she is really pretty and strict and kind and i don't know how to make her love me
PS: Sorry for my english
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Honestly this is one of your best videos for me. And i am glad that you made it Hamza. In the past years i had this feelings every day, since me and my first serious girlfriend broke up i felt everything that was told in this video , i felt that i am ugly and i will not be able to get anyone. And that happened i know that i had a bad mindset and im sure that they felt that on me that i feel like i am not worthy. I always told myself that i am ugly cuz i get no likes on dating apps but now this feeling is starting to disappear and i am thankful cuz lots of your videos helped me to get on the right way !
I really appreciate the effort you put in. I cannot express my gratitude.
Had a big win today ....with the help of this quote "keep doing things that you are supposed to do especially when you don't feel like it ".
Thanks, Hamza for the motivation yeah most people can feel self conscious at times we had that experience before, but this really motivates me in the heart bro ♥
I think it makes sense. How you perceive yourself affects how you behave around others. Other people will then pick up on this and treat you accordingly.
Just got rejected, but now i feel motivated to train more. Stay strong kings
Rejection has always given me good fuel to train and improve. Keep leveling up chief
Dang so I guess....my crush doesn't like me well back to the grind of Hamza and ultimate CHAD
There is no pick up advice that can apply to all women when it comes to your “rizz”. All you can do is be yourself and make women comfortable when they’re around you.
Hamza thank you for saying adonis while laughing at the beginning it makes your videos feel more genuine and personal keep up the great work yo
See you all in 2 years I guess
Almost 1 year now
Any updates?
Hamza, they guy that's younger than me yet like an older brother spitting wisdom I never had.
Thank you mate. Keep up the great work, you're helping people!
One more thing to the foundation of attractiveness is posture, men in the comments take care of your posture and keep it straight! You'll be so much more confident in social situations.
These more edited videos are great looking but man did i enjoy just watching you talk without any effects
I feel physical pain inside me because I know everything you saying is true. Looks is most important part to attract women but if you can't properly speak to girls you will end with nothing. I know this from personal experience, I could attract most beautiful women from group but I can't speak to her with confidence and ended up with nothing. Start delevelop yourself and take care for your social skills kings 👑💪.
watching Hamza's video while eating last meal of the day is just different. Thank you for motivating me Hamza
Thanks hamza you’ve helped find friends and a girlfriend that are loyal and I do have friends that are dickheads but I know if I leave them then I have also lost a lot of friends so yea thank you alot
She called me "bro"
Doesn't mean anything
@@sweetpoison2812 nice pfp
Hamza is delving more & more into the power of belief, and I fucking love it
In a way our society is digressing back to the cave men days where only the leader and a few men could mate. Back then, Society must have solved those challenges later on by establishing marriage and family bonds that made relationships more complex than just alpha take all. But this is gradually dwindling as more traditional family units are less and less and divorces are so much more common. Female expectations are so high and many men just can't compete anymore. Some of us are hanging in there with self-improvement and seeing some results but it's still hard. Hang in there guys. Focus on living your best life.
How you see yourself really does put an aura around you.
Hey guys, just wanted to put this out there. If you're unsure on what clothes to wear then just go shopping and recognise what the mannequins are wearing. Designers are literally getting paid to dress them, and you and I can benefit from this because the designer's know the "latest fashion" clothes. Just go in the store and ask for whatever their wearing. This way you won't look outdated or too much.
Secondly a thing that most girl's care about is your smell, don't be like jeffery and have stink come out of your mouth or smell like you haven't had a shower in 2 weeks. Put some deodorant on and get a nice fragrance/cologne. I reccomend getting a fresh, out of the shower time fragrance or something sweet. Most girls love sweet fragrances as its similar to what they would wear believe it or not. I remember a celebrity he use to wear female fragrances just because it was sweet and famine.
Cheers
Smart wearing feminine cologne would possibly help out
im from saudi arabia ans i see it today women is the same free market they choose what they want and last thing thank you hamza the ridpull save us
I am actually attractive because i literally got some girls telling me how good i look and my personality is really good aswell
BUT
i still have days where i look in the mirror and think to myself how ugly i am...
I have one girl i really get along with and i have some online friends etc and im socially not that awkward but still i sit lonely in my bed complaining about how im still single etc
What hamza says is true tho, just trick yourself into thinking you are good looking and confident, because you really are, so its not even really tricking yourself.
I got my glow up when i decided to change my style by looking at what clothing style girls are going crazy about
I got a perm
I started moisturizing and shaving my beard frequently and now i feel wayyy more confident. You can literally change in 1 single week
Yep, you can change in 1-2weeks. Optimized hairstyle, facial hairstyle, and grooming can make a HUGE difference when combined with a positive mindset shift.💯💪🏾🧔🏾♂️
Don’t base your confidence in your looks, trust me it won’t end well, u should have internal confidence, your confidence should come from your character, your mentality, your mindset, because those things cant be taken away. When u base your confidence in your looks all it takes is a bad hair day or a bad skin day whatever and your back to not feeling confident, this is my advice to u as a pretty attractive dude who went through this
And also I know from experience it’s satisfying to hear how girls find u attractive however don’t let that be a source of your confidence, wether girls find u attractive or not should not effect your confidence
@@tkn9979 Idk i dont really agree with this because you cant just suddenly become confident without changing yourself
Belief is everything.
It's crazy how much of an issue dating has become for modern men. I know guys who are in shape and decent looking that struggle to land dates. Meanwhile there are girls who are a 4/10 with a full inbox and multiple options. it's baffling.
You are preaching the word of humanity and success. Keep it up man and make men proud again ❤️
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I got a girlfriend now.What i have noticed is after i got her alot of woman started giving attention and girls who didn't even speak to me turned into nice people💀💀
Women like what they can't have
@@kihtam-41721 which is stupid tbh but thats women ig
oh wow what ah miracle, nigga we dont give ah fucc
Thank you Hamza, after my 2 week holiday I have been a bit more nervous about this, however I’m working towards these skills again. I realise how enhancing skills are more than just working out. Things are still improving and are better than they used to be.
As a guy yes I have been attracting women but not straight women but lesbians (I'm serious but it's a long story)
You saved my life hamza
Sit straight, be confident, dress nice, smell good be clean work on yourself and watch them rally and fight to be yours
You also have to be genetically handsome.
@@duckbacon3117 anyone can be handsome, it’s just that some people are too lazy to actually improve their looks
@@AinnRubiix I mean there's plenty of genetic factors that you can't change and if you have too many of these genetics flaws there's nothing you can do to make yourself handsome. Such as having negetive canthal tilt, protruding bug eyes, rounded skull, rounded recessed jawline, low set cheekbones, big forehead, big nose, lots of asymmetries, thin eyes brows with a negetive tilt. If you weren't already born handsome there's not much you can do to improve your looks. And getting shredded and ripped isn't good enough if you have an ugly face.
@@duckbacon3117 Do yourself a favor and head over to wheat waffles channel. You seem like you belong there.
@@nesbygalvan2088 I will. Have fun being with Scamza.
listening to this while doing workout 💪
Holy shit Jeffery is a classmate of mine
Try and get him into self improvement
@@yeetos888 I'm gonna try that bro
@@puma3414 if he says “no it’s too boring” forget about it. He has passed the point of no return
A Friend Of Mine Too .
My cousin
Im sub 5 hamza and i feel like your videos are meant and aimed only for normies who could do bits of hard work and becomes chads im starting to not like my odds here i might not make it after all the hard work ill put in it's sad but in my book it's okay at least ive tried my hardest
thats absolutely true, 2 Years ago i was been out of shape, unatractive, had a bad posture etc, but i had good mental health and i was pretty confident because i didn't had psychotic issues and i was on no fap. When i was 18 i smoked to much strong weed with my friends and that destroyed my mental health completely. at one day back then i had a panick attack from the weed and got derealisation, i couldn't go outside anymore or do normal daily life activities. I dropped out of school and was at home for about 1 year, playing video games all day long, eating junk food, no social contact absolutely. I was even struggling to go to the super market to by myself some food, because i got those panik attacks. 1 Year ago i've started exercising, eating healthier, meditation, almost no porn, going out for long walks, get a bit more socialized, reading books and i also started boxing a few months ago. It all helped me a lot, but my derealisation is unfortunately still there and the panik attacks as well, but at least not that often anymore. That's so fucked up, it feels like ive tried everything to get ridd of it, but it just sticks with me. Naturally my confidence is still there, but when my derealisation gets worser at the day i cant handle it and i always act shy and insecure, even tho i'm not. If i wouldn't build such an powerfull willpower, because i turned the pain into energy i probably would've killed myself. Just want to tell you guys be carefull if you use drugs, it can really ruin your life, there are better ways to have fun without this shit.
Bro im doing these things for over 6 years and i don't even do drugs. 💀💀💀Because it know the danger like imagine drinking poison. It's essentially the same. But crazy what you all do now. For me it's even start with the question: Why should i go out and waste my precious time? With who and with what? I also always thought about joining a sports club or something but im just not into it. And i have been jobless for all this time. If you thought your life is/was bad then you are in the wrong, there is always someone that has a worse condition.
I havent worked in a Long time aswell.
Tryna start boxing soon.
And Keep going to the gym
make this man famous
I just realized he created this image of him in a robe to hide his irregular ears 🤔
I’ve been going to the gym and eating healthier (and other self improvement stuff) for only 7 months and already girls talk to me a little bit. Maybe it’s just because I have more confidence and such but I’m not complaining.
I swear to Allah that hamza changed my mindset and life like he rebooted my brain and now i am living a positive, masculine, joyful life. I don’t have a father unfortunately, but hamza here is my all time masculine figure. Thank you❤
I love your videos. As a South Asian myself I've been contemplating too much if I should start my own channel. To be inspirational.
From OZ
If I'm being honest from my 18 years of being alive , well technically 6-8 years since from the day I found girls attractive . I've had so many opportunities but the confidence is rock bottom like it's so crazy that I'm aware of it 😂😭 even days ago I had an opportunity to approach this girl but didn't because I was seriously overthinking . Idk how to gain confidence anyone with advice , I'll need the advice ngl 🤣 and the one time I didn't overthink and went over to the girl, it was successful even made me excited that I did it but it didnt go anywhere because she had a boyfriend 😂👍
.....I didn't read your whole post, but the confidence part. ....so basically, you need to build "competence" in something first (passion), in order to have real confidence. ....
......"how to find your passion". ......first, start by literally throwing away the stuff around you that you don't like, or never use anymore. ...what is left might be your passion? ...but start there first.
@@mippim8765 I agree, competence in one area of life will affect other areas of your life too, thus giving u confidence, because the thought process behind it is “oh if I can be good at this then I can most definitely be good at that too” plus it makes u feel good knowing that u can actually achieve things.
Ohhh , makes sense 👍
I'll see to that very soon
Love you bro
To be honest, I once was a Jeffrey. Wanted a girl, she wanted someone else, I failed, and I just pretended it was okay. Happened 2 times.
Then I failed a year, and came into a new class, where I didn't really know anyone. So "new class, new people, new image" I thought, and built a different persona, but kind of as a 'mask' that I was wearing without really being it. So I became the stereotypical class clown, who's popular with everyone. A girl I liked, a 10/10, hottest girl in school, also seemed interested in me.
But since I was inexperienced, it dragged on for over a year, without me making a move and really getting anywhere. I somehow managed to ignore all the signs, like her literally messaging me first every single day, all her friends and even her sister knowing my name and everything I did, and instead I slowly returned to being a simp.
The catastrophy all culminated in her trying to make one last desperate move, and my drunk dumbass not realizing what "show me your house" means, although she literally went straight for my bed.
Nothing happened, and I didn't realize until the next day what a colossal retard I was.
And in my unending stupidity, I confessed to her, sealing the deal as not being a potential partner for her anymore.
I hated myself so much.
For 2 years I clung to those memories, until one day I finally got over my failure, and swore never to let anything like that happen ever again.
That event was a failure worthy of history books, but in hindsight probably the best thing that could have happened to me. It changed my view on dating, and life as a whole, completely.
Now I knew that I was capable of even attracting girls like her. I didn't want a relationship with a woman less perfect than that image I had of her, so I stopped giving other girls attention.
I started debating and writing for fun, getting really good with words, read a lot, got other hobbies than playing video games, and bingewatched personal development videos.
I intentionally distanced myself from my old friend group, to perform that transformation in silence.
I came back as a completely different person. Where before I was this clown that went along with anything, overshared and never stopped talking absolute bs, I now set clear boundaries and consequences for overstepping them, kept personal matters to myself since only I could solve them anyway, and kept my mouth shut until it was the right time to speak, with well thought out opinions no one could even hope to put a dent into.
Suddenly girls started messaging me instead of me taking initiative, trying to keep the conversation going and getting in my pants. It feels good, because I failed so many times and worked so hard for it. I am not overly attractive, realistically maybe a 7, but it still works.
And with that I came to two realizations.
One: That other people only start valuing you if you set the price for yourself, and two, that the most important thing in society is your reputation.
"Power resides where men believe it resides. It's a trick, a shadow on the wall. And a very small man can cast a very large shadow"~ Lord Varys
Thanks for that, I only lost my virginity and went on a few dates last year and I keep beating myself up on the things I didn't do well. Need to build up my confidence and believe that I'll improve with practice.
Thanks for sharing your story bro, keep going
That's called puberty, imbecile.
you changed my life bro thank u
Early gang 👇
Early boyz 🙏🗣️
My Respect for what you do and preach is really high I have been journaling working out and meditating non stop
Lmao our names are so similar 💀
@@Splater124 True 😂
it’s crazy to me how often this man hits the nail on the head😂
Self work will attract everything
Bro I’m I so thankful for this guy he changed my life and my mindset
Proud of you to continue this journey, keep going
Thank you brother you are an amazing leader
Truth is always bitter brother.. anyway Thanks for the video.
Thank you hamza.
13:56 “Oo we got lots of messages, oo, yes, I am worthy of love haha” 😂😂😂
Your videos give me very much calm.