lol I couldn't stop laughing when he was talking about seeing the "beta" version of himself on Snapchat, his stories are gonna light a massive fire under the ass of a lot of young guys
It's definitely hard at first to know if a girl or a guy is legitmately interested in you. But the more you hang out with the opposite gender, the more you'll be able to know. Get out there and get that experience! You got this ❤️
What I think is the best approach is the hell yes or no approach. It's either you look at a girl and you go "yep that girl is all over me" and if it's not that then "I am misunderstanding/wrong" in which case you forget about the latter girl completely and only focus on girls who really make it easy for you to be with
Being a guy who was constantly bullied by pairs I fully understand... It even got to a point where I had so called "friends" asking girls to agree if im ugly, never felt so humiliated in my life This gave me the opportunity to grow, hit the gym and learn a valuable skill in music. I am grateful to them because if it wasn't for them, I'll be that chubby losee from 2015.. Great video Hamza
You don't understand what this man can do to you and I'm telling you I watched his videos. I'm 15 right now but when I was 14 i would see his videos and would ignore them but ever since the mid october till now I've watched and lerned from him and implemented the things he says and recommends in these videos helped me start my self improvement journey and I can't be more grateful. It's hard trust me I even stopped my self improvement during my Halloween break from school but after waking up late and feeling shit I got back into my self improvement and I'm grateful I did. Keep up the hard work and stay strong
Hamza is so inspiring. He has changed me from a 12 year old fat obese bad habits etc into a (i cant consider myself a man) but i am full of test in the gym meditating and just improving on myself every day. I have my hat off to this guy.May you live in peace if you read this and may God be with you. Amen.
The editing team has been killing it with the thumbnails lately! I'm grateful for them and the effort they put into these videos along with Hamza of course.
Time Stamps Intro 0:00 Strong Eye Contact 2:41 Sends Enthusiastic Text messages 3:32 Invades Personal Space 7:04 Shares emotional parts about her 9:15 Talk about you to her friends 10:52 A message 12:57
Hey Hamza, please do videos talking about trauma. Childhood trauma from parents, from struggling financially, always being down by toxic friends and how to overcome it.
Hamza I just wanted to say thank you for everything you have taught me so far. I’ve started to apply your advice to my daily life and I haven’t been as happy as this in 8 years. I’ve been doing nofap, going to church, making eye contact and engaging in great conversation with people, meditating/journaling, working out regularly, stopped watching anime and playing video games and even more great things. I want to lead a great generation of men through tough times and be someone who people respect. Your life changing brother and I live with a fire in my heart because of you. Stay blessed
So glad I found your channel. I've been on my self improvement journey for a mere 2 weeks, but I've never felt better in my entire 21 years of existence.
not believing anyone could find you attractive hits home. i still kinda feel like that. it only changed a bit when a girl legit fell in love with me and we got super close even though it sadly didnt work out. now i at least know for a fact that its not impossible, and it makes me wonder how many others have also found me attractive.
- Eye contact for sure is a big sign. - I'm not too sure about the enthusiastic text messages, I'd say that the actual sign related to that is when it is she who begins text conversations with you. Like, if she texts you "Good morning, how are you doing?" in the morning (without you having texted her before that), that's a sign she likes you. - When she engages in unnecessary physical contact is definitely a huge sign she likes you. - The sharing emotional parts about her maybe.. it's not that obvious like the other ones. She might as well see you like a good friend.
Yeah I don't agree with the emotional part. When I've met completely new female co workers they talk about their emotions a lot. It's just a feminine trait and doesn't necessarily mean they have any feelings for you
Even if one *isn't* interested in being in a relationship it's important to be aware of when a woman is interested in you, as you might see her as a friend while she might think you're in a serious relationship with her.
Damn Hamza it hit me hard when you said even you had to deal with stereotypes. Being the man you are now gives me great inspiration. I’m 34 and even though you are younger than me I look at you as a leader of modern men that we desperately need. Thanks and much blessings to you
When girls get loud around you its also a sign of interest, if she moves the group in a club to near you, or she will be more challenging, or she can actually get quiet around you. There's a lot of subtle signs, context is most important, superficial body language interpretation can lead to problems. Trust what you gut says, you know when there's a vibe :) The biggest sign, she doesn't walk away easily from you 😜
last part got really deep but hamza was just speaking facts. When my parents broke up and I was living with my mom, I was a happy kid and I didn't have any insecurities but when time passed and my dad was less present and less masculine, I started feeling really unattractive and I couldn't feel attractive around women and when the signs were there, I didn't see them, but now I do, I have to thank Hamza, he really helped me a lot to become more masculine, now I'm not insecure at all and even got a girlfriend.
Man I wish I knew the girls in high school or college that were into me were actually into me and not looking at me or smiling at me because I look "weird" or whatever, because that was what I was led to believe. I had so many chances to be in loving relationships with girls who want to be with me but I couldn't because of the self-limiting belief of me not thinking that I deserved love. To this day I am still trying to heal that part of me and starting to believe that girls actually find me attractive but it's still hard to look past that as people in the past made me feel that I didn't deserve it. If I never had that self-limiting belief I wonder how much happier my life would be if I were to be with the girls who would love me from the beginning. Seriously Hamza, your message at the end made me tear up, because I could relate to it so hard. I'm only a year younger than you and I am just now starting to fully accept that girls find me attractive. I hope soon I can be with someone who loves me and I can accept their love for me without question.
I'm not even kidding you, I've always wanted to become a better person. I've dreamed about it, I've desired it, but never had the motivation to actually pursue this change. Then I stumbled upon your videos, and something clicked for me, something I've never felt before. Now all I do throughout my free-time is watch your videos on various categories of self-improvement. I have finally started to take action. I can not thank you enough.
1. hold strong eye contact 2. sends enthusiastic texts/replies (be careful 3:29 go watch) 3. makes physical contact 4. opens up 5. she talks about you to her friends
"I just don't like being hugged." Hamza, "bro, she just doesn't like being hugged by you." Bro, this info would have saved me a metric ton of heartbreak and aggravation.
Your last point is the most important point! You are worthy of Love. Improvements is what you do and worthy of love is who you are. Stay strong my dudes!
I'm the guy that didn't get any female attention in high school and was very insecure, I started working out after high school and after about a year I just totally forgot that women could be attracted to me until this one girl that I met was so into me that anyone could see the signs of it, but its a weird experience going from a loser in high school to getting attention from other women the best way I can describe it is that it rewires your brain in a way that lets you know that women are attracted to you, not to mention the confidence you get from it, I was extremely anxious and unconfident until I worked out but honestly speaking I did get confident from working out but absolutely nothing compares to the confidence that you get when an attractive woman is interested in you.
I can relate to you with this. I was 300 pounds and lost 140 pounds by my senior year. It was as surreal for me to walk into school and was known as “the hottest guy in the grade”. It was so weird to go from the fat clown to someone who can actually talk to and seduce girls. Major rewiring of my brain and a huge boost in my confidence in every area of my life. Consistency towards your goal and pushing through failure will take you places. I wish you the best in the future brother stay on the grind 💪🏻
My social skills improved 10 fold in the 3 years before the pandemic. Then covid butt fucked all of that progress. I feel like a robot when talking to women.
Bro, i am still on the same boat as you, I'm pretty tall. 6ft 8 inches don't really think I'm that ugly, was hella skinny. was not the best in high school, never really stuttered or did anything weird when talking to women but never got any attention from women, and it has compounded after 2 years of working out that i still cannot get any girl to like me regardless of what i do. I genuinely belive that the idea of a girl liking me is pathetic and physically impossible. Still believe it to this day. I always assume; oh they r just being friendly, who cares, focus on yourself first. Sure Im confident now and Im a great talker with both genders but still at the back of my head I am certain I will never attract any girl. I don't really know what to do at this point, i have had this in my head forever. Nothing has changed my mind yet. If anyone got some advice, I would appreciate it.
Man, the last few minutes hit me hard as an Indian man in the US. And yet going through the video I realized that I missed a lot of shit in HS. Never again, knowledge is power. We go through so much of our lives without being told or shown these things. I want to make my body and mind the best it can reasonably be. To live without seeing the peak is a tragedy. I don't agree with everything you say but I don't need to either.
Right around 14:15 this resonated with me a bit…. I have known for a fact about girls liking me (never acted on it, I’m now 17 years old and a junior in high school) and a part of that was that I believed I was ugly… and kind of still do. I know I’m not some sigma male who just looks stunning but I’m working towards gaining more confidence and self-respect. Something that never really helped was a lot of the girls around me (ESPECIALLY white girls, some of whom I liked) saying they don’t like white guys, only dark skinned guys (I’m Scandinavian and have had ancestors in the US for centuries) and tbh when girls you like say that shit I think the fellas can agree it’s de-moralizing, at least at first. I assume it’s a result of a combination of things in my life and with myself, but I’ve never had a gf, never kissed a girl, nothing. I assumed they just didn’t like me or I just didn’t approach them. I also SUCK at talking to girls (at least as far as flirting is concerned). I’m now working on myself heavily and trying to build more relationships and friendships with people.
been there bro. i try to ignore women like that (you can’t convince them that it’s possible to be racist to white people) but hang in there you got a whole life ahead of you 💯
This is something I am trying to work on for myself. After having a huge breakdown last week for hating everything about myself. I don't feel worthy since I have been made to believe I am not masculine enough. I don't have a deep voice people stare at me when I talk. Most of my friends are girls because honestly most teenage guys are stupid, I could never relate to the conventionally 'straight guy' things. All this makes people think I'm gay even though I'm not. I haven't really liked myself as such for the past few years since I gained a shit ton of weight a few years back due to the fact that I had just shifted to the other side of the country from my closest friend ever and that manifested in eating way more than I normally do. Thankfully I lost it all lol. Like people will tell me "oh just workout and get muscles no one will think you're gay", but I don't want to. I'm perfectly healthy, not too thin and not too fat. Having a muscular body is just not me. All this made me spiral into this huge self pity party where I just cried. Thankfully I have a really nice support system on my side and I'm starting trying to be a bit more confident in my own skin, but it's really hard. But people like Hamza are motivation. Not cos I want to have muscles all around, but cos he learnt to become comfortable with his body. I know I'm probably in the extreme minority here since most of Hamza's audience is guys who aspire to be absolutely jacked and not enough people talk about my pov on the internet. I would like to know if there's someone like me here. Thanks for reading this bullshit rant I wanted to get it off my chest.
This video helped me out a lot but the only different thing was I was brought up by my dad who btw is is the best person in the world for me. He's basically the mother and father role in my life. Don't worry, I didn't lose my mum or anything, she just wasn't there or cared much for me and my brother, just though it was all about her yk. So things were much different for me because I didn't really get hugged (since I was like 4 or 5 just messing around with my dad), kissed or comfortable saying love you and stuff yk. So I'm honestly just trying to improve myself now that I'm in a relationship because I like her and I want to keep it going strong :) Also it's really cool getting to know her mum because I didn't really have that type of person in my life.
13:45 fully hit me man, I’ve had times where a girl told me or someone else they liked me but I just couldn’t believe it and didn’t want to be on the wrong end of a joke
I really vibe with the last part, thank you for all you do, all the time, all the videos and skill you bring, teach and show us Hamza.... thanks brother
Ive been homeschooled all my life so Ive never been in a environment that would allow me to come into contact with a bunch of girls, but in my general day to day life I can carry a sober convo with a girl or woman in general and can handle myself just fine so mostly it'll have to come from experience and confidence and having trust in yourself to Interact with women.....never been on a single date in my life though 😅
You're chill bro, most girls really get into the dating/sexual game heavily & all the fun, wild stuff & great stories happen when they leave home & aren't under the eye of their parents in universities/colleges anyway. Just study hard & keep improving, by the time you're 18 in college most guys wouldn't have even gotten into self improvement consistently & seriously, and you have your entire life ahead of you post college as well, you're doing fine, in the mean time just go out & explore whatever area you are in, make it a goal to have a great conversation with 1 person a day then increase it to 5, approach everyone, old, kids, your teachers or principals at school, break your social anxiety with everyone before you start having casual good interactions with stranger girls.
@@neltins5308 Oh mate im turning 20 real soon and dont really have any plans to go to college unless its for a specific reason, im gonna be focusing on myself and working on starting my business, im ahead of the curve 😆
I loved this video. Got a lot of good little nuggets out of it. One thing I did want to say however, is what you talked about with the whole ‘not liking to be touched, hugged, affections’ bit. I recently started dating a girl that has never had a bf and told me she doesn’t like that kind of stuff at all. But the more we hang out, the more touchy she gets. The more affection she shows me/wants me to show. This girl I just don’t think has known that’s what she likes. Has just been closed off to that. A girl that truly has feelings for you will show you affection. Period.
@@uhhhi.8499 it’s funny you say that. Because more and more I keep having that same thought. I’m used to like half a dozen red flags by the first date. But this girl just keeps getting better and more appealing.
I am 23 now, and the message at the end really had me in tears. All my life I have been rejected and few months ago I got friend zoned by one of the girl I liked. It's been really hard for me to accept after all of the things that happened to me that girls are into me, its really hard for me to believe that anyone is interested in me.
The last rant really made me tear up. I really thought I could never get laid because I grew up hating the way I look, only like 1 year ago I started going to the gym and putting in some big effort and seeing some decent results but like 1-2 months ago a girl started having a really big crush on me and I didn't know how handle it properly, I opened up to her and we are currently in a weird stage because in a way I don't want to be w/ her but I've made out with her before. I feel stupid for doing this to her because I just know I'm playing with her feelings but in the same time I don't want to date her but in the same time I really think she is attractive. I think I'll find a moment ig to tell her all of these thoughts or something.
you aren’t playing with her feelings. If anything it is the opposite. You probably think about her way more then she thinks about you. You literally commented on a self improvement video a whole paragraph about this girl. Do you think she doing the same?
Don’t stress bro. Make a decision and act on it. If you don’t want to be with her then don’t. She’s not the only person out there there’s more. Don’t settle.
PRO TIP: this isn't entirely accurate when the girl's personality is just extremely flirtatious. I've experienced it first hand. She likely has a flirtatious personality if 1. shes been in a lot of relationships 2. talks to many boys at the same time 3. majority of her friends are boys 4. starts getting comfortable with you really fast.
at which point you might as well ask yourself what you want from this person - cause commitment doesn't resonate with all that, just a "situationship".
hamza that ending really connected with me thank you for sharing that I have followed your advice for a while now ( a few months ) and I’ve never been this in control of my life even tho I haven’t taken as many steps as I wish I will improve and so should everybody else good luck guys
2:33 describe me too well. Dated a girl I used to work with and at some point we talked about the other girls in the place and ''what they tought'' about me and that the day I learned I was terrible at knowing when a girl is actually interested (like.. 5 girls in the the place would have actually being down for fun or more and I never noticed in more than a year beside the one I dated).
i never even knew she liked me… last year i wasn’t confident and every time she keep eye contact at me i couldn’t hope eye contact, we were friends and i remember to used to look at me and i saw in the conner of my eyes and she told me about her brother/family
This video has opened my eyes tbh. I've already convinced myself that no girl would be interested in me because of my acne, but now it feels like i got some chance after all.
Hey Hamza, please do a video on how to stay motivated after recovering from an injury? I have had a shoulder injury for about 4 months now and I still don't know what it is and how to treat it (I've been to physio twice). I can't workout and feel quite unmotivated to stay on self improvement. Thanks bro 🙏
Similar situation actually but not nearly as bad, I actually injured my arms doing bicep curls and I'm kinda worried I ain't doing enough but I think the best thing to do is to work on what you can so at least ur working on smthing if that makes sense
hey dylan im sorry to hear about that i also suffered an injury a couple of years ago and i just kept myself busy with other things, i played a lot of fortnite and looking back that probably wasnt the best thing to do but you can learn a new skill like programming, read some books or study a subject that you are passionate about and i know the struggles but everything will be alright just give it some time and you will recover💌
I feel you, but my situation is kinda different bcuz I used to train calisthenics a lot(I was pretty good), until they diagnosed me with pretty big scoliosis which has progresing quite quickly. Since then almost every specialists told me to stop training bcuz it might make my scoliosis worse or atleast will slow down or cut down my healing progress:/
I don’t usually comment on things very often but this comment kind of struck a chord with me. I remember over a year from now I suffered from some weird form of carpal tunnel syndrome I felt so helpless and I remember the electrifying pain that came with it. It took almost an entire month for me to move my fingers and some more to actually start doing normal tasks again, at one point I also went to physio. It took a while but things gradually started getting back to normal and now I’ve just recently started going to the gym with my friends and I’m training to strengthen my arms and just get healthy overall. I would’ve killed to know that there was someone else going through the same thing as me so Dylan just know you’re not alone in this and that, believe it or not, things do gradually get better over time. I recommend picking up a fun hobby that you can do whilst you recover for me I played chess and I’ve gotten really good. Turn your negatives into positives. - sorry for the long rant
13:48 hit me really hard Hamza, I have for the longest time I had convinced myself that I was ugly due to being brown. However I have recently completed a glow up period lasting a year: - I`ve lost fat and gained muscle - I have straightened my teeth and gotten venners - undergone a hair transplant and used minoxidil for thicker hair growth - grown out a short beard - upgraded my clothing style - fixed my posture Now that I walk outside I see more and more of these signs, and I think that it cannot be a coincidence. Thank you for making all of us aware of these signs!
Bro that speech on the end of this video about guys believing that they are ugly etc literally made me cry, maybe because I could see myself in that guy. Thank you Hamza, you genuienly changed my life.
I think I'd need to thank you Hamza. I am a short (5'7), bald guy who was struggling in life and last year, when I saw your videos I had decided to start improving myself. Now thanks to your advice I have a beautiful and lovely girlfriend that loves me, I would've never imagined that before. So thank you.
I met a girl recently, we're close when we meet in real life, really good vibes, but when we send each other messages from time to time, it feels like we don't know each other that much or she's not into it... it feels dry, slow paced messages etc. Anyway, I want to ask her this week if she's interested in dating because I never asked a girl out before, I'll take this as practice and see what I can improve if she says no. What do you guys suggest me to do ?
fuck it bro, try it, even if the signs arent well experience is experience, experience everything when ur young. but right when you feel it goes the wrong way immediately Drop it, dont let oneitis get to you or settle down or get complacent, keep improving
If she is dry then she might not be interested, I aint tryna hate I'm just being honest but go for it for sure but don't be heart broken if she says no. I got rejected like this so I don't wanna see my bros in pain, but go for it my man!
Texting totally different then meeting up. There are some girls that are bad texter, or disconnects the "texting you" from the real you in her mind. Ask her out, if she accepts spend time with her and you will see. If she doesn't you don't waste time comptemplating and you can start searching for something new.
Just a reminder to the people out there to not watch self improvement videos when you're meant to be doing something else. Still procrastinating bros. Love.
Hamza this really helpt me i know it s just one comment in thousands and you dont care but i just wanted to say this is the best advice i hade in like forever
Start working out Reading, work your social skills and start learning abaut dropshipping or any other side hustle Dont fuck up school and family relations Give it a month After developing some good habbits start eliminating bad Worked for me And Remember to dont give up after fail I fail my grind like every 3 days but still going trying to dont let it happen again Cheers bro If you got some more problems ask if you dont want this in public ill give you my instagram Be strong
@@sirschwai glad to hear that And obviously remember to be thankfull for every thing you have and pray as much as you can For exemple I got fucked uped childhood Alchoholic father and couple traumas By my family always treated like shit and dissapointment Even when tried to impress them I love lifting My spine fucked up My shoulder fucked up My biggest problem every day is get up from bed becouse incoming day will not give me any reason to feel good I dont have strenght to do nothing But i get up Pray and thank god that i live and my legs and arms are working It always could be worse I came thru some bad shit Its not easy I am sad human who always cry when no one sees meno one knows my true Face I am not good person I dont know is that my childhood or Just my charakter but i am sarcastic, negative thinking, and would kill everyone araound me I am always frustrated But i keep fighting becouse i rather fight thru all live and win than surrend Becouse i will tell you something I have no other option Noone loves me I dont have any motivation to live than Hoping that next day it will get better hope that someday i will get happines
@@sirschwai i am always alone No one knows me I didnt let anyone to know me I am alone with my thoughts They are negative I dont see better perspective I think i might fell something like light depression There is not single thing that i enjoy Even weights lose sense I am falling down
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Hamza doesn't get enough credit for how hilarious he is sometimes
Bro made me burst out laughing in this video lmao
lol I couldn't stop laughing when he was talking about seeing the "beta" version of himself on Snapchat, his stories are gonna light a massive fire under the ass of a lot of young guys
for real
"I was fucking a girl in the woods" like whaaat 💀
"every girl thinks im a terrorist" that killed me lmao
It's definitely hard at first to know if a girl or a guy is legitmately interested in you. But the more you hang out with the opposite gender, the more you'll be able to know. Get out there and get that experience! You got this ❤️
100%. Some girls are just really friendly, or generally flirty. Guess you’ve gotta dig deeper
Thanks king!
Anyone that says they has never had a girl legitimately interested in you.
Genuine burning desire is very obvious.
What I think is the best approach is the hell yes or no approach. It's either you look at a girl and you go "yep that girl is all over me" and if it's not that then "I am misunderstanding/wrong" in which case you forget about the latter girl completely and only focus on girls who really make it easy for you to be with
@@issammelzi728 but wouldn’t that mean that they gave it up easy…
Being a guy who was constantly bullied by pairs I fully understand... It even got to a point where I had so called "friends" asking girls to agree if im ugly, never felt so humiliated in my life
This gave me the opportunity to grow, hit the gym and learn a valuable skill in music. I am grateful to them because if it wasn't for them, I'll be that chubby losee from 2015..
Great video Hamza
Glad you managed to improve your life, keep going bro!
we're all rooting for you bro
@@jorgedesousa3444 Thank you dude :)
@@sajidteg4682 Really appreciate it bro ^_^
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You don't understand what this man can do to you and I'm telling you I watched his videos. I'm 15 right now but when I was 14 i would see his videos and would ignore them but ever since the mid october till now I've watched and lerned from him and implemented the things he says and recommends in these videos helped me start my self improvement journey and I can't be more grateful. It's hard trust me I even stopped my self improvement during my Halloween break from school but after waking up late and feeling shit I got back into my self improvement and I'm grateful I did.
Keep up the hard work and stay strong
well said bro
Well said Snowfoot, keep at it king
@@thetrueending6991 you too king. Never give up even during the hardest of times.
same bro
stay strong mate
Hamza is so inspiring. He has changed me from a 12 year old fat obese bad habits etc into a (i cant consider myself a man) but i am full of test in the gym meditating and just improving on myself every day. I have my hat off to this guy.May you live in peace if you read this and may God be with you. Amen.
Amen
Amen
Amen bro.
Amen
Amen
The editing team has been killing it with the thumbnails lately! I'm grateful for them and the effort they put into these videos along with Hamza of course.
Exactlyy
Time Stamps
Intro 0:00
Strong Eye Contact 2:41
Sends Enthusiastic Text messages 3:32
Invades Personal Space 7:04
Shares emotional parts about her 9:15
Talk about you to her friends 10:52
A message 12:57
7:21 "o o OoOO thats funny youre a pedophile" Captions: "Thats is funny, youre beautiful"
thanks
Love you bruv❤️
So a woman invading a man's personal space is a good thing but a man invading a woman's personal space and touching her is a bad thing?
@@nekemli2622 Black Piller
Hey Hamza, please do videos talking about trauma. Childhood trauma from parents, from struggling financially, always being down by toxic friends and how to overcome it.
Hamza I just wanted to say thank you for everything you have taught me so far. I’ve started to apply your advice to my daily life and I haven’t been as happy as this in 8 years. I’ve been doing nofap, going to church, making eye contact and engaging in great conversation with people, meditating/journaling, working out regularly, stopped watching anime and playing video games and even more great things. I want to lead a great generation of men through tough times and be someone who people respect. Your life changing brother and I live with a fire in my heart because of you. Stay blessed
watched this video, asked her out, she's my girlfriend now
W Mans
Seriously? Congrats man! That’s what it’s all about. Confidence goes all long way.
So glad I found your channel. I've been on my self improvement journey for a mere 2 weeks, but I've never felt better in my entire 21 years of existence.
Hamzah is such a good teacher for people like us who grew up without a father or anyone helping us out.
Almost a year in my self-improvement journey, i started this thanks to Hamza! Thank you
not believing anyone could find you attractive hits home. i still kinda feel like that. it only changed a bit when a girl legit fell in love with me and we got super close even though it sadly didnt work out. now i at least know for a fact that its not impossible, and it makes me wonder how many others have also found me attractive.
- Eye contact for sure is a big sign.
- I'm not too sure about the enthusiastic text messages, I'd say that the actual sign related to that is when it is she who begins text conversations with you. Like, if she texts you "Good morning, how are you doing?" in the morning (without you having texted her before that), that's a sign she likes you.
- When she engages in unnecessary physical contact is definitely a huge sign she likes you.
- The sharing emotional parts about her maybe.. it's not that obvious like the other ones. She might as well see you like a good friend.
Yeah I don't agree with the emotional part. When I've met completely new female co workers they talk about their emotions a lot. It's just a feminine trait and doesn't necessarily mean they have any feelings for you
Even if one *isn't* interested in being in a relationship it's important to be aware of when a woman is interested in you, as you might see her as a friend while she might think you're in a serious relationship with her.
Hi John doe
I needed this bro
Thanks for being here and still posting dude
Thanks for the personal video Hamza.
Damn Hamza it hit me hard when you said even you had to deal with stereotypes. Being the man you are now gives me great inspiration. I’m 34 and even though you are younger than me I look at you as a leader of modern men that we desperately need. Thanks and much blessings to you
When girls get loud around you its also a sign of interest, if she moves the group in a club to near you, or she will be more challenging, or she can actually get quiet around you.
There's a lot of subtle signs, context is most important, superficial body language interpretation can lead to problems. Trust what you gut says, you know when there's a vibe :)
The biggest sign, she doesn't walk away easily from you 😜
last part got really deep but hamza was just speaking facts.
When my parents broke up and I was living with my mom, I was a happy kid and I didn't have any insecurities but when time passed and my dad was less present and less masculine, I started feeling really unattractive and I couldn't feel attractive around women and when the signs were there, I didn't see them, but now I do, I have to thank Hamza, he really helped me a lot to become more masculine, now I'm not insecure at all and even got a girlfriend.
I was actually breaking and feeling left out until i watched this vid man im gonna use all these thanks man
Man I wish I knew the girls in high school or college that were into me were actually into me and not looking at me or smiling at me because I look "weird" or whatever, because that was what I was led to believe. I had so many chances to be in loving relationships with girls who want to be with me but I couldn't because of the self-limiting belief of me not thinking that I deserved love. To this day I am still trying to heal that part of me and starting to believe that girls actually find me attractive but it's still hard to look past that as people in the past made me feel that I didn't deserve it. If I never had that self-limiting belief I wonder how much happier my life would be if I were to be with the girls who would love me from the beginning. Seriously Hamza, your message at the end made me tear up, because I could relate to it so hard. I'm only a year younger than you and I am just now starting to fully accept that girls find me attractive. I hope soon I can be with someone who loves me and I can accept their love for me without question.
I'm not even kidding you, I've always wanted to become a better person. I've dreamed about it, I've desired it, but never had the motivation to actually pursue this change. Then I stumbled upon your videos, and something clicked for me, something I've never felt before. Now all I do throughout my free-time is watch your videos on various categories of self-improvement. I have finally started to take action. I can not thank you enough.
Really happy about you and your girl bro! My girlfriend and I are also off social media and that just makes life so much better for both of us
Keep making videos your stuff be addicting to watch
1,1M subscribers Congrats!
The fact you got 200 views in 2 minutes shows your impact my fellow gentleman
1. hold strong eye contact
2. sends enthusiastic texts/replies (be careful 3:29 go watch)
3. makes physical contact
4. opens up
5. she talks about you to her friends
Jus go for it
The last minutes of the video was such a W.
"I just don't like being hugged." Hamza, "bro, she just doesn't like being hugged by you." Bro, this info would have saved me a metric ton of heartbreak and aggravation.
Your last point is the most important point! You are worthy of Love. Improvements is what you do and worthy of love is who you are. Stay strong my dudes!
We'll all get there brah
The timing of your video got me!!!
I'm the guy that didn't get any female attention in high school and was very insecure, I started working out after high school and after about a year I just totally forgot that women could be attracted to me until this one girl that I met was so into me that anyone could see the signs of it, but its a weird experience going from a loser in high school to getting attention from other women the best way I can describe it is that it rewires your brain in a way that lets you know that women are attracted to you, not to mention the confidence you get from it, I was extremely anxious and unconfident until I worked out but honestly speaking I did get confident from working out but absolutely nothing compares to the confidence that you get when an attractive woman is interested in you.
I can relate to you with this. I was 300 pounds and lost 140 pounds by my senior year. It was as surreal for me to walk into school and was known as “the hottest guy in the grade”. It was so weird to go from the fat clown to someone who can actually talk to and seduce girls. Major rewiring of my brain and a huge boost in my confidence in every area of my life. Consistency towards your goal and pushing through failure will take you places. I wish you the best in the future brother stay on the grind 💪🏻
@@reme1901 you too brother 💯💯
@@cold5417 stay hard 💯💯💪🏻
My social skills improved 10 fold in the 3 years before the pandemic. Then covid butt fucked all of that progress. I feel like a robot when talking to women.
Bro, i am still on the same boat as you, I'm pretty tall. 6ft 8 inches don't really think I'm that ugly, was hella skinny. was not the best in high school, never really stuttered or did anything weird when talking to women but never got any attention from women, and it has compounded after 2 years of working out that i still cannot get any girl to like me regardless of what i do. I genuinely belive that the idea of a girl liking me is pathetic and physically impossible. Still believe it to this day. I always assume; oh they r just being friendly, who cares, focus on yourself first. Sure Im confident now and Im a great talker with both genders but still at the back of my head I am certain I will never attract any girl. I don't really know what to do at this point, i have had this in my head forever. Nothing has changed my mind yet. If anyone got some advice, I would appreciate it.
Man, the last few minutes hit me hard as an Indian man in the US. And yet going through the video I realized that I missed a lot of shit in HS. Never again, knowledge is power. We go through so much of our lives without being told or shown these things. I want to make my body and mind the best it can reasonably be. To live without seeing the peak is a tragedy. I don't agree with everything you say but I don't need to either.
Cant lie bro this videos hit home cuz
this helps so much
thank you
It's funny because I found myself doing everything that he said a girl would do, not letting that stop me though, getting on the grind!
Right around 14:15 this resonated with me a bit…. I have known for a fact about girls liking me (never acted on it, I’m now 17 years old and a junior in high school) and a part of that was that I believed I was ugly… and kind of still do. I know I’m not some sigma male who just looks stunning but I’m working towards gaining more confidence and self-respect. Something that never really helped was a lot of the girls around me (ESPECIALLY white girls, some of whom I liked) saying they don’t like white guys, only dark skinned guys (I’m Scandinavian and have had ancestors in the US for centuries) and tbh when girls you like say that shit I think the fellas can agree it’s de-moralizing, at least at first. I assume it’s a result of a combination of things in my life and with myself, but I’ve never had a gf, never kissed a girl, nothing. I assumed they just didn’t like me or I just didn’t approach them. I also SUCK at talking to girls (at least as far as flirting is concerned). I’m now working on myself heavily and trying to build more relationships and friendships with people.
i love white guys come
been there bro. i try to ignore women like that (you can’t convince them that it’s possible to be racist to white people) but hang in there you got a whole life ahead of you 💯
he uploaded this when i actually needed it
hamza be life changing fr fr
You never fail to make me laugh bro 😂
This is something I am trying to work on for myself. After having a huge breakdown last week for hating everything about myself. I don't feel worthy since I have been made to believe I am not masculine enough. I don't have a deep voice people stare at me when I talk. Most of my friends are girls because honestly most teenage guys are stupid, I could never relate to the conventionally 'straight guy' things.
All this makes people think I'm gay even though I'm not. I haven't really liked myself as such for the past few years since I gained a shit ton of weight a few years back due to the fact that I had just shifted to the other side of the country from my closest friend ever and that manifested in eating way more than I normally do. Thankfully I lost it all lol.
Like people will tell me "oh just workout and get muscles no one will think you're gay", but I don't want to. I'm perfectly healthy, not too thin and not too fat. Having a muscular body is just not me. All this made me spiral into this huge self pity party where I just cried.
Thankfully I have a really nice support system on my side and I'm starting trying to be a bit more confident in my own skin, but it's really hard. But people like Hamza are motivation. Not cos I want to have muscles all around, but cos he learnt to become comfortable with his body.
I know I'm probably in the extreme minority here since most of Hamza's audience is guys who aspire to be absolutely jacked and not enough people talk about my pov on the internet. I would like to know if there's someone like me here. Thanks for reading this bullshit rant I wanted to get it off my chest.
Amazing advice
Great video brother
This video helped me out a lot but the only different thing was I was brought up by my dad who btw is is the best person in the world for me. He's basically the mother and father role in my life. Don't worry, I didn't lose my mum or anything, she just wasn't there or cared much for me and my brother, just though it was all about her yk. So things were much different for me because I didn't really get hugged (since I was like 4 or 5 just messing around with my dad), kissed or comfortable saying love you and stuff yk. So I'm honestly just trying to improve myself now that I'm in a relationship because I like her and I want to keep it going strong :) Also it's really cool getting to know her mum because I didn't really have that type of person in my life.
13:45 fully hit me man, I’ve had times where a girl told me or someone else they liked me but I just couldn’t believe it and didn’t want to be on the wrong end of a joke
That was me in middle school and early high school. Shit sucks
Thanks, you opened my mind
I really vibe with the last part, thank you for all you do, all the time, all the videos and skill you bring, teach and show us Hamza.... thanks brother
Ive been homeschooled all my life so Ive never been in a environment that would allow me to come into contact with a bunch of girls, but in my general day to day life I can carry a sober convo with a girl or woman in general and can handle myself just fine so mostly it'll have to come from experience and confidence and having trust in yourself to Interact with women.....never been on a single date in my life though 😅
You're chill bro, most girls really get into the dating/sexual game heavily & all the fun, wild stuff & great stories happen when they leave home & aren't under the eye of their parents in universities/colleges anyway. Just study hard & keep improving, by the time you're 18 in college most guys wouldn't have even gotten into self improvement consistently & seriously, and you have your entire life ahead of you post college as well, you're doing fine, in the mean time just go out & explore whatever area you are in, make it a goal to have a great conversation with 1 person a day then increase it to 5, approach everyone, old, kids, your teachers or principals at school, break your social anxiety with everyone before you start having casual good interactions with stranger girls.
@@neltins5308 Oh mate im turning 20 real soon and dont really have any plans to go to college unless its for a specific reason, im gonna be focusing on myself and working on starting my business, im ahead of the curve 😆
I loved this video. Got a lot of good little nuggets out of it.
One thing I did want to say however, is what you talked about with the whole ‘not liking to be touched, hugged, affections’ bit.
I recently started dating a girl that has never had a bf and told me she doesn’t like that kind of stuff at all. But the more we hang out, the more touchy she gets. The more affection she shows me/wants me to show.
This girl I just don’t think has known that’s what she likes. Has just been closed off to that.
A girl that truly has feelings for you will show you affection. Period.
Bro she's the one
@@uhhhi.8499 it’s funny you say that. Because more and more I keep having that same thought.
I’m used to like half a dozen red flags by the first date. But this girl just keeps getting better and more appealing.
@@adamwall7852 nah men at the end of the day its up to you to decide
Or make her watch hamza with you maybe that'd work 😅
I NEEDED THIS HAMZA. THANKS BRO
Hamza, that last part of the video... I needed it. Thanks so much.
You love to see Hamza at 1 million!!!
I am 23 now, and the message at the end really had me in tears. All my life I have been rejected and few months ago I got friend zoned by one of the girl I liked. It's been really hard for me to accept after all of the things that happened to me that girls are into me, its really hard for me to believe that anyone is interested in me.
You got this bro I'm 21 and I'm in the same situation
@@connerlyford9643 thanks bro, I hope you are doing well now. Wish you all the best.
Bro tysm
Hamza is the big brother we all needed
The last rant really made me tear up. I really thought I could never get laid because I grew up hating the way I look, only like 1 year ago I started going to the gym and putting in some big effort and seeing some decent results but like 1-2 months ago a girl started having a really big crush on me and I didn't know how handle it properly, I opened up to her and we are currently in a weird stage because in a way I don't want to be w/ her but I've made out with her before. I feel stupid for doing this to her because I just know I'm playing with her feelings but in the same time I don't want to date her but in the same time I really think she is attractive. I think I'll find a moment ig to tell her all of these thoughts or something.
you aren’t playing with her feelings. If anything it is the opposite. You probably think about her way more then she thinks about you. You literally commented on a self improvement video a whole paragraph about this girl. Do you think she doing the same?
@@viceflores probably not thanks for the advice tho, I really couldn’t sleep at night cuz of these thoughts
@@petru_vfx4751 don’t worry about it. Women come and go nothing last forever believe me. You’ll come across many women that make you feel like that.
Don’t stress bro. Make a decision and act on it. If you don’t want to be with her then don’t. She’s not the only person out there there’s more. Don’t settle.
@@swishask8875 thanks
PRO TIP: this isn't entirely accurate when the girl's personality is just extremely flirtatious. I've experienced it first hand. She likely has a flirtatious personality if
1. shes been in a lot of relationships
2. talks to many boys at the same time
3. majority of her friends are boys
4. starts getting comfortable with you really fast.
at which point you might as well ask yourself what you want from this person - cause commitment doesn't resonate with all that, just a "situationship".
Thank you Bro for this helpfully video 💪🏻🤝🏻
hamza that ending really connected with me thank you for sharing that I have followed your advice for a while now ( a few months ) and I’ve never been this in control of my life even tho I haven’t taken as many steps as I wish I will improve and so should everybody else good luck guys
12:01 that sound effect tho bro 😂😂😂
hamza is just the best, thanks maan keep going
shut up
Thanks for the videos little - big brother
rejection is hurt but regret is more painful, right?
2:33 describe me too well. Dated a girl I used to work with and at some point we talked about the other girls in the place and ''what they tought'' about me and that the day I learned I was terrible at knowing when a girl is actually interested (like.. 5 girls in the the place would have actually being down for fun or more and I never noticed in more than a year beside the one I dated).
He tells everything I want to know and need to know
Mashallah!
i never even knew she liked me… last year i wasn’t confident and every time she keep eye contact at me i couldn’t hope eye contact, we were friends and i remember to used to look at me and i saw in the conner of my eyes and she told me about her brother/family
my brother i christ it is literally saul goodman
This video has opened my eyes tbh. I've already convinced myself that no girl would be interested in me because of my acne, but now it feels like i got some chance after all.
Bro i was Finna cry at the end
16:59 was journalling about this 2 days ago, relatable bro
Hey Hamza, please do a video on how to stay motivated after recovering from an injury? I have had a shoulder injury for about 4 months now and I still don't know what it is and how to treat it (I've been to physio twice). I can't workout and feel quite unmotivated to stay on self improvement. Thanks bro 🙏
Hit legs
Similar situation actually but not nearly as bad, I actually injured my arms doing bicep curls and I'm kinda worried I ain't doing enough but I think the best thing to do is to work on what you can so at least ur working on smthing if that makes sense
hey dylan im sorry to hear about that i also suffered an injury a couple of years ago and i just kept myself busy with other things, i played a lot of fortnite and looking back that probably wasnt the best thing to do but you can learn a new skill like programming, read some books or study a subject that you are passionate about and i know the struggles but everything will be alright just give it some time and you will recover💌
I feel you, but my situation is kinda different bcuz I used to train calisthenics a lot(I was pretty good), until they diagnosed me with pretty big scoliosis which has progresing quite quickly. Since then almost every specialists told me to stop training bcuz it might make my scoliosis worse or atleast will slow down or cut down my healing progress:/
I don’t usually comment on things very often but this comment kind of struck a chord with me. I remember over a year from now I suffered from some weird form of carpal tunnel syndrome I felt so helpless and I remember the electrifying pain that came with it. It took almost an entire month for me to move my fingers and some more to actually start doing normal tasks again, at one point I also went to physio. It took a while but things gradually started getting back to normal and now I’ve just recently started going to the gym with my friends and I’m training to strengthen my arms and just get healthy overall. I would’ve killed to know that there was someone else going through the same thing as me so Dylan just know you’re not alone in this and that, believe it or not, things do gradually get better over time. I recommend picking up a fun hobby that you can do whilst you recover for me I played chess and I’ve gotten really good. Turn your negatives into positives. - sorry for the long rant
Yeah through the whole of high school I’ve been straight up dodging all the signs like I’m legally blind.
this video really touched me definitely at the end
adonissss !!! the best part 🤣
Adoniss catches me every time
13:46 I genuinely relate to this so much
there are a lot of reasons they wouldn't tho
Thank you Hamza.
Bro the timing is unreal, I am literally in this situation
13:48 hit me really hard Hamza, I have for the longest time I had convinced myself that I was ugly due to being brown. However I have recently completed a glow up period lasting a year:
- I`ve lost fat and gained muscle
- I have straightened my teeth and gotten venners
- undergone a hair transplant and used minoxidil for thicker hair growth
- grown out a short beard
- upgraded my clothing style
- fixed my posture
Now that I walk outside I see more and more of these signs, and I think that it cannot be a coincidence. Thank you for making all of us aware of these signs!
Same
Bro that speech on the end of this video about guys believing that they are ugly etc literally made me cry, maybe because I could see myself in that guy. Thank you Hamza, you genuienly changed my life.
I Always enjoy the intro of your videos, it's so cool 😂
damn the editing is fire 🔥
I think I'd need to thank you Hamza.
I am a short (5'7), bald guy who was struggling in life and last year, when I saw your videos I had decided to start improving myself.
Now thanks to your advice I have a beautiful and lovely girlfriend that loves me, I would've never imagined that before.
So thank you.
r/ThatHappened
@@Pootispenserherehoovy
Shut the fuck up before I come with my axe.
@@lumberjack3181 I'm shivering my timbers
Me who is 5'3 at 14
Be greatfull man 5'7 ain't bad
Stay strong brother
13:23 hamza gets a birmingham accent
Thanks Hamza
Keep goin bro this is the first vid ive seen of yours and its amazing
5:41 in the wood ayo bruv💀
I met a girl recently, we're close when we meet in real life, really good vibes, but when we send each other messages from time to time, it feels like we don't know each other that much or she's not into it... it feels dry, slow paced messages etc. Anyway, I want to ask her this week if she's interested in dating because I never asked a girl out before, I'll take this as practice and see what I can improve if she says no.
What do you guys suggest me to do ?
Just do it
fuck it bro, try it, even if the signs arent well experience is experience, experience everything when ur young. but right when you feel it goes the wrong way immediately Drop it, dont let oneitis get to you or settle down or get complacent, keep improving
If she is dry then she might not be interested, I aint tryna hate I'm just being honest but go for it for sure but don't be heart broken if she says no. I got rejected like this so I don't wanna see my bros in pain, but go for it my man!
If she rejects you, then she is not that person to be a part of your life
Texting totally different then meeting up. There are some girls that are bad texter, or disconnects the "texting you" from the real you in her mind. Ask her out, if she accepts spend time with her and you will see. If she doesn't you don't waste time comptemplating and you can start searching for something new.
The thumbnail is fire🔥
thank you hamza
Your girl is beautiful and seems genuine, great catch bro.
Thank you bro, she said How lovely
Just a reminder to the people out there to not watch self improvement videos when you're meant to be doing something else. Still procrastinating bros. Love.
Thank you Hamza, I been texting this girl this will help me out bro
Hamza this really helpt me i know it s just one comment in thousands and you dont care but i just wanted to say this is the best advice i hade in like forever
Im 14 years old and doing all the bad habits you know something that could instantly change my life
Start working out Reading, work your social skills and start learning abaut dropshipping or any other side hustle
Dont fuck up school and family relations
Give it a month
After developing some good habbits start eliminating bad
Worked for me
And Remember to dont give up after fail
I fail my grind like every 3 days but still going trying to dont let it happen again
Cheers bro
If you got some more problems ask if you dont want this in public ill give you my instagram
Be strong
@@sabczakemil9311 thanks bro you helped me a lot
@@sirschwai glad to hear that
And obviously remember to be thankfull for every thing you have and pray as much as you can
For exemple
I got fucked uped childhood
Alchoholic father and couple traumas
By my family always treated like shit and dissapointment Even when tried to impress them
I love lifting
My spine fucked up
My shoulder fucked up
My biggest problem every day is get up from bed becouse incoming day will not give me any reason to feel good
I dont have strenght to do nothing
But i get up
Pray and thank god that i live and my legs and arms are working
It always could be worse
I came thru some bad shit
Its not easy
I am sad human who always cry when no one sees meno one knows my true Face
I am not good person
I dont know is that my childhood or Just my charakter but i am sarcastic, negative thinking, and would kill everyone araound me
I am always frustrated
But i keep fighting becouse i rather fight thru all live and win than surrend
Becouse i will tell you something
I have no other option
Noone loves me
I dont have any motivation to live than Hoping that next day it will get better
hope that someday i will get happines
I am 15
I dont think thats how my live should look like now
@@sirschwai i am always alone
No one knows me
I didnt let anyone to know me
I am alone with my thoughts
They are negative
I dont see better perspective
I think i might fell something like light depression
There is not single thing that i enjoy
Even weights lose sense
I am falling down