so boom...MODESTY. | my views on modesty as a single Christian woman

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    Hey YT fam! I've been sitting on this for a while now lol. Modesty is a touchy topic when it really doesn't have to be. Since I've been saved the Lord has taken me on a journey of what modesty is and how to walk it out practically - and with that I've really been finding my own style and how modesty plays a part in that.
    TIMESTAMPS
    intro: 0:20
    my background: 2:38
    definition of modesty: 5:07
    scriptures about modesty: 11:00
    What has been your experience with modesty? Have you ever viewed modesty as a bad thing? Leave a comment below!!!
    Love yall!
    - Kenn
    sub count: 516 beautiful souls

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  • @a.v.6158
    @a.v.6158 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    very wholesome! I'm glad you talked about modesty being about the heart, WITHOUT disproving that clothes are important as well!

  • @Amelia-vn5yb
    @Amelia-vn5yb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Would love to see a modest summer outfits video :) Thanks for your videos. God bless you!!!

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg yea for sure, definitely gonna do this then!! And soooo so happy they bless you! Thank you for watching 🤍🤍🤍

  • @taylorw.4572
    @taylorw.4572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am so grateful to God that my sister shared this with me! After watching this, I felt this weight of legalism and shame come off. I know that I received clarity about this topic just from hearing what you had to share. Keep doing God's work because your obedience changed my life for the better.

  • @_art.honest
    @_art.honest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Just found you on a search! I was searching about Modesty because it's something I think isn't spoken about often. Self expression/individualism, I've found, has taken us away from the Modesty of the heart and physical apparel as well. There's nothing wrong with self expression though! But I just think we've strayed away from Modesty. Modesty is important to me and to God as we look through scripture. I do feel that some don't understand why I take part in physical modesty amongst other things, but I knowwww what works and what doesn't. I also think we could help each other out as well when it comes to this. I'd love to see your vid on Modest outfits and stuff! (Alright I'm done😂. Let me go watch your other vids ✊🏿)

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      oh wow, just now seeing this comment!!! so glad you found me! modesty is also something very important to me and it's taken (and is still taking) me some time to navigate. one thing that has really irritated me is the language that is used concerning modesty from both sides of the aisle of opinions on modesty... definitely gonna make a vid on modest outfits sometime soon, thanks so much for supporting my channel :)

    • @CatNab0904
      @CatNab0904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I second this, would love to a modesty outfit video from you!

    • @Amourbeauty_mua
      @Amourbeauty_mua ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t like being Judged I feel like other Christian are too judgemental when it comes to modesty

    • @theparttimehomemaker
      @theparttimehomemaker ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. The feminism movement has been catastrophic for modesty. It's when everything started going downhill.

    • @khaiylahwiththestyla8722
      @khaiylahwiththestyla8722 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You said it! Fashion and personal style has always been something I feel a passion for. However, in the past I thought I was dressing outside of the box, when, in reality, I simply had my box out (I couldn't help myself with that one)! Now that I followed the calling of the Lord to dress modestly, my style has improved so much. The outfits are ten times more creative and comfortable. Plus there is a new-found level of respect toward myself and in how I am treated by others. May God bless you on your modesty journey and send companions in Christ with the same conviction for it into your life!

  • @hearModestThought
    @hearModestThought หลายเดือนก่อน

    Miiiisss laaaaddyyyyy!!! I am praising God for you🙌🏼 This is blessing❤

  • @ifesjournal
    @ifesjournal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Your hair is so beautiful 😩😩❤️

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just now seeing this 🥺 thank you so much!! 💕

    • @Itsamantha111
      @Itsamantha111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed!

  • @lauraaah.4343
    @lauraaah.4343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for the reminder of being free. So much ppl are on here “spreading the gospel” and telling people they are going to hell if they do this and that etc. Which is pushing more people away than bringing people closer and they are putting us in a box as if we cannot enjoy what God provided for us because if we do we are “enjoying worldly things” it’s so crazy🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @khaiylahwiththestyla8722
    @khaiylahwiththestyla8722 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless your soul! So inspiring to see a young woman sharing this message and so many scriptures. I am so happy and blessed to have come across this video!

  • @Lottamoneyy
    @Lottamoneyy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Congratulations 500 subs keep going

  • @kenadysanaa
    @kenadysanaa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve watched a couple TH-cam videos about modesty, and yours is by far the best I have seen. I am seeking to start embarking on my journey of learning how to be more modest in my heart & how I present myself!! This is a struggle for me bc in high school, I conformed to the ideal that I needed to flaunt my assets *y’all know what I mean lol* to be considered attractive or “sexy.” As I’ve been growing my relationship with God & I’m now a freshman in college, I know WHOSE I AM, and I want to glorify the Lord. And I’ve been thinking about how I need to redefine my style to fit the young woman I’m growing into as someone who wants to glorify Him. So your video helped so much with this topic & encouraged me to truly seek God for my journey.

    • @Amourbeauty_mua
      @Amourbeauty_mua ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes but I don’t wanna be too modesty

  • @softprincess552
    @softprincess552 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Girl ur so pretty!

  • @SummerRichardson
    @SummerRichardson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was right on time for me. I love how you weren't condemning at all and displayed so much wisdom!

  • @zyomaramarina
    @zyomaramarina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You explained this in such a loving and understanding wayyy. Loved it ❤️

  • @3unhy3
    @3unhy3 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% agree!! So much truth sis! Praise the Lord ❤

  • @BecomingZakah
    @BecomingZakah 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this video!

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A guy told me I looked like a old lady because I had on a floral sun dress he was used to women showing their skin. He felt like he couldn’t be attractive to me because he couldn’t see my body. That was the first and the last time he saw me. This dress was beautiful but sometimes from my own experience, my own men of color tend to sexualized the black woman’s body. They think it belongs to them but it doesn’t. I don’t get that from other races at all. Just my experience. If I walk past a black guy they always say something, I mean always 😂 always looking.

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You did a great job in this video on this topic. Thank you for your transparency AND for looking at it from the Word of God🙏🏽

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you!! God gives the best wisdom :)

  • @theparttimehomemaker
    @theparttimehomemaker ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So many great points xxx

  • @nicolabanda2231
    @nicolabanda2231 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Word!

  • @sundralawton
    @sundralawton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Teach!!!!!

  • @vanessarodriguez2127
    @vanessarodriguez2127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice advice 👌

  • @jennabates4973
    @jennabates4973 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes sister 🙏 you're so funny too 😂💕 bless you xx

  • @urniggasfavorite2481
    @urniggasfavorite2481 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    if i’m not mistaken i believe the hebraic meaning of modest is well put together/put together. and i couldn’t agree with that more but that’s another topic lol…😅- but GIRLLL!!! i love you for making this video especially as a black woman speaking on this topic i really appreciate it more than you know! most ppl haven’t studied deeper into what modesty ACTUALLY means besides what church has told us it means, so all in all i’m happy to see another person doing that! wonderful video, my love
    and p. s. your hair looked good 😌

  • @kaseywilliams1487
    @kaseywilliams1487 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i would love a summer modesty outfits!(:

  • @tecumseha
    @tecumseha 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your comments on modeSTY & dressing modeSTLY! 🙏🏽

  • @ladykadiijha
    @ladykadiijha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow amazing

  • @EngineeredByGod
    @EngineeredByGod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So we are in the process of editing a video on modesty right now and wanted to see what other people have to say about it and found you! We agree with everything you said and touch on similar points so we obviously had to subscribe to your channel! You did a great job tackling this topic and we are looking forward to watching more of your videos! 😁

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow that is awesome!!! That warms my heart ☺️ Are you both engineers by chance? Asking because of your TH-cam name haha

    • @EngineeredByGod
      @EngineeredByGod 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KennedyKelly633 Yeah, we both studied engineering in college (Dave studied civil and I studied mechanical) and that's how we met ☺️. Dave works in the construction field now and I am an engineer for the Department of Defense.

    • @EngineeredByGod
      @EngineeredByGod 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KennedyKelly633 Shout out to you! Fellow Black girl in STEM 💪🏿 I love it!

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *The idea of "modesty" is an absolute joke. God created us to be fully naked with NO SHAME and it was only when we started playing our own game that we started viewing our bodies as disgraceful. 99% of clothing has nothing to do with trying to be provocative, it's just the person wearing what makes them comfortable. Clothing doesn't influence bad actions, corrupt character does.*

  • @allysoncashion2268
    @allysoncashion2268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for making this video!!! I have a very similar background as you, I was very promiscuous since a very young age. When I was saved by Christ at 23, the Holy Spirit slowly but surely started convicting about modesty. And I LOVE how you said 1. It’s not all about clothing, but it includes the heart, the intention and 2. That it’s also for men and 3. The personal doubt and how we must listen to the prompting of the Spirit. Overall, thank you!!!!! God bless you, and keep speaking of His Word! It is our weapon against this world.

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video

  • @diamondkeystv6771
    @diamondkeystv6771 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love this

  • @courageouslyencouraged
    @courageouslyencouraged 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh so you fancy now with the 500 subs I see you!!!

  • @kadijahduarte
    @kadijahduarte ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen, amen, amen! Also, you're so funny! Pleaaaaase can you share the name of this beat in your video? 🎶

  • @lee-annebarrett366
    @lee-annebarrett366 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The only views on modestly l am interested in are the bible scriptures from Gods Word.
    Not a single womans opinion on what she thinks modesty is. Gods word and only Gods word.

  • @courageouslyencouraged
    @courageouslyencouraged 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The thumbnail though 😂

    • @KennedyKelly633
      @KennedyKelly633  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LOLLL I decided to get creative today 😂😂😂

  • @mosesthomas8499
    @mosesthomas8499 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so much deception of the scriptures to suit the narrative

  • @IDeclare
    @IDeclare ปีที่แล้ว

    No one is saved until christ comes back

  • @Bsarahkristy
    @Bsarahkristy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Running you your check? Clearly you’re not doing this genuinely

  • @makotoakiyama6765
    @makotoakiyama6765 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    #GodLovesYou
    #いぇすがだいすき
    We need to repent for our sins to be saved

  • @starhunter9085
    @starhunter9085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    *The idea of "modesty" is an absolute joke. God created us to be fully naked with NO SHAME and it was only when we started playing our own game that we started viewing our bodies as disgraceful. 99% of clothing has nothing to do with trying to be provocative, it's just the person wearing what makes them comfortable. Clothing doesn't influence bad actions, bad character does.*

    • @Isabel-dm1gy
      @Isabel-dm1gy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      God clothed Adam and Eve. "And the Lord God made clothing from animal skins for Adam and his wife." Gen 3:21

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Isabel-dm1gy *That was after Adam and Eve already clothed themselves.*
      *Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. Genesis 3:7*

    • @lissettegutierrez2876
      @lissettegutierrez2876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As we are sinners, clothes do influence bad things. And the Bibles says we have to dress modestly, so? Is the bible lying? Of course it's because our sin. For example the divorce, Jesus explained that God doesn't agree with divorce but Moses put laws about it because men and women are sinners! And they kept divorcing, so they had to put a law. The same as clothing, you're right, God created us with no shame. But now we sin, so things are changed and He gave us His Word, so we have to obey.

    • @starhunter9085
      @starhunter9085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lissettegutierrez2876 *Nowhere in the Bible does it say that our bodies cause others to sin, that's a misinterpretation. The Bible is clear that our bodies are made in God's image and, because of that, we're the crown jewel of His creation. That's why there was no shame in nudity but we've lost sight of that but that doesn't mean that truth changes. Hebrews 13:8 tells us that Jesus is the same yesterday and today and tomorrow so if He thought our bodies were shameless yesterday, He still believes this today. Yes we have to cover certain areas of our bodies when we're in public because we'll get arrested for indecent exposure if we don't but clothing isn't God's creation nor was it ever intended by Him so it's not a priority of His. 1 Samuel 16:7 says WE LOOK AT PHYSICAL APPEARANCE WHILE GOD LOOKS AT THE HEART ❤ and that couldn't be any more true. David, Esther, Isaiah and Adam and Eve (before the fall) were all elevated when they embraced their natural beauty (bodies) so our bodies are not shameful "stumbling blocks", they're glorious elevation tools.*

    • @retrosynthdid4476
      @retrosynthdid4476 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@starhunter9085 "before the fall" is very important. We clothe ourselves because sin was brought into the world. Before that, it's true we can be naked and unashamed. Now this is not the case, cause there is sin in the world. The earthly kingdom is broken, seek Gods kingdom. Stop making excuses for dressing pervertedly. You know it in your heart, stop justifying what's wrong.