The benefits of speaking SLOW & FAST
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2024
- If you speak too fast, that's okay! Just don't get stuck there. Any default rate of speech isn't effective, so make sure you vary between a faster and slower rate to really draw your audience in.
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Or should I say
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Zig Ziglar has something about speech inflection in his course - the secret to closing the sale. We learned about this in case sales as well. They had us say the following sentence over and over, emphasizing a new word each time to show how it completely changed the value of the sentence. I never said he stole money... try it out!
I love how he was doing exactly that while he was explaining it, really made a great example
1.8k likes and no comments? I am gonna change that.
@@prd3462nearly 2K likes and no comments is a bit sus indeed…
@@je6874 indeed🌚
The point, exactly.
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If you speak too slowly I'd think you're having a stroke and if you speak too fast I'd think you've sniffed something pretty strong 😂
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Sniff? Might just go on the innocent route and pretend I didn't know what you were talking about.
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This makes sooooo much sense now! I do this all the time!!! I just didn’t know like the mechanisms to it all 😂🤣😂
That’s how I win 10k in a speech competition, yes they do exist
Difference is people pay to learn stuff they already know
I learned this when I learned to teach. I struggle with tonality, so the other things you can do are vary the rate you speak at, and the volume. Slow and quiet to draw people in, fast and loud to show emphasis. You might not even be saying anything interesting, but it sounds interesting
I am so impressed with the Smarts, Talent & ability to teach life skills that no one ever thinks of how important communicating properly, with honest love & proper intent that makes or breaks many careers, friendships & important loving relationships that we all have access to! Poor, Rich Religious or not anyone can change theirs & others life's around them by intentionally developing this FREE SKILL! A poor man can become rich, a rich man poor, a believer in faith anti faith & a non believer into a true believer!
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"SO.......EXCITED...TO...SPEND...THE ...NEXT...HOURRRRRR" 😅 😅 I literally freaked out thinking about listening to that slowmo voice for an hour .
What does "literally freak out" mean? "Freak out" is a figurative term. It has no literal meaning
@@MarcusHalverstramliterally has almost lost its meaning bcuz of how overused it is nowadays.
Snape: *Obviously.*
@@OmarFaruk77777 it’s officially recognized definition now includes “figuratively.” Language is funny like that
@@MarcusHalverstrambecause literally everyone is saying things that aren't true or jokes and sarcasm these days that we have to add a "literally" for people to know we're not joking or anything
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went from speaking french as a forigneir, to french as a native in terms of rate of speach
En vérité...
This... I cannot understand my cousins sometimes. JUST LIKE WHAT THE FUCK WAS THAT.
@@chimychimes what are you trying to say lmao, no one just says that
@@QuinquetPourprein truth... The words immediately recognizable as the root word is Veritas, meaning truth or reality in Latin
I don't speak French at all btw I'm just Canadian
Oh, wow! I love it. I used to teach rate along with gesture, expression, and volume back when I worked with international teaching assistants. I never truly thought to include consciously varying one's rate.
Learning so much from you! Thanks 😊
really? you didn't know this shit? are you "special" by chance?
My first lecturer did this at university. But to an extreme level, and it would also include speaking more quietly/LOUD
Since everyone was chronically hungover for the first month it was half sleeping, half racing heart rates as a consequence
It was effective when he took time to slowly say “Good morning…everyone”, because it takes a moment or two to connect with and acknowledge the audience at the beginning of a presentation. After that, gradually pace faster as situation calls for. Take a moment to pause and connect with audience again after making important points or conclusions.
You just need a red shirt and you are basically Tom Scott.
He sounds just like him
@@dcj991 the entire population of britain is tom scott, probably.
@@Vaith Pretty sure this guy's Australian.
I WAS TRYING TO THINK OF WHO THIS REMINDED ME OF yes that is exactly it
He reminded me of Tom Scott as well lmaoo
I’m picking up the gems your dropping they’re valuable.
This is the first “buy my course” video I have seen on TH-cam that actually made me want to buy the course.
Follow the flow and keep the rhythm simple and subtle .
I think the key insight was to maintain variance in the rate at which you're speaking. That means you're not constantly explaining something new, which can be dense, and you're not just having a type of manic attack and speaking incomprehensibly fast.
Genius! Of course!
I’ve always had this skill naturally, and if any young adults like me (21) have these kind of natural communication skills, I highly recommend getting into a job that includes a sales position. I myself work at America’s Tire (Discount Tire) and there is a ton of room to grow. We don’t make commission which sucks, but it makes the job less of a competition, and you and your guys are all working toward a common goal. Which happens to be getting people back on the road, safely, and within their budget.
Thanks for the reminder!
Good stuff man!💪😎
I learned to do this naturally, because I explain things in way to much detail so I can't be misunderstood, that people would get bored very fast, so it all has to do with the inflections you use in your voice that actually keep people interested
oh my.... that's actually INCREDIBLY helpful! :D
Actually good advice cause I feel like the more I explain the more confused people get and they panic because they don’t know wtf is going on at work lol I’ll try slowing down
The same phenomenon occurs in writing; it's why a misspelled word maikes a sentencd feel uncomfortable (forcing a surprise slow down to hunt for what's wrong)...and why things like punctuation* and avoiding BLOCK LETTERS THAT INTERFERE WITH RAPIDLY SCANNING FOR WORD SHAPES can be immensely important. I'm not saying anyone has to care...only that since I _really am_ reading to understand another's point of view, details rule.
* For me at least, to manage cadance and nuance
i love talking fast, they end up being able to understand me, and its just how i love speaking, its me
Learned this doing high school speech and debate. The subtleties of vocal presentation and how to harness them are super interesting and important things to learn.
Yes!!! Dynamics on your speech are essencial
Conversations and picking up women. They like a rollercoaster.
Talking, painting mental videos.. sharing and amping up a story .
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I dont reeally like doing it, but it works and that is whats liked.
Long ,held conversations (most the time by the male) are a surefire way to melt into someones conciounse .
I didn't know what I was doing during speech class in high school but this exact pattern of varying your rate of speech came to me naturally. Thanks for explaining
One of the best advice I received. Thank you.
Since ima introvert that’s kind of gold to me thanks Dude
That's what I want my chemistry teacher to understand. He speaks fast while explaining new concepts and slows down when it is some easy concept that I know already about. Its so frustrating.
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Him talking slow was very calming
Finally someone said it! 😂
That is actually, very useful info.
Love your content! Kudos!
Dynamics. Slow, medium, fast. On top of that adopt: high pitch, low pitch, quiet, whisper, medium and loud.
Once your spech become like a music you'll be the one that people will love to listen to you.
I'm former actor and musician.
Good presentation. Varying speech volume and rate as well as ditching the podium and moving about the room are some of the instructor techniques we used to instill in our instructor candidates. This vid is an excellent presentation method on that subject.
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It's the same with variability of expression! Dr. K talked about this!
We look for changes in affect, and expression. It demonstrates presentness, and an attunement with one's emotions.
Which basically is just a fancy of way of describing 'rizz' 🤣 But I'd say you rizzed this crowd pretty well.
Professor said we'll be practice teaching and I think this is a good info to know of
When he “came on stage” and started speaking slow, immediately caught my attention cause suddenly he’s really emphasising. It’s a case of drawing attention to certain things.
As a teacher, I do this a lot !
It took me a few seconds to realize after the video ended, but toward the end as he slowed down I leaned into my desk and rested on my elbows.
This man's a damn genius.
Think i'm gonna implement It in my Sales, thank you for the idea
People hate listening to anyone who's monotone, if you want to speak in a way which People want to listen, you vary your tone according to the meaning behind of what you're saying.
this is great advice, thank you
Genuinely good advice.
Thanks Eric!
Bro got some good rapping skills!
Not as clear as the MicroMachines guy!
I'm a very good but non-native English speaker. In my everyday office life I tend to speak very slowly about difficult matters in international groups, because I know some people wouldn't understand otherwise (because I've been in their shoes once). I really think this is one of my best soft skills and that it has helped to find answers from everybody. HOWEVER, I feel super dumb doing that :D
I do this. It works for sure.
And people lean in when you change your pace… that’s a good one
Good stuff man!
This is great advice and well delivered
Takes skill to saying most obvious thing possible and making ppl believe they learned some hidden secret of communication.
Got it in one, how come so many people appear to be missing that.
This 😂
Obvious to you but I can bet some people didn't know this
Like what you said, but the thing your missing is that its only obvious in our subconscious..but in our daily lives we are not aware of this consciously, seeing the video helps you be aware of it more, so you can master it, for your own benefit..thats the difference
@@user-vg4fy6db5y well said
Thanks 👍
This is genius
I watch videos at 2x or more some times. I love the fast speaker
My problem is passionately explaining things. I’m working on slowing my rate of speech slightly. Often, I’ll pick up my friend after listening to videos at 1.5x or 2.0x speed, and one time one of my best friends was like “dude, you’re like talking at 2.0x speed” and that was when I realized I had to work on it lol
Yuppp! Someone informed me that too when I was in college. It was a helpful insight.
I worked on it and it gets better!
Very helpful information.... 👍
Very well put
THANK YOU OMG I'VE BEEN SAYING THIS FOR SO LONG- now if only my civics teacher saw this
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Beautiful Breifing
Thank you very much
Very dear Sir
Gonna keep commenting on all your awesome videos keep it up Vinh. Your videos are coaching hold
The key is to not care, and focus on delevering at your natural pace, cuz if ur comfortable, everything will be
Thanks a lot for this @ Vinh Giang
This should be taught in every high school.
I love this guy 😅😅
I really need this course
This is more important than any sales training bs
This explains why I always hear these and they remind me of every preacher ever
I'm implementing it on my TH-cam videos
I'm a boss and when I'm making a point... I slow.. way.. down.. for... emphasis. Along with how to respond to interrupters, this has been one of the more effective communication skills I learned from my mentor.
Well said. Good lesson.
My proffessor needs to see this
Yes life in literally everything requires balance
the good things about ppl that speak at a steady rate is i can speed up or slow down the video so it's at my rate without the video getting too fast for me in parts.
learning new things 👐
this is just stuff i figured out in life being autistic, people respond to tone speed your facial expressions and mannerisms. get those under control and boom. ur ready for socializing
Great Norm Chromsky Impression!
Yes! Emphasis! Almost along the lines of narrator type idea. Maybe if people understand this, they'll see that words are powerful.
I love this so much😄🤝🏾
Throughout high-school I dated a competitive debater. They speak EXTREMELY quickly. Sucked trying to argue with the guy, but I acquired the ability to understand all of the "fine print" on radio ads and other forms of fast speech.
Leonardo DiCaprio is really great at the fast rate of speaking especially in the movie “The Great Gatsby” and “The Wolf on Wall Street.”
Oh that's great advice. I always talk too fast when I'm giving a presentation. Everybody tells me to slow down, which I try to do and then I myself get bored so I start talking faster again. This might help me with talking at a reasonable pace while also not getting bored myself.
Maybe you know the material very well 😅
I like this speech
This helps me a lot with my social skills.
WOW, it took all my neurons to figure that out!
I actually didn’t realize this! I do this automatically when explaining math to other people!
My brain caught up with his speach when he was talking super fast in the middle of it
I've always called it giving my speech texture
Actually felt it as he did it
Rate of speech is important!
Beautiful bro
Thanks a lot Sir..
Not only speed, but also volume and pitch. Makes your speech 3 dimensional.
That's how my former art teacher did it and it was the worst time I've ever had in school. Everyone just sitting in awkward silence while he is slowly starting the class
It's like when driving. If someone is driving too fast, you think what a jerk! When someone is driving too slow, you still think they are jerk. Vary your rate of driving!
This is awesome
Pls teach our teachers 😭
I always fall sleep during physics lecture 😅