I think the biggest issue for men is summary is to submit themselves to Christ first. If you can't submit to Christ's headship how are you going to lead your wife? Through a man's unsubmissive behavior, he desires Christs headship which is above his own. When we look at Christ's leadership, like Preston was saying, He submitted his authority and power out of love for us. So if you're a guy, learn how to submit to Christ, learn the characteristics of Christs leadership in your life, submit your authority and power out of love for your wife, and lead from that posture.
Aaron, this is so good! As a woman, I agree this is the biggest issue. What do you think will help solve this issue? Can the church help? Do you think men should mentor other men on this topic?
@@msm41009 Ultimately, I think the issue as a whole won't be solved until Jesus comes back. Man's desire for himself to be God is inevitable and unavoidable. However, Discipleship and mentoring like you suggested is probably the biggest thing that can help specifically from the church. Discipleship outside of church (if church is a people not a building) is probably not ideal and probably not healthy. Men need other men to show them how to live. I think the lack of discipleship 1. in the home and 2. in the church is the biggest cause of unhealthy christian men.
In the age of the manosphere. Men who are looking for manly advice can find it in submission and humility to Christ. Christ was both God and man .Why wouldn't he know more about us as men than we understand ourselves.
Please don’t ever think this podcast isn’t doing WORK because it 100% is. Jackie can speak about the things in my heart so well and Preston helps me see the ways that marriage is hard for my husband. Can’t thank y’all enough ❤ y’all are my therapist(s) 😂
This is why it is SO IMPORTANT to be careful who you marry. You have to make sure that you talk about as much as humanly possible regarding a wide variety of issues that you are going to encounter over the next 50 years.
Im so happy I'm.not a man because being the Head is a huge responsibility. Your wife and kids life is literally in their hands, Dominance/Headship is actually a humble role.
It is! Some men allow themselves to feel intimidated by the role, which is unfortunate, as God will equip and enable them to live out the role the way He wants if they put their trust in Him vs themselves.
Such a great point, Dashelle. My husband often says being a husband creates a challenging dynamic because... on one end, he has to LEAD/LOVE his wife as a representation of Christ's love for the Church... and on the other end, he has to SUBMIT his own life to Christ (as a "wife" to a husband) in order to be used by God for the former 😅... definitely not an easy thing to do and why it's important for us to lift our men up in prayer!
@@masegoramasodi1278 Definitely! Someone called me ‘basic’ years ago, & at the time I was super hurt & offended. Now I embrace it! 😂 Jesus loves me, & I’m happy & confident in who I am. That’s all that matters!
Lol I’m with Jackie but I wouldn’t say aggressive. I like assertiveness. Let me know what it is and stand in it! Say it with your whole chest…ya know. I love y’all talks, it feeds my soul.
Submission is one thing I struggled real hard with. At first you couldn’t tell me nothing, I never wanted to submit but i prayed to God to soften my heart. I’m still learning to put it in a practical sense
“Being humble enough to meet them where they are.” That’s good Preston! 👏🏾 I’m learning to not force my husband to talk when I’m ready but when he’s ready. Thank you both for sharing this
Great convo! My husband is the leader but I handle certain things. We consult each other before making big decisions but if we disagree on something and can’t compromise (which is rare) he makes the final decision. He makes it easier to submit because he is an awesome husband. I say EASIER not easy because the sinful side of me wants to run the show at all times lol
You really have to be “whole enough” and healed enough, confident in the lord and your identity enough… to trust and submit to the lords model of submission as a woman, and proper headship as the man. Ultimately the Holy Spirit gone check both to keep them in their perspective roles. Humility is key. Excellent conversation as always 😊
“Your sins are in the sea of forgiveness but I swim in them sometimes.” That’s understanding actual forgiveness but our human nature in holding onto things. That’s a real struggle. Thank you so much for the grace y’all consistently show each other and the transparency you choose to have with others.
I grew up without a father and didn’t see healthy, affirming examples of manhood until I became an adult, which is pretty recent. I watched the lives of the most important women in my life be made worse on every level from submitting to faulty men. My biggest gripe when it comes down to this convo is that not much grace & reasoning are given to women who don’t want to submit or do want to, but have perspectives similar to mine. I don’t want to lose my identity in marriage and I fear submitting to the wrong man. I appreciate the way y’all framed this convo & I look forward to part 2!
When i read this: i don't intepret it as you "dont want to submit" BUT rather that "You Are Afraid of submitting" due to what you saw. I say this because truly if Jesus came and said to you "This is your man, i created him for you and he is truly submitted to me, my Spirit and my Father plus he knows what you've been through and he will lead you well. At times he will make mistakes but the grace is there for both of you." I don't think you'd say NO. I hope I am correct 🤷🏾♀️
The degree of transparency in this discussion is so encouraging! Minister Jackie you ask great questions and Minister Preston your accessibility and willingness to give a Man's perspective from the natural to a Christ-centered approach.
Just wanted to say, God blesses me sooo much through y’all’s marriage/ministry. I love you guys and I’m praying the Holy Spirit continues to empower you to talk through these things. It’s healing generations❤️🔥
“It’s exhausting to always have our sins put before us. Relaxing and becoming a safer space leads to trust” Not the exact quote but this is so real and can be applied to all of our relationships with others.
Ooooh! Yeah that was a word! Trying to balance out this one in my parenting…not being my child’s “friend” because, well I’m the parent, but at the same time being able to have healthy exchanges that don’t always result in me pointing out flaws or creating that “unsafe” to talk feeling. That was so profoundly on point for me too!
So good. This is a convo to have before marriage. So much strife would not exist. Whew. Grateful my husband and I figured it out over time. But that was 5 years in! This topic is such a perspective changer.
As someone who’s currently engaged and has endured long time exposure to the toxicity of my parents’ divorce, I can’t even begin to tell y’all how much this episode means to me. Only God knows how much this podcast has blessed my life. I appreciate the way in which y’all never beat around the bush. It was edifying, convicting and encouraging as per usual. May God continue to bless y’all. Patiently waiting for part 2.
Such a good convo! Seen too many women be upset with scripture/leave the faith due to having horrific examples of Godly headship that has been corrupted with worldly male dominance. And I’ve also seen way too many men commanding submission from women that they aren’t even married to, and worst yet they aren’t even saved / aren’t submitting to God first. More people need to see this!
Those are abusers and controllers they usually only know that verse but do not read in full context of all that is required of them to their wives! Every man knows this scripture but only that part 😅 it's very rough out here!
Trust! When he said that- I was like ahhhhh- That’s the key- make sure you trust your partner or spouse. Also, having that safe place in a person is so important ❤part II please!!!😊
This was excellent truths that will benefit all men, women, married and wanting to be married. The humor is the cherry on top🤣! Jackie is a comedian and doesn’t even know it! Or maybe she does😂
@WiththePerrys Thank you for this dialogue! My wife felt I am/was a jerk, critical, unloving, unlistening for years. I'm one of THOSE MEN that just want to lead well. I WAS DISCOURAGED by the way my wife wasnt submitting to me or simply being nice/non-petty towards me. She states that Im narcissistic and passive aggressive, but believe she's simply looking at a mirror and seeing her actions but then putting my face on it instead of adjusting her behavior. I WILL say PRAYER DOES WORK! There has been much improvement, but still there are times when she'll be upset and telling I cause drama when I literally and calmly asked one question. I serve and follow Christ and want my wife to join me instead of doing her OWN thing with Jesus. When y'all saud "If you dont feel vulnerable often, then you atent leading as Christ" I felt that! It IS SO HARD to keep being vulnerable...whew thank you... lol maybe too much sharing, but I truly appreciated this recording so IT WAS NECESSARY to comment.
I love the genuine authenticity of this conversation! Very cool! Y’all talk about things we should talk about more in church, in families, in marriages, and among friends. ❤
Preston doesn’t understand how key this was for me, it’s hard to find brothers that will open up in such a vulnerable Christlike way, this was more than a blessing, it was a necessity
Yes Jackie he said “stifling” correctly ! It was funny when he called you out about correcting him. I could see how “muffle” would also work in the place of “muzzle”. Love this! 😂😊
"Whatever With The Perry's" ABBA Is building a tremendous depth of understanding in Our Young People... You both have come a very long way. YISSIAH is doing a marvelous work in You Both through Your family. I must say that this is part of the great loss we suffered as a Hebrew People when we became Slaves... The things that Abba Yah gave us in His Laws, statutes, and commandments, (TORAH) along with the wisdom and understanding of our elders and Ancestors, was lost in the chain of development that Our YAH instituted as our guidance. The effects of our separation from knowing who we truly are as a People, has bankrupted our lives in ways that has devastated our culture as a Hebrew and ISRAELITE Community, in a massive way. I have found you both and your family again,,, it is quite wonderful. I was qurious, about how YAH would grow Jackie when He allowed her to birth a son,,, I saw that there would be great nuggets there... But to see how YAH is growing Preston and developing his custodianship over his family and mentees is amazing. I am convinced, that the story of your family is indeed a declaration of YAH'S Grace and blessing towards all People, both Straight and LGBTQ People who do not yet know OUR ABBA YAH. I have said in the past, that molestation of our young people is driving the growth of the LGBTQ community. Some People with conflicted genitalia are a special People who YAH has made for Himself. Anyone between these poles,,, Yah can and will restore to Himself and grant an amazing life of testimony of His GRACE.... May ABBA'S Name be Lifted High in Praise and ADORATION for His love and Wonderful Salvation Plan In YISSIAH The CHRIST,,, now and Forever More. We LOVE 💕💕💕 YOU LORD YAH and YISSIAH whom You Have Sent... Amen. May all LGBTQ People,,, Call upon the Lord while He is Near... He will hear YOU.
Thank you two for being obedient to the Lord in your ministry (and marriage) and for being transparent about your journey! So many nuggets of wisdom dropped here!!
Gosh this is so good. I felt the fear of the Lord for any man who practices Christlike headship. Beautiful conversation and exchange Mr. & Mrs. Perry! :)
I have been watching you since I rededicated my life to Christ. I am 51 years old and I enjoy every video. You guys have some common sense. I see God glory leading your ministries. You are treasures to my soul. I watch you all the time.
As a single, I looked forward to submitting to my husband because that was something I didn't see modeled by my mother in my upbringing. Fast forward to now being 10yrs into marriage. It's challenging to submit to a man who isn't submitted to God. It makes a difference.
Yess to what you said about what a leader is and also so true …I think men forget or don’t realise that for a woman to submit and trust she first had to feel safe which means the man has to put in effort to be that kind of leader - a loving one. It’s much easier to follow someone when you know that they are also thinking about your well-being and not just their own and are adaptable and open.
This was so convicting, and I definitely look forward to part two when it comes. I was most convicted by how Preston says he was early on in his marriage. I heard him describing me, help Holy Spirit
Just a really all around great episode. Preston did a great job at breaking down headship and how we as men can do better. I love the balance between you two 🙌🏾
Whew!!!! This is going to help my marriage so much. My husband sent this link to me and we both receive this message. It was deep on so many levels. I definitely subscribed to the channel because wisdom like this is refreshing. I have work to do! Thank you both!
First time commenting but not my first time listening… just wanted to say say I enoyed all this! And even as a woman it helps me understand a few things that my husband may be experiencing and not sharing with me. Side notes: truly enjoy the jokes and laughter moments 🤭❤
"A good leader is one who recognize the strength of those he's leading". That's powerful & although brother Preston said that, I believe this applies to every aspect of our life pertaining to leadership. I see so many pastors take the arrogant stand of feeling they have to be in control of everything pertaining to the church (the departments). Many of them I think are threatened by some of their members (one that may have a particular gift) because they are not secure with themselves, which causes them to lord over the congregation. I believe churches are failing horribly due to this. A good leader understands that one with a gift/talent can be utilized to make the ministry, company etc better.
Both spouses are to submit. Eph 5:21 KJV. However, we as wives are to submit to a husband that submissive to God. Wonderful conversations between the two of you and I love these discussions.
If you wanna talk about a man having power but understanding the strengths of a woman, Judges 4 is a great story. Barak and Deborah is an amazing take on a lot of these topics. God bless!
I love this podcast so much seeing how real and raw you guys are is just so inspiring and needed for new believers to see that there are different representation of Christians and also how your guy’s marriage just is it’s so inspiring
I was laughing WITH y’all when Preston kept saying things wrong. 😂 It really feels like we’re in you guys’ living room just hearing your hearts. Love you guys, God bless! From, Miami FL. 🤍
This is soooo good. I wish more men understood this. Preston, thank you so much for this. Everything that you said blessed my whole life. God bless both of you. Oh, and Jackie you are a natural beauty.
I loved this conversation so much. I love your banter I between deep biblical principles for life. I'm single but in prep for relationship in general this blessed me.
I love and appreciate you guys' view and definitions on this topic. Your discussions are refreshing! The fact that each husband (and wife) will have a different view of what leadership looks like for them and their marriages is something I'm going to ponder on even after this video!
Y'all get it right as unto The Lord! This is so beneficial and helpful for so many! Order under Christ is paramount to any other function in life. Once we understand and apply that everything else can align. Good talk/discussion.
Thank you for doing this podcast. I recently discovered your podcast after listening to better together. I belong to a Kingdom community, and it is a healthy and I thank God every day for my senior elders and the integrity of their walk before and with God. But I tell you it is beautiful to see and listen to you. I am married, and I am still learning about being a wife to my husband. So, thank you for your honest sharing and the transpercy with which you share, and you guys are so adorable correct together.
This ministered to my marriage right here. King JC, cover this couple & give them what they need according to your riches in Glory. Love from TKM- Beijing
Headship is indicative of authority. We all have a headship given to us, in loving God above all things. This is the first and greatest commandment. When we make this the focus, everything else is worked out.
I think the biggest issue for men is summary is to submit themselves to Christ first. If you can't submit to Christ's headship how are you going to lead your wife? Through a man's unsubmissive behavior, he desires Christs headship which is above his own. When we look at Christ's leadership, like Preston was saying, He submitted his authority and power out of love for us. So if you're a guy, learn how to submit to Christ, learn the characteristics of Christs leadership in your life, submit your authority and power out of love for your wife, and lead from that posture.
Aaron, this is so good! As a woman, I agree this is the biggest issue. What do you think will help solve this issue? Can the church help? Do you think men should mentor other men on this topic?
@@msm41009 Ultimately, I think the issue as a whole won't be solved until Jesus comes back. Man's desire for himself to be God is inevitable and unavoidable. However, Discipleship and mentoring like you suggested is probably the biggest thing that can help specifically from the church. Discipleship outside of church (if church is a people not a building) is probably not ideal and probably not healthy. Men need other men to show them how to live. I think the lack of discipleship 1. in the home and 2. in the church is the biggest cause of unhealthy christian men.
@@aaronbulleman3648 Agreed. Such a great point! Definitely a HUGE need for men to be disciplined by other men in this area (and manhood as a whole). 💯
Amen!!!! Powerful Word! you are Preaching!!!!! wow!! so well said 100% God bless you!😀
In the age of the manosphere. Men who are looking for manly advice can find it in submission and humility to Christ. Christ was both God and man .Why wouldn't he know more about us as men than we understand ourselves.
Please don’t ever think this podcast isn’t doing WORK because it 100% is. Jackie can speak about the things in my heart so well and Preston helps me see the ways that marriage is hard for my husband. Can’t thank y’all enough ❤ y’all are my therapist(s) 😂
Like legit agree with comment 100%😩😭❤️🤣
Amen
Same sis 🙏🏾
Preston, Jackie's look is that "That's my man!" look. 😆
This is why it is SO IMPORTANT to be careful who you marry. You have to make sure that you talk about as much as humanly possible regarding a wide variety of issues that you are going to encounter over the next 50 years.
Amen!
Im so happy I'm.not a man because being the Head is a huge responsibility. Your wife and kids life is literally in their hands, Dominance/Headship is actually a humble role.
Yes!!
@@WithThePerrys Thanks for replying. (Cousins in my head)& 4 kids where ?🔥you look Amazing Jackie
It is! Some men allow themselves to feel intimidated by the role, which is unfortunate, as God will equip and enable them to live out the role the way He wants if they put their trust in Him vs themselves.
Such a great point, Dashelle. My husband often says being a husband creates a challenging dynamic because... on one end, he has to LEAD/LOVE his wife as a representation of Christ's love for the Church... and on the other end, he has to SUBMIT his own life to Christ (as a "wife" to a husband) in order to be used by God for the former 😅... definitely not an easy thing to do and why it's important for us to lift our men up in prayer!
@@MarriageInsideOut and he gotta die lol.
“Most of us are regular faced” 😂🤣😂 I felt that!
bruh that got me because I just recently accepted that I am just regular/average and thats okay
@@masegoramasodi1278 Definitely! Someone called me ‘basic’ years ago, & at the time I was super hurt & offended. Now I embrace it! 😂 Jesus loves me, & I’m happy & confident in who I am. That’s all that matters!
I feel that so hard 🤣
This is where we make the distinction between aggressive and assertive. I like an assertive man when leading me!!
I’m glad I have access to this while single. Thank you guys so much for this!!. God bless y’all
Same !! To God be the glory ❤
Sameee❤
Same here!
Love that men that are lamb.
@Delise I hear ya! My little bit may be smaller than your little bit.😉 It’s tough out here in these streets with these grown boys!
“Your sins are in the sea of forgiveness… but I swim in them some times.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol I’m with Jackie but I wouldn’t say aggressive. I like assertiveness. Let me know what it is and stand in it! Say it with your whole chest…ya know. I love y’all talks, it feeds my soul.
This
Submission is one thing I struggled real hard with. At first you couldn’t tell me nothing, I never wanted to submit but i prayed to God to soften my heart. I’m still learning to put it in a practical sense
That's amazing, Winifred. So awesome how The Lord is able to change our hearts/minds!
Respect to Preston 👏🏾. Your voice needs to be heard EVERYWHERE. homes, businesses, Hollywood. May God open the necessary doors.
“Being humble enough to meet them where they are.” That’s good Preston! 👏🏾 I’m learning to not force my husband to talk when I’m ready but when he’s ready. Thank you both for sharing this
Great convo! My husband is the leader but I handle certain things. We consult each other before making big decisions but if we disagree on something and can’t compromise (which is rare) he makes the final decision. He makes it easier to submit because he is an awesome husband. I say EASIER not easy because the sinful side of me wants to run the show at all times lol
This is how it should be! May you marriage continue to be blessed, you two sound like a great team
You really have to be “whole enough” and healed enough, confident in the lord and your identity enough… to trust and submit to the lords model of submission as a woman, and proper headship as the man. Ultimately the Holy Spirit gone check both to keep them in their perspective roles. Humility is key. Excellent conversation as always 😊
Amen❤
“Your sins are in the sea of forgiveness but I swim in them sometimes.” That’s understanding actual forgiveness but our human nature in holding onto things. That’s a real struggle. Thank you so much for the grace y’all consistently show each other and the transparency you choose to have with others.
Such a divinely beautiful conversation!
I grew up without a father and didn’t see healthy, affirming examples of manhood until I became an adult, which is pretty recent. I watched the lives of the most important women in my life be made worse on every level from submitting to faulty men. My biggest gripe when it comes down to this convo is that not much grace & reasoning are given to women who don’t want to submit or do want to, but have perspectives similar to mine. I don’t want to lose my identity in marriage and I fear submitting to the wrong man. I appreciate the way y’all framed this convo & I look forward to part 2!
When i read this: i don't intepret it as you "dont want to submit" BUT rather that "You Are Afraid of submitting" due to what you saw. I say this because truly if Jesus came and said to you "This is your man, i created him for you and he is truly submitted to me, my Spirit and my Father plus he knows what you've been through and he will lead you well. At times he will make mistakes but the grace is there for both of you." I don't think you'd say NO. I hope I am correct 🤷🏾♀️
Why am I smiling for 30 minutes like a full blown idiot? The Perrys are bomb. Mat God bless your home.
It’s not just you ❤❤❤❤
The degree of transparency in this discussion is so encouraging! Minister Jackie you ask great questions and Minister Preston your accessibility and willingness to give a Man's perspective from the natural to a Christ-centered approach.
Ya'll betta talk good saints!!! This wisdom and real conversation is so needed for our generation!
Just wanted to say, God blesses me sooo much through y’all’s marriage/ministry. I love you guys and I’m praying the Holy Spirit continues to empower you to talk through these things. It’s healing generations❤️🔥
“It’s exhausting to always have our sins put before us. Relaxing and becoming a safer space leads to trust”
Not the exact quote but this is so real and can be applied to all of our relationships with others.
Ooooh! Yeah that was a word! Trying to balance out this one in my parenting…not being my child’s “friend” because, well I’m the parent, but at the same time being able to have healthy exchanges that don’t always result in me pointing out flaws or creating that “unsafe” to talk feeling. That was so profoundly on point for me too!
@@K2dakay Dope!
I love ya'll's theological wrestling as much as I love the free flowing banter! Thank you for blessing us
So good. This is a convo to have before marriage. So much strife would not exist. Whew.
Grateful my husband and I figured it out over time. But that was 5 years in! This topic is such a perspective changer.
You two look great, rested, and are just such a blessing. What a start to Season 5!
Jackie helps me articulate my heart in a way I didn't know possible. I love their relationship, banter, and flow.
This is beautiful Preston and Jackie, you guys are helping me to understand my husband and myself better.
As someone who’s currently engaged and has endured long time exposure to the toxicity of my parents’ divorce, I can’t even begin to tell y’all how much this episode means to me. Only God knows how much this podcast has blessed my life. I appreciate the way in which y’all never beat around the bush. It was edifying, convicting and encouraging as per usual. May God continue to bless y’all. Patiently waiting for part 2.
If this how yall talk on a regular basis… yall are great at conversation
Not just a lion but a lamb! That’s good.
I love the perspective of reality that culture equates a personality trait passivity or authoritative.
This is definitely a preacher/pastor’s 30 minutes. 😂, I love you guys and your conversations are always full of wisdom and freshness.☺️
I love y’all’s transparency!! This is such a blessing to my 36yrold single Christian life😊. Thank you for letting the Father use you all❤
Absolutely LOVE 30min with the Perry’s. PLEASEEE post more often🙏🏼🤩 both of you have so much wisdom to share !!
They are much wiser than their age!
Such a good convo! Seen too many women be upset with scripture/leave the faith due to having horrific examples of Godly headship that has been corrupted with worldly male dominance. And I’ve also seen way too many men commanding submission from women that they aren’t even married to, and worst yet they aren’t even saved / aren’t submitting to God first. More people need to see this!
Those are abusers and controllers they usually only know that verse but do not read in full context of all that is required of them to their wives! Every man knows this scripture but only that part 😅 it's very rough out here!
I LOVE the way Preston put everything. What a wise perspective 💯
The only podcast that I’ve listen to that talks about “equal submission”. God my god, thank you!
I'm glad I kept listening. The 'wow' moment came when Brother Preston said "true Christian headship is just as scary as submission"... incredible!
Trust! When he said that- I was like ahhhhh- That’s the key- make sure you trust your partner or spouse. Also, having that safe place in a person is so important ❤part II please!!!😊
This was excellent truths that will benefit all men, women, married and wanting to be married. The humor is the cherry on top🤣! Jackie is a comedian and doesn’t even know it! Or maybe she does😂
@WiththePerrys Thank you for this dialogue! My wife felt I am/was a jerk, critical, unloving, unlistening for years. I'm one of THOSE MEN that just want to lead well. I WAS DISCOURAGED by the way my wife wasnt submitting to me or simply being nice/non-petty towards me. She states that Im narcissistic and passive aggressive, but believe she's simply looking at a mirror and seeing her actions but then putting my face on it instead of adjusting her behavior. I WILL say PRAYER DOES WORK! There has been much improvement, but still there are times when she'll be upset and telling I cause drama when I literally and calmly asked one question.
I serve and follow Christ and want my wife to join me instead of doing her OWN thing with Jesus. When y'all saud "If you dont feel vulnerable often, then you atent leading as Christ" I felt that! It IS SO HARD to keep being vulnerable...whew thank you... lol maybe too much sharing, but I truly appreciated this recording so IT WAS NECESSARY to comment.
Whoa whoa Ms Jackie said “Submission is going to come against what YOU (selfishly) want and what you wanna do” 😰 I felt that
I love the genuine authenticity of this conversation! Very cool! Y’all talk about things we should talk about more in church, in families, in marriages, and among friends. ❤
Preston doesn’t understand how key this was for me, it’s hard to find brothers that will open up in such a vulnerable Christlike way, this was more than a blessing, it was a necessity
Thank you all for your transparency and your diligence to continue to Love the Lord and each other.
"When he sees Eve, he sees someone who he can love and fulfill the will for his life" 👏 yaass Pres. Say that!
Yes Jackie he said “stifling” correctly ! It was funny when he called you out about correcting him. I could see how “muffle” would also work in the place of “muzzle”. Love this! 😂😊
"Whatever With The Perry's" ABBA Is building a tremendous depth of understanding in Our Young People... You both have come a very long way. YISSIAH is doing a marvelous work in You Both through Your family. I must say that this is part of the great loss we suffered as a Hebrew People when we became Slaves... The things that Abba Yah gave us in His Laws, statutes, and commandments, (TORAH) along with the wisdom and understanding of our elders and Ancestors, was lost in the chain of development that Our YAH instituted as our guidance. The effects of our separation from knowing who we truly are as a People, has bankrupted our lives in ways that has devastated our culture as a Hebrew and ISRAELITE Community, in a massive way. I have found you both and your family again,,, it is quite wonderful. I was qurious, about how YAH would grow Jackie when He allowed her to birth a son,,, I saw that there would be great nuggets there... But to see how YAH is growing Preston and developing his custodianship over his family and mentees is amazing. I am convinced, that the story of your family is indeed a declaration of YAH'S Grace and blessing towards all People, both Straight and LGBTQ People who do not yet know OUR ABBA YAH. I have said in the past, that molestation of our young people is driving the growth of the LGBTQ community. Some People with conflicted genitalia are a special People who YAH has made for Himself. Anyone between these poles,,, Yah can and will restore to Himself and grant an amazing life of testimony of His GRACE.... May ABBA'S Name be Lifted High in Praise and ADORATION for His love and Wonderful Salvation Plan In YISSIAH The CHRIST,,, now and Forever More. We LOVE 💕💕💕 YOU LORD YAH and YISSIAH whom You Have Sent... Amen. May all LGBTQ People,,, Call upon the Lord while He is Near... He will hear YOU.
Thank you two for being obedient to the Lord in your ministry (and marriage) and for being transparent about your journey! So many nuggets of wisdom dropped here!!
Gosh this is so good. I felt the fear of the Lord for any man who practices Christlike headship. Beautiful conversation and exchange Mr. & Mrs. Perry! :)
That vulnerability portion had me in my feels. Thank you.
The way Preston breaks it down, does it for me!!👏🏾👍🏾💯
I have been watching you since I rededicated my life to Christ. I am 51 years old and I enjoy every video. You guys have some common sense. I see God glory leading your ministries. You are treasures to my soul. I watch you all the time.
As a single, I looked forward to submitting to my husband because that was something I didn't see modeled by my mother in my upbringing. Fast forward to now being 10yrs into marriage. It's challenging to submit to a man who isn't submitted to God. It makes a difference.
Y’all don’t imagine how helpful this video was ❤
The district manager example is spot on. Beautifully stated!
Yess to what you said about what a leader is and also so true …I think men forget or don’t realise that for a woman to submit and trust she first had to feel safe which means the man has to put in effort to be that kind of leader - a loving one. It’s much easier to follow someone when you know that they are also thinking about your well-being and not just their own and are adaptable and open.
This was so convicting, and I definitely look forward to part two when it comes. I was most convicted by how Preston says he was early on in his marriage. I heard him describing me, help Holy Spirit
Just a really all around great episode. Preston did a great job at breaking down headship and how we as men can do better. I love the balance between you two 🙌🏾
Love the visible growth, love, and wisdom God surrounds you with.
What an Honor to be a Patreon member👏🏾
Whew!!!! This is going to help my marriage so much. My husband sent this link to me and we both receive this message. It was deep on so many levels. I definitely subscribed to the channel because wisdom like this is refreshing. I have work to do! Thank you both!
It's how real and sincere you guys are for me 😂 feels like a safe zone ❤ where we share, laugh, and get healed 😊.
First time commenting but not my first time listening… just wanted to say say I enoyed all this! And even as a woman it helps me understand a few things that my husband may be experiencing and not sharing with me.
Side notes: truly enjoy the jokes and laughter moments 🤭❤
Thanks for having this convo, guys! ❤
This is the best conversation Ive heard on this topic….. SO SO GOOD
We thank GOD for you both and for this amazing conversation.
GOD bless you and guide you in all your ways!
This podcast is such a blessing!
Agreed! So good. 😊
Love the lightness and rawness of your videos
🙏🙏🙏 Thank you.... This is just what those straddling the line needed to hear. It's not about dominance or ego, only LOVE
"A good leader is one who recognize the strength of those he's leading". That's powerful & although brother Preston said that, I believe this applies to every aspect of our life pertaining to leadership. I see so many pastors take the arrogant stand of feeling they have to be in control of everything pertaining to the church (the departments). Many of them I think are threatened by some of their members (one that may have a particular gift) because they are not secure with themselves, which causes them to lord over the congregation. I believe churches are failing horribly due to this. A good leader understands that one with a gift/talent can be utilized to make the ministry, company etc better.
Mr Perry dropped so many gems in the first 20 minutes God bless you
I've watched a few episodes and I think this one cracked me up now than any other. Appreciate the honesty and openness from both of you.
Both spouses are to submit. Eph 5:21 KJV. However, we as wives are to submit to a husband that submissive to God. Wonderful conversations between the two of you and I love these discussions.
I know I don’t know yall but I enjoy getting a glimpse into your marriage because it’s so beautiful to hear some of the rawness
You two are a breath of fresh air.
Yall dont know how much this has blessed me. God bless yall
Everything y’all say is so powerful & relatable! I thank the Lord for y’all & this platform. 🙏🏾💗
This is such a powerful segment that all couples can learn from. Thank you for sharing your struggles on both sides. This is real talk
If you wanna talk about a man having power but understanding the strengths of a woman, Judges 4 is a great story. Barak and Deborah is an amazing take on a lot of these topics. God bless!
I love this podcast so much seeing how real and raw you guys are is just so inspiring and needed for new believers to see that there are different representation of Christians and also how your guy’s marriage just is it’s so inspiring
I was laughing WITH y’all when Preston kept saying things wrong. 😂
It really feels like we’re in you guys’ living room just hearing your hearts. Love you guys, God bless! From, Miami FL. 🤍
This is soooo good. I wish more men understood this. Preston, thank you so much for this. Everything that you said blessed my whole life. God bless both of you. Oh, and Jackie you are a natural beauty.
Straight up this is quickly becoming one of my favorites podcasts
I loved this conversation so much. I love your banter I between deep biblical principles for life. I'm single but in prep for relationship in general this blessed me.
I love and appreciate you guys' view and definitions on this topic. Your discussions are refreshing! The fact that each husband (and wife) will have a different view of what leadership looks like for them and their marriages is something I'm going to ponder on even after this video!
This is so good. Its always a pleasure to listen these two.
I'm so incredibly grateful for Papa leading me to y'all ❤️🔥
Straight up truth! Great example of the word and how it fleshing out in every day life. 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thanks so much Preston and Jackie. Very inspiring and funny too. Jackie was all out to make us laugh this time around. Well done and God bless ❤
Y'all get it right as unto The Lord! This is so beneficial and helpful for so many! Order under Christ is paramount to any other function in life. Once we understand and apply that everything else can align. Good talk/discussion.
This conversation is so rich!! Thank you for speaking on it
Thank you for doing this podcast. I recently discovered your podcast after listening to better together. I belong to a Kingdom community, and it is a healthy and I thank God every day for my senior elders and the integrity of their walk before and with God. But I tell you it is beautiful to see and listen to you. I am married, and I am still learning about being a wife to my husband. So, thank you for your honest sharing and the transpercy with which you share, and you guys are so adorable correct together.
Yayyy!!! Y’all back!!! Don’t ever leave me that long again 😩😩🤣🤣
😅Jackie looking at her husband like “it’s time to start actively worshipping” right now😅 the love and submission between these to are a vibe💪🏾❤️💯
What a beautiful conversation that many more ears need to hear! ❤
30:39 im 19 on my journey learning everyday and this is very eye opening and such a powerful episode 🙏🏾
This ministered to my marriage right here. King JC, cover this couple & give them what they need according to your riches in Glory. Love from TKM- Beijing
Y’all make my heart glad 🙂 ❤
Headship is indicative of authority. We all have a headship given to us, in loving God above all things. This is the first and greatest commandment. When we make this the focus, everything else is worked out.