I’ve not seen my child now for six years. Cafcass are a disgrace mind started with “ well about your daily cannabis habit” I don’t even smoke cigarettes ffs I cried that day I knew I’d lost before I had even started. I’ve a full DBS as I’m a teacher I’m no threat whatsoever but… I know I’m not alone in this predicament I never thought my ex would use our child as a weapon to hurt me but she’s not hurt me as she thinks she has she’s hurt me because one day my son will either work it out or find out that he was deceived. She’s hurt him and that’s what’s hurt me. Of course I miss him but I rue the day that he finds out as it will just confuse him all the more. I wonder if my ex ever considered that our son might have blamed himself that his Dad didn’t want to see him anymore? Cafcass are not fit for purpose!
They bent they don't care if you record it either your best not talking to them at all, my appointment was postponed yet they wrote a letter like they'd spoke to me, all corrupt
I’ve not seen my child now for six years. Cafcass are a disgrace mind started with “ well about your daily cannabis habit” I don’t even smoke cigarettes ffs I cried that day I knew I’d lost before I had even started. I’ve a full DBS as I’m a teacher I’m no threat whatsoever but… I know I’m not alone in this predicament I never thought my ex would use our child as a weapon to hurt me but she’s not hurt me as she thinks she has she’s hurt me because one day my son will either work it out or find out that he was deceived. She’s hurt him and that’s what’s hurt me. Of course I miss him but I rue the day that he finds out as it will just confuse him all the more. I wonder if my ex ever considered that our son might have blamed himself that his Dad didn’t want to see him anymore? Cafcass are not fit for purpose!
I agree wholeheartedly- things need to change to protect children from damage
THANK YOU
They bent they don't care if you record it either your best not talking to them at all, my appointment was postponed yet they wrote a letter like they'd spoke to me, all corrupt
They actually don't seem to care about much, 18 months on and Cafcass are only now bothering to get involved.
That is long a long time even by Cafcass standards