How I overcame my shopping addiction | 5 life-changing habits

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  • How I overcame my online shopping addiction.
    In this video, you'll learn 5 life-changing habits that you can adopt to help you stop shopping and become an intentional spender.
    This video will cover the following:
    ✅ How I developed a problem with online shopping
    ✅ How you can implement better habits to live intentionally
    ✅ 5 simple habits that changed my life
    ✅ How to declutter to make space for the life you want
    ✅ The budgeting method that changed my life!
    ... and so much more!
    My favorite budget planner:
    mintnotionshop...
    Learn more about how to get good with money here:
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    0:00 Intro
    0:51 My shopping addiction story
    4:50 Do you have a shopping problem? (Self-assessment)
    7:24 Habit #1 - Take responsibility for your actions
    10:19 Habit #2 - Set a goal
    13:43 Goal setting journal prompts
    16:27 Habit #3 - Implement new habits
    21:19 Habit #4 - Declutter to make space for the life you want
    25:55 Habit #5 - Embrace adversity and practice gratitude
    Thanks for watching this video! I love and appreciate you!

ความคิดเห็น • 52

  • @1left2live21
    @1left2live21 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    “If I don’t need it, do not buy it”. I have to repeat that in the mind whenever I feel the urge to spend money.

    • @edenashley89
      @edenashley89  ปีที่แล้ว

      It takes practice!

    • @cannellecinnamon5504
      @cannellecinnamon5504 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I can't argue with my self. I will always find a very good reason why I actually really need it.
      Best method I found so far is not to go to the mall.

  • @kirabauer4954
    @kirabauer4954 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I realized I may be a shopping addict, when I started dreaming about shopping and I woke up feeling happy and euphoric.

  • @srey_p
    @srey_p 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Decluttering was the best thing for me to realize my shopping habits and now I’m more aware of what I bring in and really appreciate what I have. Great video!

  • @booksandthings8297
    @booksandthings8297 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I could stop buying clothes and books for 3 years and not be even close to running out. I do a spreadsheet for my spending now. And slowly I have cut down my shopping so much. It's crazy how much I justified spending bc it was little purchases but it adds up. I saved up much more. And I like seeing my bankaccount do better. I started to use up my skin products and parfume. But I noticed with clothes and bags, while I use more of my clothes now when things get worn out I still have my favorites and don't wear everything. Also I stopped online shopping completely.

  • @emmalarson
    @emmalarson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Shopping addictions are real! I developed one during the pandemic & breaking it has been tough. Unsubscribing from marketing emails has really helped & I've decluttered my closet multiple times. I used to do hauls on my channel & even stopped those because it was hurting my finances and adding more to my already small apartment. Things are getting better but the self-discipline is a tough piece to work on as I'm not getting those dopamine hits from shopping like before. I created a checking account that's just for the "fun" things that I'll contribute to & if the money isn't there for what I want, then I can't have it.

  • @melissaebbert3844
    @melissaebbert3844 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Wow this video really hit home! I’m currently trying to quit my shopping addiction! It’s gone on for years and gives me so much anxiety. We are constantly broke because I literally can’t stop online shopping! This video game me great tips that I will implement on my journey! Thank you so much!

    • @user-bh4hr2dw8k
      @user-bh4hr2dw8k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I know how you feel. You are not alone. We can change. We are worthy of releasing ourselves from this burden

  • @maddie8415
    @maddie8415 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Great video, a lot of us really can benefit from this insight. Something we should all take note of is the way advertisers very often help us create excuses for mindless impulse purchases, while using timers, countdowns, and other fake scarcity tactics to convince us not to wait until we think better of it. They'll say "treat yourself, you deserve it!" and tell you that buying their product is all in the name of "self-care"...even if you weren't even considering buying it until you saw the enticing ad. Also, the bizarre mix I often see of the "self-care" angle along with a message that you need their product to fix your very normal "flaws". Understanding these marketing strategies and breaking free of them will go a long way to helping to be more mindful of your habits and take responsibility, it's very empowering.

  • @susanh1447
    @susanh1447 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I was thinking about the clothes I used to 💕 love. I had this one pair of suede combat boots, my best Levi’s and some cute sweaters. I had a suede jacket and a white denim anorak. I loved these clothes and wore them a lot. Now I can’t wear the same thing twice in a month! I woke up one day and opened a Poshmark closet and started selling three closets full (!) of clothes, shoes, and bags. I’m still working on it.

  • @Sobermama927
    @Sobermama927 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This was good. I keep trying no buys and fail everytime. I want to do a no buy year

  • @mayathemumbler
    @mayathemumbler ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This was very wholesome and helped me feel more motivated about life. Thank you for this ❤

  • @FineNaturalHairROCKS
    @FineNaturalHairROCKS 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is a great video! I absolutely LOVE Eaton Centre; especially at Christmas! And I really appreciate the vulnerability you showed in this video. Thank you for sharing your story and this important message with us, 💛

  • @ARMYRIFLES46
    @ARMYRIFLES46 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The b role with the narration was so nicely done, great content!

  • @Barnaby_bo
    @Barnaby_bo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I bought 3 pairs of trainers today. I have another pair on the way.

  • @shannilovely
    @shannilovely 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video! I definitely shop too much, and I think it’s to fill a void. Seeing you shop in the video was interesting because it looked so dull- shops have these ugly bright lights, they’re filled to the brim with things, fashions come and go so fast.. but if you put me in a mall, I get so happy 🙈

  • @thi01
    @thi01 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for creating this great motivational video ❤

  • @aenigmatica8
    @aenigmatica8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video is so so helpful. I’ve been making excuses about how it’s not SO bad.

  • @Littlebit0427
    @Littlebit0427 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have a shopping addiction .. but glad god gave me idea to cope up my addiction .. i’m reseller now i and earned money now

    • @edenashley89
      @edenashley89  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wishing you much success with your reselling business. That's awesome!

  • @naturecreep8811
    @naturecreep8811 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Just bought an impulse purchase in the supermarket and im ao annoyed at myself. It was so last minute. I hate the item on now ive got it home. I have to return it now this week which is another waste of time and effort. I find myself unable to learn the difference between need and want

    • @HerWanderlust
      @HerWanderlust 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hugs 💜
      A good rule of thumb is if you have to ask if you need it, you don’t. Most of us really have everything we need and more. A true need will be clear before you even enter a shop. It will be “urgent” vs something that can wait💜

  • @mrsf870
    @mrsf870 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was truly wonderful in every way: the photography, the editing, your soothing voice… but most importantly the tips and messages about true meaning. A heartfelt thank you from a new subscriber!

  • @aenigmatica8
    @aenigmatica8 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These are such practical tips that are really helpful in life in general. Amazing.

  • @nancyprivate6774
    @nancyprivate6774 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great video - I do not know if this will help me personally but I love all your ideas

  • @user-bh4hr2dw8k
    @user-bh4hr2dw8k 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for this video. I needed it. I’m struggling really badly with this and feel so lonely. When I try to reach out to friends about this issue they just giggle. Helps to know others understand.

  • @highestvibemich
    @highestvibemich ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for sharing your vulnerability🤍 This was very thorough & very actionable !

  • @belindaoleaga7884
    @belindaoleaga7884 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for this video! You put it together so well 💗💗

  • @lovelysenorita2357
    @lovelysenorita2357 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the tips. Really helped me a lot. Ive been experiencing shopping addiction and hard to resist.

  • @CailieStar
    @CailieStar 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Such great video! I got so many things to think about on my own financial journey ❤

  • @503ashkatchem4
    @503ashkatchem4 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your story is the same as mine! Been there Eden

  • @kimwieczorek1879
    @kimwieczorek1879 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The best thing I did was drop my Amazon App. So proud of myself for doing that. And my ccard bill so low now❤🎉

  • @lovethineownself7994
    @lovethineownself7994 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! This hit home. Extremely helpful video, THANK YOU !!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @kathylev89
    @kathylev89 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thanks for making this video i am really struggling in all the ways you described in the beginning

  • @susahiner
    @susahiner 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am trying to pause before buying sth during the day. It works fortunately

  • @ebonycarter1955
    @ebonycarter1955 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awesome video Thankyou so much

  • @jupiterbiscuit
    @jupiterbiscuit หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this video

  • @IshitaSaha055
    @IshitaSaha055 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for this video 💕

  • @susanaduarteraposo
    @susanaduarteraposo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Really honest video! It helped me too. Thank you ❤

  • @nehu.2000
    @nehu.2000 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Realistic ❤

  • @edenashley89
    @edenashley89  ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I hope you find this video useful in kicking a shopping habit! What habit will you be trying this year?

    • @ivajekova7747
      @ivajekova7747 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would like to stop shopping. I realize that I have more than enough. I like your channel!

    • @edenashley89
      @edenashley89  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ivajekova7747 Thank you! You can do it

  • @mickelined5447
    @mickelined5447 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this video. What’s the name of your recipe book?

    • @edenashley89
      @edenashley89  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's Mandy's Gourmet Salads cookbook.

  • @WintermelonChan
    @WintermelonChan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why do videos like this make me want to shop ?

  • @verorv
    @verorv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I really wanted to continue watching your video, however, I couldn't, due to the Kim Kim Kardashian sounding voice.