I cured my shopping addiction by making it my profession. When my company closed during the pandemic, I started selling stuff online, starting with my own items and then buying/reselling online. When shops opened again, I built my inventory and have been reselling for 3 years, earning $3K/mo. Now that it's my job, I never have a desire to shop for myself. I only shop for food and staples, and only replace clothes or other items when they wear out. I used to love to shop but now I just think "how much can I get if I resell this?"
There is so much power in the words we speak. When we say "I" and proceed with (fill in the blanks) we come into an agreement with it. That can be very dangerous.
Wow I thought I was the only one who buys things and returns them frequently. Apparently it's a thing! I'm going to do more research and pray about this. Thank you!! GREAT show!! ❤
i love these videos. having them around a table with coffee would be so fun! i use to spend money to save money, i wouldn’t go crazy at target but i would check the clearance section for household items & purchase things unnecessarily that way. i even had to train myself to walk away. spending unplanned money to save money would bust the budget so i had to say no. & not even go over there anymore or into any store to browse because then i will get fixated on an item i seen. the less i know the better. thank you for this video.
Spectacular video thanks for sharing. There’s a God shaped hole in our heart and we can’t seem to fill it with anything else despite humanity’s best efforts and ever evolving options.
By these definitions I’d say I’m a collector as I don’t have specific collections but I just collect nice things like good value stuff that I got for a good price, extremely beautiful stuff also, and it gives me a big sense of security. Is this correct?
I think for me excessive shopping comes from entitlement. I buy x y z because I feel as though I deserve it. On the other hand growing up as a child I went without for a long time until I was able to get my first job at the age of 14. Psychologically I never want to be in lack of clothing and high quality food/groceries
Well I clicked on this so fast 💨 because I did have this issue…. I love to decorate….. sooooo I started focusing on shopping 🛍️ with other peoples money and helping them decorate.. some side work interior design…. it took care of that need to shop, and I wasn’t using my own money ….. and I looked around at my decor and said to myself what you have is enough, it’s beautiful now focus on everything thing else that needs tending….
“Stop the Fantasy sports🙂, from your mouth to God’s ears. I have relatives who play fantasy football, they no longer watch their team, they just keep checking their phones to see what their picks are doing. Not my idea of what a fan should be.
Hey look it’s trust fund private school toddler. Even though she says she grew up lower middle class. Goes to show you how much she really came up with. Even though she tries to lie.
Umm rachel grew up in the time her parents were filing bankruptcy. They learned and now are wealthy. Don't judge if you don't understand the hardship they have been through.
I saw the Sephora & Tory Burch bags 🛍️ and I felt instantly called out 😂
I cured my shopping addiction by making it my profession. When my company closed during the pandemic, I started selling stuff online, starting with my own items and then buying/reselling online. When shops opened again, I built my inventory and have been reselling for 3 years, earning $3K/mo. Now that it's my job, I never have a desire to shop for myself. I only shop for food and staples, and only replace clothes or other items when they wear out. I used to love to shop but now I just think "how much can I get if I resell this?"
If you don’t mind me asking, what sort of things do you sell and what platforms do you sell on?
Where did you start selling online
There is so much power in the words we speak. When we say "I" and proceed with (fill in the blanks) we come into an agreement with it. That can be very dangerous.
You have to find the deeper issue and solve it! Don’t treat the symptoms, but instead fine a cure. It’s better in the long run; you can do it!
The irony of receiving a Wayfair ad in the middle of this is too thick!
This was such a good episode. Thank you for the eye opening commentary. Couldn’t be more accurate!
I am not addicted to shopping i am addicted to switching between bad cooping stratagies so sometimes its shopping sonetimes tv and the list goes on
Me too 🙄
Wow I thought I was the only one who buys things and returns them frequently. Apparently it's a thing! I'm going to do more research and pray about this. Thank you!! GREAT show!! ❤
Gulp… I just did that, and embarrassed to take them back. Went on a July No Spend, and then bought all in one day…
@@monagould1829 it happens! Have grace with yourself 💞💞
I'm not even going to watch this.. I already know I'm a shopping addict and like all addics.. I don't want to quit.
Yeah, well you cant only think about urself.
I’m a shopping addict and I want to quit badly but somehow I can’t seem to manage.
Woah! You got Dr. Delony on the show?? Good job Rachel you’re getting some big names to come on. Proud of you!
She has to. Daddy owns the company.
“Understanding our stories.” Such a good conversation, you guys.
i love these videos. having them around a table with coffee would be so fun!
i use to spend money to save money, i wouldn’t go crazy at target but i would check the clearance section for household items & purchase things unnecessarily that way. i even had to train myself to walk away. spending unplanned money to save money would bust the budget so i had to say no. & not even go over there anymore or into any store to browse because then i will get fixated on an item i seen. the less i know the better.
thank you for this video.
Spectacular video thanks for sharing. There’s a God shaped hole in our heart and we can’t seem to fill it with anything else despite humanity’s best efforts and ever evolving options.
Really appreciate this video!! Thank you!
Alcoholics most certainly DO make light of their drinking. In hindsight it's often seen as part of the process of denial.
Absolutely.
Great talk with a lot of great points.
This is so good thanks John and Rachel
I can afford any new Jackson or Ibanez I want but I stick with a Schecter I bought my brother 20 years ago.
Dr John …. (Hubba hubba) ❤Awesome surprise. Great breakdown on addiction. Your explanation really hit home. Lots of work and I need to get started.
The book "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels was a fun read.
Did it help?
@@leastidyworld4365 it helped calm my habit
Very good episode. Thank you
Like trading in your 3 year old car because the next generation model is out, because you deserve it because you work hard!
By these definitions I’d say I’m a collector as I don’t have specific collections but I just collect nice things like good value stuff that I got for a good price, extremely beautiful stuff also, and it gives me a big sense of security. Is this correct?
Loved this 😊
I think for me excessive shopping comes from entitlement. I buy x y z because I feel as though I deserve it. On the other hand growing up as a child I went without for a long time until I was able to get my first job at the age of 14. Psychologically I never want to be in lack of clothing and high quality food/groceries
Wonderful conversation. Great topic. Thanks so much. ❤
Great episode
Well I clicked on this so fast 💨 because I did have this issue…. I love to decorate….. sooooo I started focusing on shopping 🛍️ with other peoples money and helping them decorate.. some side work interior design…. it took care of that need to shop, and I wasn’t using my own money ….. and I looked around at my decor and said to myself what you have is enough, it’s beautiful now focus on everything thing else that needs tending….
Shopping is fine until your house cannot contain any more stuff and it becomes too much to manage. Minimalism is our goal. One item at a time.
Who is here knowing already that they're addicted to shopping? Me😂
We don’t accept it bc it’s not in the DSM.
I thought Dave said no to "Term life Insurance"
He said no to whole life insurance. Term is less expensive
He does t like whole life because he doesn’t want tospend the money but if get when your young you lock in the cost at the same price.
I thought they were married 🤦🏾♀️
“Stop the Fantasy sports🙂, from your mouth to God’s ears. I have relatives who play fantasy football, they no longer watch their team, they just keep checking their phones to see what their picks are doing. Not my idea of what a fan should be.
Addiction..? Nah just greedy gits.
Hey look it’s trust fund private school toddler. Even though she says she grew up lower middle class. Goes to show you how much she really came up with. Even though she tries to lie.
Why are you supporting her channel?
Umm rachel grew up in the time her parents were filing bankruptcy. They learned and now are wealthy. Don't judge if you don't understand the hardship they have been through.