If You're STILL Feeling Lost...It's Never Too Late To Start!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ส.ค. 2024
- Take time today to answer the questions in this video that will provide a direction and pin for you to walk towards. Feeling lost is such a common feeling, one that I continue to feel at times. Be patient while also seeing what this whole "lost" thing is really all about.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 - I still feel unsettled :(
01:00 - Question 1: Describe the FEELING of "Lost" - COMMENT
03:02 - Question 2: Where Am I Trying To Get To? - COMMENT
05:10 - Question 3: Where Do Your Expectations Come From (milestones)? - COMMENT
08:35 - BUT I DON'T KNOW WHERE I WANT TO GO!!
11:24 - Just Take A Step - An Inspirational Story for You
14:20 - Just Start Walking - YOU CAN DO THIS!
16:40 - Stop Trying to Live a PERFECT Life
17:30 - The best definition of success
Everything below may truly help you. Best of luck everyone!
Questions to Answer (in the comments if you want):
Question 1: Describe the FEELING of "Lost"
Question 2: Where Are You Trying To Get To?
Question 3: Where Do Your Expectations Come From (milestones)?
Actions: Put a pin somewhere, and start walking
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You were one of the BEST that I have encountered in TH-cam. Although I do feel a little bit lost again, I know this is where I can find myself more, a launchpad for those adventurers and seekers. Thank you scott, I will get there someday, as an aspiring filmmaker at yt ^^
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For me the feeling of “lost” is when you wake up the morning and nobody needs you . I never look at the arrive but it is important to just start doing, it is the hardest step just to begin a journey.
My expectations come mostly from myself, most of the time..
For me the feeling of lost comes from waking up in the morning and knowing people need my help but I can help them...
@@federicacapece808thats actually pretty good, thats happiness in itself to be having no one expecting anything from you and having freedom everyday without any burden of expectation. I think you could try telling yourself that it is normal and ok that nobody needs you, you dont need anybody to needs you to be happy.
That’s exactly how feel… I feel like no one needs me..
@federicacapece808 you need dogs and/or kitten ;)
Unfullfillment and frustration is what I feel 24/7 since Years ago
24/7.... cant take tje constant gaslighting about life and living...
For me, the feeling of "lost" is when you don't know what to do or where to go and you wonder, Is there really anything out there for me? I know very well that, of course, there is, but it's so draining that people always expect the same thing your peers achieve. Then they will ask, What happened to you? I really thought you had it in you. and now look at you.
Where am I trying to get to? what I'm trying to get is a life I can be proud of, where I can prove to myself that I'm worth something. And, of course, I know very well that everyone is worth something. What makes us think that we're not is sometimes the people around us. F them.
Now that I think about it, the pin that I am after is coming from them. The reason I want to prove myself I'm worth something is because I am not. And the gaze of them, the way they talk to me. I can sense a little of "what a failure."
"A difficult life is not less worth living than a gentle one.
Joy is simply easier to carry than sorrow. And your heart could lift a city from how long you've been holding what's been nearly impossible to hold.
This world needs those who know how to do that.
Those who could find a tunnel that has no light at the end of it, and hold it up like a telescope to know the darkness also contains truths that could bring the light to its knees.
Grief astronomer!
Adjust the lens, look close
Tell us what do you see..."
Truth!
Me to Me: PICK SOMETHINGGG!!!!
Why am I so indecisive lately. I do my head in.
My goodness Scott! You're such an amazing interesting person, i can't wait to meet you in person one day when i get out of my abusive household. I'm 17 now, i dont got no momey or permission to earn so i cant attend your workshops but its such a delight to see u here. Its one of my motivators to leave my family dynamic, my trauma and venture out in the world find my place...!
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Bless You
I am trying to get to a two day vacation at least...hehe so exhausted by work and responsibilities! Blessings :) to all.
I have been always late in life, in career every time when i failed I wished i was doing something else. I wanted to be a photographer or musician but I never practiced enough. Meanwhile I was afraid to talk to my parents and take a bold decision. For 8 years i did study and i was never a studious nerd. 2 years back I became a certified accountant and been working with top companies post that. Its been a long time and everytime everyday when i start my day, I am always anxious and stressed. I do not want to do this work for rest of my life. Everyday I dream of making videos and doing something else since I feel this is not something I am born for. I still motivate myself to do whatever i want to do but it feels is it too late? Because if i invest time and money into something now at this age, and if it doesn’t work out then its gonna be a hell lot of problem because now I am going to get married soon.
I feel incomplete, unhappy and not myself each day which is the saddest part and this i cannot share with most of the people i am surrounded by.
You have lots of time...
@@Sun-ic7rq yes i agree that we can start at any point of time but now there's time and cost attached which is coz now i wont be living life alone
I feel you.
I truly feel like it’s over for me. It’s been 15 years or non stop disappointment. I deal with a lot of health issues, have had dreams slip by, family issues… I’m about to be 30 and all my hard work to overcome what life has thrown at me hasn’t been enough. I’m lost and lonely. I don’t have it in me to keep trying. I have no evidence of things turning out great. I’m still “doing the things” but not sure how I’m going to make it out. It’s been half my life 🙃
Lost: I feel like I have no were to look, which way to turn. What do to. Feeling lonely, unwanted, and unimportant. Almost forgotten. I feel bored and out of energy. The passion to do absolutely nothing, like I’m stuck in a void with the strong pull of gravity keeping me from getting out. I fear of time passing too fast. I fear the future and how slowly things are moving when it comes to my relationship (military relationship) long distance. It’s so hard being a single mother feeling this way just wanting to jump into the future but yet I cherish every second of time. It is so precious to me. I don’t want to get older but I have to. I want to just go be a family with my boyfriend in the military but I have split custody so I can’t leave state. I can’t leave my daughter cause I’d be a horrible mother. I just want to finally have a happy family together, married, and a growing family. But the 4 years I must wait until I get those things feels like a lifetime BECAUSE I cherish my time so much. I don’t want my life to fly but yet I want my future to be here already. I for my happiness begins in the future. Awaiting my final destination.
This is INSPIRING!
Thank you for sharing
Dear Scott, you are a bless. Thank you.
I’m listening from Iraq 🇮🇶 ❤
Man oh man. After listening to this, it makes me realize that I am still in the process. Being lost is a journey that you want to take one day at a time to bring better and knowing who you are.
Honestly thank you for this video. It helped me a lot and took most of the pressure I had, off my shoulders (for now at least). I'll probably come back to this video when I need to hear your message again. Have a great day everyone :D
Brother , your videos are so encouraging in the fact that they’re so recently uploaded , it’s Devine timing . Thank you for your content
Over 3 yrs ago I was the victim of domestic violence, trauma. Had to move, go dark, lost everything. I am disabled, no car, ect. There's no way for me to meet new people. I have nice neighbors, but they r my sons age. I just turned 61. Time is running out for me. I'm totally lost!!!
I feel for you, but I want to gently push back on the idea that there’s no way for you to meet new people, because that’s a belief that isn’t entirely true and is only going to stop you from pursuing potential opportunities that could in turn, improve your life. You left a TH-cam comment which means you have an internet connection and the opportunity to at least connect with people online. There are so many directions you could go with that if you’re looking to make friends or find a community that might be able to support you as you continue to work through what you’re facing.
Again, I don’t mean any of this as an attack on you- I tell myself a lot of the same things much of the time. However, I think it is important that we learn to recognize when our mind is lying to us and feeding us a narrative that isn’t entirely true and harms our chances at cultivating joy and fulfillment in the future.
That is the problem, since my life was abruptly chambled by my ex that when into a psychosis, I find myself starting over at the age of 55 and I don't know how to get my old self back. The one that was full of life, of dreams and had inner peace. I feel it all left me at once. Don't have any motivation, even with things I really liked to do before this abrupt ending. It has been 1 1/2 year and I still waake up, some days and the tears are just coming out. I was so much better before this relationship. Don't know how to get back this inner peace and joyfull spirit that I was...
I can empathize with everyone in the comments. I’m going through sooo much as well, getting hit with one thing after another idk why i feel called to share what’s going on in my life but I will. I started this specific channel that i’m replying on to just remind myself it’s okay, and tips for me to help me grow. I hope it resonates with some of you. There has to be an out.
when you wake up in the morning, u instantly regret and get anxious about how you'll get through the day again, unworthy, a little lonely, alot stupid, fear
So inspiring Scott ❤ my goal is to create a workshop for women who went through the same experience as me in order to help them regain their power and at the same time do my best to stop the stigma.
Love me some Scott!
Thank you for sharing ❤
Kinda just feel lonely, I really enjoy the company of others, as seasons transition to me. I dont know whats next for me... In this adventure
Hi Scott, to find love ,that my journey now.
Thank u, for the sweet message!! It helped!!
Numb, totally numb. No hope, no happiness, no life, extremely lonely to the point of crying into my pillow each night knowing no one is there. 😢
Jesus is always with you!!
I am a French Canadian woman from Quebec, so sorry if my english is not perfect ;) Just wanted to say that I like your approach speak soooo much to me. Thank you... fells more ok about feelinf lost. Is there a place ( link) that I can go and share with your community?
NORE...NEVER...GOOD LUCK 'MATE'
Si me siento perdida por que todo estaba apuntado y aun no se da el siguirnte paso, me deprimi y todo se retraso unos meses y me gustaria componerlo ...pero siento que si puedo
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Relief at its peak!
anyone here who has annoying neighbours and they cant leave you alone after 3 years and talking and knowing everything ?? any info or help ? 🙏🙏😪😪 im tired to listening them cant ignore some things, what to do ? Scott any help would be great ? they cant stop, and spreading some lies and they even dont know the behind story 🤢🤢😪😪 anyone with the same problems ?? thanks 🙏😪
Hello, i have similar experiences. First how they annoy you which parts and what kind of topics? And could you just answer and talk sincerely about the thoughts you have and how you feel and at the same time it could make them feel sad but being honest and sincerely listening is also important to them i think. Only mutual love and mutual interests and mutual care can make things going to good direction. ❤.
there used to be some videos with song reactions or something like that i saw those a long time ago, is there another channel?
To having friends my age, and a bf!!!!
Hi
Unwanted and unworthy
Wanted and wortthy
What if everything is going out of control??
How can i speak or chat to you ...
175$ per hour for all that theatrical acting? 🤣🤣