If you've ever felt lonely, know that you're not alone. It's a difficult sense to describe, but we've all been there. Share your story in the comments below. Let's create a community where everyone feels seen, heard, and supported. Here are the helpful resources I mentioned: Join the Waitlist: 8 Weekly Calls With Me: www.scottstemarie.com/8weekswithscott Monthly Calls: www.patreon.com/scottstemarie Online Therapy 10% off: www.betterhelp.com/depressiontoexpression
I'm in my sixties. I have never felt so better before in my life. I have been through what you are describing. I don't feel lonely anymore. I am happy living alone and doing my own thing now. I don't want any persons issues and troubles. I can remember wanting to be liked and validated when I was young. I wouldn't want that misery back. We are all alone. Even if you have many friends and a good relationship, you are still alone. I am responsible for my own happiness.
I really don’t know who i am anymore, can't feel happiness and joy in me. I have a job but don't see purpose, i just feel fine when am sleeping. But am still hoping for a zeal of being happy one day
Been lonely my whole life. I think it’s true when you and others say it doesn’t matter how many people are around you but it does matter whether you’re seen and heard. It’s only the rare times I felt seen and heard that I didn’t feel lonely. Thank you for putting this video out. It helps others know they’re not alone in loneliness. I’ve signed up to the waiting list for the 8 week coaching. Could do with some support. I don’t want to give up ❤
Just something I wanted you to know Scott 💟 You know, empathy can be faked emotions can be acted too but when we associate a whole emotion with a person then we are also figuring out the way we see them as a person, for you I associate you with 'Care' A very positive emotion and then the dominos fall it leads to more positive emotions like love...nothing matters to you, then all the external physical appearances and flaws fade not that they become non existent but they blur in comparison, you see the beauty of the human heart in its entirety and for once you don't sink and die with the bad but you can begin to acknowledge the good. Thank you for this experience. Thank you for being who you are, for being authentic. Thank you for being expressive. Thank you for being sensitive. Above all, thank you for putting yourself out there! Your words add value to my life and the lives of others watching. Indeed, you make this lifetime worth living through living in lots of ways. Keep living. Amen. 🕊❤️
31M, been lonely all my life. And lately it is weighing on my mind quite heavily. I don't really have anything to live for, and time is passing by quicker than ever. It's really unsettling, I just can't relax or stop thinking about how lonely and pointless life is.
Today has been particularly challenging for me, but your assistance has made a significant difference. Thank you sincerely. It seems like this sentiment is widespread but often remains unspoken, leaving individuals to feel isolated in their experiences without knowing how to articulate them.
I wish you were my boyfriend honestly because you are so understanding. I listen to your "it's okay" video all the time when I am having a panic attack and it helps a ton. I hope I end up meeting someone as intelligent and caring as you are. I need that in my life so badly. Many blessings your way 🙏
Had a hard day and catching myself starting to have one of my spiraling moments where I feel so confused about life and career, depressed, and so anxious. I keep going back to gratitude for the little things around me, even if it’s so hard in the moment. I can objectively see how I feel like I’m in this little dark cloud bubble and I see the world so so differently from everyone around me. I am on a work trip in a beautiful city with beautiful weather right now. I have shelter, food, and water to drink. Everything is as it should be. Thank you for your wonderful videos and always reminding us that things are okay even when they don’t feel that way.
Man. What words can this guy not say????? I absolutely love this because of so much going on in me. This speaks to me and so many of us in all different levels. Loneliness and isolation are real because you just feel that some things that you surround yourself with are always leaving or neglecting you. There are days that I can feel happy and days that I can feel alone which causes me to feel sad and unhappy on the inside. It's like life just keeps passing you by each time and you try to figure out what you want to do to change the cycle. Thanks for this.
Sometimes, i get goose bumps because I feel like you're reading my mind. 😅 But your videos always cheer me up. This is not just a video. It's someone's soul-saving video. It's a light on this chaotic world. Thank you always! Scott!! 😊 One of your supporters from korea 🇰🇷 ❤
I long for death now. I've nothing to live for. My life is utter misery, with my mental health, physical condition and circumstances, and it is only going to get worse for each year I have the potential to survive. I'm a disgusting, broken, lifeless husk. I mean nothing to nobody. I'm unloved and unlovable, and when I was younger, I couldn't understand people being less afraid of dying. I'm not afraid anymore. It's living more this way that scares me.
as humans we were created to worship god. when you separate from god all you want to do is die, and literally everyone feels that, I was like that too, but when you follow god you can be crippled , literally have nothing and still have peace and joy. I encourage you to get close to god because if you die without knowing him you might end up in a worse place than you are right now.
@@Sarizzza I don't believe that we were created to worship God. That seems like an even more pointless existence, and to think we are the product of such a needy, controlling and narcissistic creator, to bring life to an entire race of people just so they could eternally congratulate them is something I can't sign up to. I don't like myself, but I've never knowingly caused harm to anyone. If that is not enough to avoid Hell if there is one, then again, God needs to have a rethink. I wish you all the best with your beliefs, and if your faith brings you comfort then I'm glad, but with people having constant suicidal thoughts, telling them they might also be going to Hell is not the morale booster you might at first imagine. Take care
@@phily8093 I get what you’re In all honesty you got no choice. If humans were so good you’d have so many people helping now, you wouldn’t be alone. Humans are vile and evil and innately selfish. In the end all we have is god. He is the only one that loves us unconditionally while people will just leave us anytime we are no longer useful to them 🤷♀️, or at least put us down and look down on us. Even in the beginning they may help but they will actually resent u and get tired. But god never does. So what harm is it to believe in him ? He is literally the only one who 100% cares about you… except maybe your mother but like I said all humans are limited in their love. That’s my opinion though 🤷♀️.
Actually i am in bipolar episode right now, and I’m sick because of loneliness and because i decided to change my life for good , but the thing is i stressed my self with all this life changing , and then i find myself in a new episode, actually I’m so happy that I’m sick, my last months was a mess, and i needed a change in my medicine plan , and now I’m okay alhamdolelah, I still want to change but I’ll take things so slow, and I’ll make a new routine that suits me , thank you for you’re videos, and your care ✨🍃
Ah I love listening to you Scott! You’re so raw and honest, which is very refreshing. ❤ One thing that always made me feel lonely is when I dated past people who didn’t really see me, but were drawn to some facial feature.
This was such a great video! Our inner A-hole critic is super harsh sometimes for sure! One thing that helped me is to picture mine as like a big cartoon villian, like the bad guy from Minions, and I began to not take him so seriously
Thanks again, Scott, my Canadian brother! You always help me so much! Your videos are gift from God! ❤ I love you & pray for you. ☀️ And by the way, I also love hearing you sing.
You know scotty.. i just broke up with my friend. In five months we became so close. Cannot live without each other kind. But his arrogance and anger and action he does when he gets angry. Abuses. i just felt like walking out.. i felt so much lost . Depressed.. now i realised after sitting infront of you. There something beyond love that is "myself".. i realised he is not worth. I don't have to spill myself just because i need love.. now im peaceful.. thanks scotty.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
How great the way you speak is like seriously. I've been cashing my passions for 4-5 years by myself despite of all other people's judgments which I've never cared before. Anyways, I'm super healed by myself and I'm glad that I've explored the way I'm currently in finally.
I have everything and I have nothing that I care about and one person who care about me there is nothing there is no one it’s like meaningless life like floating above the ground without your feet feeling the earth under you ..uncertain about the next minute and at the same time have everything in life wierd feeling don’t know how to get out of it .feeling alone and lonely as hell!livig in hell already!!!!
There a lot of people living alone, having no friends, but some people still have a spouse, kids, pets and friends. I envy them. I think I am OK and deserve a spouse and friends but I don't have them.
Where do I even start? So many changes over the last 5-6 years. My relationship with God has saved me in that I’ve taken a lot of my sorrow and loneliness to Him. No one can possibly understand what I’ve been through and how it’s affected me. Trying to open up feels pointless. Lately I have been enjoying my alone time much more.
I am married but so lonely. I have lost myself totally. We dont spend any time together anymore. He just sits in front of comp and plays games. Each time I take it up its the same excuses and explenations. My depression and anxiety is taking over. 😢 It feels he does not c me anymore..
You will be okay. This is normal experience caused by how complicated people are. And when there are TWO? Wow, communication is a very tough art! It requires knowledge, wisdom and patience from both sides. It is not easy to meet a person wise in interpersonal communication, and no one will ever be perfect in those skills. But, we can always learn, grow and improve! It is OK to feel tired from trying to build a family alone. It is about two. And when someone doesn't listen about other's hurt, it is not about acceptance and respect at all. Maybe, the person is hurt in his way too? We can always offer our help, but if it is rejected, maybe it is time to think on what's truly important for you in your own life. You can find your peace inside. Because in the end, you are whole person with your own goals and desires. So, free yourself. Ask for help, acceptance and love. Everybody deserves that. Be yourself, and if you don't remember who you are - ask yourself about it. Because your real self is still there, and that's why it hurts. When you will find your inner compass, you will find decisions right for you. Your own way 🧭
I can relate so much cuz this asshole visits me when I play the piano as I've been playing for over 10 years now and don't know much about theory and stuff :) Thank you for sharing this!
I have a question in mind, ppl around me emphasize on having a life partner like a husband/wife is really essential or else life is lonely? Wat is your take on this? May be its really mandatory.... to be committed.... as i believe u too are brother.
Be committed to yourself first. You must become someone that someone else would cherish to have. This means mental, physical and reputational health are in order. Good income, house, car, etc. and wisdom to prevent goldd1ggerz and manipulators from stealing your hard work. Today, frankly I recommend not marrying unless you’re a vvomen. Easiest way to lose everything as a mman is to marry. Find purpose within yourself, as it takes several lifetimes to even scratch the surface of activities and hobbies let alone books and music and instruments etc that you shouldn’t even have time for vvomen.
If you've ever felt lonely, know that you're not alone. It's a difficult sense to describe, but we've all been there. Share your story in the comments below. Let's create a community where everyone feels seen, heard, and supported. Here are the helpful resources I mentioned:
Join the Waitlist: 8 Weekly Calls With Me: www.scottstemarie.com/8weekswithscott
Monthly Calls: www.patreon.com/scottstemarie
Online Therapy 10% off: www.betterhelp.com/depressiontoexpression
Saludos desde México.
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Thank you Scott
I feel privileged that I found you. No exaggeration
I'm in my sixties. I have never felt so better before in my life. I have been through what you are describing. I don't feel lonely anymore. I am happy living alone and doing my own thing now. I don't want any persons issues and troubles. I can remember wanting to be liked and validated when I was young. I wouldn't want that misery back. We are all alone. Even if you have many friends and a good relationship, you are still alone. I am responsible for my own happiness.
👍🏼❤️
Love this! ❤
@@Papaya0000 I'm being honest.
I really don’t know who i am anymore, can't feel happiness and joy in me. I have a job but don't see purpose, i just feel fine when am sleeping. But am still hoping for a zeal of being happy one day
I can relate to your sentiments
Me too. Sending positive thoughts.
Love you friend..i am 35 i am in the same situation as you are..big hugs and positiveness.
If you live in America my advice leave the country and move too a Nordic country
Same here. Finally got my dream Job but I dont see the point.. nothing makes me feel happy nowadays
Been lonely my whole life. I think it’s true when you and others say it doesn’t matter how many people are around you but it does matter whether you’re seen and heard. It’s only the rare times I felt seen and heard that I didn’t feel lonely. Thank you for putting this video out. It helps others know they’re not alone in loneliness. I’ve signed up to the waiting list for the 8 week coaching. Could do with some support. I don’t want to give up ❤
Just something I wanted you to know Scott 💟
You know, empathy can be faked emotions can be acted too but when we associate a whole emotion with a person then we are also figuring out the way we see them as a person, for you I associate you with 'Care' A very positive emotion and then the dominos fall it leads to more positive emotions like love...nothing matters to you, then all the external physical appearances and flaws fade not that they become non existent but they blur in comparison, you see the beauty of the human heart in its entirety and for once you don't sink and die with the bad but you can begin to acknowledge the good.
Thank you for this experience.
Thank you for being who you are, for being authentic.
Thank you for being expressive.
Thank you for being sensitive.
Above all, thank you for putting yourself out there!
Your words add value to my life and the lives of others watching.
Indeed, you make this lifetime worth living through living in lots of ways. Keep living. Amen. 🕊❤️
31M, been lonely all my life. And lately it is weighing on my mind quite heavily. I don't really have anything to live for, and time is passing by quicker than ever. It's really unsettling, I just can't relax or stop thinking about how lonely and pointless life is.
❤️🩹✌️
I,m in the same boat.
Keep going. you never know what will happen. you could meet ur soulmate tomorrow
Today has been particularly challenging for me, but your assistance has made a significant difference. Thank you sincerely. It seems like this sentiment is widespread but often remains unspoken, leaving individuals to feel isolated in their experiences without knowing how to articulate them.
I wish you were my boyfriend honestly because you are so understanding. I listen to your "it's okay" video all the time when I am having a panic attack and it helps a ton. I hope I end up meeting someone as intelligent and caring as you are. I need that in my life so badly.
Many blessings your way 🙏
I would love that meditation, you've always been someone i really look forward to in times of adversity, thankyou!
Had a hard day and catching myself starting to have one of my spiraling moments where I feel so confused about life and career, depressed, and so anxious. I keep going back to gratitude for the little things around me, even if it’s so hard in the moment. I can objectively see how I feel like I’m in this little dark cloud bubble and I see the world so so differently from everyone around me. I am on a work trip in a beautiful city with beautiful weather right now. I have shelter, food, and water to drink. Everything is as it should be. Thank you for your wonderful videos and always reminding us that things are okay even when they don’t feel that way.
Man. What words can this guy not say????? I absolutely love this because of so much going on in me. This speaks to me and so many of us in all different levels. Loneliness and isolation are real because you just feel that some things that you surround yourself with are always leaving or neglecting you. There are days that I can feel happy and days that I can feel alone which causes me to feel sad and unhappy on the inside. It's like life just keeps passing you by each time and you try to figure out what you want to do to change the cycle. Thanks for this.
Scott, You are such a gem 💎 in this world . Thank you for continuing to share your gentle & compassionate wisdom and humor with us !! ❤ ~Judith
I found you in the right moment in my life. Thanks for the work you’re doing for us! ❤
hey scott! loved this video. came by right when i needed it. please post the meditation you were talking about. im sure it will help a lot of people
Scott you are truly a blessing!!! Please continue to do what you are doing because it makes a difference in this world! Be blessed ❤
Sometimes, i get goose bumps because I feel like you're reading my mind. 😅 But your videos always cheer me up. This is not just a video. It's someone's soul-saving video. It's a light on this chaotic world. Thank you always! Scott!! 😊 One of your supporters from korea 🇰🇷 ❤
Thank you...much needed.
I long for death now. I've nothing to live for. My life is utter misery, with my mental health, physical condition and circumstances, and it is only going to get worse for each year I have the potential to survive. I'm a disgusting, broken, lifeless husk. I mean nothing to nobody. I'm unloved and unlovable, and when I was younger, I couldn't understand people being less afraid of dying. I'm not afraid anymore. It's living more this way that scares me.
as humans we were created to worship god. when you separate from god all you want to do is die, and literally everyone feels that, I was like that too, but when you follow god you can be crippled , literally have nothing and still have peace and joy. I encourage you to get close to god because if you die without knowing him you might end up in a worse place than you are right now.
@@Sarizzza I don't believe that we were created to worship God. That seems like an even more pointless existence, and to think we are the product of such a needy, controlling and narcissistic creator, to bring life to an entire race of people just so they could eternally congratulate them is something I can't sign up to. I don't like myself, but I've never knowingly caused harm to anyone. If that is not enough to avoid Hell if there is one, then again, God needs to have a rethink. I wish you all the best with your beliefs, and if your faith brings you comfort then I'm glad, but with people having constant suicidal thoughts, telling them they might also be going to Hell is not the morale booster you might at first imagine. Take care
@@phily8093 I get what you’re In all honesty you got no choice. If humans were so good you’d have so many people helping now, you wouldn’t be alone. Humans are vile and evil and innately selfish. In the end all we have is god. He is the only one that loves us unconditionally while people will just leave us anytime we are no longer useful to them 🤷♀️, or at least put us down and look down on us. Even in the beginning they may help but they will actually resent u and get tired. But god never does. So what harm is it to believe in him ? He is literally the only one who 100% cares about you… except maybe your mother but like I said all humans are limited in their love. That’s my opinion though 🤷♀️.
your channel helped me so much man. keep up the great work. 👍🏼
This means a lot. Happy to hear it ❤️
Actually i am in bipolar episode right now, and I’m sick because of loneliness and because i decided to change my life for good , but the thing is i stressed my self with all this life changing , and then i find myself in a new episode, actually I’m so happy that I’m sick, my last months was a mess, and i needed a change in my medicine plan , and now I’m okay alhamdolelah, I still want to change but I’ll take things so slow, and I’ll make a new routine that suits me , thank you for you’re videos, and your care ✨🍃
Ah I love listening to you Scott! You’re so raw and honest, which is very refreshing. ❤ One thing that always made me feel lonely is when I dated past people who didn’t really see me, but were drawn to some facial feature.
This was such a great video! Our inner A-hole critic is super harsh sometimes for sure! One thing that helped me is to picture mine as like a big cartoon villian, like the bad guy from Minions, and I began to not take him so seriously
Thank you Scott...I just loose all my words when I come on this channel...all I could ever utter is a thanks
This video popped up at the exact moment I needed it. I give so much love and yet it is so hard for me to find it myself. Thank you for your videos.
Thanks again, Scott, my Canadian brother! You always help me so much! Your videos are gift from God! ❤ I love you & pray for you. ☀️ And by the way, I also love hearing you sing.
It's truly heartwarming. your content has resonated with me and helped me reach new levels of enlightenment. Keep up the amazing work Scott!
This video was very helpful. I feel you described exactly what I’m going through and it brought me some comfort. Thank you so much. 🧡
Hi Scott,
I just found your channel. These are thoughts I have thought of. I’m glad you brought these topics out in the open.
this was life changing thank you for this video
Thank u Scott. U save my life today.
These words are...wow
Would love a meditation video!
I am currently on antidepressants, your videos help me a lot.
You know scotty.. i just broke up with my friend. In five months we became so close. Cannot live without each other kind. But his arrogance and anger and action he does when he gets angry. Abuses. i just felt like walking out.. i felt so much lost . Depressed.. now i realised after sitting infront of you. There something beyond love that is "myself".. i realised he is not worth. I don't have to spill myself just because i need love.. now im peaceful.. thanks scotty.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Scott🤗
How great the way you speak is like seriously. I've been cashing my passions for 4-5 years by myself despite of all other people's judgments which I've never cared before. Anyways, I'm super healed by myself and I'm glad that I've explored the way I'm currently in finally.
Thank you, Scott.
Thank you Scott i got emotional at the end god bless you 🙏🏿
Scott I'm requesting the loneliness meditation. Please share it, it'd help us a lot ❤❤❤
Thanks so much for this , bless
I love my life 🙋♀️🙏thank you
I have everything and I have nothing that I care about and one person who care about me there is nothing there is no one it’s like meaningless life like floating above the ground without your feet feeling the earth under you ..uncertain about the next minute and at the same time have everything in life wierd feeling don’t know how to get out of it .feeling alone and lonely as hell!livig in hell already!!!!
There a lot of people living alone, having no friends, but some people still have a spouse, kids, pets and friends. I envy them. I think I am OK and deserve a spouse and friends but I don't have them.
Where do I even start? So many changes over the last 5-6 years. My relationship with God has saved me in that I’ve taken a lot of my sorrow and loneliness to Him. No one can possibly understand what I’ve been through and how it’s affected me. Trying to open up feels pointless. Lately I have been enjoying my alone time much more.
Ur awesome!!! I use #4, alot!!! Thank u!!!
I am married but so lonely. I have lost myself totally. We dont spend any time together anymore. He just sits in front of comp and plays games. Each time I take it up its the same excuses and explenations. My depression and anxiety is taking over. 😢
It feels he does not c me anymore..
You will be okay. This is normal experience caused by how complicated people are. And when there are TWO? Wow, communication is a very tough art! It requires knowledge, wisdom and patience from both sides. It is not easy to meet a person wise in interpersonal communication, and no one will ever be perfect in those skills. But, we can always learn, grow and improve!
It is OK to feel tired from trying to build a family alone. It is about two. And when someone doesn't listen about other's hurt, it is not about acceptance and respect at all. Maybe, the person is hurt in his way too? We can always offer our help, but if it is rejected, maybe it is time to think on what's truly important for you in your own life. You can find your peace inside. Because in the end, you are whole person with your own goals and desires.
So, free yourself. Ask for help, acceptance and love. Everybody deserves that. Be yourself, and if you don't remember who you are - ask yourself about it. Because your real self is still there, and that's why it hurts. When you will find your inner compass, you will find decisions right for you. Your own way 🧭
@@danoncho 🥰 thank you so much
@@Blueowl896 👍
agreed 100% mental health is worsening for me 😭😭😢😢
Amazing video
Thank you! ❤
I'm distracted by that person in the mirror with the headphones on lol
14:00 yes ❤
I see the hard things l put in as far as educating myself
I can relate so much cuz this asshole visits me when I play the piano as I've been playing for over 10 years now and don't know much about theory and stuff :)
Thank you for sharing this!
Ahaha YES!!! Tell that asshole to piss off
Am dealing with the same thing
I like your guitar
I have a question in mind, ppl around me emphasize on having a life partner like a husband/wife is really essential or else life is lonely?
Wat is your take on this?
May be its really mandatory.... to be committed.... as i believe u too are brother.
Be committed to yourself first. You must become someone that someone else would cherish to have. This means mental, physical and reputational health are in order. Good income, house, car, etc. and wisdom to prevent goldd1ggerz and manipulators from stealing your hard work. Today, frankly I recommend not marrying unless you’re a vvomen. Easiest way to lose everything as a mman is to marry. Find purpose within yourself, as it takes several lifetimes to even scratch the surface of activities and hobbies let alone books and music and instruments etc that you shouldn’t even have time for vvomen.
It's very difficult
I usually embroidery 🪡 like a butterfly or something
That's how l feel
scott sir who is that in the mirror?
I love your videos…you rock❤️🩹 I need a friend like you
I have delt with cheesy things and the scenarios
I am just wondering, is the majority that feels lonely single?? Or do people feel that too when having a spouse and family? Please comment❤🙏
Is that a Roomba in the background
I do get lonely way too lonely l must be in bad company
Everyone ask for a meditation
I feel like im just something easy to dislike .Porn and couples and relationships and rejection has really soured my confidence. Whats the point
It feels unbearable
You forgot KC and the Sunshine Band 😊.
😊😊
I think I love U 😊 U R awesome 😊 U R helping me in hard times for 4 months already ❤ thank U !!!!!❤
U R gud @ words
I do feel like there are a lot of actors at play
It is so much criticism l can be my own critic
Or l crochet
Sorry l can't spell right