Paris Is Burning "I would like to be a spoiled rich white girl." Femme Realness Queens category

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  • Gender, Race & Class in drag? Yaas, queen! This is part of the segment described in bell hooks' book Black Looks, 'Is Paris Burning?' Which women? Rich, white women. Not the women in their families and communities?
    "I would like to be a spoiled rich white girl They get what they want. They don't have to struggle with finances and stuff..." -Venus Xtravaganza, Rest In Power.
    #bellhooks #parisisburning1990 #parisisburning #lgbt #class #poorpeople #poverty #hiv #hivaids #transgender #lgbtq #représentation #dragonball #dragqueen #ballroomscene #peopleofcolor #lgbtqia #lgbtqia #lgbtfilm #race #gender #intersectionality #intersectionalfeminism #nyc #newyork #criticaltheory #criticalthinking

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  • @lilithz
    @lilithz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +512

    her and the femmes and queens like her walked so the girls and the dolls can run and dance and strut today. stunning in life and in the afterlife because you best believe she is still alive now in all our hearts. paved the way with her bare hands taking from her own body for us to stand on now. rest in power, peace, and beauty venus, on behalf of all the dolls who found strength in you and girls like you. you were born a woman and the rest is drag.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      “Femmes”. Sexist.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Also… “Lilith”? Y chromosome detected.

    • @saifavalencia1156
      @saifavalencia1156 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Femqueen luv

  • @jesssanchez2954
    @jesssanchez2954 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1134

    So sad she was murdered after this :/ she just wanted to be loved and accepted

    • @Gr95dc
      @Gr95dc 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +86

      That's such a tragedy, she sounded like a kind soft soul :(

    • @rabidpepe
      @rabidpepe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It wasn't murder. It was AIDS. There was no hope back then with HIV/AIDS. I wish people would still take the virus seriously. It's treatable but it is still out there.

    • @aftonstan5494
      @aftonstan5494 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@@rabidpepeShe was murdered.

    • @Themudeater
      @Themudeater 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PartyClown-rh8ffwhat the fuck?

    • @PartyClown-rh8ff
      @PartyClown-rh8ff 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Themudeater are you a traitor?

  • @pizzaface4628
    @pizzaface4628 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +240

    RIP queen, you deserved to live a full and prosperous life. Hope you’ve found peace in the next life

  • @liz257
    @liz257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    😭 Venus the goddess of beauty and love. The name fits her so well. Transphobia is an ugly cruel thing

    • @svetlanaawaken
      @svetlanaawaken 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      so cruel. i’d never understand hating someone for something they want for themselves

    • @SophieBailey-f6m
      @SophieBailey-f6m 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      This is a beautiful comment ❤

    • @Naruto_fishcake
      @Naruto_fishcake 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Y'all threatening actual women and forcing them to be attracted to y'all is also an ugly cruel thing
      Women's safety over the feelings of a crossdressing man

    • @svetlanaawaken
      @svetlanaawaken 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      @@Naruto_fishcake nobody is forcing anyone to be attracted to trans people. women’s safety is just as important as trans women/men’s safety, quit the yap

    • @finnbaker8695
      @finnbaker8695 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Naruto_fishcake nobody is threatening women to have a relationship with transitioned people. by the looks of your other comments, you support an author jk Rowling who has 0 original ideas and legitimately gaslights and insults women on twitter.

  • @essaeldridgeYoBro
    @essaeldridgeYoBro 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +325

    I was scared to read the comments at first because I thought there would be transphobes.
    It’s so nice to see kind and loving people coming together for a woman who was taken too soon.
    So sad to see what happened to her is still going on, literally all the time.
    Trans love to you all.
    Essa (She/they)

    • @Naruto_fishcake
      @Naruto_fishcake 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And ofc like a typical troon you don't give a damn when actual women who don't bow down to your delusions are threatened with death & SA by your white knight TRA's like Harry Potter's author :)

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sir, stop following women into the bathroom, you scare us.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @chichihiwi6319 Yes, there is a correlation between understanding how sex works and being smart.

    • @Almond.stars666
      @Almond.stars666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@wormwoodcocktailThe fact you imply that we who disagree with you don’t know how sex works isn’t smart, diminishes any smarts you think you have.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Almond.stars666 If you disagree with me, then yes, you are stupid. Sex is binary. Sex is immutable and unchangeable in mammals. Women are adult human females. If you disagree, chances are you have a few extra chromosomes. Sorry, little girl.
      t. Biochemist

  • @baglady2652
    @baglady2652 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    This docu had me in tears

    • @Tom-zp1rp
      @Tom-zp1rp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You need a helmet

    • @notreal9214
      @notreal9214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Tom-zp1rp what do you mean by this?

    • @Tom-zp1rp
      @Tom-zp1rp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@notreal9214 that this person is so pathetically soft they should wear a helmet. Idk what’s worse. The fact that people are this soft or that comments need to be explained to others. 🫠🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

  • @jobella2656
    @jobella2656 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +233

    Over 30 yrs & still brown tgirls & now black trans young men being killed for living openly, sad.

    • @owens5737
      @owens5737 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And all the whites and Latina’s who do sex work also

    • @aclstudios
      @aclstudios 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most of them are killed by other black people.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Over 30 years and men still can’t be women

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aclstudios*other men

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @smelly3273 men are cheating in women’s sports because of clowns like you

  • @alchuraichu
    @alchuraichu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    It's wonderful how everyone in this comment section is peaceful and kind, mourning and celebrating Venus Xtravaganza. Trans people are here to stay, and so are the others who are kind to us.

    • @Naruto_fishcake
      @Naruto_fishcake 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Just stay tf outta actual women's spaces thanks😊

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Women are adult human females and men who say they’re women are sexist scrotes.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Naruto_fishcakeThis

    • @treasureobasuyi894
      @treasureobasuyi894 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@wormwoodcocktailyet death is expectant to all under the sun. How can any stay? Your great grandmother didn't stay in any shape, way or form so how can you and those like you? There's none to stay. It just decays.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@treasureobasuyi894 I can assure you that women will still be female after I’m dead.

  • @beensybaby773
    @beensybaby773 2 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    god shes so beautiful

    • @ijustchangedmyname7794
      @ijustchangedmyname7794 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      *God

    • @beensybaby773
      @beensybaby773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ijustchangedmyname7794 no

    • @beensybaby773
      @beensybaby773 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ijustchangedmyname7794 go cry about it weenie

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I mean… if you’re into dudes lol
      I’m a lesbian so yeah… no… can’t relate lmfao

    • @nerveagent1905
      @nerveagent1905 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Never cut your hair, you'd get a taste of your medicine ​@@wormwoodcocktail

  • @tyroneonphone
    @tyroneonphone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    RIP Gorgeous Diva, remembered forever 🩷

  • @Awesomes007
    @Awesomes007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Trans liberation NOW. 💪💙

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      No, women’s liberation

    • @MsTinkerbelle87
      @MsTinkerbelle87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      GROOMERS!

    • @MsTinkerbelle87
      @MsTinkerbelle87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@wormwoodcocktailAMEN! This thing was not a woman!

    • @kittyCaona787
      @kittyCaona787 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MsTinkerbelle87lay off the pipe sweetie and show ur actual face

  • @alimay4342
    @alimay4342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    As a trans woman who is "passable" it breaks my heart that trans women feel the need to pass in order to live regular daily lives, it also gives me an insight into the mind of transphobes, they say they can always tell, but believe me they can not, I just want to live in a world where people dont think they have the power to end someones life just because they disagree with how its being lived.

    • @hannahg.8572
      @hannahg.8572 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      As a student of cultural anthropology, I'm also sceptical of the current focus especially in Western cultures on physical conformity / surgeries or very invasive procedures. Of course it is up to individuals to decide what is right for them. But considering how many cultures there are or were, where many people we would label trans today were valued members of their society and could live good lives, without the expectation of physically conforming to a certain "standard", definitely makes me question why we consider it so central today. In the recent words of Juriji der Klee (approximated), in the queer world of today, it is time to be accepting of trans people regardless of what changes they have or haven't made to their bodies. People should go with their heart on these decisions, not because they feel the pressure to "pass" in order to feel or be treated as "legitimate".

    • @latifa3995
      @latifa3995 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      girl you are stunning

    • @Avatar_Brandy
      @Avatar_Brandy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@hannahg.8572People have surgeries and GAC because they have gender dysphoria that doesn’t just go away after you accept yourself. Having surgeries like FFS isn’t about passing, it’s about combatting gender dysphoria.

    • @hannahg.8572
      @hannahg.8572 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@Avatar_Brandy That's definitely true for a lot of people, but I do think plenty of other people feel pressure from a society that expects everyone to fit into a neat binary box and that that is something they may take into account when considering their options. Also we need to keep in mind that gender dysphoria has different incidences and may express itself differently between cultures. I'm not saying it's about "accepting yourself", that puts the onus on the individual, it's about getting recognition of who you are from general society, which is a perfectly understandable need. There are and were other, non-Western cultures where other genders than male and female were completely normalized or even had special status within society. I don't think it's too far-fetched to assume people might suffer from less dysphoria if they are just outright accepted or maybe never even had to "come out" at all, but were allowed to grow up as themselves.

    • @bleachnbones7107
      @bleachnbones7107 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      It cracks me up when they say they can always tell. As a very masculine cis woman who has been insulted and pushed out of women's bathrooms multiple times, no, no they can't

  • @babiegirl526
    @babiegirl526 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    "I didnt wanna embarass them. so thats why i moved away" its so sad people cannot be themselves she is so beautiful like a goddess

  • @shineekings615
    @shineekings615 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    shes beautiful, its always nice to hear other LGBTQ+ people talking about their identity. especially people who identify as trans*, i feel like lots of us have many interesting ways of explaining our gender. have not watched this docu yet, but definitely plan on doing it. rip venus ❤️

  • @Overdone81
    @Overdone81 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Venus was a beautiful trailblazer for sure.RIP😞❤️

  • @svetlanaawaken
    @svetlanaawaken 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    she’s beautiful

  • @harlowhazardperry255
    @harlowhazardperry255 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Every time I see this segmant my heart breaks, her story was so hopeful and ultimately ended in tragedy 💔 Her soul is at peace now, rest in beauty Queen ♡ You got your wings, and are immortalized forever, you're loved by thousands and thousands of people! Go girl, fly high and free 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️

  • @miles_quartz
    @miles_quartz 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    trans women, drag queens, feminine men, and all queer people living their lives and loving themselves and fully expressing themselves you ARE the most special gorgeous things on earth 😭 I love you so much all of my beautiful queer, gay, and trans siblings ❤❤❤

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Queer is a slur. LGB drop the T. This man was sexist.

    • @andreja9425
      @andreja9425 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      awww thank you 💗

    • @BooHollis2006
      @BooHollis2006 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank You Very Much XOXO

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@BooHollis2006 Bro, you look like Bobby Hill. _Please_ stop following women and girls like myself and my daughter into the bathroom. You know how you look and you know why you scare us. Thanks.

  • @simpulacra
    @simpulacra 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    thank you to all who lived before me to give me the chance to live as myself today

  • @realniqqa101
    @realniqqa101 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    RIP Venus Extravaganza. I can't imagine they things her and other trans women went through in those times. Can't say much has changed.
    Her memory lives on.

  • @_yaboi
    @_yaboi 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    its horrible to now know what her future fate was... rest in power

  • @geligniteandlilies
    @geligniteandlilies 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So long as I live I will hurt for her. Rest in peace angel. You deserved so much better from life.

  • @suave-alpaca8412
    @suave-alpaca8412 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Its been a while after I’ve seen this documentary. My heart still breaks for her

  • @declanwolfgang5775
    @declanwolfgang5775 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    REST IN POWER XTRAVAGANZA!

  • @MultiNadiam
    @MultiNadiam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She was lovely.

  • @seansswamp
    @seansswamp 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

  • @trinkets7777
    @trinkets7777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sadly, women aren't safe on the subway either.

  • @stebec
    @stebec 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    rest in peace sweet venus

  • @dante_9000
    @dante_9000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    rest in power beautiful ❤️‍🔥

  • @almostatami
    @almostatami 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I still think about her and just cry.

  • @210-GirlFromNoWhere
    @210-GirlFromNoWhere 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love her so much

  • @vi0let831
    @vi0let831 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my god she seems so sweet, I've never heard of her but now I'm curious to know more about her. That's so sad what happened to her. Pobrecita :(

  • @888mazzystar
    @888mazzystar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    we miss uuu venus

  • @user-x7dc2pq7n
    @user-x7dc2pq7n 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Honestly same. You are statically likely to have the best life with those attributes. Halo effect, nepotism, the least likely to be killed because of their identity

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You can just say you hate women

  • @JavaEFA
    @JavaEFA 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Seeing this makes me so sad. She had so much to live for.

  • @justme8340
    @justme8340 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why the hell does anybody care what anybody else is doing as long as it’s not an infringement on anybody else’s lifestyle?
    As long as you’re not blasting your music at 3am or stealing my parcels off my porch, more power to ya!

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Men are cheating in women’s sports, sexually assaulting us in prison and domestic violence shelters, and following us into the bathroom. This man was part of that. Womanface indicates misogyny. It does affect women.

  • @KasiaHavlicek
    @KasiaHavlicek 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you forever venus

  • @davidmiranda4745
    @davidmiranda4745 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

  • @diegomo1413
    @diegomo1413 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In my opinion, she should not have been murdered. That was not good 😕

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That was not good, but being murdered doesn’t make him a woman. It makes him a male corpse.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elizabethdegroot89 Iunno I’m getting to the point where the men cheating in women’s sports are starting to make me think they should be afraid to wear womanface outside again
      It would definitely make women’s lives easier

    • @diegomo1413
      @diegomo1413 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wormwoodcocktail you’re a sociopath and should be locked up

  • @MsTinkerbelle87
    @MsTinkerbelle87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Stoppid c u next tuedsay really though he was one of us? Hahahaha no, hes burning now 🤭

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Based

    • @andreja9425
      @andreja9425 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you’re a sociopath. She’s far more likely to “get into heaven” than someone with so much hatred in their heart like yourself. She lived with love and light. You live in hatred and fear. Evil. Just straight up evil

    • @sh-tz2xs
      @sh-tz2xs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@andreja9425he was a man just like u and none of u know anything about womanhood

  • @MsTinkerbelle87
    @MsTinkerbelle87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    MAN!

    • @FireandBlood161
      @FireandBlood161 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      TERFs are so fucking weird. Are all of you as deranged and constantly obsessed with trans people as your icon Joanne Rowling? Get a life.

    • @sh-tz2xs
      @sh-tz2xs 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@FireandBlood161still a man though and I'm a proud terf too , trans women are dudes pretending to be women , deal with it , this is not Reddit lol

  • @AndreeaCe
    @AndreeaCe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    So you want to be rich and do w/e. Money can get you out of a lot, not gonna deny that.
    Don't forgetty, they still bleed no matter how rich they are and colour of the skin they have, sooooo let it at "I want to be rich".
    00:00 - 00:16 , deal with it.
    No, is not tansphobic to put you back into your place.

    • @aftonstan5494
      @aftonstan5494 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      This is a video of a woman who was murdered after a man found out she was transgender.
      Keep your politics out of it and show some basic human respect.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aftonstan5494 a woman? No, he was not a natural born hermaphrodit. You made it political, and shows you lack the basic human right respect.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aftonstan5494 so he lied he is a woman, and is not a natural born hermaphrodite. Keep your delusions to yourself.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aftonstan5494 shows you're also a homosexual that is clearly a misogynistic person.

    • @AndreeaCe
      @AndreeaCe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@aftonstan5494 you know how to read and write, but you lack comprehension.
      so yeah, keep your delusions to yourself.

  • @brigittejoan7139
    @brigittejoan7139 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    For everyone in the comments, this is a man. Please stop indulging in their dilution. Nothing wrong with a man wearing make up or a dress, something wrong with a man identifying as a woman, wanting everything a woman has fought for.
    These days, please women need to stand up for women!

    • @davidmiranda4745
      @davidmiranda4745 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You sound like a man, or an OUTDATED soul. Grow one, good luck

    • @jakupshmakup1457
      @jakupshmakup1457 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Dilution

    • @davidmiranda4745
      @davidmiranda4745 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      @@jakupshmakup1457 Yeah, god don't pick the smart ones for bigotry

    • @socialjusticeworm3820
      @socialjusticeworm3820 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      She was murdered in a hate crime.

    • @davidmiranda4745
      @davidmiranda4745 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@socialjusticeworm3820 Jupp, and this person making that comment is one of these terrorists, thinking they're making the world better.

  • @madame7399
    @madame7399 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Male in drag

    • @aftonstan5494
      @aftonstan5494 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a transgender woman.

    • @ree1120
      @ree1120 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@aftonstan5494so….a male in drag

    • @notreal9214
      @notreal9214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      hey, just in case you're not choosing to be insensitive and rude, I thought I'd let you know that this comment is incorrect. Trans people are different from people who crossdress.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This.

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aftonstan5494A transgender woman is an FTM. Venus was a transwoman, AKA a trans-identifying man. He’s not a woman.

  • @AA-cf4es
    @AA-cf4es 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    That man is disgustingly sad.

    • @psychoshamrock
      @psychoshamrock 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Well, you have nothing to worry about. Venus was murdered not long after this was filmed. Venus has been gone probably longer than you've been alive. This film is almost 40 years old.

    • @dianeaishamonday9125
      @dianeaishamonday9125 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      She was murdered, have some class
      Oh wait, people like you don't have that

    • @notreal9214
      @notreal9214 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      this is such a messed-up thing to say about her. What's wrong with you?

    • @hesinparties
      @hesinparties 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      don't you feel any shame disrespecting a murder victim's memory?

    • @wormwoodcocktail
      @wormwoodcocktail 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This. All men in womanface are sad.