I spent a day with TRANS WOMEN: "Controversial to be a Woman"
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- I spent a day with Trans Women to learn the truth about transitioning and the complexities of living as a woman in the world today. Sponsors ▸Visit joinhoney.com/PADILLA to get Honey for FREE ▸ Get a 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/padilla ▸ Go to betterhelp.com/padilla to get 10% off your first month!
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0:00 Introduction
2:36 THE FIRST EXPOSURE
3:08 TELLING THE WORLD
6:21 FROM MALE TO FEMALE
10:41 "DON'T USE MY DEAD NAME"
16:11 THE TRANS AGENDA
17:14 TRANSGENDER BATHROOM CONVERSATION
18:21 SHOULD TEENS TRANSITION?
19:53 DE-TRANSITIONING CONTROVERSY
23:07 VIOLENCE AGAINST TRANS WOMEN
23:44 LIFE BEYOND
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Using detransition examples as a reason to discriminate against trans folk is just so stupid. We don’t use divorce as a reason to discriminate against married couples or invalidate the concept of marriage
What about the trans people that tell detrans people to “shut up” and that “they were never trans” while they talk about their experience with detransitioning???
@@TheJuiceor dude divorces have an impact on other people's lives idk what you're on about.
@@TheJuiceor how? elaborate.
@@erxs Ask any kid whose parents got a divorce, and they can tell you how much it affected them
@@cryaboutit7499 I think those are both valid responses, detransitioners who become public figures always end up promoting anti-trans sentiment, also if they detransitioned because they realized they aren't trans that does mean they were never trans.
I’m so glad Dylan said this.
“If a man wanted to attack a woman in the bathroom they would just walk in. They wouldn’t have to wear a dress and put on long hair.” I wish people would realize this.
Y’all in the replies under this comment are missing the point. It wasn’t stated that a CIS MAN has never pretended to be a woman to do harm in a women’s bathroom. It’s that trans women are living their lives JUST LIKE YOU ARE and are trying to use the restroom. Just like you have a problem with the CIS MEN harming women, trans women are not safe in men’s restrooms because of the CIS MEN that do harm. For crying out loud. It’s not that hard to put together.
It’s happened where men were dressed as woman tho… like it’s not just a hypothetical it’s happened a couple of times
@@user-lt9gt4qn6z and men dressed as men attack women 100x A DAY
@@hello-wl7pk statistically a man is more likely to attack another man than a woman
@@user-lt9gt4qn6z so then the problem is cis men pretending to be trans for a day, not trans women who live their lives as women
Few years ago a friend of mine, a cisgender lesbian girl was attacked outside a public ladies restroom in a bar by some guy because his girlfriend thought that my friend was a trans woman since she's masculine looking.
Are we supposed to check people's private parts before they go to the bathroom?
The world has gone mad.
I will admit, I used to be aprehensive about the whole trans thing. I'd always have it in my mind that trans women weren't real women and I'd scoff if any one said otherwise. I don't know when it happened but at some point I just stopped caring about such things. If it doesn't hurt any one, who am I to judge? People should just be able to live their lives as they see fit. We should all strive to do that, honestly.
This!! Thank you.
@@orlando780 propaganda means repeatedly sending a false message for people's brain to accept as the truth. Trans women are not real women, if they were there wouldn't b a debate in the first place. Every problem has a solution, trying to deny or cover it is not one of them. Untreated problems regardless the context lead to more complications. Trans people have healthy bodies but mental issues, so the mistake is in the brain and therefore this is what should b treated
glad you came around! :)
character development 💪
So good for you! I was similar skeptical most of my life, now I sit here tearing up because of what Dylan said. Going through the transformation takes long and it is very tough to find your true shape, but the rewards are absolutely overwhelming. Please don't ask me how I know.
But really.. look at these fine ladies and just be honest to yourself.
Lovely Greetings!
I started socially transitioning when I was in my sophomore year of high school and then I started Testosterone when I was 16. Everyone’s journey is different but honestly not only because of my own personal experience, but because of people I know’s experiences too I do believe that it is I do believe that hormone blockers for kids should be available and hormones for trans teenagers should be available. If I hadn’t started transitioning when I did I don’t think I’d still be here. I’m now 19 years old and had my top surgery. I’ve been on testosterone for over 3 years now :)
Bro im super happy for you but i gotta say that i believe giving kids easy access to Hormon blockers etc will be causing more harm than good. Like, kids/teens are extremly stupid and when some of them are in a difficult time in their lives and they see how other people got so much happier by transitioning maybe they will do it too because they think that transitioning will make them happier. This can defenitly be the case no doubt about that but (i hate using this word) some kids are just in a "phase" and will regret it later in their life because they "destroyed" their male/female body. Im happy that everything worked out for you though
As a transgender woman I’m so happy for you hun❤ Be you and don’t let anyone else tell you otherwise. You are important and beautiful ❤️
@@kaze8401 definitely agree. Hormone blockers can be extremely harmful to the body and is not FDA approved. I believe transition should take a long, steady process. Saying this as a transgender 17 year old.
@@kaze8401 you said this so respectfully and well!! Agree!!! The OP also states it like 3yrs is such a long time… it’s not. Especially at 19. I say that with all due respect. Yes, he’s an adult… but the brain doesn’t even fully develop until 25.
The studies currently coming out on detransition is alarming. It’s literally a scientific experiment to use puberty blockers and give hormones as they are. We don’t know long term effects, it’s off label. I’m all for adults transitioning!! If they make an INFORMED decision to do so. A minor cannot give consent or informed consent for that matter on something so permanent.
Not trying to be negative… I do care about ALL people, which is why I’m saying all this. I feel horrible for those who suffer with gender dysphoria.. I cannot relate, I’ll never know what it’s like, and I acknowledge this. I wish the answer was easier and simpler to treat gender dysphoria. I truly do!! But I have to stand by my strong solid stance after doing my homework that children and minors should not be allowed to transition as it is currently!! Maybe something better and safer will come out… I can only hope this for the future!! I fear that within the next 20yrs, lawsuits are going to explode against those condoning, promoting, and directly helping children transition. Hormone blockers don’t just “pause” puberty as big pharma & pushers of this want you to believe either.
Anthony Padilla should now do an episode with detransitioners. I do think this episode as I watch is rather dangerous with some of the disinfo and unchecked “facts” being said here. Ugh. I just wish there was an easier answer and that no one ever struggled with this!! It seriously breaks my heart. And I promise you, I’m no TERF!! Shame on those who use people’s struggles (on both sides!!) against them or for a true hateful agenda. This should’ve NEVER been so politicized as it has been too… that’s never good for anything or anyone.
get help. not affirmation.
If you’re a trans person scrolling through the comment section just to find the hateful ones, stop. Your health is so much more important. You are loved and supported, don’t ever question that
Thanks, i needed that
I’m bi I’m just looking through the comments because trans is interesting
I feel called out, but I'll listen ❤
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I m u s t c o m p u l s i v e l y c a l l t h e m o u t -
i love proving people wrong though...
THIS is how our media should be! Actually LISTENING to the groups of people instead of drawing our own conclusions and opinions... The world would be a better place if more people LISTENED to people and believed that while it may not be something you personal experience that doesnt mean others arent experiencing it and it doesnt make it any less valid.
Or how about listening AND drawing conclusions and forming your own opinion? One thing doesn't negate the other.
You're saying people should just listen and shut up and that's just as wrong as forming your opinion without listening.
Yea, Anthony is honestly amazing and I respect him sm for what he’s doing.
They don’t because that’s how they make money
two of my sisters/siblings are trans so I love listening to these sorts of things to try to get closer to them and be less awkward when they talk openly about this stuff.
Exactly!! I love how Anthony doesn’t interrupt anyone with unimportant and rude questions but actually listens and wants to learn
im so upset at how much more hatred and transphobia is in this video's comments section than the trans men one. it really says a lot about the way we treat the two of them differently. trans woman are women the same amount that trans men are men, deal with it!??
It’s depressing.
trans women are THE biggest target for 2 reasons
they are viewed as perverted men but since they also wanna be viewed as women they are highlighted on a higher standard because uhh... society wants women to be perfect
trans men are treated as victims of those perverted men on the other hand
most people dont even know trans men exist lol
@@Narrative_498 you are depressing
@@rea1baesil Okay.
And that amount is 0 in both cases right?
Get out of the comments here. You are loved.
no I’m not
I personally like to think of “dead naming” as using someone’s divorced last name. I mean you wouldn’t go on and ask deeper about someone’s ex marriage partner, that’s really invasive on their personal life. So basically just know that they have a new name and use it accordingly
this is such a good way to describe it
sometimes people don't know and "dead name" without realizing it
@@puffdaddy69 that's true. and most of the time people can understand that and just correct it and move on :]
@@puffdaddy69 yes they arent talking about that they are talking about people who intentionally do that
Like bruhhh imagine that u r changing your name because you didn't like it and somebody still calling you by your previous/old name I would punch em in the face bc how annoying it can be.
like real life story, my neighbour daughter name was really bad like they named her Theophilia (bc of her grandma, they named her after her) and everybody in school later in work called her Pedophil1a so after 21 year later she changed her name to Alice :> BUT SOMEBODY STILL CALLING HER THEOPHILIA AND PEDOPHILIA!!! bruhh I'm done with people.
(btw those people know that she changed her name :> bunch of idiots.)
Another thing that needs talked about is how we need to tear down gender stereotypes, I'm a male and was born a male, but I also wanted long hair and to play with Barbies, and when I got older I thought that meant I had to either be trans or not like those things, and that's not true either, you can be a male and like stereotypically female things without actually wanting to be a female.
True. And that's true for trans people as well. There's feminine trans guys and masculine trans women. In general, anyone should be able to present and enjoy whatever asthetics they want. Up until very recently I was terrified to wear a skirt because I thought it would make people believe I wasn't really trans. I just want to be a guy in a skirt. Clothing is what you make of it.
@@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice Yes! This! I would have loved to play with you [and probably would have sought you out]. I had short hair as a kid because I hated it sticking to my sweaty [sun-induced, running around] face; it got in the way of my activities. I always played with boys with longer hair. My barbies preferred off roading in the mud, of course, after I brushed their hair and put them in heels and sun dresses. Did you have Tonkas? I wanted the steam roller, but grew out of it before I got one. The back hoe was my go to, but it was slow going taking the Barbies to the their Lincoln Log cabin. My parents said I couldn't have everything because it would make me spoiled. I would have shared with you, and my parents would have loved it because it shows growth in humanity. My husband and I now share tools to include drills, saws, whisks, and cleaning sponges. He brushes my hair now ; ) I hope you grow your hair out or have long hair now, so your or your eventual significant other can brush yours. Live you!
@@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice ❤ Wear it you handsome man!
When I was a small boy I loved the color yellow. I would do art with yellow. I wanted to wear yellow. And when I would play power rangers with my cousins I always tried to pick the yellow ranger. But everyone told me that its a girl color and eventually I just stopped telling people my favorite color. As I got older my color preference has changed and eventually settled on blue. But I've always wondered why is it ok for a girl to like masculine colors but if a guy likes yellow not ok.
@@Tydeph I never knew yellow was seen as a girly colour! I'm sorry you had to adjust a part of your personality (preferences wise) for society. It's so dumb that even a favourite colour is a reason to put people in boxes
How can people see this and be like "these people are DANGEROUS, they wanna INDOCTRINATE us" like they just wanna live their life, leave them alone 😭
Well yes, I respect trans people. I respect people. However, people like Dylan? No. I mentioned I respect people right? Trans people, any person, religious people. Let's use religion. I don't believe in God. That's a personal opinion. Now, am I going around hating on Christians, Catholics, Muslims, or any other religions? No. Do you see my point? If not, it's okay, let me further explain. And I'm not trying to be sarcastic I'm actually trying to explain to you. Is religion involved in any way shape or form in politics? No. Why? It can't be. It would violate so many of our rights. There's a reason why teachers cant force their kids to believe or to not believe in God. That's up to the parents. Have you ever seen a teacher start her class by forcing the kids to read a page of the bible? No? Exactly. Do you see my point? Yes, be transgender. I don't care. Nobody should care. But here is when it becomes an issue. I don't know if you're aware, but the "they are more than 2 genders" (which there isn't,) is now being taught at schools to literal 5 year olds. This belief is being implemented on kids without the parents consent. There's also already been cases of trans women raping actual women in the restrooms. They're also trying to make it legal for CHILDREN to transition. And don't even dare say the "puberty blockers" are totally irreversible and don't leave damage. Oh they leave a lot of damage. Physical, mental, and emotional trauma. They're also trying to make it ILLEGAL for you to intentionally call someone by the "incorrect pronouns" like calling Dylan a he, which he is. He's a biological male cosplaying and making a mockery of women. Real women. This whole transgender issue is becoming a political thing. So it is becoming a big issue. It's not only the "they just wanna live their lives" yeah, at other people's expenses. So many REAL women are missing out on big opportunities why? Because trans women or filling them. Why? Because the brand, company, franchise, whatever it is, is afraid of being called transphobic. People are being silenced for having a different opinion. I've been called transphobic for saying that trans women shouldn't be in women's sports. Because they SHOULDN'T. They're are biologically MALE. Why is it so hard for you guys to understand that this issue is becoming a political thing when it shouldn't have. And people like you who act like this isn't affecting anybody are making the issue even worse. Stop acting like this whole trans thing doesn't affect anyone. yes it does. Just look at the video. 2 men trying to tell ME a REAL woman, that I should be comfortable being in the same restroom as a man. Why are trans people forcing me to accept them when they couldn't accept themselves for who they were? You have your right to have your opinion and belief, and I also have mine. But instead I get called transphobic, I get cancelled, and I get shit tone of hate, just for having a different opinion. If this was religion, y'all would be hating every single Christian for forcing their beliefs on other people, but somehow there's nothing wrong with trans people doing this? Okay. Trans people like Dylan are living their lives at other people's expenses. So now you tell me. How can you read this comment and be like "trans people don't do anything wrong just let them be"
@@moomoomeows you wrote a whole ass essay and you are just, so wrong
@@moomoomeows not reading allat, but im happy or sad for you
Tell me how I am wrong. I would actually like to know. I'm trying to understand and be more open minded with this topic but i can't seem to.
@@moomoomeows You fundamentally don't understand what it means to be transgender.
First of all, gender and sex are two different things. Sex is biological, male, female, intersex, that kinda thing. No one is going to deny that. Gender is how one perceives themselves in the context of traditional gender roles.
Being transgender is a very complex thing. It can be both biological and psychological. There are studies that show that transgender people's brains function more closely to that of the gender they identify with, and not their sex at birth.
Children develop a sense of gender very very early in life. Same with sexual orientation. Whether you like it or not, children are going to find people pretty or find that they feel like a gender that doesn't align with their sex at birth. They don't know what these feelings are yet, but they are still there. So it is important to teach them about what gender and sexual orientation are so that they are more able to understand their own needs and who they are. I don't think we should be teaching elementary students obviously. Middle school would be the best time because that's when most kids would start going through puberty and these feelings become more complex and pronounced.
Being trans shouldn't be political. It's just another immutable characteristic like being gay or straight or black or white. The teaching of what gender is is important.
I love you anthony
as a trans woman who has always loved smosh
it is SO great to see your support
I know this is 10 months late but I am just now seeing this video and I am so fucking happy that no matter who I am I won't be judged by a favorite creator of mine
Sameeeee
I had a huuuge crush on Anthony growing up, so I'm really glad to see he'd be accepting of me
me scrolling through comments before watching just in case i get flamed
As a cisgendered woman, I would hate it if someone used he/him pronouns with me...and i don't even have gender dysphoria, etc so I couldn't imagine! I agree, we NEED to respect others' pronouns. Loved this interview and I love Dylan!! Love these beautiful women, welcome to the club!
that’s nice of you to say! just wanted to point out that the correct word is ‘cisgender’, not ‘cisgendered’ :]
Thanks for being someone that accepts people like us (trans women) :) I'm a trans women myself and whenever I read, hear, see anything about people being ok or supporting trans women makes me feel better about my existence. Thank you again :D
This is the way it should be thought of, a lot of people who don’t get it try to imagine transitioning from their assigned gender to the opposite and that’s just not the way to get into trans minds.
@@lilyrolyat6726 thats basically what they are doing
You were clearly never bullied if no one in your life has deliberately misgendered you or something even close to it.
As a transwoman I just want to add that not all of us know from an early age. It shouldn't matter when you realize nor should you feel you need to explain why you are trans. I didn't know until I was like 15 and I didnt accept myself enough to do anything until I was 24. We all figure it out in our own time
I'm nonbinary and I didn't realize I wasn't a girl until around 12-15 but didn't come out until 21!
This is true for any sexuality/gender identity. There's no age prerequisite to determine if your feelings are valid or not.
@@anitaremenarova6662 Yep! I just wanted to make the comment because in the video one of them said "most of us know from a pretty early age," and I'm sitting here like ummm not sure about that one
Yes!! I think this is something that's really important to touch on, because a lot of videos talk about it like everyone knows from the age of 3 or something. While some people obviously do, a lot of other people don't realise it at all until they're in their teens or adulthood! I'm a trans man but I loved dolls and dressing up as a kid and my parents didn't put much emphasis on gender so I didn't think about it all that much and I didn't really "show signs" as a kid. I only started to realise I was trans when I started puberty and my body changed and I started thinking more about what gender meant to me. But since I was quite feminine as a kid, some of my family members actually didn't believe me when I came out to them because they only ever heard stories of people where it was obvious since they were kids.
@@SolarpunkVince yeah exactly! For me I didn't feel any sort of way about my gender until male puberty and I quickly realized I did not like the changes that were occurring to me. Before that moment I just didn't think about gender at all as it didn't mean much for my life either. You don't get much bodily autonomy until later in life too which I think makes it hard for people to realize how they want to express themselves
I absolutely loved this video. As a cis woman I can be unintentionally ignorant to this subject simply because I don't know about it. These woman's explanations really helped me work through questions I had. I grew up with a best friend who was a trans man. While I always respected him and saw first hand how happy he was the more he transitioned, I still had so many questions I didn't feel comfortable asking him because I didn't want to be invasive or disrespectful and it's honestly none of my business. Ty for this video
hey, i’m trans masc. if you’ve got some potentially rude questions you can ask.
you can also ask questions on other lgbt channels like jamie dodger (spelling? sorry), jessie gender, or one topic at a time. those are very friendly places to be and you’ll have an easy time finding people who are willing to help out and answer questions. esp since you’re so obviously coming from a good place
They are not women they are transgender women which is the difference. If they are women then every man on earth is a woman.
@@mystic22g4 I assume you say that because they might not have female reproductive organs, but that thinking is flawed. Biological woman sometimes have their reproductive organs removed due to health reasons, but them not having those organs doesn't mean they aren't woman right? So that means you can be a woman without those organs. You are a woman if you feel and identity as one. Not every man is a woman, because not every man wants to be one or feels like one. It's that simple. And it's really none of your concern how women identity themselves, that's their business.
@@abielaird here we go again with the same arguement. Yes. Some women don't have reproductive organs. Does that mean that they're not a woman anymore? No. Why? Because they're still OF THE NATURE to. If a man comes to you crying and yelling that he can't get pregnant, would you be shocked? No. Why? Because he's a man. He's not supposed to be able to get pregnant. That's like saying if a human was born without a leg now they're not a human? No. If a person is born without a leg, we know something went wrong because humans BY NATURE have 2 legs. Someone who is born without one doesn't mean now they can identify as alien. Now, let me ask you this, what is a woman? You said a woman is a woman because they identify as that. Okay. What is "that" what are they identifying as. What is a woman? And me, as a REAL woman. Not "cis" don't label me with your terms to back up your delusions. Me, as a real woman, can say that a woman is an adult human female. That's it. It's engraved in your bones, the way your body is built. Why do you think scientists can go back and identify a skeleton of hundreds of years ago as a male or female? It's in their bones. It's biology. If you're body isn't built to give birth, if your body isn't of the nature to have periods or to give birth, you're not a woman. No matter how hard you try to identify as one, you're not a woman. No amount of make up, dresses, or "hormones" can change that.
really good job realizing and admitting u dont always know best because of something like ignorance that is a big step! you go girl! i think most transphobes cant admit that they can be ignorant... just take their reality as fact and all reality
I just know that sorting these comments by “newest” is gonna unlock a cesspool
omg it's so true.
That's the sound of the vast majority or people, rejecting this incoherent trans-activist nonsense for the nonsense that it is.
@@zachman5150 Buddy every civilization in the history of mankind had trans people, non-binary people, 2 spirits people, or a mix of them. Just because the catholics decided to erase this when they enslaved the whole planet doesn't make it any less true.
Also there's people with XXY and XYY chromosomes, what do you make of them? Or intersex people (meaning born with both)? Or people with bodies that don't react to their "right" chromosome?
I love how he didn’t group trans men and women together. I’m cis female, but I do think both trans communities have totally different experiences and there’s no way to get through each individual issue within one interview. Hearing from the women separately is very important and I look forward to a future trans men video.
As a trans guy I agree! We face different struggles, I know I personally can't relate to a few of their experiences!
You’re not a “cis” female. You’re a female. An actual biologically born woman. Stop feeding into their narrative. Cis is a term coined by a pedophile. Remember that.
Yes I love this!
@@arnoldthotticus4844 yeah, it's weird feeling like you can simultaneously relate to someone's experiences, while also feeling the exact opposite of what they're feeling, lol
Allah can save you f
My daughter years ago came to me and said she was bi sexual she thought I'd disown her because I'm Christian but I explained to her no matter what I love her because she is my little girl and as long as she is not going out and getting into trouble I said you need to be comfortable within your own skin and I said the same to my 17 year old son who said was pan they are my flesh and blood I gave life to them to be happy go after their dreams I don't understand why people disown their children after finding it difficult to build up the courage to tell you their gay etc would you rather our children be depressed commit suicide because they are not accepted by their loved ones for being who they are beautiful inside and outside my kids are teaching me now and helping me understand the process and the difference between gay bi sexual etc it is me teaching them and them teaching me as well and I love how close we are as a family please guys stop teaching our children that is wrong to be comfortable within your own skin and to tell them to stay away from people who are born different that's only teaching them how to become bullies etc
This. I just don’t understand how someone could abandon their child, even if you completely disagree with how they live their lives, you should always love them. You should be willing to lay down your life for your kid, not throw them to the streets. It’s just awful how anyone could do that.
This warmed my heart with joy so cute...♥️♥️
Thank you so much for creating a space for your children to not be fearful. This is something I wish I had. Your kids will forever appreciate you
@@vin7227 you give birth to your child to love them nuture them teach them and support them in their live choices not give up when they tell you something you don't agree with what's that telling your child
thank you for being a wonderful parent. we are all people at the end of the day trying to live our lives in a way that makes us happy
I hate how common being transphobic is. I hate the bills that are being passed. It makes me so sad
Most of the bills that are being passed are to protect the health and rights of children. There's nothing to hate about that.
@@Mel-wn9gbno it’s not.
@@monroess_ Yeah it is.
@@Mel-wn9gbI agree with you
@@Mel-wn9gb no most of the bills aren’t that.
My dream is to do something like Anthony in the future just talking to different people and learning about different people!
Thinking “trans people are weird” and then realizing you’re trans yourself is so surreal. I don’t identify with my agab (assigned gender at birth) now because I found the words for how I feel, but I had internalized transphobia I have had to deal with for a while, and I think that it stems from jealousy
I had internalized transphobia as well. And then when I realized I was trans it was like a “oh that’s why I thought they’re weird, it’s because I’m weird in general-“ and I kinda projected that onto others.
Right there with you. I was the exact same way, and surrounded by people who were transphobic. Still undoing all that damage.
lmao imagine being trans wearing a disguise
tricking
straight people
Sameee..
Deadass, I was transphobic to a person I knew at some point because they were trans towards my agab and I said "hell, who'd want to be [my agab], it's like shit every single day" and then it clicked
wow how we put people in a box based on their private area is embarrassingly so mind-opening to me... i realize that when i meet a trans person, i can't help but wonder whether they got surgery and i need to stop this. dylan talking about a point where we believe someone that they are a woman/man/whoever they want to be just because they said so is beautiful
i have a question i dont know where to ask. but this seems like a decent place. i come from a place of ignorance and wanting to learn and be respectful. ?
my question: i believe than transwomen are women. i am attracted to women as a straight male. the women in this video are pretty! But.. the question i have is.. is it wrong to not want to be with a transwomen if she has male private parts? I am not attracted to male privates and i feel like if i were to really like a trans woman as a person and a partner, I would not do her justice in an intimate setting. so is it transphobic to think that i shouldnt date a trans woman for this reason?
@@pvic6959 Trans person (ftm) here. Nope! Not transphobic at all. Everyone has preferences and you're allowed to have them, as long as you don't treat trans people as inferior or wrong, you're perfectly fine for having preferences. I personally wouldn't date another trans man because I'm not comfortable with vaginas no matter who it's attached too. So don't worry, you're all good :)
@@pvic6959 yeah it's not wrong of you! people have their own preferences. it's only wrong if you make a big deal out of it heh. and i'm really glad you're wanting to be educated on gender diversity! :))
@@pvic6959 not everyone has to be sexually attracted to every person. you're free to like whomever you like! as long as you don't go out of your way to be disrespectful to a person, you're definitely not
@@pvic6959 that’s a valid question, don’t worry! It’s completely okay to just not be attracted to a person sexually. That can be a very important part of any romantic relationship. And I’m saying this as a trans guy, it’s alright. Being attracted to women doesn’t necessarily mean being sexually attracted to every single woman, after all, since no woman has the same physicality. As long as you’re respectful about it (and you already seem super respectful and kind when it comes to talking about the trans community) it’s all good mate 👍.
People sometimes seem to forget that a lot of romantic attraction is paired up with both physical and sexual attraction, which isn’t shallow at all and is in fact rather normal. Remember though that not all trans women have the same sexual characteristics, some of us (as in, just trans people in general) get sex changes. It isn’t very often (as explained by one of the women in the video) but what that would basically mean is that (and you can, of course, decide for yourself whether or not my guess is accurate) you’re not /not/ attracted to trans women but you /are/ not attracted to dicks. Which is fine! Just maybe make sure to talk first with your future lover(s) before doing anything sexual (or rather just before getting into any intimate relationship) and establish both your preferences and what you are comfortable with. I’m pretty sure like 99% of trans women would be understanding about it but if you ever feel pressured (and this applies to any lover really) you have every single right to leave.
Hope this helps a bit! Sorry it was so long!
Dylan's crochet dress is fire 🔥🔥🔥
It's knit but yes it is
Yea its really good but it seems itchy
I hope someday we can all as a society love everyone and have no hate.
I know this will probably never happen but I'll always wish and hope for it to happen
Same ☮️
"a meteor could hit at any moment, and if I die a girl that's a beautiful thing" OH MY FUCKING GOD I LOVE THIS PHRASE SO MUCH. THE CONFIDENCE, THE SASSYNESS, THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH.
I love this.
i mean we would have a pretty good warning so a meteor probably wont hit at any second, but judgment day can come at any second
@@crazya8038 bruh 💀
Except for the fact that if she died and you dug up the body you would discover that he was male all along. Because you can't change your DNA
👏 Yes 👏 this 👏 is 👏 factual 👏
@@PixelPotat0 how? if you looked at his remains it would show he is a male
Dude her explaining the hormones' medications opened my eyes a bit. I literally take Spirolactone for my acne.
Cis-men (or trans-women who are not taking hormones) who get treatment against prostate cancer might get Cyproterone-acetate (also known as Androcur) prescribed, which is the testosterone suppressing drug the gender clinic I am at has used for quite some time (and I am still using).
It's to stop possible hormones from harming the healing process or, before radiotherapy making matters worse in the affected area.
A colleague of mine who has prostate cancer at first argued that I was overstating some of the possibilities hormones could start to have (I had warned people that if I would suddenly explode out of anger or frustration that they would know why that was, which he thought was quite the exaggeration).
I spoke with him when he had been on that drug for just a month and the first thing he said when he saw me was "Holy shit I get it now", because just like I experienced for about 4 months taking the drug without other hormones present: you enter menopause, which well...does all kinds of stuff with your mood.
A cis-women on the other hand found out that the Androcur I take is nearly identical tot he Diane35 contraceptive pill, which she uses against severe acne.
@@Dutch3DMaster saw palmetto helps with prostate cancer. I also took spinolactone for my hormones. It made me extremely depressed.
I think trans people just take it at much higher levels
@🌲JAB00Z🌲 why’d you put quotes on people?
Good ol’ spiro
Thank you so much for doing these videos Anthony, it means a lot ❤
I'm generally not a fan of the way Dylan has become the face of trans women because she seems to lean hard into stereotypes that aren't very kind to women. I'm glad she wasn't the only person brought out and I'm happy with how wholesome this turned out. ^^
Dylan is a he, the whole video was just a bad joke. One sided and let's be honest the people involved were not particularly clever
Yeah. And they’re weird with certain stuff that makes me really uncomfortable.
I’m confused what stereotypes are she leaning into? I’ve been following her for a while and I haven’t seen her pushing any stereotypes I’ve only seen her posting about her transition process and just things she learned about being a girl :/
@@jenn2226 Bruh
I see nothing wrong since Dylan is still new in transitioning, I'm born a female even I see nothing wrong or don't get offended by it
As someone who has transitioned and then detransitioned, I know for certain it could have been prevented by the world around me just supporting and BELIEVING me when I did ID as trans. It was extremely hard to admit to myself, and later other people (still in that process lol), that I had been wrong when I’d had to fight to be believed for years - even though I never even medically transitioned. Other trans people’s support is what gave me the courage to really look into my identity. If I had just had the chance to explore my identity freely I would have known what was right for me much earlier. If my parents had let me wear ”boy clothes”, if I had been allowed to cut my hair, if I hadn’t had to hear constant comments about being ”too masculine” or ”too feminine”, and the list goes on…
So sorry you didn't get that gentleness, and empathy, and space to figure it all out on your own time, and in a completely safe and accepting environment. It truly takes patience and understanding. I hope you're doing better
Lol I’m not even gonna read your sob story novel but I’m guessing you’re one of these weirdos
@@Nicklovesmw2 I love playground insults like yours.
I'm sorry you're so insecure in yourself. Treat yourself to something nice, maybe it'll make you feel better
@@Nicklovesmw2, literally all they said was: if people had let them freely try out different gender expression, they would have figured out their gender faster. (ended up staying the gender they were assigned)
Why are you even on this channel if you’re actively choosing to not listen to people?
@@Nicklovesmw2 also you when a detrans makes a negative story:OMG SO TRUEEEEE SOYYYYY
as a trans person, this is so emotional to watch for me. because i don’t hear people that often get transitioning is different, that it can be a mindset change or something more!
deadnames are such a big thing. i’ve been asked “can i call you deadname, too? since we’re friends” and it’s just mind blowing. i switched for a reason, that names dead.
this was amazing to watch, anthony is always so respectful to the people he has on his channel, and i’m so happy to hear from trans women! i was so happy to see dylan on here and find other cool girls to watch.
i am dating a trans man and i dont even know what his dead name was cause it doesnt matter. thats not his name. so its irrelevant. but if i ever heard anyone call him it i would be pissed.
@@ferninthehouse exactly!! i’ve had situations where i have to use mine for legal reasons and if one of my friends is around they just ignore. i was fortunate enough to have really supportive peers in school (not all of them obviously, a large majority were inconsiderate) that heard me referred to as my chosen name and easily jumped into using that instead, no questions asked abt it aside from pronouns :)
Omg this comment reminded me- Since I visited Bulgaria this summer I needed to tell a lot of family and such about my new name and pronouns and I was talking to this woman and she deadnames me and I just politely tell her that, that's not my name anymore and this mf goes "oh yeah I know but do I have to use your new name?" Like WHA- I was just like yeah it's my name wtf 😭
@@mothbutgay they act like it’s the worst thing in the world! it’s really not! even with my deadname i had to constantly correct people that it was shortened.
dude i don't get what's so difficult in just knowing someone's name they use that is different from their deadname, and just leaving it at that.
Thank you Anthony i love that your so open about talking about topics not many would . Thank you for covering this .
i remember i found dylan's "day one of girlhood" around the same time i had just came out to myself as a transman, and its been amazing feeling like we're on this journey together
you traded genders, lmao
I am an trans man and when I came out to my dad, we had a really long conversation about it and at the end he literally said “cool, wanna arm wrestle son?” 😭
That's amazing. Holy shit
the good ending
Well, who won? 🥰
That’s awesome !!!
Thats so nice lmao! Ur dad sounds pretty cool and accepting man
as a trans woman i’m very happy to see this video and feel very represented and seen!
💀💀
@@Aprzyby literally wtf does that mean
@@comprehensivecomparison Not very lady-like of you. You have no frame of reference as to what it 'feels like' to be a woman. Cope Harder
@@zachman5150 how is asking a question not lady like?
@@comprehensivecomparison It was the classless manner in which the question was asked (wtf) that wasn't lady-like, not the asking.
A woman isn't a social construct, a feeling, a s3xu@l preference or a costume that a man can put on or take off. Women (ALL of them) are born female. A man cannot become a woman and a woman cannot become a man. Now you know
Why is it “god works in mysterious ways’ until someone is trans and it turns to, “god never makes mistakes”
For those saying the latter, that would mean transness was a decision by God, now would it?
They've gotten it totally wrong on gender. Gender, (there are 2 male, and female) that's it, refers to the sex assigned at birth and the social aspects of being male or female, respectively. Male and female are biological categories which are fixed and permanent.
Then, they conflate gender and personality. Then, they conflate gender and gender roles. Then they conflate gender with sexual preference. Then, they conflate males with females, fact with fiction and men with women.
A woman isn't a personality, a social construct, a feeling, or a costume that a man can just put on or take off-- She's an adult, human, female. As it turns out, there's a prerequisite to being a woman-- and that's being born female. For some reason, they seem unable to process that
as a cis woman, it boggles my mind how any cis woman wouldn't accept trans women with open arms! trans women's existence doesn't affect my life whatsoever. I fully support all my trans sisters and I'm so happy Anthony did this video. just reading the comments, I can tell that it will change a lot of minds for the better ❤
this is a great comment. i honestly don’t understand this moral panic and all this hate towards a peaceful tiny minority of the population. like most trans people are really chill and just want to live their lives in peace
This comin from a woman who cant get a good man and it shows
@@Shonenreaper I don’t see how OP’s relationships have anything to do with her comment. She was saying how she supports trans women (as one should) and being very positive. It’s very nice.
Would you mind explaining why you think this way? I’m genuinely curious to learn how your mind works.
@@Rauvi trans women are taken the identity of real women and takin all their accomplishments all their records and scholarships and for her relationship if she had a good man he would tell her why that shouldn’t boggle her 🤷🏾♂️
@@Shonenreaper ur use of "a good man" just shows ur misogynistic too, so in that case why do u care about the identity of "real" women and their accomplishments LMAO u probably beat down cis women anyways cause that's just the kind of person you are. You have a false mindset of men being superior but its a biological thing so who am I to blame you. I'd just consider taking on an open mind because only then will you actually be superior above some people. (And by some people, i mean the kind of people that are exactly as you are now.)
I used to work with a trans woman at my last job (I wasn’t close with her, but she was a really nice person and was super fun to be around).
For the longest time no one knew and in that time no one ever batted an eye and just thought she was a woman. When another coworker dug back into her social media history and found out they told everyone and instantly people felt the need to judge and criticize her. It became the gossip of the workplace where coworkers would find her socials and dig back to look at pictures of her before she transitioned. Making comments like, “I knew something was off because of X, Y, Z” and “She looked so much better as a man”, etc. it became the topic of discussion with her for others, and although she’s confident in her identity she dealt with depression and addiction before fully transitioning.
She’s long since left that job fortunately, but to hear how people’s perspectives/opinions of her changed and how she was treated differently when people found out about her gender is disgusting.
@x Thats what the idiot said.
@x news flash, we dont care 😇
@x imagine watching a video just to hate like go away we dont want you here
@x lol imagine being stuck in 1870
@x what they mean is "imagine being so fucking up your own ass that you act like you live in 1870"
Great guests, it was very interesting to learn about their experiences ❤
Love these conversations-so important.❤️ Also, I met Jada at a drag show in Colorado back in 2015 when I was a drag king. Her performance was so beautiful and she had such an incredible aura. So sweet and kind to everyone backstage too. 💕
Videos like this DO matter, by the way. I was very transphobic as a teen, and now, as a young adult, trans people are completely normal to me. And that is because I watched a lot of videos on the topic and I gradually came to realize what an ass I was.
You’re a perfect example of why education on these topics is so important! ☺️
You lost your way man
They didn’t
@@indykkowalski9366 they really didn't lmao. cry and seethe.
@@indykkowalski9366 cry to your mommy about it
Love Dylan mentioning the girls that are just like super accepting like: "Yes. You are one of us now. Here are all the female secrets!" Yes, we love this. :P Me over here just: "ONE OF US! ONE OF US!"
😐
love this comment! ONE OF US!
@@cactus_pot why the straight face, hm?
If they were a woman they wouldnt need to be told our secrets, they would just know.
@@pricesymonej girls' sleepovers happen for a reason tho XD
This video and asking these kind of questions in such a relaxed way is just so helpful imo
NOTE: not all trans people realize that they’re trans super early (for example I realized when I was 16 (2 months ago))
There are people. People are male or female... That's it. There are no trans people. Wishing you were the opposite sex/gender doesn't make it so.
Trans people are just wrong and who cares what they think
@@alkimiyawisdom3266trans people can't get respect....
Good luck with your life when you realize that you can cause a trans person to commit suicide with your actions
@@PlanetDoesStuff44 That doesn't sound like the actions of a well-balanced individual, now does it? Get Real
@@zachman5150 No that sounds like a victim of hate. Get Better
17:41 "We're more scared of you than you are of us" that was kind of glossed over but that's such an important point. I am partway through my physical transition and even though I am out to everyone I care about, I do work in customer service and I will go based off whatever the customer sees me as because I am scared of their reactions. If they refer to me as "sir" then if I get asked my name I will give them my 'masc' name and if they refer to me as "ma'am" or something similar then I will give them my 'fem' name because I'm fucking scared of what some hateful people can do.
Especially when they see you're fem and trans. Bonus points if you're of a racial minority and short.. It's horrible how easily people are willing to act so predatory when they meet a group they hate.
Not always true tho..I'm trans woman n id f*CK anyone up if they stepped to me the wrong way n disrespected me over line 🤷🏼♀️ lool not sorry, some of us can be bad b*tchs too lol
I'm very sorry that you have to go through this. I wish you all the best
@x Bait
"We are more scared of you than you are scared of us"- well then, be scared of us. Be really really scared.
As a trans woman myself, I'm so glad that they emphasized how (generally) unimportant bottom surgery is in the grand scheme of the whole process. Like, I hardly think genitalia is the most meaningful aspect or indicator of womanhood, so I'm baffled so many people think that's the uniting factor of that identity.
I am not trans but I totally agree with you. Also to you is woman and female different. My belief with all of this is that you can’t change being male or female. But you can most definitely change being man or woman. Also is what I said offensive? I’m just trying to learn but also I want to be respectful
Well female reproductive issues are a huge issue and unite many women in their identity and shared struggles. So it is a big deal. But it doesn’t mean women without those parts aren’t also women.
@@MiaLucifer I obviously can’t speak for all trans women, but if I understand correctly, you’re referring to “male and female” in regards to sex and “man and woman” in regards to gender.
So yes, I would agree with that statement! You’re simply observing that sex and gender are different, I don’t find that disrespectful.
maybe because for all of human history women have been oppressed on the basis of sex- women can be forcibly impregnated. only people with penises can forcibly impregnate, and only people with vaginas can forcibly impregnate. female genitalia and female bodily functions are also seen, or have been seen, as unclean- menstrual huts, the idea that menstruation/discharge is shameful, etc. and the reason people care about vaginoplasties- a serious, complicated and risky surgery- is because if you have a penis, you can rape and forcibly impregnate a woman. 99% of rapists are male. i'm a natal female with gender dysphoria, and i want to FULLY medically transition. i won't be satisfied until i have had a double mastectomy and a phalloplasty- genitals are involved in dysphoria. if you're saying you want to be a woman but somehow you're totally fine with your penis, i don't believe you have dysphoria, i believe you have a fetish.
Well said. Bottom surgery is largely to fit more into societal norms just like any other thing you may do in order to transition, it's not the cornerstone of it.
Happy to see Dylan here, it's sad that ppl in the comments are purposely calling her a male and being transphobic, like bruh Dylan is literally so wholesome and very kind
Edit: the comments I can't 😂
If Dylan wasn't so hateful towards woman, it wouldn't be an issue
Dylan got sponsored by a period company. When they’ll never experience one.
@@missy3505 How?? By carrying tampons with her just incase other women needs it
Wow that's harmful 😱
@@GraceG69 That's good she got sponsored 💅
@@bonnibelemodino7042 it would be but it’s the worst fit for their persona online, she’s very open about being a trans women and she’s trying to relate to AFAB people when she can’t in this way. If if was something different then good for her just god not period products
I'm also a trans woman 24 yo, realized myself when i was 6 but surely didn't know what it was and tried to restrict my feelings. At 22 i came out and one year later started hormones
Hearing all of these wonderful women talk about their experiences with Anthony being so encouraging and understanding warms my heart, especially as someone who grew up as a closeted genderfluid person. Thank you for this video and I hope it helps educate people and create a safer world for everyone.
Men*
@@Emzzz78 I could take your opinion, blend it, drink it, throw it up, drink it again, and shit it out on your head and it would still look the same
@@Emzzz78 omg you got them with this one 😮🤯😱
@@Emzzz78 😂
Trans women. They aren't real women
dylan is a very sweet person, i follow her on tiktok and I’m happy to see her on here!
i've only seen her from the comment section with brett cooper
Sameeee
You mean him
@@Hydra11-11 don’t start bullshit wars on videos on trans people
@@Hydra11-11 no her
I appreciate the fact the the medication thing was brought up because she’s 100% right not to mention the fact that there are intersex people like myself (I have Turner Syndrome) where I would consider myself cis because I identify as female and am AFAB but do to my Turners I have to go through HRT and have since I was a little kid. Starting with HGH (human growth hormone) and estrogen blockers, and now Estrogen and Progesterone (of which I took separately for a long time but now take birth control to get both)
So much transphobic comments. Why can’t people just listen and understand rather than being annoying and rude.
@@XiaoLing-pu9st wrong.
@@XiaoLing-pu9st you know what you said negates your point. How is trans-women existing and wanting to be recognized misogynistic? Let me guess it's because you can't accept that you're bare bones understanding of the world might be wrong.
@@advikdeshmukh805 the other sides points are not based in facts and they are rooted in hate and wanting political gain. That’s why you only started getting mad abt trans ppl In the 2020s. Trans ppl have existed for millennia and ur mad why? Because you were told to be mad by right wing media, to distract you from the fact that those politicians are terrible ppl so u keep voting for them.
@@advikdeshmukh805 Man, telling people they are jesters is not the best look. Like why would you define all trans people based on your limited knowledge of what you see online? There are so many out there that keep it as secret as possible and no one knows because they transitioned young. You aren't giving the best arguments and just come off as an asshole.
There is no way you are a real person. This has to be 100% a troll lmao.
As a transmasc, I am so, so glad that you're covering this topic! These ladies are so wholesome and you're really respectful about this. Thank you!
@@dandanger5637 your the 11 year old,get educated kid
@@dandanger5637 stalker
@@dandanger5637 congratulations, you’ve been reported
just shut up and leave people be
@@JXChannel yeah, I love S.T.A.L.K.E.R game franchise too
I think the main thing cis people really just need to understand (especially some of y'all in the comments) when we say access to transition is life or death, we are not exaggerating. Taking away the option of transition has and will kill people.
I'll never forget that mum on tiktok that said "since we gained my son, we didn't have to bury my daughters body. But without him, we would have"
@@pixelfairy6128 Emotional blackmail at its finest.
@@CANADIANBELLS LMAO what 💀💀 "oh, you would have been suicidal if you're parents rejected you? That's emotional blackmail" make it make sense
@@pixelfairy6128 If parents don't tell kids what they want to hear and do what they want to do, they're rejecting them? Why do kids even need parents then? If my parents gave into everything I said and wanted, I'd be so fucked up. I'm really glad they gave me structure and when I showed signs of distress at all, they got me therapy. They didn't take me to someone who AFFIRMED me....which is essentially just believing without diagnosing, and just enabling a potentially deadly situation to happen. Let the kids dress however, express themselves however, do all the GENDER STEREOTYPES that all of us before the young crowd was born have been desperately trying to get rid of. Why do they need to be sterilized? Genitally mutilated? These kids aren't old enough to consent to sex, drive, get a tattoo, purchase substances, or even go to a doctor's appointment without a parent but they're mature enough to get life altering and irreversible treatments? Make it make sense.
@@pixelfairy6128 no child has ever killed themselves because they weren't allowed to have a double mastectomy on their healthy body or take experimental drugs with bad side effects that will leave them medical patients for life. It was only once the gender ideology started brainwashing kids in schools that every teen who felt like an outsider suddenly started wondering if they were trans. I went to a huge high school with thousands of pupils in the 90's. Many of us had our issues, but you know what? Not one pupil ever decided to end their life because the grown ups wouldn't let them become life long medical patients or take harmful drugs because they were "born in the wrong body". Amazing, right!
This episode really touched my heart and is a favorite of mine's in terms of interviewing people 🥰🥰🥰
I'm friends with three trans people (both ftm and mtf) and never did it occur to me to ask them about surgery or their dead name. Yes, I did know two of them before they came out, but even then, of what relevance would that be?
It's really none of my business, unless they wanna talk about it.
Also they're all in their teen years and I can't imagine why they shouldn't be allowed to transition.
They are so much happier and yes, not everyone might be accepting, but I'm so glad they get to be their true selves and have it reflected in their body, if they want to.
One time my friend told me my ftm trans friend's deadname and I was just like 🙁 come on, did you really have to share?
It the ultimate disrespect in my eyes to ask about a trans person's deadname, good on you for not doing that 👌
I’m literally trans (enby) and I still feel awkward asking people about what they want to do medically. Like it might help me to know just to help me kinda figure out what I want to do, but it’s so invasive
I am a trans person who's partner is a detransitioner; they do regret it, they identify as nonbinary- hrt just wasn't for them, they consider themselves detrans bc of this. I hate that detransitioners are used against trans people, because even most detrans people understand how important transition acess is. the rare cases that they aren't get huge publicity
80% of people isn't "rare", but even one person regretting being pressured into being sterilised is a tragedy that shouldn't be silenced by delusional fascists.
@@emboe001 Source?
@@emboe001 What 80% are you referring to? The highest statistic that I've found is 13%, while most others cite 2.5%-3%.
@@emboe001 source?
@@emboe001 "delusional fascists" says the person using a false statistic to fearmonger. Cope seethe and mald.
This actually gave me a lot more confidence as a trans woman🏳️⚧️
as a cis (but queer) girl, i accept you with open arms sister!
@@clairescott4005 Beautiful thread of baddies being bad.
Cis straight woman here. I hope you have a lot of people around you that appreciate and support you 👑💕
I'm I cis woman and I just want to let you know that we all appreciate, accept and love you as a woman. I hope you are in a safe environment 💕 sending love
Welcome sweetie! We're so happy to have you here with us in the sisterhood. ❤
This was so good! I loved hearing about these ladies' experiences and learnt a lot more about trans women.
You mean gentlemen
"Ladies"
@@Yourmom-hw9ok you mean ladies?
@@ShrekIsLoveShrekIsLifee yes ladies ❤
@@JustSukiii giga chad
Nikki saying how HRT works and talking about bottom surgery is strangely affirming for me, I'm so glad Anthony did this and they all felt comfortable talking about it :)
Dont mutilate yourself so young please
@@ak-jx1pm I am 21 in a 2 year waiting list, good try tho
@@dolofonosesostrefis Like guys who wear a toupee and think it looks great and natural-- Don't be shocked when most realize you're still a man
@@ak-jx1pm What they do is for them to decide, it does not affect you in any way whatsoever so please shut up and educate yourself :)
@@ferris5358 Quit your whining! People choosing to use their own preferred pronouns when discussing you, instead of the grammatically incorrect ones you and yours insist on isn't for you to dictate. Also, quit displacing women in regards to their scholarships, sports, sports teams, dressing rooms, locker rooms, changing rooms, showers and prisons, and then reserving the right to allege it doesn't affect anyone in any way. It makes you look ridiculous
I recently started following Dylan, on the recommendation of my little sister, and wow, what an absolutely gorgeous girl, inside and out. Not only has she got the most beautiful, genuine, smile I think I’ve ever seen, she also seems so lovely and sweet. You can just see the happiness that outwardly transitioning is bringing her, just glowing on her face, and to think that anybody resents that, or would try to hurt her for it, absolutely breaks my heart.
I just wanna say this real quick,
You are valid even if your story isn’t similar to one shared here or elsewhere online.
Stay safe out there :)
ily
Valid doesnt mean your a bio woman.
thank you :]
@@pricesymonej and 😂 why are U so concerned with women's genitals
They're all so pretty :O !!
Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou, I'm a 60yr old mum of a beautiful trans daughter, it is so awesome to finally watch a video that has popped up while watching TH-cam that is celebrating trans people. I sit here night after night watching TH-cam, only to be bombarded by anti trans videos. People judging and dehumanising trans people. To the point of me trying to explain to them in the comments that, they have got it all wrong, trans are not out to attack women in bathrooms or groom young children into some sort of perverted fetish that they have. It breaks my heart because I watch Dylans videos and totally understand where she's coming from and why she's documenting it all. Which i must say a huge thankyou to her for doing it, shes sharing a very personal journey and coping so much hate, yet she keeps going, shes saving young people from suicide. I believe that with every bone in my body. On a more personal level, every time these people attack trans woman, their attacking my daughter and that really pisses me off, BIG TIME. I've coped so much abuse been told I should be in jail for child abuse, that both myself and daughter are mentally insane ect. Then tonight I've come across yr channel and seeing these beautiful woman be so happy and open brings me such joy. So Thankyou again, I've shared this video as much as possible because it explains transitioning in an easy understand way for the average person to understand and hopefully except trans people as the beautiful beings they are. Much love also to yr 3 beautiful guests. 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕✌😂
@S. Yamadera nice try, shes my daughter, end of story. Stop judging people you nothing about. Ill never understand why people go spare over something that doesn't concern them. Their not hurting anyone so it's knowone business. I'm sure it will settle down, trans are being treated like gays in the 70s. Now THANKFULLY, gays now have the same rights as everyone else. Few more years and all the people screaming that trans are an abomination will crawl back into their judgement pathetic little lives until the next thing they don't agree with pops up. I just dont understand that you and others feel you have the right to be judge and jury. Another shooting today in Colorado, 5 innocent men shot dead because they were gay. Families left devastated and broken because some thought they had the right to take their lives because they didn't agree with their lifestyle. Disgusting
@☆HannahBanana the Bookworm☆ thankyou, these are just the words I needed today. Getting trolled everyday by people calling my daughter a freak that should be shot gets abit hard to deal with. So awesome to see there are still people with common sence and kindness out there.✌😊💕
@☆HannahBanana the Bookworm☆ cheers love, I'm not special, I'm just someone that will never understand why these people hate so much on other people's lives that don't effect them. As my girl says " if yr not hurting anyone else why is it their business " Just like asking ,when did you come out as gay, I'd tell people, non of yr business really, heterosexuals don't have to come out as straight so why do queer people. Thanks again for yr support, the world always needs more people like you that show kindness 💕
@@wombat333 Thank YOU for your comment. I'm guy with a trans bf and hearing his stories about his relationship with his parents really broke my heart. But knowing that somewhere there is parents who are fully acceptive of their childs and their trans identity means the world to me 💕(I was getting sick with all the transphobia in the comments)
@s.yamadera650 your Internalized Transphobia is showing honey.
I was gonna say “if Dylan mulvaney isn’t in this I swear…” AND SHE WAS AND IM SO HAPPY (ps: there is a war in the comments I’m not happy about so don’t become apart of it or keep it going ignore the person they are misgendering Dylan) Have a great day!
Ikr right when I saw Dylan in the thumbnail I clicked instantly
Yes! She so cool on tiktok and kind person :D
he*
@@jaytera She/they are her pronouns. So no, she's not a he.
@@jaytera she uses she/they pronouns
as a trans man i’m so glad this video got made, i hate seeing all the transfems out there getting politicised (especially in the uk where i live where politicians constantly get asked how they would define a woman) and treated as dangerous when all trans people just want to be able to live as themselves. thanks anthony for increasing visibility
Lmao dream on. You will never be one of us, biology is key, be happy with who you are.
@@LunaRealized You say “you’ll never be one of us” and your name says you’re a girl so you’re right tbh. This commenter will never be “one of you”
@@LunaRealized "just be happy" yes because
brain chemicals totally don't determine a person's happiness??? You can't just be happy because you want to be.
Maybe you need to learn biology.
@@LunaRealized bruh you've just complimented him..?
@@HenyaStudent now hold on, that’s not what I said, in fact, these transition chemicals mess up homeostasis and alter dopamine levels. I said to be happy with who you are, meaning how you were born, nowhere did I say “just be happy”. Not that it matters to the mind of a twitter ideologue, we all have issues, but these people just want attention. 15 years ago this wasn’t an issue and now we are bending over backwards to appease EVERYONE and be “all inclusive”/“inoffensive”. I have my opinion, perhaps I am too harsh, but science backs me on this one.
12:25 UGH this is so true. Sometimes well-meaning people go on and on like "omg I'm so sorry! I can't believe I called you *deadname* just there! I'm so sorry! I shouldn't have called you *deadname*!" It is THE most uncomfortable experience.
Trans women and people in general are such strong and beautiful people. I love the power these ladies give off and I felt so much joy hearing the postive things they had to say and the funny things they said. I bust out laughing at the end with Nikki talking about the Smosh video XD
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as a trans girl, who recently found this video, im super grateful with you Anthony, thanks for give us a space on your channel
The one sane person in this comments section
@@I_need_serious_help *insane
@@plushtuberchannel9652on man you really got them with this one 🤓
@@augustible9151he isn’t wrong tho
@@augustible9151he didn’t “get them” he simply told the truth
Just this week I legally changed my name and gender :) There's still a long way to go on the road of my transition but it feels really good to finally *do* something for true self. Thank you for this lovely video! The ladies in it were so sweet and wise
YIPEE!!! im so happy 4u
that's awesome!!!
i’m so happy for you!!
I'm so happy for you! I hope to do that one day too :3
i'm so happy for you omgggg 🥺🥺🥺
as a trans person this literally means the world to me. i’m so excited to see anthony talk to trans men!
Agreed
Me too!
I accidentally read this as "I'm so excited to see Anthony talk to these men" and for that second I have never felt so mad and confused at the same time 😅
same
oh wow that was really cool, i learned a lot! it's quite great to see people being happy with themselves. also all the ladies were really beautiful:)
I like how this video went out and awesome video man :]
Thank you so much Anthony for making this video, A lot of people demonize us and its very annoying because trans people just want to live and be happy just like everyone else
Gigachad
I watched you way before I realized just like you i could also be transfem, good to see you here
Lmao Wana be
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@@MegaGalaxy230 bum
I just recently came out to my family as Non Binary and it wasn’t from me. I recently graduated, but they announced my name and not my deadname, so my whole family found out I was trans and my dad did NOT like it. He was extremely mad at me just because I didn’t tell him sooner. We live 4 hours apart so I visit him on holidays and before my graduation there wasn’t any time to tell him. I recently visited him and he admitted that when I visited he wasn’t going to talk to me at all and just shut me out, bc he was that mad. Instead he had a heart to heart talk with me about how it made him feel and how it affected him. Eventually he came around during that visit and we spent more time together than we ever had. He was willing to learn about me and trans people, and he asked so many questions. All though he wanted to shut me out, his love for me made him spend time with me and I’m so proud of him 😭
I'm so happy that your father was able to accept you. A lot of parents don't know how to react in these situations, but the fact that he took the time to hear you out andn spend time with you is a real sign that he truly cares. I wish you all the best!
4:46 I relate to this so much. The first person I told, I couldn't even say it out loud. I had to write it for them.
I want to say this, I am 35 and the mother of 2 girls, 7 and 13, me and my husband have been married for it'll be 15 years in May and he's 34 and I wanted to say something to Jada:
Jada, honey I am so sorry that your dad didn't take it very well and that you guys don't have a relationship now but I just wanted to reach out and say that if you were our daughter we would be proud, so very proud of you honey! I know this probably doesn't mean a whole lot coming from a stranger who you don't know but me and my husband accept you and we will send all of our love your way, we would be so very proud to have you as our daughter! It takes a very special person, a very strong person to stand up and be true to yourself and I just wanted you to know that I'm so very proud of you! Much love to you honey!
Holy shit, as a transwoman myself I almost teared up reading this. Thank you ma'am for being so loving and kind. You are amazing!!
I don't see why it's so controversial for Dylan to keep her birthname. First of all, Dylan is a unisex name, so it's not like her decision to keep it somehow leaves her with a jarringly masculine name. There's plenty of cis girl Dylans out in the world. Second of all, it's nobody's damn business.
HIS birthname lmao, thats a DUDE
@@beluga2342 are you dumb? That's a girl
@@beluga2342 you sound delusional
@@beluga2342 imagine being so sad that you care about random peoples lives
@@beluga2342 HER pronouns are she/her. dude why is it so hard to respect that? I've seen you on two comments now. talking absolute crap about them.
My heart goes out to all trans people, and just people of the LGBTQ community in general. Especially those who's families rejected them. That is an utter nightmare. I know what it feels like to have family look down upon you, and shame you, and use you as the scapegoat. And that's heartbreaking enough. To have family disown you just for being who you are is so completely unfair. It hurts my heart to hear it happens so much to people in these communities. But it makes me so happy to see how strong these communities are. And growing stronger every day!
thanks
Thank you I’m gonna cry
@@xivering
@@throughthespillways
thanks!!!
These ladies brought me so much joy this morning!! I hope they're all thriving
What about the men Dylan and Anthony?
@@abelgonzales3695 Hm? Why did you put Dylan there? There was only one man in this vid
@@caroline7828 Probably because I'm that weirdo that goes by social norms and calls a spade a spade...or in this case a man a man. I'm such a rebel.😂🤣
@@caroline7828 they are both man, dylan looks more like a man than Anthony lmao no women features
@@abelgonzales3695 wow sooo cool
im not trans but i had a similar experience to one of these girls when i told my mom i liked girls. such a wierd response to have people like “your joking” when your not. idk i took it as they never really take my feelings serious in general so what was i expecting?
My best friend, (who was born male, and wants to transition to female) is in they're process of becoming who they want to be. Me and my whole friend group 100% support her, but since they kinda don't wanna make a scene with people they know they keep it private. However everyday we help her try her best to express herself. So whenever I see the types of interviews it's helps me remind myself of her and all of her hard-work. People should just accept who they are. Like we all are humans :)
You can’t become female.
He was born male and wants to become a woman, he will never be female.
Wait are their/her pronouns? Cause you use both
@@ranmouri69 They/their is gender neutral, it is often associated with nonbinary people due to this but it can be used to refer to basically everyone regardless of gender.
I assume her/she are their pronouns given the context, so ye
@@ranmouri69 could be she/they
As someone who is non-binary I get told I’m female because of my autonomy and get shunned for asking them to use they pronouns and ‘oh you’re one of them’ and ‘you look like a girl’ and I honestly hate it so much, I wish people were more educated. I’m arguing with people double/triple my age over this
you are non-binary in your head, how can these people read your thoughts? you are what you are in biology, these people are adressing you in that way and so they are not wrong.
Being female and being a women are different things though. Unless you're medically proven to be intersex , you are female. What you're dissociating with is your gender ( women/man) not your sex ( male/female). Also I'm not trying to hurt you, I just don't understand this part of the debate.
@@ammaranwar5343 this is just a language issue, nobody is denying that they are a certain sex when they are trans. the lines are just blurred and they aren’t exactly important imho
@@ewyes5935 oh no it's very important. For example in the bathroom debate, this distinction is vital. If we're dividing bathrooms based on gender, trans women can use women's bathrooms. If we're dividing it based on sex then it gets tricky. Same with sports. If sports are separated by sex then excluding trans people from participating has a legal basis, if it's gender then they don't.
@@ammaranwar5343 but this isnt a bathroom or sports debate. sure these distinctions are important when debating reactionary conservatives, but this just isnt the case here. its a person sharing their experiences with transphobes using different terminology. policing the language does absolutely nothing here and paints you as a pseudo intelligent debatebro twitch chatter.
Shout out to my trans homies
This was nice!! 🙂❤️
I always knew I wanted to be a girl, a woman, but growing up in a christian family made it really impossible to accept, I used to pray to God "Make me a woman or kill me" while crying on my room when I was 12-15 I tried to kill myself several times until I couldn't handle it anymore. I remember one day I just came out to a friend, she helped me buy clothes I felt too ashamed of getting on my own, I came back home and found out a new song , released that SAME DAY of a Spanish band called Ska P, the song's name is Colores and it changed my life. It literally is about trans woman and how to love them and I couldn't stop crying, it was so bad that I had no other option than to come out to my family and everyone. It's been 3 years in HRT and I am happier than ever.
💕💕💕
Great to hear that you're striving now luv, stay happy and healthy
you are AMAZING for continuing to fight! i’m so proud of you 💕
No
@@emilymeyers6069
Yes❤️
when the one girl said "lashing out after getting misgendered isnt because im angry, its because i wonder what about me didnt pass"
that hit a liiiiittle too close to home as a trans mcdonalds worker...
Same like I feel really bad like I fucking hate talking cause that always leads to getting misgendered.
All of the McDonald’s workers in my town are trans. My mom and brother had a debate if a worker was a man or not-
@@Or26565 i just make myself feel better by wearing several pronoun pins and then calling them idiots in my head for being illiterate
@i don't have an original name lmao i can just imagine like
mom: but his voice was so dee they have to be a boyy
bro: thats just bc the ordering box machine is shit and ur hearing is going!
mom: but- but- their hair was short!
bro: .. it was in a bun and they were wearing a hat
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;-; well yr family sounds fun!
At least in English you can use gender neutral pronouns and language. In Italian that's just not possible.
My non binary kid is ok for now being referred to as a girl because they didn't come out to anyone other than us parents, but I guess it will be though for them in the future
Dylan being unhinged asf, I love her sm
*him
@@hypocriticalgrammarnazido us all a favor and shut up.
@@hypocriticalgrammarnazi *Her
@@foreverindebtt that’s not how english works. english doesn’t care about your feelings
@@hypocriticalgrammarnazi English is language... a fucking social constuct. Same as gender.
And I don't know about you, but I have never heard of Englisg having rule of pronouns that come from biology. As pronouns cannot be biological.
I.e.: they say they go by she/they, English together with human respect says I should respect it.
De-transitionning must be SO hard. I can't imagine going through transition, so doing that twice ???
She’s got such a good point about the meds. I’m a cis lady, and I took spironolactone for years for my acne. These meds aren’t dangerous or scary!
all drugs have side effects, some more than others.
yup, and so many cis woman take hormones in the form of birth control! and not just for preventing pregnancy.
@@johngibbon9784 definitely, my grandfather was taking a drug and the side effect was growing breast. It had a hormone included which caused it especially in men. He soon took another drug that didn’t have that side effect
You should be offended these men wanna take away from your struggles, and blame these peoples daddies for not being for these young boys growing up.
Just makes you need to pee, like *all the time*
as a cis woman with multiple transwomen friends, this was so fucking helpful and i am so glad anthony does stuff like this
i know u dont mean bad but ‘transwomen’ without a space is very often used by transphobes, kind of like a dog whistle. in the future i recommened you use ‘trans women’ with a space. not a huge deal or anything but i figured i would tell you lmfao
@@dooby5833 none of my friends have ever corrected me on that, so thank you!!! I will 1000000% keep that in mind going forward!
omg some good things when i sort by new in the comments
@@dooby5833 If they want to disrespect us they are just going to misgender us.
as a transwomen please dismiss of what @Sloane said, as long your calling us transwomen its fin lol personally i prefer "transsexual" but i get it, "transwomen" roll off the tong better and it make it simple of what we are "transwomen" but not female to respect the science
10:38 when i came out to one of my friends, they just said "welcome to the girls" or something like that and it made me so happy
I love this man. He is just learning and teaching others. these videos have helped me so much in accepting myself in so many ways. (im a trans man and im only 13 and have divorced parents and im kinda out to my stepdad but i havent really told my mom. and im scared to tell my dad)
Anthony has come so far and i’m so proud of him for what he has done!
Damn I didn’t know he was an ant, he kinda looked like a human that’s crazy
@@koutyu5573 stoppp ☠️☠️
ant ☠️☠️
@@koutyu5573 💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
@@koutyu5573 ant is short for anthony lol
I am a transgender girl. Once I went to get a job. After I told the HR manager that I am a transgender girl she asked me what I have in my pants. She didn't got the answer. That was weird and unprofessional.
that's because nobody can ever get a straight answer from you, so the more simple the question the better. losing you as an applicant was probably the best thing for that company. most people don't want to hire workers who prioritize nonsense over everything else. that question was most likely designed to get you to walk away for the betterment of the company. good job to that boss
Wtf !! You Should’ve asked about theirs just to see their reaction. I’m sorry you had to deal with that.
“I told the HR manager that I am transgender” We can all tell 💀 How do you possibly think you pass for female?
@@mariaglover3535 yes. Good boss for keeping the workplace drama free and PC culture free. Prioritize reality and responsibility over nonsense and imaginary worlds.
I got asked that alot IN college and I feel that. I'm so sorry you had to go through that!
I went in the comments and i regret it, WHY ARE THERE SO MANY anty-trans people here😭😭😭
It's the sexism and misogyny. We don't like it.
TH-cam has a conservative rabbithole and a LOT of children and teens using it
@@Mel-wn9gb You want sexism and misogyny? "Trans women are just men in women's sports because any man will automatically overpower all _females!"_
There you go.
@Casey aaaaand the right is now angry about beer cans..
ill take the side of the people that doesnt want to kill and/or kill people but would sometimes very stupidly call you a phobe lol
@Casey Uhuh. You all got triggered by beer cans.
It boils down to this...who the fuck cares? Honestly when all is said and done. And we live our lives. Who cares how others choose to do it. Il never understand the people who hate others for how they choose to live their life (within reason of course, obviously dont become a criminal who loves murdering people etc.)
As a cis female with 2 trans kids, nothing has made me happier than seeing them blossom being who they truly are. Their happiness means the world to me. I don't understand parents and others who treat LGBTQIA+ people so badly. So sad that we all can't just be allowed to be who we are.
@@Guffba You know the issue ? It just doesn't work. To say transgender people have to accept a gender according to their sex assigned at birth doesn't work. Before transititioning we had an history of about 60 years trying psychology to "fix" transgender people in accepting who they are without transition.
No result has been found of psychology being helpful to try and makes transgender individuals be able to "accept the gender they were born as" (by they way you are born as a sex not a gender).
The ONLY thing that has been found to be helpful as not to harm a transgender individual is transition, which is why medically it is recommended nowadays.
@@Guffba If that was possible many people would choose to pursue it no doubt but the reality is that you can't be forced to like being another gender. That's not how humans work.
@@Guffba it’s only cruel if the kids don’t feel or want to be the gender they were assigned as
Good mom! Tysm for being such a good ally! 💕
Seeing these parents proud of their children makes me so happy, I never felt happy with the gender I was born with, and I hope my parents accept me!
Detransitioning is just as valid of a self discovery as transitioning is.
Detransitioners are equally important to the conversation!!
@@blanket4763 but theyre literally not trans,,, they arent as important as actual trans person in the conversation around trans folk
@@Grapeegrapee L + your name is grace
@@blanket4763 they are important but they're not equally important in the talk about trans people. detransitioners do not get to speak over trans people, because they are not trans. their stories deserve to be heard but they don't really get to speak on trans issues in the same way trans people do.
retransition shouldn't have stigma! gender exploration can be such a wonderful thing. and often people who are trans are considered "detransitioners" even if they are just having to hide bc they are unsafe or if they want their transition to happen outside of the binary
i used to have a trans best friend, i loved her so much and it really helped me put into perspective the things that trans women go through. i didn’t see her as a a trans woman or a political statement, i just saw her as a friend