None of these things make you a biologically born male though, and that’s okay. Let’s not twist our wording, you are a biological female, who decided due to dysphoria, to alleviate said dysphoria by presenting and living as male socially, but our biology doesn’t change and neither should the speech. You are a real man to whoever knows you but to the world and in reality, you are a trans man, a biological female. Power to you and prosperity for your family but we have to be honest, with ourselves and with others but especially ourselves. 🫶🏼
One day when you die and people find your body they will know that you are a woman. No matter how many surgeries or government papers you get saying that you are a man God bless you to be a woman, and you will always be a woman, and being a woman is a beautiful thing. I know life has hurt you but this isn’t the way. Always remember god loves you, I’ll be praying for you.
Your absolutely right that God loves me and all his children. God has continued to bless me, every moment of my life and has answered many of my prayers 🙏
Why is it wrong to acknowledge that there is a difference between a trans man and a cis man? There doesn’t need to be any hate everyone deserves to live their life. There is a difference though.
This is similar to my dad’s story. He transitioned in the 70s and then him m and my mom adopted my sister and I in the 90s and we got to have two loving parents that gave us everything we could have wanted. We grew up with an understanding that people are people and that is it. I wish you and your family many bright blessings throughout your life. Thank you for sharing!
I'm not transphobic, your a trans man and I respect the life style you choose to live. I do not however respect women that cut their hair and go to the gym to get buff and then decide that they are “trans”, it is the same way with a fully grown man that puts a dress on without any further steps and claims to identify as a women. It is those kinds of people who make a bad public identity for the rest of your community. Understand that there is a line between the 2, trans and mislead. I do not choose to provide support to the trans community but I don't hate on them. I hate on those who think it is ok to walk into a specific gender-directed area (such as the bathroom) and claim that they can't be kicked out or judged because they simply “identify” as such. Identifying verbally and identifying physically is what makes the difference. If the “trans” community would like the public world to accept their “requirements” I expect the same acceptance in people's boundaries. If I am a young female and walk into the bathroom in a public space and there is a full-grown man in the bathroom with me, my boundaries have been crossed. Do not tell me that if I don't like it I can leave, as a citizen it is my right to state how uncomfortable that can make me as well as other people feel. In fact, I'm afraid your wants are overruled, it is your place to be the one that leaves. Note that none of this is directed at individuals such as the creator of this video. This is someone who has truly transitioned. You receive no hate from me.
I appreciate your respect and insights. I can't help but think of the many grey areas we face in our society.. although I, to, was once a masculine "girl" I never wanted to go into the women's bathroom, I wanted to grow larger muscles... Not until I realized the level of disphoria I was living with, is when I finally realized.... shit I don't want to be a girl, but what do I do about it? I never took the time to deepdive how and what that meant for me and what I wanted out of life.... until I did.
Just because i believe that trans-men are not males biologically, doesnt mean im transphobic. It also doesnt mean that i care about what you do and how you live. So why do you come out swinging right out of the gate?
@GarenRay it doesn't not deny validity that trans-men are trans-men. You can shorten it to say trans-men are men. If you take that logic into consideration, then not all men are males. In this case, logically, you are a man, but not a male. This isn't an attack. I'm not hating. I'm just explaining what I understand to be true using my logic.
@@GarenRay 'trans men are not considered males biologically' this statement is considered transphobic now? If you don't have a y chromosome you'll never be a man
@@GarenRayif you want to consider yourself a man that’s fine, you’re not to me because I don’t believe people can switch genders. You will never make us play along sorry.
This video just made no sense you basically just said you're not a real man without actually saying it this all has to do with chemicals and doctors help. And calling us cis men and cis women a bit racist?😒 like make it make sense and either way we're all just a bunch of assholes trying to make each other look bad no matter what we say.
@Petty_broken_mess let's clarify something here. Saying the term cis man/women is not a racist term. Cis is a prefix term. It simply means someone that was born and matches there identify at birth. Also, I never called anyone any "asshole." That's not for me to say...
Honestly.. it's more so actions that dictate if respect is given. Kind of like Blaire White. Most people wouldn't cause any trouble to her because she doesn't necessarily draw attention on her being trans or make it her only personality trait, like how some trans and lgbtqia+ folk may do. Starting off with an accusatory sentence in the beginning definitely doesn't help. As you can see by the comments, it's causing more harm than good. Honestly, it just seems to us that you're looking for an argument ig? And perhaps gives an "Another one of those" type of view. The majority of people in developed countries don't really care too much, as long as it isn't hurting them or forcing or attacking 'em into beliefs, like shaming. I love and support my real trans folk, as I, too, am in the LGBT. And a moderate.
Certainly not seeking an argument. Simply making a statement that being a man isn't just based on biology. Speaking my truth and standing up for myself and perhaps people who share the same struggles as I do, dealing with transphobic individuals that don't see us for us. The reality is that not many people support LGBTQ, and certainly the T... this is my way to say I know who I am regardless of others' opinions, and I won't stay silent like many people in society want LGBTQ individuals to do
@GarenRay erm, Blaire White isn't silent either. We *need* people to speak on lgbt matters, but there's a way of going about things, too. Ways that won't necessarily segregate us from the heteronormative world. Because of that alone and the error that we make in regards to this, LGBTQ acceptance has indeed gone down. It doesn't really matter if people accept us for being gay or trans, as long as they aren't taking our rights to marry or exist in general. We can't force them into accepting. It's not our burden to convince people, either. Otherwise, if we try like this, it'll just push them away further and cause acceptance to drop even more so, like it has been. ... It may even push some into extremes. (Like the right). Our problem starts within our own community. If we don't acknowledge that, we'll be partaking in our own downfall. We need everyday people to see that we're just like them. Human
It truly is awful that so many people do anything but mind their own business and feel like to make decisions on others' behalf. I say y'all go for what makes you happy! Best of luck to you my friend :)
He posted this online and people are telling the hard truth. (The non-assholes) The ppl are right tho. As unfortunate as it is, he isn't a real man. Just a category of woman.
I wish you and your family well but I want to say...real men usually do not need to validate or convince others that they are real men because they are really men. Just a thought 🙃.
“Real” is only what we can understand to be true. Just because we can’t prove what the sun is made from doesn’t mean it’s not still the sun. ☀️ I believe you can be male without being born male. And just because some people don’t understand it doesn’t make it not real. God can’t be proven but people can believe in “Him” I don’t understand why people can believe in someone standing right in front of them using their “real” life words!
You can call yourself whatever you want... and that's ok. I can think and feel about you any way that I want... and that's ok, too. That's it. Plain and simple.
if your a real man why do you identify as a “trans” man. There’s a reason the word trans is in front of the word man. Power to you and all that you’ve gone thru and accomplished to reach peace with your body. But that does not mean that biological facts aren’t true. To the core you are a biological female who has undergone gender dysphoria in order to transitioned into a male. That does not mean you are a biological male. None of the traits of which you have expressed make a man. XY chromosomes are what identify as a man, as XX chromosomes identify a woman. I’m sorry if you have experienced transphobia or hateful comments but sometimes it’s best to ignore and live on with your life. (Also last time I checked biological men don’t get to choose their size)
Must be a hell of a cross to bare bro, i mean people get cancer or Parkinson's or some horrible disease. You decided to make a life decision and than post it on the Internet for people to comment on. That must be a much undo burden.
Please don’t go down the phalloplasty route… You are beautiful as you are. You do not need to go under the knife - for something that will cause you more issues than solutions. Some medical things like T are going to help… because they change your voice, add body hair - a double mastectomy is one thing… that is literally just removal of tissue… But the actual bottom surgery is soooo unbelievably dangerous, and carries so many risks that are just not worth you risking your life for. If you won’t believe me, please just look into current trans-men talking out against the bottom surgery phalloplasty and how much trouble they have experienced from it. From growing body hair in the new urethra, causing insane infections… To not being able to even use the new piece to do anything because it’s become redundant… You are safest, keeping the female parts and using that as intended. Or ignoring that area and use the male entry point for intimate acts.
Bottom surgery phalloplasty is complex and you can expect complications but these complications can be resolve. As for hair in the urethra, electrolysis is required to ensure there is no hair regrowth. Speaking with NY surgeon who is board certified and other trans men who have undergone this procedure I am confident in my choice. Thanks for sharing your concerns.
@@GarenRay The doctors are there to take your money, not care about you or your future well being. Even the really good ones. A couple of things I’d like to share on this…. My close friend thought they got rid of all the hair in the necessary places before covid was a thing and their surgery was booked - then the pandemic happened, which put their surgery on hold…. During this time though, some of the hairs started to grow back in a few places - despite being told it was not possible to happen - had the surgery gone ahead as planned in 2020, those hairs would have been growing inside, where they weren’t meant to be. It is only actually thanks to covid (crazy to say that lol) that this serious issue has been prevented. They are currently going through a second round of electrolysis and waiting for that to be done before going ahead with surgery, frustrating understandably…. But it’s better to be safe and avoid unnecessary risks. Your physical health is just as important as your mental health. Please remember that. I say all of this as someone who has now had so many surgeries I stopped counting after 20… (and have had many after that) Those surgeries were due to either health issues I have collected like Pokémon, acute illness like Tonsillitis / Appendicitis, as well as more surgeries due to complications of those surgery done badly/ gone wrong. I have also had medical implants placed in my body to help me stay alive - a feeding tube and a VP shunt to drain XS spinal fluid off my brain as I produce too much…. Even though those things saved my life - they both still come with their own complications that I have to do deal with regularly. The body and semi rigid plastic, although compatible, do not have the same flexibility as each other - this comes with chaffing of the tubing inside your body / inflammation of the tissues around the plastic - resulting in a LOT of pain. Not trying to tell you what to do, Just want you to make sure it’s definitely something you have seen info from multiple people with different life experiences ranging between good and bad.. get the full scope of what could happen, so you know all of the risks you are taking, as well as the benefits to it. 💗
I appreciate your concern and sharing this information. I've actually gone through 12 rounds of electrolysis, as it is recommended to do that for 5 months before having bottom surgury. This is to ensure all hair is removed, new hair growth does occur during electrolysis. This is something I've researched and was told by my electrolysis, doctor and peer. I'm feeling confident about my upcoming surgery, knowing that someone I trust has successfully gone through the same procedure with the same surgical team. Speaking from experience, I understand that everyone will have their own experiences... some have post surgery blues, longer or shorter recovery, etc. All surgeries come with a risk, no matter the type. I have faith that everything will go well. Taking care of my health physically and mentally is the starting point to ensuring a healthy recovery 🙏
The Old English form of what is a man, primarily meant "person" or "human being" and referred to men, women, and children alike. Man is created and sustained by God. Gen. 1:27, Acts 17:25,28. Man is a person and is therefore capable of making moral choices. Man is made in the image of God. I have many thanks and blessings from the lord. Amen 🙏
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None of these things make you a biologically born male though, and that’s okay. Let’s not twist our wording, you are a biological female, who decided due to dysphoria, to alleviate said dysphoria by presenting and living as male socially, but our biology doesn’t change and neither should the speech. You are a real man to whoever knows you but to the world and in reality, you are a trans man, a biological female. Power to you and prosperity for your family but we have to be honest, with ourselves and with others but especially ourselves. 🫶🏼
I never stated I was born a man, hence why I say I am trans. Transmen are not cis men, fact. That's why we are trans. Another fact, Transmen are men.
@@GarenRay Trans men are trans men. Stop twisting words.
I agree, you put your words in a very kind manner. I appreciate that :)
@@GarenRayOop you got him there lmfao😂
You still not a man
You can't change sex. That's it.
That's why I am a transitioning man not a born man
@@GarenRay nope. You are still a woman. Face the facts
Face the reality
Give it a few years. With the research and breakthroughs we've had in genetics 100% that's pretty feasible
I'm all about adults making decisions for themselves but I'm not about is taking biology out of that fact
What so wrong with that? A decision is a decision and I am making the decision that is best for me.
@GarenRay wait how did you get your woman pregnant!?!?!?
@@ayokay6404 love and science ❤️
@@ayokay6404 I really should make a video on it
@@ayokay6404you can get semen implanted into eggs
One day when you die and people find your body they will know that you are a woman. No matter how many surgeries or government papers you get saying that you are a man God bless you to be a woman, and you will always be a woman, and being a woman is a beautiful thing. I know life has hurt you but this isn’t the way. Always remember god loves you, I’ll be praying for you.
Your absolutely right that God loves me and all his children. God has continued to bless me, every moment of my life and has answered many of my prayers 🙏
@@GarenRay not all of them sister. Not all of them.
@@PookieBooBear is it fair for you to judge what prayers of mine have been answered? No
WOMP WOMP
Why is it wrong to acknowledge that there is a difference between a trans man and a cis man? There doesn’t need to be any hate everyone deserves to live their life. There is a difference though.
Agree, everyone deserves to live their life
This is similar to my dad’s story. He transitioned in the 70s and then him m and my mom adopted my sister and I in the 90s and we got to have two loving parents that gave us everything we could have wanted. We grew up with an understanding that people are people and that is it. I wish you and your family many bright blessings throughout your life. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you for sharing your story. That incredible to hear. Your parents demonstrated compassion and acts of selflessness, and so do you
I'm not transphobic, your a trans man and I respect the life style you choose to live. I do not however respect women that cut their hair and go to the gym to get buff and then decide that they are “trans”, it is the same way with a fully grown man that puts a dress on without any further steps and claims to identify as a women. It is those kinds of people who make a bad public identity for the rest of your community. Understand that there is a line between the 2, trans and mislead. I do not choose to provide support to the trans community but I don't hate on them. I hate on those who think it is ok to walk into a specific gender-directed area (such as the bathroom) and claim that they can't be kicked out or judged because they simply “identify” as such. Identifying verbally and identifying physically is what makes the difference. If the “trans” community would like the public world to accept their “requirements” I expect the same acceptance in people's boundaries. If I am a young female and walk into the bathroom in a public space and there is a full-grown man in the bathroom with me, my boundaries have been crossed. Do not tell me that if I don't like it I can leave, as a citizen it is my right to state how uncomfortable that can make me as well as other people feel. In fact, I'm afraid your wants are overruled, it is your place to be the one that leaves. Note that none of this is directed at individuals such as the creator of this video. This is someone who has truly transitioned. You receive no hate from me.
I appreciate your respect and insights. I can't help but think of the many grey areas we face in our society.. although I, to, was once a masculine "girl" I never wanted to go into the women's bathroom, I wanted to grow larger muscles...
Not until I realized the level of disphoria I was living with, is when I finally realized.... shit I don't want to be a girl, but what do I do about it? I never took the time to deepdive how and what that meant for me and what I wanted out of life.... until I did.
Nothing but support from me, I dont understand why others are so pressed over your existence 😅
no one is-
Appreciate the support 💯
Who is? I don't see any thing wrong here, ppl could be a little nicer on how they word things, but they aren't wrong
Just because i believe that trans-men are not males biologically, doesnt mean im transphobic. It also doesnt mean that i care about what you do and how you live. So why do you come out swinging right out of the gate?
Your first statement is considered transphobic. It denies the validity of trans individuals.
How am I swinging out the gate?
@GarenRay it doesn't not deny validity that trans-men are trans-men. You can shorten it to say trans-men are men. If you take that logic into consideration, then not all men are males. In this case, logically, you are a man, but not a male. This isn't an attack. I'm not hating. I'm just explaining what I understand to be true using my logic.
@@GarenRay 'trans men are not considered males biologically' this statement is considered transphobic now?
If you don't have a y chromosome you'll never be a man
@@GarenRayif you want to consider yourself a man that’s fine, you’re not to me because I don’t believe people can switch genders. You will never make us play along sorry.
@@GarenRayit’s just an opinion 🤷
I support you and wish you and your family good life and health ❤
Thank you for your kindness 😊
Do you boo and I like you got options good to have a sense of humor
Will he experience menopause ?
I think transsexuals experience early menopause but idk, I'm not trans
No he will not, unless he spends a long time not taking Testosterone medication.
The chromosomes don’t lie
Hence why I am a transman and not a Cis man. Still a man
Hence why I said I am a Trans Man not a cis man. But still a man.
@@GarenRayits biology, you have female chromosomes, not male chromosomes. Biologically, you are female.
This video just made no sense you basically just said you're not a real man without actually saying it this all has to do with chemicals and doctors help. And calling us cis men and cis women a bit racist?😒 like make it make sense and either way we're all just a bunch of assholes trying to make each other look bad no matter what we say.
@Petty_broken_mess let's clarify something here. Saying the term cis man/women is not a racist term. Cis is a prefix term. It simply means someone that was born and matches there identify at birth.
Also, I never called anyone any "asshole." That's not for me to say...
Aman is not a man until 40yrs old. Period takes time to build value manhood brings.
Honestly.. it's more so actions that dictate if respect is given. Kind of like Blaire White. Most people wouldn't cause any trouble to her because she doesn't necessarily draw attention on her being trans or make it her only personality trait, like how some trans and lgbtqia+ folk may do. Starting off with an accusatory sentence in the beginning definitely doesn't help. As you can see by the comments, it's causing more harm than good. Honestly, it just seems to us that you're looking for an argument ig? And perhaps gives an "Another one of those" type of view. The majority of people in developed countries don't really care too much, as long as it isn't hurting them or forcing or attacking 'em into beliefs, like shaming. I love and support my real trans folk, as I, too, am in the LGBT. And a moderate.
Certainly not seeking an argument. Simply making a statement that being a man isn't just based on biology. Speaking my truth and standing up for myself and perhaps people who share the same struggles as I do, dealing with transphobic individuals that don't see us for us.
The reality is that not many people support LGBTQ, and certainly the T... this is my way to say I know who I am regardless of others' opinions, and I won't stay silent like many people in society want LGBTQ individuals to do
@GarenRay erm, Blaire White isn't silent either. We *need* people to speak on lgbt matters, but there's a way of going about things, too. Ways that won't necessarily segregate us from the heteronormative world. Because of that alone and the error that we make in regards to this, LGBTQ acceptance has indeed gone down. It doesn't really matter if people accept us for being gay or trans, as long as they aren't taking our rights to marry or exist in general. We can't force them into accepting. It's not our burden to convince people, either. Otherwise, if we try like this, it'll just push them away further and cause acceptance to drop even more so, like it has been. ... It may even push some into extremes. (Like the right). Our problem starts within our own community. If we don't acknowledge that, we'll be partaking in our own downfall.
We need everyday people to see that we're just like them. Human
I got options. I hear you!
It truly is awful that so many people do anything but mind their own business and feel like to make decisions on others' behalf. I say y'all go for what makes you happy! Best of luck to you my friend :)
He posted this online and people are telling the hard truth. (The non-assholes) The ppl are right tho. As unfortunate as it is, he isn't a real man. Just a category of woman.
I wish you and your family well but I want to say...real men usually do not need to validate or convince others that they are real men because they are really men. Just a thought 🙃.
That's not true. I've always looked kinda girly, and I frequently have had to prove I am in fact a man
“Real” is only what we can understand to be true. Just because we can’t prove what the sun is made from doesn’t mean it’s not still the sun. ☀️ I believe you can be male without being born male. And just because some people don’t understand it doesn’t make it not real. God can’t be proven but people can believe in “Him” I don’t understand why people can believe in someone standing right in front of them using their “real” life words!
We know what the sun is made of excuse me?
You can call yourself whatever you want... and that's ok.
I can think and feel about you any way that I want... and that's ok, too.
That's it. Plain and simple.
if your a real man why do you identify as a “trans” man. There’s a reason the word trans is in front of the word man. Power to you and all that you’ve gone thru and accomplished to reach peace with your body. But that does not mean that biological facts aren’t true. To the core you are a biological female who has undergone gender dysphoria in order to transitioned into a male. That does not mean you are a biological male. None of the traits of which you have expressed make a man. XY chromosomes are what identify as a man, as XX chromosomes identify a woman. I’m sorry if you have experienced transphobia or hateful comments but sometimes it’s best to ignore and live on with your life. (Also last time I checked biological men don’t get to choose their size)
Exactly why I never said I was a cis man. I will never be a cis man because I was born female. The point is, I am still a man regardless
Must be a hell of a cross to bare bro, i mean people get cancer or Parkinson's or some horrible disease. You decided to make a life decision and than post it on the Internet for people to comment on. That must be a much undo burden.
No burden at all.... I am fully content with my life choice and not going to let the options of society keep me silent. This is just the beginning
Please don’t go down the phalloplasty route…
You are beautiful as you are.
You do not need to go under the knife - for something that will cause you more issues than solutions.
Some medical things like T are going to help… because they change your voice, add body hair - a double mastectomy is one thing… that is literally just removal of tissue…
But the actual bottom surgery is soooo unbelievably dangerous, and carries so many risks that are just not worth you risking your life for.
If you won’t believe me, please just look into current trans-men talking out against the bottom surgery phalloplasty and how much trouble they have experienced from it. From growing body hair in the new urethra, causing insane infections…
To not being able to even use the new piece to do anything because it’s become redundant…
You are safest, keeping the female parts and using that as intended. Or ignoring that area and use the male entry point for intimate acts.
Bottom surgery phalloplasty is complex and you can expect complications but these complications can be resolve. As for hair in the urethra, electrolysis is required to ensure there is no hair regrowth. Speaking with NY surgeon who is board certified and other trans men who have undergone this procedure I am confident in my choice. Thanks for sharing your concerns.
@@GarenRay The doctors are there to take your money, not care about you or your future well being. Even the really good ones. A couple of things I’d like to share on this….
My close friend thought they got rid of all the hair in the necessary places before covid was a thing and their surgery was booked - then the pandemic happened, which put their surgery on hold….
During this time though, some of the hairs started to grow back in a few places - despite being told it was not possible to happen - had the surgery gone ahead as planned in 2020, those hairs would have been growing inside, where they weren’t meant to be. It is only actually thanks to covid (crazy to say that lol) that this serious issue has been prevented.
They are currently going through a second round of electrolysis and waiting for that to be done before going ahead with surgery, frustrating understandably…. But it’s better to be safe and avoid unnecessary risks. Your physical health is just as important as your mental health. Please remember that.
I say all of this as someone who has now had so many surgeries I stopped counting after 20… (and have had many after that)
Those surgeries were due to either health issues I have collected like Pokémon, acute illness like Tonsillitis / Appendicitis, as well as more surgeries due to complications of those surgery done badly/ gone wrong.
I have also had medical implants placed in my body to help me stay alive - a feeding tube and a VP shunt to drain XS spinal fluid off my brain as I produce too much….
Even though those things saved my life - they both still come with their own complications that I have to do deal with regularly. The body and semi rigid plastic, although compatible, do not have the same flexibility as each other - this comes with chaffing of the tubing inside your body / inflammation of the tissues around the plastic - resulting in a LOT of pain.
Not trying to tell you what to do, Just want you to make sure it’s definitely something you have seen info from multiple people with different life experiences ranging between good and bad.. get the full scope of what could happen, so you know all of the risks you are taking, as well as the benefits to it. 💗
I appreciate your concern and sharing this information. I've actually gone through 12 rounds of electrolysis, as it is recommended to do that for 5 months before having bottom surgury. This is to ensure all hair is removed, new hair growth does occur during electrolysis. This is something I've researched and was told by my electrolysis, doctor and peer.
I'm feeling confident about my upcoming surgery, knowing that someone I trust has successfully gone through the same procedure with the same surgical team.
Speaking from experience, I understand that everyone will have their own experiences... some have post surgery blues, longer or shorter recovery, etc.
All surgeries come with a risk, no matter the type. I have faith that everything will go well. Taking care of my health physically and mentally is the starting point to ensuring a healthy recovery 🙏
@@GarenRay good luck with your journey 💗
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ im not scared of you no phobia here. I pity you 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
You can save your pity for someone else, I don't need it.
@@GarenRay When will you add to the "jump in the window" statistics?😂 Maybe someone can record it, would love to watch😂
You got this good luck on you journey ❤
Thank you!!
You are not a man at all God made what he made you and that’s it in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🏻
Amen😊
The Old English form of what is a man, primarily meant "person" or "human being" and referred to men, women, and children alike.
Man is created and sustained by God. Gen. 1:27, Acts 17:25,28. Man is a person and is therefore capable of making moral choices. Man is made in the image of God.
I have many thanks and blessings from the lord. Amen 🙏
Stop
If you can't handle it, then don't watch.
Real transsexuals don't really have a choice in the dysphoria department but I see what you mean. He ain't at all a real man.