5 Ways to Take the High Road and Remain UNBOTHERED
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I love your videos in general but this is one of the best yet! Thank you for sharing these 5 tips. I will be drawing on them for some time. I loved 'Forgive immediately- free up your mind for lovely things '!!
“In quietness and confidence shall be your strength.” Isaiah 30:15
Thank you for sharing, that’s a beautiful verse. 💛
Amen
I always tell my husband his self-control is his super power. We both were in the Army together when we first met and I have witness people say some nasty things about him and to him. And the way it rolled off his shoulders was very noble to me. Hence, why I married him! 😉
Good choice! 👌😍
My husband is the same way!
Thank you and your husband for your service to our country.
@@jessicarnaugle You're very welcome!
My husband is the same way. A very valuable character trait.
I like to remember a time when i was 100% in the wrong and the woman i exploded on responded in kindness and patience. I *melted*. I wrote her back (this was an email situation) and explained this was not like me and to please forgive me. I explained why i was so irrational and upset dealing with being a solo caregiver for my Alzheimer's mother and being at the end of my rope. I didn't mean to lash out, i was just so very tense and holding all my fears and anger inside for too long. This angel woman would have been in her right to tell me off. I deserved it. Instead we had a moment that will be eternal in my heart. So... be that woman. Assume the person being rude is dealing with something awful and it's not about you at all. show love and patience and grace. There is no tear-down that will ever feel as good as being the person who gave the grace someone else was desperate for.
This is so encouraging for me. I just lost my big brother on Easter night and his ex gf has been horrid to me and my family. I am going to remain on the high road and this helps me so much. Thank you for always being such a positive light in the world Jennifer. It helps many of us in our darkest hours.
I’m so sorry for your loss. You have my condolences ♥️
Sorry for your loss!
I am so sorry. I hope you can grieve and heal with peace.
Oh Veronica, I’m so sorry you’ve lost your brother; you have my prayers and deepest condolences.
Condolences and praying for you it’s awful to loose a sibling.
"Don't magnify the problem with your attention." - that's the best one for me because I'm an INTJ who looks at everything so deeply. I'm trying to give God more attention than anything else throughout these difficult times.
As an INFJ, I so relate to your comment!
@@carolyndavis2058 Could you please explain the term INTJ as I have not heard it before.
@@parisbear1818 it’s a result you can obtain after taking the Myers Briggs Type Inventory. I indicates that one’s energy is increased from being by oneself to contemplate and reflect (Introvert) N indicates that one perceives the world in terms of patterns more the specifically through the senses (intuition), T indicates that one makes decisions more on logic and rationale than feelings, emotions and values (thinking) while J indicates that one responds to things with a preference for closing the loop at a scheduled time instead of leaving things open for further options.
I love that! It reminds of of something I would think or say when confronted with an ignorant or insulting comment - “I won’t dignify that with an answer!”
My go to thought when I am pushed is “Bless them, Change Me” these are words from my favorite priest FR Dave and have changed my life.
Shouldn’t it be opposite?
I love that! I am going to use that going forward
I remember going through a pretty rough time in middle school (7th grade girls @ private school can be pretty vicious….no joke). The last thing my Mom would say as I got out of the car each morning (before, in my mind, facing the lions) was “kill ‘em with kindness.” I think this really speaks to the core message of your video here, in terms of taking the high road. I remember being shocked a few times at the reaction of a classmate (who said something unkind) when I made a kind reply. I think they were automatically ashamed because my response revealed to them the cruelty of their own remarks. As always, Mom knows best. ☺️
I love that, what a great memory and story to pass down or onto friends.
My mom has a little sign “Be kind to unkind people. They need it the most.”
I experienced 7th grade private school bully girls, and yeah...it's brutal.
I woke up this morning to the quote, "Your ship comes in on a calm sea" floating through my sleepy thoughts. Then, as I was drinking my morning cup of coffee I read these timely words by AW Tozer. "All will be well. In a world like this tears have their therapeutic effects. Healing balm distilled from the garments of the enfolding Presence cures our ills before they become fatal. The knowledge that we are never alone calms the troubled sea of our lives and speaks peace to our soul."
Hi Jennifer , I really enjoyed this video. The quote which helps me when things get a big heated is " there is greater strength in silence" ☺️ don't you just love this. It's so true isn't it, how easy is it to retaliate & lower your self down to Thier level.....but how hard is it to remain silent. Very hard in my experience. But we grow & we learn.
Much love
Maria (UK). Xx💕
I wish I could share how many lessons I’ve learned through silence! My MIL is excellent at this - if she doesn’t agree with what you say, she just won’t say anything or respond at all, and that provokes me to think about what I said and was it right?
I try to remember how much I have been forgiven by Christ Jesus & that truly puts every situation into perspective.
Thank you for these timely reminders.
Yes, this is our ultimate motivation!!
Amen! It's the only thing that helps me keep my sanity and composure. Its hard these days because the world has somehow normalized sinful and bad behavior instead of embrasing Godliness and righteousness. Lord help us. God bless you in your life's journey.
Amen! How can I be angry at someone when my Saviour has poured out His merciful kindness on me when I’ve done far worse?
Just like in the days of Noah, so will the last days be. Let’s contend for our faith & endure to the end. Always with love.
Thank you for the Scriptures. Good advice!
Perfect timing! My husband and I are currently dealing with how to handle people who are being demeaning and critical of everything we do. Thanks for the reminder of taking the high road!
This is honestly perfect timing. I’m getting married at the end of this month and am currently dealing with my future sister-in-law… thank you, Jennifer!
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding 💐
I recently had a conversation with an older friend, and we talked about the journey of learning to not care what “little people” say. If we are trying our best to do right in God’s eyes, it’s easier to calmly ignore when someone disagrees with your actions. And if it’s any consolation - I have the nicest, sweetest family in the world and we still had moments of disagreements over the 3 weddings last year. 😆
This is a great video, I wish you were around 21 years ago. When I was living in Heidelberg Germany my husband was the BSB commander. There was another officer wife that said some horrible things about me and made my life unbearable. I was in tears all the time. My husband would say to me, you have to have a tougher skin and that was hard to do. All the officer's wives that she spoked to about me they never wanted to talk to me and I felt very alone. I did spoked to a few of my neighbors asking why and what she is saying about me, they never wanted to say because they told me everything she said about me wasn't even true. I guess they didn't want to hurt me even more. To this day, I still don't know what I did or say to make this person hate me so much. This bothered me for years because every time we moved to a new place, her husband was also stationed where we move to. I always ran into her and it was hard to move on and forget. She would continue talking about me to new people that she met so it was hard for me to go to any military events because she would already warp these new women's mind about me. I no longer care about this person, I haven't seen her in 13 years. All I can say is she is a mean woman and she will answer to God one day. This video is so spot on, I wish I met someone like you in my lifetime.
Cathy... I don't know you, but I was moved to tears by your comment. I just wanted to say that I'm so sorry this happened to you, and I am lifting you up in prayer as we speak. I pray God will give you the strength to find forgiveness to free yourself completely from this woman in your mind, for God to heal your heart, and know that HIS unconditional love is already yours.
@@TeriGigi Thank You. :)
Boy, did I need to hear this! My favorite is the affirmation “None of these things move me.” God bless you, Jennifer!
This video is SO needed right now!
I love the saying, “Take the High Road”. I actually want to make an art plaque with that in my home, because I read it in a book, *Parenting from the Inside Out: How a Deeper Self-Understand Can Help You Raise Children Who Thrive* by Daniel J Siegel and Mary Hartzell. In it they talk about “High Road functioning” and “Low Road functioning” in the brain.
*The High Road = A form of processing information that involves the higher, rational, reflective thought processes of the mind. High-road processing allows for mindfulness, flexibility in our responses, and an integrated sense of self-awareness. The high road involves the prefrontal cortex in its processes.*
*The Low Road = Low-mode processing involves the shutting down of the higher processes of the mind and leaves the individual in a state of intense emotions, impulsive reactions, rigid and repetitive responses, and lacking in self-reflection and the consideration of another’s point of view. Involvement of the prefrontal cortex is shut off when one is on the low road.*
I actually began crying when I realized how often I had been responding to my children with emotional intensity and unpredictability while in mom-burn-out and survival mode. Hence it is my greatest desire to transform myself into someone who can remain unbothered by triggers, and take *the High Road* in all my interactions. I am by nature a gentle, chill person, and never experienced true rage until I had children. I never knew how to process rage because I never had practice processing anything other than regular anger and frustration. But to truly get so angry that it’s a struggle to calm down... it wasn’t until I had kids that it was tested!
Two other books that have helped me are *Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff” and “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Children* ... they are huge helps!
Edit: I wasn’t sure whether to add this, but right now a huge inspiration to me for remaining unbothered, is actually Johnny Depp. 👀 Even in recordings he tries to remain calm and slow to wrath, or remove himself from contentious situations. That man has the patience of a saint.
This was super insightful! I too am normally a pretty relaxed personality but there’s just something about kids that pushes you to the absolute brink of your patience. 😅 And Johnny Depp is a huge inspiration in this regard!
Hi Jennifer! I’m a new subscriber. I read Madame Chic in Italian 10 years ago when I was 28. I kept some part in my mind along these years. My English has definitely improved to understand what are you saying and now I can follow also on YT. So happy! You are so inspiring! Thanks for your amazing energy! MR
Welcome to the chic community! 🥰
Welcome! I love the Italian editions... especially the covers. Thank you!
This is such a valuable tool for any age. The World has dramatically changed since Covid-19, for so many reasons. Thank you for helping us in refreshing our skills! 💕💕
My mom used these philosophies, although not in exactly those terms. She often said, when I complained about a school bully, "Rise above" or "Be the bigger person" She also reminded me to "Consider the source" and then would remind me that some folks had no "upbringing" and couldn't help being naughty. She would also say "They're just jealous!" All these Momisms have remained in my heart through the years. I loved your list, Jennifer, especially "None of these things move me." That's a keeper!
Thank you for sharing these game-changers!
Proverbs 26:4 "Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like unto him." Really loved all your quotes, I have been reading Proverbs every day of the month for about 4 months and there is much advice in there that totally agrees with what you said in this video!!! Loved all those wise quotes!!
Several years ago I read a statement that has given me a different viewpoint toward the troublemakers that enter my life. In essence it was that when people attack you they are telling you more about themselves than anything they are saying about you. This helps me to observe rather than react.
That is such an excellent statement. Thank you for sharing! ❣️
Oh my Goodness Jennifer! Today you were speaking g to me directly. I am battling this everyday. You are a beautiful soul! I love all your content and your perseverance, you are prudent and you inspire me to be a better person.
Thank you. And God bless you.
Thank you ♥️
This is wonderful advice for dealing with the nitpickers in your life. Even if we don't respond negatively, their words can occupy our thoughts and have us believing erroneous things about ourselves. She is right, ending the effect of negative BS immediately, lets you get on with doing the good works of your life. I wish she had gone a bit more into forgiveness. Forgiving them immediately is not condoning them, it is releasing you from carrying around the burden of the other person's stupid actions or words. There is a place in life for righteous anger, but it is never expressed by babbling some sarcastic or punitive remark off the top of her your head.
And just in time for "Mother's Day".... thank you 😁
Lovely tips….when it comes to forgiveness, I try to remember that I have benefited from and will continue to benefit from people showing forgiveness to me…that helps me to approach upset from a more forgiving place
I could have used this last week when I was in Jury Duty. I was not as poised and unbothered as I would have liked to have been. Being placed in close quarters for a week with people who I not only had nothing in common with, but with folks who were outright annoying and sometimes rude. After being away from people during the pandemic, I was a bit out of practice in these types of situations. Thank you for all the reminders .
Thank you! I needed to hear this today.
This is how I livel my life. I have earned the respect of many people. I am in complete control of my life and emotions. I am Magnanimous. I am glad I found your channel. I especially enjoyed watching your video about not being dumbed down. As an educator I see this in our public school system.
I cannot tell you how much this video helps me! I have a close in law that I have to deal with on a daily basis and they are immature and usually insulting. I have been trying to let those comments roll off my back and consider the source. Am really hoping this person eventually matures and or gains better skills/ self confidence so they will be classy! Thank you so much for your books, as I have read them all and watched so many of your lovely videos, Jennifer! You inspire so many with your work. 💗
Thankyou. I also want to add that i am more vulnerable and easily dragged down by others when hormones are at play. I can get sent into a fixating mess by things i can shrug off at other times of the month. Self talk is good at this time. I tell myself im feeling things stronger and not to make rash decisions, not to address problems with my family, to keep my mouth closed. Its been invaluable to me and its something ive taught my daughter as well.
And I will add tiredness to that - I really try to deal with life's inevitable upsets in the morning, when I feel I am at my strongest. Of course the best time of day may vary for different people, but most issues can stand a few hours reflection.
Thank you for this video Jennifer. SO timely for me as I try to deal with a toxic daughter-in-law. I had realized it’s best to take the high road, but this spells it out so beautifully. When grandchildren are involved, one must tread lightly. I needed this video today.
That is so, so hard when your beloved child marries someone with toxic behavior. 😭 I have seen this so often in my clients where the mother almost grieved her son’s situation with a toxic or emotionally manipulative or immature woman. Thus,
I have always been self conscious on how I behave with my inlaws... I never want to act in a way that brings disgrace or contention. I want to be the kind of daughter in law that I hope my own sons find one day ❤️
@@christiana_mandalynn Thanks for your reply. What a wonderful attitude you have. I do feel like I am grieving, for my son and my granddaughters.
This has also been timely and helpful to my hurting heart as I deal with our daughter and a 4 year old precious granddaughter being used as blackmail and a pawn. I would not normally be so blunt with personal details but felt I could share this after your own honesty. May God bless you and keep you @Lynne Taylor as we both try hard to take the high road with love and gentleness.
@@catherinenunan3584 Thank you, Catherine. Using children/grandchildren as a pawn is so painful. I am so sorry that you are going through this also. I will keep you in my prayers. Not everyone believes in taking the high road and being forgiving. It’s a struggle, but Jennifer gives us plenty of good reasons to do so. Hang in there, my friend.
@@lynnetaylor4919 I will be praying for you and your situation too. How wonderful that I am in Australia and we can be blessing each other from across the vast oceans.
Timely advice. It's like an answer to prayer for a current situation. Thank you.
Let nothing disturb the calm peace of my soul
This is my favorite of all your videos
Thank you
Thanks for offering great suggestions. Classy behavior is so needed in our culture.
My husband was a bit rebellious in his youth so he got a good amount of body tattoos, his tattoos doesn't fit his personality today, he's very intelligent, graceful & puts out a very calming vibe. Everyone loves him once they get past the shock factor of his tattoos. He gets the rudest comments & looks though, it bothers me more than it does to him. I asked him one day how he just stays so calm, his response "if they can just judge me by what I did to my skin then that shows me what kind of person they are & I don't have time for those people in my life". I'm still working on my response towards those kind of situations.
This is actually the reason I love my tattoo! It scares off people who don't add anything valuable to my life. Your husband made the right choice in getting inked lol 😊
I am able to do this with everyone else but when it comes to my hubby that is a different story! He knows how to push my buttons! I struggle with this every day! 😬😫
I like the word magnanimous... A wonderful trait to cultivate.
Your channel makes me happy! It’s also nice to know that people aren’t just trying to get under my skin but they’re also doing the same to others. Now we all know how to react!
Thank you, Jessica ♥️
Every word a pearl. Thank you.
I so appreciate these “keeping calm and remaining classy” videos! This video is so timely for me, but now none of these things move me. I truly feel like these composure videos are the essence of poise and class.
I just love this video. We have been reading Romans 12. Paul talks a lot about these things too.
I used to be on an online forum (remember those?) where one of my favorite members' signature line was "Never choose to he annoyed. Choose to be amused."
He lived by those words; he had nothing but patience and gentleness for new forum members, and understanding for those who had allowed their feelings to get the best of them and were making heated comments. On the other hand, he never suffered fools at all, having a cutting but --still polite-- short response to forum members who were overstepping boundaries and saying things which were not against the rules but still very rude. I miss those forums, and that member, but I still remember his words. They are especially useful while traveling!
Thank you Jennifer for these videos, so many people out there seem to have forgotten how to be people during lockdown, and besides, it's so valuable to talk about this kind of thing, we're never too old for self awareness or for being deliberate about how we carry ourselves!
I LOVE THIS VIDEO! Thank you so much, Jennifer! This spoke to me in so many ways! You inspire me to be a better person and live a happy life!!!!!!
One of your best videos . . . such good advice. Thank you Jennifer.
Excellent insights here. Often a person has a personality where they enjoy stirring up trouble, being critical, etc. Not taking the bait is the best way to go!
This video has been so helpful! Just the pst few days of implementing these points and I have seen a difference in how I relate with my husband. He has also been very gracious and thoughtful in return!
Positively lovely, thank you.
Great video! I love the saying "Ships come in on calm seas."
I wish I would of heard this in my childhood. But better large than never. Thank you
Thank you! I'll be needing these techniques for my baby shower this weekend. I have a very opinionated Mother-in-Law and a very opinionated hostess who have been clashing and putting me in the middle. I will use these techniques to help me "remain unbothered" and just enjoy the party :)
Congratulations on your upcoming baby!!
@@juliasmet6052 Thank you!
Congratulations and I hope it is am enjoyable time!
😶 I literally have no words. Except thank you.
It's funny that this was on my feed this morning. While I was getting ready to make a right on a road, someone hit my car with their car from behind. I got out to check my bumper. She said, "I didn't hit you" and I said, "You sure did." She then took off. Fortunately my car has just a small scratch but people these days are off their rocker. In the grand scheme of things, it doesn't matter. A car is just a thing and it's not worth the energy to be angry. Your video helped me gain perspective this morning. Thank you!
So refreshing and inspiring! Thank you for promoting authentic femininity and grace 🌷
Jennifer. I'v watched this before a few months ago. I love that you use quotes to illustrate the tips. But what I really wanted to say was that I love laughing and the thumbnail truly makes me chuckle. I'm loving some recent videos I've watched and appreciate you very much for making these inspiring and relatable videos. Much love to your dear family. May you know peace. LA
Such great tips! When you shared about being "magnanimous," it made me think of another word I love, and try to remember to be ~ *impervious*. The definition of impervious is: "incapable of being penetrated; incapable of being affected or disturbed [Think: 'This does not move me!' ;)]; not pervious/not admitting of entrance or passage through." It reminds me to uphold my own standard of behavior, no matter how those around me are acting! There is also a Bible verse that came to mind while watching this video. It's 2 Peter 2:19 - "Whatever overcomes a person, to that he is enslaved." Do we want to be slaves to negative people or negative emotions? (No!) So let's try not to let people or circumstances overcome us to a point that it affects how we act. Thank you so much for these reminders!
We can’t have a refined culture without these practices. I think when we master our passions with God’s help as you describe, the effect on others can be winsome. I had to apologize to someone I got short with (a stranger who was incredibly rude towards me) and it had a humbling effect on us both. We actually shook hands!
I thank you for video. I am struggling with my mother’s increasing dementia which is the short term memory decline. I am going to try to try these tips when I have these overwhelming moments of helplessness in her care.
Very calm voice is such a blessing to listen to. Thank you, B R
Sending you a big hug. I am in exactly the same situation with my mother.
@@janeburkhart4051 Thanks Jane! It’s really hard some days to see the great Mother I know, this new person is tough to figure out how to to communicate with. Care blazers is a utube channel I watch a lot!
The movie recommendation for this should be "Sense and Sensibility" .. as you see how it turned out for the family that were put into compounded duress so unfairly!
Hello Jennifer, thank you for this video, it is a wonderful addition to your first "how to remain unbothered" video and I found all the sayings very powerful. I also often remind myself that a gentle response diffuses anger. All the best. Myriam
I have been feeling a little out of sorts with some people, but this will be really helpful! Thank you!
Hi Jennifer,
Thank you so much for this. It has been helpful and although my teenage son hit my triggers today, I came back to listen to this so I can try to respond with more love and grace.
I loved all of ALL of these suggestions, Jennifer!!! "None of these things move me" is just so impactful...there's power in simply saying it. It recalibrates your thinking to bring you right back to your center. That last quote from Shinn is also so wonderful....Very profound and teachable video today!!!!!! 😀👍💕
I'm in my early 20's and so happy that I've found your channel! Have you ever thought about making a video about how a person could forgive themselves absentmindedness and improve in that area? I'm quite forgotful and every time I mess something up I struggle a lot with shame.
Thank you for your awesome video 😊
Thank you so much, Jennnifer, for this video! I really loved your first one, and find this second one to be as enlightening! But this video was something I really needed to hear today. I’m anxious about a meeting I’m attending on Saturday, where I know that I will have to meet a difficult person that has given me a hard time for many years. So all of your tips, today, are very welcomed, and I will follow them ALL. Starting now, I will stop dwelling on that situation, and on the day of the meeting, I will keep my mind focused on being magnanimous and remembering “ships come in over a calm sea”. Thank you for bringing light with your videos, and have a great week-end! God bless you! 😊🌹
These thoughts are a great way to go into the day since the world is so tumultuous right now. Some of us have probably been raised to know these things, but it is a blessing to have the reminder. St. Catherine of Siena's Dialog has been an amazing gift on understanding true "magnaninity". Highly recommend it!
You’re right, this is so needed in our world! I’ll do my best to remember these tips! 💕
Guard your peace - All so good, Jennifer!⚘
This was excellent. I believe I need to watch this daily. I’ve had neighbour issues for a few years. I live in an apartment and live between people who are thoughtless. I did react angrily at the end of 2021, as I’d had enough. I agree that when we react we are then seen in the wrong. I hope it’s okay to mention a book that has helped me immensely with my own anger towards thoughtless (and narcissistic) people. It’s called, ‘The Dance of Anger’ by Harriet Lerner. An excellent read. Thank you once again for your tips on how to remain unbothered. P.S. I bought your mug a couple of years ago and I have two of your books. Thank you for all you do in helping us (me) be and remain classy 🦋
Excellent. Thank you!
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No matter how the wind howls the mountain cannot bow to it -The emperor in Disney’s Mulan
Thank you so much, Jennifer! 🙏🤩
Jennifer, this is a fantastic video with great life advice. I'm forwarding this to my adult children. I love that you provided a scripture quote and gave helpful imagery. Your videos provide such diversity and that's why I love watching them. You have videos from homemaking tips, recipes, decluttering, fashion, etc). Thank you for your videos. 💕
I needed this! I have carried some negative feelings for a few years - this has therapeutically inspired me on how to begin working thru it. Jennifer you are so wonderful and a constant inspiration! 💕
Love this channel!
I totally needed this after last weekend.
Thank you. I needed this badly. 💜
I love this, Jennifer!!
So needed this. Thank you.
Thank you, I needed to hear today’s advice ❤️
Love it!!
This is so timely, Jennifer. It would appear as though I am not alone in thinking so!
Excellent video.
I needed this video today.
Thank You 🙏🏾
I absolutely loved all this wisdom, Jennifer. Hmmmm...I believe an entire "Madame Chic" book is required here and would be a best seller.🙏♥️🇨🇦
Perfect timing!!! I needed to hear this exactly today!!!
Always loving your content! 🌷
Just in time! Thank you so much.
I absolutely needed and love this, work has been a challenge
You’re an inspiration, Jennifer. This is perfect for my current stage of life.❤️
So timely. Thank you.🌸
This is perfect timing for me! Thank you for this video!
Yes, I needed this today. Thank you:)
Jennifer, Thank you! I needed this so much.
This is excellent advice I’m sure all of us can use. Thank you, Jennifer! Another much-needed video 💕
This is soooo good. I love the ship and sea analogy. This is also so hard and so different from my normal reaction. Thanks for this. I must contemplate daily.
Very timely video! Thank you! ❤️
Such great info. Thank you.
I actually have learned in my years / not to worry about others actions towards me / or how they TRY to offend me. I just ignore them. Life is too short. 🙋🏻♀️💐💐💐
This video was timed very well. I really enjoyed #3. Thank you for all your inspiration.