I agree with Becky and Maggie, all milestones should be important to our friends, not just the typical heteronormative ones. My friend has been there for my wedding and baby shower, so I'm so excited to get her something now that she bought a house, that is such a big deal and a huge step, I want her to know I'm glad for her and here to support her.
My friend just graduated with her teaching degree and I plan on throwing her a “Teacher Shower” when she gets her own classroom! Everything should be celebrated!
This!! I literally lost a really good friend last year bc she stood me up in what was supposed to be my celebration for getting into grad school, when asking why I was mad she said “I don’t see it as that big of a deal” and it just crushed me
I agree and I would always buy a friend a housewarming present, especially if I am invited to a housewarming party, but I do not think creating a registry is the best idea because it can feel pushy.
@@s.a.4358I think that it is a great guidance because often I'm not sure what people need and what they already have. Also you don't know what will go with their interior and preferences. So it is better to have a list you can choose from rather than the person having five different blenders and three toasters at the end of the night that they really did not need. But I guess everyone is different in that regard.
31:00 Becky definitely *do* expose Henry to possible allergens! It prevents allergies! For example, The American Academy of Allergy, Asthma, and Immunology recommends introducing peanut butter at 6 months!
I think I agree with Becky. No gift required but if you wanna give a gift here’s what I need. Only time I kinda went ew at a registry was when they had huge big ticket items on them. I’m talking like sectionals. But as long as there are price points for ppl I think it’s super helpful
That housewarming registry idea is BRILLIANT, wish I'd had it! I actually did a 35th birthday party that I tried to bill as "equivalent to a wedding" as a queer solo polyam person. The invitations had a cute letter about how when I was a kid other kids would talk about weddings and kids and I just said I longed to be thirty-five. 😂 So I decided to make a whole thing of it: ordered food, did my best to make clear how super special it was for me and asked people to prioritize, offered to pay for flights and hotels. It went well, and it was nice to be celebrated, but only half the folks I invited came (granted, a lot for me, I'm not a very successful host, but still feels lower than a typical wedding?) and it was happening right before a move so there was definitely a bit of a sense of "wow, I spent thousands of dollars on travel, food, and party favors, and now I have to pay to move across the country in a few weeks... this is a lot." A few people did offer small gifts, and I didn't NEED anything, but I did give away most of my belongings to partygoers (shipping wasn't really feasible, I basically took what I could fit in suitcases) and then had to fully furnish my new home and get all the kitchen supplies, etc., fresh. In retrospect I'm like "DAMN, I wonder if having a registry for that would've worked." Kudos to the person asking and I hope it goes well for you!!!! ❤
I would never arrive at a house warming empty handed!!! Honestly, a registry would be lovely so I can the owner something they love not something that'll sit around!!!
Well, here in the Philippines.. we don’t have registry or its not common. So the wedding gifts are not required. Your presence is just fine. So its just a add on if you will have a wedding gift or sometimes guests would give cash as a gift.
Campari is great! I like mixing it with red grapefruit juice and gin. Play with the ratios to find what you like. If you want something a bit lighter and for the summer, try a mix with aperol instead. 1 part aperol, 1 part gin, 2 parts red grapefruit juice, and can optionally top off with soda water
Make sure that if you use vinegar for cleaning, you don’t use it on natural stone countertops, electronics, hardwood floors, waxed furniture and aluminum and cast iron cookware! All of these things react negatively when encountering vinegar because of its acidity so make sure you don’t use it on these specific items! Do use it in laundry and to clean your bathtub and stuff, it’s perfect for that
Becky, just put a lock on your under the sink cabinet and keep the barkeeper’s friend in there! It’s always a draw to play with, but just contain all the chemicals in specific areas with child locks :)
I don’t want kids and my soulmate died before we could get married. Now I have to endure baby showers, bridal showers, bachelorettes, weddings, children’s birthdays, as well as friends/their partner’s birthdays. Meanwhile my first birthday after he’s gone will be the one I don’t want to celebrate because I’ll be turning the age he won’t get to turn two months later. Celebrate the jobs, celebrate the moves, heck, celebrate new pets.
I think a gift registry for non-traditional events is AWESOME! & while a well-deserved celebration, I’d consider it an unexpected expense which may not be in people’s budgets at first. I think it’s important to remember that someone’s 100% effort may look different than another’s depending on location, finances, job, etc. I have a lot of long distance friends & commuting to long distance friends almost always doubles the bill for me with big events!
On Miles’ podcast, he had a caller talk about ice planet barbarians. I’d HIGHLY recommend asking him to talk about it 😂 Super funny story about that book in an office situation. I forget the episode but it made me laugh
As a person who isn’t having kids, it’s a big bummer that despite opening my own business, my wedding was the greatest accomplishment thus far to family and friends. We received congrats & money from strangers in our families we’ve never even met upon getting married, yet relatives I DO know have never seen my salon or received services from me. I had to work to be a business owner, I’m sorry to say that anyone can get married. I happen to be in a really wonderful marriage but it’s not hard to find one that’s not.
You’re salty because not everyone you know has seen and been a client of your business? I don’t think that should ever been an obligation. I have plenty of friends who have their own business and I am supportive of them, but I don’t feel the obligation to use their business. Friendship and business transactions do not need to mix necessarily.
While I do partly agree with the person above about family not using ur services and whatnot by obligation, I believe it depends on the service you provide. You’re owning a salon so I assume hair trims, cuts, dyes, etc is included. I would give two scenarios: 1) They’ve never used your services, so they dk the extent of ur service, 2) they have this preconceived notion that your service wouldn’t be as good due to confirmation bias from your background etc. If they were rational, they would have tried your services and formed an opinion based on that. But irrationality overtook. Imo, if you’re supportive, I would at least try your services out. It’s not like it’s a niche market and a hair cut would be financially debilitating. Mixing business and relationships isn’t like that, more like theyre the feeders for your business and then as time goes on it can stabilize with a solid clientele; it’s economics 101 🤷🏿♀️. I just think it’s insensitive for @s.a.4358 to say it’s an not an “obligation”when support for a business is clearly monetary… or ig actively helping a business out, external factors such as promotional marketing etcetc
@@s.a.4358 I’m talking about very close family. I don’t expect everyone I know to support me 😅 Siblings and parents popping by to simply check it out would be nice. You’re right, no one owes me anything but supporting those closest to you for their accomplishments is kind of the bare minimum for a decent relationship and doesn’t always cost money.
@@breathingstill I actually do nails & have close relatives who don’t even share my business posts (but tell me in person how awesome they are) but felt close enough to me that they wanted to be entitled to wedding decisions. Just goofy, ya know? Idk, being a sensitive human is exhausting haha
I understand this dislike for Granche Blanc and chardonnay. For sparkling wines, it adds acidity so if Becky likes champagne--like real champagne--then she's fine with chardonnay or other similar whites in that format. It changes. Also, they add additional sugar and Becky loves sugar lol
@@awshucks79if I remember correctly they mentioned that one of the eyes had detached itself from the socket, she couldn’t see from that eye because of it. Haven’t really heard about her since. They often mention Pesto and Kimbop but not Emma. I hope she is okay 🥺
Moist moist moist moister moistest more moist moist moist and moist. It's a word used as a description, why do people have problems with this word? I have heard so many people hate on moist and so few people express any kind of disdain for a horrible word like rape. Moist moves people to express themselves in reference to this inane and innocuous word. People are weird solo and in crowds.
I agree with Becky and Maggie, all milestones should be important to our friends, not just the typical heteronormative ones. My friend has been there for my wedding and baby shower, so I'm so excited to get her something now that she bought a house, that is such a big deal and a huge step, I want her to know I'm glad for her and here to support her.
My friend just graduated with her teaching degree and I plan on throwing her a “Teacher Shower” when she gets her own classroom! Everything should be celebrated!
This!! I literally lost a really good friend last year bc she stood me up in what was supposed to be my celebration for getting into grad school, when asking why I was mad she said “I don’t see it as that big of a deal” and it just crushed me
I agree and I would always buy a friend a housewarming present, especially if I am invited to a housewarming party, but I do not think creating a registry is the best idea because it can feel pushy.
@@s.a.4358I think that it is a great guidance because often I'm not sure what people need and what they already have. Also you don't know what will go with their interior and preferences. So it is better to have a list you can choose from rather than the person having five different blenders and three toasters at the end of the night that they really did not need. But I guess everyone is different in that regard.
The smut segments are always my favorite and it's all because of Becky. 🤣
31:00 Becky definitely *do* expose Henry to possible allergens! It prevents allergies! For example, The American Academy of Allergy, Asthma, and Immunology recommends introducing peanut butter at 6 months!
I think I agree with Becky. No gift required but if you wanna give a gift here’s what I need. Only time I kinda went ew at a registry was when they had huge big ticket items on them. I’m talking like sectionals. But as long as there are price points for ppl I think it’s super helpful
Bruh I remember being in a secret Santa where the MAX was $30. tell me why the person I drew asked for an apple pen and apple airpods like homie. No.
I say all milestones should be celebrated! Create the registry! Everyone else does for every point in their life, you just go for it
That housewarming registry idea is BRILLIANT, wish I'd had it! I actually did a 35th birthday party that I tried to bill as "equivalent to a wedding" as a queer solo polyam person. The invitations had a cute letter about how when I was a kid other kids would talk about weddings and kids and I just said I longed to be thirty-five. 😂 So I decided to make a whole thing of it: ordered food, did my best to make clear how super special it was for me and asked people to prioritize, offered to pay for flights and hotels.
It went well, and it was nice to be celebrated, but only half the folks I invited came (granted, a lot for me, I'm not a very successful host, but still feels lower than a typical wedding?) and it was happening right before a move so there was definitely a bit of a sense of "wow, I spent thousands of dollars on travel, food, and party favors, and now I have to pay to move across the country in a few weeks... this is a lot." A few people did offer small gifts, and I didn't NEED anything, but I did give away most of my belongings to partygoers (shipping wasn't really feasible, I basically took what I could fit in suitcases) and then had to fully furnish my new home and get all the kitchen supplies, etc., fresh. In retrospect I'm like "DAMN, I wonder if having a registry for that would've worked." Kudos to the person asking and I hope it goes well for you!!!! ❤
I love how Kimbop went right over to Becky❤ 😆
Becky laughing histerically over Matt reading smut 😂
Maggie playing with the dogs while Becky talks is everything😂❤
I only knew what a pearl necklace was because of Zach and Johnny 😂 they mentioned it during Zach’s book cake WAR
The whole smut section was so funny my stomach hurt so much from laughing 😂
WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT HOW THAT'S GLORBO'S ALIEN BOOK FROM PERFECT PERSON POD
You all look so good and glowing in this video and I feel very strong summer vibes from you. Loving it ☺
I would never arrive at a house warming empty handed!!! Honestly, a registry would be lovely so I can the owner something they love not something that'll sit around!!!
my registry would be like:
1. books
2. stationery
3. bags
4. floofy bed stuff
I say have a housewarming party and add a little link on the invite to the registry.
I heard that was how they trained the Disney princesses to wave. Hand hand, wrist wrist, touch your heart, blow a kiss.
Well, here in the Philippines.. we don’t have registry or its not common. So the wedding gifts are not required. Your presence is just fine. So its just a add on if you will have a wedding gift or sometimes guests would give cash as a gift.
Campari is great! I like mixing it with red grapefruit juice and gin. Play with the ratios to find what you like. If you want something a bit lighter and for the summer, try a mix with aperol instead. 1 part aperol, 1 part gin, 2 parts red grapefruit juice, and can optionally top off with soda water
This was such a good episode! Loved the pacing, the segments, the energy 💖
Make sure that if you use vinegar for cleaning, you don’t use it on natural stone countertops, electronics, hardwood floors, waxed furniture and aluminum and cast iron cookware! All of these things react negatively when encountering vinegar because of its acidity so make sure you don’t use it on these specific items! Do use it in laundry and to clean your bathtub and stuff, it’s perfect for that
Becky, just put a lock on your under the sink cabinet and keep the barkeeper’s friend in there! It’s always a draw to play with, but just contain all the chemicals in specific areas with child locks :)
I don’t want kids and my soulmate died before we could get married. Now I have to endure baby showers, bridal showers, bachelorettes, weddings, children’s birthdays, as well as friends/their partner’s birthdays. Meanwhile my first birthday after he’s gone will be the one I don’t want to celebrate because I’ll be turning the age he won’t get to turn two months later. Celebrate the jobs, celebrate the moves, heck, celebrate new pets.
I think a gift registry for non-traditional events is AWESOME! & while a well-deserved celebration, I’d consider it an unexpected expense which may not be in people’s budgets at first.
I think it’s important to remember that someone’s 100% effort may look different than another’s depending on location, finances, job, etc.
I have a lot of long distance friends & commuting to long distance friends almost always doubles the bill for me with big events!
Ok, but did no one notice the blanket over Skelly? Adorable silent host.
I also like putting a lil bit of vinegar in our laundry! Also what's this cleaning brush with detachable heads you guys are talking about?
Loving the lack of sponsor shoutouts!! ❤❤
On Miles’ podcast, he had a caller talk about ice planet barbarians. I’d HIGHLY recommend asking him to talk about it 😂 Super funny story about that book in an office situation. I forget the episode but it made me laugh
Random thought: those 2 dogs are so adorbs. Could be the mascot of this podcast. mhm 🐶
fav people and fav pod 🫶🏾
As a person who isn’t having kids, it’s a big bummer that despite opening my own business, my wedding was the greatest accomplishment thus far to family and friends. We received congrats & money from strangers in our families we’ve never even met upon getting married, yet relatives I DO know have never seen my salon or received services from me. I had to work to be a business owner, I’m sorry to say that anyone can get married. I happen to be in a really wonderful marriage but it’s not hard to find one that’s not.
You’re salty because not everyone you know has seen and been a client of your business? I don’t think that should ever been an obligation. I have plenty of friends who have their own business and I am supportive of them, but I don’t feel the obligation to use their business. Friendship and business transactions do not need to mix necessarily.
While I do partly agree with the person above about family not using ur services and whatnot by obligation, I believe it depends on the service you provide. You’re owning a salon so I assume hair trims, cuts, dyes, etc is included. I would give two scenarios: 1) They’ve never used your services, so they dk the extent of ur service, 2) they have this preconceived notion that your service wouldn’t be as good due to confirmation bias from your background etc.
If they were rational, they would have tried your services and formed an opinion based on that. But irrationality overtook.
Imo, if you’re supportive, I would at least try your services out. It’s not like it’s a niche market and a hair cut would be financially debilitating. Mixing business and relationships isn’t like that, more like theyre the feeders for your business and then as time goes on it can stabilize with a solid clientele; it’s economics 101 🤷🏿♀️. I just think it’s insensitive for @s.a.4358 to say it’s an not an “obligation”when support for a business is clearly monetary… or ig actively helping a business out, external factors such as promotional marketing etcetc
@@s.a.4358 I’m talking about very close family. I don’t expect everyone I know to support me 😅 Siblings and parents popping by to simply check it out would be nice. You’re right, no one owes me anything but supporting those closest to you for their accomplishments is kind of the bare minimum for a decent relationship and doesn’t always cost money.
@@breathingstill I actually do nails & have close relatives who don’t even share my business posts (but tell me in person how awesome they are) but felt close enough to me that they wanted to be entitled to wedding decisions. Just goofy, ya know? Idk, being a sensitive human is exhausting haha
I understand this dislike for Granche Blanc and chardonnay. For sparkling wines, it adds acidity so if Becky likes champagne--like real champagne--then she's fine with chardonnay or other similar whites in that format. It changes. Also, they add additional sugar and Becky loves sugar lol
Why do I miss Rachel so much rn??? RACHEL COME BAAAAACK PLS 😗
I had no idea you had to bring stuff to a spa...
27:08
Does anyone have an update on Emma? 🥺
Wait what happened with Emma?
@@awshucks79if I remember correctly they mentioned that one of the eyes had detached itself from the socket, she couldn’t see from that eye because of it. Haven’t really heard about her since. They often mention Pesto and Kimbop but not Emma. I hope she is okay 🥺
@@ohmisbotasitsangie that poor baby! Hope she's ok!
i know eugene posted an ad on instagram with her last month, hope she’s ok!!!🐾
Last time I saw Emma was in the Pet Psychic video last year. In that video Eugene said that she's elderly and blind.
Had no clue Becky was so anti-dog. 😢😢😢
I love that her & Keith are so passionately cat people - I finally feel seen & represented 😂
First comment 0:09 lol
Moist moist moist moister moistest more moist moist moist and moist. It's a word used as a description, why do people have problems with this word? I have heard so many people hate on moist and so few people express any kind of disdain for a horrible word like rape. Moist moves people to express themselves in reference to this inane and innocuous word. People are weird solo and in crowds.
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