Hi Logan my name is Chetan I was listening to your story I can certainly understand what you were going through I support you all the way through I am gay too when I came out to my parents two years ago it was very difficult very horrible nasty 🤢 they were my coming out story is horrible I can share it with you if interested nice to meet you
@@XavierLoganTH-cam❤🎉😮😅 Oi boa noite tudo bem com você você é um jovem muito bonito tem um sonho encantado o seu sorriso pode encantar o seu sorriso pode refazer uma pessoa renascer quer nascer uma pessoa que está triste para fazer ela sentir bem no caso ela vai te faltar viver porque você dá um sorriso para a pessoa no caso você fez o bem para você e o bem para outra pessoa castigo você carrega um cachinho do seu cabelo apresenta seu anjo o seu anjo é o que está dentro de você um anjo sorridente e um anjo que guarda um anjo que te protege o anjo que te guia e um anjo que te dá a mão para você subir qualquer desafio que você quiser subir no caso você quer subir numa ave e o anjo estava dando a mão para você para te fazer você subir o que você vai subir na árvore na árvore ele vai ter que botar lá em cima para você alcançar o seu objetivo no caso você vai colher as suas maçã e suas frutas os seus frutos você vai botar no seio vai ter vários frutos os frutos quando você colheu suas fotos no caso vai ter um esforço que vai tornar outro de ourono caso se você acredita se você planta seu esforço você vai colher e no caso eu surto pode se tornar ouro ou Prata no caso você pode encher a ter riqueza ou poder quando a pessoa tem alguma coisa que conseguia é porque você plantou suas frutas e sobre plantar e sobre poder no caso você fez uma colheita no caso no balaio torna um balaio de ouro e um balaio de ouro é um bala de dinheiro no caso você tem conseguiu dar o seu passo imperfeito tudo porque o que tá dentro da pessoa te conta o que tá na mente é o que conta o que torna você o que tá dentro de você de dentro para fora é isso que é importante você sabe falar muito bem a sua voz é muito bonita uma voz forte foto quer dizer que uma voz de guerreira você pode lutar para o que você quiser e você pode alcançar os seus objetivos do seu sonho como são os cachinhos cachimbo cachimbo que que tem esse poder não é por isso que quando eu clico no castigo agora é importante sim os cachinhos mostram a raiz mostra sua força mostre a sua capacidade mostra a sua proteção e mostra só o que tá lá de cima para baixo as suas origens o que tá ligado você já passadapor que cada um cada um uma vida humana na terra cada uma forma diferente e cada uma forma diferente o seu povo as suas orelhas também estão lá em cima no caso nós somos no caso nós estamos apresentando aquelas pessoas que estão lá em cima aquelas que foi antes da gente por isso que nós somos descendentes da casa das pessoas qual a diferença porque nós nascemos do fruto do pai e da mãe no caso foi de uma sementinha do amor não é no caso a semente do amor que vem a gente mas nós e o meu pai e meu pai ou sua mãe avião de outras pessoas no caso venha você dentro deles aí que tal explicação porque a explicação porque essa semente que vem e da semente que nasce uma gotinha com outra gotinha tanto da mulher tanto do homem no caso nasce uma semente de uma uma gotinha torna uma só e numa só na sua vidaó como é especial na vida como é que é e a ver a pessoa já distrai a vida de outra pessoa por isso faço bem para receber o bem tudo merece ser feliz merece ser amado e ser livre para amar e livre para se descobrir e se revelar o que está dentro de você com guarda-roupa abre para você aí você pode trocar a roupa que você quiser porque você é um bom ator e tem direito de sonhar e direito de viver e abrir a porta de azul a porta azul representa a paz pai da filha e pai do amor no caso você tá pronto para amar e pronto para se descobrir o que você desejar no teu coração com essa semente é ser plantada no teu coração
Why the 1970's was the disco sexual revolution era so I imagined it would not be so bad. Gay people are EVERYWHERE and being GAY was all the rage for the Greeks and Romans!
First of all you have beautiful eyes. I didn't come out until at the age of 20 yrs. old and in college. I messed around with my first guy at 15 but didn't like it. I dated girls from that age until 18 and started with guys again around that time. Come out is hard for some people but it was easy for me. I just told my grandparents first and than my mom and my dad didn't talk to me for three weeks. But all is good to this day.
Y'all have it hard. I didn't have to come out because I was never hiding anything. What you see was what you got. I'm bi and it was completely obvious. My mother disowned me but Idrc. I'm my own man so I'm good. Live your life bro. One love ❤❤
Watching these coming out videos feels like a sucker punch. I’m 80 and came out in the sixties to unconditional love from my Mennonite parents and have always known how lucky that was but it makes my heart ache to see these.
Hi your very barve of you to come out my name is Chetan I am gay too I support you all the way through my coming out story is horrible nasty 🤢 I came out two years ago to my parents they were very nasty horrible
The good thing about the LGBTQ+ community is that we can make our own family. There are sometimes where I don't feel comfortable being myself around certain people, but my friends are my ride or dies. Especially, the ones that have been there when I needed them the most. I consider them my family and am grateful to have them in my life. I would say create a stable friend group and confide in them.
Xavier, thanks for this video. Congrats on all your accomplishments in high-school and dance tournaments. I am in college in Maine. I have a final grade of an A for the semester. I went back to college two years ago. I could relate to most of the video. I got abused in 2019 and now I'm doing better.
Amazing... Idk what is more powerful, your courage or your smile! You are a leader in the making... thank you for letting us bare witness to your journey!
It was an absolute pleasure to interview you, it was a good conversation. Wishing you nothing but the best moving forward. When the struggles come your way always remember, tomorrow brings a new opportunity to rise above that which makes you uncomfortable or unhappy. Go get em.
Wow....I'm so surprised. I wouldn't have guessed that you had such life threatening challenges. How were you able to find the focus and discipline to accomplish so much despite such turmoil? I loved how you mentioned your little brother who loved you unconditionally.
Xavier You're A Bright Handsome Talented Young Man,Sorry You Had To Go Through All That Trauma,And So Forth,But I'm Glad You Overcame So Much and Are Still Here,And Prevailed,Keep Doing You As A Proud Gay Black Man,Like Myself,May More Good Things Come Your Way,Arthur.
It is a pleasure to meet you and hear your story! I'm glad you kept pushing forward and always do so. Always look out for YOU first everything else will follow into place. Keep moving forward and not backwards. As a 59 year old gay male it is sad and yet refreshing to hear young peoples experiences and thoughts.
You look nothing like what you’ve been through .. you carry yourself so happy and positive you’d think your parents accepted you from the beginning! Your energy and bravery is everything .. I’m so proud of you ❤️ your journey is amazing and I’m glad you saw the light and the end and that you’re comfortable in your skin 🙏🏾 just know we accept you and god accepts you too.. and i love you and your brothers relationship keep that tight bond with him and be that example for him 🖤
If they are really your family. I don't think they would hate you. Your true family will love you through anything whether that be blood family or not. As long as you are honest and true with your self you have done your job.
God bless you always Xavier. My advice to you is to take good care of yourself and make something of yourself. Reach as high as you can and never give up or allow anyone or anything to stand in your way. Follow your dreams and goals. Don’t waste your life and precious time. We only have one life to live. Time waits for no one. A big hug to you😉💯
Wow, you are such a handsome young man, life should be easier for you. Sorry you went through that. Live your life, follow your dreams, do what makes you happy. Hugs and kisses 🤗🤗💋💋
Xavier, I'm so happy for you and I wish you nothing but continued success! What I'm about to say to you, I hope you receive it with the LOVE that it is intended. As a younger person you were Lil' Ms Messy in training...STOP IT! Your life and who you are is your truth...everyone else has their place in time to realize their being. People will look at you and say "I can't trust you." The thing with your friend (hold his coat) and the principle's office (outing him) will not play well in the real world. Continue to evolve and be yourself and your soulmate will come. You will have friends who will gravitate towards you with their love and respect...don't violate their trust.
and this is why..I had to become a gay mother. I hated to see the pain and confusion of young gay boys/men trying to navigate their way through feelings everyone is telling them is wrong.
my family beat me too, bro. i've struggled with that for a long time. i have been suicidal twice. i hope your dad finds the strength to ask for your forgiveness. i hope, if he does, you find the strength to forgive him. i imagine all of that will take its own time to unfold. you are a good person. you don't deserve that. being exactly who you are is a blessing to all of us. we need you and we're so much better with you here.
Thank you my little brother. You explained your life and experiences in a powerful way and told the important details. You have a beautiful face and a beautiful way of expressing yourself. It was difficult to hear the part of your father when he initially became aware of your sexuality . . . It looked like it was hard for you to describe the event. I'm proud of you my little brother, and I'm so delighted that God made you in such a beautiful and amazing way.
I absolutely love you! You are an amazing young man and I am so proud of your conviction to live your life authentically! I'm a 64 year old white gay man and married to a black man! We've been together 23+ years and married 7+ years! I hope you find love in your life one day, because he will be the luckiest man to have someone like you in his life!
Your video is still current and speaking very loud!! And i'm talking from a point of view of a Black Transwoman. Who's proud who has Is accomplished a lot. And through the Grace of God!! Planned to continue.🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🇺🇲👍🏽🦾❤️😊
Welcome to the club, follow King 👑 ! I came out to my dad, who I knew was going to be supportive anyway, over the phone because I was going to meet a guy who I matched with on Tinder during my holiday in the US (I'm from Europe). The only thing I regret is that it was done over the phone and not in person 💀 but he's fine with it, and I've been with my boy for more then two years 😍 You're eyes are Hella pretty 😘
Your video popped up in my recommended. You have an amazing smile and very expressive eyes. Kudos to ur little brother for supporting you when you needed it the most. Glad things have gotten better for you. Best wishes for 2021, we could all use them after the year we've experienced!😥
I stumbled upon your story. Great message of inspiration and hope. I'm older than your parents. I applaud them for evolving and growing beyond their own insecurities. GOD has made no mistakes. I didn't "come out" until I was in my early 30s. I was reared in a military household where there was no outward display of emotions. Each family member represented the family when in the public's eye. I heard all of the negative homophobic statements within the forest of home. However, when I wrote a three-page letter to explain who I was to my parents, I received nothing but LOVE from them. "We accept you love you as you are!" I had to pause and think, "Who are you and where are my parents?" The most important lesson is to Love yourself and know yourself, at any age. GOD has made no mistakes in YOU, His Creation! I'm glad that I witnessed your story and saw your Excellence! Much admiration and respect from someone who has lived three sets of 18 years on this earth. I'm never too old to learn!
I just subscribed to your channel and I'm so glad I stopped to look at and listen to your story and I can't wait to see any more of your TH-cam video love you and God bless. 🥰💗💗🌹🏳️🌈🙏
What A great story, my heart goes out to U, I just came across your channel today & I'm glad I did. Great story U kept us engaged on the story & U the entire time. Man God bless U & I hope everything will get better 4 U & your family moving forward, sounds like their a lot of love in that house, I truly believe your family really loves U!!! Take care, & not let me see if I can get caught up on all your other videos, looks like it make take days or weeks, but I will watch. U don't have 2 rush into a relationship, UR fine by yourself. U will feel all the love U need of us your supporters, family & close friends. Get in and graduate college first, very bright future!
Damn bro i feel bad for the way i used to be in middle school. you prolly don’t remember me but i used to look at you sideways because you were gay. i was homophobic but i learned a lot now and i apologize for my actions. it prolly doesn’t matter now tho. im proud of ya keep up the good work👌🏽
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Thank you and honestly, i just try to support as many brands as I can that support a good cause. Now that you mention it, the shirt in this video was not the shirt I originally asked for. They stated that if I gave them my routing number for the package I would receive an additional special surprise, which i didn't receive. I tried to direct message them on instagram both about the additional surprise and how they gave me the incorrect shirt, but I received no response.
Here, may this wisdoms leads you to a better life for you and your loved ones:- "See the world not as it is, but as it should be." "Nobody should ever feel belittled for whoever they love". "Religion is about *PEACE* and *MERCY* of God." "When you get to God, He will never judge you based on your sexuality. He will judge and look at you, based on what type of a person you are." "God loves us beyond any and everything else, and that’s who we should love first." "You're entitled to love whoever you want to, the way that you want to, without the judgement of anyone else." "And in the sight of God, *KINDNESS* and *LOVE* are the highest priority."
Hello Xavier I'm so sorry your coming-out story was so traumatic but I'm so glad th🏳️🌈at you're still here and you're still strong and you are proud as you should be you need to live your life for you you can't live the life that your parents wanted this is your life I'm so glad you have your brother in your life God bless you sweetie and I love you take care .🏳️🌈🎭🌹🕺💗💗🥰
Wait...so is it reaaalllly reallly bad if I have sudical thought and maybe an attempt... because I’ve thought tht since I haven’t hurt myself to the point where I HAVE to go to the hospital, I’m good...plus it would be embarrassing to tell my family.
Honestly when coming out was fresh to me, I was thinking and doing the same way you are now. I wouldn't say it's necessarily good, but i'm not trying to normalize it and make it seem as though it is ok. Although suicidal thoughts can be normal for our generation, i would advise you to try as positive as you can and surround yourself with people that are positive as well! I hope, pray, and wish that you feel better! I hope this helped.
Its crazy cuz I felt like the same thing happened to me... I was talking to this boy who had a girlfriend (who was my friend but i didnt know they were dating) and he always called me late night and texted me telling me how he cant wait to show me off infront of the world... and One day my mom asked for my phone to make a call and he called and she declined... and he texted and was like “Damn bae, answer your phone”... and thats when she came screaming telling me that it isnt right... My family is very religious and even me I am a firm believer in God and even when I came out I prayed so much the only person I could really talk to was God... But she was like “it isnt in our blood to be gay, in the bible its says its wrong”... Then she blamed me dancing because she thought only girls danced and she kept asking “Were you raped or touched”... and I wasnt, I was just always.... DIFFERENT... She took me out of Dance and We didnt talk for like 4 months and that hurt me because I felt like she was one of my bestfriends... I didnt have anyone to talk to, not even any gay friends... So I was lonely and I spent that time Talking to God and really working on my relationship with him... When me and my mom talked it was hella emotional, but now Im trying to get back into Dance even tho its hard because I cant compete anymore but theres still so much that I can do, and Im trying to work Hard... And the boy I was talking to I told him that I needed a little break... and then i found out he was dating one of my friends so I ended that quickly and I ended up telling her during the summer and he lied and took it to Instagram and said “He was texting me on some faggot shit”.... Which im just like girl... you are too😂😂 But for me being Gay doesnt define me, just how a straight person doesnt need to tell the world “Hey, Im heterosexual” I dont need to do that either... If anyone asks, I’ll tell them... But other than that, You in my business? Dont do that😂 I still dont have any gay friends, but hopefully I get some... Im glad you are living in your truth and happy and glowing... Although we dont talk, you’re such a light and a GREAT person and I know we would click if we knew each other... You are by far one of the hardest working people I know, like you put your money where your mouth is... And I live for that
Other than my household and a few close family members... nobody knows that Im gay, its not really a secret.. but its like alot of my family would really hate me, if i told them
I'm very blessed that you felt that you could share this with me! I relate a lot to your story! I didn't have a lot of gay friends at first, but as time came so did they! I'm the type of person to be surrounded by people that push me to do and be better! Thank you so much for your kind words, if you have any questions don't be afraid to ask!
Sweetheart if ur family was ur family they wouldn’t need too sacrifice soo DNT worry abt tht. I’m soo sorry tht u had too go thru tht . I gave birth too a daughter first while in the 11th as a cheerleader 📣 I graduated at the top of my class raised my daughter 6YRS later I had her brother as they grew I deci wanted too go too college for MICROBIOLOGY GET MY (BSN) AND I DID BOTH MY KIDS WENT TOO COLLEGE AND 👩🏾🎓 👨🏾🎓 CUMLADE. I always said if my kids ever came too me and said mommy I’m gay or lesbian whtever I’m their mommy I except my kids no matter wht I love ❤️ my children unconditionally they didn’t ask too be here too be born this way like with trans ppl born with a brain 🧠 of a girl but body of a boy or Vice versa tht is a medical thing ppl. Although my kids are heterosexual I still would except my children regardless bc I wanted them not too keep no man but bc I wanted my blessings.sweetheart jus KNO God doesn’t make mistakes he 💕 loves us all he made us in his image his likeness soo sweetheart live ur truth as only u can jus KNO tht u are love ❤️ and cared for unconditionally bc I maynot KNO u but I care abt u unconditionally soo young man go live ur life live ur truth have fun be safe.
As a young black millennial male !! Bro I’m so proud of you.. you are the definition of black excellence 🖤🖤🖤🖤
Thank you so much❤️🙏🏽
Hi Logan my name is Chetan I was listening to your story I can certainly understand what you were going through I support you all the way through I am gay too when I came out to my parents two years ago it was very difficult very horrible nasty 🤢 they were my coming out story is horrible I can share it with you if interested nice to meet you
@@XavierLoganTH-cam❤🎉😮😅 Oi boa noite tudo bem com você você é um jovem muito bonito tem um sonho encantado o seu sorriso pode encantar o seu sorriso pode refazer uma pessoa renascer quer nascer uma pessoa que está triste para fazer ela sentir bem no caso ela vai te faltar viver porque você dá um sorriso para a pessoa no caso você fez o bem para você e o bem para outra pessoa castigo você carrega um cachinho do seu cabelo apresenta seu anjo o seu anjo é o que está dentro de você um anjo sorridente e um anjo que guarda um anjo que te protege o anjo que te guia e um anjo que te dá a mão para você subir qualquer desafio que você quiser subir no caso você quer subir numa ave e o anjo estava dando a mão para você para te fazer você subir o que você vai subir na árvore na árvore ele vai ter que botar lá em cima para você alcançar o seu objetivo no caso você vai colher as suas maçã e suas frutas os seus frutos você vai botar no seio vai ter vários frutos os frutos quando você colheu suas fotos no caso vai ter um esforço que vai tornar outro de ourono caso se você acredita se você planta seu esforço você vai colher e no caso eu surto pode se tornar ouro ou Prata no caso você pode encher a ter riqueza ou poder quando a pessoa tem alguma coisa que conseguia é porque você plantou suas frutas e sobre plantar e sobre poder no caso você fez uma colheita no caso no balaio torna um balaio de ouro e um balaio de ouro é um bala de dinheiro no caso você tem conseguiu dar o seu passo imperfeito tudo porque o que tá dentro da pessoa te conta o que tá na mente é o que conta o que torna você o que tá dentro de você de dentro para fora é isso que é importante você sabe falar muito bem a sua voz é muito bonita uma voz forte foto quer dizer que uma voz de guerreira você pode lutar para o que você quiser e você pode alcançar os seus objetivos do seu sonho como são os cachinhos cachimbo cachimbo que que tem esse poder não é por isso que quando eu clico no castigo agora é importante sim os cachinhos mostram a raiz mostra sua força mostre a sua capacidade mostra a sua proteção e mostra só o que tá lá de cima para baixo as suas origens o que tá ligado você já passadapor que cada um cada um uma vida humana na terra cada uma forma diferente e cada uma forma diferente o seu povo as suas orelhas também estão lá em cima no caso nós somos no caso nós estamos apresentando aquelas pessoas que estão lá em cima aquelas que foi antes da gente por isso que nós somos descendentes da casa das pessoas qual a diferença porque nós nascemos do fruto do pai e da mãe no caso foi de uma sementinha do amor não é no caso a semente do amor que vem a gente mas nós e o meu pai e meu pai ou sua mãe avião de outras pessoas no caso venha você dentro deles aí que tal explicação porque a explicação porque essa semente que vem e da semente que nasce uma gotinha com outra gotinha tanto da mulher tanto do homem no caso nasce uma semente de uma uma gotinha torna uma só e numa só na sua vidaó como é especial na vida como é que é e a ver a pessoa já distrai a vida de outra pessoa por isso faço bem para receber o bem tudo merece ser feliz merece ser amado e ser livre para amar e livre para se descobrir e se revelar o que está dentro de você com guarda-roupa abre para você aí você pode trocar a roupa que você quiser porque você é um bom ator e tem direito de sonhar e direito de viver e abrir a porta de azul a porta azul representa a paz pai da filha e pai do amor no caso você tá pronto para amar e pronto para se descobrir o que você desejar no teu coração com essa semente é ser plantada no teu coração
i came out in 1970. can you imagine what reactions i got from family and the community
Why the 1970's was the disco sexual revolution era so I imagined it would not be so bad. Gay people are EVERYWHERE and being GAY was all the rage for the Greeks and Romans!
I've already told you this but I'm super proud of you. I love you nephew. 🥰
Thank you so much T-Wood! I love you too!
First of all you have beautiful eyes. I didn't come out until at the age of 20 yrs. old and in college. I messed around with my first guy at 15 but didn't like it. I dated girls from that age until 18 and started with guys again around that time. Come out is hard for some people but it was easy for me. I just told my grandparents first and than my mom and my dad didn't talk to me for three weeks. But all is good to this day.
I came out when I was 16 (7 years ago)! Proud of you for living your truth! ❤️
Thank you!
I came out to my dad over this quarantine and it was the best decision i made
I'm very happy for you!
Y'all have it hard. I didn't have to come out because I was never hiding anything. What you see was what you got. I'm bi and it was completely obvious. My mother disowned me but Idrc. I'm my own man so I'm good. Live your life bro. One love ❤❤
I'm so sorry to hear that your mother disowned you! I hope and wish nothing but success for you!
@@XavierLoganTH-cam likewise pal
Watching these coming out videos feels like a sucker punch. I’m 80 and came out in the sixties to unconditional love from my Mennonite parents and have always known how lucky that was but it makes my heart ache to see these.
You are going to go a long way with a great career !
Thank you 🙌🏽❤️
Hi your very barve of you to come out my name is Chetan I am gay too I support you all the way through my coming out story is horrible nasty 🤢 I came out two years ago to my parents they were very nasty horrible
Your story are so sad but, thank God he brought you out. God bless you. Be safe.
Thank you so much for your kind words❤️🙏🏽
I came out a month ago sh*t still feels weird I can’t be myself around my family
The good thing about the LGBTQ+ community is that we can make our own family. There are sometimes where I don't feel comfortable being myself around certain people, but my friends are my ride or dies. Especially, the ones that have been there when I needed them the most. I consider them my family and am grateful to have them in my life. I would say create a stable friend group and confide in them.
@@XavierLoganTH-cam thx for the advice really a inspiration 🥺💖
@@stantwitterwho4238 your welcome, glad i can help.
Xavier, thanks for this video. Congrats on all your accomplishments in high-school and dance tournaments. I am in college in Maine. I have a final grade of an A for the semester. I went back to college two years ago. I could relate to most of the video. I got abused in 2019 and now I'm doing better.
Amazing... Idk what is more powerful, your courage or your smile! You are a leader in the making... thank you for letting us bare witness to your journey!
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️🙏🏽
It was an absolute pleasure to interview you, it was a good conversation. Wishing you nothing but the best moving forward. When the struggles come your way always remember, tomorrow brings a new opportunity to rise above that which makes you uncomfortable or unhappy. Go get em.
Thank you again for having me!
Wow....I'm so surprised. I wouldn't have guessed that you had such life threatening challenges. How were you able to find the focus and discipline to accomplish so much despite such turmoil? I loved how you mentioned your little brother who loved you unconditionally.
Thank you so much for your kind words! And the only word I can use to answer your question is dance! ❤️
Xavier You're A Bright Handsome Talented Young Man,Sorry You Had To Go Through All That Trauma,And So Forth,But I'm Glad You Overcame So Much and Are Still Here,And Prevailed,Keep Doing You As A Proud Gay Black Man,Like Myself,May More Good Things Come Your Way,Arthur.
It is a pleasure to meet you and hear your story! I'm glad you kept pushing forward and always do so. Always look out for YOU first everything else will follow into place. Keep moving forward and not backwards. As a 59 year old gay male it is sad and yet refreshing to hear young peoples experiences and thoughts.
You look nothing like what you’ve been through .. you carry yourself so happy and positive you’d think your parents accepted you from the beginning! Your energy and bravery is everything .. I’m so proud of you ❤️ your journey is amazing and I’m glad you saw the light and the end and that you’re comfortable in your skin 🙏🏾 just know we accept you and god accepts you too.. and i love you and your brothers relationship keep that tight bond with him and be that example for him 🖤
Thank you so much for your kind words!
even though my religion doesnt allow it i support you and anyone else from the lgbt+ community ❤️
❤️🤞🏽
So glad you made the choice to live. You are a gift and inspiration to us all.
Thank you so much for your kind words❤️🙏🏽
You are amazing. A great toll model for youth. Embrace who you are. Have a great future!!!!❤
I wanna come out so bad but I don’t want my family to hate me more then they already do
If they are really your family. I don't think they would hate you. Your true family will love you through anything whether that be blood family or not. As long as you are honest and true with your self you have done your job.
God bless you always Xavier. My advice to you is to take good care of yourself and make something of yourself. Reach as high as you can and never give up or allow anyone or anything to stand in your way. Follow your dreams and goals. Don’t waste your life and precious time. We only have one life to live. Time waits for no one. A big hug to you😉💯
Wow, you are such a handsome young man, life should be easier for you. Sorry you went through that. Live your life, follow your dreams, do what makes you happy. Hugs and kisses 🤗🤗💋💋
Thank you ❤️🙏🏽
@@XavierLoganTH-cam ❤❤❤❤
Xavier, I'm so happy for you and I wish you nothing but continued success! What I'm about to say to you, I hope you receive it with the LOVE that it is intended. As a younger person you were Lil' Ms Messy in training...STOP IT! Your life and who you are is your truth...everyone else has their place in time to realize their being. People will look at you and say "I can't trust you." The thing with your friend (hold his coat) and the principle's office (outing him) will not play well in the real world. Continue to evolve and be yourself and your soulmate will come. You will have friends who will gravitate towards you with their love and respect...don't violate their trust.
and this is why..I had to become a gay mother. I hated to see the pain and confusion of young gay boys/men trying to navigate their way through feelings everyone is telling them is wrong.
my family beat me too, bro. i've struggled with that for a long time. i have been suicidal twice. i hope your dad finds the strength to ask for your forgiveness. i hope, if he does, you find the strength to forgive him. i imagine all of that will take its own time to unfold. you are a good person. you don't deserve that. being exactly who you are is a blessing to all of us. we need you and we're so much better with you here.
Thank you so much for your kind words, this really meant a lot!❤️
Thank you my little brother. You explained your life and experiences in a powerful way and told the important details. You have a beautiful face and a beautiful way of expressing yourself. It was difficult to hear the part of your father when he initially became aware of your sexuality . . . It looked like it was hard for you to describe the event. I'm proud of you my little brother, and I'm so delighted that God made you in such a beautiful and amazing way.
I absolutely love you! You are an amazing young man and I am so proud of your conviction to live your life authentically! I'm a 64 year old white gay man and married to a black man! We've been together 23+ years and married 7+ years! I hope you find love in your life one day, because he will be the luckiest man to have someone like you in his life!
Thank you so much for your kind words❤️ it really means a lot!
Your video is still current and speaking very loud!! And i'm talking from a point of view of a Black Transwoman. Who's proud who has Is accomplished a lot. And through the Grace of God!! Planned to continue.🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🇺🇲👍🏽🦾❤️😊
Welcome to the club, follow King 👑 ! I came out to my dad, who I knew was going to be supportive anyway, over the phone because I was going to meet a guy who I matched with on Tinder during my holiday in the US (I'm from Europe). The only thing I regret is that it was done over the phone and not in person 💀 but he's fine with it, and I've been with my boy for more then two years 😍
You're eyes are Hella pretty 😘
Thank you❤️🙏🏽
Your video popped up in my recommended. You have an amazing smile and very expressive eyes. Kudos to ur little brother for supporting you when you needed it the most. Glad things have gotten better for you. Best wishes for 2021, we could all use them after the year we've experienced!😥
Thank you so much for your kind words! Best wishes to you too🖤
@@XavierLoganTH-cam Cool first name by the way. Not one that you hear used very often!😊
i'm thrilled for your scholarships.
now, that you deserve.
Thank you
As an educator, I feel like a bunch of stuff is going on that I am CLUELESS about!!!
Your coming out was the most intense so far, I felt your situation, I only came out to who I was fucking fuck everyone else
Hey u are so handsome and I live the same thing ... its awful
Thank you! And i'm sorry to hear that you went through the same thing that I went through!
Thanks for sharing. YOU ARE A STRONG BROTHA. I support you 1000 percent. Looking ahead for more from you.
Your eyes are so cute 😍.
Thank you❤️🙏🏽
Thank you Xavier for this video. This will save lives. As a psychologist, I am grateful for your wisdom and courage. Peace.........Ray
HI FRIEND , I WANNA SAY THIS , BE PROUD OF YOURSELF , Marijke Delwel , The Netherlands.
I’m totally going through what you went through rn and I have lil bro too...Thank you for this video Xavier!🙏🏽❤️
Of course ❤️🤞🏽 no problem
I stumbled upon your story. Great message of inspiration and hope. I'm older than your parents. I applaud them for evolving and growing beyond their own insecurities. GOD has made no mistakes. I didn't "come out" until I was in my early 30s. I was reared in a military household where there was no outward display of emotions. Each family member represented the family when in the public's eye. I heard all of the negative homophobic statements within the forest of home. However, when I wrote a three-page letter to explain who I was to my parents, I received nothing but LOVE from them. "We accept you love you as you are!" I had to pause and think, "Who are you and where are my parents?" The most important lesson is to Love yourself and know yourself, at any age. GOD has made no mistakes in YOU, His Creation! I'm glad that I witnessed your story and saw your Excellence! Much admiration and respect from someone who has lived three sets of 18 years on this earth. I'm never too old to learn!
Honestly there's nothing hotter to me than a black guy with blue eyes!
One thing about it Xavier those gay feeling never go away no matter how hard you fight it bruh I know!
I couldn't have said it better!
@@XavierLoganTH-cam I know you know I wonder bruh why we have these gay feelings man!
@@jaylow396It is genetic, apart of our DNA so it cannot be changed. Your behavior is a choice, your attractions certainly are not.
Both your parents seem mean. I am glad that you have a kind little brother
You made me cry. 😢
Well, I’m happy for you. ❤️
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ You are worth of anything as you are! No one can not and May not judge You!!! You are loved one! ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I just subscribed to your channel and I'm so glad I stopped to look at and listen to your story and I can't wait to see any more of your TH-cam video love you and God bless. 🥰💗💗🌹🏳️🌈🙏
What A great story, my heart goes out to U, I just came across your channel today & I'm glad I did. Great story U kept us engaged on the story & U the entire time. Man God bless U & I hope everything will get better 4 U & your family moving forward, sounds like their a lot of love in that house, I truly believe your family really loves U!!! Take care, & not let me see if I can get caught up on all your other videos, looks like it make take days or weeks, but I will watch. U don't have 2 rush into a relationship, UR fine by yourself. U will feel all the love U need of us your supporters, family & close friends. Get in and graduate college first, very bright future!
Thank you so much! Your kind words mean a lot!❤️
@@XavierLoganTH-cam U R so welcome God bless U man!
@@755johnboy god bless you too❤️
@@XavierLoganTH-cam Thank You!
Damn bro i feel bad for the way i used to be in middle school. you prolly don’t remember me but i used to look at you sideways because you were gay. i was homophobic but i learned a lot now and i apologize for my actions. it prolly doesn’t matter now tho. im proud of ya keep up the good work👌🏽
Hey Jeffrey, I remember you! Thank you for this message it means a lot! Hope you are doing well!
Can you do a video of you n your brother about his coming out if you don’t mind
Yes ofc, I was just thinking about it!
I love you
I love you too!
Really excellent video keep it coming
So cute ❤ and very. Brave to come out. So sad here for u in support
There’s only a coming out story to be engaged. You never hear about coming out to drugs, coming out to anything else.
Mid-way into your video we had to subscribe. ctfu.. You have an amazing personality and you are really funny naturally.
Our heart goes out to you for what you had to go through when you came out.
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️🙏🏽
Recommending a new eye-opening, thought-provoking and enlightening autobiography of a proud to be gay author titled: Saved by the Light of the Buddha Within... (Amazon Books)
Your eyes... Dammmnnn😮😮😮
Im so sorry you went through all this ...... a lot of people are saying the brand your endorsing is a scam what was experiencing with them
Thank you and honestly, i just try to support as many brands as I can that support a good cause. Now that you mention it, the shirt in this video was not the shirt I originally asked for. They stated that if I gave them my routing number for the package I would receive an additional special surprise, which i didn't receive. I tried to direct message them on instagram both about the additional surprise and how they gave me the incorrect shirt, but I received no response.
God Bless Isiah! God Bless You!
Thank you! God bless you too!
You are truly gifted.
I hope you've made it through all this. No kid should ever have to live with that kind of cruelty.
GAY OR STRAIGHT...YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL :)
Proud of you! Great video! You should NOT have outed your boyfriend he could be going thru something at home and school also.. Much love.
Oh poor you. Your Dad seems really mean. I had abusive foster family that beat me really badly
Thanks very much for the upload.
Your eyes & teeth 💎
Thank you!
Great story...heartfelt....wow
thank you!
Your eyes are so blue 💙🔵
im so late here bro much love 2 you its crazy that the people are so fake
Better late then never lol and thank you so much ❤️🙏🏽
When your love is conditional, then you don't need to be having children, you should also not be surprised if your kids love is conditional 🤷
Congratulations keep your head up
Thank you!
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this is so relatable
You have really beautiful eyes.
Thank you❤️
*THE EYES.*
❤️❤️ loved this video
Awesome well done. Congratulations 🎉
Here, may this wisdoms leads you to a better life for you and your loved ones:-
"See the world not as it is, but as it should be."
"Nobody should ever feel belittled for whoever they love".
"Religion is about *PEACE* and *MERCY* of God."
"When you get to God, He will never judge you based on your sexuality. He will judge and look at you, based on what type of a person you are."
"God loves us beyond any and everything else, and that’s who we should love first."
"You're entitled to love whoever you want to, the way that you want to, without the judgement of anyone else."
"And in the sight of God, *KINDNESS* and *LOVE* are the highest priority."
That’s good if your family accepts you know
Hello Xavier I'm so sorry your coming-out story was so traumatic but I'm so glad th🏳️🌈at you're still here and you're still strong and you are proud as you should be you need to live your life for you you can't live the life that your parents wanted this is your life I'm so glad you have your brother in your life God bless you sweetie and I love you take care .🏳️🌈🎭🌹🕺💗💗🥰
xavy baby you are incredible. i love & miss you
ELLIE!!! Thank You! I love and miss you so much!
God Loves You
Wow cool very cool. I would love to dance
Do powerful love it bro ❤
Thank You.
Wait...so is it reaaalllly reallly bad if I have sudical thought and maybe an attempt... because I’ve thought tht since I haven’t hurt myself to the point where I HAVE to go to the hospital, I’m good...plus it would be embarrassing to tell my family.
Honestly when coming out was fresh to me, I was thinking and doing the same way you are now. I wouldn't say it's necessarily good, but i'm not trying to normalize it and make it seem as though it is ok. Although suicidal thoughts can be normal for our generation, i would advise you to try as positive as you can and surround yourself with people that are positive as well! I hope, pray, and wish that you feel better! I hope this helped.
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I like your 😃 smile
Its crazy cuz I felt like the same thing happened to me... I was talking to this boy who had a girlfriend (who was my friend but i didnt know they were dating) and he always called me late night and texted me telling me how he cant wait to show me off infront of the world... and One day my mom asked for my phone to make a call and he called and she declined... and he texted and was like “Damn bae, answer your phone”... and thats when she came screaming telling me that it isnt right... My family is very religious and even me I am a firm believer in God and even when I came out I prayed so much the only person I could really talk to was God... But she was like “it isnt in our blood to be gay, in the bible its says its wrong”... Then she blamed me dancing because she thought only girls danced and she kept asking “Were you raped or touched”... and I wasnt, I was just always.... DIFFERENT... She took me out of Dance and We didnt talk for like 4 months and that hurt me because I felt like she was one of my bestfriends... I didnt have anyone to talk to, not even any gay friends... So I was lonely and I spent that time Talking to God and really working on my relationship with him... When me and my mom talked it was hella emotional, but now Im trying to get back into Dance even tho its hard because I cant compete anymore but theres still so much that I can do, and Im trying to work Hard... And the boy I was talking to I told him that I needed a little break... and then i found out he was dating one of my friends so I ended that quickly and I ended up telling her during the summer and he lied and took it to Instagram and said “He was texting me on some faggot shit”.... Which im just like girl... you are too😂😂 But for me being Gay doesnt define me, just how a straight person doesnt need to tell the world “Hey, Im heterosexual” I dont need to do that either... If anyone asks, I’ll tell them... But other than that, You in my business? Dont do that😂 I still dont have any gay friends, but hopefully I get some... Im glad you are living in your truth and happy and glowing... Although we dont talk, you’re such a light and a GREAT person and I know we would click if we knew each other... You are by far one of the hardest working people I know, like you put your money where your mouth is... And I live for that
Other than my household and a few close family members... nobody knows that Im gay, its not really a secret.. but its like alot of my family would really hate me, if i told them
I'm very blessed that you felt that you could share this with me! I relate a lot to your story! I didn't have a lot of gay friends at first, but as time came so did they! I'm the type of person to be surrounded by people that push me to do and be better! Thank you so much for your kind words, if you have any questions don't be afraid to ask!
You’re beautiful And cute ☺️
Thank you ❤️🙏🏽
Buy you lunch on me 😍😋😍😘😘😘
Bring your little Brother on the video.
You are so beautiful thank you for being you ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Xavier very handsome
Thank you!
Welcome
Teeth on 10 ‼️‼️‼️
Thank you
Well done good vid xXx
god bless you dear
Thank you! God bless you too!
Hi you are the most beautiful and gorgeous guy I've ever seen. ❤
Thank you 🤍
🥰🥰🥰
Sweetheart if ur family was ur family they wouldn’t need too sacrifice soo DNT worry abt tht. I’m soo sorry tht u had too go thru tht . I gave birth too a daughter first while in the 11th as a cheerleader 📣 I graduated at the top of my class raised my daughter 6YRS later I had her brother as they grew I deci wanted too go too college for MICROBIOLOGY GET MY (BSN) AND I DID BOTH MY KIDS WENT TOO COLLEGE AND 👩🏾🎓 👨🏾🎓 CUMLADE. I always said if my kids ever came too me and said mommy I’m gay or lesbian whtever I’m their mommy I except my kids no matter wht I love ❤️ my children unconditionally they didn’t ask too be here too be born this way like with trans ppl born with a brain 🧠 of a girl but body of a boy or Vice versa tht is a medical thing ppl. Although my kids are heterosexual I still would except my children regardless bc I wanted them not too keep no man but bc I wanted my blessings.sweetheart jus KNO God doesn’t make mistakes he 💕 loves us all he made us in his image his likeness soo sweetheart live ur truth as only u can jus KNO tht u are love ❤️ and cared for unconditionally bc I maynot KNO u but I care abt u unconditionally soo young man go live ur life live ur truth have fun be safe.
Thank you so much for this message! It meant so much to hear these words! Wish you the best! Thank you💞