i wish that these kinds of conventions be held in my countery, i am Somali and i currently live in Hargeisa and we are all muslims 100% but we still have the same kind of problems with mareige (plus its really expensive to get married here, am sorry for the poor guys!) but this could really help us unmarried people
They are many amazing Somali sheikhs that give lectures in both Somalia and Kenya maybe you can ask them after all they are also sheikhs who studied Islam and it’s rulings
I was hooked till the end...it was so interesting, informative with all the light humour in between and most importantly I got my answers to alot of my own questions even after getting married...jazzak Allah
Just amazing !!!! Our youth needs this . Everything was perfect but omar suleiman was excellent Starting from 1:00 when he mentioned the rights of the parents and how to care fir them Really v good !!!!
We need lectures like this through out the year, I live a so called "muslim" community in northern Iraq we have lots of problems in Islam and they don't listen to the imams here as they tend to start with a threatening messages from the Quran rather than explaining what Allah meant by every word. I wish that you great knowledgeable people could pay us a visit inshallah to open the eyes around here.
Same here in algeria, people ignore the true teachings of Islam and only use remember Islam to tell someone else ' Allah will punish you' while ignoring their own sins. May Allah guide our ummah, we're so lost.
MashaAllah,,,,always beneficial every time i come back watching this,,,, may Allah swt keeps people like them in every generation to remind us about the beauty of our religion n to always come back to Allah...Aamiin ya Rabbal
I believe pre marital workshop/ seminar/islamic guidance must be a pre-requisite before an imam do a niqah....pre-requisite maybe is a tough word but men and women must have a form of education before getting married
Yes, of course. And those trained people must give a form of a booklet thingy that people can bring home. And everything must be completely referenced (from Qur'an, hadith, sunnah, seerah, shariah). Everything must be contextualised and referenced.
Jazak Allah Kheir for this lovely lecture. I thank you for pointing out the 'Fatiha' before Nikah. This is a custom that a lot of people use as an Islamic Engagement before marriage. Another delicate subject which I would like you to bring up is the "Mahr". It seems that no one really know what it is and how to apply it. If you can I would like to see a lecture on the "Mahr" or "Saddaq" of its correct rulings and regulations. Here in Australia, nearly all the sisters are ripped off, never given their Mahar and they record the amount of Mahar on the Nikah paper that the sisters have received the amount but in reality the sisters have not received one cents. If in case of the husband gives the sister Talaaq, he then does not give her the Talaaq, he try to make her ask for a Khul in order to get the mahar that was written on the nikah paper. This is a huge problem here, basically most brothers and sister do nikah with out any mahar. Also the divorce rate here in Australia for the Muslim Community is rising very very high. Jazak Allah Kheir may Allah reward you all for the beautiful and informative lectures.
Athanasia Tzakostas wa iyyakom. Beraka Allahu fikom for your comment. Yes, I think you made a point. There is not a lot of lectures about the subjectif. However I thunk that these problems are related to tve trustwortheness of the brother. All these issues should not exist if we all look respect the marriage engagement. Salam.
I respect all of your beliefs, but i do think it is sad that certain religions restrict marriage outside of them. It is almost as if they don't trust themselves. Not every single non-Muslim would want to "deconvert" you, or force you to go against your own path to piety in the way you see fit. As we know not every single muslim thinks and practices Islam in the same way. I find some of the reasons why, to understand that marrage in an islamic sense goes beyond our everyday conceptions of love, and that sometimes we love blindly without hindsight, so to make such rash decisions on the basis of those feelings may be unwise and advise caution, to be somewhat reasonable. But what makes you think that only Muslim spouses can instill those values and think in those ways? I only want dialogue, not conflict. May peace be upon you all, from an atheist.
Thanks for your comment. I appreciate what you wrote and the way you wrote it. Thanks you. I think a scholar could answer you better than I can but I can give my opinion if I am able to. I agree with you that these kind of rules can be interpreted as a lack of trust on our believes, and I actually don't think that it is a shame to say or admit that. Islam (or other religions) is one, but muslims are many. Of course there is a lot of muslims that are not very firm in their believes/faith, not all humains have a critical thinking and tried to work on the "why am I muslim?" ... but Islam takes care even of those "believers". I think that God's rules were revealed to protect all humains from what can harm them (as individuals AND societies). Whether we like it or not, differences exist between people (similarities are much more numerous!). And not every couple can handle those differences specially when there is kids in between. Differences in the way we see education, love, life/death ... etc can be taken as interesting discussion's subjects OR conflicts sadly :/ I personally saw a lot of very happy and respectful couples that share a lot more than others that just share the name of the religion they think they are following. I just honestly wish happiness, prosperity and guidance to all of us :) not matter what is our religion. Peace!
The thing is.. In Islam, to be a good muslim our focus isnt just what we have in this world, but more about what we'll get in the hereafter. So marriage in Islam has to be inside the worship frame. It has to be done according God's rule. And it has to be carried on according to God's rule in lots of aspects, from having sex to having a child, raising a child, managing the family, issues with in laws, having a divorce, all of it are somehow regulated. So imagine to have a spouse if different faith, how can a muslim apply those rules n regulations if your partner isnt on the same vision and believe with you? But its not that we muslims dont experience love n happiness either in our marriage. We do. Only its more of like a fruit of the marriage. The marriage itself is more for our contenment. This is what I understand about marriage in Islam.
How can someone marry a person who is not believing in what you believe in? For a practicing muslim whose life revolves around believing in Allaah marry an atheist. This is only Hollywood version of love.
#Muslims_Logic #Why_Muslims_call_jesus_a_prophet we believe in Jesus as a prophet of Allah...🙄🙄 And listen we said the word "prophet "... although this word has a deep meaning...you don't know may be 😐 although to us Jesus is a prophet sent by Allah...he was special human... everybody won't believe your Jesus ( our Isha alaihi wassalam) as a prophet... ( sorry but it's true ) so Allah gave him some special powers so that people could understand him as a prophet bcz that time people were so dumb to understand...Then you like people thought him as a god 😬😬😬😬....he was special obviously as he is prophet... although everybody can't be a prophet...if Jesus is god I think he doesn't need to born to come in the world..like he has mother Mariam...Why should the creator be born from his own creation? Everything is his creation ... so why does he have to fight so hard with his own bad creations to save his own good creations? Are u saying your God Jesus tortured by his own bad creatures ( bad humans ) like how ? 😂😂 Jesus struggled because he is a prophet...he had to do....plz dear...ask yourself...give me a logic/statement...why god would do struggle ? Why ??? Listen God (Allah ) is invisible... No one sees him...you believe that wind exists...but its still invisible to you... that's how Allah exits....think in a logical way...now don't say Jesus love his own creations that's why he came to the world to suffer🐸🐸🐸 he is a prophet... that's why he need to struggle for the truth that Allah exists...you should believe in Jesus as a prophet not as a god...😐 You can love him, respect him alright...how can he be god ?? I found no logic 😪😪😪 we have logics in everything...this video is the proof 😊😊 hope you got it... Just don't give me any lesson about Jesus...😊😊 I know myself...I believe in logic 😊😊 I have my logics, actually we have our logic...Jesus is a prophet 😃😃 at the moment of die we all will believe that ✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻 thanks! Now don't attack me....my opinion,my logic...your life your choice...go on brother..hope for the good If you are really good religious person...then don't attack me.. that's all my opinion my logics..your thought can be different, alright...!!! We are not same although... that's simple..I didn't attack...I just simply shared my logics...😽😼❤️ And yes...ask yourself that Bible is even real... it's man creation... Quran is from Allah...it has so many proofs and deep meaning... scientist even didn't find any wrong of the Quran 😊 in every Quran rules about physically prohibited matter were scientifically proved that these are bad for health 😏 even everything can scientifically proved...scientists use Quran to know the deep meaning of the words so that they can know more and do research....its 100% true! in Quran everything is logically said that's how the imams of Muslims can do explain fluently like this video 😊😊 not only this...there are too many... Actually we believe in logic 😏😏😏 now don't attack me without giving logics...if u don't wanna find to know...then don't talk bullshit like freaks crazy jerk people 🙂 first do research then say...🙂 don't say anything bad without knowing islams moral.. Wanna see some Muslims 😊😊 hi everyone
okay the firsst story, i have heard from someone else as well lol similar exact word to word, that imagine her as a mother of your child ,, I heard it from someone else lol,, dont know who copied whom
I think charging for matrimonial service is absurd. Muslims should help one another. A specialy where there is single sister looking for marriage. Create free web so evrebody can loom for themselves. Learn from cristians and hiw they are united.
To Nouman Ali Khan Please watch (Crisis of marrying outside the faith by Shaykh Yasir Qadhi So would you rather give advise that a girl not marry a boy who makes 5 times a day salaah but has no college education or should she marry atheist...be careful of your advise !!!
This was exactly 10 year back time is flying.
i wish that these kinds of conventions be held in my countery, i am Somali and i currently live in Hargeisa and we are all muslims 100% but we still have the same kind of problems with mareige (plus its really expensive to get married here, am sorry for the poor guys!) but this could really help us unmarried people
They are many amazing Somali sheikhs that give lectures in both Somalia and Kenya maybe you can ask them after all they are also sheikhs who studied Islam and it’s rulings
I'm happy for seeing guys my somali siblings
May Allah make it easy for the poor guys
I was hooked till the end...it was so interesting, informative with all the light humour in between and most importantly I got my answers to alot of my own questions even after getting married...jazzak Allah
Al hamdu li Allah. Allahuma barek lakuma sister. Wa iyyaki :)
Really!
Jazakumullah u khair!
Best trio ever ❤
Just amazing !!!! Our youth needs this .
Everything was perfect but omar suleiman was excellent
Starting from 1:00 when he mentioned the rights of the parents and how to care fir them
Really v good !!!!
Amazing and very informative, may allah bless you all
Amin ya Rab! Glad that it is useful :) peace!
Kudos to that small kid that gathering the questions. Thanks
Loved this.
We need lectures like this through out the year, I live a so called "muslim" community in northern Iraq we have lots of problems in Islam and they don't listen to the imams here as they tend to start with a threatening messages from the Quran rather than explaining what Allah meant by every word. I wish that you great knowledgeable people could pay us a visit inshallah to open the eyes around here.
This is not the case in Iraq only sadly. May Allah grant us all knowledge, hikmah and ease.
@@MKLabKun Aameen
Same here in algeria, people ignore the true teachings of Islam and only use remember Islam to tell someone else ' Allah will punish you' while ignoring their own sins. May Allah guide our ummah, we're so lost.
Masha Allah
Awesome session
Jazakum Allah khayran
Masha Allah. May Allah give all of us Hidayah and may Allah make all the Muslims unite themselves and contribute to society.
Omar Sulaiman Ma Sha Allah wise words
Marvelous
Mashallah I didn't know that ustadh Nouman speaks urdu completely...OMG .
He is a Pakistani. He has some very good urdu videos on TH-cam. Really good
@@mariammurad2376 I didn't know THEN but I know now. Even he himself said "ya! I speak it ..I speak it..ya!." 😄
Saad Tasleem, your this speech is very practical and would good to be dubbed in 🇧🇩 Bangla.
MashaAllah,,,,always beneficial every time i come back watching this,,,, may Allah swt keeps people like them in every generation to remind us about the beauty of our religion n to always come back to Allah...Aamiin ya Rabbal
I believe pre marital workshop/ seminar/islamic guidance must be a pre-requisite before an imam do a niqah....pre-requisite maybe is a tough word but men and women must have a form of education before getting married
I totally agree. But first we need people trained to do so.
Yes, of course. And those trained people must give a form of a booklet thingy that people can bring home. And everything must be completely referenced (from Qur'an, hadith, sunnah, seerah, shariah). Everything must be contextualised and referenced.
Definitely! I hope this will become true. May Allah guide us all :)
Ameen
this was great very helpful specially to us young people. But we do need the urdu version of fo desi people and parents please make one! jazakAllah
May Allah SWT protect this brother from Ikhtilaf and Fitnah which is plaguing Muslims living in the West, Allahumma Ameen.
Amine, ajma'ine.
Omg urdu.....😍😍😍😍🤩🤩
Interesting and intellectual discussion ....✌keep it up
Glad you like it, and hope it will be useful for you. In shaa Allah! Beraka Allahu fiki.
Mohamed Khalil Labidi Insha Allah!
Assalamo-alaikum,I don't disrespect you, It would be better if u can do a little change in ur profile(pic).(In shaa Allah)
FARDIN KHAN walaikum aslam...hope its better now...as much as i understood
Yes,Its better,but It could be Best also if u want.. (Thank you)
Jazak Allah Kheir for this lovely lecture. I thank you for pointing out the 'Fatiha' before Nikah. This is a custom that a lot of people use as an Islamic Engagement before marriage. Another delicate subject which I would like you to bring up is the "Mahr". It seems that no one really know what it is and how to apply it. If you can I would like to see a lecture on the "Mahr" or "Saddaq" of its correct rulings and regulations. Here in Australia, nearly all the sisters are ripped off, never given their Mahar and they record the amount of Mahar on the Nikah paper that the sisters have received the amount but in reality the sisters have not received one cents. If in case of the husband gives the sister Talaaq, he then does not give her the Talaaq, he try to make her ask for a Khul in order to get the mahar that was written on the nikah paper. This is a huge problem here, basically most brothers and sister do nikah with out any mahar. Also the divorce rate here in Australia for the Muslim Community is rising very very high. Jazak Allah Kheir may Allah reward you all for the beautiful and informative lectures.
Athanasia Tzakostas wa iyyakom. Beraka Allahu fikom for your comment. Yes, I think you made a point. There is not a lot of lectures about the subjectif. However I thunk that these problems are related to tve trustwortheness of the brother. All these issues should not exist if we all look respect the marriage engagement. Salam.
Jazak Allah Kheir brother
Athanasia Tzakostas We iyyakom. I just reread what I wrote and I am sorry for the mistakes. My phone does as he wishes sometimes.
Nikah is not valid without Mahr. Whoever is doing this are not considered married. Allahu alam. May Allah guide us all.
how am i finding this now
👍👍👍👍👍
At 1:17 Omer sulaiman..Sums all.. up
I will never do that to my kids what my guardians did to me that’s the only thing I can do to bring change.
👍
The light bulb part...whaaat
Plz bangla sub
45:20 facts exactly what I was thinking
Do we have a video where noman sir talked to the parents ?
No. Sorry.
These subtitles are not correct , kindly remove them or correct them
Al-salam, Thank you for your advise but it is the automatic subtitles :/
57:40
59:00
29:18
18:15
Ok
😆👏🏻
1:09:30
I respect all of your beliefs, but i do think it is sad that certain religions restrict marriage outside of them. It is almost as if they don't trust themselves. Not every single non-Muslim would want to "deconvert" you, or force you to go against your own path to piety in the way you see fit. As we know not every single muslim thinks and practices Islam in the same way.
I find some of the reasons why, to understand that marrage in an islamic sense goes beyond our everyday conceptions of love, and that sometimes we love blindly without hindsight, so to make such rash decisions on the basis of those feelings may be unwise and advise caution, to be somewhat reasonable. But what makes you think that only Muslim spouses can instill those values and think in those ways?
I only want dialogue, not conflict. May peace be upon you all, from an atheist.
Thanks for your comment. I appreciate what you wrote and the way you wrote it. Thanks you.
I think a scholar could answer you better than I can but I can give my opinion if I am able to.
I agree with you that these kind of rules can be interpreted as a lack of trust on our believes, and I actually don't think that it is a shame to say or admit that. Islam (or other religions) is one, but muslims are many. Of course there is a lot of muslims that are not very firm in their believes/faith, not all humains have a critical thinking and tried to work on the "why am I muslim?" ... but Islam takes care even of those "believers".
I think that God's rules were revealed to protect all humains from what can harm them (as individuals AND societies).
Whether we like it or not, differences exist between people (similarities are much more numerous!). And not every couple can handle those differences specially when there is kids in between. Differences in the way we see education, love, life/death ... etc can be taken as interesting discussion's subjects OR conflicts sadly :/
I personally saw a lot of very happy and respectful couples that share a lot more than others that just share the name of the religion they think they are following. I just honestly wish happiness, prosperity and guidance to all of us :) not matter what is our religion.
Peace!
The thing is..
In Islam, to be a good muslim our focus isnt just what we have in this world, but more about what we'll get in the hereafter. So marriage in Islam has to be inside the worship frame. It has to be done according God's rule. And it has to be carried on according to God's rule in lots of aspects, from having sex to having a child, raising a child, managing the family, issues with in laws, having a divorce, all of it are somehow regulated.
So imagine to have a spouse if different faith, how can a muslim apply those rules n regulations if your partner isnt on the same vision and believe with you?
But its not that we muslims dont experience love n happiness either in our marriage. We do. Only its more of like a fruit of the marriage. The marriage itself is more for our contenment.
This is what I understand about marriage in Islam.
How can someone marry a person who is not believing in what you believe in? For a practicing muslim whose life revolves around believing in Allaah marry an atheist. This is only Hollywood version of love.
#Muslims_Logic
#Why_Muslims_call_jesus_a_prophet
we believe in Jesus as a prophet of Allah...🙄🙄 And listen we said the word "prophet "... although this word has a deep meaning...you don't know may be 😐 although to us Jesus is a prophet sent by Allah...he was special human... everybody won't believe your Jesus ( our Isha alaihi wassalam) as a prophet... ( sorry but it's true ) so Allah gave him some special powers so that people could understand him as a prophet bcz that time people were so dumb to understand...Then you like people thought him as a god 😬😬😬😬....he was special obviously as he is prophet... although everybody can't be a prophet...if Jesus is god I think he doesn't need to born to come in the world..like he has mother Mariam...Why should the creator be born from his own creation?
Everything is his creation ... so why does he have to fight so hard with his own bad creations to save his own good creations? Are u saying your God Jesus tortured by his own bad creatures ( bad humans ) like how ? 😂😂 Jesus struggled because he is a prophet...he had to do....plz dear...ask yourself...give me a logic/statement...why god would do struggle ? Why ??? Listen God (Allah ) is invisible... No one sees him...you believe that wind exists...but its still invisible to you... that's how Allah exits....think in a logical way...now don't say Jesus love his own creations that's why he came to the world to suffer🐸🐸🐸 he is a prophet... that's why he need to struggle for the truth that Allah exists...you should believe in Jesus as a prophet not as a god...😐 You can love him, respect him alright...how can he be god ?? I found no logic 😪😪😪 we have logics in everything...this video is the proof 😊😊 hope you got it... Just don't give me any lesson about Jesus...😊😊 I know myself...I believe in logic 😊😊 I have my logics, actually we have our logic...Jesus is a prophet 😃😃 at the moment of die we all will believe that ✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻 thanks! Now don't attack me....my opinion,my logic...your life your choice...go on brother..hope for the good
If you are really good religious person...then don't attack me.. that's all my opinion my logics..your thought can be different, alright...!!! We are not same although... that's simple..I didn't attack...I just simply shared my logics...😽😼❤️
And yes...ask yourself that Bible is even real... it's man creation... Quran is from Allah...it has so many proofs and deep meaning... scientist even didn't find any wrong of the Quran 😊 in every Quran rules about physically prohibited matter were scientifically proved that these are bad for health 😏 even everything can scientifically proved...scientists use Quran to know the deep meaning of the words so that they can know more and do research....its 100% true! in Quran everything is logically said that's how the imams of Muslims can do explain fluently like this video 😊😊 not only this...there are too many... Actually we believe in logic 😏😏😏 now don't attack me without giving logics...if u don't wanna find to know...then don't talk bullshit like freaks crazy jerk people 🙂 first do research then say...🙂 don't say anything bad without knowing islams moral..
Wanna see some Muslims 😊😊 hi everyone
okay the firsst story, i have heard from someone else as well lol similar exact word to word, that imagine her as a mother of your child ,, I heard it from someone else lol,, dont know who copied whom
The Notebook is an old and overrated movie :) But yea its good that such myths are being dispelled
Ha ha ha ha
Hahahaha
5:10 LoL Brother Saad shouldn't have said Inshallah, it might end up happening now 😁
Oh! LoL Maybe he just meant "If it is Allah's will ... " w'Allahu a'alam XD
Yusha Umeri lol
I think charging for matrimonial service is absurd.
Muslims should help one another. A specialy where there is single sister looking for marriage.
Create free web so evrebody can loom for themselves.
Learn from cristians and hiw they are united.
To Nouman Ali Khan
Please watch (Crisis of marrying outside the faith by Shaykh Yasir Qadhi
So would you rather give advise that a girl not marry a boy who makes 5 times a day salaah but has no college education or should she marry atheist...be careful of your advise !!!
👍
50:13