yea even i used to think that, whenever a teacher makes a bad image of a person, just by making him/her stand up in front of the whole class, me and rest of the class would also feel that the person is not good, and we should we should never take him seriously.
My first grade teacher bullied me for no reason at all, mentally and physically she used to punish me for not bringing my many books on my tiny little back
My second grade teacher was so toxic and hateful of me she use to physical and mental punish me so much so that it traumatizing to even think about it, that experience has Scared me for the entirety of my life
My second grade teacher had cornered me a handful of times. I would totally dislike her and I had said it out loud to my friends. During that time, somewhere at the back of mind I felt that me disliking a teacher is as equivalent as to me being absolutely a disgraceful person. But i still kinda don't like that teacher and hate those memories. Plus, don't even get me start on how teachers use unruly persuasion to apply for a competitive exam conducted by the school, just because you are a "bright student". I mean shut the F up, you guys!!!!!
I feel jealous of people who had a big friend group and generally a good time at school. I will never choose to relive that time. It was the most anxiety inducing and horrible experience for me.
i used to feel the same until i realised ALL big friend groups with no exceptions has sp much drama & politics beyond you can imagine regardless of how perfect they look from outside
I was so bullied because i was short at height and i was also not good at study's but i was good at singing and other instruments and teachers would literally hit me because i was going to extra class for singing and one of the teacher also said that " tum bde hoke kuch nahi krr pao ge or singing se tumara ghar nahi cle ga faltu kam he " ☹️☹️☹️
‘even talking to boys can land you in trouble’ point is SO REAL. Im in grade 10 (wish me luck yall)and this is from two months back. A male friend and I would go to the ground during recess and some teacher(s) noticed and they spread the word around in the staff room. Initially, my english teacher asked me ‘if i was distracted’, even after telling her a simple no many times she wouldntlet it go and i rold my class teacher who also (later in the story) says the same. after a few days, my class teacher calls me after class to ‘talk’ and shes like “your name is being highlighted in all ‘that’ stuff and im just saying that you should mend your ways” and I told her very firmly that you needn’t overthink things and im doing just fine after that, that male friend sits behind me casually and my social science teacher notices and taunts me on that, saying “your class teacher told me that she made yall sit far from each other so what is he doing behind you?” (is this real? 1.) like we’re 10th graders and still have a seating arrangement, 2.) the teacher is absent so let us sit wherever we want to? 3.) hes not even sitting WITH ME? hes literally behind me so does it even matter? and l4.)WHY WOULDNT YOU ASK HIM INSTEAD? she was so rude and pathetic about it because why would you want to humiliate a girl in front of a class of 40 people? genuinely didntsee that coming from her because I really liked her but Alas! this is so petty honestly and i still cant recover from their wrong-doings.
it traumatized us all. as a guy you cannot imagine the disgust of comments we get having a new female friend. rape jokes involving my sister among elder dudes wasn't uncommon too after all.
I had my bully classmates who I once called my friends give small dose about "how to behave with boys" 💀 Teachers never said a thing to me as such but these people who u have to share 6hrs of your day and of the same standard as me to remind what to do and what not. My insecurity peaked everytime I would go to school cus of this beings.
same is my plan. real homies remain real but all those classmates we don't even talk to but still follow through mutuals and shit are just for name. they have their own lives and aint gon help when in need, they prolly dont even know u exist lol
i was the topper of my class and yet i was treated so badly.... i was bullied and i was literally compared with another girl whose father was at higher rank.... i always tried my literal best and worked my ass off only to hear taunts and mockery from children and class teacher cuz i was bad at sports and my bad posture.... i had a few good friends.... i just miss my time with them.... also i had an academic downfall in 11th 12th because of my shitty teachers and peer pressure to fit it.... i wish i had studied more instead of trying to gain popularity i would have cracked neet
@@jasminekaur8809 i took a drop this year and am studying my a** off after cutting off from friends... wouldn't advice that if you are not like extremely mad in love with the idea of being a doctor..... i woud advice focussing on getting good score in CUET and you can give other entrance exams suitable for science stream.... it's not that if you fail NEET you are doomed but if you don't have a structured college list and backup plans it might be tough for you to get paid well early in any career
I'm in 12th and I'm almost dome with my school life but I also have a few things to share. So basically we didn't have humanities in our school up until now, I and other 4 students are the first batch of humanities. When it was first introduced and when it was my first day of school our history and polity teachere were absent so ons of my guy friends asked Principle ma'am that when will the classes begin or will it even begin so our principle said -" If there are enough students then it will otherwise I dont know " We were like what do you mean I dont know... What are we supposed to do if there are not enough students! The next day we again asked her to which she got mad and scolded us saying ki jabse humanities kya agay tum log to hawa mein udne lage vo.. Chalo batao kon hai DM hamara... Huh tumhe pata bhi nhi hoga chale hain IAS banne. Now that pissed me off. We still dont have a proper classroom for us,we sit with commerce and study in staff room when its History and polity period. They say if we dont get 98 or 99 in boards they are going to discontinue humanities! I can go on and om with the other bullying, sexist rules and discrimination but the comment is already is big to read.
that's just horrible. why did they even open a school if this is how they're going to treat their students? not even providing a decent classroom or staff, and simultaneously expecting- no, threatening the students to score a 98? bloody hypocrites. and don't even get me started on how the humanities stream is so underestimated and looked down upon in this country. our education system is visibly so fucked up and people still have the audacity to complain about how we are so behind other countries.
@@ninglightttttruee, being a science student i totally respect all the streams and this is what i am facing too, my school doesnt even gives us any opportunities we are totally neglected for extracurriculars as they only wants us to study all the time to score good, taking extra classes and not taking science students for tour cause we didnt score that well in half yearly according to their expections
now that I've completed my schooling this year, I can remember atleast 3 incidents of the teachers being horrible. back when I was in 3rd grade, I was a slightly below average student (like i wasn't bad i just didn't care about studying, i only studied during exams) so there was this infamous maths teacher who was assigned to my class, oh my god she was such a tyrant. like we had every student in the class to bring a glitter pen to make somthing specifically in her notes(we wrote with pencils back then), and god forbid someone forgot or just didn't have the pen on them, she would verbally berate them for minutes, saying stuff like "are your parents so poor they can't afford a glitter pen" "do you live in a basti" and so much shit about being poor and the thing is there were bpl students in our school and now that I look back, this girl who was one, she got berated so often. and apart from that the students who didn't perform well in weekly tests by some imaginary margin she had, she'd make them sit in the front, 4-5 people squeezed in seats for two students, 2 poorest ones would stand at her desk and study the entire class, and I remember being poor in maths and I remember when I had to stand at her desk once, she would berate you so much, i remember sitting in those front desks for quite some time too, like I can't say for sure but I feel like that was the time when fear of maths was instilled in my mind. she taught us 4th grade too (thank god i did get better) then there was my grade 7 class teacher, and by my own admission, I was one of the two most popular/influential girls in the class, my best friend at the time and me, and a bunch of guys we were part of this big big friend group, and every monitor of some kind was from our group. I loved that year, I tied rakhis to all the guys too, never dated any, we had similar humor and we all sat in the same row so it was always so fun, thing is my bsf was dating one the guys, I sat with him the entire 7th grade and even 6th grade i think (back when roll no. se baith te the), anyways, so many girls in the class liked him and their were these 2 who my bsf never saw eye to eye with because she would constantly try to flirt with this buffoon even though she knew they were dating, , so long story short this girl, for some reason or the other, irked by something decided she'll take 3 of her friends and make up some bs story about all the class being controlled by us (me and my bsf for some reason) because our group monopolised the monitors. like everyone in the class was chill except these 3 people, and they made their parents bring up this fake issue to the ct in parent teacher meeting and boy oh boy then it started, the ct would absolutely grill me and my friend for no reason, like she would call us to her desk and berate us in front of the whole class for even flipping a page so much as the wrong way, she was nuts, she would start glaring at you and make faces in the middle of the class and had an in general bias towards guys. thank god I was great at academics that year, all my other teachers loved me. also this one quite recent, in 11th grade my biology teacher alright. she drove me to tears everyday, so thing is she had such a huge glaring vendetta against me, like nobody comes to school regularly in class 11th, you have coachings, tests, all that jazz, you need to study, completely common stuff, everybody in every class did it, everyone in my class did it, but whenever I would god forbid take a leave, the next day, she would make me stand up and rip me a new one, ask me why i was absent, even when i told her the reason (I was so stressed in grade 11, i was sick every month atleast twice, thrice even, down with 103 fever everyday, my physical health was so unbelievably bad, even my periods came like every 2/3 months when they used to be regular just before 11th), like she'd ask me the reason, and if i opened my mouth to tell her, she would scream at me to shut up, she would ask me hard questions about what she taught the previous day(which she didn't she'd just play a ppt, even people who came to class couldn't answer the questions she's ask) and she would constantly berate me, and mind you I'd never been dislikeable to a teacher all my life even for no reason, I used to be an appointee, listened in class, debated well, was some or other monitor every year, it was so jarring having this teacher who was also the vice principle of the school completely hate me for no reason. then i got it one day, so at my coaching i was the top scorer in biology and she had an incredible vendetta against the coaching for no apparent reason (probably because she taught us nothing so people in the class would ofc focus on their coaching). and on 1st day of 11th grade, she asked everybody who went to that coaching to stand up and innocent and unknowing all my peers did (I was absent that day, conjuctivitis) and as time passed, I think she probably asked someone who tops this coaching's test from our class and some dumbfuck probably told her it was me) and fuck my life from then on, she was so relentless, I remember november of that year, i was so so sick, a bajillion health problems and it was so hard to show upto school and i showed up atleast 3 days a week, she would take entire classes up shredding me, that whole month I'd come home and sob everyday because I was so tired, it was so obvious that my classmates who weren't even my friends would try to comfort me after biology periods, anycase I complained to my parents but really they couldn't even do anything, she was vice principle and if i complained, she'd only bully me harder. I've never felt that helpless in my entire life, she made my life a living hell, entire 11th , even half of 12th, then just a month before boards she did a complete 180 cooing me, giving me resources, and in general being very nice to me (i learned this was because she thought i was had the potential to bring a complete 100 in bio, that would add to her laurel, because she was afterall our teacher), and I ended up scoring 97, and then after the result, when we went to meet the teachers, and collect documents etc, she was back to being horrible to me. she was truly something else (I'm sorry to anyone who made it to the end or even bothered to read this, its too long ik TT)
Bro the tyrant math teacher trauma is probably the reason I never liked maths, it was the teacher not the subject. She used to call us to boards and pull our hair and slap us too hard for a 3th grader and I used to cry. I still remember 💀.
I read it, and I can see how you must have felt, something about being academically up there and still being targetted by teachers hurts differently, i remember I had this teacher who in front of the whole class in class 8th called me fat because I'd got in an accident she said , "uska accident ho gaya? Bolo weight Kam kare moti hoti ja rhi hai tabhi accident ho raha hai" and that was the moment my really close friends picked up on it and bodyshamed me up untile 12th,,,, and just like you i remember everyone was taking day off school in 12 to finish up on work etc but whenever I took a break my class teacher would literally send me to the PRINCIPAL'S office and have me write an apology letter wtf was that ???, she also said I was on her hit list apparently?? I was also the shy quiet girl who was very hardworking ,,, I don't know why teachers just hate some students
@@Cyberswirls I genuinely don't get why pre-primary and primary wing teachers are so cruel and violent?? like is hitting small kids (who don't even understand the world) helping with your frustation ma'am?
@@wings2769 I get you, I'm so sorry that happened to you genuinely, and those people that teased you don't deserve to be called your friends, it hurts even more when people who you'd expect were on your side , do stuff like that. you didn't deserve that shit. as for your 8th grade teacher, I don't get it, why such children-hating people choose to be teachers. fuck her and your imbecile petty ct
Because kids are extremely vulnerable and most likely they won't fight back so these adults use it to their advantage and project all of their trauma anger and jealousy on the students It's all about power dynamics and our culture of letting everything slide the same teacher who beats tf out of students in india will lick the azz of incharge and principal because of their position not only school this type of behaviour exist even in government services where the one with power bullies the person with lower position than them and the one with lower position bullies who's even lower in position
"Teachers can be bullies too". I had this one teacher who targeted me always and she has humiliated in front of the whole class multiple times. She'd always try to find fault in me. I am actually a very quiet student and I stay quiet most of the time but to this teacher, i happened to be the noisiest. It's been a long time since i graduated high school but i still can't forgive that teacher for everything she's done to me
Recently our 12th phy teacher who was considered good and funny by the students made fun of a boy who stuttered and my whole perception of him changed instantly. I was sitting on the backbench and was so hurt because everyone in the class laughed like it was the funniest thing. The boy who was made fun of reminded me of my nephew who also stuttered.
My classmates (couple) were literally threatened with a knife by another classmate due to a petty fight but the teachers made a bigger issue about them dating over someone with a knife, they're parents got called and they all got an equal punishment and the guy with the knife was let off easy 💀🙏
The stress India's education system puts on students has no benefit either. I'm an NRI living in Australia, and over here the two most common nationalities for internation students in universities is Indian and Chinese. Both countries have extremely difficult, ruthless education systems that put an insane amount of stress on students, and the thing is whenever I work with Indian or Chinese international students in group assignments, they never really perform significantly better or worse than students who grew up here in Australia, despite the education system here putting faaar less pressure on students. I have heard absolute horror storries about the JEE from indian international students, but despite the difficulty they haven't performed any better on average. Then there is the insane strictness of teachers in the Indian education system making it worse on students as well.
School was genuinely horrible for me 😭😭, I was sexually harassed as a girl , I got bullied by boys in my class , they used to beat me up , teachers completely brushed off every single of my cry for help . It took me years to get over the trauma and honestly still not over some of the things . I became really suicidal developed unhealthy coping mechanisms, self harm etc . One of my teacher also used to target me so much she put the blame on me that it was my fault that I was getting bullied , harassed and stuff . I never ever wanna go back to those days . I just passed 10th grade and I’m glad school is finally over . I feel really bad for kids who have also gone through this stuff it’s really fucked up man . I’m not even gonna start about the Indian education system where our worth is attached to a very linear form of education.
I don't know about what happens to girls in other schools but from what I've experienced girls are given more advantage over boys in highschool...? Boys are spoken to roughly as if they're no humans. The teachers of highschool are very humiliating and after only some time I started realising that it's just not me that's feeling bullied because as a conservative guy - down to earth and considering myself at fault first - double checking myself if only I'm wrong - I felt that I was the only one who was at fault. I'm still through, gon' appear for 12th boards the coming year. Mainly just because of teachers over the years my self respect has deteriorated and I used to be treated like a zombie in class...? After a traumatic experience of 6 years, I'm trying to get out of it; it's not the teachers when you know it; inside-school bullying was less that teachers had to jump in. Truly relatable video; I don't know about "talking to boys" being "danger" - it might happen in schools because that's when ur growin up and teachers notice that too and just inapprop'ly shame you for it...? Totally normal; it's just old-fashioned the way older people still see talking to the opposite gender as a taboo. Idk; girls are just treated more nicely because they're girls and they're good looking...? Boys are often discriminated and esp. if you're not good looking enough. As someone who's been since the start of the school and his learning journey both, I can tell that in our school if a student stays active throughout the class, actively participates and asks questions but gets average or even below-average marks - they won't get scolded much even if they're assignments and notebooks aren't complete. Silent psychology tells they're seen to be "studying more" just because they're participating in the class. As someone who gets humiliated by teachers a lot, if I answer what the teacher asked correctly, I'm still not praised when teachers fall into the "how did he answer that" pit. Correct me if I'm wrong. They can't focus on every child, but I often go to school, but I still get the feedback of teachers that I lay at home all the time arest. Humiliation and bullying is regarded as "teacher's care" for the students - they say they don't want students to score less - when it's not for the student but only for the teacher's tutoring credits and nothing less. Deans and headmasters scold them whose frustration they take out on us. Teachers don't care a bit and unko ghanta farak nahi padta if you're failing or have a bad mental health especially then too when it's only because of them. If teachers were to care, they'd naturally react by encouraging the poor students more than the already accomplishing/flourishing students. That's just my take; other schools might find better teachers but it's almost the same thing everywhere else if anybody could relate. TLDR; school is trash; read to find out why PS: This will be updated if I care enough before me dropping out. Ain't visiting that place even after board results. Thanks if you read this far
School is quite traumatizing for me and Teachers here are not that supportive and if someone bullies you they'll be like ignore it and do nothing about it and personally I think that they failed at their job and are nothing less but a lazy person who claims that they did their job 😶
@@SurendraKumar-wp5jr Exactly. Teach the bullies a lesson if you're a teacher - but no - you yourself choose to bully and harass a single child. I feel targetted a lot and that's my take - I guess I'm not handsome or shit...? What a qualifying materialistic factor we got here, whoa. Teachers usually go around saying they won't handle complaints and it's not their duty to solve matters like...........??! If you're giving in in "inappropriate" acts of the teenage so much then why back off oh btw this is me only from an alt id
My brain has thankfully pushed all those sad and hurtful memories of my school life to the very back on my mind so i can barely remember them but ik there was a lot of bullying that happened.
Tw: self harm My 2nd class teacher used to make us slap ourselves when we did something bad. And i remember i made that a habit to slap myself whenever I made a mistake (i used to do that till my face was red) even when no one told me to and i think that is why I started harming myself seriously when i was in highschool and intermediate (because everything was shit). Another way school ruined my mental health and now I'm paying for medication lol.
This is soo relatable in many aspects. Last year I made a video on how I used to get bullied in school and that same person tweeted my old videos on social media, which was kinda shitty tbh. Well, I thing experience in school can really shape up a personality of an individual. Also it’s being 5 years since I graduated, yet it is very traumatising whenever you pass through my school or get any kind of flashbacks.
School was the worst time of my life, it just took away, what could have been a good childhood. it not only ruined my self-esteem, also my relationship with my parents. i finally was able to fix it all at the age of 25 that too after so much therapy.
In 9th grade a substitute teacher just happening to roam around the classroom without any specific goal saw me drawing female body anatomy sketches next to the male ones. She called me to her table in front of the whole class, tore the pages down from my entire sketchbook, she wrote my name on them, and told me it was "vulgar" and that i shouldnt be doing that at "my age" while giving me a cold shoulder. My self esteem was beyond repair to the point where i thought drawing women's bodies was something vulgar. Yeah she didnt think anything was wrong with the male anatomy sketches. To this day i fear even my parents finding out i study the body anatomy art, thinking they'd react in the same way that karen did. There's something that keeps me from merrily flaunting my art in front of people unlike before the incident happened.
I'm in 10th grade rn and I can't relate to people that misses school 🤷♀️ like I can't wait to get out and never ever visit... just bad memories and shitty teachers filled up my entire 14 years going to school
Schools not only traumatize you but also take away your skills and the natural passion you once had. Teachers (not all, but most of them) act in school like they are always angry. I remember even after kindergarten, with very poor grades, when I was in 1st grade (6 years old), I struggled to write properly, especially in Hindi. I couldn't even write a word properly; my handwriting was so bad. But guess how our Hindi teacher thought she would change or improve me? She gave me an extra class and slapped me very hard every time I couldn't write properly or made any mistake. She literally slapped me 30-40 times, and that was the most horrific thing I ever experienced as a kid. Even though I don't feel much traumatized by that now, I still feel bad for myself when I think about it, considering the fact that now I can not only write and read more languages than her but also know much more about them. I always felt bad for girls who faced sexual harassment by teachers in the name of punishment. And yeah, our school also had the same FUCKING rules for girls. Don’t wear this, don’t style your hair like that, don’t do ponytails, don’t wear nail polish-like, WTF. Why don’t they just fuckin focus on what is actually expected of them-TEACHING? The school curriculum never allowed me to do what I wanted. They cared more about what we were wearing, whom we were talking to, and, as you said, about talking to girls-yup, that happens in every school. When I was in 9th grade, we had a small friend group of 3 boys and 3 girls, but the fact that we were friends for a very long time didn’t matter. There was this one day when a teacher saw us just talking to each other in a friendly way (just like all other friends do) during lunchtime at the main entrance of the classroom. Guess what? That was the last time boys and girls sat together in the classroom. From the next day, they created a separate section for boys and girls. Physics teachers have an attitude like an IIT professor, and English teachers expect us to speak only English in their classes after teaching us nothing about the language. Yup that's the beloved SCHOOLS for you. 🙃
Man I hate school and always will. The amount of damage and trauma those 15 years gave me though. I cannot wrap my head around an adult making a scene out of stupid silly things
But most of the IIT’s are filled by bihari people because of their brains, UPSC as well because they are actually too smart. Who is this stupid person bullying ? .-.
My physics teacher made me feel like an alien i still feel isolated in the world bcz of the shame he filled me with its hard not feeling like i don't deserve to live here to be around people or deserve any good thing Honestly I hate him so muchhhh
Ya misimi salute to you for being brave and truthful about your school experience.... My school experience was horrible.... My maths teacher bullied me alot.... It is still there in me like a trauma....
I am in college now but back when I was in 10th, our physics teacher (female) was taking an oral test of some sort and she was calling out girls row wise and asking them questions. She was doing like a marathon or smth because as fas as I remember she asked like 20 or 25 questions in a go. The one who stopped or stuttered in the middle were disqualified according to her and what she did was hold the girls hair from the pony and just pull it so harshly in front of the whole class. When it got to me, I stopped in the middle due to social anxiety or just nervousness and I kid you not she held my hair with such force I almost screamed in front of the whole class. After that she made us sit on our knees while facing the wall. Now that I remember it I wish I was a little bold back then to point it out to the teacher that it was wrong oh her side, yk, even if i did not study enough, it was the time of just after corona so what do you expect from students. Not everybody had crisp and precise hold on the concepts and some students usually stutter like me. That day broke me so much that I still struggle with social anxiety. Being humiliated in front to a class of 50 students was really horrible. Sorry to say but I wish karma repays her because no matter what the reason, a teacher should never behave like this. Till today she stands on top of my most hated people's list.
i was also bullied but puberty hit me up and it was good later on i still had to struggle with my personality cuz i never experienced this attention and respect like for no reason they were nice to me ( especially girls ) i was so annoying but that got healed with time eventually i grew our of it and yeah it's good after 8th i can feel the pain of bullied kids i can feel what they want i never ever bullied anyone instead helped them i became a new man just don't giva shi-- no one cares about you you have to keep this universal law conserved so don't care about others
I spent my entire middle school just wanting a friend ...well a good friend at that but the experience just in general made me a very quiet person out of loss of confidence
My hindi teacher ripped my hindi notebook just bc I scribbled something on the last page, that day I was already having a bad day and when this happened, I couldn't help but cry.. I mean it's my notebook, I bought it who gave you the right to rip it off?? She didn't even apologize which is not surprising but whenever I remember this incident I feel like slapping her so hard. But nowadays she's good to us, still what she did is terrible.
Long rant, just sharing my experience and hatred for my school 😁 Im northeast Indian and i faced similar experiences, my teachers aren't as bad as yours but they do hit u at times like when you fail a test or for some really dumb reason like forgetting to bring a pencil. It's honestly so normalised here and when I got older like reaching high school, the scoldings got way more serious and hurtful bc of some teachers 😰 The students themselves are also reeally toxic as well, there is so much racism, sexism, homophobia and religion hating. Light skin is the ideal in Indian culture and you could really see it in schools, light skin was considered beautiful but dark skin was ugly, people would get bullied for it and also soo many male teachers indirectly told us about how males are superior which made my classmate boys become so egoistic, they would always demean us and say males are better but we could all see that they were insecure and victims of toxic masculinity so they had to project it onto us. When we were really young, we all girls and boys used to sit together and be friends but then in like 3-4 grade suddenly we were not allowed to sit together and if we talked to each other they would shame us and its so dumb, it's like they think the moment we make eye contect we're gonna start making out in front of the whole class 🤦♀️ and this kind of mindset not only is the dumbest thing ever but really bad for our development, it really made us distant which caused the sexism. My classmates are also very homophobic, they have this very strong unreasonable hatred towards homosexuals, they are disgusted by them say stuff like all gays will burn in hell (most of us are Christians), they don't realise it but it is so hypocritical, no good christian would ever act that way towards them, but they actually do know it's not Godly but deliberately choose to ignore it 😐 shows me alot about their relationship with God. And ofc girls are slut shamed alot and if anyone is in a relationship, many people immediately assume that they do "indecent" things and are looked down upon (very Indian mindset) which is also the dumbest thing i have ever heard I could go on forever but overall, I hate my school soooo much, it really made me realise how important a good school environment is for a child
I can relate SO hard to these things which you talked about, I've had really bad experiences like these too in school. How messed up and shitty can teachers be to treat helpless kids like shit for little to no reason is beyond me
Once my hindi teacher slapped me in front of the whole class because apparently i failed in my hindi exam. On the result day i went with my mom obviously my mom was mad she still asked me to check my numbers and answers so i did and guess what in my hindi papers 15 marks were missing. My essay marks were not added 🙂 we immediately went back to school and talked about it to my class teacher. She was shocked too she said she'll talk to the hindi teacher and said "thank god you didn't went to the principal or else it would have been a really big problem for your hindi teacher" Now i wish i went straight to the principal's office.
The same teacher also slapped and pulled my friend's hair who had short bob kind of hair and she didn't tie her hair and was wearing earrings we were like 10 and 11 🙂 Our class teacher didn't had any problem with her hair and we also greeted our principal in the morning he didn't had any prblm but she had. Ok i understand hairstyle is also part of our uniform but why the f did she pulled her hair so roughly and slapped her?? That's a child??
When i was in 1st std one of the sirs used to pull pants and skirts as punishments thankfully i never experienced it but it was the very fking wrong thing to do to anyone
I can so much relate to youu!! Like some teachers ,batchmates,seniors etc target some particular students that they are only good and they should only respected and others shouldn't. Like life feels really tough when you're stuck in those situations when they don't value you that too at that stage of life when we are actually growing and learning thingss. But as soon as we hit 18 or like when we start to know things and become aware then our life becomes better but still a kind of anger for those past people doesn't fade away easily. It's stuck with us for the rest of our lives. And I felt really good after watching this video and seeing you're doing really well now. You've gained a lot of confidence! You're kinda spreading awareness. Keep it up.❤️
I do relate to this alot, Flashback to that day when I was in 10th grade, I was in school and peacefully minding my business in class without doing anything that would trigger the teacher then this teacher straight up came to me and slapped me on my face in front of whole class, for no reason and then she went on with her day. I know she might not even remember because why would she, now I’m 22 and finished my bachelors too but still I think about that incident in 10th grade, it makes me cry untill this day, like why the fuck she did that.
In India teaching is taken as a profession by people who had usually scored low marks,cannot get any prospective newage jobs, cannot relocate due to low confidence. These are the teachers in India. So how can they teach anything of significance. Marks are scored by Student's own hardwork.
you speak from my heart, I passed out my 12th like 4 months back and I never ever want to do that shit again. I had this weird tension with most of my teachers throughout my high school, unlike my middle school where I was a quiet kid who didn't say anything back whenever any teacher said anything bad to me, when I entered high school I decided I'm not going to let these teachers publically humiliate me for no reason and yeah even though I had this weird thing with teachers I am happy that I talked back at times. There are endless and endless traumatizing experiences from high school and I am thankful it's over. Did I type too much haha? All the best, loved your video!!!! 😚
in 11th class one of our teachers retired , so there was a vacant position available. Different teachers were coming everyday and teaching during one of our periods while our class teacher judged if they were good enough for the job. this one super nice lady came and taught so well, she explained everything in a simple way and even taught in such a simple way that when she asked a student ( who wasn’t good at studies) a question he was able to answer it. I personally found her great and would have loved to be taught by her because her teaching wasn’t complex and being a person with many mental disorders, it was actually easy for me to focus. Once she was done our class teacher asked the class if we liked her. A lot of us said we understood her easily, including me. then our class teacher went back to her desk, and then proceeded to call the two topper girls of the class , who were amazing academically and scored literally full marks every time and were even vice captains of their respective houses. Overall, they were perfect students. when they came back from her desk I asked what she wanted and turns out the teacher asked them both personally what THEY thought of the teacher. I know it’s not a big thing but that just felt so disrespectful. teachers really don’t care for the kids who don’t do academically well. The teacher is not just gonna teach the two students , but apparently their opinion is important than the other 40 students in the class because they are academically well.
yk today our principal announced the results for student council like he told us who all were selected, after results he said smtj like "yall are part of the student council now which means you're important unlike others, yall are exceptionals" and it annoyed me sm bcs how u say such a mean statement in front of the students who werent selected? just bcs they didnt made it doesnt mean you'll indirectly call them useless :/
Lol I recently got kicked out of my College hostel cause apparently I am being medicated for my depression. The warden got to know after I was taken to the hospital after a side effect of the medication. They don't wanna take responsibility and think I ODed, the warden is not willing to house me Better tho, cause flats are WAYYY better than the hostel.
i just wanna get done w school as soon as possible omg. i remember, last year when i was in ninth grade, i got into an accident bc of which i had to skip school for almost a month. the accident happened just a few meters away from the school premises so a lot of teachers witnessed it, including my physics teacher. after i recovered and started school again, the physics teacher made fun of my accident as a way of shutting me up. the whole class was talking. but i was specifically targetted by him, because *I* was disturbing the class. thinking about this still makes me sad. teachers can def be bullies.
So In class 10 there was a geography teacher who was really strict it was copy submission day and in the previous day she told us to make a seperate index page. But I was absent that day and I didn't know about it was my turn to get my copy checked . She took my copy and tored ! my index page .Because I had not made a separate index. I remember the girl beside me started laughing so hard and many of our classmate too started laughing. It was literally so embarrassing 😢😢
I was scolded for wearing literally a religious ring and beaten in front of whole school as the buses were passing by watching me got beaten by this one teacher who before laying hands on me not only cussed the ring saying "Abe tere jesus ki to mai" but also threw it far far away into school playground. That day onwards not only I got traumatized but also lost my will to attend school and basically went from being an average student to a failure, but now in my 20s I realized how serious of an issue it was, so my kids' teachers have to have a ppt with proper logical reasons involved if they ever lay a hand on them or I'm shutting the whole sh*thole up. Thanks this was a good platform to blow off my heat💀❤️much love.
i randomly discovered your channel today and started binge watching because i love your commentary and opinions so much :p (crazy how this is a video from 2 years back) my teacher told me and my best friend "these girls won't be participating in the events" when we went up to her to register our names and i'm not very social in the class and don't participate in group activities.i was confident i could do something and enjoy the experience.however, cuz we were "too enthusiastic" for her she won't allow that and i'm actually kinda mad at her for picking her favourite students (aka the prefects and toppers) and that hurt me a lot. i hate her so bad. she didn't just treat me and my best friend like this but the entire class except for her favourites, she pays attention to them, helps them understand better, doesn't make weird comments about their appearances and their insecurities passing them on as jokes. she's got targets too.i hate it when teachers just make their favourites or toppers do activities because according to them nobody else is fit for it. how do you expect anyone to participate willing at this rate and them just doing it to learn instead of doing just for the sake of it because the teacher said so? how is anybody gonna be ready to do this in the future if you don't give them the opportunities now? last year's teacher tried to be friendly with the class but ended up degrading them in front of everyone and making fun of their interests. when i was in nursery, i was a cry baby too (still am lowkey) but whenever i cried i used to get hit and this went on till class 3. we have a maths teacher who doesn't teach or explain she just walks into class picks an usual from her favourites and makes them do sums on the board so the rest can copy. you need to understand maths to do it. then they're gonna act surprised as to why 89% of the school is failing in maths. i got a new maths tutor this year and its actually so amazing for me because i understand stuff and have confidence and i got rid of the maths phobia (maths is now my favourite subject sorry if i'm too nerdy T-T) and like getting praised for doing things correctly and especially for trying got so much of my self esteem back. i barely used to pass maths when the first teacher i spoke about was the maths teacher. in class 6 i had a really nice class teacher who treated everyone fairly and made it interesting to study (she was like a mom to me) but she had to move and leave the school.
For the most part, My school and my school experience was great. Most of my teachers were nice, but there are still plenty of incidents (That I know of, and I'm sure there's more I'm not aware of) My school (ICSE) used to participate in an interschool competitive event in another school where there were many activities like sports, art based events, singing, dance, modelling even shark-tank like pitching and so on. The school used to participate in it before the quarantine, and went again for the first time in 2022 after the quarantine was fully lifted. Our principal had also changed, so since it was the first time we were participating, we weren't expecting any wins (I was in 9th). It just so happened that our school got just one medal- bronze in girls' kabaddi. And next year they didn't. The female PE teacher that was 'coaching' them was sooo pissed. She started being so mean to those girls. When they went back and told her they didn't get a win she was like "I broke my leg for you guys and this is what you give me" and much more bullshit. another thing is that before our sports day we were assisting the same teacher in conducting the heats (standing broad jump, running race etc) for the younger children. We were conducting the tests for the little girls and the little boys were playing football for the time being. There was one boy who was sitting on the slide because HIS CLASSMATES DIDNT LIKE AND AND WEREN'T LETTING HIM PLAY WITH THEM. THIS LADY grabbed him by the arm, literally SLAPPED him in front of us even though he did absolutely nothing and pushed him telling him to go play football.
It's really true that school and specially the teachers play a big role in shaping your self esteem. And for people like me who are generally very quite and weren't good at studies, they will literally eat you up. I don't know what trauma do THESE teachers bring up from their home to project it on a child like that. A child who basically has no sense of self will definitely be easily crushed by teachers like these. They will either say it on your face or make an environment like that for you and everyone just believes you are the dumb kid. Describing the pain of years in words is impossible. I was worse because I was the mute child, I couldn't speak at all and the teachers would just get even harsh instead of trying to scare the child less. To this day, I'm still afraid of speaking in front of 40 people, afraid that everyone judge me just like they did when I was a child. School was sweet too but more bitter.
This video hits home. The only time i wish to go back to school is when i realise there's so much work as an adult lol. School was a bad experience for me too, as a kid who was conventionally "ugly" and dark skinned, i was a target of bullying till about 6th grade by teachers. I remember very vividly during 2nd grade i had a teacher who used to despise me for non reason, she came up to my desk during finals and read out answers out loud? Trying to belittle me and show me as a dumb kid. I sucked at hindi and she didn't like the fact that i was ugly and sucked at it. There are multiple instances which were so traumatic that my brain actively tries not to recall. Honestly only "conventionally pretty" and "smart" kids had school easy and fun.
I never wanna go to my school days again I am just so grateful you shared your scenario I always thought that there must be so wrong with me but seeing people experienced same kinda make me feel bit peace with myself
I just passed out my high school and I used to go school once or twice on a week because I am person who gets sick every month but when I went to school after some days the so called female teachers in my high school OH MY GOD attacks me like I am a big piece of sugar in front of those fkng ants I feel so bad I can't even have audacity to tell them that I am not well or anything but I got bullied since I was like 6 or 7 years old whenever I'll start my youtube I am definately gonna make a video on this topic I wanna say I admire you sooooo soooo much like If I ever get a chance to meet you I'll be the happiest person on earth that day. virtual huggies to you💌
In school, I faced constant criticism, which destroyed my confidence. My physics teacher said to me one time, 'You're worthless and will never do anything with your life,' because I didn't know the answer to his question. He kept pointing out to me, insulting me, and acting as if I don't exist, making me terrified even to speak. I suffer from extreme social anxiety and stage fright now-I stutter, my words jumble, and find myself unable to speak even in front of my friends properly. I overthink everything I say; there is always that fear of being judged. I was an average student before, but those experiences drained my motivation and left me feeling completely worthless. In 9th grade, our music teacher used to tell a girl in my class that she could never sing and shouldn’t even try when she told him that she wanted to be a singer. It was heartbreaking to see because, at that age, we’re supposed to learn and explore, not be perfect. Comments like that can crush someone’s confidence, especially when they’re just trying to find what they love. The teachers at my school except few were biased n didn't even tried to hide it, would always demotivate weaker students as if we are that one odd black spot in a white shirt that shouldn't exist and sore to the eyes. School was so traumatic n depressive for me and I hate it so much.
I've got all the problems you've listed. Social anxiety and all. I've always been praised, ignored when I did something wrong and respected by every single teacher that has taught me. There might be other factors that made you like this. For me, I had strict parents, didn't travel for tuition, didn't play outdoors, never went out to buy groceries, and didn't indulge in with my friends because all of them were low life pretentious trashers
back in school i was really a quiet kid who never participated in class or anything like that but always did well on exams so the teachers not really knew about me. I remember once i did really great on my maths exam as compared to the other class toppers. So he accused me for cheating on my maths exam infront of like 30+ students.
Now that i am watching this video, i have realised teachers seemingly "pushing us to work hard" or "talking to us privately to show they care"..... All these behavior, were just the teachers exercising their authority relentlessly.
I liked the video immediately after seeing the title .I do love some of my school time memories and would love to have that inner peace back ,but excluding the horrible shit some of my classmates and juniors put me through ,esp with killing my self esteem and bullying me extremely hard for my looks . I lost touch with most of them after school and don't regret it a bit .
Omg yes and if you talk back they will tell your parents and they will say that you should just listen to elders , because that have more experience than you 😓😀🔪💀🙏
when you said you were one of those kids whose parents told them to always respect elders i felt that cause whenever i told my parents about a older person who commented on my weight or just made me feel bad in general they would always say "they are only joking, don’t take everything seriously, if they say something take it." so i grew up letting people walk all over me and just recently realised i needed to change.
6:24 omg ur so real for that! i thought it was just the boys from my class ...the amount of balls touching and fighting that happened during recess was INSANE
I never specifically had an incident which would make me hate school but in general it was just that I never felt that i even belonged there. I was studying in Co Ed but my mom wanted to send me to some other school, girl's school if better. I did get into an all girls school but even after 7 years of studying there, I never really felt like I am supposed to be there in the first place. I thought that its just something I'm feeling because i am new and would eventually feel used to after a while but no. I was always annoyed and that school always felt out of place. Although I won't blame my school for that but i would definately like to mention that one maths teacher who just considered me as a dumb student the entire year she taught us even tho I was pretty good in every subject but maths because it was genuinely hard for me even though I tried my best at scoring good marks in it. She segregated the rows according to the marks and made all the students who were bad at maths sit in a particular row which was called the row for the 'duffer' students. I understand that she did it so that she would know which specific students need special attention at this subject but she never thought what us as 'duffer' students would feel. It was genuinely humiliating even though she did it with right intentions because we got undermined by the whole class and our bench partners who were the 'smart' ones assigned by her so that we would learn from them treated us like we are stupid and far below their level. I remember my bench partner snatching my answer sheet when I scored more than her in my English exam so that she would find just something to get my marks deducted and to satisfy her ego even though she knew that I'm better than her in English so no matter how much she tried to find a flaw in the correction, she would find nothing because how perfect my answers were. But yeah I would say that only if I wouldn't have been classified as the 'duffer' kid by my maths teacher that day, all of these prejudice and feeling of inferiority complex would have not existed.
Girl, respectfully. As some1 whose lived in hong kong and the USA and came back to india, im never going back. American schools arent perfect, theyre far from. Im 16 rn and there were 14 year old americans getting pregnant and this was not just an exception case, EVERY SCHOOL, EVERY GRADE had it. The racism in america and hong kong (and europe for that matter, i hate europe) is fucking INSANE, esp against indians. That self hate wont take you anywhere lmao. Not all indian schools are “shit” and not all american schools are the perfect teenage dream. Most are not.
This reminds me, I was in 4th grade and my math teacher used to slap the kids on the cheeks if there were too many pages to correct in the notebook. Literal 10 year old kids not because they didn’t complete the work but because they didn’t get it checked😭😭why would u do that😭😭 and apparently this was common in her other classes too
bro im in 10th rn and my cousin just got her results, she got 98%. my mom has been just scolding/yelling at me everyday for not studying as much as my cousin, and if I won't score 98% or above shes gonna send me to a boarding school :/
Bruh 🫂🫂🫂 , my mom telling me that my dad's colleague girl got 92% in 12th and that I'm in 12th so I should try to get better than her otherwise they'll prolly takeaway daily needs :/
Bro same she kept comparing me to my cousin while the students who got less percentage then me are getting treats and love meanwhile my mother treating like I failed my boards tell me 87% is not that bad ?
I just SURVIVED through my school life somehow 😅 but now that I just graduated from my school last year I feel like I should've done things differently than I did, but then again I remembered there was COVID so I couldn't have had done sh*t 😂
oh where do i even start? my math teachers tearing me down to a point where asking for doubts to help with my studies being treated as tabboo? or my english teacher purposely docking marks from my essays baceuse she didn't like me for being "too introverted"? or fourth grade when i was bullied for a year straight and essentially ignored, and the teachers never believed be since the girls in question were "good spirited and open."
Girl thank you for making this video. I was a perfect kid for most of my life but a teacher once slapped me because she had higher expectations from me on a stupid class test. Most other kids had it much worse than me though. Also, so much slut shaming of girls. Some teachers would judge girls for having their nails painted or wearing lip balm.
Although we grow up but a few teachers don't as adults they should treat us respectfully not let us down sadly teachers peck at a sensitive student the most n find reasons to embarrass them
I passed from an all-boys and teachers used to tell us that we are getting beaten because we are boys, and girls don't get beaten but they do get like standing, and sit-up kind of punishment. There were some teachers who beat us because they were narcissistic, some which beat us jokingly, some beat us because they were fools, and some beat us to make us tougher and focused on what has to be done. Some teachers were chill, and intellectual, and I think that those kinds of teachers had the best impact on me personally. Second would be those who beat me to toughen me up. About the rest of them, I absolutely hated them. And I used to avoid any possible interactions with teachers as much as I could even though I was good with academics because many times teachers beat me for no reason, and just like you I never used to say anything to them. But the teachers which used to listen, and clear doubts, and actually teach with passion, and not just joking with some passion really touched the heart.
I mostly had awful time at school. Weirdly most students werent even bad at my school, we all collectively were bullied by teachers & ofc the rich spoiled kids but it was never any physical bullying. Though take it with grain of salt as I was among the smarter kids in class so I didnt get picked on as often as other kids might have. Our school had problem of rich kids being compared with poorer kids, based on how rich their parents were. I too had same experience as you during 10th boards, our maths teacher named like 5-10 kids who he thought would top the class. He looked straight at me & said "you dont even go to tuition so there is no use of even hoping". This was back in 2016 where everyone went to tuitions but I didnt cuz well my family couldnt afford it. GUESS WHAT I GOT GOOD GRADES and the kids he named scored less than me. but like what if I hadnt though? what if I had scored less & then I would feel bad about it all my life, These adults failed to realize how badly it could affect little kids, Ik back then I used to feel "less" than other kids cuz I felt like I couldnt get anywhere in life as they are just lucky enough to have money to get all resources they want. I can write whole book about all the fucked up things our school did ngl. School life was just toxic in my experience, the environment at school was so hostile.
Once a teacher of mine cursed at me saying bc infront of everyone for the most lame thing that he asked a question n i answered in English instead of Sanskrit. n i couldn't do anything else than running to the washroom and cry........n i can't delete these memories now🙁
I don't miss being in school at ALL. The number of times I got molested by my male classmates... They'd throw paper balls or rockets at me, pour water on my light grey uniform top... Touch and grind on me sometimes... This happened to other girls also. We complained and teachers simply said "Boys will be boys", and simply gave them warning... What's worse is that some girls also enjoyed seeing us getting harassed, they'd bully us too. Now all the boys will get married and have daughters. Meanwhile, we can't even move on from the trauma. Thank God, I escaped the hellhole.
When I was in kindergarten, a teacher pinched me and shouted at me for apparently not eating my food completely. My mom and dad filed a complaint and that teacher started lying. And then in 7th grade, I was sexualized and bullied by the boys of my class. School is literally the biggest cause of my anxiety, and other mental disorders and yes, teachers can AND are the bullies too!
the fact that this thing is happening w me rn so basically one time i was sitting with my bf (separate chairs) and i was writing something on his hand and 1 of my teacher saw us doing that , idk y but that teacher hates me alot ok so she just went and told my bio teacher(hes very strict) abt this incident and we were both called to the office , from that day onwards my bio teacher targets me every day .One day me and m classmates were doing lab practicals and as usual the students were bit noisy while discussing and all but He targetted me and said that he would pour acid on me (or something similar to that) if i wont keep quiet and stuff , then once in front of all the bio students he humiliated me by saying i was a bikhari just because i ate a PIECE OF SOME FRUIT jo koyi bio student laya tha ( i am a cs student) so yea these stuff still happens..i cant tell my parents abt it cause my teacher blackmails me by saying ki he will tell my dad abt this and that
Not me being forced to walk around the whole big school campus with one of those nannies because I spelled one letter in the word elephant wrong in kindergarten.
O my god! After reading the comments, I realised that I study in a good school where teachers and most students are very nice. I can't even think of any teacher slut-shaming students. We have a good school councellor (psychologist) and the teachers are caring as well. Sometimes, I take certain things as granted.
They can't even encourage kids good at studies properly. They don't recognise them and sometimes outright tell them that they shouldn't involve in other things. I was among the toppers of my class, although had a different friend group from the toppers grp. This one teacher in 7th grade, she was uncomfortable with me hanging out with "bad" kids AND had a different demeanor. She picked on me a little, maybe I didn't respond how I should've. She started bullying me everyducking day, and all my classmates started doing the same. And I'm ugly with with uneven bone structure and all that bs. She used to call names and would say things like - your mom looks good, your sister looks good, why are you ugly? Is your father ugly? Why are you like this? EVERY FUCKING PERSON STARTED BULLYING ME and I didn't even have much other than studies and nerdy kid's cool things about me, I can't even remember much from that age bracket, I don't remember the reason but I tried to run away twice, didn't work. Made me more awkward, alienated, low-esteem pos to pick on. I'm putting an effort to recover now that I'm 18 and have a brain, but damn I couldn't even comprehend what was happening to me, I couldn't even identify I was sad, it just became normal to depressed all the time. Shit, that was long.
"IF YOUR TEACHER DIDNT GAVE YOU RESPECT,THEN YOUR CLASSMATES WILL ALSO NOT RESPECT YOU"Trueeeeeeeeeee.
yea even i used to think that, whenever a teacher makes a bad image of a person, just by making him/her stand up in front of the whole class, me and rest of the class would also feel that the person is not good, and we should we should never take him seriously.
That's some real truest ever thing!
Imagine sending your beloved child just for them to get beaten by a random-ass 45 year old guy😂
LITERLLYYY SOOO TRUE.
that's a way to put it look
that's a way to put it lol
"Teacher's can be bullies too" Yes gurl say it loud
My first grade teacher bullied me for no reason at all, mentally and physically she used to punish me for not bringing my many books on my tiny little back
I've never related more :)
My second grade teacher was so toxic and hateful of me she use to physical and mental punish me so much so that it traumatizing to even think about it, that experience has Scared me for the entirety of my life
My second grade teacher had cornered me a handful of times. I would totally dislike her and I had said it out loud to my friends. During that time, somewhere at the back of mind I felt that me disliking a teacher is as equivalent as to me being absolutely a disgraceful person. But i still kinda don't like that teacher and hate those memories. Plus, don't even get me start on how teachers use unruly persuasion to apply for a competitive exam conducted by the school, just because you are a "bright student". I mean shut the F up, you guys!!!!!
I feel jealous of people who had a big friend group and generally a good time at school. I will never choose to relive that time. It was the most anxiety inducing and horrible experience for me.
i used to feel the same until i realised ALL big friend groups with no exceptions has sp much drama & politics beyond you can imagine regardless of how perfect they look from outside
Truly
god SAME. I wish so bad college won't be the same.
LITERLLY USSSS!no friends,bad teachers,horrible education system,sooo truamatizing fr.
I was one of them, trust me we all are depressed now!! The silent ones at those times are finally coming out of that zone now!! but we can't
I was so bullied because i was short at height and i was also not good at study's but i was good at singing and other instruments and teachers would literally hit me because i was going to extra class for singing and one of the teacher also said that " tum bde hoke kuch nahi krr pao ge or singing se tumara ghar nahi cle ga faltu kam he " ☹️☹️☹️
Wtf is wrong with these teachers bruh..I hate em soo muchh.
‘even talking to boys can land you in trouble’ point is SO REAL.
Im in grade 10 (wish me luck yall)and this is from two months back. A male friend and I would go to the ground during recess and some teacher(s) noticed and they spread the word around in the staff room.
Initially, my english teacher asked me ‘if i was distracted’, even after telling her a simple no many times she wouldntlet it go and i rold my class teacher who also (later in the story) says the same.
after a few days, my class teacher calls me after class to ‘talk’ and shes like “your name is being highlighted in all ‘that’ stuff and im just saying that you should mend your ways” and I told her very firmly that you needn’t overthink things and im doing just fine
after that, that male friend sits behind me casually and my social science teacher notices and taunts me on that, saying “your class teacher told me that she made yall sit far from each other so what is he doing behind you?” (is this real? 1.) like we’re 10th graders and still have a seating arrangement, 2.) the teacher is absent so let us sit wherever we want to? 3.) hes not even sitting WITH ME? hes literally behind me so does it even matter? and l4.)WHY WOULDNT YOU ASK HIM INSTEAD?
she was so rude and pathetic about it because why would you want to humiliate a girl in front of a class of 40 people? genuinely didntsee that coming from her because I really liked her but Alas!
this is so petty honestly and i still cant recover from their wrong-doings.
it traumatized us all.
as a guy you cannot imagine the disgust of comments we get having a new female friend.
rape jokes involving my sister among elder dudes wasn't uncommon too after all.
Bruh thats actually so annoying and genuinely sucks
I had my bully classmates who I once called my friends give small dose about "how to behave with boys" 💀 Teachers never said a thing to me as such but these people who u have to share 6hrs of your day and of the same standard as me to remind what to do and what not. My insecurity peaked everytime I would go to school cus of this beings.
I’m the “I unfollowed everyone after leaving school” person 😭
Same... As if I'd wanna keep in touch with those unfunny close-minded creatures😂😂
same is my plan. real homies remain real but all those classmates we don't even talk to but still follow through mutuals and shit are just for name. they have their own lives and aint gon help when in need, they prolly dont even know u exist lol
😂I don't even remember names to even follow them
i was the topper of my class and yet i was treated so badly.... i was bullied and i was literally compared with another girl whose father was at higher rank.... i always tried my literal best and worked my ass off only to hear taunts and mockery from children and class teacher cuz i was bad at sports and my bad posture.... i had a few good friends.... i just miss my time with them.... also i had an academic downfall in 11th 12th because of my shitty teachers and peer pressure to fit it.... i wish i had studied more instead of trying to gain popularity i would have cracked neet
Girl same!!
Same ಠ_ಠ
usss @priiiyayadav @drkartikk
may i ask, how is life now, i'm petrified about life if i'm not able to clear neet
@@jasminekaur8809 i took a drop this year and am studying my a** off after cutting off from friends... wouldn't advice that if you are not like extremely mad in love with the idea of being a doctor..... i woud advice focussing on getting good score in CUET and you can give other entrance exams suitable for science stream.... it's not that if you fail NEET you are doomed but if you don't have a structured college list and backup plans it might be tough for you to get paid well early in any career
I'm in 12th and I'm almost dome with my school life but I also have a few things to share. So basically we didn't have humanities in our school up until now, I and other 4 students are the first batch of humanities. When it was first introduced and when it was my first day of school our history and polity teachere were absent so ons of my guy friends asked Principle ma'am that when will the classes begin or will it even begin so our principle said -" If there are enough students then it will otherwise I dont know " We were like what do you mean I dont know... What are we supposed to do if there are not enough students! The next day we again asked her to which she got mad and scolded us saying ki jabse humanities kya agay tum log to hawa mein udne lage vo.. Chalo batao kon hai DM hamara... Huh tumhe pata bhi nhi hoga chale hain IAS banne. Now that pissed me off. We still dont have a proper classroom for us,we sit with commerce and study in staff room when its History and polity period. They say if we dont get 98 or 99 in boards they are going to discontinue humanities!
I can go on and om with the other bullying, sexist rules and discrimination but the comment is already is big to read.
that's just horrible. why did they even open a school if this is how they're going to treat their students? not even providing a decent classroom or staff, and simultaneously expecting- no, threatening the students to score a 98? bloody hypocrites. and don't even get me started on how the humanities stream is so underestimated and looked down upon in this country. our education system is visibly so fucked up and people still have the audacity to complain about how we are so behind other countries.
Cry about it. Bitch!
@@ninglightttttruee, being a science student i totally respect all the streams and this is what i am facing too, my school doesnt even gives us any opportunities we are totally neglected for extracurriculars as they only wants us to study all the time to score good, taking extra classes and not taking science students for tour cause we didnt score that well in half yearly according to their expections
@@Monsieurrubio she's a crybaby fs
now that I've completed my schooling this year, I can remember atleast 3 incidents of the teachers being horrible. back when I was in 3rd grade, I was a slightly below average student (like i wasn't bad i just didn't care about studying, i only studied during exams) so there was this infamous maths teacher who was assigned to my class, oh my god she was such a tyrant. like we had every student in the class to bring a glitter pen to make somthing specifically in her notes(we wrote with pencils back then), and god forbid someone forgot or just didn't have the pen on them, she would verbally berate them for minutes, saying stuff like "are your parents so poor they can't afford a glitter pen" "do you live in a basti" and so much shit about being poor and the thing is there were bpl students in our school and now that I look back, this girl who was one, she got berated so often. and apart from that the students who didn't perform well in weekly tests by some imaginary margin she had, she'd make them sit in the front, 4-5 people squeezed in seats for two students, 2 poorest ones would stand at her desk and study the entire class, and I remember being poor in maths and I remember when I had to stand at her desk once, she would berate you so much, i remember sitting in those front desks for quite some time too, like I can't say for sure but I feel like that was the time when fear of maths was instilled in my mind. she taught us 4th grade too (thank god i did get better)
then there was my grade 7 class teacher, and by my own admission, I was one of the two most popular/influential girls in the class, my best friend at the time and me, and a bunch of guys we were part of this big big friend group, and every monitor of some kind was from our group. I loved that year, I tied rakhis to all the guys too, never dated any, we had similar humor and we all sat in the same row so it was always so fun, thing is my bsf was dating one the guys, I sat with him the entire 7th grade and even 6th grade i think (back when roll no. se baith te the), anyways, so many girls in the class liked him and their were these 2 who my bsf never saw eye to eye with because she would constantly try to flirt with this buffoon even though she knew they were dating, , so long story short this girl, for some reason or the other, irked by something decided she'll take 3 of her friends and make up some bs story about all the class being controlled by us (me and my bsf for some reason) because our group monopolised the monitors. like everyone in the class was chill except these 3 people, and they made their parents bring up this fake issue to the ct in parent teacher meeting and boy oh boy then it started, the ct would absolutely grill me and my friend for no reason, like she would call us to her desk and berate us in front of the whole class for even flipping a page so much as the wrong way, she was nuts, she would start glaring at you and make faces in the middle of the class and had an in general bias towards guys. thank god I was great at academics that year, all my other teachers loved me.
also this one quite recent, in 11th grade my biology teacher alright. she drove me to tears everyday, so thing is she had such a huge glaring vendetta against me, like nobody comes to school regularly in class 11th, you have coachings, tests, all that jazz, you need to study, completely common stuff, everybody in every class did it, everyone in my class did it, but whenever I would god forbid take a leave, the next day, she would make me stand up and rip me a new one, ask me why i was absent, even when i told her the reason (I was so stressed in grade 11, i was sick every month atleast twice, thrice even, down with 103 fever everyday, my physical health was so unbelievably bad, even my periods came like every 2/3 months when they used to be regular just before 11th), like she'd ask me the reason, and if i opened my mouth to tell her, she would scream at me to shut up, she would ask me hard questions about what she taught the previous day(which she didn't she'd just play a ppt, even people who came to class couldn't answer the questions she's ask) and she would constantly berate me, and mind you I'd never been dislikeable to a teacher all my life even for no reason, I used to be an appointee, listened in class, debated well, was some or other monitor every year, it was so jarring having this teacher who was also the vice principle of the school completely hate me for no reason. then i got it one day, so at my coaching i was the top scorer in biology and she had an incredible vendetta against the coaching for no apparent reason (probably because she taught us nothing so people in the class would ofc focus on their coaching). and on 1st day of 11th grade, she asked everybody who went to that coaching to stand up and innocent and unknowing all my peers did (I was absent that day, conjuctivitis) and as time passed, I think she probably asked someone who tops this coaching's test from our class and some dumbfuck probably told her it was me) and fuck my life from then on, she was so relentless, I remember november of that year, i was so so sick, a bajillion health problems and it was so hard to show upto school and i showed up atleast 3 days a week, she would take entire classes up shredding me, that whole month I'd come home and sob everyday because I was so tired, it was so obvious that my classmates who weren't even my friends would try to comfort me after biology periods, anycase I complained to my parents but really they couldn't even do anything, she was vice principle and if i complained, she'd only bully me harder. I've never felt that helpless in my entire life, she made my life a living hell, entire 11th , even half of 12th, then just a month before boards she did a complete 180 cooing me, giving me resources, and in general being very nice to me (i learned this was because she thought i was had the potential to bring a complete 100 in bio, that would add to her laurel, because she was afterall our teacher), and I ended up scoring 97, and then after the result, when we went to meet the teachers, and collect documents etc, she was back to being horrible to me. she was truly something else
(I'm sorry to anyone who made it to the end or even bothered to read this, its too long ik TT)
Bro the tyrant math teacher trauma is probably the reason I never liked maths, it was the teacher not the subject. She used to call us to boards and pull our hair and slap us too hard for a 3th grader and I used to cry. I still remember 💀.
I read it, and I can see how you must have felt, something about being academically up there and still being targetted by teachers hurts differently, i remember I had this teacher who in front of the whole class in class 8th called me fat because I'd got in an accident she said , "uska accident ho gaya? Bolo weight Kam kare moti hoti ja rhi hai tabhi accident ho raha hai" and that was the moment my really close friends picked up on it and bodyshamed me up untile 12th,,,, and just like you i remember everyone was taking day off school in 12 to finish up on work etc but whenever I took a break my class teacher would literally send me to the PRINCIPAL'S office and have me write an apology letter wtf was that ???, she also said I was on her hit list apparently?? I was also the shy quiet girl who was very hardworking ,,, I don't know why teachers just hate some students
@@Cyberswirls I genuinely don't get why pre-primary and primary wing teachers are so cruel and violent?? like is hitting small kids (who don't even understand the world) helping with your frustation ma'am?
@@wings2769 I get you, I'm so sorry that happened to you genuinely, and those people that teased you don't deserve to be called your friends, it hurts even more when people who you'd expect were on your side , do stuff like that. you didn't deserve that shit. as for your 8th grade teacher, I don't get it, why such children-hating people choose to be teachers. fuck her and your imbecile petty ct
You're so brave that u went through all of this. I read the whole thing
I don't understand why so many teachers forget to act professional.
99% are horrible and unprofessional.
Because kids are extremely vulnerable and most likely they won't fight back so these adults use it to their advantage and project all of their trauma anger and jealousy on the students It's all about power dynamics and our culture of letting everything slide the same teacher who beats tf out of students in india will lick the azz of incharge and principal because of their position not only school this type of behaviour exist even in government services where the one with power bullies the person with lower position than them and the one with lower position bullies who's even lower in position
99 percent? Oh shut up dude. You don't even know shit
"Teachers can be bullies too". I had this one teacher who targeted me always and she has humiliated in front of the whole class multiple times. She'd always try to find fault in me. I am actually a very quiet student and I stay quiet most of the time but to this teacher, i happened to be the noisiest. It's been a long time since i graduated high school but i still can't forgive that teacher for everything she's done to me
Same
USSS.
Recently our 12th phy teacher who was considered good and funny by the students made fun of a boy who stuttered and my whole perception of him changed instantly. I was sitting on the backbench and was so hurt because everyone in the class laughed like it was the funniest thing. The boy who was made fun of reminded me of my nephew who also stuttered.
My classmates (couple) were literally threatened with a knife by another classmate due to a petty fight but the teachers made a bigger issue about them dating over someone with a knife, they're parents got called and they all got an equal punishment and the guy with the knife was let off easy 💀🙏
What the- these stories getting on my nerves
The stress India's education system puts on students has no benefit either. I'm an NRI living in Australia, and over here the two most common nationalities for internation students in universities is Indian and Chinese. Both countries have extremely difficult, ruthless education systems that put an insane amount of stress on students, and the thing is whenever I work with Indian or Chinese international students in group assignments, they never really perform significantly better or worse than students who grew up here in Australia, despite the education system here putting faaar less pressure on students.
I have heard absolute horror storries about the JEE from indian international students, but despite the difficulty they haven't performed any better on average. Then there is the insane strictness of teachers in the Indian education system making it worse on students as well.
School was genuinely horrible for me 😭😭, I was sexually harassed as a girl , I got bullied by boys in my class , they used to beat me up , teachers completely brushed off every single of my cry for help . It took me years to get over the trauma and honestly still not over some of the things . I became really suicidal developed unhealthy coping mechanisms, self harm etc . One of my teacher also used to target me so much she put the blame on me that it was my fault that I was getting bullied , harassed and stuff . I never ever wanna go back to those days . I just passed 10th grade and I’m glad school is finally over . I feel really bad for kids who have also gone through this stuff it’s really fucked up man . I’m not even gonna start about the Indian education system where our worth is attached to a very linear form of education.
i hope you heal from these things, you have come v far. proud of u
I don't know about what happens to girls in other schools but from what I've experienced girls are given more advantage over boys in highschool...? Boys are spoken to roughly as if they're no humans. The teachers of highschool are very humiliating and after only some time I started realising that it's just not me that's feeling bullied because as a conservative guy - down to earth and considering myself at fault first - double checking myself if only I'm wrong - I felt that I was the only one who was at fault. I'm still through, gon' appear for 12th boards the coming year. Mainly just because of teachers over the years my self respect has deteriorated and I used to be treated like a zombie in class...? After a traumatic experience of 6 years, I'm trying to get out of it; it's not the teachers when you know it; inside-school bullying was less that teachers had to jump in.
Truly relatable video; I don't know about "talking to boys" being "danger" - it might happen in schools because that's when ur growin up and teachers notice that too and just inapprop'ly shame you for it...?
Totally normal; it's just old-fashioned the way older people still see talking to the opposite gender as a taboo.
Idk; girls are just treated more nicely because they're girls and they're good looking...? Boys are often discriminated and esp. if you're not good looking enough.
As someone who's been since the start of the school and his learning journey both, I can tell that in our school if a student stays active throughout the class, actively participates and asks questions but gets average or even below-average marks - they won't get scolded much even if they're assignments and notebooks aren't complete. Silent psychology tells they're seen to be "studying more" just because they're participating in the class.
As someone who gets humiliated by teachers a lot, if I answer what the teacher asked correctly, I'm still not praised when teachers fall into the "how did he answer that" pit. Correct me if I'm wrong. They can't focus on every child, but I often go to school, but I still get the feedback of teachers that I lay at home all the time arest.
Humiliation and bullying is regarded as "teacher's care" for the students - they say they don't want students to score less - when it's not for the student but only for the teacher's tutoring credits and nothing less. Deans and headmasters scold them whose frustration they take out on us. Teachers don't care a bit and unko ghanta farak nahi padta if you're failing or have a bad mental health especially then too when it's only because of them. If teachers were to care, they'd naturally react by encouraging the poor students more than the already accomplishing/flourishing students. That's just my take; other schools might find better teachers but it's almost the same thing everywhere else if anybody could relate.
TLDR; school is trash; read to find out why
PS: This will be updated if I care enough before me dropping out.
Ain't visiting that place even after board results. Thanks if you read this far
School is quite traumatizing for me and Teachers here are not that supportive and if someone bullies you they'll be like ignore it and do nothing about it and personally I think that they failed at their job and are nothing less but a lazy person who claims that they did their job 😶
@@SurendraKumar-wp5jr Exactly. Teach the bullies a lesson if you're a teacher - but no - you yourself choose to bully and harass a single child. I feel targetted a lot and that's my take - I guess I'm not handsome or shit...? What a qualifying materialistic factor we got here, whoa.
Teachers usually go around saying they won't handle complaints and it's not their duty to solve matters like...........??!
If you're giving in in "inappropriate" acts of the teenage so much then why back off
oh btw this is me only from an alt id
@@soniavii facts 🗣️🗣️
When they do bias i really hate those teachers who only love the one who is close to them 🥲
My brain has thankfully pushed all those sad and hurtful memories of my school life to the very back on my mind so i can barely remember them but ik there was a lot of bullying that happened.
No matter what, it subconsciously affects you, unless you address the trauma.
REALLL
Tw: self harm
My 2nd class teacher used to make us slap ourselves when we did something bad. And i remember i made that a habit to slap myself whenever I made a mistake (i used to do that till my face was red) even when no one told me to and i think that is why I started harming myself seriously when i was in highschool and intermediate (because everything was shit).
Another way school ruined my mental health and now I'm paying for medication lol.
Hey, I hope you're okay now.
Hope you are doing good🫂
I've always hated school and I always will idc I'm in 12th grade and can't wait to pass out
I can't even talk to my boyfriend without hiding :(
This is soo relatable in many aspects. Last year I made a video on how I used to get bullied in school and that same person tweeted my old videos on social media, which was kinda shitty tbh. Well, I thing experience in school can really shape up a personality of an individual. Also it’s being 5 years since I graduated, yet it is very traumatising whenever you pass through my school or get any kind of flashbacks.
School was the worst time of my life, it just took away, what could have been a good childhood. it not only ruined my self-esteem, also my relationship with my parents. i finally was able to fix it all at the age of 25 that too after so much therapy.
In 9th grade a substitute teacher just happening to roam around the classroom without any specific goal saw me drawing female body anatomy sketches next to the male ones. She called me to her table in front of the whole class, tore the pages down from my entire sketchbook, she wrote my name on them, and told me it was "vulgar" and that i shouldnt be doing that at "my age" while giving me a cold shoulder. My self esteem was beyond repair to the point where i thought drawing women's bodies was something vulgar. Yeah she didnt think anything was wrong with the male anatomy sketches.
To this day i fear even my parents finding out i study the body anatomy art, thinking they'd react in the same way that karen did. There's something that keeps me from merrily flaunting my art in front of people unlike before the incident happened.
That teacher got good grades when she was student but is still stupid..
I'm in 10th grade rn and I can't relate to people that misses school 🤷♀️ like I can't wait to get out and never ever visit... just bad memories and shitty teachers filled up my entire 14 years going to school
exact same
Schools not only traumatize you but also take away your skills and the natural passion you once had. Teachers (not all, but most of them) act in school like they are always angry. I remember even after kindergarten, with very poor grades, when I was in 1st grade (6 years old), I struggled to write properly, especially in Hindi. I couldn't even write a word properly; my handwriting was so bad. But guess how our Hindi teacher thought she would change or improve me? She gave me an extra class and slapped me very hard every time I couldn't write properly or made any mistake. She literally slapped me 30-40 times, and that was the most horrific thing I ever experienced as a kid. Even though I don't feel much traumatized by that now, I still feel bad for myself when I think about it, considering the fact that now I can not only write and read more languages than her but also know much more about them.
I always felt bad for girls who faced sexual harassment by teachers in the name of punishment. And yeah, our school also had the same FUCKING rules for girls. Don’t wear this, don’t style your hair like that, don’t do ponytails, don’t wear nail polish-like, WTF. Why don’t they just fuckin focus on what is actually expected of them-TEACHING?
The school curriculum never allowed me to do what I wanted. They cared more about what we were wearing, whom we were talking to, and, as you said, about talking to girls-yup, that happens in every school. When I was in 9th grade, we had a small friend group of 3 boys and 3 girls, but the fact that we were friends for a very long time didn’t matter. There was this one day when a teacher saw us just talking to each other in a friendly way (just like all other friends do) during lunchtime at the main entrance of the classroom. Guess what? That was the last time boys and girls sat together in the classroom. From the next day, they created a separate section for boys and girls.
Physics teachers have an attitude like an IIT professor, and English teachers expect us to speak only English in their classes after teaching us nothing about the language.
Yup that's the beloved SCHOOLS for you. 🙃
mood.
Man I hate school and always will. The amount of damage and trauma those 15 years gave me though. I cannot wrap my head around an adult making a scene out of stupid silly things
Relived my entire trauma of being bullied for my dusky skintone and “but you’re too smart for a Bihari”.🥲 You should rant more, Miss Misimi.
But most of the IIT’s are filled by bihari people because of their brains, UPSC as well because they are actually too smart. Who is this stupid person bullying ? .-.
Indians really stereotype people from Bihar
And here I thought Biharis were smart (IAS IIT)
My physics teacher made me feel like an alien i still feel isolated in the world bcz of the shame he filled me with its hard not feeling like i don't deserve to live here to be around people or deserve any good thing
Honestly I hate him so muchhhh
same.
@soniavii are you also talking about praveen chauhan the a s 🕳
Ya misimi salute to you for being brave and truthful about your school experience....
My school experience was horrible.... My maths teacher bullied me alot.... It is still there in me like a trauma....
I am in college now but back when I was in 10th, our physics teacher (female) was taking an oral test of some sort and she was calling out girls row wise and asking them questions. She was doing like a marathon or smth because as fas as I remember she asked like 20 or 25 questions in a go. The one who stopped or stuttered in the middle were disqualified according to her and what she did was hold the girls hair from the pony and just pull it so harshly in front of the whole class. When it got to me, I stopped in the middle due to social anxiety or just nervousness and I kid you not she held my hair with such force I almost screamed in front of the whole class. After that she made us sit on our knees while facing the wall. Now that I remember it I wish I was a little bold back then to point it out to the teacher that it was wrong oh her side, yk, even if i did not study enough, it was the time of just after corona so what do you expect from students. Not everybody had crisp and precise hold on the concepts and some students usually stutter like me. That day broke me so much that I still struggle with social anxiety. Being humiliated in front to a class of 50 students was really horrible. Sorry to say but I wish karma repays her because no matter what the reason, a teacher should never behave like this. Till today she stands on top of my most hated people's list.
i was also bullied but puberty hit me up
and it was good later on
i still had to struggle with my personality
cuz i never experienced this attention and respect like for no reason they were nice to me ( especially girls )
i was so annoying but that got healed with time
eventually i grew our of it and yeah it's good after 8th
i can feel the pain of bullied kids
i can feel what they want
i never ever bullied anyone instead helped them
i became a new man
just don't giva shi--
no one cares about you
you have to keep this universal law conserved
so don't care about others
I spent my entire middle school just wanting a friend ...well a good friend at that but the experience just in general made me a very quiet person out of loss of confidence
came for the rant stayed for the ted talk
My hindi teacher told my best friend to crumple my project and throw it in the trash 👍🏻, was in 4th grade. Still very traumatized.
Bro wtf these teachers also have kids
My hindi teacher ripped my hindi notebook just bc I scribbled something on the last page, that day I was already having a bad day and when this happened, I couldn't help but cry.. I mean it's my notebook, I bought it who gave you the right to rip it off?? She didn't even apologize which is not surprising but whenever I remember this incident I feel like slapping her so hard. But nowadays she's good to us, still what she did is terrible.
Long rant, just sharing my experience and hatred for my school 😁
Im northeast Indian and i faced similar experiences, my teachers aren't as bad as yours but they do hit u at times like when you fail a test or for some really dumb reason like forgetting to bring a pencil. It's honestly so normalised here and when I got older like reaching high school, the scoldings got way more serious and hurtful bc of some teachers 😰 The students themselves are also reeally toxic as well, there is so much racism, sexism, homophobia and religion hating. Light skin is the ideal in Indian culture and you could really see it in schools, light skin was considered beautiful but dark skin was ugly, people would get bullied for it and also soo many male teachers indirectly told us about how males are superior which made my classmate boys become so egoistic, they would always demean us and say males are better but we could all see that they were insecure and victims of toxic masculinity so they had to project it onto us. When we were really young, we all girls and boys used to sit together and be friends but then in like 3-4 grade suddenly we were not allowed to sit together and if we talked to each other they would shame us and its so dumb, it's like they think the moment we make eye contect we're gonna start making out in front of the whole class 🤦♀️ and this kind of mindset not only is the dumbest thing ever but really bad for our development, it really made us distant which caused the sexism. My classmates are also very homophobic, they have this very strong unreasonable hatred towards homosexuals, they are disgusted by them say stuff like all gays will burn in hell (most of us are Christians), they don't realise it but it is so hypocritical, no good christian would ever act that way towards them, but they actually do know it's not Godly but deliberately choose to ignore it 😐 shows me alot about their relationship with God. And ofc girls are slut shamed alot and if anyone is in a relationship, many people immediately assume that they do "indecent" things and are looked down upon (very Indian mindset) which is also the dumbest thing i have ever heard
I could go on forever but overall, I hate my school soooo much, it really made me realise how important a good school environment is for a child
I can relate SO hard to these things which you talked about, I've had really bad experiences like these too in school. How messed up and shitty can teachers be to treat helpless kids like shit for little to no reason is beyond me
Once my hindi teacher slapped me in front of the whole class because apparently i failed in my hindi exam. On the result day i went with my mom obviously my mom was mad she still asked me to check my numbers and answers so i did and guess what in my hindi papers 15 marks were missing. My essay marks were not added 🙂 we immediately went back to school and talked about it to my class teacher. She was shocked too she said she'll talk to the hindi teacher and said "thank god you didn't went to the principal or else it would have been a really big problem for your hindi teacher" Now i wish i went straight to the principal's office.
The same teacher also slapped and pulled my friend's hair who had short bob kind of hair and she didn't tie her hair and was wearing earrings we were like 10 and 11 🙂
Our class teacher didn't had any problem with her hair and we also greeted our principal in the morning he didn't had any prblm but she had. Ok i understand hairstyle is also part of our uniform but why the f did she pulled her hair so roughly and slapped her?? That's a child??
@@bubbleofdreams1166 bro tf man, some people shouldnt be allowed anywhere near kids
this video!! this is how problematic school environment is sometimes!!
When i was in 1st std one of the sirs used to pull pants and skirts as punishments thankfully i never experienced it but it was the very fking wrong thing to do to anyone
omg that’s so creepy
@@dontmisimi that's literally harrasment
That's sensual harrasment bro tf
I can so much relate to youu!! Like some teachers ,batchmates,seniors etc target some particular students that they are only good and they should only respected and others shouldn't. Like life feels really tough when you're stuck in those situations when they don't value you that too at that stage of life when we are actually growing and learning thingss. But as soon as we hit 18 or like when we start to know things and become aware then our life becomes better but still a kind of anger for those past people doesn't fade away easily. It's stuck with us for the rest of our lives. And I felt really good after watching this video and seeing you're doing really well now. You've gained a lot of confidence! You're kinda spreading awareness. Keep it up.❤️
I do relate to this alot, Flashback to that day when I was in 10th grade, I was in school and peacefully minding my business in class without doing anything that would trigger the teacher then this teacher straight up came to me and slapped me on my face in front of whole class, for no reason and then she went on with her day. I know she might not even remember because why would she, now I’m 22 and finished my bachelors too but still I think about that incident in 10th grade, it makes me cry untill this day, like why the fuck she did that.
Wtf she mad or wor Sorry but i would have asked her that what was that for
In India teaching is taken as a profession by people who had usually scored low marks,cannot get any prospective newage jobs, cannot relocate due to low confidence.
These are the teachers in India.
So how can they teach anything of significance.
Marks are scored by Student's own hardwork.
this should literally be the top comment
Had the most shitty day in school yesterday fr… and almost everything is relatable 💀
you speak from my heart, I passed out my 12th like 4 months back and I never ever want to do that shit again. I had this weird tension with most of my teachers throughout my high school, unlike my middle school where I was a quiet kid who didn't say anything back whenever any teacher said anything bad to me, when I entered high school I decided I'm not going to let these teachers publically humiliate me for no reason and yeah even though I had this weird thing with teachers I am happy that I talked back at times. There are endless and endless traumatizing experiences from high school and I am thankful it's over.
Did I type too much haha? All the best, loved your video!!!! 😚
in 11th class one of our teachers retired , so there was a vacant position available. Different teachers were coming everyday and teaching during one of our periods while our class teacher judged if they were good enough for the job. this one super nice lady came and taught so well, she explained everything in a simple way and even taught in such a simple way that when she asked a student ( who wasn’t good at studies) a question he was able to answer it. I personally found her great and would have loved to be taught by her because her teaching wasn’t complex and being a person with many mental disorders, it was actually easy for me to focus. Once she was done our class teacher asked the class if we liked her. A lot of us said we understood her easily, including me. then our class teacher went back to her desk, and then proceeded to call the two topper girls of the class , who were amazing academically and scored literally full marks every time and were even vice captains of their respective houses. Overall, they were perfect students. when they came back from her desk I asked what she wanted and turns out the teacher asked them both personally what THEY thought of the teacher.
I know it’s not a big thing but that just felt so disrespectful. teachers really don’t care for the kids who don’t do academically well. The teacher is not just gonna teach the two students , but apparently their opinion is important than the other 40 students in the class because they are academically well.
yk today our principal announced the results for student council like he told us who all were selected, after results he said smtj like "yall are part of the student council now which means you're important unlike others, yall are exceptionals" and it annoyed me sm bcs how u say such a mean statement in front of the students who werent selected? just bcs they didnt made it doesnt mean you'll indirectly call them useless :/
omg that would have REALLY pissed me off
Felt like you just exposed my school life 😇
The doing good in a subject because of a teacher's guidance is so true
Lol I recently got kicked out of my College hostel cause apparently I am being medicated for my depression. The warden got to know after I was taken to the hospital after a side effect of the medication. They don't wanna take responsibility and think I ODed, the warden is not willing to house me
Better tho, cause flats are WAYYY better than the hostel.
Not all people are cool just because they are elder they dont deserve respect. Respect is earned not given bruh
i just wanna get done w school as soon as possible omg. i remember, last year when i was in ninth grade, i got into an accident bc of which i had to skip school for almost a month. the accident happened just a few meters away from the school premises so a lot of teachers witnessed it, including my physics teacher. after i recovered and started school again, the physics teacher made fun of my accident as a way of shutting me up. the whole class was talking. but i was specifically targetted by him, because *I* was disturbing the class. thinking about this still makes me sad. teachers can def be bullies.
I love how the video is sped up!! Thank you
when staying up late doing school work pays off to getting misimi content >>>
So In class 10 there was a geography teacher who was really strict it was copy submission day and in the previous day she told us to make a seperate index page. But I was absent that day and I didn't know about it was my turn to get my copy checked . She took my copy and tored ! my index page .Because I had not made a separate index. I remember the girl beside me started laughing so hard and many of our classmate too started laughing. It was literally so embarrassing 😢😢
Ive completed school this year and you won't believe how relieve and happy I felt
I was scolded for wearing literally a religious ring and beaten in front of whole school as the buses were passing by watching me got beaten by this one teacher who before laying hands on me not only cussed the ring saying "Abe tere jesus ki to mai" but also threw it far far away into school playground. That day onwards not only I got traumatized but also lost my will to attend school and basically went from being an average student to a failure, but now in my 20s I realized how serious of an issue it was, so my kids' teachers have to have a ppt with proper logical reasons involved if they ever lay a hand on them or I'm shutting the whole sh*thole up. Thanks this was a good platform to blow off my heat💀❤️much love.
oh my god. that sounds insane.
i randomly discovered your channel today and started binge watching because i love your commentary and opinions so much :p (crazy how this is a video from 2 years back) my teacher told me and my best friend "these girls won't be participating in the events" when we went up to her to register our names and i'm not very social in the class and don't participate in group activities.i was confident i could do something and enjoy the experience.however, cuz we were "too enthusiastic" for her she won't allow that and i'm actually kinda mad at her for picking her favourite students (aka the prefects and toppers) and that hurt me a lot. i hate her so bad. she didn't just treat me and my best friend like this but the entire class except for her favourites, she pays attention to them, helps them understand better, doesn't make weird comments about their appearances and their insecurities passing them on as jokes. she's got targets too.i hate it when teachers just make their favourites or toppers do activities because according to them nobody else is fit for it. how do you expect anyone to participate willing at this rate and them just doing it to learn instead of doing just for the sake of it because the teacher said so? how is anybody gonna be ready to do this in the future if you don't give them the opportunities now? last year's teacher tried to be friendly with the class but ended up degrading them in front of everyone and making fun of their interests. when i was in nursery, i was a cry baby too (still am lowkey) but whenever i cried i used to get hit and this went on till class 3. we have a maths teacher who doesn't teach or explain she just walks into class picks an usual from her favourites and makes them do sums on the board so the rest can copy. you need to understand maths to do it. then they're gonna act surprised as to why 89% of the school is failing in maths. i got a new maths tutor this year and its actually so amazing for me because i understand stuff and have confidence and i got rid of the maths phobia (maths is now my favourite subject sorry if i'm too nerdy T-T) and like getting praised for doing things correctly and especially for trying got so much of my self esteem back. i barely used to pass maths when the first teacher i spoke about was the maths teacher. in class 6 i had a really nice class teacher who treated everyone fairly and made it interesting to study (she was like a mom to me) but she had to move and leave the school.
For the most part, My school and my school experience was great. Most of my teachers were nice, but there are still plenty of incidents (That I know of, and I'm sure there's more I'm not aware of)
My school (ICSE) used to participate in an interschool competitive event in another school where there were many activities like sports, art based events, singing, dance, modelling even shark-tank like pitching and so on. The school used to participate in it before the quarantine, and went again for the first time in 2022 after the quarantine was fully lifted. Our principal had also changed, so since it was the first time we were participating, we weren't expecting any wins (I was in 9th).
It just so happened that our school got just one medal- bronze in girls' kabaddi. And next year they didn't.
The female PE teacher that was 'coaching' them was sooo pissed. She started being so mean to those girls. When they went back and told her they didn't get a win she was like "I broke my leg for you guys and this is what you give me" and much more bullshit.
another thing is that before our sports day we were assisting the same teacher in conducting the heats (standing broad jump, running race etc) for the younger children. We were conducting the tests for the little girls and the little boys were playing football for the time being. There was one boy who was sitting on the slide because HIS CLASSMATES DIDNT LIKE AND AND WEREN'T LETTING HIM PLAY WITH THEM.
THIS LADY grabbed him by the arm, literally SLAPPED him in front of us even though he did absolutely nothing and pushed him telling him to go play football.
It's really true that school and specially the teachers play a big role in shaping your self esteem. And for people like me who are generally very quite and weren't good at studies, they will literally eat you up. I don't know what trauma do THESE teachers bring up from their home to project it on a child like that. A child who basically has no sense of self will definitely be easily crushed by teachers like these. They will either say it on your face or make an environment like that for you and everyone just believes you are the dumb kid. Describing the pain of years in words is impossible. I was worse because I was the mute child, I couldn't speak at all and the teachers would just get even harsh instead of trying to scare the child less. To this day, I'm still afraid of speaking in front of 40 people, afraid that everyone judge me just like they did when I was a child.
School was sweet too but more bitter.
This video hits home. The only time i wish to go back to school is when i realise there's so much work as an adult lol. School was a bad experience for me too, as a kid who was conventionally "ugly" and dark skinned, i was a target of bullying till about 6th grade by teachers. I remember very vividly during 2nd grade i had a teacher who used to despise me for non reason, she came up to my desk during finals and read out answers out loud? Trying to belittle me and show me as a dumb kid. I sucked at hindi and she didn't like the fact that i was ugly and sucked at it. There are multiple instances which were so traumatic that my brain actively tries not to recall. Honestly only "conventionally pretty" and "smart" kids had school easy and fun.
I never wanna go to my school days again I am just so grateful you shared your scenario I always thought that there must be so wrong with me but seeing people experienced same kinda make me feel bit peace with myself
I just passed out my high school and I used to go school once or twice on a week because I am person who gets sick every month but when I went to school after some days the so called female teachers in my high school OH MY GOD attacks me like I am a big piece of sugar in front of those fkng ants I feel so bad I can't even have audacity to tell them that I am not well or anything but I got bullied since I was like 6 or 7 years old
whenever I'll start my youtube I am definately gonna make a video on this topic I wanna say I admire you sooooo soooo much like If I ever get a chance to meet you I'll be the happiest person on earth that day.
virtual huggies to you💌
In school, I faced constant criticism, which destroyed my confidence. My physics teacher said to me one time, 'You're worthless and will never do anything with your life,' because I didn't know the answer to his question. He kept pointing out to me, insulting me, and acting as if I don't exist, making me terrified even to speak. I suffer from extreme social anxiety and stage fright now-I stutter, my words jumble, and find myself unable to speak even in front of my friends properly. I overthink everything I say; there is always that fear of being judged. I was an average student before, but those experiences drained my motivation and left me feeling completely worthless. In 9th grade, our music teacher used to tell a girl in my class that she could never sing and shouldn’t even try when she told him that she wanted to be a singer. It was heartbreaking to see because, at that age, we’re supposed to learn and explore, not be perfect. Comments like that can crush someone’s confidence, especially when they’re just trying to find what they love. The teachers at my school except few were biased n didn't even tried to hide it, would always demotivate weaker students as if we are that one odd black spot in a white shirt that shouldn't exist and sore to the eyes. School was so traumatic n depressive for me and I hate it so much.
I've got all the problems you've listed. Social anxiety and all.
I've always been praised, ignored when I did something wrong and respected by every single teacher that has taught me.
There might be other factors that made you like this. For me, I had strict parents, didn't travel for tuition, didn't play outdoors, never went out to buy groceries, and didn't indulge in with my friends because all of them were low life pretentious trashers
Honestly this video needs to be more popular, just because of how common this is.
back in school i was really a quiet kid who never participated in class or anything like that but always did well on exams so the teachers not really knew about me. I remember once i did really great on my maths exam as compared to the other class toppers. So he accused me for cheating on my maths exam infront of like 30+ students.
Now that i am watching this video, i have realised teachers seemingly "pushing us to work hard" or "talking to us privately to show they care"..... All these behavior, were just the teachers exercising their authority relentlessly.
thumbnail 😍, didn't know she was a country girl
I liked the video immediately after seeing the title .I do love some of my school time memories and would love to have that inner peace back ,but excluding the horrible shit some of my classmates and juniors put me through ,esp with killing my self esteem and bullying me extremely hard for my looks . I lost touch with most of them after school and don't regret it a bit .
Omg yes and if you talk back they will tell your parents and they will say that you should just listen to elders , because that have more experience than you 😓😀🔪💀🙏
when you said you were one of those kids whose parents told them to always respect elders i felt that cause whenever i told my parents about a older person who commented on my weight or just made me feel bad in general they would always say "they are only joking, don’t take everything seriously, if they say something take it." so i grew up letting people walk all over me and just recently realised i needed to change.
6:24 omg ur so real for that! i thought it was just the boys from my class ...the amount of balls touching and fighting that happened during recess was INSANE
SOMEONE HAD THE BALLS TO SAY IT THANK YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH OMG (I switched from an American school to an indian school)
gurl your spitting factssss
never wanna look back on those daysss
Y did i listen my whole school life story here 🙂🤝💽
I never specifically had an incident which would make me hate school but in general it was just that I never felt that i even belonged there. I was studying in Co Ed but my mom wanted to send me to some other school, girl's school if better. I did get into an all girls school but even after 7 years of studying there, I never really felt like I am supposed to be there in the first place. I thought that its just something I'm feeling because i am new and would eventually feel used to after a while but no. I was always annoyed and that school always felt out of place. Although I won't blame my school for that but i would definately like to mention that one maths teacher who just considered me as a dumb student the entire year she taught us even tho I was pretty good in every subject but maths because it was genuinely hard for me even though I tried my best at scoring good marks in it. She segregated the rows according to the marks and made all the students who were bad at maths sit in a particular row which was called the row for the 'duffer' students. I understand that she did it so that she would know which specific students need special attention at this subject but she never thought what us as 'duffer' students would feel. It was genuinely humiliating even though she did it with right intentions because we got undermined by the whole class and our bench partners who were the 'smart' ones assigned by her so that we would learn from them treated us like we are stupid and far below their level. I remember my bench partner snatching my answer sheet when I scored more than her in my English exam so that she would find just something to get my marks deducted and to satisfy her ego even though she knew that I'm better than her in English so no matter how much she tried to find a flaw in the correction, she would find nothing because how perfect my answers were.
But yeah I would say that only if I wouldn't have been classified as the 'duffer' kid by my maths teacher that day, all of these prejudice and feeling of inferiority complex would have not existed.
My memories are pretty good regarding school life
Maybe I was and am the special kid loved by everyone
🔥🔥🗣🗣
this is so relatable misimi, i remember parents used to say ki hamara bacha aapke hath me hai isko maaro peeto kuch bhi kro 😀
I really hate Indian schools and I wanna move to an American one sooo badly cause they try to make it fun and mine is just shitty
Girl, respectfully. As some1 whose lived in hong kong and the USA and came back to india, im never going back. American schools arent perfect, theyre far from. Im 16 rn and there were 14 year old americans getting pregnant and this was not just an exception case, EVERY SCHOOL, EVERY GRADE had it. The racism in america and hong kong (and europe for that matter, i hate europe) is fucking INSANE, esp against indians. That self hate wont take you anywhere lmao. Not all indian schools are “shit” and not all american schools are the perfect teenage dream. Most are not.
@@Jia-po2uf Still better than India. People like you are the reason this country will never become developed.
This reminds me, I was in 4th grade and my math teacher used to slap the kids on the cheeks if there were too many pages to correct in the notebook. Literal 10 year old kids not because they didn’t complete the work but because they didn’t get it checked😭😭why would u do that😭😭 and apparently this was common in her other classes too
bro im in 10th rn and my cousin just got her results, she got 98%. my mom has been just scolding/yelling at me everyday for not studying as much as my cousin, and if I won't score 98% or above shes gonna send me to a boarding school :/
Bruh 🫂🫂🫂 , my mom telling me that my dad's colleague girl got 92% in 12th and that I'm in 12th so I should try to get better than her otherwise they'll prolly takeaway daily needs :/
boarding school is more fun than living with so much pressure to score 🤠
Bro same she kept comparing me to my cousin while the students who got less percentage then me are getting treats and love meanwhile my mother treating like I failed my boards tell me 87% is not that bad ?
Teachers from my school including students always picks on me🛐
I just SURVIVED through my school life somehow 😅 but now that I just graduated from my school last year I feel like I should've done things differently than I did, but then again I remembered there was COVID so I couldn't have had done sh*t 😂
in my school, i did not see any bully classmates (they are roasters but not bullies), but bully teachers? HELL YES!
oh where do i even start? my math teachers tearing me down to a point where asking for doubts to help with my studies being treated as tabboo? or my english teacher purposely docking marks from my essays baceuse she didn't like me for being "too introverted"? or fourth grade when i was bullied for a year straight and essentially ignored, and the teachers never believed be since the girls in question were "good spirited and open."
Girl thank you for making this video. I was a perfect kid for most of my life but a teacher once slapped me because she had higher expectations from me on a stupid class test. Most other kids had it much worse than me though. Also, so much slut shaming of girls. Some teachers would judge girls for having their nails painted or wearing lip balm.
Although we grow up but a few teachers don't as adults they should treat us respectfully not let us down sadly teachers peck at a sensitive student the most n find reasons to embarrass them
i went to school it was a hell where you have to suffer and be quiet but it made me stronger
I passed from an all-boys and teachers used to tell us that we are getting beaten because we are boys, and girls don't get beaten but they do get like standing, and sit-up kind of punishment.
There were some teachers who beat us because they were narcissistic, some which beat us jokingly, some beat us because they were fools, and some beat us to make us tougher and focused on what has to be done. Some teachers were chill, and intellectual, and
I think that those kinds of teachers had the best impact on me personally.
Second would be those who beat me to toughen me up.
About the rest of them, I absolutely hated them. And I used to avoid any possible interactions with teachers as much as I could even though I was good with academics because many times teachers beat me for no reason, and just like you I never used to say anything to them. But the teachers which used to listen, and clear doubts, and actually teach with passion, and not just joking with some passion really touched the heart.
I mostly had awful time at school. Weirdly most students werent even bad at my school, we all collectively were bullied by teachers & ofc the rich spoiled kids but it was never any physical bullying. Though take it with grain of salt as I was among the smarter kids in class so I didnt get picked on as often as other kids might have.
Our school had problem of rich kids being compared with poorer kids, based on how rich their parents were. I too had same experience as you during 10th boards, our maths teacher named like 5-10 kids who he thought would top the class. He looked straight at me & said "you dont even go to tuition so there is no use of even hoping". This was back in 2016 where everyone went to tuitions but I didnt cuz well my family couldnt afford it.
GUESS WHAT I GOT GOOD GRADES and the kids he named scored less than me. but like what if I hadnt though? what if I had scored less & then I would feel bad about it all my life, These adults failed to realize how badly it could affect little kids, Ik back then I used to feel "less" than other kids cuz I felt like I couldnt get anywhere in life as they are just lucky enough to have money to get all resources they want.
I can write whole book about all the fucked up things our school did ngl. School life was just toxic in my experience, the environment at school was so hostile.
Once a teacher of mine cursed at me saying bc infront of everyone for the most lame thing that he asked a question n i answered in English instead of Sanskrit. n i couldn't do anything else than running to the washroom and cry........n i can't delete these memories now🙁
I don't miss being in school at ALL. The number of times I got molested by my male classmates... They'd throw paper balls or rockets at me, pour water on my light grey uniform top... Touch and grind on me sometimes... This happened to other girls also. We complained and teachers simply said "Boys will be boys", and simply gave them warning... What's worse is that some girls also enjoyed seeing us getting harassed, they'd bully us too. Now all the boys will get married and have daughters. Meanwhile, we can't even move on from the trauma. Thank God, I escaped the hellhole.
omg i am so sorry that happened to you
The teacher's job is to teach !! It really annoys me when teachers compare kids based on grades like it really doesn't matter what grade you get.
Omgggggg I finally found u on u tube I love how ur being so consistent😍😭
When I was in kindergarten, a teacher pinched me and shouted at me for apparently not eating my food completely. My mom and dad filed a complaint and that teacher started lying. And then in 7th grade, I was sexualized and bullied by the boys of my class. School is literally the biggest cause of my anxiety, and other mental disorders and yes, teachers can AND are the bullies too!
the fact that this thing is happening w me rn
so basically one time i was sitting with my bf (separate chairs) and i was writing something on his hand and 1 of my teacher saw us doing that , idk y but that teacher hates me alot ok so she just went and told my bio teacher(hes very strict) abt this incident and we were both called to the office , from that day onwards my bio teacher targets me every day .One day me and m classmates were doing lab practicals and as usual the students were bit noisy while discussing and all but He targetted me and said that he would pour acid on me (or something similar to that) if i wont keep quiet and stuff , then once in front of all the bio students he humiliated me by saying i was a bikhari just because i ate a PIECE OF SOME FRUIT jo koyi bio student laya tha ( i am a cs student) so yea these stuff still happens..i cant tell my parents abt it cause my teacher blackmails me by saying ki he will tell my dad abt this and that
Not me being forced to walk around the whole big school campus with one of those nannies because I spelled one letter in the word elephant wrong in kindergarten.
O my god! After reading the comments, I realised that I study in a good school where teachers and most students are very nice.
I can't even think of any teacher slut-shaming students. We have a good school councellor (psychologist) and the teachers are caring as well.
Sometimes, I take certain things as granted.
They can't even encourage kids good at studies properly. They don't recognise them and sometimes outright tell them that they shouldn't involve in other things. I was among the toppers of my class, although had a different friend group from the toppers grp. This one teacher in 7th grade, she was uncomfortable with me hanging out with "bad" kids AND had a different demeanor. She picked on me a little, maybe I didn't respond how I should've. She started bullying me everyducking day, and all my classmates started doing the same.
And I'm ugly with with uneven bone structure and all that bs. She used to call names and would say things like - your mom looks good, your sister looks good, why are you ugly? Is your father ugly? Why are you like this? EVERY FUCKING PERSON STARTED BULLYING ME and I didn't even have much other than studies and nerdy kid's cool things about me, I can't even remember much from that age bracket, I don't remember the reason but I tried to run away twice, didn't work. Made me more awkward, alienated, low-esteem pos to pick on.
I'm putting an effort to recover now that I'm 18 and have a brain, but damn I couldn't even comprehend what was happening to me, I couldn't even identify I was sad, it just became normal to depressed all the time. Shit, that was long.
You are so pretty!! I’m Indian but I was born in the US but I’ve heard horror stories of Indian schools :(