I love this And I love your videos and page , I started following u at 10k on insta which was a year ago and I had a lot of body dysmorphia and bad feelings abt my face and all. But after I started seeing you page first I used to be dissapointed I wasn't as pretty but then I saw ur qnas and the way you were so relatable I was bamboozled tbh , so it made me feel that I shouldn't care abt what other ppl say and be me so thank u misimi (no not doing it for clout srsly it helped me in more than one way) (I often take inspo from ur style sense hehe ty for that too ^^)
I cannot believe that you had to go through all of this bcz when I followed you on insta and scrolled through your pictures, I thought you are one of the most beautiful girl ive ever seen😭
mismi, i recently came across your channel and the first thought I had was, goddamn, this girl is so freaking pretty. this came as a shocker to me that people would say something negative about your appearance. it just proves that no matter how beautiful and amazing of a person you are, there will always be someone to unnecessarily criticise you. you are stunning, darling. sending you all my love🤎
I've faced the same situation The only popular guy in class used to like me And my classmates were like "although he's handsome he has a bad choice" infront of me He had a crush 1 year back she was the prettiest girl of class like fr! Everyone used to compare me with her while insulting me That resulted me hating her (she's my now friend I regret hating her for no reason just cause of jealousy) And myself too because I thought I was ugly they made me feel I was ugly. I looked Myself in my room and cried. Now I've overcomed everything and I love myself I never told anyone about my story not even parents or cousins Feeling great after sharing it Thank you for everything misimi I love you Hope for the best for you
bro I relate to the "pakora" nose one so much.. my family nicknamed me "naakcheepat" (as in chipti naak 😭) because both my mother and father have beautiful noses and mine is comparatively wider... it's hilarious now that im older but sometimes, on my down days, i do wish that i had the nose genetics
as a teenager i have acne issues and it's worsening day by day but i'm really happy that ppl i love doesnt make fun of me yes but some of them did mock me for my forehead bumps and acne around my chin area and that made me cry the shit out of me that was also the time i came into kpop but i've never really did makeup it's just filters i use and yes i'm still afraid to meet new people and how they will judge my appearance that's why the most of time i ignore meetups but my heart really wants to go out and socialize lets see how long will i carry this till end good luck to me and all of you dont lose hope
okay so my story starts at 13 year old self,,,, we our family moved from a town to city basically in 9th standard i was never a person who wld look into mirror and bother about or cared my skin at all my frns were also very innocent in my town i enetred the class with good outfit but bad hair with oil i was super tanned in summer holidays nd i thought school was a safe place to go with whatever the way that i want to do so as i was to trying sit somwhere noone are letting me sit in their bench it was low strength class so i sat alone in a row i was still not in senses i was not ready to think negatively , after some time a girl called me to sit with her but her frnd didnt like me but still i was sitting there a teacher came and asked me to sit in second bench there was these two white girls talking in english(intentionally i realised afterwards) we r not used to talk in english on everyday basis so she asked that i know english or not i was so fuckin innocent i though it was about some test i said no they started to make fun of me talking disgusting things about me in english and hindi as they thought i know nothing about the two languages btw my state (ts)Hyderabad ,telugu is our language i was having tears in my eyes but i am not crying i was hurt literally evryone are gossiping about me i have never seen this type of kids as i was though girl i know my parents wont react i didnt say anything to anyone holded evrything with me through out the year i was always taunted by them they used to call me black smthg , red buss as i was from town a painful experience for life i am 19 now it still haunts me i still hate my skin ,appearance evrything it jus doesnt go away from head btw like when i was in my drop year i experienced pretty privilege because i used to do skin care and exercise the way people treated at that time was so different now i entered college as i had failed entrance exam even in drop year i was depressed i didnt care about my looks ate whatever i want i had pcos symptoms ours is a girls engineering college i look sick and little bit ugly and a girl in our class was getting princess treatment becoz i fair skin btw she is good hearted but all i wanted to say her all of the attention iz fake people jus dont care if u r not well groomed or ugly they jus dont want consider u being alive pretty privilege iz too real i was jus moving on with life as my parents jus dont care living like corpse jus left a comment cring inside as i really cant cry because my life is that messed i dont know what to say but misimi u r a success came out living ur life but on other i could there is hope though
I have been following your page for quite a while and honestly I related to you so much , how we all girls are super shy to show our confident version and scared of these creepy guys on internet , it’s takes a lot of time to accept ourselves for just who we are , and when we do finally understand our value and aura no one will be there around to give reassurance, it’s purely an internal struggle which ppl think is silly, but indeed is the most important. I’m super happy that you are finally completing this stressfull journey of self acceptance 🌷💕
IT LITERALLY HURTS so bad watching you tear up you're such a pure & beautiful soul , I've been through the same things and i just wanna let you know regardless of what others say you have a perfect face that matches your personality it's unique attractive & v pretty 💌
this is so accurate and relatable. it took me some time to understand that people often project their insecurities on others, maybe realizing or without realizing it, because they can't deal with it on their own. i do agree that it's wrong and such people should find a way out of this on their own instead of affecting someone else with it, because their insecurities and problems are their own to deal with. it's not someone else's fault and they shouldn't be suffering because of that. tho i believe that if people (like this) can acknowledge their fault and are genuinely willing to apologize and change, to be a better person, then they should. because whatever they might have said in the past, it's in the past, but their present self should be brave enough to take accountability for that and they should try to fix their part in it atleast. also, loved the video.
You are SO PRETTY! Like so sooooo pretty! I’m shook by seeing what they did to you on Reddit :( and that friend of yours, what he wrote was absolutely disgusting. These people need to get some life.
hey you're so pretty even without makeup and the insecurities after you hit puberty can't be compared to anything . hope you feel better about yourself now because now you know that the way you perceive the world makes you a million times more attractive . And since i started doing skincare and makeup as a form of self love than seeking validation from others (still struggle with it though can't help) ,relationship with myself got alot better.
misimi dii thank you so much for this video. i used to be in the same place where i started hating my face to the point i had zero pictures from 2020-2022. i became so self conscious that i avoided going on video calls with anyone. used to compare myself to the toxic beauty standards on social media but i love the fact each one of us has a unique beauty in themselves. i love how i am and i don't get self conscious about my appearance anymore. and yes hotness is in the brain babyyy B) and no one has the fucking right to rate anyone's appearance (you really make me question if am straight🤧) . i love your confidence and you inspire me
this is so beautiful and i can't tell you how much I relate to this and ik it's still hard for me to go out and meet people plus my friends too but I am still learning and hopefully I'll get through it and love you so much you literally inspire the shit out me you literally are like my irl role model ik you for so long now, i am so proud of you LOVE YOU XOXO and keep inspiring us 💌
I can relate to this tbh. We live in a society where there are a lot of bullies ,always pointing out the imperfections we have when they're more imperfect lol. I'm glad You stood strong tho upto this day. Keep doing what you love and Ignore them because you don't know how much you've inspired a lot of girls tho ( Am one of them, fan since u had 16k). So happy what you have achieved rn, keep rising Misimi! Also : I've been over thinking how to get a hi from you. I mean this is embarrassing wth. Wuv Ya. (I'll be the happiest gal if You would notice me
hi everything u said about how you were treated i relate so much i have curly hairs i remember my friends saying oh god why your hair like this comb them and all i used to comb them but woh sab logo ke tarah straight nahi the so i started straighting my hair everyday, i still feel so insecure about my face i wish i overcome it soon and thank you so much for this it made me feel that im not alone
dude i needed this, i srsly went thro the same shit well this one time my friend or thats what i thought he was , he had crush on my bestie so he was complementing her and he just looked at me and went who will like you tho? well as he was my friend i didnt take it to heart but i knew he meant what he said and even my bestie but yah its so hard to fit in if u arent matching the made up beauty standards
you honestly are so cute and pretty. people who think otherwise should get their brain and eyes checked( or they should just die, they don’t deserve to live). It’s not easy to go through the things you have been doing through especially as a kid and this just shows how brave and strong you are. you are the prettiest and most beautiful person i know❤.
am 17 going on 18 and i've never really cared about how i looked, dressed, behaved, talked and what now, i was just carefree and just chilling and enjoying my life until i turned 13 and thats when the pandemic started and we all had to just shut ourselves at home. i was dark skinned till i turned 13 but smh, maybe due to puberty or lack of sun exposure my skin got pale and fair in complexion and i didnt really care about the change in skin tone until we went to a function after 2 years and i noticed the way i was being treated, i got TONS AND TONS of compliments and about how they thing i look prettier and 'better' now so on. this was way different than before and i liked the attention and love i was getting, i felt seen and loved and thats when i got into skincare and kpop and so on, i started paying a lot of attention to my looks, and behavior and literally everything i didnt really care about, at first it was exhausting keeping up with all the skincare but later on i found it so fun. and not so long after, we had to go back to schools and i kinda started tanning again and it honestly scared me, it scared me so much that the first thing i used to do when i woke up was to check if i got even a shade darker and i never stepped out of my house without alot of sunscreen on my face, neck, hands, legs, basically all over my body. i was scared i wont be liked by my relatives and cousins anymore if i got tanned. and when i finally realized how toxic that is, and how am just trying to fit into the typical 'beauty standards' i stopped caring about my skin tone, i just took care of my skin to keep it healthy and fine. tho my skin didnt go back to the darker shade i used to have as a kid, i still dont mind if it did either. i love who i am, and how i look, and it doesnt matter to me weather others like me or not, at the end of the day i should love myself
You've come a long way! Honestly it sucks how society treats people differently because they don't match their so called 'beauty standards' anyways KEEP GLOWING AND SLAYING LOVE YOU!!
I’m in highschool rn i have face fat a little and I’m really insecure about that few months ago i started putting filters on and made this mentality that i only look pretty with filters a lot of people from school called me a catfish for that. I only look good in selfies from back camera my face is very asymmetrical and weird but now since i started watching you and other TH-camrs I’ve gained confidence quite a lot. Really thanks to you ❤
I can go on and on about this topic but wanted to mention something you talked about. You said you realized that people who are insecure only make comments about others. I didn't even care much how I looked before then all these kids started telling me things which even I had never noticed. Some girl legit told me your lips are too big. Till this day I feel uncomfortable about them being too big even tho ppl now think it is attractive. I started becoming insecure and ofcourse we notice certain things about other's appearance as well. But I have never told anything to anyone that made them insecure to their face. I don't think these people who comment on other's looks have any reason to do so. They just choose to do it. Everyone is insecure but it's how we deal with it.
i agree. i meant not all insecure people turn into bullies or project their insecurities on to others. but all bullies are usually secretly insecure people themselves. a person who is happy with themselves and is self assured will not feel the need to focus on others or bring others down unless they were not so self assured to begin with.
man i have to tell you this i was bullied in school days becaz of my glasses and curly hair but once i mastered the world of styling my hair and makeup it took me way long , trust me ur video and your contents on instagram actually inspire me , and you are gorgeous inside and out , some gurls like me still wants to be you becaz you are AMAZING
When i was in middle school maybe, i had a lot of clothes and my mom used to make me wear them bcz i'll grow and it'll be a waste, i used to wear that at tuitions and those popular mean girls were talking about how i wear different clothes everyday and gave me weird looks. i just laughed it off saying they're not fashionable and they're jealous lol, they made me feel bad about my weight when i wasn't even overweight just had a bit of tummy (i still do but idc much now) and made comments abt my nose & epicanthal fold saying it was dark circles bro i was a baccha yaar tab kese dark circles. Now that i think about it, i was and i'm still better looking than them. Now they're mature and don't talk shit abt ppl in front of their faces (i think so lol im not friends with them) but it still kinda hurts
90s school teachers were really the worst. The point where you mentioned about even the teachers favoring the pretty girl in your class hit me close home..so bad...as it was the same for most teachers in my school as well. Looking back I realize they were such horrible examples of adults to us kids.........being mean, racist, judgmental and favoring the rich girls who were pretty and almost had it all in life. These teachers were borderline abusive overall and most definitely physically abusive and violent to the dark complexioned, poor background or middle class kids. Looking back I realize what a traumatic experience studying from such teachers must have been for my own younger self as well as at least half of my classmates who weren't rich and good looking.
Please don't say like this Misimi. I actually see you as kind of my inspiration. I love your style and the way you apply your make-up. You are just a pure soul. I like how you're so real and down-to-earth. Also you're funny too. The most relatable influencer you are Misimi. I have bought boots from your shop for which Im so grateful. And also I have voted you in cosmopolitan as a nominee. I hope you win. ✨ Edit: And I forgot to mention that I was introduced to NIFT because of you. And this year I sat for the entrance test. I hope I get selected. Because of you I realised that I should go into field of fashion even tho I'm short af. You indirectly showed the way. Thanks a lot Misimi.
The worst part is, once you try doing something about your insecurities, you end up having even more insecurities. I've observed this phenomenon especially in the fitness and gym culture and the amount of people with body dysmorphia, both men and women, are way too high.
This is my sister's acc and when I saw ur story that u already posted I directly came here to see ur vids coz my phone is on charge atm . Tbh you have been my inspiration tho .. I started dyeing my hair and Stuff that made others treat me good especially at school or when I'm out. I realized that when you don't fit the beauty standard in this society or be like aesthetic u won't get any compliments or recognition.now that I'm starting to fit in , everything changed. Started getting compliments and recognition and it makes me pissed even more lol. Btw ur so prettyyy omooo
this was the most inspiring video ive seen in a while, being honest i go through the same shit, everyone says i maskfish and i look like a grandma without it and ive wrinkles and stuff but watching this vid made a lil confident ty
bro tf i worship you, your AATI SUNDAR in my opinion and dont let these shitty ppl make you feel low because thats what they want and always remember we all are here supporting you and very proud you
I found you on insta in maybe 2022, and trust me I was so fascinated by the way you look and I loved your outfits, I can't believe you had to go through all that, eve I too went through similar stuff..... I used to use your video as an inspiration for my future self really
Girl, you're extremely cute. Ik it sucks to be compared and being called "not pretty enough" but When you understand the mindset that being "pretty" is super subjective so why waste time on who finds me "cute" or "pretty" better focus on my work haha. 🙌🏻🙌🏻 Anyways Today I only found your channel. And this is my 3rd vdo of urs so far! And already I'm liking it sm❤
girl dont bother they just can hate and hate honestly just feel good about the fact that because of the hate i mean just for the sake of hating they will at least watch the videos yk chill ...nd the money will be transferred to u ... thanks to them .... i dont know you personally but i love your content ..and also soothing vibe that you share on this platform, much love... and also big fan love uh girlll ....
You won't believe I was sooooo sad today because the stupid "pretty privilege" going on in my tuition... It was soo suffocating, I feel guilty for not being fair skinned and all then I saw ur video, many many heartiest tnx for sharing ur story which made me feel comfortable and normal. Love uuuuu😢
i love you so much and youre so right, being hot is a state of mind and the people who talk shit about u are well, talking about u and fuck them fr! cause at the end, who's getting more engagement? who's getting the money ? YOU !!! so keep doing what youre doing, i love you and you are amazing. fuck these jobless mfs
I am ashamed to admit i was one of those people back in school days who used to body shame people and make fun of their skin colour just to make people laugh but didn’t think of the other person of how they felt. I’ve matured a lot and i regret whatever i said and admit it was just straight wrong to do that regardless of anything. Getting people’s validation is not always important and it should be always You doing You that should matter.
i think we all have done similar things on different scales and some people never realise so its actually good that you have sm self awareness and growth ✊🏼
okay so I started going college few weeks back and make some friends everyone of them are from Kashmir and almost every one is fair skin toned except from me so the day before yesterday we all were sitting together and they started talking about my features like oh you look like nepali your nose is flat eyes are sharp face is round some bla bla and one of them was like no no neplais are fair you're not why is your lips black do you smoke? Or what i got so pissed off and cried not in front of them but yeah after coming home. But i wanna tell you that i adore you and youre so pretty i go through your profile almost everyday you're so so pretty misimi
Love hearing your thoughts, I always wanna hear what you have to say. Also I wanna know the details for that body positivity girl for research purposes
I dont know if ill come off as weird but i dont like pep with clr on hair but ur so damn relatable and pretty . Needless to mention beauty is very subjective and blankpink rating cracked me up😂😂
Bro i literally discovered ur channel like yesterday and trust me I'm adicted and fr telling u, when i saw u i was like can go lesbo for u (jyada ho gya) but fr ur so pretty, u don't even need makeup but i like ur makeup too lol.
Wow, so people can actually ++ their looks if they spend effort. At the end of the day, being confident about yourself is a ++. It's still sad that people make fun of others for how they look, it's so hurtful. I guess we can only expect that much from shallow minded people. We gotta work on ourselves mentally as well to deal with that crap
You are quite pretty even without the makeup. People who comment on other people's appearance need a hard verbal slap. Some time ago I lost weight and looked fit, I saw the change in people's behaviour towards me. It wasn't drastic but it was little noticeable. So pretty privilege will never go out of style but mean people should
Basically the thing is NOT EVERYONE MATTERS MISIMI🌟 u r a star u r pretty cool.. i like ur stuffs so much whatever u do is so fuckin cool.. pls don't think about these bullshit ppls opinion.. we love uh>>>> ~ur teengirl fan
Hey which iPhone do you have? Nd all ur post nd reels on insta are taken from ur that iphone bcz I'm a Android user going to buy my first iphone nd I love ur feed the way u take picture nd the quality of ur photos are so dope... Reply plz?
Ok ill go with this looks se ghanta fark padega tb bank me couple mills ho to take a chill pill. I was right tu nift me hi hai haha and literally fashion tech hai to yes people judge krenge. Make up krna hai kar ya you wanna look good to no worries but don't make it ur whole personality, rememeber intelligence ,compassion and humility is more attractive than any amount of physical beauty
@@dontmisimi thoda strong bano , unko kaam nhi to teko judge kr rhe , krne de aur apna mast rho , didn't knew nift wale chill hai yha eng colleges me to bhasad machi padi hai ,ab to fark bhi nhi padta 💀👍
I don't understand pretty privilege, I think as a guy you aren't really that concerned with the way you look (or at least I don't). I believe for men, its like we always have something different to offer other than the way we look. Most successful men (who aren't actors or models) aren't necessarily good looking. For example, I look up to Kevin O'Leary and he isn't exactly the best looking guy out there. I've been jealous of guys, but never for the way that they look. and with modern standards of beauty becoming increasingly vague, pretty privilege seems to be a dying concept
good looking people get hired, earn more, get promoted more, and have more positive performance evaluations. this is the case for men and women both, more so for women due to patriarchy cause women are more frequently confronted with ideal bodies in the media and because stereotypically beauty is more essential to the feminine than to the masculine gender role. most successful women who aren’t actors or models aren’t as fixated on beauty as well. your preference for a celebrity that you didn’t specifically find attractive is a personal preference or you not feeling jealous of other men for their appearance is social conditioning or your lack of insecurity which might not be the case for most people because many men complain about being treated worse for short for being skinny or short, etc. modern beauty standards have only become worse instead of vague because of the influence of social media and how accessible plastic surgery is.
@@namanmithwani2691 there is definitely a gender disparity when it comes to pretty privilege. Thats the problem. Most successful women are judged based on their looks.
youre wrong. men also benefit from it. I'm a handsome guy and i've seen how different I get treated vs normal looking or even unattractive guy. For example, I'd had random women offer to pay for stuff in public. I've had women ask me out and even pay for my meals on dates. I've experienced favoritism from female superiors in the workplace. Alot of normal guys never experienced any of this. So attractive guys do have our own privileges.
everything was alright until the last few seconds of the video showed the pic *not everyone is going to think im pretty and that's ok !!!! they're wrong though* thats the most narcissistic thing one can say and lol its alright. Live a happy and fruitful life, i dont hate you.
I love this
And I love your videos and page , I started following u at 10k on insta which was a year ago and I had a lot of body dysmorphia and bad feelings abt my face and all. But after I started seeing you page first I used to be dissapointed I wasn't as pretty but then I saw ur qnas and the way you were so relatable I was bamboozled tbh , so it made me feel that I shouldn't care abt what other ppl say and be me so thank u misimi (no not doing it for clout srsly it helped me in more than one way) (I often take inspo from ur style sense hehe ty for that too ^^)
this made me so glad you can’t imagine, tysm
Hey my dear. You are doing very well.keep it up.May God Bless you!
Hey we got the same pfp
I cannot believe that you had to go through all of this bcz when I followed you on insta and scrolled through your pictures, I thought you are one of the most beautiful girl ive ever seen😭
mismi, i recently came across your channel and the first thought I had was, goddamn, this girl is so freaking pretty. this came as a shocker to me that people would say something negative about your appearance. it just proves that no matter how beautiful and amazing of a person you are, there will always be someone to unnecessarily criticise you. you are stunning, darling. sending you all my love🤎
I've faced the same situation
The only popular guy in class used to like me
And my classmates were like "although he's handsome he has a bad choice" infront of me
He had a crush 1 year back she was the prettiest girl of class like fr!
Everyone used to compare me with her while insulting me
That resulted me hating her (she's my now friend I regret hating her for no reason just cause of jealousy)
And myself too because I thought I was ugly they made me feel I was ugly.
I looked Myself in my room and cried.
Now I've overcomed everything and I love myself
I never told anyone about my story not even parents or cousins
Feeling great after sharing it
Thank you for everything misimi
I love you
Hope for the best for you
man u r amazing cuz i self depreciate and reading this i realize how much it is affecting my ability to make more frnds
bro I relate to the "pakora" nose one so much.. my family nicknamed me "naakcheepat" (as in chipti naak 😭) because both my mother and father have beautiful noses and mine is comparatively wider... it's hilarious now that im older but sometimes, on my down days, i do wish that i had the nose genetics
i hate how society makes us hate ourselves for who we are
as a teenager i have acne issues and it's worsening day by day but i'm really happy that ppl i love doesnt make fun of me yes but some of them did mock me for my forehead bumps and acne around my chin area and that made me cry the shit out of me that was also the time i came into kpop but i've never really did makeup it's just filters i use and yes i'm still afraid to meet new people and how they will judge my appearance that's why the most of time i ignore meetups but my heart really wants to go out and socialize lets see how long will i carry this till end good luck to me and all of you dont lose hope
okay so my story starts at 13 year old self,,,, we our family moved from a town to city basically in 9th standard i was never a person who wld look into mirror and bother about or cared my skin at all my frns were also very innocent in my town
i enetred the class with good outfit but bad hair with oil i was super tanned in summer holidays nd i thought school was a safe place to go with whatever the way that i want to do so as i was to trying sit somwhere noone are letting me sit in their bench it was low strength class so i sat alone in a row
i was still not in senses i was not ready to think negatively ,
after some time a girl called me to sit with her but her frnd didnt like me but still i was sitting there
a teacher came and asked me to sit in second bench there was these two white girls talking in english(intentionally i realised afterwards) we r not used to talk in english on everyday basis so she asked that i know english or not i was so fuckin innocent i though it was about some test i said no
they started to make fun of me talking disgusting things about me in english and hindi as they thought i know nothing about the two languages btw my state (ts)Hyderabad ,telugu is our language
i was having tears in my eyes but i am not crying i was hurt literally evryone are gossiping about me i have never seen this type of kids
as i was though girl i know my parents wont react i didnt say anything to anyone holded evrything with me through out the year i was always taunted by them they used to call me black smthg , red buss as i was from town
a painful experience for life
i am 19 now it still haunts me i still hate my skin ,appearance evrything it jus doesnt go away from head
btw like when i was in my drop year i experienced pretty privilege because i used to do skin care and exercise the way people treated at that time was so different
now i entered college as i had failed entrance exam even in drop year i was depressed i didnt care about my looks ate whatever i want i had pcos symptoms
ours is a girls engineering college i look sick and little bit ugly and a girl in our class was getting princess treatment becoz i fair skin btw she is good hearted
but all i wanted to say her all of the attention iz fake
people jus dont care if u r not well groomed or ugly they jus dont want consider u being alive
pretty privilege iz too real
i was jus moving on with life as my parents jus dont care living like corpse jus left a comment cring inside as i really cant cry because my life is that messed
i dont know what to say but misimi u r a success came out living ur life but on other i could there is hope though
I have been following your page for quite a while and honestly I related to you so much , how we all girls are super shy to show our confident version and scared of these creepy guys on internet , it’s takes a lot of time to accept ourselves for just who we are , and when we do finally understand our value and aura no one will be there around to give reassurance, it’s purely an internal struggle which ppl think is silly, but indeed is the most important. I’m super happy that you are finally completing this stressfull journey of self acceptance 🌷💕
IT LITERALLY HURTS so bad watching you tear up you're such a pure & beautiful soul , I've been through the same things and i just wanna let you know regardless of what others say you have a perfect face that matches your personality it's unique attractive & v pretty 💌
this is so accurate and relatable. it took me some time to understand that people often project their insecurities on others, maybe realizing or without realizing it, because they can't deal with it on their own. i do agree that it's wrong and such people should find a way out of this on their own instead of affecting someone else with it, because their insecurities and problems are their own to deal with. it's not someone else's fault and they shouldn't be suffering because of that. tho i believe that if people (like this) can acknowledge their fault and are genuinely willing to apologize and change, to be a better person, then they should. because whatever they might have said in the past, it's in the past, but their present self should be brave enough to take accountability for that and they should try to fix their part in it atleast.
also, loved the video.
yes, i completely agree✊🏼
Misimi you don't even need makeup you pretty as hell 😭😭
Why do people wear makeup? To look pretty? I thought it was a hobby or something
You are SO PRETTY! Like so sooooo pretty! I’m shook by seeing what they did to you on Reddit :( and that friend of yours, what he wrote was absolutely disgusting. These people need to get some life.
he is not a friend, he is some random dm request guy that lied to impress his crush but went too far😭
also tysm
hey you're so pretty even without makeup and the insecurities after you hit puberty can't be compared to anything . hope you feel better about yourself now because now you know that the way you perceive the world makes you a million times more attractive . And since i started doing skincare and makeup as a form of self love than seeking validation from others (still struggle with it though can't help) ,relationship with myself got alot better.
dude that guys insta story was so uncalled 😭😭😭 I'm still in dismay
misimi dii thank you so much for this video. i used to be in the same place where i started hating my face to the point i had zero pictures from 2020-2022. i became so self conscious that i avoided going on video calls with anyone. used to compare myself to the toxic beauty standards on social media but i love the fact each one of us has a unique beauty in themselves. i love how i am and i don't get self conscious about my appearance anymore. and yes hotness is in the brain babyyy B) and no one has the fucking right to rate anyone's appearance (you really make me question if am straight🤧) . i love your confidence and you inspire me
this is so beautiful and i can't tell you how much I relate to this and ik it's still hard for me to go out and meet people plus my friends too but I am still learning and hopefully I'll get through it
and love you so much you literally inspire the shit out me you literally are like my irl role model ik you for so long now, i am so proud of you LOVE YOU XOXO and keep inspiring us 💌
love you more wow comments like these make everything worth it
nahh you're pretty and I love the confidence ✨
Jay Z once said : "ain't no such thing as an ugly billionaire, i'm cute". Work hard, get the money up 💪🏻.
I can relate to this tbh. We live in a society where there are a lot of bullies ,always pointing out the imperfections we have when they're more imperfect lol.
I'm glad You stood strong tho upto this day. Keep doing what you love and Ignore them because you don't know how much you've inspired a lot of girls tho ( Am one of them, fan since u had 16k). So happy what you have achieved rn, keep rising Misimi!
Also : I've been over thinking how to get a hi from you. I mean this is embarrassing wth. Wuv Ya.
(I'll be the happiest gal if You would notice me
omg hi, thank you so much for supporting me!!
hi everything u said about how you were treated i relate so much
i have curly hairs i remember my friends saying oh god why your hair like this comb them and all i used to comb them but woh sab logo ke tarah straight nahi the so i started straighting my hair everyday, i still feel so insecure about my face i wish i overcome it soon
and thank you so much for this it made me feel that im not alone
dude i needed this, i srsly went thro the same shit
well this one time my friend or thats what i thought he was , he had crush on my bestie so he was complementing her and he just looked at me and went who will like you tho? well as he was my friend i didnt take it to heart but i knew he meant what he said and even my bestie
but yah its so hard to fit in if u arent matching the made up beauty standards
you honestly are so cute and pretty. people who think otherwise should get their brain and eyes checked( or they should just die, they don’t deserve to live). It’s not easy to go through the things you have been doing through especially as a kid and this just shows how brave and strong you are. you are the prettiest and most beautiful person i know❤.
itna dramatic XD
am 17 going on 18 and i've never really cared about how i looked, dressed, behaved, talked and what now, i was just carefree and just chilling and enjoying my life until i turned 13 and thats when the pandemic started and we all had to just shut ourselves at home. i was dark skinned till i turned 13 but smh, maybe due to puberty or lack of sun exposure my skin got pale and fair in complexion and i didnt really care about the change in skin tone until we went to a function after 2 years and i noticed the way i was being treated, i got TONS AND TONS of compliments and about how they thing i look prettier and 'better' now so on. this was way different than before and i liked the attention and love i was getting, i felt seen and loved and thats when i got into skincare and kpop and so on, i started paying a lot of attention to my looks, and behavior and literally everything i didnt really care about, at first it was exhausting keeping up with all the skincare but later on i found it so fun. and not so long after, we had to go back to schools and i kinda started tanning again and it honestly scared me, it scared me so much that the first thing i used to do when i woke up was to check if i got even a shade darker and i never stepped out of my house without alot of sunscreen on my face, neck, hands, legs, basically all over my body. i was scared i wont be liked by my relatives and cousins anymore if i got tanned. and when i finally realized how toxic that is, and how am just trying to fit into the typical 'beauty standards' i stopped caring about my skin tone, i just took care of my skin to keep it healthy and fine. tho my skin didnt go back to the darker shade i used to have as a kid, i still dont mind if it did either. i love who i am, and how i look, and it doesnt matter to me weather others like me or not, at the end of the day i should love myself
wow youre so real for this
You've come a long way! Honestly it sucks how society treats people differently because they don't match their so called 'beauty standards' anyways KEEP GLOWING AND SLAYING LOVE YOU!!
I’m in highschool rn i have face fat a little and I’m really insecure about that few months ago i started putting filters on and made this mentality that i only look pretty with filters a lot of people from school called me a catfish for that. I only look good in selfies from back camera my face is very asymmetrical and weird but now since i started watching you and other TH-camrs I’ve gained confidence quite a lot.
Really thanks to you ❤
I can go on and on about this topic but wanted to mention something you talked about. You said you realized that people who are insecure only make comments about others. I didn't even care much how I looked before then all these kids started telling me things which even I had never noticed. Some girl legit told me your lips are too big. Till this day I feel uncomfortable about them being too big even tho ppl now think it is attractive. I started becoming insecure and ofcourse we notice certain things about other's appearance as well. But I have never told anything to anyone that made them insecure to their face. I don't think these people who comment on other's looks have any reason to do so. They just choose to do it. Everyone is insecure but it's how we deal with it.
i agree. i meant not all insecure people turn into bullies or project their insecurities on to others. but all bullies are usually secretly insecure people themselves. a person who is happy with themselves and is self assured will not feel the need to focus on others or bring others down unless they were not so self assured to begin with.
sending u buckets of love
man i have to tell you this i was bullied in school days becaz of my glasses and curly hair but once i mastered the world of styling my hair and makeup it took me way long , trust me ur video and your contents on instagram actually inspire me , and you are gorgeous inside and out , some gurls like me still wants to be you becaz you are AMAZING
omg😭 thank you so much
Umm love ur hair gurl they be shining
When i was in middle school maybe, i had a lot of clothes and my mom used to make me wear them bcz i'll grow and it'll be a waste, i used to wear that at tuitions and those popular mean girls were talking about how i wear different clothes everyday and gave me weird looks. i just laughed it off saying they're not fashionable and they're jealous lol, they made me feel bad about my weight when i wasn't even overweight just had a bit of tummy (i still do but idc much now) and made comments abt my nose & epicanthal fold saying it was dark circles bro i was a baccha yaar tab kese dark circles. Now that i think about it, i was and i'm still better looking than them. Now they're mature and don't talk shit abt ppl in front of their faces (i think so lol im not friends with them) but it still kinda hurts
90s school teachers were really the worst. The point where you mentioned about even the teachers favoring the pretty girl in your class hit me close home..so bad...as it was the same for most teachers in my school as well. Looking back I realize they were such horrible examples of adults to us kids.........being mean, racist, judgmental and favoring the rich girls who were pretty and almost had it all in life. These teachers were borderline abusive overall and most definitely physically abusive and violent to the dark complexioned, poor background or middle class kids. Looking back I realize what a traumatic experience studying from such teachers must have been for my own younger self as well as at least half of my classmates who weren't rich and good looking.
Please don't say like this Misimi. I actually see you as kind of my inspiration. I love your style and the way you apply your make-up. You are just a pure soul. I like how you're so real and down-to-earth. Also you're funny too. The most relatable influencer you are Misimi. I have bought boots from your shop for which Im so grateful. And also I have voted you in cosmopolitan as a nominee. I hope you win. ✨
Edit: And I forgot to mention that I was introduced to NIFT because of you. And this year I sat for the entrance test. I hope I get selected. Because of you I realised that I should go into field of fashion even tho I'm short af. You indirectly showed the way. Thanks a lot Misimi.
hope you get in and thanks for making my day better
I'm above average in looks, I can see people being nicer to me than other people even if they don't know me, Brutal.
@@Arish_Danav_59 if that's you in your pfp then no you're not above average
The worst part is, once you try doing something about your insecurities, you end up having even more insecurities. I've observed this phenomenon especially in the fitness and gym culture and the amount of people with body dysmorphia, both men and women, are way too high.
This is my sister's acc and when I saw ur story that u already posted I directly came here to see ur vids coz my phone is on charge atm . Tbh you have been my inspiration tho .. I started dyeing my hair and Stuff that made others treat me good especially at school or when I'm out. I realized that when you don't fit the beauty standard in this society or be like aesthetic u won't get any compliments or recognition.now that I'm starting to fit in , everything changed. Started getting compliments and recognition and it makes me pissed even more lol.
Btw ur so prettyyy omooo
Wtf you so pretty gurllllll😭😭😭😭✨💅🏻♥️
this was the most inspiring video ive seen in a while, being honest i go through the same shit, everyone says i maskfish and i look like a grandma without it and ive wrinkles and stuff but watching this vid made a lil confident ty
someone with a happy good life who is secure with themselves would never say such things, glad you feel better because you should 💓
watching this instead of preparing for situation test
MISIMI U THE CUTTEST OMGGGG-😭😭😭😭💗
bro tf i worship you, your AATI SUNDAR in my opinion and dont let these shitty ppl make you feel low because thats what they want and always remember we all are here supporting you and very proud you
Probably the best video I’ve seen today, you’re so great love this 🎄
wow, thank you
I found you on insta in maybe 2022, and trust me I was so fascinated by the way you look and I loved your outfits, I can't believe you had to go through all that, eve I too went through similar stuff..... I used to use your video as an inspiration for my future self really
best and the most relatable video i have ever seen thank you so much...u r beautiful 💗
spent my morning listening to this, i feel whole
Girl, you're extremely cute. Ik it sucks to be compared and being called "not pretty enough" but When you understand the mindset that being "pretty" is super subjective so why waste time on who finds me "cute" or "pretty" better focus on my work haha. 🙌🏻🙌🏻
Anyways Today I only found your channel. And this is my 3rd vdo of urs so far! And already I'm liking it sm❤
My school principal legit told all "fair skin students" to stand up in assembly and made all the dark skin students clap for them it was so racist
girl dont bother
they just can hate and hate honestly
just feel good about the fact that
because of the hate i mean just for the sake of hating they will at least watch the videos yk
chill ...nd the money will be transferred to u ...
thanks to them ....
i dont know you personally but i love your content ..and also soothing vibe that you share on this platform, much love...
and also big fan love uh girlll ....
You won't believe I was sooooo sad today because the stupid "pretty privilege" going on in my tuition... It was soo suffocating, I feel guilty for not being fair skinned and all then I saw ur video, many many heartiest tnx for sharing ur story which made me feel comfortable and normal. Love uuuuu😢
This is really so disgusting. Rating people for their looks? They should rate themselves first.
i love you so much and youre so right, being hot is a state of mind and the people who talk shit about u are well, talking about u and fuck them fr! cause at the end, who's getting more engagement? who's getting the money ? YOU !!! so keep doing what youre doing, i love you and you are amazing. fuck these jobless mfs
Dark skin is beautiful I hope one day people will change and learn to love instead of judge
So sorry for what you've been through and that reddit shit, honestly you are really beautiful and they're all insecure and jealous of u
Damn and I was bullied for being pretty, there's no winning
I am ashamed to admit i was one of those people back in school days who used to body shame people and make fun of their skin colour just to make people laugh but didn’t think of the other person of how they felt. I’ve matured a lot and i regret whatever i said and admit it was just straight wrong to do that regardless of anything. Getting people’s validation is not always important and it should be always You doing You that should matter.
i think we all have done similar things on different scales and some people never realise so its actually good that you have sm self awareness and growth ✊🏼
I really needed to watch something like this
the racism in schools is so real
youre so pretty❤i wish i could accept myself just the way i was
okay so I started going college few weeks back and make some friends everyone of them are from Kashmir and almost every one is fair skin toned except from me so the day before yesterday we all were sitting together and they started talking about my features like oh you look like nepali your nose is flat eyes are sharp face is round some bla bla and one of them was like no no neplais are fair you're not why is your lips black do you smoke? Or what i got so pissed off and cried not in front of them but yeah after coming home.
But i wanna tell you that i adore you and youre so pretty i go through your profile almost everyday you're so so pretty misimi
Love hearing your thoughts, I always wanna hear what you have to say.
Also I wanna know the details for that body positivity girl for research purposes
You are beautiful & ily🌼🔥💗
everyone knows that beauty can't be judged by anyone's virtual appearances
I dont know if ill come off as weird but i dont like pep with clr on hair but ur so damn relatable and pretty . Needless to mention beauty is very subjective and blankpink rating cracked me up😂😂
I needed this video TYSM!!!
i’m so glad
4:13 horror movie lighting
girl you’re gorgeous I’m sorry people said that to you
Bro i literally discovered ur channel like yesterday and trust me I'm adicted and fr telling u, when i saw u i was like can go lesbo for u (jyada ho gya) but fr ur so pretty, u don't even need makeup but i like ur makeup too lol.
Pls don't take them seriously. Love yourself. They dont even like themselves
you look kawai and then your voice gives "Slamon bhai"
Wow, so people can actually ++ their looks if they spend effort. At the end of the day, being confident about yourself is a ++. It's still sad that people make fun of others for how they look, it's so hurtful. I guess we can only expect that much from shallow minded people. We gotta work on ourselves mentally as well to deal with that crap
If she is not pretty. I am nothing
you're so inspiring :)
means a lot😭👩❤️💋👩
Your nose is perfect ❤
Anyway, Love your content, keep doing You. Bless Up😇💕
I love listening u talk and do makeup
You are quite pretty even without the makeup. People who comment on other people's appearance need a hard verbal slap. Some time ago I lost weight and looked fit, I saw the change in people's behaviour towards me. It wasn't drastic but it was little noticeable. So pretty privilege will never go out of style but mean people should
You've always been so pretty.
*what a bad day*
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*OMG MISIMI POSTED*
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Basically the thing is NOT EVERYONE MATTERS MISIMI🌟 u r a star u r pretty cool.. i like ur stuffs so much whatever u do is so fuckin cool.. pls don't think about these bullshit ppls opinion.. we love uh>>>> ~ur teengirl fan
Hey which iPhone do you have? Nd all ur post nd reels on insta are taken from ur that iphone bcz I'm a Android user going to buy my first iphone nd I love ur feed the way u take picture nd the quality of ur photos are so dope...
Reply plz?
sorry if this is late but i use iphone 11 and i would recommend getting a 13 if its your first
@@dontmisimi thanks a lot 💓 just love ur content nd aesthetic 💓keep growing 💞❤
girl ur so mwah
what's the products name
Finalllyyy💗💗💗💗
I don't get why ppl hate on girls who put make up
Ok ill go with this looks se ghanta fark padega tb bank me couple mills ho to take a chill pill. I was right tu nift me hi hai haha and literally fashion tech hai to yes people judge krenge. Make up krna hai kar ya you wanna look good to no worries but don't make it ur whole personality, rememeber intelligence ,compassion and humility is more attractive than any amount of physical beauty
nift ppl have been the least judgemental, its the people from school and the rest
@@dontmisimi thoda strong bano , unko kaam nhi to teko judge kr rhe , krne de aur apna mast rho , didn't knew nift wale chill hai yha eng colleges me to bhasad machi padi hai ,ab to fark bhi nhi padta 💀👍
I don't understand pretty privilege, I think as a guy you aren't really that concerned with the way you look (or at least I don't). I believe for men, its like we always have something different to offer other than the way we look. Most successful men (who aren't actors or models) aren't necessarily good looking. For example, I look up to Kevin O'Leary and he isn't exactly the best looking guy out there. I've been jealous of guys, but never for the way that they look. and with modern standards of beauty becoming increasingly vague, pretty privilege seems to be a dying concept
good looking people get hired, earn more, get promoted more, and have more positive performance evaluations. this is the case for men and women both, more so for women due to patriarchy cause women are more frequently confronted with ideal bodies in the media and because stereotypically beauty is more essential to the feminine than to the masculine gender role. most successful women who aren’t actors or models aren’t as fixated on beauty as well. your preference for a celebrity that you didn’t specifically find attractive is a personal preference or you not feeling jealous of other men for their appearance is social conditioning or your lack of insecurity which might not be the case for most people because many men complain about being treated worse for short for being skinny or short, etc. modern beauty standards have only become worse instead of vague because of the influence of social media and how accessible plastic surgery is.
I would honestly just put it up to my lack of insecurity of any kind
@@namanmithwani2691 there is definitely a gender disparity when it comes to pretty privilege. Thats the problem. Most successful women are judged based on their looks.
youre wrong. men also benefit from it. I'm a handsome guy and i've seen how different I get treated vs normal looking or even unattractive guy. For example, I'd had random women offer to pay for stuff in public. I've had women ask me out and even pay for my meals on dates. I've experienced favoritism from female superiors in the workplace. Alot of normal guys never experienced any of this. So attractive guys do have our own privileges.
everything was alright until the last few seconds of the video showed the pic *not everyone is going to think im pretty and that's ok !!!! they're wrong though* thats the most narcissistic thing one can say and lol its alright. Live a happy and fruitful life, i dont hate you.
its a joke geez and asserting your own perception of your attractiveness doesn't necessarily equate to narcissism.
@@dontmisimi Tab to sahi hai. i just wanted to put some opinion since u said so haha
I have the same traumas
mast video
my baby so pretty ❤❤❤
This is soooo meeeee😭😭😭......
why cant i find her insta
i deactivated to take a break
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so nice
Love ya girlie
Prettiest ❤
bro really? your hot af
Nice
You are not 5 lol, probably above 7 or 8
Kawaii❣️
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