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  • @jaynebutler3342
    @jaynebutler3342 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Bless his heart. He was so nervous.

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's never dated before, and he's neurodivergent. Never matched on dating apps, even after changing his profile 15+ times. Moreover, his mother left/abandoned them when he was very young. His dad assumed the role of both parents for him and his autistic sister. He's felt perpetually unloved by women. 💔🥺
      This was a really sweet and mild edit, but his telling of that whole story, his gift to Molly, his phone call to his dad, his interactions with Fred and Merlin...
      I literally cried thrice throughout. I had to pause it. I *LOVE* him, but my heart _broke._
      I truly hope they record and air his next date (Fred found him another); I suspect they might do so in the end of this series. Fingers & toes that it's a lasting love match! 🤞🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽

  • @thesnoopydance645
    @thesnoopydance645 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Bring him back on the show !! What a sweetheart !

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, I truly hope they record and air his next date (Fred found him another); I suspect they might do so in the end of this series. Fingers & toes that it's a lasting love match❣ 🤞🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽

  • @al201103
    @al201103 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Decent, kind people, the pair of them. Wish them both luck :)

  • @JasmineSurrealVideos
    @JasmineSurrealVideos 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I think he could be autistic or on the spectrum, whereas I don't think Molly is, she's just alternative, and I think that could be part of the reason they didn't really click from her side, I think a more hipster type of nerd with specs and Camden vibe clothes is her bag. The fact he brought her a wee pressie was lovely and he seemed like a nice chap, I hope he can find a girl perhaps more similar to himself so he feels less awkward.

    • @sadekHessen
      @sadekHessen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi how are you 🌹

    • @redbirddeerjazz
      @redbirddeerjazz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      As an autistic, I would bet my bottom dollar that he is one of us. Btw “autistic” and “on the spectrum” mean the same thing - everyone who is on the autism spectrum is autistic ☺️

    • @redbirddeerjazz
      @redbirddeerjazz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@solofemaletravelerme so you're saying that as an autistic person, i'm not an individual?
      you also seem to be implying that it is somehow an insult to be viewed as possibly autistic, as if autism is inherently negative. we are pretty good at recognising our own kind btw - research supports this. while i cannot definitively diagnose someone i do not know (and even if i knew them i could not because i am not a clinician) i am, like many other autistics, fairly good at recognising fellow autistics. assuming you are not autistic (and even if you were a clinician) you have absolutely no basis to determine that somebody you do not know is not autistic. i hope you do not go around in real life invalidating the experiences of autistic people.

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She thinks that she is, and is awaiting diagnosis.

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@redbirddeerjazz
      He is neurodivergent, and he's also never dated before. Never matched on dating apps, even after changing his profile 15+ times. Moreover, his mother left/abandoned them when he was very young. His dad assumed the role of both parents for him and his autistic sister. He's felt perpetually unloved by women. 💔🥺
      This was a really sweet and mild edit, but his telling of that whole story, his gift to Molly, his phone call to his dad, his interactions with Fred and Merlin... *I literally cried thrice throughout. I had to pause it. I *LOVE* him, but my heart _broke._*
      I truly hope they record and air his next date (Fred found him another); I suspect they might do so in the end of this series. Fingers & toes that it's a lasting love match! 🤞🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽

  • @margkropf5541
    @margkropf5541 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    For once, these people are real and in the moment. No players or bimbos. Such a refreshing change. There is someone out there for both of them.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I always suspect the very attractive ones are on the show to acquire TV exposure, and doubt any backstories of dating woe.

  • @alexandervonbraun
    @alexandervonbraun 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I hope he finds someone who is equally as nice as he is.

    • @lalosalamanca8574
      @lalosalamanca8574 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      She was very nice

    • @KingDomsKingdom85
      @KingDomsKingdom85 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As do i. He's such a genuinely kind man.

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's never dated before, and he's neurodivergent. Never matched on dating apps, even after changing his profile 15+ times. Moreover, his mother left/abandoned them when he was very young. His dad assumed the role of both parents for him and his autistic sister. He's felt perpetually unloved by women. 💔🥺
      This was a really sweet and mild edit, but his telling of that whole story, his gift to Molly, his phone call to his dad, his interactions with Fred and Merlin...
      I literally cried thrice throughout. I had to pause it. I *LOVE* him, but my heart _broke._
      I truly hope they record and air his next date (Fred found him another); I suspect they might do so in the end of this series. Fingers & toes that it's a lasting love match! 🤞🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽

  • @missj.d9187
    @missj.d9187 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The lady was so much more mature than 25. I really wish them well

  • @dudderelax
    @dudderelax 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    please dont give up on fred, please try and find him another date

    • @michelesouza2646
      @michelesouza2646 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      isaac deserves the world. He has a lovely energy and quirkiness to him. I agree, find him a new date

    • @dudderelax
      @dudderelax 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michelesouza2646 wassup lil mama, i know were tryna find isaac a date, but can we find you one? with me? maybe we can get matching tattoos on valentines day, you busy?

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's never dated before, and he's neurodivergent. Never matched on dating apps, even after changing his profile 15+ times. Moreover, his mother left/abandoned them when he was very young. His dad assumed the role of both parents for him and his autistic sister. He's felt perpetually unloved by women. 💔🥺
      This was a really sweet and mild edit, but his telling of that whole story, his gift to Molly, his phone call to his dad, his interactions with Fred and Merlin...
      I literally cried thrice throughout. I had to pause it. I *LOVE* him, but my heart _broke._
      I truly hope they record and air his next date (Fred found him another); I suspect they might do so in the end of this series. Fingers & toes that it's a lasting love match! 🤞🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽

  • @shorty3552
    @shorty3552 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Merlin and Fred were really kind to him after his failed date.

    • @karenstieglitz3443
      @karenstieglitz3443 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Merlin and Fred's humanity is what keeps me watching! ❤

    • @spiritedaway99
      @spiritedaway99 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@karenstieglitz3443who are those lol??

    • @karenstieglitz3443
      @karenstieglitz3443 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Merlin is the bartender and Fred is the host. @@spiritedaway99

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@spiritedaway99
      The bartender, and the host/owner of the restaurant, respectively.

    • @spiritedaway99
      @spiritedaway99 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@BL3SSed-Bliss aww yess they are very kind,never knew them by name,thanks for letting me know 💛

  • @gerardmackay8909
    @gerardmackay8909 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Ah she was very kind and sweet with him. Molly is a star

  • @saraatkinson8023
    @saraatkinson8023 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    2 beautiful souls. Good luck to them both. ❤

  • @karenstieglitz3443
    @karenstieglitz3443 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    No one's world should crash after someone friendzone's them. This is just a temporary romantic incompatibility. Sometimes you have to go on many, many dates before you find the right one! Both lovely people, and Isaac, your love will appear, hang in there!

    • @heartpursuer
      @heartpursuer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Your comment is quite rational, but I think it doesn't take into consideration someone's back story as well as their hopes and expectations. World crash? Probably not, but for the spurned party, a gut punch.

    • @karenstieglitz3443
      @karenstieglitz3443 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi - My words were directed at the gentleman, because he said, "My world just crashed." (4:40) I was trying to comfort him. Absolutely, rejection is always a "gut punch," but one should never feel hopeless. There is someone for everyone. Sadly, sometimes it takes more time than we want to spend to find them, and that time can be frustrating and lonely. The frustration and loneliness should not deter us from continuing to look. @@heartpursuer

    • @n9mone
      @n9mone 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it's not fair to impose your way of being onto others..

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He's never dated before, and he's neurodivergent. Never matched on dating apps, even after changing his profile 15+ times. Moreover, his mother left/abandoned them when he was very young. His dad assumed the role of both parents for him and his autistic sister. He's felt perpetually unloved by women. 💔🥺 _All due...anyone's_ world would crash after this. (You should watch the ep.)

      This was a really sweet and mild edit, but his telling of that whole story, his gift to Molly, his phone call to his dad, his interactions with Fred and Merlin...
      I literally cried thrice throughout. I had to pause it. I *LOVE* him, but my heart _broke._
      I truly hope they record and air his next date (Fred found him another); I suspect they might do so in the end of this series. Fingers & toes that it's a lasting love match! 🤞🏽🙏🏽🤞🏽

    • @karenstieglitz3443
      @karenstieglitz3443 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@BL3SSed-Bliss Thank you for all the background info... I understand his reaction better now. He's so sweet, so handsome, too, and I have fingers, toes and eyes crossed! ❤

  • @legaleagles3654
    @legaleagles3654 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    He’s such a nice guy!

  • @swoshbuck
    @swoshbuck 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The amount of effort this guy is putting in to get to know her and talk to her, the right girl would be lucky to have him.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes and no. If you are is not physically attracted to your date, not a good idea to continue dating them because they are investing so much effort in getting to know you, no matter how sweet and sincere. Molly was smartly upfront about friendship only.

  • @SongBillong
    @SongBillong 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Aw. Good luck to them both. There are some lovely people about 😊

  • @catmac4287
    @catmac4287 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    She’s 25??? Never !!! More like 35!!!

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Haircut aged her.

  • @stevenkass6154
    @stevenkass6154 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What sweet hearts - both of them.

  • @duvine3882
    @duvine3882 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope he finds somebody into responsible commitment, devotion, comprehension, acceptance for the same in return.

  • @CozmicFirefly
    @CozmicFirefly 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Both are beautiful

  • @Mongo-ui1ll
    @Mongo-ui1ll 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my goodness i have alot in common with him hahahaha wish he were older 😂

  • @NatalieMcCabe-wh6ni
    @NatalieMcCabe-wh6ni 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    She's not 25!

    • @jamiewarner3637
      @jamiewarner3637 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No she’s definitely not 1.551121004333e25 as most humans don’t even live that long

  • @maenamsunset
    @maenamsunset 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Used to play yugioh with you, nice guy. Good luck Isaac!..

  • @jennifergirling6850
    @jennifergirling6850 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If there is no attraction then it doesn't matter how well they get on.

  • @therealnguyen6928
    @therealnguyen6928 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    25?! 😂

  • @grizzlehatchet1
    @grizzlehatchet1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    If she's 25 I'm the queen of England

  • @sadekHessen
    @sadekHessen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A love or relationship that has no restrictions in age, shape, size, poor or rich, love, affection, feelings, feeling, desire. I think it is as beautiful as it is. I have found something like it in my life that I am connected to. Greetings to me, everyone from the country of Egypt, the city of Luxor.🌹🌹🌹

  • @KingDomsKingdom85
    @KingDomsKingdom85 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    F###, im such a hopeless romantic 😂❤🤷‍♂️. Love is what life is all about, its the biggest form of happiness one can feel.

  • @nursetinalouise
    @nursetinalouise 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Noooo why did she say that?

  • @robertgelblum5154
    @robertgelblum5154 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Oh gosh! I'm really disappointed. I thought she liked him and that they were clicking. She seemed to light up when he gushed over her, so I was definitely expecting a green light from her. Instead, she relegated him to the dreaded "friend zone." One thing though: he does talk too much, and sometimes doesn't know when to stop talking.

    • @samsongomah1318
      @samsongomah1318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      IMO, a woman with a tattoo that says 'bulletproof' on her chest can't be too choosy. Even worse is the fact the tat looked like it was done in prison.

  • @truth_hunter
    @truth_hunter 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    He talks too much. Either he gets overly excited on dates or he’s very lonely and has no one to talk to. Nice guy, but I see some self-esteem issues. He works too hard to try to gain approval from others.

    • @margkropf5541
      @margkropf5541 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Agreed and it’s a shame.😊

    • @KingOfDarknessAndEvil
      @KingOfDarknessAndEvil 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think it's autism

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Whenever he looked up toward her, and he looked down quite a bit, it often appeared a search for approval. Autistic or not, he needs coaching from a friend on better dating body english.

  • @geraldinemclaughlin57
    @geraldinemclaughlin57 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless him hope he has better luck next time

    • @samsongomah1318
      @samsongomah1318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Given this date this time around, he will most certainly have better quality next time.

  • @Contemplator610
    @Contemplator610 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    If she is 25 then I am Elbert Einstein 🙄

    • @SongBillong
      @SongBillong 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Eh? She certainly looks mid-20s to me. Are you saying she looks younger or older?

    • @Ou8y2k2
      @Ou8y2k2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hi, Elbart!

    • @eivom1
      @eivom1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's the haircut

    • @SongBillong
      @SongBillong 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@eivom1 So her 80s-style haircut somehow prevents you from seeing her blatantly young facial features and flawless, young skin? Righto

    • @unit0033
      @unit0033 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      more like 35

  • @whosaidthat4299
    @whosaidthat4299 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    She seemed older because of haircut and weight, for the people that are doubting her age.

    • @unit0033
      @unit0033 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      she wasnt a good shape

    • @Ljounieh
      @Ljounieh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The clothes!

  • @samsongomah1318
    @samsongomah1318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If a woman with a tattoo saying 'bulletproof' on her chest - looking like it was etched in prison - shows up on a blind date with me, then I am going to think 'pump-and-dump' and no call back whatsoever.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some thoughts are best kept private.

    • @samsongomah1318
      @samsongomah1318 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@hd-xc2lz Some tattoos are best kept private.

  • @ppumpkin3282
    @ppumpkin3282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This "just friends" thing is just a way of saying she has no interest in him.

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And he got the message.

  • @catrescuer
    @catrescuer 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He can’t even get her name right😂

    • @RandomSorcESO
      @RandomSorcESO 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He said her name wrong out of nerves

    • @hd-xc2lz
      @hd-xc2lz 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not a sin on a first date if it happens only once.

  • @davesmith5855
    @davesmith5855 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    just walk out lad

    • @lalosalamanca8574
      @lalosalamanca8574 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He was put in the friendzone. Perfect example

    • @JP-bh7wb
      @JP-bh7wb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I would if my date looked like that

  • @HeleneSweeney
    @HeleneSweeney 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A ❤him x

  • @sleepswithnopillow8413
    @sleepswithnopillow8413 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    bye molly

  • @jobella2656
    @jobella2656 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He dodged a bullet as he deserves so much better.

  • @gemmag.2988
    @gemmag.2988 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    From an unbiased outsider he was much more physically attractive than Molly!

    • @margkropf5541
      @margkropf5541 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      So who cares?You sound so shallow.

    • @Cashh222
      @Cashh222 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Why are you even comparing them, so odd

    • @gemmag.2988
      @gemmag.2988 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@margkropf5541 I am far from shallow. Don't make assumptions about someone you've never met. I am just saying that one person is more physically attractive than the other which is down to the creative team's management.

    • @jemmajames6719
      @jemmajames6719 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It wasn’t about looks he obviously has some type of condition maybe Autism that makes him quite child like in many ways, she was looking for a normal/ nerdy guy.

    • @annemariefoley6059
      @annemariefoley6059 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought that she was more attractive. It's in the eye of the beholder.

  • @fernandabjort
    @fernandabjort 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    If he didn't feel lonely, I don't believe Molly is the type of girl he would go for. Piercings and tattoos doesn't look like the mother of his children.

    • @Cashh222
      @Cashh222 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He literally said he likes piercing and tattoos, and who are you to decide who should be the mother to his children😂. They went on a date and it didn’t work out, nothing to do with piercings or tattoos, she was lovely

    • @ilovethesmelloffire
      @ilovethesmelloffire 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He’s a lost lamb

    • @samsongomah1318
      @samsongomah1318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Cashh222 Most men don't take women with piercings and tattoos seriously as potential wives or mothers. You may not like the statement, but it is true.

    • @samsongomah1318
      @samsongomah1318 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      All those tats and piercing don't make her look like a suitable candidate for the mother of anyone's children.

    • @Cashh222
      @Cashh222 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@samsongomah1318 why do you believe that your personal preferences represent that of all men, first of all. Secondly, I don’t date men so that really has no bearing on my life LMFAO. Third of all, believing a woman should base her entire appearance and/or personality on what she thinks is attractive to men is a narcissistic delusion that stems from men believing women are objects to be owned and paraded around with. Women don’t exist to be “wifey material” to men, women are autonomous beings. If YOU don’t like women with tattoos, that’s fine, speak for yourself tho darling.

  • @edward92128
    @edward92128 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Is this undateables