How does size effect experience? | MtF Transgender

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  • Wow! You all really like the sex videos! Lets talk about d*cks.
    Time to break apart a myth: Is bigger better? In the case of MtF Transwomen, (or anybody that enjoys non traditional practices, really) the answer might not be what you expect.
    What do you think? Leave your thoughts in the comments!
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  • @stevendunn2501
    @stevendunn2501 2 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    As an average-sized cis-hetero Black man, the "bbc" racialized objectification of Black men by both cis and trans-women really had me feeling a sense of shame about my body for the longest time. It was only when I reached 30 that the idea of letting anyone body shame me for the way I was born became too ridiculous a notion to entertain.

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Awesome Steven glad you found it

    • @daisymariapilar6780
      @daisymariapilar6780 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is funny that girls have been saying this for years but men don't believe them.

    • @user-mq7dq4qd3y
      @user-mq7dq4qd3y 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤bbc

    • @user-mq7dq4qd3y
      @user-mq7dq4qd3y 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AshleyxAdamson❤ 0:39

    • @lockade_9958
      @lockade_9958 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      P*rn is misleading, people say Yes size matters but most people's mouths/holes are to small and narrow for large hung people. When your the same size as a bang energy drink it's kinda hard to find people who don't want to get ran through. 😮😢🎉

  • @jesterr7133
    @jesterr7133 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Smh Girl, you're a trip. I have all the respect in the world for you. You talk about things that affect us in a way that no one else does. It takes guts.

  • @karennafry3022
    @karennafry3022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    ohh i love how straight up you are... very informative thanks, Blessed Be.

  • @sarahburnett7801
    @sarahburnett7801 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I agree with everything you said in this video. You actually made me laugh a couple times when you laughed and said "this is so naughty. " I love your videos!🥰

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Haha great to hear that Sara! We are in sync

  • @pigeondance687
    @pigeondance687 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    4"-5" is best for me lol

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      LOL!!!!

    • @EmilyRose900
      @EmilyRose900 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same here! 6" is definitely ok, but if he really pushes it BD, it tends to hurt and it can ruin the experience for me personally.

  • @darrogante
    @darrogante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Thank you, I'm going to share this with the women in my quilt making group.

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hahaha!! ;)

    • @kluv420
      @kluv420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Do we have any Amish on here ? Quilt making lol made me wonder 🤔🤔🤔 they have phones now

    • @Cary2693
      @Cary2693 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@AshleyxAdamsonWho cares how you get off 😅😂

  • @donmasters9601
    @donmasters9601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Love your content, love your attitude!!

  • @bernardbaker9451
    @bernardbaker9451 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I appreciate your honesty.

  • @soulseermizutsune6379
    @soulseermizutsune6379 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Had to pause @3:10- couldn't agree more!
    FtM here:
    My ex literally could *not* comprehend that 8" "hurt" and "wasn't enough to satisfy alone" when he "had the biggest of his friend group". He was wholeheartedly convinced that "every girl from highschool (and beyond) wanted him" too 'cause he was 'Austin Powers without the pump'. Atrocious in bed, but since he was my first love I thought *I* was being unreasonable... "You can't not like it 'cause *I* know a woman who likes +12"!" Sad to say he didn't understand why I would get angry and broke up with him by saying "Sounds like you should drop me and hit her up then, coward." 😓🤣😂

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      LOL!!!

    • @robertdevoy3119
      @robertdevoy3119 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      12 inches is so rare that someone could scr3w thousands of guys and never see one that large. Without a reliable reference, 9 inches could be passed off as 12 inches.

  • @WayoftheWills
    @WayoftheWills ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very well said. Loved how u explained 😀

  • @meganbellesmith3739
    @meganbellesmith3739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    LMFAO! 100% on every point and entertaining AF too! Luv ya, rock on!

  • @ghostface4404
    @ghostface4404 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    so long s it does its job. to be fair... trans women are fascinating.

  • @oldsoulmovinslow6883
    @oldsoulmovinslow6883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Best video of the year!

  • @adamturner8634
    @adamturner8634 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This really is a erea where men feel super self conscious and crazy thing is alot of our self consciousness stems for other men bullying like I remember being picked on in school that's the go to insult for bullies call his dick small so know we believe it is to small and we will let our partner down and that sucks

  • @lovehope5126
    @lovehope5126 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    very interesting point of view
    thank you for letting us in on your thoughts and joys 🙂

  • @BrendanTripp
    @BrendanTripp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ashley ... I am speechless. I do, however, keep trying to figure out how the you of 10 years ago might process this!

  • @louisrago1635
    @louisrago1635 ปีที่แล้ว

    very informative thank you Ashley

  • @tabbithacampfield4116
    @tabbithacampfield4116 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That’s why I like being average size

  • @user-yl7jq3ch6s
    @user-yl7jq3ch6s 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for the advice and video

  • @sinku2114
    @sinku2114 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so confident and so courageous wooo ..i love your videos

  • @liamodonovan6610
    @liamodonovan6610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your always real and genuine love your intelligent honest videos love interesting video

  • @TheDenihunter
    @TheDenihunter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Really informative, thank you ♥.

  • @kluv420
    @kluv420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She teaches what I think this is so true lol luv it

  • @DE-GEN-ART
    @DE-GEN-ART 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    im packing something like that salt grinder, and ive never had any complaints. its re about the connection between the two that makes sex good. everybody is different and has their own preferences and it makes it so much better when both partners know those preferences

  • @davidblakeman7299
    @davidblakeman7299 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree medium size is best to enjoy it. More pleasurable. I agree with all you say with regard to size.❤

  • @stevecook413
    @stevecook413 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your straght to the point way of speaking (yes the pun was intentional).
    Do you top? I'd love to be introduced to something new.

  • @tennfunn6332
    @tennfunn6332 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Like how you are able to articulate very "sensitive" topics with humor! That's a trait I like especially in attractive women, like yourself!

  • @maceyr.6583
    @maceyr.6583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm blushing the whole time. 😂

  • @_FightForYourFreedom_
    @_FightForYourFreedom_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So if your choices are extremely large versus simply very large, you choose very large, and this is why size does not matter. :-)

  • @kluv420
    @kluv420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes I agree perfect size 💞💞💞

  • @dspencer8827
    @dspencer8827 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very intresting comments you are talking about

  • @Scifi4life
    @Scifi4life ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I gotta agree with you. I prefer avg size.

  • @funone2no
    @funone2no 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On Point!

  • @audi4444player
    @audi4444player 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thought innocently that this was going to be about frame size, lol, surprise. I want to ask if you could tell me what the space light you have is? it's pretty.

  • @wisdomsounds777
    @wisdomsounds777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much!!!!😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @Alan-ct3bo
    @Alan-ct3bo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good information

  • @andreariggle1539
    @andreariggle1539 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Would have to agree with you an average size would be nicer

  • @thomasaley8839
    @thomasaley8839 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Enjoy your spirit very captivating

  • @danfinn4027
    @danfinn4027 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are a gem.

  • @teacherbrian6164
    @teacherbrian6164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow I’m 5 1/2 inches and this video made me feel great . I’m moving to Colombia in 2 months and I’m planning on having my first trans woman dating experience.

    • @teacherbrian6164
      @teacherbrian6164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ps you got another like and sun for this video. Keep up the good work.

  • @HumperMKB
    @HumperMKB หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s like saying the hotter a woman, the worse her personality 😂

  • @jjcman2009
    @jjcman2009 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So beautiful in every vid you post

  • @SexyTransCougar
    @SexyTransCougar 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Each day have tons of guys in my inbox on various apps talking bout BBC. EVEN before my transition I didn’t care about size. I’ve had tiny to huge. I value masculinity, tops, cleanliness….. if a guy is musty or cheezy…. It really is either ignorance or disrespect to me. I always ask a guy before we meet how big they are. But that’s only so I can make sure to prepare appropriately.

  • @robbja
    @robbja ปีที่แล้ว

    BTW - Ashley! LOVE your smile and your laughter! Such a great sense of humour!
    Wishing you a Wonderful Weekend!
    Take care and live well! Love and hugs!
    Swedish Bob

  • @willmackinnon9397
    @willmackinnon9397 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fresh cracked egg and i love your videos!

  • @torenga
    @torenga 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    that topic always reminds me of the quote „everything can be a dildo if you are brave enough!“ 😂

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha!!!

    • @chrisgunn4741
      @chrisgunn4741 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That’s so true, because I’ve seen things that’s been in places they just should not go, but just like a train wreck, I could not look away. 😆

  • @juanitamartinez279
    @juanitamartinez279 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤔😳 yeap. It does matter.
    Not too big. Not too small.
    Ideal. 😂😂😂👏👏👏

  • @candycox3007
    @candycox3007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I measure with Imperial units, since I’m an American. Now you live in Europe, they use Metric. Because a centimeter is smaller than an inch, does everyone seem about 2.54 times bigger? LOL, engineer humor 😉

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love it! LOL!

    • @hugo-garcia
      @hugo-garcia ปีที่แล้ว

      Actually metric is bigger. You see a 6 inch penis has 15 centimeters. So is 15 > 6. If someone asks you dick size just says the size in metric instead of imperial cause it will sound bigger.

  • @covenofartistry7283
    @covenofartistry7283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Okay so I know this is a weird question but you mainly talked about larger dicks I was wondering about the smaller. I am a trans girl, pre- hormones, and I already have a pretty below average dick. I was wondering how much that matters and if once you start hormones about how much I should expect it to shrink, if any. Thanks for the videos they really help me in my slow process towards transitioning.

    • @RobisonRacing68
      @RobisonRacing68 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Shrinkage is real. Been on HRT 26 years. It's a thing :)

    • @kosher8720
      @kosher8720 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Late to the party so forgive me. As a straight man who finds Transwoman attractive, their size means nothing to me, while the personality, humor, and being comfortable in your own skin means everything. Doesn’t matter if it’s a fling, or serious dating.
      Hope this helps, and please be safe out there. ❤

  • @eyeswideopen7777
    @eyeswideopen7777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The thijgs you go thru.. 😂 your brave ...

  • @user-yr5dp8ex1w
    @user-yr5dp8ex1w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love trans women ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Mottleydude1
    @Mottleydude1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As a cis male, and as size goes, I’m about an inch longer than average and about about a half inch larger in diameter. Which means I don’t probably size have the package needed to make it as a porn star. LOL
    But to verify your point I received quite a few compliments by lovers that my size was just the right size for love making. Now if you you hear that once or twice it’s flattery but I heard it a lot.
    I also agree with you about the journey in love making. 3/4ths of being a good lover is making an intimate emotional and physical connection. Not just sex. The sex part is just really adjusting to whatever feels good to each other, gradually increasing tempo and climaxing.
    If you made the right emotional and physical connections then the climax will be satisfying.

  • @77shoemanable
    @77shoemanable 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your fantastic

  • @duronddavis1601
    @duronddavis1601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So I have 7inch and it's girthy and I been seeing my trans girl for almost a year now and she says it hurts her when I fully put it inside but that's when it feels the best to me or she might struggle to do oral on me in some positions is there any positions that might feel more pleasant for her we can try I'm 5'9 and she is 5'5 and dose it hurt her because she is so much smaller like would I have complications if she was like 6'0 or it just don't matter

  • @GhazDakkaDaKrumpa
    @GhazDakkaDaKrumpa 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Better to have it and not need it then need it and not have it. 😂 🤣😵‍💫

  • @williamcollins914
    @williamcollins914 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So adorable 🎉❤

  • @RenateBourgouin
    @RenateBourgouin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After responding to every single 'enlargement' spam email for several years, my thing is now 235 feet long. 😉

  • @frakfriki
    @frakfriki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The important question here is. Why do you have a peper grinder in your bedroom???

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol. I just ate earlier at the table

  • @1twistedcpl6575
    @1twistedcpl6575 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The front door usually leads to a living room...the back door usually leads to the laundry room, kitchen, breakfast nook and main hallway. Just saying 😂

  • @allenvestal4474
    @allenvestal4474 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i have 5 and a half inches, but it is smooth and pretty. No huge blue veins you might worry will explode and paint your wall with blood.

    • @allenvestal4474
      @allenvestal4474 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am so happy I found you.

  • @leftturnclyde4119
    @leftturnclyde4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You should really find away to do personal phone calls or something im sure people would pay for your deff open and unique perspective

    • @AshleyxAdamson
      @AshleyxAdamson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks! I do personal email and once a month video chats with my Patreon patrons. :)

  • @LionsTigersBears
    @LionsTigersBears 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You bet.

  • @07Nightrain
    @07Nightrain 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    7" here, not the biggest, but no complaints either.......

  • @martinithechobit
    @martinithechobit 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am fun bite size.

  • @fudgesticklebear
    @fudgesticklebear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I appreciate super cars, but I would never want to own one.

  • @simpleroleplay2136
    @simpleroleplay2136 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m am 7in are that okey?

  • @Sam-zu5mr
    @Sam-zu5mr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Being gay and the receiving type/bottom......too big is too much. Average and slightly above just right. As long as they hit the prostate- to me its wat counts. Saying that, looking at a well hung guy....enjoyable. just not in a penetrative way. Painful

  • @temporary_error_3264
    @temporary_error_3264 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I misunderstood the point of the video.

  • @Lucinda666
    @Lucinda666 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like civilization size (under 4 inches) but need more skills folks. 🎇🎇🎇

  • @ceekay4649
    @ceekay4649 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smaller/average guys are totally fine.

  • @frab4636
    @frab4636 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i'm really self conscious. I'm almost 6 inches long a little over 5 inches thick. is that a good size for you

  • @lastwolflord
    @lastwolflord ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think if you used toys all the time you would just end up desensitize yourself to realistic sex. Kind of like watching porn and then when it comes time to being with somebody you think what you saw in those movies is how most people want sex. Instead of understanding that was just entertainment. Not really reality.

  • @mauron611
    @mauron611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙

  • @joebembo-qs3dr
    @joebembo-qs3dr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🇯🇲🏝️🙌🏾🥰🥰🥰🥰 your so awesome ☺️👑👠💟I just love you 💯💪🏾💪🏾

  • @terrywolf5119
    @terrywolf5119 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Length over girth for me

  • @robturner5746
    @robturner5746 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so beautiful, inside and out...

  • @michaelmunyan4954
    @michaelmunyan4954 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm bi. anything past 7" is usleless

  • @LionsTigersBears
    @LionsTigersBears 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No rip with a gallon of lube.

  • @calvinnewborn8452
    @calvinnewborn8452 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Same thing with a woman? Right

  • @lucyalienlove
    @lucyalienlove ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Rip my hole" 😅😮

  • @ericfreshcorn3590
    @ericfreshcorn3590 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My Poor Heart is broken my Transgender Girlfriend Dumped me 4 months ago she was very sexually Active And I Loved it And So Did She But she left me for a Woman now my poor heart is Broken now i,m looking far a Transgender Woman i,m from Ohio

  • @Apfelschorle23
    @Apfelschorle23 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is 6 ok

  • @douglasthornton5311
    @douglasthornton5311 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    > want a big black slip skin

  • @cleberrenato429
    @cleberrenato429 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤😘😍🤩🤩🌈💕💙❤🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🌈💙💕❤

  • @DrKennyWang
    @DrKennyWang 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s weird that a statistically average peen still feels small because of porn and other societal machismo 😒

  • @InnerLuminosity
    @InnerLuminosity ปีที่แล้ว

    Merry me

    • @stevencole9885
      @stevencole9885 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you mean marry lol 😂😂😂

  • @briandarby4752
    @briandarby4752 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Big❤

  • @franciscofernandez5034
    @franciscofernandez5034 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never reply to me my lost love I still loving you ❤

  • @thomas4857
    @thomas4857 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please keep me I'm 8 own me please so I can bob the entire thing for you owner

  • @jonathanmol4489
    @jonathanmol4489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am 7 inches and with no trust or cominication I am gonna hit that for 3 hours.

  • @middayson
    @middayson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ash,luv u babe,but you lose me when u talk about...

  • @blondie3574
    @blondie3574 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

  • @PiaLoorits-tn5bf
    @PiaLoorits-tn5bf ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why would you go with the pain and ick factor of anal sex if you are a transgender woman? Something makes no sense. Or are you just crossdressing?

    • @SexyTransCougar
      @SexyTransCougar 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Transgender doesn’t mean you have had bottom surgery. I for one will never have bottom surgery. And there’s no ick in anal sex if you know how to manage your body especially diet.
      But wait… I really wish people would stop associating anal sex with gay/trans/exotic type supposed activity. Perhaps if you empower your ignorance and allow stereotypical judgement to limit your ability to educate, explore, celebrate and confidently share your body without shame with your chosen loved one…. that special vulnerability and trust will be exactly what everything we are taught it would be is finally a reality. Celebrate all parts of your body and release that trust to that person. Many parts of my body are not perfect. And I’ve matured to know that even my imperfections are simply not for everyone but worth honor and trust.

  • @TruBrahBull
    @TruBrahBull 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are such a beautiful young lady! I love how candid you are! I wish that you would top me! ❤😊❤

  • @Cary2693
    @Cary2693 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You don't have a hole 😅😮😂