Sonya and "mom", thank you for this interview. This subject is VITAL, for the addicts loved ones and for to help clear up the line between boundaries and enabling. I can talk and talk, but some feel bc I don't have kids. But, I have friends and family and have loss. I could go on about how grateful and imperative I feel this subject is to give the addict a chance. ** Sonya, unless I'm missing it, which is definitely positive because with my insomnia I've only had 6 hours of sleep and over 100 hours. So having said that, I do not see the link to your mom's TH-cam page and I really like to be able to share it with the mamas and the families that I know need to hear her. **I had the foreign language comment translated, don't waste your time it has nothing to do with the video or you or your mom.. Thank you both again for this and I look forward to seeing your mom's Facebook page. ❤️❤️
My mom and dad raised me right and church every Sunday and Wednesday unless of course a revival was going on then it was every night. I can relate so much and I'm a ga boy 3 years clean from a 22 year probably active addiction. My parents are the only reason I didn't lose my son. My mom and I used to have a terrible relationship and now it's great. Glad to see this .
I love this 🥰 Congratulations Grant! I relate to this so much! We lived in Augusta, GA when we got married and had kids. I'm so grateful for my mom as well 🙏 I'm so happy for your family!
I'm very skeptical about alot of TH-camrs posting about coming out of their addiction. And your video is the MOST realest video I've seen. You took it to a level that I don't think anyone with a current or past addiction has done. And that's getting inside info from the most important person in our life: "Mom" God bless your Mom for being there. Most of us in an addiction don't have that. Is there a way y that I can reach out to you outside of YUTB?
Casting Crowns….”Does Anybody HEAR HER OR HIM”….The him is the Prince Charming that never knew his Dads Love or how to date a woman and was a victim of being violated himself…this is my interpretation of the song
I wonder what the Mom would have done had she not been worried about the boys. Would she still have enabled? Not saying at all that its easy to know what to do. Just asking as im not quite sure what the benefit of these videos are supposed to be. No disrespect to her or the Mom as clearly they got out of this very difficult situation somehow but lots of important things that could actually belp others is glossed over. What is or more importantly was her relationship with ber Dad. The mother mentions she was on a date so obviously she was no longer with the Dad. Was she married to the Dad? Divorced? How did tbe divorce go? How soon were the parents online looking for someone else to validate themselves instead of being their for their daughter. Divorce impacts children very much. People are reluctant to say this bc we don't want to make people feel bad but that doesn't change it. It doesn't matter that she slept through the.night as a baby or that she was a great student when she was a kid. Rhe teenage years is really when things can go off the rails if the earlier stuff wasn't done right and sometimes even when it was. Even the fact that she was getting involved with the wrong guys is probably Daddy issues n that is huge. Even before the drugs. Then the Mom acts like doing cocaine is not a huge deal. Too much laughing in this video though i imaginr for the Mom its more of a nervous laugh. Hope they all do well especially her boys. Im just concerned that too many of these videos are almost glorifying addiction n short of actual tips. I agree with the Mom that its best for people not to remind them that even though they are clean 4 months still have to worry. Yes of course this is true but its probably best never to say this to someone unless you know them very well or there is very good reason. Those sober living places can be veru difficult for addicts as so many arent sober at various times. The Mom certainly went through alot especially since also taking care of her own Mom. Raising her grandchildren during all this must have been overwhelming. Most parents are beside themselves with grief,worry n anger just when their grown kid is in addiction. The idea that they had to re learn a relationship that eas healthy for both of them is such an important aspect. Wish all parents even those blessed with children who choose never to use drugs so never became addicted would be willing to create a healthier relationship with their adult kids based on mutual respect. Too few are.
I think healthy sex that honors God…..meaning keeping the marriage bed pure and not having premarital sex will be the best defense in a recovering meth addict to the needle
Sonya and "mom", thank you for this interview. This subject is VITAL, for the addicts loved ones and for to help clear up the line between boundaries and enabling. I can talk and talk, but some feel bc I don't have kids. But, I have friends and family and have loss. I could go on about how grateful and imperative I feel this subject is to give the addict a chance.
** Sonya, unless I'm missing it, which is definitely positive because with my insomnia I've only had 6 hours of sleep and over 100 hours. So having said that, I do not see the link to your mom's TH-cam page and I really like to be able to share it with the mamas and the families that I know need to hear her.
**I had the foreign language comment translated, don't waste your time it has nothing to do with the video or you or your mom..
Thank you both again for this and I look forward to seeing your mom's Facebook page. ❤️❤️
we would love to have you! Here is my youtube. th-cam.com/channels/jkaTD1i5iRzQ2mrBFWftLQ.html
My mom and dad raised me right and church every Sunday and Wednesday unless of course a revival was going on then it was every night. I can relate so much and I'm a ga boy 3 years clean from a 22 year probably active addiction. My parents are the only reason I didn't lose my son. My mom and I used to have a terrible relationship and now it's great. Glad to see this .
I love this 🥰 Congratulations Grant! I relate to this so much! We lived in Augusta, GA when we got married and had kids. I'm so grateful for my mom as well 🙏 I'm so happy for your family!
Thank you and keep up the good work. Your husband and yourselves inspire many
You have a great mother Sonya a what great information this is beautiful
Yes I do 🥰 She's amazing 😍
Your mom is amazing so are you and you clean and sober 6 years here
That's awesome 🥰 Congratulations 👏
Hi Mom thank you so much for coming on to tell your side of your story on how you saw things and felt the emotions 💜🙏🏻
We are both so grateful that we are able to tell the story, on this side. I think it was healing for both of us 🙏
@@sonyajohnson0719 what is the page that your mom has for loved ones?
Love this Sonya 💕 you're mom is a great mom 😍
Thank you 🥰 She is pretty amazing ❤️
Sonja thank your mom for her sharing. I’m experiencing a similar situation now with my daughter.
Thank you Sonya & her mom I love ❤️ to hear stories they give me strength 💪
Sonya ,Ifinallyfound the interviewwith your mom. She is a fantastic woman.And I am so proud of both of y'all.love you
I'm very skeptical about alot of TH-camrs posting about coming out of their addiction. And your video is the MOST realest video I've seen. You took it to a level that I don't think anyone with a current or past addiction has done. And that's getting inside info from the most important person in our life: "Mom"
God bless your Mom for being there. Most of us in an addiction don't have that.
Is there a way y that I can reach out to you outside of YUTB?
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TY for this, what is your Mom’s FB Page? 🙏🏻🙏🏻
That’s the divine intervention of God to save your daughters life🔥 25:58
Casting Crowns….”Does Anybody HEAR HER OR HIM”….The him is the Prince Charming that never knew his Dads Love or how to date a woman and was a victim of being violated himself…this is my interpretation of the song
So how do you stay clean????
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Listen to “Don’t take the girl” from Tim McGraw….thats what a God fearing man will do for his wife. Her first and me to die first
Pro 15:16 “BETTER IS A LITTLE WITH THE FEAR OF THE LORD, THAN GREAT TREASURE WITH TROUBLE🔥
I wonder what the Mom would have done had she not been worried about the boys. Would she still have enabled? Not saying at all that its easy to know what to do. Just asking as im not quite sure what the benefit of these videos are supposed to be. No disrespect to her or the Mom as clearly they got out of this very difficult situation somehow but lots of important things that could actually belp others is glossed over. What is or more importantly was her relationship with ber Dad. The mother mentions she was on a date so obviously she was no longer with the Dad. Was she married to the Dad? Divorced? How did tbe divorce go? How soon were the parents online looking for someone else to validate themselves instead of being their for their daughter. Divorce impacts children very much. People are reluctant to say this bc we don't want to make people feel bad but that doesn't change it. It doesn't matter that she slept through the.night as a baby or that she was a great student when she was a kid. Rhe teenage years is really when things can go off the rails if the earlier stuff wasn't done right and sometimes even when it was. Even the fact that she was getting involved with the wrong guys is probably Daddy issues n that is huge. Even before the drugs. Then the Mom acts like doing cocaine is not a huge deal. Too much laughing in this video though i imaginr for the Mom its more of a nervous laugh. Hope they all do well especially her boys. Im just concerned that too many of these videos are almost glorifying addiction n short of actual tips. I agree with the Mom that its best for people not to remind them that even though they are clean 4 months still have to worry. Yes of course this is true but its probably best never to say this to someone unless you know them very well or there is very good reason. Those sober living places can be veru difficult for addicts as so many arent sober at various times. The Mom certainly went through alot especially since also taking care of her own Mom. Raising her grandchildren during all this must have been overwhelming. Most parents are beside themselves with grief,worry n anger just when their grown kid is in addiction. The idea that they had to re learn a relationship that eas healthy for both of them is such an important aspect. Wish all parents even those blessed with children who choose never to use drugs so never became addicted would be willing to create a healthier relationship with their adult kids based on mutual respect. Too few are.
I think healthy sex that honors God…..meaning keeping the marriage bed pure and not having premarital sex will be the best defense in a recovering meth addict to the needle
1 Cor 13: 7-8,13
I’m sorry I forgot you are married so forgive me for reaching out and making myself look like a jackass
1 Cor 7:1-5….read that
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