Please pray for my friend Wassim. He's a Muslim & he comes from Muslim family full of medics. He said he started kind of going to church & even attended & did the Alpha course, recently! I thought it was amazing as I've been praying for him for years. He's still unsure that Jesus is the son of God.. Which is understandable.. Having been raised thinking otherwise. Please keep him in your prayers & that God blesses our friendship - That it will flourish & grow. I see him very rarely as he's working far away. God is amazing !! Be blessed !!
My way of practicing self-care whilst dating right now is investing and focusing my energy into my mental/emotional and physical health ❤. I believe in being my true self and putting myself first during this time. I've been hurt in the past and have been on a long ended journey of healing. The right man will come along during this process (all in God's hands). Love you Breeny you're amazing! 😘 God bless
A woman with confidence needs no validation. She is unstoppable. She makes no apologies for her growth. No one has to validate her every move. She finds her own unique lane and shines in spite of. She competes with no one. She simply thrives to be the best version of herself. She rises regardless. You, yes you...That woman lives inside of you...It's time you meet her and share her with the world...Share her amazing talents and creativity...It's time to RISE...See you at the top😉🤗.
HEY YOU!!! Self Care = Confidence ... I PRAY that every WOMAN watching this video will feel at least 1% stronger after watching this video and receive an abundance of love & confidence ...
It's extremely important not to lose yourself in a relationship. Your partner is supposed to be an extension of you and you are supposed to be an extension of them. So self care may seem selfish but it's actually the most selfless act you can do...undeniable facts or Super facts? (You can tell Breeny Lee been looking after herself too from the thumbnail alone she radiating that magical glow)
Dan kiley wrote 2 books that i'd suggest everyone to read one is about emotionally immature men (that include narcissist) called "Peter Pan syndrome" and another book called "wendy dilemma" (on women who act like mother with their boyfriend or husband and how to break free from those patterns)
When these men approach with their sad stories and woe is me logic...leave him be. He's not in a healthy or mature state of mind to love you properly! If he truly wants you,, he will go on his own self love/self care journey and return when he's healed. Had to learn this the hard way 🤦🏿♀️
You come in just handy. Just when I needed this. I got into a relationship few months ago and I don’t want to be clingy or too much . Thanks for this video Breeny
Remember sisters: Our hearts are only for Allah/God almighty.❤ unfortunately it's easy to fall into the trap, where we give our heart to a beloved person, but in the end that's idol worshipping, because we tend to do EVERYTHING for that person, even if it's something against Gods will. May Allah/God guide, bless and forgive us. Amin/amen 💚
Exactly ! A partner/spouse is a gift from Allah and is supposed to make you grateful and turn you more towards Allah . But when you focus on the gift forgetting the giver ,This very thing will be the source of all your misery . Let’s not forget why we are on this earth in the first place .
hey Breeny, I've been in a serious relationship for four months now, and during the first couple months I was struggling with losing myself and I realized that I was becoming depressed since I was looking for happiness in him. It's funny because I was actually looking for a video by you on this topic and now you've released it. I managed to make the shift to focusing on myself on my own and matching his energy and efforts, and I feel so much happier and healthier and independent, even in a relationship. I hope this video helps people who need this message because you have a way with words and you pierce right through to the heart. I feel relief after watching this video and a sense of confirmation of being on the right path. Thank you. I love you and all that you do!
@Autumn Green how did you make that shift? I'm in a relationship....6 months now and it seems like im only happy when I'm around him or when I'm talking to him. If I feel like he's pulling away or we have a disagreement it ruins my entire mood.
@@sunni90 It's honestly still a lingering challenge but it has gotten a lot better. My advice to you is to have other things in your life that you care about/make you happy. You have to make yourself happy outside of your relationship if you want to be truly happy IN your relationship. You are so much more than just your boyfriend's girlfriend. Also, I had to take my boyfriend off of a pedestal. He's honestly the first genuinely good guy I've ever dated and I was focusing so much on how amazing and perfect he was, but now I realize he isn't. You have to realize your boyfriend isn't perfect and humanize him. And finally, it sounds like you might be afraid of losing him. You have to force yourself to accept the reality that you might lose him, allow yourself to fully feel every dimension of that, and let it go. You have to realize that you will be perfectly okay without him, in order to be healthy with him. I hope this helps!
@@autumngreen7872 oh my god. thank you I fucking struggled and was depressed and anxious all the time not knowing why! I'm so glad I'm not alone. you helped me alot
Your man cannot be God to you. He is your companion not your savior. I am giving you a virtual hug all the way from Los Angeles, California. Amen to that....
I agree that real confidence is not being moved by how other people respond to you... BUT, also, social approval matters. Everyone cares what people think to some degree. Furthermore, our relationship to others is often how we learn to see ourselves clearer. I often hear this sentiment from influencers, who are very good at being liked by the masses, to "not care what people think of you.". 👉🏾It's very hard to feel good about yourself when you've never felt desired but do your best to be your best. What are your thoughts, Breeny?
Agreed. I guess its all about caring what THE RIGHT people in your life think instead of caring about what every other person thinks. Not every person's opinion is worth caring about and its up to you to decide which opinions matter.
You will never be able to make everyone happy. At the end of the day, you have to choose your battles and ultimately get to a place where you are happy with yourself first and foremost. Otherwise, you will be too busy pleasing others and their egos and unable to find peace from within. Once you are happy with yourself, you'll effortlessly be able to see whose opinion or advice should or should not be considered. I used to be a people pleaser a while back and to be honest, lacked a lot of internal peace. Work on yourself, work on yourself from within..find yourself..and watch everything else fall into place. :-)
Hey Breeny! I'm 21 years old and I've never been in a relationship. I've been on three dates just now at 21, however I have a fear of being inexperienced. Could you possibly do a video for women who have no experience in relationships and tips going into your first relationship? I'm not sure if you have a video about this, but I thought I'd ask! Thanks! ❤️
This is so profound . I just got divorced in April and he married quickly only to figure out how mean he had been and how much he messed up. I practice self love self care and let garbage out and love others and try to forgive daily because God does!
Stephanie, have you TRULY sat in your grief and mourned the death of that relationship? Forgiveness is layered and comes in stages. Forgive yourself for decisions you did/didn't make. Get counseling if necessary. Do so for the children if there were any because they were affected as well. Start the process of learning who you are in this season. Rediscover your likes and what gives you joy. Give yourself permission to let go of the past hurt and to move forward into your new space of whatever you desire for yourself. Pray for him and release him to God. You will find that in time that the hurt will ease and lift. Also know that there's nothing that you could have done further to change his mind. Blessings on your journey to restoration and wholeness.
@@lovebug6388 did the work and still doing those you’ve spoke of ! Realize some are in your life for reason and some for a season. Still counsel with pastor monthly and release. Let go and let God because I cannot change him. I work on me and everyday bits of me smile through
@@stephanieking4776 absolutely! Some people are blessings and others are lessons. Nevertheless God will give us double for our pain, shame, and guilt if we allow him. I realized I was my own resistance to the healing and wholeness I had asked for. Now that I have released my grip, I feel lighter. My Kingdom assigned, spirit guided mate is in en route to me and I am excited! God's about to wow me in such a way that I forget the pain of ever being hurt. I pray the same for you 😊
On point. I just got involved in a relationship about a month ago (made him wait 6 months dating while courting me with no sex before entering into a relationship). I refuse to drop what I did before I got in a relationship to accommodate him. I’m happier when I continue to do things that I love to do & then I can be available to spend time with him.
I am "as single as a pringle" as you'd say lol But I get lost in my work and hobbies and need to remember to prioritize myself hence my reason for watching. ❤
Same! But it's mostly work for me. I feel like my hobbies died when I went to college. Now I feel like I don't have the time or the energy to redevelop them or discover new ones.
Self love , self care and to forgive yourself and others you find yourself again! I Love me and other peoples misperception of me is not my problem Anymore! I had to see that !
breeny i just wanted to let you know how much you have helped me through my journey of finding myself through all of my trauma. you have helped me become self aware and even though i am still getting there i know that every time i click on a video of yours, i am going to learn something and figure out how to get better. your channel has truly been a blessing to my life and i know that God put one of your videos on my page for a reason because you literally have a gift and i am so glad that you continue to share it with us ❤️
So true! I used to feel like something was wrong with me because I’m “intimidating”, but I see it as a filter for men who would waste my time. Be yourself and the right person will find you faster than if you tried to please everyone. Great video!
I embrace 3 futures. One is the happily ever after. The other is the Golden Girls. The 3rd is a combination. In all 3 I feel/look my best and freeze my eggs lol.
Feel like I’m being attacked right now lol (from the title). I have let myself slip since getting in a relationship this year smh. Tomorrow I change that. Excellent point: Mirror HIM and do not make him your saviour. Do not bend your back when he’s doing the minimum. From past relationships and encounters I’ve learnt for the better not to jump through hoops and also take things from face value.
Don't feel attacked sis, we've all been there before! Take this as an awakening to put yourself first and require your man to step up or step off...no more settling for less than you deserve queen 👸🏿
@@CrystalSicily I feel like it's women who jump hoops now, and they have to prove that they're worth a text, call or a date. Men are so lazy and they don't do courting anymore. Sex is easily accessible to them now, they don't want to try.
@@arielaava2102 I don't have conversations with Text. Say. Call me later and we'll talk. Don't have SEX until your in a relationship. Men do Court...just stop chasing them. 😍
Douchebaggery 😂😂. Thank you for this video sis. I’m such a giver in a relationship and I need to learn to remember to give myself the same level of attention and love. Thank you. P.S. I see you stuntin’ on us ❤️🔥
Thanks for your video! My ex recently broke it off with me after 3 years. When he met me, I had a lot of trust issues since being hurt previously. I was hesitant at first, because I thought I’d get my heart broken again. He told me again and again to trust him, and that he’d never hurt me, how amazing and special I am. He was in love with me, at least I thought. He did most things right and I felt he was quite the catch. 3 years down the line, he has left me, for reasons that don’t make sense to me and probably never will. I wish I didn’t give my all again. I wish I didn’t go all in and think that he wouldn’t hurt me. I lost so much and now I’m left with myself, someone I don’t recognise anymore. Self preservation is me from now on.
really needed this rn not going to lie. struggling and feeling like crap when i’m not around him and i’m scaring myself 😂 ima go sleep and wake up tomorrow starting new for myself. he’s a companion not my saviour!! things will be okay and everything’s gonna end up how it’s going to anyways. u can’t change this ♡ self care ✨
I'm pretty sure I've seen your face so many times before but somehow i'm still not over how beautiful you are. I also just want to take the time to thank you... it's been a while since I watched your videos but back when I was going through a bad breakup you were like the only person I could listen to & looking back now that meant a lot to me. I don't watch your videos anymore but I'm glad you stay on your hustle - it's so inspiring!
Absolutely, Know and be aware that in the beginning stages its all about the most they can get out of you with the least amount of effort, so write down your boundaries and what you want aswell as what you can't tolerate. Don't lose yourself dear
Its mad how a few days ago I came to the realisation that I lose myself in the dating stages and today this is video is posted. Its amazing, its like the god/ the universe is listening.
Thankyou for this Breeny...i have been battling with this in my relationship. Selfcare and self love is a daunting path for me because i had so little of it in my life. I do feel congested at the moment but yea im going to start prioritizing my self worth and confidence.
I'm here first!!!!!! Love you so much Breeny. You're video about knowing my worth lifted me up when I was on a downward spiral. God bless you!! Love from Nigeria ❤️🇳🇬
Can you make a video on how to deal with being cheated on/ pornographic addictions? I recently saw the girl my ex cheated my on with, on one of my close friend’s story. This shocked me as I realised how the girl constantly gets up in my ‘grill’ so to say and betrayed as I didn’t think my friend would meet up with someone who partook in the lies. It would be interesting to see your perspective on how to deal w such situations and how to propel forward- to deal with insecurities and seeing others be ‘better’ than you. :) love your videos x
So true ! Sometimes it’s hard but keeping yourself as a priority is really important. A lot of us loose ourselves in relationships !! Love your hairstyle and white outfit 😘
When I was a teenager I worked out regularly for appearance purposes, but as I've grown I now make sure to workout in order to maintain my mental wellness, for stress management and preventative health purposes👍 That's my self care💓
Can we get a video on dealing with cliquey girls? I've worked in a female only workplace for 2 years and it feels like being back in high school. I thought I was strong enough to brush it off, but the way I'm excluded and isolated on a daily basis, 40 hours a week, has finally taken a toll on me. I've started to doubt my character and my self esteem gets lower each day. I feel awkward and nervous when talking and constantly over think. How can I stop this?
I'd suggest you to also follow cassandra mack youtube channel th-cam.com/video/_w2gfF8lbmA/w-d-xo.html that video link is about being ostracised at work but she did multiple ones on mean women/jealous women at the work place and people's toxic behaviour in family, friendship, relationship giving great advice on how to deal with it
Breeny!!! 😭😭I could cry, seriously, you are godsend. Your advice really helps give a clear perspective on many of the problems us young girls are going through.
I love your confidence. You are a great example for the next generation. You are beautiful inside and out. On a personal note, that sweater is EVERYTHING. Please link it ❤🦋
Please pray for my friend Wassim. He's a Muslim & he comes from Muslim family full of medics. He said he started kind of going to church & even attended & did the Alpha course, recently! I thought it was amazing as I've been praying for him for years. He's still unsure that Jesus is the son of God.. Which is understandable.. Having been raised thinking otherwise. Please keep him in your prayers & that God blesses our friendship - That it will flourish & grow. I see him very rarely as he's working far away. God is amazing !! Be blessed !!
God, I can not believe I cooked for him all the time and cleaned everywhere in his house when he moved. Hey girl if you reading this like Brenny said get a life really. You just don't have to. Relax gal.. Thank you for this amazing video Queen💕
I’m married and agree with everything you said! I remember that your engaged. It’ll be interesting to hear your thoughts once you are married with children. Love the vids Brit!!
Breeny! I didn't Recognise You for a Bit. I Love your Hair! You Look so Amazing. 👍 Your videos really help me a lot. I lost myself in a Marriage not even a Relationship. I am Single again and your videos are Helping me be confident again. 🙏 Thank you for the Videos, keep the coming. 👍 Appreciate You! 💕
My family once told me to not give all of my heart to nobody, and unfortunately I did the opposite and gave it all to my ex. And by doing that the pain in your heart gets bigger
Uploads ALL weekend! ♥️ Let me know some of the ways you practice self care whilst dating!
Please pray for my friend Wassim. He's a Muslim & he comes from Muslim family full of medics.
He said he started kind of going to church & even attended & did the Alpha course, recently!
I thought it was amazing as I've been praying for him for years.
He's still unsure that Jesus is the son of God.. Which is understandable.. Having been raised thinking otherwise.
Please keep him in your prayers & that God blesses our friendship - That it will flourish & grow. I see him very rarely as he's working far away.
God is amazing !!
Be blessed !!
I love you so much ma'am 😭
My way of practicing self-care whilst dating right now is investing and focusing my energy into my mental/emotional and physical health ❤. I believe in being my true self and putting myself first during this time. I've been hurt in the past and have been on a long ended journey of healing. The right man will come along during this process (all in God's hands). Love you Breeny you're amazing! 😘 God bless
What was the name of the poem?
seek JESUS and he will take care of you and church for a relationship where Christ is in the center . Sister breeny remember to pray ,
A woman with confidence needs no validation. She is unstoppable. She makes no apologies for her growth. No one has to validate her every move. She finds her own unique lane and shines in spite of. She competes with no one. She simply thrives to be the best version of herself. She rises regardless. You, yes you...That woman lives inside of you...It's time you meet her and share her with the world...Share her amazing talents and creativity...It's time to RISE...See you at the top😉🤗.
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👏👏🥂 and She does it all with grace and class, with no need to hurt or disrespect anyone as she does it.
Healthy self ...heal THY SELF
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LOVE it!!! 👸🏿💅🏿🧘🏿♀️
“He’s your companion not your saviour” I could quote this video all day long. This is super important that can be easily lost if not careful. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
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HEY YOU!!! Self Care = Confidence ... I PRAY that every WOMAN watching this video will feel at least 1% stronger after watching this video and receive an abundance of love & confidence ...
so sweet thank you, the same for you
@@luna-sv6uf anytime 🤗♥️
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@@potentialrizing1949 ♥️🤗🤗 hope all is well
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it's the LEWK for me.
Hehe 😏
Ikr! Just gorgeous!
Its the accent for me 💁♀️
It's extremely important not to lose yourself in a relationship. Your partner is supposed to be an extension of you and you are supposed to be an extension of them. So self care may seem selfish but it's actually the most selfless act you can do...undeniable facts or Super facts? (You can tell Breeny Lee been looking after herself too from the thumbnail alone she radiating that magical glow)
Stop having SEX until it's a Relationship.
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When I started to date, I gave up a lot of my hobbies and when we broke up I realized why it was never meant to be.
We must be careful ladies with those wounded men. Some of them are coverd narcissists.
This 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
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Dan kiley wrote 2 books that i'd suggest everyone to read one is about emotionally immature men (that include narcissist) called "Peter Pan syndrome" and another book called "wendy dilemma" (on women who act like mother with their boyfriend or husband and how to break free from those patterns)
@@historiqueafricaine thank you very much. I will look up for them
When these men approach with their sad stories and woe is me logic...leave him be. He's not in a healthy or mature state of mind to love you properly! If he truly wants you,, he will go on his own self love/self care journey and return when he's healed. Had to learn this the hard way 🤦🏿♀️
You look beautiful breeny!!! I'm definitely taking care of myself
I’m glad to hear that ♥️
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“broken people break people, healed people heal people.”💙
I’m broken and I’m still always everyone’s healer😐
@@melanievintimilla7835 stop doing that hunni put yourself first, heal your soul first♥️
You come in just handy. Just when I needed this. I got into a relationship few months ago and I don’t want to be clingy or too much . Thanks for this video Breeny
Aww ♥️
See yourself as the prize 🗣the one to be won ! Yassss Hun PREACHHH🙌🏾
Yes. He must WIN you.
Remember sisters: Our hearts are only for Allah/God almighty.❤ unfortunately it's easy to fall into the trap, where we give our heart to a beloved person, but in the end that's idol worshipping, because we tend to do EVERYTHING for that person, even if it's something against Gods will. May Allah/God guide, bless and forgive us. Amin/amen 💚
Wow. This statement just changed my life ❤️ thank u
Exactly ! A partner/spouse is a gift from Allah and is supposed to make you grateful and turn you more towards Allah . But when you focus on the gift forgetting the giver ,This very thing will be the source of all your misery . Let’s not forget why we are on this earth in the first place .
@@csamro1697 you're welcome 💕
hey Breeny, I've been in a serious relationship for four months now, and during the first couple months I was struggling with losing myself and I realized that I was becoming depressed since I was looking for happiness in him. It's funny because I was actually looking for a video by you on this topic and now you've released it. I managed to make the shift to focusing on myself on my own and matching his energy and efforts, and I feel so much happier and healthier and independent, even in a relationship. I hope this video helps people who need this message because you have a way with words and you pierce right through to the heart. I feel relief after watching this video and a sense of confirmation of being on the right path. Thank you. I love you and all that you do!
@Autumn Green how did you make that shift? I'm in a relationship....6 months now and it seems like im only happy when I'm around him or when I'm talking to him. If I feel like he's pulling away or we have a disagreement it ruins my entire mood.
@@sunni90 It's honestly still a lingering challenge but it has gotten a lot better. My advice to you is to have other things in your life that you care about/make you happy. You have to make yourself happy outside of your relationship if you want to be truly happy IN your relationship. You are so much more than just your boyfriend's girlfriend. Also, I had to take my boyfriend off of a pedestal. He's honestly the first genuinely good guy I've ever dated and I was focusing so much on how amazing and perfect he was, but now I realize he isn't. You have to realize your boyfriend isn't perfect and humanize him. And finally, it sounds like you might be afraid of losing him. You have to force yourself to accept the reality that you might lose him, allow yourself to fully feel every dimension of that, and let it go. You have to realize that you will be perfectly okay without him, in order to be healthy with him. I hope this helps!
@@autumngreen7872 thank you for this
Reading this because I am in the same position and it’s hard
@@autumngreen7872 oh my god. thank you I fucking struggled and was depressed and anxious all the time not knowing why! I'm so glad I'm not alone. you helped me alot
This remind me of a quote that goes "you are only responsible for giving yourself the life you want".
This video came EXACTLLLYY when I needed it.
Your man cannot be God to you. He is your companion not your savior. I am giving you a virtual hug all the way from Los Angeles, California. Amen to that....
Amen sis ‼️ making a man a God is idol worship and we don’t time for that as high value women 💪🏾
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Amen sis 👏🏾
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Why are you always on time?!! I love your beautiful self 😭❤️
I agree that real confidence is not being moved by how other people respond to you... BUT, also, social approval matters. Everyone cares what people think to some degree. Furthermore, our relationship to others is often how we learn to see ourselves clearer. I often hear this sentiment from influencers, who are very good at being liked by the masses, to "not care what people think of you.". 👉🏾It's very hard to feel good about yourself when you've never felt desired but do your best to be your best. What are your thoughts, Breeny?
Agreed.
I guess its all about caring what THE RIGHT people in your life think instead of caring about what every other person thinks. Not every person's opinion is worth caring about and its up to you to decide which opinions matter.
You will never be able to make everyone happy. At the end of the day, you have to choose your battles and ultimately get to a place where you are happy with yourself first and foremost. Otherwise, you will be too busy pleasing others and their egos and unable to find peace from within. Once you are happy with yourself, you'll effortlessly be able to see whose opinion or advice should or should not be considered. I used to be a people pleaser a while back and to be honest, lacked a lot of internal peace. Work on yourself, work on yourself from within..find yourself..and watch everything else fall into place. :-)
Hey Breeny! I'm 21 years old and I've never been in a relationship. I've been on three dates just now at 21, however I have a fear of being inexperienced. Could you possibly do a video for women who have no experience in relationships and tips going into your first relationship? I'm not sure if you have a video about this, but I thought I'd ask! Thanks! ❤️
This!!
This is so profound . I just got divorced in April and he married quickly only to figure out how mean he had been and how much he messed up. I practice self love self care and let garbage out and love others and try to forgive daily because God does!
Stephanie, have you TRULY sat in your grief and mourned the death of that relationship? Forgiveness is layered and comes in stages. Forgive yourself for decisions you did/didn't make. Get counseling if necessary. Do so for the children if there were any because they were affected as well. Start the process of learning who you are in this season. Rediscover your likes and what gives you joy. Give yourself permission to let go of the past hurt and to move forward into your new space of whatever you desire for yourself. Pray for him and release him to God. You will find that in time that the hurt will ease and lift. Also know that there's nothing that you could have done further to change his mind. Blessings on your journey to restoration and wholeness.
@@lovebug6388 did the work and still doing those you’ve spoke of ! Realize some are in your life for reason and some for a season. Still counsel with pastor monthly and release. Let go and let God because I cannot change him. I work on me and everyday bits of me smile through
@@stephanieking4776 absolutely! Some people are blessings and others are lessons. Nevertheless God will give us double for our pain, shame, and guilt if we allow him. I realized I was my own resistance to the healing and wholeness I had asked for. Now that I have released my grip, I feel lighter. My Kingdom assigned, spirit guided mate is in en route to me and I am excited! God's about to wow me in such a way that I forget the pain of ever being hurt. I pray the same for you 😊
On point. I just got involved in a relationship about a month ago (made him wait 6 months dating while courting me with no sex before entering into a relationship). I refuse to drop what I did before I got in a relationship to accommodate him. I’m happier when I continue to do things that I love to do & then I can be available to spend time with him.
Definitely need to get into self care. I have been through to many ups and downs in dating. Not feeling good about it.
I am "as single as a pringle" as you'd say lol But I get lost in my work and hobbies and need to remember to prioritize myself hence my reason for watching. ❤
Same! But it's mostly work for me. I feel like my hobbies died when I went to college. Now I feel like I don't have the time or the energy to redevelop them or discover new ones.
Self love , self care and to forgive yourself and others you find yourself again! I Love me and other peoples misperception of me is not my problem Anymore! I had to see that !
“Heal then date”!
breeny i just wanted to let you know how much you have helped me through my journey of finding myself through all of my trauma. you have helped me become self aware and even though i am still getting there i know that every time i click on a video of yours, i am going to learn something and figure out how to get better. your channel has truly been a blessing to my life and i know that God put one of your videos on my page for a reason because you literally have a gift and i am so glad that you continue to share it with us ❤️
So true! I used to feel like something was wrong with me because I’m “intimidating”, but I see it as a filter for men who would waste my time. Be yourself and the right person will find you faster than if you tried to please everyone. Great video!
I embrace 3 futures. One is the happily ever after. The other is the Golden Girls. The 3rd is a combination. In all 3 I feel/look my best and freeze my eggs lol.
I NEEDED THIS RIGHT NOW. Timing is impeccable as always Breeny
Feel like I’m being attacked right now lol (from the title). I have let myself slip since getting in a relationship this year smh. Tomorrow I change that. Excellent point: Mirror HIM and do not make him your saviour. Do not bend your back when he’s doing the minimum. From past relationships and encounters I’ve learnt for the better not to jump through hoops and also take things from face value.
Men should be jumping hoops for YOU!
Don't feel attacked sis, we've all been there before! Take this as an awakening to put yourself first and require your man to step up or step off...no more settling for less than you deserve queen 👸🏿
@@potentialrizing1949 ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@CrystalSicily I feel like it's women who jump hoops now, and they have to prove that they're worth a text, call or a date. Men are so lazy and they don't do courting anymore. Sex is easily accessible to them now, they don't want to try.
@@arielaava2102 I don't have conversations with Text. Say. Call me later and we'll talk. Don't have SEX until your in a relationship. Men do Court...just stop chasing them. 😍
Douchebaggery 😂😂. Thank you for this video sis. I’m such a giver in a relationship and I need to learn to remember to give myself the same level of attention and love. Thank you.
P.S. I see you stuntin’ on us ❤️🔥
Thanks for your video! My ex recently broke it off with me after 3 years. When he met me, I had a lot of trust issues since being hurt previously. I was hesitant at first, because I thought I’d get my heart broken again. He told me again and again to trust him, and that he’d never hurt me, how amazing and special I am. He was in love with me, at least I thought. He did most things right and I felt he was quite the catch. 3 years down the line, he has left me, for reasons that don’t make sense to me and probably never will. I wish I didn’t give my all again. I wish I didn’t go all in and think that he wouldn’t hurt me. I lost so much and now I’m left with myself, someone I don’t recognise anymore. Self preservation is me from now on.
really needed this rn not going to lie. struggling and feeling like crap when i’m not around him and i’m scaring myself 😂 ima go sleep and wake up tomorrow starting new for myself. he’s a companion not my saviour!! things will be okay and everything’s gonna end up how it’s going to anyways. u can’t change this ♡
self care ✨
I'm pretty sure I've seen your face so many times before but somehow i'm still not over how beautiful you are. I also just want to take the time to thank you... it's been a while since I watched your videos but back when I was going through a bad breakup you were like the only person I could listen to & looking back now that meant a lot to me. I don't watch your videos anymore but I'm glad you stay on your hustle - it's so inspiring!
Absolutely, Know and be aware that in the beginning stages its all about the most they can get out of you with the least amount of effort, so write down your boundaries and what you want aswell as what you can't tolerate. Don't lose yourself dear
"Broken people break people, but healed people heal people." Damn.
Its mad how a few days ago I came to the realisation that I lose myself in the dating stages and today this is video is posted. Its amazing, its like the god/ the universe is listening.
It has taken me a while to get to a place of confidence so this really helped Breeny x
Thankyou for this Breeny...i have been battling with this in my relationship. Selfcare and self love is a daunting path for me because i had so little of it in my life. I do feel congested at the moment but yea im going to start prioritizing my self worth and confidence.
Yeah i deffo struggle with being true to myself no matter who I’m around, like i try to mould myself so the guy likes me.
Self care is the attitude that says : I am responsible for myself. - unknown
I'm here first!!!!!! Love you so much Breeny. You're video about knowing my worth lifted me up when I was on a downward spiral. God bless you!! Love from Nigeria ❤️🇳🇬
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Brenny you are so beautiful omg! You are such a great role model and your growth is so motivating
You speak in a way that is speaking direclty to someone's heart. Thank you ❤
Can you make a video on how to deal with being cheated on/ pornographic addictions? I recently saw the girl my ex cheated my on with, on one of my close friend’s story. This shocked me as I realised how the girl constantly gets up in my ‘grill’ so to say and betrayed as I didn’t think my friend would meet up with someone who partook in the lies. It would be interesting to see your perspective on how to deal w such situations and how to propel forward- to deal with insecurities and seeing others be ‘better’ than you. :) love your videos x
Haha Breeny said ‘douchebaggery’ 😅
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@@BreenyLee 🤣🤣
Seriously!!! This was a blessing ♥️
It sure was!!
Self love is the best love!
I always feel happy when you post a video i needed this😩❤
The queen has spoken 👑
I really love your videos. Always needed, You’re like the big sis I never had. 😩♥️
i swear you’re always right on time with these videos 🤍
BREENY IS A GODDESS and A QUEEN. Such a powerful woman. We love you ❤️❤️😭😭
I needed to hear this today Breeny❤️ I always stupidly lose myself so fast on men because of my/our caring nature
So true ! Sometimes it’s hard but keeping yourself as a priority is really important. A lot of us loose ourselves in relationships !!
Love your hairstyle and white outfit 😘
Breeny please do a longer video on the how to not lose yourself, more examples and tips. I lost all relationships bc of this.
Are you a psychologist??? Lol so on point. Love it. God bless you sis! Thanks for all of the great messages!
You look beautiful 😍
Thank you Ma ♥️
Your advice is helping me so much on my life walk. Love you Breeny! ❤️😭
When I was a teenager I worked out regularly for appearance purposes, but as I've grown I now make sure to workout in order to maintain my mental wellness, for stress management and preventative health purposes👍
That's my self care💓
Can we get a video on dealing with cliquey girls? I've worked in a female only workplace for 2 years and it feels like being back in high school. I thought I was strong enough to brush it off, but the way I'm excluded and isolated on a daily basis, 40 hours a week, has finally taken a toll on me. I've started to doubt my character and my self esteem gets lower each day. I feel awkward and nervous when talking and constantly over think. How can I stop this?
I'd suggest you to also follow cassandra mack youtube channel th-cam.com/video/_w2gfF8lbmA/w-d-xo.html that video link is about being ostracised at work but she did multiple ones on mean women/jealous women at the work place and people's toxic behaviour in family, friendship, relationship giving great advice on how to deal with it
@@historiqueafricaine thank you so much! I'll definitely give that a watch.
Friendship video coming up!
YOU LOOK STUNNING GIRLL !
And Women keep loving yourself while you love others.
Breeny!!! 😭😭I could cry, seriously, you are godsend. Your advice really helps give a clear perspective on many of the problems us young girls are going through.
I love your hair Breeny and white looks great on you!
Great video.
I really loves breenys personality. she’s like the big sister i needed way back in the day. thanks for all the advice you share.
It took me two years and a divorce from a toxic demon to finally see this video and I swear I learned all you said to be true. Take care ladies 😘😘
Girl, I would love if you start a pep talk podcast!
Aww how stunning does Breeny look you all😍😍😍 #selflove
I really am glad I tuned in and turned up this woman’s videos because she is a positive spirit 💔🙏🏾
My self care is traveling to different countries, I love that!😋 Makes me so happy. Can't wait for this stupid pandemic to end 😤
I love your confidence. You are a great example for the next generation. You are beautiful inside and out.
On a personal note, that sweater is EVERYTHING. Please link it ❤🦋
Love the fact that you promoted having a business.
Anyone else overthinking a text they sent a guy? This video came at just the right time
Every word spoken had so much power and I’m here for it !
i needed this.. going thru a breakup but i needed this advice period
This video was amazing ... I also pray that you come out of break up stronger than never before 🤗
I didn't even realize I needed this. Thank you
Please pray for my friend Wassim. He's a Muslim & he comes from Muslim family full of medics.
He said he started kind of going to church & even attended & did the Alpha course, recently!
I thought it was amazing as I've been praying for him for years.
He's still unsure that Jesus is the son of God.. Which is understandable.. Having been raised thinking otherwise.
Please keep him in your prayers & that God blesses our friendship - That it will flourish & grow. I see him very rarely as he's working far away.
God is amazing !!
Be blessed !!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️
Boom. Already first sentence- dating is like recruitment. Thank you!
Your videos are seriously my favorite on TH-cam.Helped me so much during a break up last year!🤍
13:10 This applies to other life relationships 💯👏🏽
I love your channel, lots of substance 😃, love from Philippines ❤️
Self care is a great way to exhibit self love!
You’re awesome. I feel like you say what we all think however you state it with amazing confidence and reassurance.
Douchebaggery love it!!! Haha, such a great advice video WOW!! SPOT ON!
God, I can not believe I cooked for him all the time and cleaned everywhere in his house when he moved. Hey girl if you reading this like Brenny said get a life really. You just don't have to. Relax gal.. Thank you for this amazing video Queen💕
Breeny serving brain and beauty on a wonderful platter!
Wow! All points in this video were really great, sensible, and practical. I'm saving this for when I need to watch it again. Thank you, Breeny!
I’m married and agree with everything you said! I remember that your engaged. It’ll be interesting to hear your thoughts once you are married with children. Love the vids Brit!!
i love you 🥺
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@@BreenyLee i hope i'll be strong as u r :(
You are so wise, it is honestly refreshing ♥️
Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting...bad past relationships are just life lessons leading to your destiny... trust but don't make same the mistakes..
Breeny! I didn't Recognise You for a Bit. I Love your Hair! You Look so Amazing. 👍
Your videos really help me a lot. I lost myself in a Marriage not even a Relationship. I am Single again and your videos are Helping me be confident again. 🙏
Thank you for the Videos, keep the coming. 👍
Appreciate You! 💕
i really think you should start a podcast. i would love it as a morning listen :)
Loving the sweater Breeny it reminds me of snow and a dreamy feeling.
Thank you breeny for breaking my should mentality
I love listening to you, it gives me some encouragement in a world I feel sooo lost
My family once told me to not give all of my heart to nobody, and unfortunately I did the opposite and gave it all to my ex. And by doing that the pain in your heart gets bigger
YOU ARE AWESOME!!🌟 All your words are precious to me! Love you Breeny❣️❣️❣️❣️
Ahmen Sis ! I pray he does for both of us! Time for positive movement , giving energy to things that elevate! 🙏🏾💙