The part about having the courage to be disliked, undesirable, unattractive, uncool and imperfect…. whew. Emphasis on COURAGE bc as a recovering people pleaser, it can seem so much easier to be fake and inauthentic in hopes of being accepted. In fact, the thought of being disliked alone can seem like the end of the world at times. But my #1 goal for this year is to have more do’s than don’ts for myself because living a lie is exhausting. Thank you so much for this video, it’s so refreshing to hear your thoughts come out of someone else’s mouth so eloquently 😅❤️ you are amazing!
This time next year: I have saved 10k and more I have received my drivers license I have achieved my dream weight goal of 125lbs I have paid my mother’s debts I have restored my relationship with God I have become a divine feminine woman I have read 12 books I have become the best version of myself
Breeny’s steps • Focus on being yourself; have courage to stop folding yourself in order to be accepted • Spend more time alone. Carve out the time- you will be able to think more clearly without constant input and you will know yourself. • Get Crystal Clear on what YOU want. Discover your dreams and goals and write the vision down. • Invest in yourself. Read books about your biggest weakness. Go to seminars. Show me the money: where are you spending your cash on your growth? • Prioritize Self Care. Have intentional time or day when you do what you love and relax. Take a break from growth. Rest. • Think: Goals, Goals, Goals. Write this down so that you create a paper trail. Know what you are aiming for. • Believe in Yourself. You can do all things through Him who created you. • Mind Your Own Business. Unfollow the Tea. You are only escaping from your own world. It drains precious energy that you need to pour into your vision. New Mantra: “No, I am Busy” • Stand up for Yourself. Not a case for turn the other cheek. Advocate for Yourself!!
2022: DISCIPLINE Internship, master’s degree in finance, first car, flat stomach, travel with my friend, deal with my emotions, work-study company, new appartement
Exactly being yourself is powerful….I started focusing on myself last year and there is so much power in doing that. And honestly I lost so many people and I’m glad I did 😃 so much truth in this video.
@@Nauria when you’re focusing on yourself, giving yourself all of the love you give to people, you begin to understand that you really don’t show up for yourself like you do for others. Learning to say no to some people, you know if they were truly your friends or there for you in the beginning. You don’t push people away when practicing self love, with self love you get to better understand yourself more and be there for you. People leave when they notice that you’re giving yourself the attention you give to them.
My word for 2022 is CONSISTENCY!😌 I have struggled with the spirt of laziness and procrastination got the best of me but I am focusing and working on that consistently in the name of Jesus!🙌🥰
@@peptalkloungeofficial Usually it stems from fear. Identity your fear . What are your limiting beliefs? What are the lies , conscious or unconscious that you tell yourself ? List them out and write them down , for each lies tell the truth. Once you have the courage to face your internal fears you’ll realize nothing stops you from going forward with everything!!
After years of trauma from online bullying and an ex posting my nudes online. I’m finally ready to start putting myself out there digitally. I was so scared to start a TH-cam channel because I was scared of people from the past recognizing me but honestly I don’t care anymore. What’s the worst they can do? This year I’m: - spending at least some of the year in LA - starting the TH-cam channel - getting snatched - putting in the effort for healthier body mind and spirit - reading 20 books - getting rid of my things and starting from scratch - meeting new people
Just subscribed to you, can’t wait for your first video sis! No weapon formed against you shall prosper. Good luck with everything❤️ so sorry that someone you loved and trusted did that to you. Betrayal is no longer going to be part of your narrative.
I don't know who are you but take a Bow!🙇🙇 You have my respect! You are really really very strong to rise through this hell. I pray you are always protected and Loved. You really made me realise their are lot of people in the world who are going through lot more than me...I am grateful ♥️ Now I know what I am meant to do. Take care
2022: Focus, consistency and discipline. Eat healthy and stretch. Finish school. Start my business. Start my Fine artist journey. Love and be kind to myself 💕
6:55 *this is about YOU and what YOU want to do* This is everything. I feel like I've wasted my 20s focusing on living the life that was more about pleasing others instead of focusing on what I truly wanted! I'm 34 now and I feel so much more grounded in who I am and what I want. Also, clarity comes from taking action. Feeling lost is absolutely fine and reinventing yourself is OK, whether it's changing your hair or your career ✨ Happy new year Let's make 2022 about being your true self
I hear you. I've definitely felt like I've wasted time before. I think I try to rethink it, it's only a waste if there was no lesson learned. We don't come to Earth with a manual therefore we can't be too hard on ourselves for not doing better. As we learn more, we do more❤
@@ZED2.0 so true 💕 I always like to go back to this Maya Angelou's quote "Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.”
2022: CONFIDENCE, COURAGE, DISCIPLINE - be more confident than I have ever been - managing my stress level - being my fullest self and loving her - take care of my physical health - get my grades in school up - beat social anxiety and finally live life to the fullest! - deal with my emotions - spend more time with myself - read more books and get more educated - become more independent take care
This is definitely the energy for 2022. I just went through a breakup with a narcissit and I lost myself a little bit. Time to get focused again and focus on me!
my mom passed away the day after Christmas, 2 weeks ago, and my emotional abusive, toxic relationship ended terribly 3 days ago. i needed this. you’re the best Breeny.
I’m so sorry she may Rest In Peace and so happy for to get out of the toxic relationship it’ll be hard sometimes the path isn’t linear but you absolutely can do it love
I'm so saddened to hear of the loss of your mother. May her sweet soul rest in eternal and everlasting peace. And yayy for leaving the toxic relationship. In I sure the future is brighter from here on out ❤❤✨🕊
My main thing is boundaries... could you also maybe please do a video on how to set boundaries with others especially friends and family so that you can focus on yourself and your own family and have the confidence to go through with it, not to be made to feel bad about it?
She have posted about it but I’m sure she will again. I’ve saved one to share with my friends because this video was pure gold and because I always say what she said in the video tho. The tittle was”How to level up mentally (2021). Go watch it!!But from me experience your standards, your boundaries are your roots, what made you the person you are and lead you on your journey.You need to have strong boundaries and stick with them at all cost. Because if you let people walk on your boundaries you are letting them walk on you and that’s a big no! We teach people how they can treat us period! If you let people do whatever they want with you well there is a need to go check your self worth/self esteem. I love myself enough to know what I accept and not. No matter who(friends/parents/coworkers/my boss/boyfriend etc) I respect everybody BUT I ain’t giving my time(witch is the most precious thing I can give because their is no refund)to anyone who is not investing the same energy and not respecting me. You have to know and understand your boundaries and go with them. Everybody don’t deserve you, everybody will not see your worth and that’s ok but don’t accept the lack of consideration and respect as a reflexion of who you are or supposed to be. Hope this can help😊.
Wow I loved reading that. Thank you so much for taking the time to write your thoughts, I'm definitely interested in re establishing my boundaries again 100%! And I'll search for that video thank you:)
@@riaalmeida6228 my pleasure!!! You will be able to set your boundaries trust in yourself you are already there✨💪🏽 Btw English ain’t my native language hope you got my point 😊
2022 word: ME 1. Reduce my time spent helping others and start weekly "Me time" be selfish and spend time actually looking after myself 2. Travel minimum twice this year 3. Start regular saving 4. Move into my own flat 5. Be in a serious healthy relationship where the goal is marriage
This year I wanna really focus on wellness instead of chasing my purpose. I also realize when it is ok to focus on taking breaks and self care. Your mind may not know it, but your body keeps score.
My word for this year is “Blooming” because I am blooming and growing into a better person :) Thank you for this video. For me, 2022 is all about focusing my myself and protecting my energy from others 🙏🏻🙏🏻
2022: DISCIPLINE, CONSISTENCY, FOCUS this year goals: I am gonna improve my daily habits, be healthier I am gonna live with a baddie mindset who keeps herself first before others, being selfish for herself and being happy with herself I am gonna overall change my physical appearance I am gonna work on my mental health as a priority I am gonna study with consistency and improve it I am gonna be myself and not care about other people opinions coz they are temporary in my life I am gonna gain knowledge about spirituality, business, finance, and much more
2022: Be More discipline, learn new things,workout,saving more,read,have a routine,eat more healthy, call my family more, meditate, pray more, stand up for myself😇❤️🙏🏾
I love everything about this video, this year I refuse to deny myself of things I want, no more shoulda, coulda, woulda and more of I will, I have and I did. I will not make myself small this year, there’s billion stars in the galaxy, everyone has room to shine ✨
This time next year: ~ Continuation of being unapologetically myself. ~ Entering my 20s with peace and clarity. ~ 3.5 - 4.0 gpa for my semesters! ~ Investing in myself. ~ Building healthy habits and environments. ~ Lastly but certainly not least, using my creativity to change lives positively.
You're right about the bullying part. The first time they bully you is them testing your boundaries. If you don't do anything right there and then they will continue. The simple fact that they even TRIED to consciously TEST your boundaries already speaks volumes about how little respect they have for you. It means they see you as a prey, as something to take advantage of when the chance presents itself. It's infuriating when you think about it.
This time next year: 1.) Stop sacrificing my free time agreeing to going to places when I want to stay at home and work on hobbies. 2.) Finish my buffer for my comic and begin publishing online. 3.) Finish the front yard landscape. 4.) Paint the living room and hang up curtains. P.S. Happy to hear there's more podcasts to come, cause I was binging them last summer when doing yard work.
Improving! I want to become a more attentive mother (my depression makes me sink down sometimes) and also become thinner and stronger. I’ve already lost 17lbs and took the first week of this year off to declutter the house! I feel like being organized within my home will free up time to help me be more attentive to my child because I won’t always have something lingering over me to do that makes me tell him no to play time with mommy. Self care: I’ve started working out and doing yoga and stretching (great for my mental and physical health) and I’ve also started getting facials ones a month and have started up a book club that’s once every 3 months! I’m actually starting to put things in motion that I want to do and I’m so excited and ready for this year!
Breeny I want to really thank you. 6 months ago I was feeling really miserable, alone, and without any friends or social life. There I was wallowing in my own self pity. Then I watched this video and it gave me the motivation to get up and work on my life. I started to go out to events and meetups to find people to click with. I really put in a lot of effort. 6 months later, now I have a community of wonderful, lovely people that I got to know and I have a lovely social life! I'm so proud of myself that I put in the work! THANK YOU BREENY
I’m learning NOW how to stand up for myself ! I WISH one of the very few things I regret is standing up for myself ! Today I’m Cold with it- I have no problem cutting you off immediately or letting you know how I feel. Maybe I’m extra with it but no one should make anyone feel a way .
TRUST because I trust on myself, I trust on my path, I trust that’s I’am guided, I trust that’s I’am blessed, I trust in God. I’am good 🙏🏽 Happy new year to anyone reading this. You’ll be fine, you got this. Your mind don’t know the difference between what is real and what is not. TRUST and just do it no more excuses.
Breeny ❤️❤️❤️ I love you so so much 🤗🤗🤗 For me,a huge element of self love,is self acceptance and letting go of all the toxic shame that there is something wrong with me..that was a big lesson last year. Accepting myself EXACTLY as I am,with all my feelings and loving every single part of my journey in life. How I am,how I am evolving and the woman I’m becoming every day. And forgiving and having compassion for other people and myself. Having Gratitude and connecting with the infinite love in our hearts ❤️🥰 🌹 I am really excited for your new projects-and yes you will get your 1 mill subscribers 😁✨ You are a beautiful soul and a blessing to all of us who follow you 😍 Much love and many warm hugs to you 🤗😘🤗😘
This year I'm becoming a mother. Hear me out. Not sure that I'm actually going to have kids but as a woman, an individual with a uterus, I give birth. This year I'm full taping into my Divine Feminine, embodying the Goddess that I am. I am ascending physically, mentally and spiritually. And in a way focusing on this will bring everything necessary to welcome a child. The partner, the finances, the home... Wish you all Queens (and Kings) to fulfill your goals for this year and beyond
My Word For This Year 2022 Is: "Intentionally Unstoppable" 💎💎💎 Because I am intentional about everything I am creating for myself and brand this year! 💎💎💎
2022 - level up🥂 In this year I want to: - have as many situations as possible where I will fight for myself - get more done/get educated in the area of my future business - get the best figure in my life
This is confirmation for me. I decided in November of last year that I would devote the rest of 2021, and going into the new year to personal growth. Last night I decided to create a vision board that will focus on me and the goals I've been working on....came up with a title and everything 😂 I get on youtube and your video is the first I've watched and everything you said I said to myself. Look at God! Thank you darling you have truly given me that extra push I needed to stay focus!
2022 - listening to my feelings instead of pushing them to the side - taking myself on more dates - reading - getting more into fashion - starting up side hustle for extra income - getting more invested In dancing - journaling/ audio recordings more consistently - getting into nutrition - continuing my gym journey, reaching dream body
This year I want to be the best and highest version of myself, I wanna grow and heal, get more money, and work on my spirituality and faith, this year is about me only ❤️
Girl, I am tired of investing in myself. At this moment I am so extremely lonely that I have no energy for that. I am trying, I am pushing but I just need someone to hold me. I have been investing in myself for years now and I was feeling okay with it, I was happy. On top of that people were saying that if you are loving yourself, are smart and focused on your goals, the love will come by itself. Many years passed and nothing. bullshit
I’m sorry you feel that way sweetie, the road is long and can often feel like what’s the point? I’ve been there a few times but I had to change the reason for why I was investing in myself, I had to take the focus off of “getting a man” or a “man being my reward” for working on myself. This is about you and only you and whether you get a man or you don’t, you are all you have at the end of the day and you are worth investing in, always and forever! I wish I could tell you at what time you’ll find the love of your life, I wish I had a crystal ball but one thing I do know is that the work doesn’t end when you meet him. Love you more ♥️
@@ranaalnoor8974 yes, that's why I am so mad. I see all of those people (my friends) who never had to "invest in themselves" and they are genuinely happier than I am. They never had to prove they were worth someone's love by "loving themselves first" they just found love, and so on
@@juliawladysiak i loved what she said ab it’s for you the reward is happier you not a man or love. I guess that’s where you messed up. “ your intention “
@@BreenyLee thank you for that. I also feel that I have done so much for myself that I would like to finally give this love and motivation to someone else, take care of someone..
This is MY YEAR. I spent my 20s dealing with the fall out of trauma and a lot of people pleading as a young mom. This is my year for some of my personal goals and focusing on my boys and husband. I don’t agree completely that you can focus 100 percent on yourself as a spouse and mother but you still have a right to have goals for yourself and your growth like anyone else. My inner peace, confidence and growing my relationships with the family I created are the most important things for me in 2022 🤩
My word of 2022 is FOCUSED: Focused on loving myself, focused on earning a masters degree in Industrial Organizational psychology, stand up for myself, focused on discovering who I am at this stage in life, focused on traveling even locally, focused on saving money, focused on my health, spirituality, focused on me!!
My 2022 Word: DISCIPLINE/ PEACE / CONFIDENCE/ HAPPINESS This Time Next Year I Will Be A Entrepreneur Making Lots Of Profits From My Business, I Will Be Truly Happy & At Peace With Myself An The World, I Will Be More Spiritual & Closer To God Than I Am Right Now, I Will Be More Great ful For All That I Have And Will Receive, I Will Be Blessed & Baptized Glowing Inside/ Out Proud Of How Far I Have Come And If I Happen To Find Pure/ Genuine Love On This Journey I Will Accept That Too May God Give Us All That We Wish For & Need Amen.🙏❤
This time next year: - I am studying to my dream university - I am slowly but surely growing as a person - I can now speak up about my boundaries without feeling bad for myself - I am travelling in a different countries - I am contented with my chosen course - I learned to appreciate all the things around me
I am going HARD THIS YEAR!!! that's a powerful statement and affirmation that we should say to ourself each morning!! Powerful affirmations have encouraged me to start a TH-cam channel, start a podcast, get my postmark going and even made my first sale 3 days ago. All of these goals feel incredible just for taking the step to do it! Did all of that in January and can't wait to see what the rest of the year brings! Thank you Breeny you're encouraging videos has helped me TREMENDOUSLY!!!
I've been focusing on myself to build my own business while juggling full-time work. I feel like my dating life sucks as I don't have time to date but I know I'm on a journey to achieve a better life for myself. Thank you for the reassuring message.
My word is BALANCE. As I am about to graduate I realize I gave too much time and energy to my study not for the pleasure of learning but for the pressure of getting the highest grade. And I did that at the expenses of my free time and mental health. This year I want to give time to different activities and aspects of my life.
Thank you Breeny. I’ve been listening to your words of wisdom since my senior year of highschool, and I’m now entering my third year of university. Thank you for all that you do. You are the baddest internet fairy Godmother a girl could ask for! Thank you for showing me what it means to love and value myself.
Breeny you are so anointed! Thank you so much for these videos. Definitely my favorite TH-camr, you provide so much value. This life isn’t easy, thank you for helping us break it down into practical steps to become the best version we can be!!!!
ON 2022, I WILL TRY TO WEAR CLOTHES THAT I LOVE MORE. GO OUT FOR WALKS TO STAY FIT. DRINK MORE WATER AND EAT MORE HEALTHY FOOD TO STAY FIT. MOST OF THE TIME, I DIDN'T WEAR WHAT I WANT BECAUSE OF WORRYING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS. MY MIND WOULD LOOK FOR EXCUSES AND WORST-CASE SCENARIOS. I'VE BEEN HOLDING MYSELF BACK A LOT. NOW, I'M GOING TO DO THINGS THAT I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO NO MATTER HOW SCARY IT MAY BE.
Plans for 2022: Refocus, Growth, Selfcare *Connect with God every day whether in prayer, reading the Word, worship, or sharing the word with others *Learn how to build my Confidence, trust myself more, learn how to express myself more, open up be vulnerable, take action, want more for myself, don't settle, love myself to the core, be positive. *Work even harder to get that dream job *Get that new apartment *Get my driver's license *Start a small business that I've been hesitant to start. *Be more outgoing, Gain interest in what I used to love creating content. *Read more books.
Im a man and I enjoy your channel and watch the videos. The aspects of healing. Self love. And focus. Are so universal. It's refreshing to have an intelligent woman's perspective.
I have been enjoying taking good care of me. Loving her more. Invested in my goals. My looks. My health. OMG. Yes. Life path 22. I'm on my wave in 2022 ✌🏽🕊
My goals of the year: -Being an self established artist (releasing and making my own music) -Focusing on good physical health (working out every week by doing sports that I love.) -Starting figure skating
It’s focus on yourself, invest in yourself & mind your own business for me!! I literally needed to hear this!😩 I can tell by this vid yo upcoming vids & new channel gonna be lit Fashoo💖✨
the way you went from 15, 16, 17, 18, 19 - 57 has me rolling on the floor. 🤣 i love you big sis breeny. thanks for not only giving the advice but for actually putting it into practice, you are living proof that everything you preach really works and that you understand us bcos you also came from where we are starting. ❤️
My word for this year is SOLUTIONS! 2020 & 2021 had me at the most unmotivated I’ve been in my life & I want to find solutions to the obstacles I’ve encountered from our new normal with covid, along with finding solutions to issues I’ve been ignoring for years pre-covid. No excuses this year. I am working on myself all-around this year❤️
By this time next year, I want to be more confident I want to travel at least to 7 different cities/states I want to have healthy relationship I want to discover what I love I want to be fit and strong I want to help in an orphanage Be intentional with my words and relationship I create
by this time next year i am courageous, self disciplined, full of self love and self RESPECT, refrained from the need to impress, refrained fro the need to have materialistic things, i know how to not attach myself to people, i am 30 pounds lighter, im no longer a people pleaser, i radiate so much love, i am truly kind because i like to be, i am even more intelligent than i am know, i learn every single day, i am grateful, i have pure intentions, i am protected from other's negative energy
I relate heavyyy to the need to have courage to be disliked. It's a struggle for me as I've been an anxious people pleaser my whole life lol. All our tendencies and desires and feelings are God-given, and when we express ourselves authentically, we glorify Him because he made us. Your individual, authentic essence is needed in this world! Otherwise, God wouldn't have created you, but here you are. I'm learning this everyday!
My goals: Be healthy physically and mentally Becoming my authentic self + being more mature Becoming more stable and organized Get a good job and educate myself Understand myself
I just want to say thank you 💙💙💙I used to watch all your videos when I was about 18 19 yrs old. I took a break from your videos around the time that my life just began to crash, basically these past two years. I'm 21 with two kids now and I can honestly say what I have learned from you has helped me so much and staying strong with what I've been through. Thank you thank you so much 🙏🏾 you are heaven sent you angel 😇 💗 💛 💖 ❤ 💓 I hope you have an amazing year, plus I am binge watching your videos again so hopefully my year will be amazing as well .
my goals are- 1) to have a healthy body 2) love myself unconditionally 3) not allow toxic people in my life 4) upskill myself academically and work on my soft skills 5) meditate journal workout regualrly 6) regain my lost confidence 7) stop accepting less than what i deserve.
WHAT IS YOUR WORD FOR 2022?
Mine is UNSTOPPABLE 👊🏾
BLESSED 🙏🏾
Mine is Bold 💪🏽
HAPPINESS
mine is reflected 😄 I love your energy & im so excited for changing my mindset in 2022!!!
Toot😂
The part about having the courage to be disliked, undesirable, unattractive, uncool and imperfect…. whew. Emphasis on COURAGE bc as a recovering people pleaser, it can seem so much easier to be fake and inauthentic in hopes of being accepted. In fact, the thought of being disliked alone can seem like the end of the world at times. But my #1 goal for this year is to have more do’s than don’ts for myself because living a lie is exhausting. Thank you so much for this video, it’s so refreshing to hear your thoughts come out of someone else’s mouth so eloquently 😅❤️ you are amazing!
“Living a lie is exhausting.” Girl I feel that to my core
'My #1 goal for this year is to have more do's than don'ts(...)because living a lie is exhausting'!!!!!! AMEN
I related to this so much that it’s not even funny 😭
From one recovering people pleaser to another...well-done, its a lonely road but you will feel so free!!
heavy on having more do’s than don’ts !!
This time next year:
I have saved 10k and more
I have received my drivers license
I have achieved my dream weight goal of 125lbs
I have paid my mother’s debts
I have restored my relationship with God
I have become a divine feminine woman
I have read 12 books
I have become the best version of myself
Amen sis! Amen!!
I love this!!!
Wow we have very similar goal, and because I’m on this journey and have done that much , I can tell you! You got this !!!! 💪🏾💪🏾
Cheering you on sis❤
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Breeny’s steps
• Focus on being yourself; have courage to stop folding yourself in order to be accepted
• Spend more time alone. Carve out the time- you will be able to think more clearly without constant input and you will know yourself.
• Get Crystal Clear on what YOU want. Discover your dreams and goals and write the vision down.
• Invest in yourself. Read books about your biggest weakness. Go to seminars. Show me the money: where are you spending your cash on your growth?
• Prioritize Self Care. Have intentional time or day when you do what you love and relax. Take a break from growth. Rest.
• Think: Goals, Goals, Goals. Write this down so that you create a paper trail. Know what you are aiming for.
• Believe in Yourself. You can do all things through Him who created you.
• Mind Your Own Business. Unfollow the Tea. You are only escaping from your own world. It drains precious energy that you need to pour into your vision. New Mantra: “No, I am Busy”
• Stand up for Yourself. Not a case for turn the other cheek. Advocate for Yourself!!
Love this!!!
💯❤️
@Julia Parker: Summary much appreciated. 💕
Followed along as she preached. Thank you! ✨
Bless your heart for that summary🙏🏾🤩
This time next year:
1. I am more spiritually advanced 🧘🏽♀️
2. I am in healthy relationships 👫🏾
3. I am in a higher tax bracket 💰
Yayy!!! Did u reach your goals 🎉🎉
2022: DISCIPLINE
Internship, master’s degree in finance, first car, flat stomach, travel with my friend, deal with my emotions, work-study company, new appartement
TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH!!!
@@shannontaylor8124 same
Yesssssssssssss!!!!💪🏿
Amen .
Exactly being yourself is powerful….I started focusing on myself last year and there is so much power in doing that. And honestly I lost so many people and I’m glad I did 😃 so much truth in this video.
How do you know you lost people or pushed them away? I am struggling with this!🙆🏾♀️
@@Nauria when you’re focusing on yourself, giving yourself all of the love you give to people, you begin to understand that you really don’t show up for yourself like you do for others. Learning to say no to some people, you know if they were truly your friends or there for you in the beginning. You don’t push people away when practicing self love, with self love you get to better understand yourself more and be there for you. People leave when they notice that you’re giving yourself the attention you give to them.
This is so true
@@SindyAkpolo thank you!!
Then they think your being selfish but that’s their own selfish motives actually
My word for 2022 is CONSISTENCY!😌 I have struggled with the spirt of laziness and procrastination got the best of me but I am focusing and working on that consistently in the name of Jesus!🙌🥰
How are you doing this? Cus i have been trying but its so hard!!!!
@@peptalkloungeofficial Usually it stems from fear. Identity your fear . What are your limiting beliefs? What are the lies , conscious or unconscious that you tell yourself ? List them out and write them down , for each lies tell the truth. Once you have the courage to face your internal fears you’ll realize nothing stops you from going forward with everything!!
Same for me. Let us do our best!
Meee Toooo
You got it ✊🏾
2022:
- I want to be praying everyday.
- I want to be engaged
- I want to make more money, i need to find a business idea
In sha Allah ♥️💖❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
After years of trauma from online bullying and an ex posting my nudes online. I’m finally ready to start putting myself out there digitally. I was so scared to start a TH-cam channel because I was scared of people from the past recognizing me but honestly I don’t care anymore. What’s the worst they can do?
This year I’m:
- spending at least some of the year in LA
- starting the TH-cam channel
- getting snatched
- putting in the effort for healthier body mind and spirit
- reading 20 books
- getting rid of my things and starting from scratch
- meeting new people
u got this girl I believe in you
Just subscribed to you, can’t wait for your first video sis! No weapon formed against you shall prosper. Good luck with everything❤️ so sorry that someone you loved and trusted did that to you. Betrayal is no longer going to be part of your narrative.
I don't know who are you but take a Bow!🙇🙇 You have my respect! You are really really very strong to rise through this hell. I pray you are always protected and Loved. You really made me realise their are lot of people in the world who are going through lot more than me...I am grateful ♥️ Now I know what I am meant to do. Take care
2022: Focus, consistency and discipline.
Eat healthy and stretch.
Finish school.
Start my business.
Start my Fine artist journey.
Love and be kind to myself 💕
You either level up or get left
Put that on a shirt 😭😭
Don’t tempt me 👀
6:55 *this is about YOU and what YOU want to do*
This is everything. I feel like I've wasted my 20s focusing on living the life that was more about pleasing others instead of focusing on what I truly wanted!
I'm 34 now and I feel so much more grounded in who I am and what I want.
Also, clarity comes from taking action. Feeling lost is absolutely fine and reinventing yourself is OK, whether it's changing your hair or your career ✨
Happy new year
Let's make 2022 about being your true self
I hear you. I've definitely felt like I've wasted time before. I think I try to rethink it, it's only a waste if there was no lesson learned. We don't come to Earth with a manual therefore we can't be too hard on ourselves for not doing better. As we learn more, we do more❤
@@ZED2.0 so true 💕
I always like to go back to this Maya Angelou's quote
"Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.”
@@IEVAKambarovaite Oooooh that's a lovely quote. I'd never heard this till now, thank you!!
@@ZED2.0 💛
I just turned 20 do you have any tips for the 20s..
2022: CONFIDENCE, COURAGE, DISCIPLINE
- be more confident than I have ever been
- managing my stress level
- being my fullest self and loving her
- take care of my physical health
- get my grades in school up
- beat social anxiety and finally live life to the fullest!
- deal with my emotions
- spend more time with myself
- read more books and get more educated
- become more independent
take care
Well done!! It all starts witb you.
Girl you wrote my plan to the T. Thank you!!!
"Whatever you tolerate gets worse, it Never gets better!"
"Stop being a door mat, let No one shit on your name or your brand, stick up for it!"
Standing up for myself in the past few months alone have cost me certain relationships, but I found myself so much lighter now
This is definitely the energy for 2022. I just went through a breakup with a narcissit and I lost myself a little bit. Time to get focused again and focus on me!
❤❤❤
my mom passed away the day after Christmas, 2 weeks ago, and my emotional abusive, toxic relationship ended terribly 3 days ago. i needed this. you’re the best Breeny.
I’m so sorry she may Rest In Peace and so happy for to get out of the toxic relationship it’ll be hard sometimes the path isn’t linear but you absolutely can do it love
I'm so saddened to hear of the loss of your mother. May her sweet soul rest in eternal and everlasting peace.
And yayy for leaving the toxic relationship. In I sure the future is brighter from here on out ❤❤✨🕊
Wow, I could only imagine the pain you may be experiencing..Take all the time you need to heal,
@@ranaalnoor8974 thank you so much! im actually doing okay now. im doing much better than i was a week ago ❤️
@@emeshiayaba thanks so much ❤️ i trust my path
Live and LEARN!! Just remember if you're in a Relationship and your miserable. Get out!! Yes. Stop making excuses for being unhappy!
"There is no excuse for ignorance," I say that all the time. It's nice to hear someone else say it.
My main thing is boundaries... could you also maybe please do a video on how to set boundaries with others especially friends and family so that you can focus on yourself and your own family and have the confidence to go through with it, not to be made to feel bad about it?
She have posted about it but I’m sure she will again. I’ve saved one to share with my friends because this video was pure gold and because I always say what she said in the video tho. The tittle was”How to level up mentally (2021). Go watch it!!But from me experience your standards, your boundaries are your roots, what made you the person you are and lead you on your journey.You need to have strong boundaries and stick with them at all cost. Because if you let people walk on your boundaries you are letting them walk on you and that’s a big no! We teach people how they can treat us period! If you let people do whatever they want with you well there is a need to go check your self worth/self esteem. I love myself enough to know what I accept and not. No matter who(friends/parents/coworkers/my boss/boyfriend etc) I respect everybody BUT I ain’t giving my time(witch is the most precious thing I can give because their is no refund)to anyone who is not investing the same energy and not respecting me. You have to know and understand your boundaries and go with them. Everybody don’t deserve you, everybody will not see your worth and that’s ok but don’t accept the lack of consideration and respect as a reflexion of who you are or supposed to be.
Hope this can help😊.
Wow I loved reading that. Thank you so much for taking the time to write your thoughts, I'm definitely interested in re establishing my boundaries again 100%! And I'll search for that video thank you:)
@@riaalmeida6228 my pleasure!!! You will be able to set your boundaries trust in yourself you are already there✨💪🏽
Btw English ain’t my native language hope you got my point 😊
@@777SO I also loved your text it’s so encouraging :)
@@seherlvm6542 awww thank you sweet heart!we got this 💪🏽✨🙏🏽
2022 word: ME
1. Reduce my time spent helping others and start weekly "Me time" be selfish and spend time actually looking after myself
2. Travel minimum twice this year
3. Start regular saving
4. Move into my own flat
5. Be in a serious healthy relationship where the goal is marriage
by this time in 2023, i want to have my graduated. have a car, have my dream body and a social media status.
This year I wanna really focus on wellness instead of chasing my purpose. I also realize when it is ok to focus on taking breaks and self care. Your mind may not know it, but your body keeps score.
Yes yes yes!
I agree. Coming to find a healthy balance.
My word for this year is “Blooming” because I am blooming and growing into a better person :) Thank you for this video. For me, 2022 is all about focusing my myself and protecting my energy from others 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Aw i love this word💞
LOVEEE!
In one year:
1. I will have moved into my flat
2. My relationship with God will be stronger
3. I will be in a God blessed relationship 🙏
This energy is 🔥 this year is all about growing and becoming our best selves!
Breeny you have done it AGAIN 👏🏾 Your content is always right on time, idk how you do it!
you’re literally my therapist and only friend you have no idea
❤❤
Aww🤍🤍🤍
2022: DISCIPLINE, CONSISTENCY, FOCUS
this year goals:
I am gonna improve my daily habits, be healthier
I am gonna live with a baddie mindset who keeps herself first before others, being selfish for herself and being happy with herself
I am gonna overall change my physical appearance
I am gonna work on my mental health as a priority
I am gonna study with consistency and improve it
I am gonna be myself and not care about other people opinions coz they are temporary in my life
I am gonna gain knowledge about spirituality, business, finance, and much more
Love this!!!!!’
2022:
Be More discipline, learn new things,workout,saving more,read,have a routine,eat more healthy, call my family more, meditate, pray more, stand up for myself😇❤️🙏🏾
I love everything about this video, this year I refuse to deny myself of things I want, no more shoulda, coulda, woulda and more of I will, I have and I did.
I will not make myself small this year, there’s billion stars in the galaxy, everyone has room to shine ✨
Yesssssssssss girl I’m feeling this !!!
Very well said!
My word is PERSEVERANCE
PERSEVERANCE through the times things will not go my way.
Yess!!
This time next year:
~ Continuation of being unapologetically myself.
~ Entering my 20s with peace and clarity.
~ 3.5 - 4.0 gpa for my semesters!
~ Investing in myself.
~ Building healthy habits and environments.
~ Lastly but certainly not least, using my creativity to change lives positively.
Love yourself and invest in yourself harder than you've ever loved you - mission 2022
You're right about the bullying part. The first time they bully you is them testing your boundaries. If you don't do anything right there and then they will continue. The simple fact that they even TRIED to consciously TEST your boundaries already speaks volumes about how little respect they have for you. It means they see you as a prey, as something to take advantage of when the chance presents itself. It's infuriating when you think about it.
This time next year:
1.) Stop sacrificing my free time agreeing to going to places when I want to stay at home and work on hobbies.
2.) Finish my buffer for my comic and begin publishing online.
3.) Finish the front yard landscape.
4.) Paint the living room and hang up curtains.
P.S. Happy to hear there's more podcasts to come, cause I was binging them last summer when doing yard work.
Improving!
I want to become a more attentive mother (my depression makes me sink down sometimes) and also become thinner and stronger. I’ve already lost 17lbs and took the first week of this year off to declutter the house! I feel like being organized within my home will free up time to help me be more attentive to my child because I won’t always have something lingering over me to do that makes me tell him no to play time with mommy. Self care: I’ve started working out and doing yoga and stretching (great for my mental and physical health) and I’ve also started getting facials ones a month and have started up a book club that’s once every 3 months! I’m actually starting to put things in motion that I want to do and I’m so excited and ready for this year!
Breeny I want to really thank you. 6 months ago I was feeling really miserable, alone, and without any friends or social life. There I was wallowing in my own self pity. Then I watched this video and it gave me the motivation to get up and work on my life. I started to go out to events and meetups to find people to click with. I really put in a lot of effort. 6 months later, now I have a community of wonderful, lovely people that I got to know and I have a lovely social life! I'm so proud of myself that I put in the work! THANK YOU BREENY
I’m learning NOW how to stand up for myself ! I WISH one of the very few things I regret is standing up for myself ! Today I’m
Cold with it- I have no problem cutting you off immediately or letting you know how I feel. Maybe I’m extra with it but no one should make anyone feel a way .
My word for this year is “SOAR”
Love it 😍
TRUST because I trust on myself, I trust on my path, I trust that’s I’am guided, I trust that’s I’am blessed, I trust in God. I’am good 🙏🏽
Happy new year to anyone reading this. You’ll be fine, you got this. Your mind don’t know the difference between what is real and what is not. TRUST and just do it no more excuses.
A reminder NO ONE IS COMING!
SELF DEVELOPMENT FOR 20221🙌🏽
Breeny ❤️❤️❤️
I love you so so much 🤗🤗🤗 For me,a huge element of self love,is self acceptance and letting go of all the toxic shame that there is something wrong with me..that was a big lesson last year. Accepting myself EXACTLY as I am,with all my feelings and loving every single part of my journey in life. How I am,how I am evolving and the woman I’m becoming every day. And forgiving and having compassion for other people and myself. Having Gratitude and connecting with the infinite love in our hearts ❤️🥰 🌹
I am really excited for your new projects-and yes you will get your 1 mill subscribers 😁✨ You are a beautiful soul and a blessing to all of us who follow you 😍
Much love and many warm hugs to you 🤗😘🤗😘
♥️✨✨✨
My word is: stay focused!
This year I'm becoming a mother.
Hear me out. Not sure that I'm actually going to have kids but as a woman, an individual with a uterus, I give birth. This year I'm full taping into my Divine Feminine, embodying the Goddess that I am. I am ascending physically, mentally and spiritually.
And in a way focusing on this will bring everything necessary to welcome a child. The partner, the finances, the home...
Wish you all Queens (and Kings) to fulfill your goals for this year and beyond
Congrats queen, you got this.❤🤰
Blessings for you & your baby. I'll pray that you'll have a healthy pregnancy & safe delivery 💛
@@anisaborakaj7492 thank you so much for your well wishes 💜
I love this mindset. Cheers
This is beautiful ❤️
🙌🏾💖👑🎀🙏🏾
This time next year:
1. I am truly happy being by myself
2. I am fit and strong physically and mentally
2. Have levelled up on a professional front.
My Word For This Year 2022 Is: "Intentionally Unstoppable" 💎💎💎 Because I am intentional about everything I am creating for myself and brand this year! 💎💎💎
2022 - level up🥂
In this year I want to:
- have as many situations as possible where I will fight for myself
- get more done/get educated in the area of my future business
- get the best figure in my life
This is confirmation for me. I decided in November of last year that I would devote the rest of 2021, and going into the new year to personal growth. Last night I decided to create a vision board that will focus on me and the goals I've been working on....came up with a title and everything 😂
I get on youtube and your video is the first I've watched and everything you said I said to myself. Look at God! Thank you darling you have truly given me that extra push I needed to stay focus!
2022
- listening to my feelings instead of pushing them to the side
- taking myself on more dates
- reading
- getting more into fashion
- starting up side hustle for extra income
- getting more invested In dancing
- journaling/ audio recordings more consistently
- getting into nutrition
- continuing my gym journey, reaching dream body
So far, the year has started with great energy. Very timely tips. This about to be a different and most amazing year...💆💕💐
" We have more *Don'ts* for our lifes than *Do's* "
Now hold on, hold on there!!! An eye opener Breeny, THANK YOU...heartfelt....THANK YOU💛
Baby girl came with a videooo yaasss time to make tea and reach out for my biscuits 🍪
♥️♥️♥️
i want to love myself unconditionally
This year I want to be the best and highest version of myself, I wanna grow and heal, get more money, and work on my spirituality and faith, this year is about me only ❤️
You’ve Hit the nail on the head once again Breeny❤️💯
Girl, I am tired of investing in myself. At this moment I am so extremely lonely that I have no energy for that. I am trying, I am pushing but I just need someone to hold me. I have been investing in myself for years now and I was feeling okay with it, I was happy. On top of that people were saying that if you are loving yourself, are smart and focused on your goals, the love will come by itself. Many years passed and nothing. bullshit
Omg! So there’s no light at the end of the tunnel?
I’m sorry you feel that way sweetie, the road is long and can often feel like what’s the point? I’ve been there a few times but I had to change the reason for why I was investing in myself, I had to take the focus off of “getting a man” or a “man being my reward” for working on myself.
This is about you and only you and whether you get a man or you don’t, you are all you have at the end of the day and you are worth investing in, always and forever!
I wish I could tell you at what time you’ll find the love of your life, I wish I had a crystal ball but one thing I do know is that the work doesn’t end when you meet him.
Love you more ♥️
@@ranaalnoor8974 yes, that's why I am so mad. I see all of those people (my friends) who never had to "invest in themselves" and they are genuinely happier than I am. They never had to prove they were worth someone's love by "loving themselves first" they just found love, and so on
@@juliawladysiak i loved what she said ab it’s for you the reward is happier you not a man or love. I guess that’s where you messed up. “ your intention “
@@BreenyLee thank you for that. I also feel that I have done so much for myself that I would like to finally give this love and motivation to someone else, take care of someone..
This is MY YEAR. I spent my 20s dealing with the fall out of trauma and a lot of people pleading as a young mom. This is my year for some of my personal goals and focusing on my boys and husband. I don’t agree completely that you can focus 100 percent on yourself as a spouse and mother but you still have a right to have goals for yourself and your growth like anyone else. My inner peace, confidence and growing my relationships with the family I created are the most important things for me in 2022 🤩
My word of 2022 is FOCUSED:
Focused on loving myself, focused on earning a masters degree in Industrial Organizational psychology, stand up for myself, focused on discovering who I am at this stage in life, focused on traveling even locally, focused on saving money, focused on my health, spirituality, focused on me!!
My 2022 Word: DISCIPLINE/ PEACE / CONFIDENCE/ HAPPINESS
This Time Next Year I Will Be A Entrepreneur Making Lots Of Profits From My Business, I Will Be Truly Happy & At Peace With Myself An The World, I Will Be More Spiritual & Closer To God Than I Am Right Now, I Will Be More Great ful For All That I Have And Will Receive, I Will Be Blessed & Baptized Glowing Inside/ Out Proud Of How Far I Have Come And If I Happen To Find Pure/ Genuine Love On This Journey I Will Accept That Too May God Give Us All That We Wish For & Need Amen.🙏❤
Baby I’m glad I stumbled upon this channel………. Girl you are everything thank you for encouragement and motivation you are a gem 💎
This is definitely the year for self-development, I am certainly focused on me. 💎💎💎
2 minutes in and I had to hit the like button. This video is so fitting and definitely need to go viral. We all need this❗
This time next year:
- I am studying to my dream university
- I am slowly but surely growing as a person
- I can now speak up about my boundaries without feeling bad for myself
- I am travelling in a different countries
- I am contented with my chosen course
- I learned to appreciate all the things around me
I am going HARD THIS YEAR!!! that's a powerful statement and affirmation that we should say to ourself each morning!! Powerful affirmations have encouraged me to start a TH-cam channel, start a podcast, get my postmark going and even made my first sale 3 days ago. All of these goals feel incredible just for taking the step to do it! Did all of that in January and can't wait to see what the rest of the year brings! Thank you Breeny you're encouraging videos has helped me TREMENDOUSLY!!!
I've been focusing on myself to build my own business while juggling full-time work. I feel like my dating life sucks as I don't have time to date but I know I'm on a journey to achieve a better life for myself. Thank you for the reassuring message.
My word is BALANCE. As I am about to graduate I realize I gave too much time and energy to my study not for the pleasure of learning but for the pressure of getting the highest grade. And I did that at the expenses of my free time and mental health. This year I want to give time to different activities and aspects of my life.
Touching and agreeing with you for your 1M subs
Thank you Breeny. I’ve been listening to your words of wisdom since my senior year of highschool, and I’m now entering my third year of university. Thank you for all that you do. You are the baddest internet fairy Godmother a girl could ask for! Thank you for showing me what it means to love and value myself.
Yessss 2022 is the year I turn 30 and I’ve decided to completely focus on me this year! Perfect timing 💕
Breeny you are so anointed! Thank you so much for these videos. Definitely my favorite TH-camr, you provide so much value. This life isn’t easy, thank you for helping us break it down into practical steps to become the best version we can be!!!!
The pressure is definitely on!!!!! 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you so much for this!!! I’m so excited to embrace myself even 1000x’s more going FOWARD!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Just what I needed to hear at the right time. Thank you 🙏🏾
I leave your channel and I come back. You are a breath of fresh air and truth. Thanks for giving us large doses of realness and counsel.
This year I need focus on God first! Then focus on saving money, focusing on loving myself and being kind but setting boundaries!
ON 2022, I WILL TRY TO WEAR CLOTHES THAT I LOVE MORE. GO OUT FOR WALKS TO STAY FIT. DRINK MORE WATER AND EAT MORE HEALTHY FOOD TO STAY FIT. MOST OF THE TIME, I DIDN'T WEAR WHAT I WANT BECAUSE OF WORRYING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S OPINIONS. MY MIND WOULD LOOK FOR EXCUSES AND WORST-CASE SCENARIOS. I'VE BEEN HOLDING MYSELF BACK A LOT. NOW, I'M GOING TO DO THINGS THAT I'VE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO NO MATTER HOW SCARY IT MAY BE.
Plans for 2022: Refocus, Growth, Selfcare
*Connect with God every day whether in prayer, reading the Word, worship, or sharing the word with others
*Learn how to build my Confidence, trust myself more, learn how to express myself more, open up be vulnerable, take action, want more for myself, don't settle, love myself to the core, be positive.
*Work even harder to get that dream job
*Get that new apartment
*Get my driver's license
*Start a small business that I've been hesitant to start.
*Be more outgoing, Gain interest in what I used to love creating content.
*Read more books.
Im a man and I enjoy your channel and watch the videos. The aspects of healing. Self love. And focus. Are so universal. It's refreshing to have an intelligent woman's perspective.
Focusing more on myself, investing more on myself, having the right people in my circle, level up in every area of my life.
I have been enjoying taking good care of me. Loving her more. Invested in my goals. My looks. My health. OMG. Yes. Life path 22. I'm on my wave in 2022 ✌🏽🕊
I started this year with so many negativity. I was so depressed and already gave it… I still have a hope..
My goals of the year:
-Being an self established artist (releasing and making my own music)
-Focusing on good physical health (working out every week by doing sports that I love.)
-Starting figure skating
Yessss, birthday twin!! We’re going UP!! #Big2022Energy ❤️✨
It’s focus on yourself, invest in yourself & mind your own business for me!! I literally needed to hear this!😩 I can tell by this vid yo upcoming vids & new channel gonna be lit Fashoo💖✨
okay so next year, 🌸I want to be a medical student.I'm gonna come back!
Yes!!!!!
the way you went from 15, 16, 17, 18, 19 - 57 has me rolling on the floor. 🤣 i love you big sis breeny. thanks for not only giving the advice but for actually putting it into practice, you are living proof that everything you preach really works and that you understand us bcos you also came from where we are starting. ❤️
People like you are what makes life a little less dark, thank you so much for the inspiration
My word for this year is SOLUTIONS! 2020 & 2021 had me at the most unmotivated I’ve been in my life & I want to find solutions to the obstacles I’ve encountered from our new normal with covid, along with finding solutions to issues I’ve been ignoring for years pre-covid. No excuses this year. I am working on myself all-around this year❤️
By this time next year,
I want to be more confident
I want to travel at least to 7 different cities/states
I want to have healthy relationship
I want to discover what I love
I want to be fit and strong
I want to help in an orphanage
Be intentional with my words and relationship I create
by this time next year i am courageous, self disciplined, full of self love and self RESPECT, refrained from the need to impress, refrained fro the need to have materialistic things, i know how to not attach myself to people, i am 30 pounds lighter, im no longer a people pleaser, i radiate so much love, i am truly kind because i like to be, i am even more intelligent than i am know, i learn every single day, i am grateful, i have pure intentions, i am protected from other's negative energy
Sitting here semi-depressed and this video comes on. Just what I needed to hear. Noone is coming to save me. Let me get off my ass and save myself.❤
This time next year I’m going to be in my own house and my car will be paid off.👍🏾😁👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🤜🏽🤛🏽
J'aime ton energie ❤️
This year is all about myself and what I love
I relate heavyyy to the need to have courage to be disliked. It's a struggle for me as I've been an anxious people pleaser my whole life lol. All our tendencies and desires and feelings are God-given, and when we express ourselves authentically, we glorify Him because he made us. Your individual, authentic essence is needed in this world! Otherwise, God wouldn't have created you, but here you are. I'm learning this everyday!
My goals:
Be healthy physically and mentally
Becoming my authentic self + being more mature
Becoming more stable and organized
Get a good job and educate myself
Understand myself
Finallyyyyy💯🥳✨🔥the long awaited video, Love you Breeny ❤️
I just want to say thank you 💙💙💙I used to watch all your videos when I was about 18 19 yrs old. I took a break from your videos around the time that my life just began to crash, basically these past two years. I'm 21 with two kids now and I can honestly say what I have learned from you has helped me so much and staying strong with what I've been through. Thank you thank you so much 🙏🏾 you are heaven sent you angel 😇 💗 💛 💖 ❤ 💓 I hope you have an amazing year, plus I am binge watching your videos again so hopefully my year will be amazing as well .
my goals are-
1) to have a healthy body
2) love myself unconditionally
3) not allow toxic people in my life
4) upskill myself academically and work on my soft skills
5) meditate journal workout regualrly
6) regain my lost confidence
7) stop accepting less than what i deserve.
One of your future million subbies!! You said this with your chest. Great advice, thank you, Breeny!!