Hi Roni, great summary but something is still missing here. The devouring mother is also still a child herself that hasn't overcome her own fear of abandonment before having her own child with the father (a child having a child). As a result she unconciously projects this fear on her child. The child is an easy target because it is dependant and so has it's development sabotaged. This is the borderline aspect of the devouring mother. A good enough mother is a woman that can understand this dark side of her female psyche and mitigate it succesfully as a personal responsability to herself and her child. A fundamental part of that is the ability to properly pairbond with the father. A child will look for this libido energy: "if mommy is happy with daddy then she won't be lonely or upset if I go away from her to learn and explore".
You are missing the point. Old children are no longer a child...they are wicked. Women ate from the fruit and Satan is their daddy. With a strong masculine presence there would be no devouring mother as he would not allow that.😊
Brilliant again dear Roni. Peterson has put it in full and necessary sharpness: No punishment is to harsh for a predator. Roni, such "mothers" are monsters, and we could put on a paper, how much financial damage they do to the society, creating alcoholics, drug addicts, cowards, sick irresponsible egoists at the worst, or destroying the marriages, even careers of their sons and daughters. To stay "normal", i.e. functional, one has to divert 80-90% of one's strength to cope with those mentally and morally sick "mothers". And again, as Peterson said, "we are in a big problem", also because too many sons or daughters do not fight, do not resist and only create misery to their family later. Especially today, we need healthy men in the West, because of those hordes at our borders and in the meantime, "enemy infantry divisions" within our countries, literally calling for theocratic coup against our democracies. Sincere blessings to You and Elad dear Roni.
My mom did this to me, and I started realizing this halfway through high school and started to rebel to gain independence. It has been a rocky relationship ever since. Still to this day. Now, all she does is consume and distract herself as cancer comes and goes the past 10 years throughout her body. She's overcoming it, and she is currently still getting drunk almost daily at 60 yrs old.
Great summary and analysis. My mother was a borderline (dysregulated/"dead" mother) narcisist, she had me for the social status and attention. My life has been a mess, you are totally right about the misplaced motherinstincts - they infantilize people around them.
0:49 I think this STARTED with Christianity. And the worst of the OFFSHOOTS end in either some form of "Sex Cult" (Leader gets all the women like Old School Tribal Chief) on the Pathological Sociopath "branches". Or variations thereof. OR. Or the Pathological demasculinization or Male Feminizing, or ENABLING of Devouring Mothers branches where the "Positive Male" ANYTHING varies from Exaggerating as "Non- spiritual" AT LEAST all the way to some sort of first step on the "Slippery Slope" to Hell or particularly a sort of Knee Jerk over-reaction to an incorrect "Interpretation" of Medieval Catholic "Pathologies" or 2nd and 3rd and especially 4TH distortions of male ANYTHING that is a higher order manifestation of this Psychopathology through Wokism and capture of churches along with any other ways in which Positive Masculine historically or Traditionally was expressed has been destroyed over the last 60 years through MARXIST delusions of grandeur among OTHER Pathologies as the growing numbers of "Cherries on top" Society and Institutions are Only now beginning to realize are in their end stages. These "Churches" end in some sort of version of Protestant Asceticism that denies all male humanity that even FUNCTIONING females don't even realize or admit, most likely, is something MISSING. SORT OF Built in, I think, because Christ HIMSELF was never married nor had TO RAISE CHILDREN Himself. Resulting in twisted versions of sex for Procreation Only sorts of cultism "Light", I am guessing.
Great video, yet again! What you’re describing is the single mother with one child, especially had later in their lives, eg 30 to 40’s after establishing their careers etc. I’ve seen this around me quite a bit. Yes it’s very concerning from the point of view of the people being produced from such an environment and how society are to interact with those people in the next generational dating pool etc. for the production of future generations. Not withstanding what has already been produced and in mixed in the current dating pool with a lack of understanding of being a team player, which is what is required to be part of a stable and happy family environment where both the mother and father can raise children together.
An addition worth mentioning is that the mother gives her child to the world by giving it to its father who will introduce it to the world. The devouring mother don't trust the father to do his role.
Great Video! Best example I can think of in film is the beautifully illustrated Yubaba (the witch) in Studio Ghibli's 'Spirited Away' (2001). BBL mother says dinner is ready.
The only joy I remember as a child was with my father. I was never allowed to be myself or say my thoughts with my mother. My father actually would listen to me and encourage my interest.
My mama was the polar opposite of overprotection. She just couldn't bring herself to do anything but play favorites to my older sister. I never got that because I had the nicer personality between the two of us.
I love the aesthetics of your face. Nice content bythe way.😊 My mother has a bit of these traits by I am the only man in the family. My father is Dead, and I am responsible for my two small sisters therefore it is totally understandable.
Very interesting... I'm new here, really apreciate your educating videos, especially the way you're doing them! There are so few of you doing this, clearly you are well edudactaded within this field(s).. Thank You Roni!
My mother was like this, but so much worse because she was also an EMT, so already had certain levels of paranoia about health and injuries. Lucky for me I had a good father to counter balance her controlling and overprotective tenancies.
I dated a woman who had a devouring mother and boy was that horrible. I honestly hated with all my heart what that woman did to the woman I dated. She was horrible.
I've always been afraid of raising a child with a woman they're style of parenting is so uninvolved that it makes sense why they're so self centered and ungrateful when dating.
Good mothers are responsible for letting kids be kids and enjoy their childhood. Good fathers are responsible for helping them grow up and be ready for adulthood.
Maybe this is worth considering, but some citizens really do need protection and growth opportunities. Are we going to keep leaving drug addicts in puddles on the street? They need a roof over their heads and treatment. That's cheaper than it sounds. If you treat now, you avert the expense of chronic disease. You're starting to verge toward some useful arguments that could inform public policy for those experiencing depression, learned helplessness, or single parenting, but we cannot just leave these to their own devices, either. Some should be in education, and some should have really excellent social services. Raise your game by making finer distinctions, Roni. Divide these populations into segments rather than generalizing and equating social services with devouring motherhood.
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Hi Roni, great summary but something is still missing here. The devouring mother is also still a child herself that hasn't overcome her own fear of abandonment before having her own child with the father (a child having a child). As a result she unconciously projects this fear on her child. The child is an easy target because it is dependant and so has it's development sabotaged. This is the borderline aspect of the devouring mother. A good enough mother is a woman that can understand this dark side of her female psyche and mitigate it succesfully as a personal responsability to herself and her child. A fundamental part of that is the ability to properly pairbond with the father. A child will look for this libido energy: "if mommy is happy with daddy then she won't be lonely or upset if I go away from her to learn and explore".
You are missing the point. Old children are no longer a child...they are wicked. Women ate from the fruit and Satan is their daddy. With a strong masculine presence there would be no devouring mother as he would not allow that.😊
@@Compass4Manoooh say that again! They are mentally immature however that isn’t excusable.
@@Compass4Man That's just a story. It never happened. We know it's older than our Bible. Old Testament is not history.
Well said, brother 😊
@Compass4Man, that's why Jesus came, who lived, died, and resurrected to defeat ALL works of Satan. Praise Jesus king of kings, lord of lords. 😊
Childless women infantilize everything.
Truer words never spoken.
Beware absolute statements.
Given how reality works. Nothing is 100% in terms of behaviour.
Brilliant again dear Roni. Peterson has put it in full and necessary sharpness: No punishment is to harsh for a predator.
Roni, such "mothers" are monsters, and we could put on a paper, how much financial damage they do to the society, creating alcoholics, drug addicts, cowards, sick irresponsible egoists at the worst, or destroying the marriages, even careers of their sons and daughters.
To stay "normal", i.e. functional, one has to divert 80-90% of one's strength to cope with those mentally and morally sick "mothers".
And again, as Peterson said, "we are in a big problem", also because too many sons or daughters do not fight, do not resist and only create misery to their family later.
Especially today, we need healthy men in the West, because of those hordes at our borders and in the meantime, "enemy infantry divisions" within our countries, literally calling for theocratic coup against our democracies.
Sincere blessings to You and Elad dear Roni.
My mom did this to me, and I started realizing this halfway through high school and started to rebel to gain independence. It has been a rocky relationship ever since. Still to this day. Now, all she does is consume and distract herself as cancer comes and goes the past 10 years throughout her body. She's overcoming it, and she is currently still getting drunk almost daily at 60 yrs old.
I understand. Stay strong. Mine did this while withholding love and affection.
Great summary and analysis. My mother was a borderline (dysregulated/"dead" mother) narcisist, she had me for the social status and attention. My life has been a mess, you are totally right about the misplaced motherinstincts - they infantilize people around them.
What I as an adult can do if I was raised by such mother?
0:49 I think this STARTED with Christianity. And the worst of the OFFSHOOTS end in either some form of "Sex Cult" (Leader gets all the women like Old School Tribal Chief) on the Pathological Sociopath "branches". Or variations thereof.
OR. Or the Pathological demasculinization or Male Feminizing, or ENABLING of Devouring Mothers branches where the "Positive Male" ANYTHING varies from Exaggerating as "Non- spiritual" AT LEAST all the way to some sort of first step on the "Slippery Slope" to Hell or particularly a sort of Knee Jerk over-reaction to an incorrect "Interpretation" of Medieval Catholic "Pathologies" or 2nd and 3rd and especially 4TH distortions of male ANYTHING that is a higher order manifestation of this Psychopathology through Wokism and capture of churches along with any other ways in which Positive Masculine historically or Traditionally was expressed has been destroyed over the last 60 years through MARXIST delusions of grandeur among OTHER Pathologies as the growing numbers of "Cherries on top" Society and Institutions are Only now beginning to realize are in their end stages.
These "Churches" end in some sort of version of Protestant Asceticism that denies all male humanity that even FUNCTIONING females don't even realize or admit, most likely, is something MISSING.
SORT OF Built in, I think, because Christ HIMSELF was never married nor had TO RAISE CHILDREN Himself.
Resulting in twisted versions of sex for Procreation Only sorts of cultism "Light", I am guessing.
Great video, yet again! What you’re describing is the single mother with one child, especially had later in their lives, eg 30 to 40’s after establishing their careers etc. I’ve seen this around me quite a bit. Yes it’s very concerning from the point of view of the people being produced from such an environment and how society are to interact with those people in the next generational dating pool etc. for the production of future generations. Not withstanding what has already been produced and in mixed in the current dating pool with a lack of understanding of being a team player, which is what is required to be part of a stable and happy family environment where both the mother and father can raise children together.
Look into circumcision and the “Castrating mother syndrome”.
Yes, Circumcision is castration / genital mutilation.
An addition worth mentioning is that the mother gives her child to the world by giving it to its father who will introduce it to the world.
The devouring mother don't trust the father to do his role.
Great Video! Best example I can think of in film is the beautifully illustrated Yubaba (the witch) in Studio Ghibli's 'Spirited Away' (2001). BBL mother says dinner is ready.
good video & great advice thx.
the first thing after ghosting my family is getting myself a childless mature woman
The only joy I remember as a child was with my father. I was never allowed to be myself or say my thoughts with my mother. My father actually would listen to me and encourage my interest.
Same here, my father (papa) allowed me to be me. I miss him 😪
My mama was the polar opposite of overprotection. She just couldn't bring herself to do anything but play favorites to my older sister. I never got that because I had the nicer personality between the two of us.
I love the aesthetics of your face.
Nice content bythe way.😊
My mother has a bit of these traits by I am the only man in the family. My father is Dead, and I am responsible for my two small sisters therefore it is totally understandable.
Very interesting... I'm new here, really apreciate your educating videos, especially the way you're doing them!
There are so few of you doing this, clearly you are well edudactaded within this field(s).. Thank You Roni!
My mother was like this, but so much worse because she was also an EMT, so already had certain levels of paranoia about health and injuries. Lucky for me I had a good father to counter balance her controlling and overprotective tenancies.
This reminds me of a story i read in high school about Edipus. 😮
I dated a woman who had a devouring mother and boy was that horrible. I honestly hated with all my heart what that woman did to the woman I dated. She was horrible.
Beautiful work
Beautiful woman
Just found your chanel, very interesting points!
I've always been afraid of raising a child with a woman they're style of parenting is so uninvolved that it makes sense why they're so self centered and ungrateful when dating.
I really like this channel. It makes me think. Hats off. Great work. 🎩👌
Definitely have seen this in HR...
My mom did ruine
My life
How can you help someone who had a helicopter mother who has a lot of fear... Any recommendations to help with healing from that?
Can you do one on positive archertype of the feminine?
Great work. I wonder the fathers role in child development. What makes a good father? 🤔
One that she doesn’t divorce
Good mothers are responsible for letting kids be kids and enjoy their childhood. Good fathers are responsible for helping them grow up and be ready for adulthood.
Video on the way!
You use your powers for good. Bless you.
1:09 professor Peterson at my school 😎
Maybe this is worth considering, but some citizens really do need protection and growth opportunities. Are we going to keep leaving drug addicts in puddles on the street? They need a roof over their heads and treatment. That's cheaper than it sounds. If you treat now, you avert the expense of chronic disease.
You're starting to verge toward some useful arguments that could inform public policy for those experiencing depression, learned helplessness, or single parenting, but we cannot just leave these to their own devices, either. Some should be in education, and some should have really excellent social services.
Raise your game by making finer distinctions, Roni. Divide these populations into segments rather than generalizing and equating social services with devouring motherhood.
Preaching to the choir.
It’s the democratic platform.
I'm wondering what your qualifications are.
Still waiting on how to contact with my paper. You can use it in a video idc
We’re happier when we are poor.
Lol wouldn't have wanted Her any other way
You look more robot than human. Strong uncanny valley vibes, sorry.
It's the exaggerated emoting, which distracts from an otherwise interesting content.
What? Give her a break.
I think she look gorgeous the way she talks.