Exactly. It takes women to rebuild a bridge that other women burned 60 years ago. The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of every animal species, including our own. In women's hands, more than men's, lies the destiny of humanity.
Thank you for bringing this issue to light. What’s so frustrating is that we have been talking about it for 20 years and NOTHING changes. Men & women in leadership lack empathy or are intimidated by the feminist bullying. What will it take for people in leadership to get a backbone
The biggest issue with the women are superior movement is that by forcing men not be men to make way for women is that it ends up hurting women more in the end.
This is the problem with heavy-handed social justice in all its forms. When we single out one ethnicity or gender or other social group and give it artificial (unearned) privileged status, it always ends up backfiring and dragging down standards for society as a whole, and that tends to impact those particular groups even more than other people.
Arndt is a beacon of hope and so courageous, thanks for bringing her on! Differences in sexual desires is often overlooked, and to see it from a standpoint of the partner, and the entire relationship health, is important.
Excellent episode. I've always had great respect for Bettina, I believe it was from her that I first heard the term "maintenance sex," which sounds like a gimmick some guy invented, but it's actually an ingenious concept. Because, you are right, when you see a couple, and you can tell the intimacy is gone from their relationship, and it is incredibly sad. To neglect something as profound and powerful as human intimacy is tragic. It is the tie that binds on a deep, almost unspoken level.
@@ronifouks PATRIARCHY: PATRIARCHY is defined as a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of the family, and familial descent is traced through the male ancestral line. In recent times, due to the objectively-immoral, wicked, evil, demonic feminist movement, it is usually defined more harshly, as a “system of society or government in which men in general hold the power, and women are largely excluded from it”. As clearly and soundly demonstrated in more than one chapter of “F.I.S.H”, men and women have quite distinct duties and responsibilities within human society. Adult males naturally fall into one of the four social classes (that is, priests, monarchs, business/land owners, and workers), whilst females are meant to serve their superiors as daughters (in the case of girls) and wives (in the case of women), by performing household chores and raising children. Of course, a large proportion of the population no longer adheres to this gender role dichotomy, particularly in the Western countries, and the chances are, if you have read this far into this Holiest Scripture of All, you are not among them. Radical feminists (of both sexes) invariably become noticeably upset, and sometimes aggressively violent, when they are confronted with even any mention of patriarchal ideology in public dialogue, as they wrongly believe that women should have an equal role in the governance of families and in the ruling bodies of society (and often that women ought to rule nations, as in a matriarchy, since they incorrectly assume that women are less war-mongering than men). Such militant feminists and social constructionists have surmised that gender roles and gender inequity are instruments of power, and that they have become social norms to maintain control over women. Of course, power dynamics do exist in society, and provided that power is exerted according to the ethos of dharma (the law, and societal rules), it is not at all a caustic thing. Constructionists would contend that sociobiological arguments serve to justify the oppression of women. And, by “oppression”, they are, in actual fact, referring to the reality that men have largely PROTECTED their womenfolk throughout human history, and in a huge number of cases, practically worship the opposite sex (see the Glossary entry “gynocentrism” regarding this ugly phenomenon). When you peruse social media websites on the Internet, do you generally see men belittling and scolding women, or rather, are they desperately pursuing them? OBVIOUSLY, throughout human history, some men have harmed some women, just as many women have harmed men - that has absolutely naught to do with patriarchy, but solely with sin and lawlessness. Most all Western countries are now matriarchal, in the sense that women have total and utter power over their menfolk, even if that power is enforced by other (so-called) males. This last quip ought not be construed to imply that criminal males should not be held accountable for their crimes, but that, in many (if not most) cases of suspected wrongdoing, the accused man is not only innocent of any transgressions but is, rather, the victim. If a man has abused a woman, he ought to be castigated by his legitimate authority, not by the minions of any corrupt state/government. Personally, I have been jailed twice for being the casualty of physical assault and verbal insults by women making blatantly false allegations against me, a very skinny, old monastic priest (and honestly consider myself to be immensely gentle, loving and kind), including the heinous crime of rape, despite the fact that I have not once fornicated. Therefore, the fact that you, the reader of this Holiest Book of All, are alive and well, is due largely to the institution of PATRIARCHY, which has protected your ancestral lineage from those barbarians who have not adhered to dharma (holy and righteous norms, based on non-violence) and if you insist that patriarchy is intrinsically harmful, you are being blatantly hypocritical, and unwittingly invoking your very own demise! PATRIARCHY is the only system that is normal, natural, and necessary. It is normal, natural, and necessary for a father to take charge of his nuclear family, for a grandfather to take control of his extended family, for a chief to assert authority over his clan, all the way up to a true monarch, who is considered to be the father of his people, and finally to a (genuine) priest/prophet (see Ch. 20), who is father of his nation. It is impossible for the typical woman to property execute the role of family/clan/national head, and even if a female was found who could competently lead her family, tribe, clan, or village, there will always be a male who could have fulfilled that role to an even more competent degree, unless, of course, the male population has been decimated by the ravages of war or disease, for example. Many rules have exceptions. PATRIARCHY - AN ANECDOTE: In order to provide just a single example of how the notion of patriarchy is grossly misunderstood by the vast majority of humans, especially in the liberal West, I will refer to a videographed monologue, entitled “RAPE and Patriarchal culture” (his own capitalization), published on an Internet website called “TH-cam”, by a Zambian chap of European descent who goes by the fake name “Swami Rahasya”. Judging by the fact that he is male (albeit, a truly pathetic “White Knight” beta-male) and that he uses the title “Swami” (which is almost invariably the title of a monastic spiritual master), one could be forgiven for assuming that he is in support of all dharmic concepts, including patriarchy. However, that is the opposite to the truth, since he brazenly and wrongly asserts that “Rape is pretty much the basis of patriarchy. In fact, it may be the core power of patriarchy”. Of course, he conveniently ignores the fact that a large proportion of sexual assaults are perpetrated by women. Anecdotally, I, the quintessential alpha-male patriarch, have never sexually assaulted a solitary woman (though I have been falsely accused of such by at least one or two filthy fat Filipino females), yet I have been the victim of several rape attempts by oversexed women during my lengthy stay in the Philippines. Before watching the video in question, I had never heard such incredibly ludicrous assertions outside the far-left community (usually spouted by filthy fat feminist females sporting neon-coloured hairstyles). It is possible that Rahasya’s poisonous, gynocentric viewpoint may be caused by his drug-taking habit (since, in all his Internet videos, he is seen chain-smoking what appears to be toxic tobacco cigarettes), coupled with a severe testosterone deficiency. Hence one ought to be cautious when attributing malicious intent. In another video on his TH-cam channel, entitled “The End of Patriarchy”, the self-styled “tantra master”, erroneously asserts that there was a time when humanity was matriarchal, and where the female leaders used men solely as tools for propagating the species! I can only assume that he was confusing B-grade science fiction movies of the 1960s with confirmed historical evidence (of which there is none, since any society that is truly matriarchal cannot survive for more than a short period of time, for reasons that ought be obvious after perusing this entire book). Also, this so-called “renounced monk” (“Swami” is the common mistransliteration of “Svāmī ”, a Sanskrit title for a mendicant monastic priest) claims that patriarchy is in decline but this can never be the case, in the sense that the collapse of the patriarchy is equivalent to the complete destruction of human society. The only scenario in which society will not be decimated with the end of patriarchy, is if male testosterone levels continues to decline, if public education institutions continue their Marxist indoctrination programmes, and if food producers continue to contaminate food sources with chemicals and hormones that wrecks the cognitive capacity of the male (as well as female) population. This is because, the more males are emasculated by the above pernicious agendas, the more likely they are to willingly accede power to women. Practically the only sensible thing said in “Swami” Rahasya’s inane videos, is the assertion that the chief alpha-male (by which he obviously means a king) ought to lead his army into battle, rather than sitting on his throne, protected in his castle. Frankly, I doubt that the “Swami” even knows the actual definition of the term “alpha-male”. I asked him in the comment section of one of the aforementioned videos, but he has yet to respond to my very simple question (which is unsurprising, because he repeatedly refused to answer my even more simple question, “Are you VEGAN?”, most probably due to being an animal-abusing carnist, like the vast majority of humanity, including so-called “gurus”). Cont...
@ronifouks Thank you for being awakened and working towards truth and the way of God ( the Tao ☯️) I really appreciate your support and content. I subscribed and will support your channel, for it serves a great purpose in not only the gender dynamics but with other great issues and observations. I have a few things I would like to say and some questions. Do you read and reply emails? I would like to reach out. Thank you have a great weekend and blessings to you and family. peace harmony and great respect to you for your work
My best friend's ex-wife is a multi-millionaire while he is working class. Yet she was able to convince a judge that he needed to pay 100% of child support costs, including through his son's university.
@@josecolon3185depends on what kind of working class. Could be an attractive CS guy who's making 200k a year, with a stock package that'd make him a deca millionaire in 5/6 years
I asked my dad how he deals with sexlessness because I'm terrified of being in that situation if I ever get married. Like the way I see it, it's a physical NEED and it destroys your mind if you don't get it. He he said that my wife will be the mother of our children, and therefore you need to simply just accept it, no matter how agonizing it'd be. He said that he reminds himself with the fact that he does not want to ever hurt me and my brother with divorce. So he'd rather just accept the agony and suffer for his wife and kids 🥲
I am falling into the same trap. I don't want to hurt my son with a broken marriage and all the trauma that entails, but at the same time, I know that I am not modelling what a healthy man and relationship should look like either by not moving on. I wonder if he'd say he'd rather see me happy, but... I would also like for him to be happy. I suppose at some point he'll see right through all the pretense. It feels like one is stuck between a sword and a hard place.
@@RickSanchez1520My advice would be to remain committed to your family and get your needs met elsewhere. Don't deceive and don't apologise. Your partner has zero right to monopolize what she doesn't want. Here's a pro tip that might surprise. Being in a committed relationship makes you MORE attractive to other women, not less. Good luck and enjoy!
This is what most men do, I know I did. Sadly for families women are congratulated for breaking up their families to pursue their happiness, even when they admit they left a “good man”. Society and social media encourage them too. Until things change I’d have to advise you to not marry, no matter how different you think a gf might be. She. Will. Change. Once she gets the ring.
😄 Story of my married life after my kids were born. And so is with all my male married friends with kids. And right your father is, as a men you just swallow it. You internalized it and find ways to make peace with it, and pull yourself up to keep a positive nurturing environment for the family. For the kids. But you know, while I chose the route of being faithful, I do regret it now. As someone suggested above, if you are abandoned sexually and physically, then you're in some right to seek that natural need somewhere else. But that brings other kind of troubles too on the long run. As I've seen with my only friend that took that route. Anyhoo, enjoy your 20s and 30s (pre-children) sexual life, and prepare yourself for the years of desert wandering 😅 Sorry
Women can have sex and not worry about being forced to support a child. Men can't. Discrimination based on sex is illegal. This is a Human Rights issue. Men's Rights matter.
Whether your religious or not, I've found that so many of the issues around Radical Feminism, Queer Theory, CRT, etc. boil down to the seven deadly sins. Most often envy and wrath, but with liberal dosing of gluttony, lust, sloth, greed and unironically pride.
The cardinal sins aren't just a religious ban-list. They all are tendanties that all humans naturally gravitate towards. It a warning against destructive habbits, toxic thoughts and dangerous emotions.
I often make comments on youtube videos dealing with the crisis in masculinity, modern relationships, red pill etc, simply listing some of the (female!) commentators and researchers who have explained how bad the situation is now for men. Karen Straughan, Janice Fiamengo, Diana Davison, Bettina, PrimReaper, Nicola Graham Kevan on domestic violence and so on. Mostly, these comments simply disappear without a trace.
Yes, YT censorship has gone unreal, u-n--r-e-a-l. Not to mention the heavy self-censoring that's already going on. And yes, Karen Straughan is unbelievable, her insights are spot on and profound. She should be taught in schools these days. I'll make sure to check the names I do not know. Cheers
This was a great podcast, I managed to listen to the whole thing !!! Some supportive and constructive criticism would be: I think it would’ve helped Roni to have researched Bettina and her work more thoroughly. I think Roni should’ve spent less time sharing her own perspectives because the thoughts and ideas she articulated were very basic and generalised. She didn’t say anything I haven’t already heard. Which isn’t to say Roni doesn’t have value to add. Where as Bettina shared story after case study of details and events that pertain to men’s issues that no one is talking about. Bettina is a gold mine of facts and stories that relate to mens issues. If Roni did more thorough research on Bettina she could’ve directed the conversation to prompt much more information and experiences out of Bettina resulting in an even more informative and power packed podcast. Roni’s Value to the podcast would’ve been getting more stories and experiences out of Bettina that no one else is really experienced enough to share.
One of my sons bailed out of high school as a result of being continually put down, being male. Granted, he had special needs, I could not understand their 2nd year algebra book, and I have 4 degrees, probably 12 college level math courses and twice that many physics/engineering courses. Yeah, my son couldn't tolerate the barrage of negativity. The school actually wanted him to drop out to improve their overall test scores(!) That's the last school bond issue I ever approve! Teacher's focus on their union had a lot to do with it.
During the pandemic I went looking for men's counselling service in my region as lockdowns drove up depression levels. I discovered that there were plenty of women's counselling programs, shelters, etc., but not a single program devoted to helping men. In feminist terms, men do not matter.
Reading Bettina Arndt's THE Sex Diaries a couple of years back in college has toned down my expectation of married sex life . Anyway , Great listen And the host is really beautiful, too bad she is married Kudos !
It’s suppose to be “believe the victim”, not “believe the woman”. Unfortunately, due to the stats continually saying men are the main perpetrators of violence, it’s become “believe the woman”. . If police are called to an actual domestic dispute, they are required to give out mandatory charges. The first time police were called was just before our divorce negotiations were about to begin. She lied to the police about what happened. I was charged with common assault. I tried explaining the up coming divorce to the police. They didn’t care. I got through it and won 50/50 split custody in the divorce. This was in 2018. In 2022, I showed up to her place one day and asked her to come outside to talk. I was wanting to set some boundaries with her. She started screaming at me in front of the kids. Istarted giving her crap for it. It was a heated exchange. She called the police. I left and went home. When the police got there, she told them I stormed into her place and started shoving her while uttering threats. I was charged with Breaking and Entering and Assault. I was utterly shocked. Once again, I had no voice in it. I was stuck with the charges. I lost friends. Some family members😮 distanced themselves from me. In the end, the prosecutor said if I plead guilty to Being Unlawfully Present, he would drop the assault charge since I have no criminal record. I got one year probation with no criminal record in the end. The thing is they didn’t have enough to hold up at trial. Only enough to get a plea deal. If I didn’t accept the plea deal, my lawyer told me I’d be arrested again once the charges are thrown out with no verdict at trial. This time, I’d be arrested for mischief and assault with no plea forthcoming. I felt totally coerced into taking the plea deal.
Affairs and cheating. Men should not cheat, but the only cheating is in lies and deception. Men should not allow their partner to monopolise what she doesn't want. Absolutely he should remain committed to his family and his partner should be happy to outsource the sex. And here's a secret that women will not disclose. Men in a committed relationship are MORE attractive to them, not less so
Listening to it made me happier about living in Russia since we don't have all that cancer. However, we are probably getting there too, but we're simply behind the west in that department, which is good for once
All men and women need to do in my opinion is follow the bible and Gods will. Women were created from one of mans ribs so we men wouldn't be lonely and to bear children. Yet many women today will not stay in a family. I dont think we should create families if we dont want them. Perhaps part of it is the womens changing minds over a lifetime. My sons mother left me randomly out of the blue one day after 5yrs together and a son. It crushed me yet didnt seem to phase her a bit. However she was under another man within a month and I am still alone many yrs later. The worst part was it hurt my son the most as we were close b4 she left and held him from me for a yr. I finally hired a lawyer and took her to court for visitation rights. My mother also left my father when I was just 7. I dont think women realize the damage thats done to kids when they run through men. Funfact mom says she left dad cause he was tight with his money. She died alone and broke. Dad was married again and wealthy when he passed. She also had her own beauty shop yet dad worked for the gas company for 35yrs straight! Now after being alone for years I worry for my son going through this same nonsense and he is 19 with his first girlfriend. Loniliness is on the rise so what were doing has failed for society especially average men. I read an article that said 47% of the US population are now lonely and its even shrinking lives due to poor health from loneliness and lack of sex or touch. 🙏
As a man and as a clinical psychologist I am quite appalled by this conversation. It's almost as if I hear Peterson talk, so I cut it off halfway through.
If you could tell us your license number and the area where you practice, you could help a lot of men by allowing them to steer clear of you at all costs. Sure, income-wise, it would be a drop in the ocean for you, but in a humane sense, oh boy, you would be a godsend.
Thank you for your support ❤ we need more women talking about men's issues
Exactly. It takes women to rebuild a bridge that other women burned 60 years ago. The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of every animal species, including our own. In women's hands, more than men's, lies the destiny of humanity.
Thank you for bringing this issue to light. What’s so frustrating is that we have been talking about it for 20 years and NOTHING changes. Men & women in leadership lack empathy or are intimidated by the feminist bullying. What will it take for people in leadership to get a backbone
Feminism is a hate movement, not only of males but also of young women who are successful. Such hate is born of jealousy.
Commies R jeloys. Loserz
The biggest issue with the women are superior movement is that by forcing men not be men to make way for women is that it ends up hurting women more in the end.
This is the problem with heavy-handed social justice in all its forms. When we single out one ethnicity or gender or other social group and give it artificial (unearned) privileged status, it always ends up backfiring and dragging down standards for society as a whole, and that tends to impact those particular groups even more than other people.
Nice to see Bettina is still doing great.
Arndt is a beacon of hope and so courageous, thanks for bringing her on! Differences in sexual desires is often overlooked, and to see it from a standpoint of the partner, and the entire relationship health, is important.
Excellent episode.
I've always had great respect for Bettina, I believe it was from her that I first heard the term "maintenance sex," which sounds like a gimmick some guy invented, but it's actually an ingenious concept. Because, you are right, when you see a couple, and you can tell the intimacy is gone from their relationship, and it is incredibly sad. To neglect something as profound and powerful as human intimacy is tragic. It is the tie that binds on a deep, almost unspoken level.
I absolutely love reading your comments 🙏🏻♥️
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PATRIARCHY:
PATRIARCHY is defined as a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of the family, and familial descent is traced through the male ancestral line. In recent times, due to the objectively-immoral, wicked, evil, demonic feminist movement, it is usually defined more harshly, as a “system of society or government in which men in general hold the power, and women are largely excluded from it”.
As clearly and soundly demonstrated in more than one chapter of “F.I.S.H”, men and women have quite distinct duties and responsibilities within human society. Adult males naturally fall into one of the four social classes (that is, priests, monarchs, business/land owners, and workers), whilst females are meant to serve their superiors as daughters (in the case of girls) and wives (in the case of women), by performing household chores and raising children. Of course, a large proportion of the population no longer adheres to this gender role dichotomy, particularly in the Western countries, and the chances are, if you have read this far into this Holiest Scripture of All, you are not among them.
Radical feminists (of both sexes) invariably become noticeably upset, and sometimes aggressively violent, when they are confronted with even any mention of patriarchal ideology in public dialogue, as they wrongly believe that women should have an equal role in the governance of families and in the ruling bodies of society (and often that women ought to rule nations, as in a matriarchy, since they incorrectly assume that women are less war-mongering than men). Such militant feminists and social constructionists have surmised that gender roles and gender inequity are instruments of power, and that they have become social norms to maintain control over women. Of course, power dynamics do exist in society, and provided that power is exerted according to the ethos of dharma (the law, and societal rules), it is not at all a caustic thing.
Constructionists would contend that sociobiological arguments serve to justify the oppression of women. And, by “oppression”, they are, in actual fact, referring to the reality that men have largely PROTECTED their womenfolk throughout human history, and in a huge number of cases, practically worship the opposite sex (see the Glossary entry “gynocentrism” regarding this ugly phenomenon). When you peruse social media websites on the Internet, do you generally see men belittling and scolding women, or rather, are they desperately pursuing them?
OBVIOUSLY, throughout human history, some men have harmed some women, just as many women have harmed men - that has absolutely naught to do with patriarchy, but solely with sin and lawlessness. Most all Western countries are now matriarchal, in the sense that women have total and utter power over their menfolk, even if that power is enforced by other (so-called) males. This last quip ought not be construed to imply that criminal males should not be held accountable for their crimes, but that, in many (if not most) cases of suspected wrongdoing, the accused man is not only innocent of any transgressions but is, rather, the victim. If a man has abused a woman, he ought to be castigated by his legitimate authority, not by the minions of any corrupt state/government. Personally, I have been jailed twice for being the casualty of physical assault and verbal insults by women making blatantly false allegations against me, a very skinny, old monastic priest (and honestly consider myself to be immensely gentle, loving and kind), including the heinous crime of rape, despite the fact that I have not once fornicated.
Therefore, the fact that you, the reader of this Holiest Book of All, are alive and well, is due largely to the institution of PATRIARCHY, which has protected your ancestral lineage from those barbarians who have not adhered to dharma (holy and righteous norms, based on non-violence) and if you insist that patriarchy is intrinsically harmful, you are being blatantly hypocritical, and unwittingly invoking your very own demise!
PATRIARCHY is the only system that is normal, natural, and necessary. It is normal, natural, and necessary for a father to take charge of his nuclear family, for a grandfather to take control of his extended family, for a chief to assert authority over his clan, all the way up to a true monarch, who is considered to be the father of his people, and finally to a (genuine) priest/prophet (see Ch. 20), who is father of his nation.
It is impossible for the typical woman to property execute the role of family/clan/national head, and even if a female was found who could competently lead her family, tribe, clan, or village, there will always be a male who could have fulfilled that role to an even more competent degree, unless, of course, the male population has been decimated by the ravages of war or disease, for example. Many rules have exceptions.
PATRIARCHY - AN ANECDOTE:
In order to provide just a single example of how the notion of patriarchy is grossly misunderstood by the vast majority of humans, especially in the liberal West, I will refer to a videographed monologue, entitled “RAPE and Patriarchal culture” (his own capitalization), published on an Internet website called “TH-cam”, by a Zambian chap of European descent who goes by the fake name “Swami Rahasya”. Judging by the fact that he is male (albeit, a truly pathetic “White Knight” beta-male) and that he uses the title “Swami” (which is almost invariably the title of a monastic spiritual master), one could be forgiven for assuming that he is in support of all dharmic concepts, including patriarchy. However, that is the opposite to the truth, since he brazenly and wrongly asserts that “Rape is pretty much the basis of patriarchy. In fact, it may be the core power of patriarchy”. Of course, he conveniently ignores the fact that a large proportion of sexual assaults are perpetrated by women.
Anecdotally, I, the quintessential alpha-male patriarch, have never sexually assaulted a solitary woman (though I have been falsely accused of such by at least one or two filthy fat Filipino females), yet I have been the victim of several rape attempts by oversexed women during my lengthy stay in the Philippines. Before watching the video in question, I had never heard such incredibly ludicrous assertions outside the far-left community (usually spouted by filthy fat feminist females sporting neon-coloured hairstyles). It is possible that Rahasya’s poisonous, gynocentric viewpoint may be caused by his drug-taking habit (since, in all his Internet videos, he is seen chain-smoking what appears to be toxic tobacco cigarettes), coupled with a severe testosterone deficiency. Hence one ought to be cautious when attributing malicious intent.
In another video on his TH-cam channel, entitled “The End of Patriarchy”, the self-styled “tantra master”, erroneously asserts that there was a time when humanity was matriarchal, and where the female leaders used men solely as tools for propagating the species! I can only assume that he was confusing B-grade science fiction movies of the 1960s with confirmed historical evidence (of which there is none, since any society that is truly matriarchal cannot survive for more than a short period of time, for reasons that ought be obvious after perusing this entire book).
Also, this so-called “renounced monk” (“Swami” is the common mistransliteration of “Svāmī ”, a Sanskrit title for a mendicant monastic priest) claims that patriarchy is in decline but this can never be the case, in the sense that the collapse of the patriarchy is equivalent to the complete destruction of human society. The only scenario in which society will not be decimated with the end of patriarchy, is if male testosterone levels continues to decline, if public education institutions continue their Marxist indoctrination programmes, and if food producers continue to contaminate food sources with chemicals and hormones that wrecks the cognitive capacity of the male (as well as female) population. This is because, the more males are emasculated by the above pernicious agendas, the more likely they are to willingly accede power to women.
Practically the only sensible thing said in “Swami” Rahasya’s inane videos, is the assertion that the chief alpha-male (by which he obviously means a king) ought to lead his army into battle, rather than sitting on his throne, protected in his castle. Frankly, I doubt that the “Swami” even knows the actual definition of the term “alpha-male”. I asked him in the comment section of one of the aforementioned videos, but he has yet to respond to my very simple question (which is unsurprising, because he repeatedly refused to answer my even more simple question, “Are you VEGAN?”, most probably due to being an animal-abusing carnist, like the vast majority of humanity, including so-called “gurus”).
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@ronifouks Thank you for being awakened and working towards truth and the way of God ( the Tao ☯️)
I really appreciate your support and content. I subscribed and will support your channel, for it serves a great purpose in not only the gender dynamics but with other great issues and observations.
I have a few things I would like to say and some questions. Do you read and reply emails? I would like to reach out.
Thank you have a great weekend and blessings to you and family. peace harmony and great respect to you for your work
My best friend's ex-wife is a multi-millionaire while he is working class. Yet she was able to convince a judge that he needed to pay 100% of child support costs, including through his son's university.
Female judge?
Millionaire women don't date working class men unless they are overweight or extremely unattractive. Which one is it?
@@josecolon3185depends on what kind of working class. Could be an attractive CS guy who's making 200k a year, with a stock package that'd make him a deca millionaire in 5/6 years
I asked my dad how he deals with sexlessness because I'm terrified of being in that situation if I ever get married. Like the way I see it, it's a physical NEED and it destroys your mind if you don't get it.
He he said that my wife will be the mother of our children, and therefore you need to simply just accept it, no matter how agonizing it'd be. He said that he reminds himself with the fact that he does not want to ever hurt me and my brother with divorce. So he'd rather just accept the agony and suffer for his wife and kids 🥲
I am falling into the same trap. I don't want to hurt my son with a broken marriage and all the trauma that entails, but at the same time, I know that I am not modelling what a healthy man and relationship should look like either by not moving on. I wonder if he'd say he'd rather see me happy, but... I would also like for him to be happy. I suppose at some point he'll see right through all the pretense. It feels like one is stuck between a sword and a hard place.
@@RickSanchez1520My advice would be to remain committed to your family and get your needs met elsewhere. Don't deceive and don't apologise. Your partner has zero right to monopolize what she doesn't want. Here's a pro tip that might surprise. Being in a committed relationship makes you MORE attractive to other women, not less. Good luck and enjoy!
This is what most men do, I know I did. Sadly for families women are congratulated for breaking up their families to pursue their happiness, even when they admit they left a “good man”.
Society and social media encourage them too. Until things change I’d have to advise you to not marry, no matter how different you think a gf might be.
She. Will. Change. Once she gets the ring.
😄 Story of my married life after my kids were born. And so is with all my male married friends with kids. And right your father is, as a men you just swallow it. You internalized it and find ways to make peace with it, and pull yourself up to keep a positive nurturing environment for the family. For the kids.
But you know, while I chose the route of being faithful, I do regret it now. As someone suggested above, if you are abandoned sexually and physically, then you're in some right to seek that natural need somewhere else. But that brings other kind of troubles too on the long run. As I've seen with my only friend that took that route. Anyhoo, enjoy your 20s and 30s (pre-children) sexual life, and prepare yourself for the years of desert wandering 😅 Sorry
Women can have sex and not worry about being forced to support a child. Men can't. Discrimination based on sex is illegal. This is a Human Rights issue. Men's Rights matter.
The real Queen B, bringing light to these issues that society is all too happy to ignore.
IT'S TIME FOR MEN'S RIGHTS
Whether your religious or not, I've found that so many of the issues around Radical Feminism, Queer Theory, CRT, etc. boil down to the seven deadly sins. Most often envy and wrath, but with liberal dosing of gluttony, lust, sloth, greed and unironically pride.
The cardinal sins aren't just a religious ban-list. They all are tendanties that all humans naturally gravitate towards. It a warning against destructive habbits, toxic thoughts and dangerous emotions.
Great episode. I just want to say thank you for having this conversation.
I often make comments on youtube videos dealing with the crisis in masculinity, modern relationships, red pill etc, simply listing some of the (female!) commentators and researchers who have explained how bad the situation is now for men. Karen Straughan, Janice Fiamengo, Diana Davison, Bettina, PrimReaper, Nicola Graham Kevan on domestic violence and so on. Mostly, these comments simply disappear without a trace.
Yes, YT censorship has gone unreal, u-n--r-e-a-l. Not to mention the heavy self-censoring that's already going on. And yes, Karen Straughan is unbelievable, her insights are spot on and profound. She should be taught in schools these days. I'll make sure to check the names I do not know. Cheers
Thank you for this
I think you have great topics and ideas. I love to hear a different perspective.
This was a great podcast, I managed to listen to the whole thing !!! Some supportive and constructive criticism would be:
I think it would’ve helped Roni to have researched Bettina and her work more thoroughly. I think Roni should’ve spent less time sharing her own perspectives because the thoughts and ideas she articulated were very basic and generalised. She didn’t say anything I haven’t already heard. Which isn’t to say Roni doesn’t have value to add. Where as Bettina shared story after case study of details and events that pertain to men’s issues that no one is talking about. Bettina is a gold mine of facts and stories that relate to mens issues. If Roni did more thorough research on Bettina she could’ve directed the conversation to prompt much more information and experiences out of Bettina resulting in an even more informative and power packed podcast. Roni’s Value to the podcast would’ve been getting more stories and experiences out of Bettina that no one else is really experienced enough to share.
Great and insightful commentary
One of my sons bailed out of high school as a result of being continually put down, being male. Granted, he had special needs, I could not understand their 2nd year algebra book, and I have 4 degrees, probably 12 college level math courses and twice that many physics/engineering courses. Yeah, my son couldn't tolerate the barrage of negativity. The school actually wanted him to drop out to improve their overall test scores(!) That's the last school bond issue I ever approve! Teacher's focus on their union had a lot to do with it.
PS my son had his GED within a month of leaving....
Amazing!! Sometimes that's the best way.
I see Tina, I press "SUBSCRIBE".
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Kindly repeat that in ENGLISH, Miss.☝️
Incidentally, Slave, are you VEGAN? 🌱
Brotha simp ahh comment
During the pandemic I went looking for men's counselling service in my region as lockdowns drove up depression levels. I discovered that there were plenty of women's counselling programs, shelters, etc., but not a single program devoted to helping men. In feminist terms, men do not matter.
Complaining about the way men sit is the most ridiculous BS complaint I have ever heard
Men want to feel wanted and desired sexually also
Oh that's one of my favourite women.
Roni, are you by any chance related to Andrew Gold in any way?
Reading Bettina Arndt's THE Sex Diaries a couple of years back in college has toned down my expectation of married sex life . Anyway , Great listen
And the host is really beautiful, too bad she is married
Kudos !
It’s suppose to be “believe the victim”, not “believe the woman”. Unfortunately, due to the stats continually saying men are the main perpetrators of violence, it’s become “believe the woman”. . If police are called to an actual domestic dispute, they are required to give out mandatory charges. The first time police were called was just before our divorce negotiations were about to begin. She lied to the police about what happened. I was charged with common assault. I tried explaining the up coming divorce to the police. They didn’t care. I got through it and won 50/50 split custody in the divorce. This was in 2018. In 2022, I showed up to her place one day and asked her to come outside to talk. I was wanting to set some boundaries with her. She started screaming at me in front of the kids. Istarted giving her crap for it. It was a heated exchange. She called the police. I left and went home. When the police got there, she told them I stormed into her place and started shoving her while uttering threats. I was charged with Breaking and Entering and Assault. I was utterly shocked. Once again, I had no voice in it. I was stuck with the charges. I lost friends. Some family members😮 distanced themselves from me. In the end, the prosecutor said if I plead guilty to Being Unlawfully Present, he would drop the assault charge since I have no criminal record. I got one year probation with no criminal record in the end. The thing is they didn’t have enough to hold up at trial. Only enough to get a plea deal. If I didn’t accept the plea deal, my lawyer told me I’d be arrested again once the charges are thrown out with no verdict at trial. This time, I’d be arrested for mischief and assault with no plea forthcoming. I felt totally coerced into taking the plea deal.
Interesting
Affairs and cheating. Men should not cheat, but the only cheating is in lies and deception. Men should not allow their partner to monopolise what she doesn't want. Absolutely he should remain committed to his family and his partner should be happy to outsource the sex.
And here's a secret that women will not disclose. Men in a committed relationship are MORE attractive to them, not less so
I think it is telling how few views this video has. The stigma of mental health is exponentially worse for men.
Listening to it made me happier about living in Russia since we don't have all that cancer. However, we are probably getting there too, but we're simply behind the west in that department, which is good for once
Interview Mary Eberstadt
Working on it 😉
Social engineering. It's deliberate. Pacify men and slow population growth while creating more worker bees that spend more $$
All men and women need to do in my opinion is follow the bible and Gods will. Women were created from one of mans ribs so we men wouldn't be lonely and to bear children. Yet many women today will not stay in a family. I dont think we should create families if we dont want them. Perhaps part of it is the womens changing minds over a lifetime. My sons mother left me randomly out of the blue one day after 5yrs together and a son. It crushed me yet didnt seem to phase her a bit. However she was under another man within a month and I am still alone many yrs later. The worst part was it hurt my son the most as we were close b4 she left and held him from me for a yr. I finally hired a lawyer and took her to court for visitation rights. My mother also left my father when I was just 7. I dont think women realize the damage thats done to kids when they run through men. Funfact mom says she left dad cause he was tight with his money. She died alone and broke. Dad was married again and wealthy when he passed. She also had her own beauty shop yet dad worked for the gas company for 35yrs straight! Now after being alone for years I worry for my son going through this same nonsense and he is 19 with his first girlfriend. Loniliness is on the rise so what were doing has failed for society especially average men. I read an article that said 47% of the US population are now lonely and its even shrinking lives due to poor health from loneliness and lack of sex or touch. 🙏
there has never been ANTI in biology . we increasingly infuse our prejudice as we allow it to change our minds .
Most wmn know nothing about a man's struggles and challenges in life and they don't even care, cuz their life is on easy mode and it's sbout me me me
The lady talks funny I can't understand her
As a man and as a clinical psychologist I am quite appalled by this conversation. It's almost as if I hear Peterson talk, so I cut it off halfway through.
Oh no!
you ain't sheet... poser regard
I'm curious. What did you find appalling?
If you could tell us your license number and the area where you practice, you could help a lot of men by allowing them to steer clear of you at all costs. Sure, income-wise, it would be a drop in the ocean for you, but in a humane sense, oh boy, you would be a godsend.
great conversation.
Thank you for this
My pleasure! ♥️