The biggest issue with the women are superior movement is that by forcing men not be men to make way for women is that it ends up hurting women more in the end.
This is the problem with heavy-handed social justice in all its forms. When we single out one ethnicity or gender or other social group and give it artificial (unearned) privileged status, it always ends up backfiring and dragging down standards for society as a whole, and that tends to impact those particular groups even more than other people.
@@phi4721whatever lies you need to tell yourself. I mean they just talked for an hour about how feminism does exactly that but I guess you can’t wake someone only pretending to be asleep.
What is an endless source of amusement to me is the narrative that w0men are at once superior, while also being perpetual victims. You see it in every Hollywood movie. And as unbelievable as it is, people internalize ideas like this without any critical thought.
Those who say that men do not appreciate intelligent women are surely not referring to the type of intelligent women that you represent, we like you without arrogance or misplaced pride, thank you for your humility in your openness to others
A friend has an answer for that, women always try to tke advantage on men all the time, thats what they call intelligence, and they think we dont like intelligent women they consider themselves intelligent or smart whem they can take advantage of a man, and think we dont like them because they are smart hope is clear
Thank you for bringing this issue to light. What’s so frustrating is that we have been talking about it for 20 years and NOTHING changes. Men & women in leadership lack empathy or are intimidated by the feminist bullying. What will it take for people in leadership to get a backbone
On the contrary, I'd say a lot has changed the last 20 years, though if you meant that concerning the topics in the video these changes were not much of an improvement I'd agree.
Exactly. It takes women to rebuild a bridge that other women burned 60 years ago. The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of every animal species, including our own. In women's hands, more than men's, lies the destiny of humanity.
My best friend's ex-wife is a multi-millionaire while he is working class. Yet she was able to convince a judge that he needed to pay 100% of child support costs, including through his son's university.
@@josecolon3185depends on what kind of working class. Could be an attractive CS guy who's making 200k a year, with a stock package that'd make him a deca millionaire in 5/6 years
Women can have sex and not worry about being forced to support a child. Men can't. Discrimination based on sex is illegal. This is a Human Rights issue. Men's Rights matter.
Women are the ones having the baby right, so surely it's true that the big event of child birth forces the woman into supporting a child? Have you heard of motherhood?
"Discrimination based on sex is illegal." Not really and I'm not in favor of it either. Why not have girlscouts and boyscouts groups? The only way to get those is by sex discrimination on who you are letting in which group.
During the pandemic I went looking for men's counselling service in my region as lockdowns drove up depression levels. I discovered that there were plenty of women's counselling programs, shelters, etc., but not a single program devoted to helping men. In feminist terms, men do not matter.
Women are driven insane by their therapists. You dodged a bullet, though it sounds as if it wasn't due to good management. If you are seriously mentally ill, verge of suicide or other disorders, seek out real help. Otherwise there is no way on earth I would go to counseling.
Some time ago I encountered a young woman, just out of PhD program in History, whose speciality is similar to mine. She mentioned that she had declined job offers because she didn't want to relocate. I wondered why she was applying for positions in places she didn't want to live, when I realized that they had likely come looking for her. I completed my PhD 20 years ago, and it's rare to even get an interview, in most cases my application goes ignored and I don't even get a formal rejection. She doesn't have nearly my teaching experience, she's not as accomplished in the foreign language we both used to research our dissertations, yet I get no attention and she receives unsolicited offers from universities.
Arndt is a beacon of hope and so courageous, thanks for bringing her on! Differences in sexual desires is often overlooked, and to see it from a standpoint of the partner, and the entire relationship health, is important.
I had a very close friend who went through a marriage breakup. At the custody hearing for the daughter, he came prepared with evidence, affidavids, all sorts of documented evidence to show how he was a very reasonable father and making a strong case for joint custody. The (female) judge systematically dismissed or rejected each piece of evidence and simply decided to believe the ex-wife's side that was all only oral. No evidence. No documents. She got full custody. This is unbelievable to me - this is some kind of justice?
As a man who has a mother, wife, and daughter I completely agree with protecting women from violent men. Only one problem, taking away a non violent man’s rights is going to turn him into the violent man women are going to need to be protected from. One way to stop violence is to stop engaging in things that turn men violent. You don’t blame the tiger for attacking a human who attacked him first do we?
So you are saying it is ok for a man to beat a woman senseless, that she had it coming, because of a perceived disparity in equal rights of what? A divorce situation? A stalking situation? Rights to children visitation? Custody. I mean, do you even hear yourself? Men that are violent are violent due to a choice. It is no different than if a woman chooses to be violent. Except you hear women making a lot less excuses to justify hurting someone due to legal bias.
Something to think about regarding suicide, and it doesn't matter which gender; for every person who goes through with it, there's several others who feel that miserable, but can't or won't for whatever reason. Despair is the real issue here.
Excellent episode. I've always had great respect for Bettina, I believe it was from her that I first heard the term "maintenance sex," which sounds like a gimmick some guy invented, but it's actually an ingenious concept. Because, you are right, when you see a couple, and you can tell the intimacy is gone from their relationship, and it is incredibly sad. To neglect something as profound and powerful as human intimacy is tragic. It is the tie that binds on a deep, almost unspoken level.
@@ronifouks PATRIARCHY: PATRIARCHY is defined as a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of the family, and familial descent is traced through the male ancestral line. In recent times, due to the objectively-immoral, wicked, evil, demonic feminist movement, it is usually defined more harshly, as a “system of society or government in which men in general hold the power, and women are largely excluded from it”. As clearly and soundly demonstrated in more than one chapter of “F.I.S.H”, men and women have quite distinct duties and responsibilities within human society. Adult males naturally fall into one of the four social classes (that is, priests, monarchs, business/land owners, and workers), whilst females are meant to serve their superiors as daughters (in the case of girls) and wives (in the case of women), by performing household chores and raising children. Of course, a large proportion of the population no longer adheres to this gender role dichotomy, particularly in the Western countries, and the chances are, if you have read this far into this Holiest Scripture of All, you are not among them. Radical feminists (of both sexes) invariably become noticeably upset, and sometimes aggressively violent, when they are confronted with even any mention of patriarchal ideology in public dialogue, as they wrongly believe that women should have an equal role in the governance of families and in the ruling bodies of society (and often that women ought to rule nations, as in a matriarchy, since they incorrectly assume that women are less war-mongering than men). Such militant feminists and social constructionists have surmised that gender roles and gender inequity are instruments of power, and that they have become social norms to maintain control over women. Of course, power dynamics do exist in society, and provided that power is exerted according to the ethos of dharma (the law, and societal rules), it is not at all a caustic thing. Constructionists would contend that sociobiological arguments serve to justify the oppression of women. And, by “oppression”, they are, in actual fact, referring to the reality that men have largely PROTECTED their womenfolk throughout human history, and in a huge number of cases, practically worship the opposite sex (see the Glossary entry “gynocentrism” regarding this ugly phenomenon). When you peruse social media websites on the Internet, do you generally see men belittling and scolding women, or rather, are they desperately pursuing them? OBVIOUSLY, throughout human history, some men have harmed some women, just as many women have harmed men - that has absolutely naught to do with patriarchy, but solely with sin and lawlessness. Most all Western countries are now matriarchal, in the sense that women have total and utter power over their menfolk, even if that power is enforced by other (so-called) males. This last quip ought not be construed to imply that criminal males should not be held accountable for their crimes, but that, in many (if not most) cases of suspected wrongdoing, the accused man is not only innocent of any transgressions but is, rather, the victim. If a man has abused a woman, he ought to be castigated by his legitimate authority, not by the minions of any corrupt state/government. Personally, I have been jailed twice for being the casualty of physical assault and verbal insults by women making blatantly false allegations against me, a very skinny, old monastic priest (and honestly consider myself to be immensely gentle, loving and kind), including the heinous crime of rape, despite the fact that I have not once fornicated. Therefore, the fact that you, the reader of this Holiest Book of All, are alive and well, is due largely to the institution of PATRIARCHY, which has protected your ancestral lineage from those barbarians who have not adhered to dharma (holy and righteous norms, based on non-violence) and if you insist that patriarchy is intrinsically harmful, you are being blatantly hypocritical, and unwittingly invoking your very own demise! PATRIARCHY is the only system that is normal, natural, and necessary. It is normal, natural, and necessary for a father to take charge of his nuclear family, for a grandfather to take control of his extended family, for a chief to assert authority over his clan, all the way up to a true monarch, who is considered to be the father of his people, and finally to a (genuine) priest/prophet (see Ch. 20), who is father of his nation. It is impossible for the typical woman to property execute the role of family/clan/national head, and even if a female was found who could competently lead her family, tribe, clan, or village, there will always be a male who could have fulfilled that role to an even more competent degree, unless, of course, the male population has been decimated by the ravages of war or disease, for example. Many rules have exceptions. PATRIARCHY - AN ANECDOTE: In order to provide just a single example of how the notion of patriarchy is grossly misunderstood by the vast majority of humans, especially in the liberal West, I will refer to a videographed monologue, entitled “RAPE and Patriarchal culture” (his own capitalization), published on an Internet website called “TH-cam”, by a Zambian chap of European descent who goes by the fake name “Swami Rahasya”. Judging by the fact that he is male (albeit, a truly pathetic “White Knight” beta-male) and that he uses the title “Swami” (which is almost invariably the title of a monastic spiritual master), one could be forgiven for assuming that he is in support of all dharmic concepts, including patriarchy. However, that is the opposite to the truth, since he brazenly and wrongly asserts that “Rape is pretty much the basis of patriarchy. In fact, it may be the core power of patriarchy”. Of course, he conveniently ignores the fact that a large proportion of sexual assaults are perpetrated by women. Anecdotally, I, the quintessential alpha-male patriarch, have never sexually assaulted a solitary woman (though I have been falsely accused of such by at least one or two filthy fat Filipino females), yet I have been the victim of several rape attempts by oversexed women during my lengthy stay in the Philippines. Before watching the video in question, I had never heard such incredibly ludicrous assertions outside the far-left community (usually spouted by filthy fat feminist females sporting neon-coloured hairstyles). It is possible that Rahasya’s poisonous, gynocentric viewpoint may be caused by his drug-taking habit (since, in all his Internet videos, he is seen chain-smoking what appears to be toxic tobacco cigarettes), coupled with a severe testosterone deficiency. Hence one ought to be cautious when attributing malicious intent. In another video on his TH-cam channel, entitled “The End of Patriarchy”, the self-styled “tantra master”, erroneously asserts that there was a time when humanity was matriarchal, and where the female leaders used men solely as tools for propagating the species! I can only assume that he was confusing B-grade science fiction movies of the 1960s with confirmed historical evidence (of which there is none, since any society that is truly matriarchal cannot survive for more than a short period of time, for reasons that ought be obvious after perusing this entire book). Also, this so-called “renounced monk” (“Swami” is the common mistransliteration of “Svāmī ”, a Sanskrit title for a mendicant monastic priest) claims that patriarchy is in decline but this can never be the case, in the sense that the collapse of the patriarchy is equivalent to the complete destruction of human society. The only scenario in which society will not be decimated with the end of patriarchy, is if male testosterone levels continues to decline, if public education institutions continue their Marxist indoctrination programmes, and if food producers continue to contaminate food sources with chemicals and hormones that wrecks the cognitive capacity of the male (as well as female) population. This is because, the more males are emasculated by the above pernicious agendas, the more likely they are to willingly accede power to women. Practically the only sensible thing said in “Swami” Rahasya’s inane videos, is the assertion that the chief alpha-male (by which he obviously means a king) ought to lead his army into battle, rather than sitting on his throne, protected in his castle. Frankly, I doubt that the “Swami” even knows the actual definition of the term “alpha-male”. I asked him in the comment section of one of the aforementioned videos, but he has yet to respond to my very simple question (which is unsurprising, because he repeatedly refused to answer my even more simple question, “Are you VEGAN?”, most probably due to being an animal-abusing carnist, like the vast majority of humanity, including so-called “gurus”). Cont...
@ronifouks Thank you for being awakened and working towards truth and the way of God ( the Tao ☯️) I really appreciate your support and content. I subscribed and will support your channel, for it serves a great purpose in not only the gender dynamics but with other great issues and observations. I have a few things I would like to say and some questions. Do you read and reply emails? I would like to reach out. Thank you have a great weekend and blessings to you and family. peace harmony and great respect to you for your work
One of my sons bailed out of high school as a result of being continually put down, being male. Granted, he had special needs, I could not understand their 2nd year algebra book, and I have 4 degrees, probably 12 college level math courses and twice that many physics/engineering courses. Yeah, my son couldn't tolerate the barrage of negativity. The school actually wanted him to drop out to improve their overall test scores(!) That's the last school bond issue I ever approve! Teacher's focus on their union had a lot to do with it.
I often make comments on youtube videos dealing with the crisis in masculinity, modern relationships, red pill etc, simply listing some of the (female!) commentators and researchers who have explained how bad the situation is now for men. Karen Straughan, Janice Fiamengo, Diana Davison, Bettina, PrimReaper, Nicola Graham Kevan on domestic violence and so on. Mostly, these comments simply disappear without a trace.
Yes, YT censorship has gone unreal, u-n--r-e-a-l. Not to mention the heavy self-censoring that's already going on. And yes, Karen Straughan is unbelievable, her insights are spot on and profound. She should be taught in schools these days. I'll make sure to check the names I do not know. Cheers
Whether your religious or not, I've found that so many of the issues around Radical Feminism, Queer Theory, CRT, etc. boil down to the seven deadly sins. Most often envy and wrath, but with liberal dosing of gluttony, lust, sloth, greed and unironically pride.
The cardinal sins aren't just a religious ban-list. They all are tendanties that all humans naturally gravitate towards. It a warning against destructive habbits, toxic thoughts and dangerous emotions.
I asked my dad how he deals with sexlessness because I'm terrified of being in that situation if I ever get married. Like the way I see it, it's a physical NEED and it destroys your mind if you don't get it. He he said that my wife will be the mother of our children, and therefore you need to simply just accept it, no matter how agonizing it'd be. He said that he reminds himself with the fact that he does not want to ever hurt me and my brother with divorce. So he'd rather just accept the agony and suffer for his wife and kids 🥲
I am falling into the same trap. I don't want to hurt my son with a broken marriage and all the trauma that entails, but at the same time, I know that I am not modelling what a healthy man and relationship should look like either by not moving on. I wonder if he'd say he'd rather see me happy, but... I would also like for him to be happy. I suppose at some point he'll see right through all the pretense. It feels like one is stuck between a sword and a hard place.
@@RickSanchez1520My advice would be to remain committed to your family and get your needs met elsewhere. Don't deceive and don't apologise. Your partner has zero right to monopolize what she doesn't want. Here's a pro tip that might surprise. Being in a committed relationship makes you MORE attractive to other women, not less. Good luck and enjoy!
This is what most men do, I know I did. Sadly for families women are congratulated for breaking up their families to pursue their happiness, even when they admit they left a “good man”. Society and social media encourage them too. Until things change I’d have to advise you to not marry, no matter how different you think a gf might be. She. Will. Change. Once she gets the ring.
😄 Story of my married life after my kids were born. And so is with all my male married friends with kids. And right your father is, as a men you just swallow it. You internalized it and find ways to make peace with it, and pull yourself up to keep a positive nurturing environment for the family. For the kids. But you know, while I chose the route of being faithful, I do regret it now. As someone suggested above, if you are abandoned sexually and physically, then you're in some right to seek that natural need somewhere else. But that brings other kind of troubles too on the long run. As I've seen with my only friend that took that route. Anyhoo, enjoy your 20s and 30s (pre-children) sexual life, and prepare yourself for the years of desert wandering 😅 Sorry
Our local county building department is run my feminist and gay women. We used to have a vibrant multigenerational construction industry here in the valley. But the women decided that since they couldn’t survive working in construction as building contractors they could excel at the trades by controlling the permitting . Within a decade the industry was reduced to begging for government contracts. The gals in the office just used their computers to copy&paste endless questions and rejections. My 5 page Planset for a 264sf ADU ended up becoming 47 pages with 150 interrogatories …most didn’t even apply to the project. Finally the State of California has had enough and is demanding that the women allow men to work building homes again.
Recent reports indicate that modern colleges, in general, offer 1800% more scholarships, grants and subsidies to woman than men. People and companies feel much better about contributing money for the betterment and progression of women than they do any man.
Affairs and cheating. Men should not cheat, but the only cheating is in lies and deception. Men should not allow their partner to monopolise what she doesn't want. Absolutely he should remain committed to his family and his partner should be happy to outsource the sex. And here's a secret that women will not disclose. Men in a committed relationship are MORE attractive to them, not less so
In school, the girls mostly did not punch each other like the boys did punch each other. My wife was sometimes enraged enough that she could ignore the fact that she could not win a fight with a man. I do not believe that female domestic violence. It is common as male domestic violence, because the females don’t get the same results. A woman may be better off, trying to hurt a man emotionally if she fails the need to hurt him because the woman is not going to win a physical fight with a man. As a baby sitter for toddler girls I realized that male me was allowing the girls to climb trees where as some of the women were discouraging the girls from climbing trees. I might dominate a conversation without noticing that women are allowing me to dominate a conversation.
The topic is misandry, and the word is never spoken. Everyone knows what misogyny is - except that accusation is bandied around without merit very often. If an action, or prejudice, diminishes anyone it is misanthropic. Let's be humanist. Stop gender discrimination against both sexes.
I I decide to get an australian shepard or a Husky I know that I have to walk that dog at least twice a day, that I have to play with it, power it out every day because they need that to stay healthy and to have a good relationship with me. Many dogs lose interest of their owners if they never do exiting things with them. If I decide to be in a long term relationship with a woman I know I have to work hard to afford a nice lifestyle, I have to give up a lot of decision making in my home (decoration, what to eat, how to spend free time,...there is a reason women make 80% of the consumer decisions) and I always have to be there for her if she needs emotional support no matter if I am tired from work or tired of hearing that story the 5. time. That is just my duty! Modern feminism fights the concept of reciprocity in relationships and promotes a concept of disrespect and exploitation of the man. That can't work, it's just not a recipe for a healthy relationship. You're not really connected, you're still alone. It's how a psychopath would look at a relationship.
minute 55:30, how women are not affraid of the consequeces? What's he going to do? divorce her? how do men end up in divorce? how do women end up in divorce? who actually did not fulfill their roll in the relationship? who ends up loosing or paying the other when divorce happens? whom ever normally comes up on top in divorce is the one who cares less if marriage works because still gets something (sometimes more) when divorce happens if you can answer all those questions, you will know why women are not terrified doing those things
It’s suppose to be “believe the victim”, not “believe the woman”. Unfortunately, due to the stats continually saying men are the main perpetrators of violence, it’s become “believe the woman”. . If police are called to an actual domestic dispute, they are required to give out mandatory charges. The first time police were called was just before our divorce negotiations were about to begin. She lied to the police about what happened. I was charged with common assault. I tried explaining the up coming divorce to the police. They didn’t care. I got through it and won 50/50 split custody in the divorce. This was in 2018. In 2022, I showed up to her place one day and asked her to come outside to talk. I was wanting to set some boundaries with her. She started screaming at me in front of the kids. Istarted giving her crap for it. It was a heated exchange. She called the police. I left and went home. When the police got there, she told them I stormed into her place and started shoving her while uttering threats. I was charged with Breaking and Entering and Assault. I was utterly shocked. Once again, I had no voice in it. I was stuck with the charges. I lost friends. Some family members😮 distanced themselves from me. In the end, the prosecutor said if I plead guilty to Being Unlawfully Present, he would drop the assault charge since I have no criminal record. I got one year probation with no criminal record in the end. The thing is they didn’t have enough to hold up at trial. Only enough to get a plea deal. If I didn’t accept the plea deal, my lawyer told me I’d be arrested again once the charges are thrown out with no verdict at trial. This time, I’d be arrested for mischief and assault with no plea forthcoming. I felt totally coerced into taking the plea deal.
This was a great podcast, I managed to listen to the whole thing !!! Some supportive and constructive criticism would be: I think it would’ve helped Roni to have researched Bettina and her work more thoroughly. I think Roni should’ve spent less time sharing her own perspectives because the thoughts and ideas she articulated were very basic and generalised. She didn’t say anything I haven’t already heard. Which isn’t to say Roni doesn’t have value to add. Where as Bettina shared story after case study of details and events that pertain to men’s issues that no one is talking about. Bettina is a gold mine of facts and stories that relate to mens issues. If Roni did more thorough research on Bettina she could’ve directed the conversation to prompt much more information and experiences out of Bettina resulting in an even more informative and power packed podcast. Roni’s Value to the podcast would’ve been getting more stories and experiences out of Bettina that no one else is really experienced enough to share.
Dropping behind in school. I had a bad case of dyslexia and an emotionally unstable home life so I flunked 1st grade. Years later my home life was still trouble and I was a high school drop out cleaning theaters at night but I still scored better than 96% of SAT test takers. I grew up with smart peers in a smart town and probably got good intelligence DNA because my science rock star dad and my mom’s dad were both successful MIT grads but they were not so smart in social skills. Men are people too even if we pretend to be stronger than people until our pretending fails. My wife was the child abuse victim and had a very bad temper, and was sometimes physically abusive to me, and could not hurt me because her fist was too small. She was violent one night and then called the police on me because I pushed her in self defense. I went outside and waited for the police and managed the police. My wife hated that she did not get me in trouble when she called the police. When the judge in a run stop sign case where the stop sign was hidden by bushes allowed me to speak for my wife who had frozen up in fear of authority my wife was happy that I could get the police to back away from their running the hidden stop sign violation. My sister let a females stockbroker talk her into buying Alberson’s stock when she wanted to buy whole foods. Whole foods was a good stock pick at that time. My sister lacks something in assertiveness ability that I do not lack. It may not be good to be male in a modern elementary school but grown males still seem to find it easier to be assertive than women do.
Listening to it made me happier about living in Russia since we don't have all that cancer. However, we are probably getting there too, but we're simply behind the west in that department, which is good for once
Reading Bettina Arndt's THE Sex Diaries a couple of years back in college has toned down my expectation of married sex life . Anyway , Great listen And the host is really beautiful, too bad she is married Kudos !
I haven't seen any of this particular lady's videos in a long time. Somehow, this video showed up, and I remembered her. She was funny, and her sisters were entertaining when in her videos as well. She left us too soon.
Hola muchas gracias por el video. Solo un comentario acerca de ''Cuando la mujer es rechazada sexualmente por su marido'' y esta se siente muy mal siente que no es atractiva que no es bonita y que esta situacion provoca sufrimiento e inseguridad para las mujeres.... bueno FYI ES EXACTAMENTE LO MISMO QUE SIENTE EL HOMBRE AL SER RECHAZADO. Entiendo que ustedes sientan que esto afecta mas a la mujer que al hombre por el hecho de que ambas son mujeres sinembargo esta situacion de rechazo afecta por igual a los dos (creo yo). saludos gracias
My wife could hurt me with a weapon but she mostly used her fists which only hurt her hands without hurting my skull. I have been punched by a man and that was completely different that being punched by my wife. Men made me see stars when they punched me. I could stay safe and calm while my wife was screaming at me and punching me. Being punched by a man was too serious and required self defense.
I often wonder what it would be like to feel desired. I’ve never felt that. W0men need men but they don’t desire them. While men desire w0men without needing them.
I have to watch this type of content in secret. I'm a man around a woke idealistic community. I learned not to talk about it to avoid backlash and reputation destruction.
Wow! Great job!! Don't judge DV Defendants based on their sex. Someone needs to say it even loud and proud! The system is rigged against men. Thank you, sisters for a great episode. Atticus, Esq.
Consider the possibility that much of this is due to the fact that men are simply and quite literally worth "less", priced in the ultimate universal currency of time, due to the fact that it takes approximately 1/300th the time to procreate their genome
All men and women need to do in my opinion is follow the bible and Gods will. Women were created from one of mans ribs so we men wouldn't be lonely and to bear children. Yet many women today will not stay in a family. I dont think we should create families if we dont want them. Perhaps part of it is the womens changing minds over a lifetime. My sons mother left me randomly out of the blue one day after 5yrs together and a son. It crushed me yet didnt seem to phase her a bit. However she was under another man within a month and I am still alone many yrs later. The worst part was it hurt my son the most as we were close b4 she left and held him from me for a yr. I finally hired a lawyer and took her to court for visitation rights. My mother also left my father when I was just 7. I dont think women realize the damage thats done to kids when they run through men. Funfact mom says she left dad cause he was tight with his money. She died alone and broke. Dad was married again and wealthy when he passed. She also had her own beauty shop yet dad worked for the gas company for 35yrs straight! Now after being alone for years I worry for my son going through this same nonsense and he is 19 with his first girlfriend. Loniliness is on the rise so what were doing has failed for society especially average men. I read an article that said 47% of the US population are now lonely and its even shrinking lives due to poor health from loneliness and lack of sex or touch. 🙏
As a man and as a clinical psychologist I am quite appalled by this conversation. It's almost as if I hear Peterson talk, so I cut it off halfway through.
If you could tell us your license number and the area where you practice, you could help a lot of men by allowing them to steer clear of you at all costs. Sure, income-wise, it would be a drop in the ocean for you, but in a humane sense, oh boy, you would be a godsend.
I guess you missed half the story. A mature therapy stance would surely be to hear it out and assess the whole. To see it as good breast bad breast is stuck in a rather early developmental phase don’t you think? They aren’t even vaguely espousing the same ideas as Peterson. It must be great for you going into your therapy sessions knowing how you are going to judge everyone in advance. You don’t even have to hear what they are saying, certainly not all of it- just enough to comfortably pigeonhole them and smugly stroke your confirmation bias. I know Bettina Arndt’s views have been marginalised. It’s so much easier not to listen, just bleat with the herd and nobody will criticise your virtue signaling. “I am a good person- here’s my evidence .” While the MAGA mob misuse the term terribly I think you might be the genuine article. Try synthesising the “good” and “bad” parts of this video- it’s the developmentally mature thing to do. You might find some value in listening even if it discomforts your prejudices.
The biggest issue with the women are superior movement is that by forcing men not be men to make way for women is that it ends up hurting women more in the end.
This is the problem with heavy-handed social justice in all its forms. When we single out one ethnicity or gender or other social group and give it artificial (unearned) privileged status, it always ends up backfiring and dragging down standards for society as a whole, and that tends to impact those particular groups even more than other people.
Feminism doesn't say women are superior. That's a strawman
@@phi4721whatever lies you need to tell yourself. I mean they just talked for an hour about how feminism does exactly that but I guess you can’t wake someone only pretending to be asleep.
What is an endless source of amusement to me is the narrative that w0men are at once superior, while also being perpetual victims. You see it in every Hollywood movie. And as unbelievable as it is, people internalize ideas like this without any critical thought.
@@phi4721if only you were right.
Those who say that men do not appreciate intelligent women are surely not referring to the type of intelligent women that you represent, we like you without arrogance or misplaced pride, thank you for your humility in your openness to others
A friend has an answer for that, women always try to tke advantage on men all the time, thats what they call intelligence, and they think we dont like intelligent women
they consider themselves intelligent or smart whem they can take advantage of a man, and think we dont like them because they are smart
hope is clear
Feminism is a hate movement, not only of males but also of young women who are successful. Such hate is born of jealousy.
Commies R jeloys. Loserz
Facts
Strawman
@@phi4721straw man = facts I don’t like
Straw man = facts I don’t like
Thank you for bringing this issue to light. What’s so frustrating is that we have been talking about it for 20 years and NOTHING changes. Men & women in leadership lack empathy or are intimidated by the feminist bullying. What will it take for people in leadership to get a backbone
ask our corporate overlords
On the contrary, I'd say a lot has changed the last 20 years, though if you meant that concerning the topics in the video these changes were not much of an improvement I'd agree.
Thank you for your support ❤ we need more women talking about men's issues
Exactly. It takes women to rebuild a bridge that other women burned 60 years ago. The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of every animal species, including our own. In women's hands, more than men's, lies the destiny of humanity.
My best friend's ex-wife is a multi-millionaire while he is working class. Yet she was able to convince a judge that he needed to pay 100% of child support costs, including through his son's university.
Female judge?
Millionaire women don't date working class men unless they are overweight or extremely unattractive. Which one is it?
@@josecolon3185depends on what kind of working class. Could be an attractive CS guy who's making 200k a year, with a stock package that'd make him a deca millionaire in 5/6 years
My God...
Better money gets better lawyers.
Women can have sex and not worry about being forced to support a child. Men can't. Discrimination based on sex is illegal. This is a Human Rights issue. Men's Rights matter.
Women are the ones having the baby right, so surely it's true that the big event of child birth forces the woman into supporting a child?
Have you heard of motherhood?
"Discrimination based on sex is illegal."
Not really and I'm not in favor of it either. Why not have girlscouts and boyscouts groups? The only way to get those is by sex discrimination on who you are letting in which group.
During the pandemic I went looking for men's counselling service in my region as lockdowns drove up depression levels. I discovered that there were plenty of women's counselling programs, shelters, etc., but not a single program devoted to helping men. In feminist terms, men do not matter.
Women are driven insane by their therapists. You dodged a bullet, though it sounds as if it wasn't due to good management. If you are seriously mentally ill, verge of suicide or other disorders, seek out real help. Otherwise there is no way on earth I would go to counseling.
Nice to see Bettina is still doing great.
Some time ago I encountered a young woman, just out of PhD program in History, whose speciality is similar to mine. She mentioned that she had declined job offers because she didn't want to relocate. I wondered why she was applying for positions in places she didn't want to live, when I realized that they had likely come looking for her.
I completed my PhD 20 years ago, and it's rare to even get an interview, in most cases my application goes ignored and I don't even get a formal rejection. She doesn't have nearly my teaching experience, she's not as accomplished in the foreign language we both used to research our dissertations, yet I get no attention and she receives unsolicited offers from universities.
Arndt is a beacon of hope and so courageous, thanks for bringing her on! Differences in sexual desires is often overlooked, and to see it from a standpoint of the partner, and the entire relationship health, is important.
I had a very close friend who went through a marriage breakup. At the custody hearing for the daughter, he came prepared with evidence, affidavids, all sorts of documented evidence to show how he was a very reasonable father and making a strong case for joint custody. The (female) judge systematically dismissed or rejected each piece of evidence and simply decided to believe the ex-wife's side that was all only oral. No evidence. No documents. She got full custody. This is unbelievable to me - this is some kind of justice?
The West has fallen. It will take a miracle to bring it back.
As a man who has a mother, wife, and daughter I completely agree with protecting women from violent men. Only one problem, taking away a non violent man’s rights is going to turn him into the violent man women are going to need to be protected from. One way to stop violence is to stop engaging in things that turn men violent. You don’t blame the tiger for attacking a human who attacked him first do we?
So you are saying it is ok for a man to beat a woman senseless, that she had it coming, because of a perceived disparity in equal rights of what? A divorce situation? A stalking situation? Rights to children visitation? Custody. I mean, do you even hear yourself?
Men that are violent are violent due to a choice. It is no different than if a woman chooses to be violent. Except you hear women making a lot less excuses to justify hurting someone due to legal bias.
Something to think about regarding suicide, and it doesn't matter which gender; for every person who goes through with it, there's several others who feel that miserable, but can't or won't for whatever reason. Despair is the real issue here.
Excellent episode.
I've always had great respect for Bettina, I believe it was from her that I first heard the term "maintenance sex," which sounds like a gimmick some guy invented, but it's actually an ingenious concept. Because, you are right, when you see a couple, and you can tell the intimacy is gone from their relationship, and it is incredibly sad. To neglect something as profound and powerful as human intimacy is tragic. It is the tie that binds on a deep, almost unspoken level.
I absolutely love reading your comments 🙏🏻♥️
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PATRIARCHY:
PATRIARCHY is defined as a system of society or government in which the father or eldest male is head of the family, and familial descent is traced through the male ancestral line. In recent times, due to the objectively-immoral, wicked, evil, demonic feminist movement, it is usually defined more harshly, as a “system of society or government in which men in general hold the power, and women are largely excluded from it”.
As clearly and soundly demonstrated in more than one chapter of “F.I.S.H”, men and women have quite distinct duties and responsibilities within human society. Adult males naturally fall into one of the four social classes (that is, priests, monarchs, business/land owners, and workers), whilst females are meant to serve their superiors as daughters (in the case of girls) and wives (in the case of women), by performing household chores and raising children. Of course, a large proportion of the population no longer adheres to this gender role dichotomy, particularly in the Western countries, and the chances are, if you have read this far into this Holiest Scripture of All, you are not among them.
Radical feminists (of both sexes) invariably become noticeably upset, and sometimes aggressively violent, when they are confronted with even any mention of patriarchal ideology in public dialogue, as they wrongly believe that women should have an equal role in the governance of families and in the ruling bodies of society (and often that women ought to rule nations, as in a matriarchy, since they incorrectly assume that women are less war-mongering than men). Such militant feminists and social constructionists have surmised that gender roles and gender inequity are instruments of power, and that they have become social norms to maintain control over women. Of course, power dynamics do exist in society, and provided that power is exerted according to the ethos of dharma (the law, and societal rules), it is not at all a caustic thing.
Constructionists would contend that sociobiological arguments serve to justify the oppression of women. And, by “oppression”, they are, in actual fact, referring to the reality that men have largely PROTECTED their womenfolk throughout human history, and in a huge number of cases, practically worship the opposite sex (see the Glossary entry “gynocentrism” regarding this ugly phenomenon). When you peruse social media websites on the Internet, do you generally see men belittling and scolding women, or rather, are they desperately pursuing them?
OBVIOUSLY, throughout human history, some men have harmed some women, just as many women have harmed men - that has absolutely naught to do with patriarchy, but solely with sin and lawlessness. Most all Western countries are now matriarchal, in the sense that women have total and utter power over their menfolk, even if that power is enforced by other (so-called) males. This last quip ought not be construed to imply that criminal males should not be held accountable for their crimes, but that, in many (if not most) cases of suspected wrongdoing, the accused man is not only innocent of any transgressions but is, rather, the victim. If a man has abused a woman, he ought to be castigated by his legitimate authority, not by the minions of any corrupt state/government. Personally, I have been jailed twice for being the casualty of physical assault and verbal insults by women making blatantly false allegations against me, a very skinny, old monastic priest (and honestly consider myself to be immensely gentle, loving and kind), including the heinous crime of rape, despite the fact that I have not once fornicated.
Therefore, the fact that you, the reader of this Holiest Book of All, are alive and well, is due largely to the institution of PATRIARCHY, which has protected your ancestral lineage from those barbarians who have not adhered to dharma (holy and righteous norms, based on non-violence) and if you insist that patriarchy is intrinsically harmful, you are being blatantly hypocritical, and unwittingly invoking your very own demise!
PATRIARCHY is the only system that is normal, natural, and necessary. It is normal, natural, and necessary for a father to take charge of his nuclear family, for a grandfather to take control of his extended family, for a chief to assert authority over his clan, all the way up to a true monarch, who is considered to be the father of his people, and finally to a (genuine) priest/prophet (see Ch. 20), who is father of his nation.
It is impossible for the typical woman to property execute the role of family/clan/national head, and even if a female was found who could competently lead her family, tribe, clan, or village, there will always be a male who could have fulfilled that role to an even more competent degree, unless, of course, the male population has been decimated by the ravages of war or disease, for example. Many rules have exceptions.
PATRIARCHY - AN ANECDOTE:
In order to provide just a single example of how the notion of patriarchy is grossly misunderstood by the vast majority of humans, especially in the liberal West, I will refer to a videographed monologue, entitled “RAPE and Patriarchal culture” (his own capitalization), published on an Internet website called “TH-cam”, by a Zambian chap of European descent who goes by the fake name “Swami Rahasya”. Judging by the fact that he is male (albeit, a truly pathetic “White Knight” beta-male) and that he uses the title “Swami” (which is almost invariably the title of a monastic spiritual master), one could be forgiven for assuming that he is in support of all dharmic concepts, including patriarchy. However, that is the opposite to the truth, since he brazenly and wrongly asserts that “Rape is pretty much the basis of patriarchy. In fact, it may be the core power of patriarchy”. Of course, he conveniently ignores the fact that a large proportion of sexual assaults are perpetrated by women.
Anecdotally, I, the quintessential alpha-male patriarch, have never sexually assaulted a solitary woman (though I have been falsely accused of such by at least one or two filthy fat Filipino females), yet I have been the victim of several rape attempts by oversexed women during my lengthy stay in the Philippines. Before watching the video in question, I had never heard such incredibly ludicrous assertions outside the far-left community (usually spouted by filthy fat feminist females sporting neon-coloured hairstyles). It is possible that Rahasya’s poisonous, gynocentric viewpoint may be caused by his drug-taking habit (since, in all his Internet videos, he is seen chain-smoking what appears to be toxic tobacco cigarettes), coupled with a severe testosterone deficiency. Hence one ought to be cautious when attributing malicious intent.
In another video on his TH-cam channel, entitled “The End of Patriarchy”, the self-styled “tantra master”, erroneously asserts that there was a time when humanity was matriarchal, and where the female leaders used men solely as tools for propagating the species! I can only assume that he was confusing B-grade science fiction movies of the 1960s with confirmed historical evidence (of which there is none, since any society that is truly matriarchal cannot survive for more than a short period of time, for reasons that ought be obvious after perusing this entire book).
Also, this so-called “renounced monk” (“Swami” is the common mistransliteration of “Svāmī ”, a Sanskrit title for a mendicant monastic priest) claims that patriarchy is in decline but this can never be the case, in the sense that the collapse of the patriarchy is equivalent to the complete destruction of human society. The only scenario in which society will not be decimated with the end of patriarchy, is if male testosterone levels continues to decline, if public education institutions continue their Marxist indoctrination programmes, and if food producers continue to contaminate food sources with chemicals and hormones that wrecks the cognitive capacity of the male (as well as female) population. This is because, the more males are emasculated by the above pernicious agendas, the more likely they are to willingly accede power to women.
Practically the only sensible thing said in “Swami” Rahasya’s inane videos, is the assertion that the chief alpha-male (by which he obviously means a king) ought to lead his army into battle, rather than sitting on his throne, protected in his castle. Frankly, I doubt that the “Swami” even knows the actual definition of the term “alpha-male”. I asked him in the comment section of one of the aforementioned videos, but he has yet to respond to my very simple question (which is unsurprising, because he repeatedly refused to answer my even more simple question, “Are you VEGAN?”, most probably due to being an animal-abusing carnist, like the vast majority of humanity, including so-called “gurus”).
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@ronifouks Thank you for being awakened and working towards truth and the way of God ( the Tao ☯️)
I really appreciate your support and content. I subscribed and will support your channel, for it serves a great purpose in not only the gender dynamics but with other great issues and observations.
I have a few things I would like to say and some questions. Do you read and reply emails? I would like to reach out.
Thank you have a great weekend and blessings to you and family. peace harmony and great respect to you for your work
That term alone makes me want out
One of my sons bailed out of high school as a result of being continually put down, being male. Granted, he had special needs, I could not understand their 2nd year algebra book, and I have 4 degrees, probably 12 college level math courses and twice that many physics/engineering courses. Yeah, my son couldn't tolerate the barrage of negativity. The school actually wanted him to drop out to improve their overall test scores(!) That's the last school bond issue I ever approve! Teacher's focus on their union had a lot to do with it.
PS my son had his GED within a month of leaving....
Amazing!! Sometimes that's the best way.
I often make comments on youtube videos dealing with the crisis in masculinity, modern relationships, red pill etc, simply listing some of the (female!) commentators and researchers who have explained how bad the situation is now for men. Karen Straughan, Janice Fiamengo, Diana Davison, Bettina, PrimReaper, Nicola Graham Kevan on domestic violence and so on. Mostly, these comments simply disappear without a trace.
Yes, YT censorship has gone unreal, u-n--r-e-a-l. Not to mention the heavy self-censoring that's already going on. And yes, Karen Straughan is unbelievable, her insights are spot on and profound. She should be taught in schools these days. I'll make sure to check the names I do not know. Cheers
You are very much heard and validated in this instance. 100 percent. So- feel a little less crazy. I understand and share your experience
Whether your religious or not, I've found that so many of the issues around Radical Feminism, Queer Theory, CRT, etc. boil down to the seven deadly sins. Most often envy and wrath, but with liberal dosing of gluttony, lust, sloth, greed and unironically pride.
The cardinal sins aren't just a religious ban-list. They all are tendanties that all humans naturally gravitate towards. It a warning against destructive habbits, toxic thoughts and dangerous emotions.
They are tools to enforce communism.
Great episode. I just want to say thank you for having this conversation.
Children are not just the greatest joy in a woman’s life. My daughter as a father has always been my greatest joy also.
I asked my dad how he deals with sexlessness because I'm terrified of being in that situation if I ever get married. Like the way I see it, it's a physical NEED and it destroys your mind if you don't get it.
He he said that my wife will be the mother of our children, and therefore you need to simply just accept it, no matter how agonizing it'd be. He said that he reminds himself with the fact that he does not want to ever hurt me and my brother with divorce. So he'd rather just accept the agony and suffer for his wife and kids 🥲
I am falling into the same trap. I don't want to hurt my son with a broken marriage and all the trauma that entails, but at the same time, I know that I am not modelling what a healthy man and relationship should look like either by not moving on. I wonder if he'd say he'd rather see me happy, but... I would also like for him to be happy. I suppose at some point he'll see right through all the pretense. It feels like one is stuck between a sword and a hard place.
@@RickSanchez1520My advice would be to remain committed to your family and get your needs met elsewhere. Don't deceive and don't apologise. Your partner has zero right to monopolize what she doesn't want. Here's a pro tip that might surprise. Being in a committed relationship makes you MORE attractive to other women, not less. Good luck and enjoy!
This is what most men do, I know I did. Sadly for families women are congratulated for breaking up their families to pursue their happiness, even when they admit they left a “good man”.
Society and social media encourage them too. Until things change I’d have to advise you to not marry, no matter how different you think a gf might be.
She. Will. Change. Once she gets the ring.
😄 Story of my married life after my kids were born. And so is with all my male married friends with kids. And right your father is, as a men you just swallow it. You internalized it and find ways to make peace with it, and pull yourself up to keep a positive nurturing environment for the family. For the kids.
But you know, while I chose the route of being faithful, I do regret it now. As someone suggested above, if you are abandoned sexually and physically, then you're in some right to seek that natural need somewhere else. But that brings other kind of troubles too on the long run. As I've seen with my only friend that took that route. Anyhoo, enjoy your 20s and 30s (pre-children) sexual life, and prepare yourself for the years of desert wandering 😅 Sorry
@@jonthomas9708My thoughts exactly
Our local county building department is run my feminist and gay women. We used to have a vibrant multigenerational construction industry here in the valley. But the women decided that since they couldn’t survive working in construction as building contractors they could excel at the trades by controlling the permitting .
Within a decade the industry was reduced to begging for government contracts. The gals in the office just used their computers to copy&paste endless questions and rejections. My 5 page Planset for a 264sf ADU ended up becoming 47 pages with 150 interrogatories …most didn’t even apply to the project.
Finally the State of California has had enough and is demanding that the women allow men to work building homes again.
Recent reports indicate that modern colleges, in general, offer 1800% more scholarships, grants and subsidies to woman than men. People and companies feel much better about contributing money for the betterment and progression of women than they do any man.
IT'S TIME FOR MEN'S RIGHTS
Thank you for this
Affairs and cheating. Men should not cheat, but the only cheating is in lies and deception. Men should not allow their partner to monopolise what she doesn't want. Absolutely he should remain committed to his family and his partner should be happy to outsource the sex.
And here's a secret that women will not disclose. Men in a committed relationship are MORE attractive to them, not less so
I think you have great topics and ideas. I love to hear a different perspective.
The real Queen B, bringing light to these issues that society is all too happy to ignore.
Complaining about the way men sit is the most ridiculous BS complaint I have ever heard
Great and insightful commentary
In school, the girls mostly did not punch each other like the boys did punch each other.
My wife was sometimes enraged enough that she could ignore the fact that she could not win a fight with a man.
I do not believe that female domestic violence. It is common as male domestic violence, because the females don’t get the same results. A woman may be better off, trying to hurt a man emotionally if she fails the need to hurt him because the woman is not going to win a physical fight with a man.
As a baby sitter for toddler girls I realized that male me was allowing the girls to climb trees where as some of the women were discouraging the girls from climbing trees.
I might dominate a conversation without noticing that women are allowing me to dominate a conversation.
Is it maybe better to have boys only schools from 1st grade to 6th grade which caters more adequately??
The topic is misandry, and the word is never spoken. Everyone knows what misogyny is - except that accusation is bandied around without merit very often. If an action, or prejudice, diminishes anyone it is misanthropic. Let's be humanist. Stop gender discrimination against both sexes.
I I decide to get an australian shepard or a Husky I know that I have to walk that dog at least twice a day, that I have to play with it, power it out every day because they need that to stay healthy and to have a good relationship with me. Many dogs lose interest of their owners if they never do exiting things with them.
If I decide to be in a long term relationship with a woman I know I have to work hard to afford a nice lifestyle, I have to give up a lot of decision making in my home (decoration, what to eat, how to spend free time,...there is a reason women make 80% of the consumer decisions) and I always have to be there for her if she needs emotional support no matter if I am tired from work or tired of hearing that story the 5. time. That is just my duty!
Modern feminism fights the concept of reciprocity in relationships and promotes a concept of disrespect and exploitation of the man. That can't work, it's just not a recipe for a healthy relationship. You're not really connected, you're still alone. It's how a psychopath would look at a relationship.
Next level comment. Some very high thinking here.
Thank you ladies👌
Just open any social media. it's an enviroment of hate of people that don't understand that hate brings more hate.
minute 55:30, how women are not affraid of the consequeces?
What's he going to do?
divorce her?
how do men end up in divorce?
how do women end up in divorce?
who actually did not fulfill their roll in the relationship?
who ends up loosing or paying the other when divorce happens?
whom ever normally comes up on top in divorce is the one who cares less if marriage works
because still gets something (sometimes more) when divorce happens
if you can answer all those questions, you will know why women are not terrified doing those things
It’s suppose to be “believe the victim”, not “believe the woman”. Unfortunately, due to the stats continually saying men are the main perpetrators of violence, it’s become “believe the woman”. . If police are called to an actual domestic dispute, they are required to give out mandatory charges. The first time police were called was just before our divorce negotiations were about to begin. She lied to the police about what happened. I was charged with common assault. I tried explaining the up coming divorce to the police. They didn’t care. I got through it and won 50/50 split custody in the divorce. This was in 2018. In 2022, I showed up to her place one day and asked her to come outside to talk. I was wanting to set some boundaries with her. She started screaming at me in front of the kids. Istarted giving her crap for it. It was a heated exchange. She called the police. I left and went home. When the police got there, she told them I stormed into her place and started shoving her while uttering threats. I was charged with Breaking and Entering and Assault. I was utterly shocked. Once again, I had no voice in it. I was stuck with the charges. I lost friends. Some family members😮 distanced themselves from me. In the end, the prosecutor said if I plead guilty to Being Unlawfully Present, he would drop the assault charge since I have no criminal record. I got one year probation with no criminal record in the end. The thing is they didn’t have enough to hold up at trial. Only enough to get a plea deal. If I didn’t accept the plea deal, my lawyer told me I’d be arrested again once the charges are thrown out with no verdict at trial. This time, I’d be arrested for mischief and assault with no plea forthcoming. I felt totally coerced into taking the plea deal.
Men want to feel wanted and desired sexually also
This was a great podcast, I managed to listen to the whole thing !!! Some supportive and constructive criticism would be:
I think it would’ve helped Roni to have researched Bettina and her work more thoroughly. I think Roni should’ve spent less time sharing her own perspectives because the thoughts and ideas she articulated were very basic and generalised. She didn’t say anything I haven’t already heard. Which isn’t to say Roni doesn’t have value to add. Where as Bettina shared story after case study of details and events that pertain to men’s issues that no one is talking about. Bettina is a gold mine of facts and stories that relate to mens issues. If Roni did more thorough research on Bettina she could’ve directed the conversation to prompt much more information and experiences out of Bettina resulting in an even more informative and power packed podcast. Roni’s Value to the podcast would’ve been getting more stories and experiences out of Bettina that no one else is really experienced enough to share.
Dropping behind in school.
I had a bad case of dyslexia and an emotionally unstable home life so I flunked 1st grade.
Years later my home life was still trouble and I was a high school drop out cleaning theaters at night but I still scored better than 96% of SAT test takers. I grew up with smart peers in a smart town and probably got good intelligence DNA because my science rock star dad and my mom’s dad were both successful MIT grads but they were not so smart in social skills.
Men are people too even if we pretend to be stronger than people until our pretending fails.
My wife was the child abuse victim and had a very bad temper, and was sometimes physically abusive to me, and could not hurt me because her fist was too small. She was violent one night and then called the police on me because I pushed her in self defense. I went outside and waited for the police and managed the police. My wife hated that she did not get me in trouble when she called the police. When the judge in a run stop sign case where the stop sign was hidden by bushes allowed me to speak for my wife who had frozen up in fear of authority my wife was happy that I could get the police to back away from their running the hidden stop sign violation.
My sister let a females stockbroker talk her into buying Alberson’s stock when she wanted to buy whole foods. Whole foods was a good stock pick at that time. My sister lacks something in assertiveness ability that I do not lack. It may not be good to be male in a modern elementary school but grown males still seem to find it easier to be assertive than women do.
Listening to it made me happier about living in Russia since we don't have all that cancer. However, we are probably getting there too, but we're simply behind the west in that department, which is good for once
I see Tina, I press "SUBSCRIBE".
Simp
@@poligon333
Kindly repeat that in ENGLISH, Miss.☝️
Incidentally, Slave, are you VEGAN? 🌱
Brotha simp ahh comment
I think it is telling how few views this video has. The stigma of mental health is exponentially worse for men.
Roni, are you by any chance related to Andrew Gold in any way?
Reading Bettina Arndt's THE Sex Diaries a couple of years back in college has toned down my expectation of married sex life . Anyway , Great listen
And the host is really beautiful, too bad she is married
Kudos !
I haven't seen any of this particular lady's videos in a long time. Somehow, this video showed up, and I remembered her. She was funny, and her sisters were entertaining when in her videos as well. She left us too soon.
Most wmn know nothing about a man's struggles and challenges in life and they don't even care, cuz their life is on easy mode and it's sbout me me me
Social engineering. It's deliberate. Pacify men and slow population growth while creating more worker bees that spend more $$
Interesting
Hola muchas gracias por el video. Solo un comentario acerca de ''Cuando la mujer es rechazada sexualmente por su marido'' y esta se siente muy mal siente que no es atractiva que no es bonita y que esta situacion provoca sufrimiento e inseguridad para las mujeres.... bueno
FYI
ES EXACTAMENTE LO MISMO QUE SIENTE EL HOMBRE AL SER RECHAZADO.
Entiendo que ustedes sientan que esto afecta mas a la mujer que al hombre por el hecho de que ambas son mujeres sinembargo esta situacion de rechazo afecta por igual a los dos (creo yo).
saludos
gracias
Muslims got it right regarding gender dynamics than us western man.
My wife could hurt me with a weapon but she mostly used her fists which only hurt her hands without hurting my skull.
I have been punched by a man and that was completely different that being punched by my wife. Men made me see stars when they punched me. I could stay safe and calm while my wife was screaming at me and punching me. Being punched by a man was too serious and required self defense.
Oh that's one of my favourite women.
What will happen to feminism when we lose democracy?
Interview Mary Eberstadt
Working on it 😉
I often wonder what it would be like to feel desired. I’ve never felt that. W0men need men but they don’t desire them. While men desire w0men without needing them.
I have to watch this type of content in secret. I'm a man around a woke idealistic community. I learned not to talk about it to avoid backlash and reputation destruction.
Wow! Great job!!
Don't judge DV Defendants based on their sex.
Someone needs to say it even loud and proud!
The system is rigged against men.
Thank you, sisters for a great episode. Atticus, Esq.
there has never been ANTI in biology . we increasingly infuse our prejudice as we allow it to change our minds .
Are modern women with successful careers any happier than 1950s stay at home moms?
Accusation of mansplaining = discredit anything he says
The lady talks funny I can't understand her
Consider the possibility that much of this is due to the fact that men are simply and quite literally worth "less", priced in the ultimate universal currency of time, due to the fact that it takes approximately 1/300th the time to procreate their genome
Strawman basically
All men and women need to do in my opinion is follow the bible and Gods will. Women were created from one of mans ribs so we men wouldn't be lonely and to bear children. Yet many women today will not stay in a family. I dont think we should create families if we dont want them. Perhaps part of it is the womens changing minds over a lifetime. My sons mother left me randomly out of the blue one day after 5yrs together and a son. It crushed me yet didnt seem to phase her a bit. However she was under another man within a month and I am still alone many yrs later. The worst part was it hurt my son the most as we were close b4 she left and held him from me for a yr. I finally hired a lawyer and took her to court for visitation rights. My mother also left my father when I was just 7. I dont think women realize the damage thats done to kids when they run through men. Funfact mom says she left dad cause he was tight with his money. She died alone and broke. Dad was married again and wealthy when he passed. She also had her own beauty shop yet dad worked for the gas company for 35yrs straight! Now after being alone for years I worry for my son going through this same nonsense and he is 19 with his first girlfriend. Loniliness is on the rise so what were doing has failed for society especially average men. I read an article that said 47% of the US population are now lonely and its even shrinking lives due to poor health from loneliness and lack of sex or touch. 🙏
Let women do everything amd out men on government assistance free housing and food
As a man and as a clinical psychologist I am quite appalled by this conversation. It's almost as if I hear Peterson talk, so I cut it off halfway through.
Oh no!
you ain't sheet... poser regard
I'm curious. What did you find appalling?
If you could tell us your license number and the area where you practice, you could help a lot of men by allowing them to steer clear of you at all costs. Sure, income-wise, it would be a drop in the ocean for you, but in a humane sense, oh boy, you would be a godsend.
I guess you missed half the story. A mature therapy stance would surely be to hear it out and assess the whole. To see it as good breast bad breast is stuck in a rather early developmental phase don’t you think?
They aren’t even vaguely espousing the same ideas as Peterson.
It must be great for you going into your therapy sessions knowing how you are going to judge everyone in advance. You don’t even have to hear what they are saying, certainly not all of it- just enough to comfortably pigeonhole them and smugly stroke your confirmation bias.
I know Bettina Arndt’s views have been marginalised. It’s so much easier not to listen, just bleat with the herd and nobody will criticise your virtue signaling.
“I am a good person- here’s my evidence .”
While the MAGA mob misuse the term terribly I think you might be the genuine article.
Try synthesising the “good” and “bad” parts of this video- it’s the developmentally mature thing to do. You might find some value in listening even if it discomforts your prejudices.
great conversation.
Thank you for this
My pleasure! ♥️