Who fucking who you say that like it's only something that can happen to women same thing happens to men all the time stop trying to make this a fucking woman versus men thing sounds like both from the clip that we watch are both assholes why the fuck should we have any care for that woman she made that damn choice she was taking shit out on him in Leo here got to his breaking point and fucking snapped that's not his fault she fucking caused that so stop trying to make this about everything being men's fucking fault you pieces of shit
Abuse is abuse and it’s real. Got out two years ago from an abusive relationship and met the most amazing man that treats me like every woman needs and wants to have. I’m blessed for the life I have now.
Good for you, I was in an emotionally abusive marriage, he cheated, I finally left. Now I also have a good man who shows me everyday what real love is. I'm happy for you ❤
Same here, I got out of mine almost a year ago. The difference between the way my ex treated me and how I get treated now it’s amazing. I feel the difference within myself and I am so thankful for the man that saved me from that 🥹
Women talk sweetly and in a low voice at the beginning of the relationship but once they become comfortable and get into bitch mode, you need to get out of the relationship. I don't know what the frustration is inside them, but even with simple arguments, they yell in their highly pitched voice. Many people feel that yelling does prove their point true and right.
@@ToThoseWhoGotHurtByMeIAMSORRYif someone is raising their voice to you, instead of thinking they turned into “bitch mode”…. Perhaps look inside and think, “why is she reacting this way” There is a 0% chance that she turned into a “bitch” just for fun. “Bitch mode” is a response. So if more than one of the girls you’ve dated has a “bitch mode” then 🥶🥶🥶 why do they get so angry with you?
When a woman is indifferent in a marriage, it means she has stopped having feelings for you. That is a dangerous place because there is no way back after that.
Very true. This is what happened with my ex-wife. She just, in her words, "fell out of love" with me. I gave her the world, but it wasn't enough. When anyone loses that feeling, nothing can bring it back. I tried like hell, but when it's gone, it's gone.
@@toddvergith9485 you need to ask yourself why this happened in the first place. It takes a lot of patience , hard work , tolerance and love from a woman to make marriage work. She becomes exhausted . You ignored her signs. But when she is done , then its over.
@@toddvergith9485... you may have given her the world... but did you every bother to ask if its what she wanted, or did you assume she'd want whatever YOU chose to give her? Because clearly, she didn't want the 'world' you decided she wanted
@@susanbarnes9800men should really not get married. If your in marriage your always fighting and miserable, if you stop fighting you lose half you lifes earning and have to pay child support for 18 years. Men just do yourself a favour commit but never marry, theres no reason for marriage for men.
I was in a 3 year relationship and had both my kids with my girlfriend at the time. Got abused for 2 of those 3 years and prayed and asked to god for help. Prayed every night and morning and during my shift for guidance and one weekend I decided to take her and my bestfriend and a couple other friends out and she cheated on me right infront of my face and that was the last straw for me. I broke up with her and fought for custody for my 2 girls and won. And ended finding my fiancé now 6months later. And my relationship with her is just amazing. Words can’t describe how blessed I am. But 1 year goes by and my ex takes her own life by overdosing. I just wished her nothing but the best in life. But yeah my life with my fiancée and 2 girls is just amazing
Some bells can’t be unrung. Words matter and what you say is never forgotten. You tell someone you wish they were dead or that you hate them…..no matter how many times you tell them or show them that you love them….in their head they hear your other words of hate forever😢😢.
There are ONLY 2 ways you can show a man you love him. Trust him, and respect him. If you do ANYTHING that shows him that you don't trust him, or if you EVER disrespect him, he feels unloved! Keep doing this, and he'll find someone who will trust him and respect him!
Nah not really. That only works that way if the person the words were said to is too immature to forgive. People do and say fucked up things and most people don’t change or regret it at all but there are some that do. If a person genuinely is showing you through actions that they’re aware they fucked up and hurt you then you not forgiving them is equally as fucked up as what they originally did. I know a man who everyone judged as a bad person all because he beat his wife into a coma while she was pregnant but what literally none of them took the time to learn was that she cheated on him many times over and he had forgiven her over and over and the last time it happened he genuinely thought she had changed and hadn’t been sleeping around anymore but then she came up pregnant which was quite literally not possible with him because as a child he was in an accident and lost both testicles among other issues. He was destroyed mentally and emotionally and even after he explained that he knew she was cheating again and why he knew she still tried to lie about it and claim it must be a miracle. He was preparing a case against her so he could divorce her and not lose his stuff and she destroyed his house and a lot of the evidence he had about her cheating in the past and that time. He snapped after discovering that while she was destroying his evidence she also dumped his mother’s ashes in the tub and washed them down and then shattered the urn. He beat her until he collapsed and the police showed up and found him still unconscious because a neighbor heard the violence and called. He beat the case because he had a very good lawyer that helped him prove that he wasn’t in a good mental state and she exacerbated the problem pushing him completely over the edge. He felt absolutely awful that he ended the babies life before it could begin and eventually took his own life by shotgun. He was such a kind and caring man I’ll never understand how that woman could cheat on him. He worked non stop to make sure she had anything she could want and more and stood up for her when needed and everything. My point is he needed someone to forgive him because he really had changed and regretted his decision made in anger
They only hear that if they don't forgive you. That's why Jesus taught us to forgive each other and to love one another. If that's all they hear then they have become a slave to bitterness and resentment. That's why we forgive one another. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.
@@lucakrokrowinkel9576it's funny that everybody knows his name, think he's a God actor, made lots of Amazing movies and yet the oscar guys are like: nope lol
Oftentimes it’s because she can see something the other doesn’t, or flat out refuses to. In any given situation she could know there isn’t a way to make it work that *wouldn’t* be detrimental, or at least undesirable, to one or all sides. So she stops fighting. Because sometimes, she has no other recourse.
yep. My first marriage was like that. I just wanted him to stop yelling and so I got quiet or just nodded and agreed. So glad I am not in that situation anymore.
@@clarie456she died he moved with the kids and started over. It’s a really sad movie she actually forced an abortion because she didn’t want another baby because she wanted a career.
During my first pregnancy, my husband was so furious with me that I forgot to put my ID card down. And he was mad at me all week because of various other things too. At that time I felt hopeless and very heartbroken. And at the end of the week, I got miscarried. In fact, I have been looking forward to pregnancy for 2 years. Believe me, when a woman is pregnant, she bears the emotional burden not only herself. But also the baby she was carrying.
Did you check up with a OBGYN to see what caused the miscarriage I promise it wasnt because you were sad we need to kill this stigma before it hurts people in the long run, Think of how many young women will hurt themselves after reading this and thinking their emotions hurt their child.
@@3Po1ntJayquit gaslighting her. It's science proven that a woman's emotion affects her baby. As you're not a woman i would like you to hush. Thank you
From a quick read of the plot. I think people are generally missing the point. The main theme (again from a very quick read so forgive me) is that they felt a societal pressure to do the right thing, to keep their job, to stay married when they didn't like who they had become (though they obviously seemed to love each other), to not move to a foreign country and start again when they had "responsibilities". The pressure broke them. The girl confessed she didn't love him anymore. The guy is buckling under the pressure of middle age, with a job he doesn't like and in a marriage with someone that seems not to care about him. She is also buckling seeing a man she no longer loves destroying himself while being trapped as well. So the abortion is her way of getting out and ultimately killed her. So maybe people think it is harsh but it really isn't as simple as don't yell at your wife or she'll kill herself. The bigger message I feel is that they should have gotten away and given up on the external pressure and expectations together. They both were stressed. In the story that was going to Paris and starting again.
Very true, very insightful: Thank you ❤ God gave us an out and he wouldn't take it; i took pills while pregnant, not trying to hurt my baby but i didn't know what else to do-- GOD WAS FAITHFUL AND SAVED ME AND OUR BABY!!! God gave me an out and i took it-- he hates me to this day. . . So much happened in between what i said and what took place afterwards. . . how he tricked me when my son was 9 and never sent him back home . . . There Is So Much More My son is an adult with his first child, i am praying everyone involved returns to the foot of the throne of the Father!!! i love all, forgive all, and pray for all-- GOD GIVES YOU A WAY OUT, TAKE IT❤❤❤❤
No, the real lesson is that love is a commitment in action, and not a feeling. You can still choose to love one another in a place without romance, and romance can be built from the loving action we do. Their avoidance of their duty to love one another led to the killing of their child. All she had to do was show him love, respect, and appreciation, that would've inspired him to be better, and their baby could've thrived in that love.
Hubby and I went to watch this and it was gut wrenching. He says he could never ever watch it or any clips of it again because it was just too upsetting. I watch them. I watch them to remind me that I’m so blessed to not be married to a man like that. I was a single mum and my ex was a lot like Leo’s character. I chose to leave him because I felt I would kill myself one day if I stayed on with him. Thankfully, I am now married to a wonderful man who adopted my son and we have had two more sons. And he loves them equally.
@@wodlthedaughteroftheking8062i looked and looked through the comments for an answer and found none so i looked up movies with both actors and found it. almost positive it’s Revolutionary Road
Listen to your wife because she really loves you and knows your heart. Everything not about money it’s about being happy. Success and living up to others expectations has a price
I think he deserved an Oscar for this role. The movie is great, very deep and both their acting is great. They are so convincing together as a struggling couple that still loves eachother, but somehow, through all the problems and desillusions of life, can't really be happy or really make it together.
It’s still okay if she yells at you, makes scenes. She still hopes to fix your relationship. The scariest part is when she suddenly goes silent and accepting. That’s when it actually ends… P.S. Damn guys… so many broken marriages. I hope yall find your happiness in the nearest future 😞❤️
Ain't that the truth, I'd take arguments everyday over her just not saying anything at all...my wife used to argue all the time now she's silent and everyday I feel like I'm losing more and more of her..don't know how to get back to where we was 😢😢
it actually ends way before...usually women leave at least 6 months before. They look for other mates while they stay with plan A. Once plan B works plan A wont even know it until it happens.
@@Gabriel902884 well… it depends. Sometimes she’s depressed to the point of not having interest even in the closest people. Let alone looking for a partner.
Right! He did make a mistake of not knowing that words cut deep and she did what he asked, even though she didn’t want it in the first place so she felt it was right. He probably didn’t think she was still thinking about his words the morning she made breakfast. I kind of hate how it ends but that is the truth of how some relationships go.
If a woman stops arguing then there’s no going back. In the beginning they may try to solve the problem and may argue for there is a hope that the other person will understand their point of view. But later on if she stops doing anything..it means her hope has gone. The other person no longer understands her . I know this feeling. Edit:(🙄I think i became famous!)
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Admin, You dont see the point behind? Evil movie industry? In a time when we see everywhere bad messages like here in this scene,...all kind of woke s... Didnt watch this movie and i will not.
Very well written !! I love how you described their struggles,”stifled ambitions”, “broken dreams”!! I know a lot of couples this relates too…Accept the couples I know have a lot of kids already…
Verbal abuse can crush your soul. I’ve been divorced 20 years now, but I can still remember those words, it’s like they were just spoken. You never heal 100%
I left a verbal and physical abusive relationship after 24 years. I find, as you do, I remember the words , the actions--the veins sticking out from his neck, his teeth grinding together, the threats. It doesn’t happen like it use to, thankfully, but just watching the little I saw was more than enough.
My fiance had been acting strange all week. That morning I got up early and for the first time ever I checked his phone. I discovered he had been flirting with another woman for about a month and talking about meeting up with her again. When he woke up that morning I confronted him and he denied everything and then I showed him his phone. He was very angry that I had looked at his phone and started yelling at me. He told me when he met her he realized that maybe I was not, the one. I yelled at him to leave my house immediately. About 10 minutes after he left I felt the blood. I had a very difficult miscarriage and had to have an emergency d and c. We were never the same after that and soon broke up. Words are very powerful and to this day I wondered what it might have been like to have that baby. It was my last chance as I was already in my early 40s and never had a baby. I live alone now but I think about how different things might have been if I had been able to be a mother as I always wanted to be. Men play at life like it's a game.
Exactly why you Should have had children In Your twenties.... When you wait until after 30, you are high risk... 40??? EXTREMELY high risk of complications, deformities/abnormalities, disorders, and miscarriage. So much so that it is borderline IRRESPONSIBLE to try. Bummer you didn't prioritize family and children earlier in life. Too many women piss it all away partying in their 20s, thinking they can figure it out in their 30s or even 40s, and it's wishful thinking to even ASSUME you can provide a man with children at that point.. But y'all ignore the extreme risk and possibility of failure to do so from a medical standpoint.... It's sad unfortunately. Women who don't get married and have children In their 20s as they should, are in for a rude awakening when their "ho phase" is over, and often times that ship has sailed. And life alone gets lonely as hell for an unmarried middle-aged woman with no children. Warn the young women around you, they don't seem to understand THEIR clock is ticking. We men HAVE NO CLOCK, our window for marriage and family doesn't close, women's do and faster than they like to delude themselves into thinking. 🤔 Get a husband and prioritize family and children, OR buy a dog and die alone. That's the options ultimately
Wow, I'm sorry for your loss. That's something that leave a lasting scar. Life can be so unfair. I pray that you find a way to heal from that pain someday. Pray maybe you might get a child to love, there are many seeking moms like you.
When a woman stops fighting, it's over... My ex would to get mad and make fun of me if I cried when we fought. I told him it was because of how much I cared and he would just roll his eyes and say something mean. I asked him if he wanted me to stop crying and he said yes because he was tired of it. I told him the day that I stopped crying was the day that I no longer cared. I eventually stopped crying.
Spoiler alert: She died from hemorrhaging after a self-induced abortion because it was illegal to get one at the time period of this movie. Sad thing is we are headed back in this direction because someone else’s religious beliefs on the beginning of life is being forced on to others!
Im sorry to hear that. Hope that the Lord continue to look after you🙏 Move on is hard but it is necessary. Get up, shake off the dust on your feet, chin up🙏 Lost my baby too. It is hard, i dont think i can forget this but here is life.
She is kind to him the next morning because she knows that there's a great possibility the next time he sees her, she'll be dead. They have children together, and she knows that would destroy him. She's given up the fight because it doesn't matter anymore, she needs to escape at any cost. She feels desperate and trapped and sees no other way out so she takes the risk. That gets missed that about this movie a lot. It's such an incredible movie, beautiful acting from them both. I think that Leo really became a "grown up" in terms of acting with this movie.
@@tiannajackson7250it is? Are all the things he said about her not true he seems to care about her and the kid is he abusive or something i haven't seen this movie
@@derpyVfoxoX6he seems nice to me. After the fight still reconciles and gives a beautiful smile to his wife. Fight happened and as a grown-up adult we should wake up and solve the problem. Not to give up and kill the baby. It's a dumb way to life.
I think these two are the only on screen couple that can pull off this kind of gut wrenching emotion together..They have come so far together as friends in real life that the trust level is so high...Kate is my fav actress...she's done so well in each movie I've seen her in...
Being a person who is always silent during fights, let me say one thing clearly - being silent doesn't mean we are weak. It means either you hv hurt us or we have given up on you . We know our worth n value our time. That's why we let the front person speak n scream. I never argue when I know there is no point. Even though I'm not at fault, I'll stay quiet. That's the only way to make someone realise how much they have hurt me to the extent I don't even argue now. Pov - if you think someone is weak during an argument Caz he/she ain't arguing. It's either they hv given up or they are angry but controlling themselves.
Or in my case, I don't know what to say or I can't talk. Because I don't want to fight I want to communicate. But they are not communicating they're fighting. I'm quiet because I'm trying to find the right kind of words to communicate To show I am not attacking, I am not defending, But there's nothing I can find to try to express that to the person so I don't talk. Because me talking won't do anything To make anything better could even make the situation worse. Sometimes can just tell that the people don't really want to communicate and work things out they just want to express all their anger frustration big feelings at you. And when that happens Responding in the same won't help the situation. It will only add fuel to the fire. And I don't want to get burnt.
@@wimsylogic65 yes!!!! Same. I don't want the front person to think I'm gonna attack them so I try to be calm but that does not mean I can't speak bruh. There is a limit to everything. I try to sort things after the argument in a calm way . But that doesn't always happen if I know the person doesn't want to solve the argument. Then I'll just leave it
Same with angry crying!!! Just because I'm crying doesn't mean I'm sad... It's usually because I'm too angry to deal with the situation at the moment and it's just best to cry it out and let me be.
Words are powerful. Be wise and say the right things. Do not hurt that person you love with words. Abuse is not just physical. And when they stop fighting, you haven't won.. you've lost.
Kate and Leo are basically best friends in real life. It takes really trusting a person to act a scene like this and know you have that back up afterward
Abuse isn't just towards the woman There are men who are abused too Some of us grew up abused, mistreated, and misunderstood, only to be treated that way in life by narcissist greedy self absorbed people. I get so tired of being called a bad guy when i lose a job or get down on my luck, I didn't choose to be abused as a kid, but i can choose how to be now. Do unto others as you wish to be done to you
It's so sad..she had Big dreams, but she got pregnant and married and felt stuck and depressed..then he finally agreed to start a new life abroad and she was so excited and when she got pregnant he decided they would stay and he took the promotion at his job.. she saw herself becoming trapped again and thought having an at home abortion would save their precious plans but there were complications that caused a hemorrhage and she bled to death.. very sad story 😢
I found it. Revolutionary Road is a 2008 romantic drama film directed by Sam Mendes and written by Justin Haythe, based on the 1961 novel of the same name by Richard Yates. It stars Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet as Frank and April Wheeler, with Michael Shannon, Kathryn Hahn, David Harbour, and Kathy Bates in supporting roles.
Leo was just a good looking guy in titanic but later in the years he proves that he is amazing actor he gets mature with every movie big fan of him now hats off
This movie NEEDED to be made; and I cannot possibly think of two more deserving individuals to do this film. They both have appeared on the screen together and separate and they SHINE ✨! They are able to captivate us and pull us in. They are able to make the character relatable to so many individuals. Across do A LOT of learning about their characters and their ailments and what emotions one would truly be feeling. They study everything. And bring this raw, uncut, necessary, beautiful portrayal of what real life was and is like. To all of us who survived - I’m proud of you. To all those who didn’t - I’m so sorry this world failed you. You deserved more and you are still worthy of love and respect even if you aren’t physically with us. I love you all. Keep fighting the good fight
Ive been in her shoes. No one can truly ever know that pain. Men please value and show your wifes all the love in the world. We go through tremendous highs and lows with our bodies yet we stay silent. Love and protect eachother.
@@MrColdchillin81 Yes I totally agree with you. I have a father who has deep struggles and he keeps a straight face and never complaints he is so strong, it makes me sad I wish I knew how to help. I have a son who also struggles and I have no idea how to approach him because he always responds with “ Im okay mom” hes such a good boy but I know out of the house hes shy and has his issues, few friends ,no girlfriend. Youre right it goes both ways :(
Why did they cut the part where he says she shoulda gotten an abortion? The "I wish to god that you had" is what he says after. He literally told her to do it.
No. She didn't do abortion. But due to her emotional turmoil she got miscarriage as you can see blood at the back of her, it was already gone. she just ended it, she knows the baby is gone. She just remove the dead baby out of her. Instead of going to hospital. She might die also by doing so.
When a woman is oppressed, and torn down enough, she will start removing the chains that bind one link at a time, even while maintaining the facade. She will either break free, or break and go too far past the line and the world will lose the spark of her being. Abuse is more than physical, it's mental and emotional as well. Both of which start so subtly that your in up to your neck before you even notice anything wrong. Kindness over games, love and consideration in all things with your partner. They are the most vulnerable to your careless, angry, or hateful words and actions. You wound them so much more deeply. These scars never fade. These actions teach the kids that it's okay to treat the parent this way, and they have the power to destroy her completely. The love of a parent doesn't stop, even when they have been broken and cast aside by the kids.
This is the reality of marriage, it takes a lot of work and communication to make it last. People can stay together but hate each other inside so much and walk away out of the blue years later
This is what happened to my parents. They got divorce after 45 years of marriage. The divorce hurts my siblings and I soo much. We have good family bonding. Only Allah knows what is inside my mom and my father hearts. I alway pray to Allah that He will bring our family together one day.
@@MrColdchillin81That is true. It's easy to give up. Facing obstacles, overcoming them and moving forward in life takes strength and determination. I have overcome cancer, 3 miscarriages and heart failure. It wasn't easy. It was fuckin' hard! I could have chosen the easy way out and just deleted myself!
The one thing I've learned about dealing with an angry man is he can say some hurtful things, unload everything he's feeling and walk away. While the woman holds everything he has ever said in her body and soul and never forgets it. But a man can disregard what he's said, never apologies for it until something tragic happens and is too late.
ROFL ok, let's not try to pretend you delusional women aren't EXTREMELY cruel. Total and utter lack of accountability, as usual. The VAST majority of ruined relationships and broken homes are CAUSED by women. INITIATED by women. And as the direct result of women. You are utterly delusional if you're trying to act like angry men are worse then you angry crazed animals.
Truth. I'm currently separated from my husband and soon to be divorced. He's got a temper. So anything could set him off. While I was pregnant one he got angry and picked a fight and said he wished I'd have a miscarriage. Now I'm in a whole thing with him about our child and what's best for our baby
I remember my husband yelled at me real bad and said some hurtful things during it. Hurt my feelings to the core, I was a couple of weeks pregnant when it happened, the very next morning I had a miscarriage 😢😢. I knew it was because of the argument and the severity of the broken heart and down feeling caused it. Words are powerful and deadly, got to be careful. We moved past that point with a lot of work having to be put in by him. When I got pregnant again the only thing he could say to me was don't lose this one alright. 😮 My response was watch what you say to me then be kind with your words.
not tryna shit on your parade but this is BS can we end this BS stigma that women just morph into horrible people because the are pregnant and as far as your miscarriage goes i truly am sorry to hear you lost your baby, but it didnt pass because your partner yelled at you i guarantee there was an underlying issue
@lilpotato7297 as an L+D RN...respectfully, YOU are wrong and that other person is right. While stress certainly does effect your baby, it isnt going to cause you to miscarry unless your cortisol levels are already high from an underlying condition. When there is a healthy implantation and development of a fetus...then it takes A LOT to cause miscarriage, like a car accident. Simply having a stressful week, and getting into a screaming match is NOT going to make you miscarry. The main cause of a miscarriage in early pregnancy is that there is something developmentally wrong with the fetus, or there wasn't proper implantation. Neither of these is caused by stress.
Yup as usual, you women coming in with your sob stories, and with total and utter lack of accountability. I bet you were just minding your own business and that Uber scary man attacked you for no reason, yup that's typically the story ROFL when the man isn't around to refute it...
Damn that was wrong to yell at you while pregnant but wow the way you worded that makes it sound like your putting the blame of the death on him and he's accepting that. If so shame on you for being ignorant and evil-hearted because you know he wasn't the cause unless he beat you in the stomach. Most likely just was just an unviable birth which happens a lot.
It reminds me of my ex, and maybe if we got married I'd end up this way too. I watch this calmly, not getting triggered. I'm blessed. I chose to burn the bridge, lock the door and never look back. Those who are still in this kind of relationship, I hope you find your strength and faith on yourself.
Im 43, When i was 16 a female and her family decided an abortion and it slipped out they had an abortion without asking me anything, I had no right, no opinion, To this day that shit still breaks me to the core, Tore my head up and still continues to this day all these years later, I feel for any man that has to go through that, Men should have the option to keep their own child but we dont and its sad that no one gives a shit
When someone stops fighting, it means they’ve given up. She’s given up on trying to get her husband to love her because she knows he never will. She’s given up on trying to make her broken marriage work because she knows it’s already over. She’s given up on having a happy family with her husband because she knows that no family she creates with him will be happy. She’s given up on fighting for any chance of a happy life because she feels like it’s completely out of reach. She’s done and nothing matters to her anymore. Not even her own life. She decided to remove the child in her womb. The child that was sired by her wretched husband. The child that will bind her to this miserable life even further. The child who would’ve been condemned to suffer in a home where their father doesn’t love them or their mother. She knew it could kill her, but she didn’t care about that anymore. If anything, part of her might’ve even hoped that it would because at least then she’ll finally be free of her misery.
I lost twins right at the 4 month mark. Ive been married 33 yrs now with 3 adult sons. But my husband still tears up whenever we have that memory boil back up because of what he said when we found out I was having twins. What happened was going to happen, there is no one yo blame. But he is still tortured because of how he responded to the news. Its his cross to bare, not mine.
Women understand what a man feels before being prompted by anger to state what he really feels. His words are just confirmation, and she can no longer deny the truth.
When parents divorced my dad didn’t want to but my mother had enough of him, they used to fight a lot and they were always aggressive, luckily they never went physical but dad always new how to verbally abuse my mom, the day came when she finally said I don’t care about what you think and I don’t want to be with you so she, my little sisters and I moved away after a while ( I do remember one time mom took us out scared after a bad fight and we stayed on a parking lot with mom crying thinking what she was going to do) my father isn’t a horrible person, he is very intelligent but he is not a family guy, he need to learn how to act like a proper father and go to therapy because he. Become like my granpather, and he wasn’t a great person) now both are in peace with each other (minus the times they fight on the phone cuz dad can be an asshole toward my sisters) and they only interact with each other when it’s about my sisters, I on the other hand barely interact with him now (he is my step father so we don’t really have much relationship as father/son) ironically now we live in the same street but things are okish
It takes two to make a marriage work. neither Frank or April were fully invested in their marriage anymore. Frank wanted the picture perfect propagandist image of a family from that era. I think April was depressed. She wasn't where she wanted to be at that point in her life.Which is why she was so eagered to relocate. She'd hope a new environment would revitalize them. Judging from the convos they had about the early stages of their marriage, they seem to have had a whimsical idea of what marriage is. I think they failed to realize that marriage takes a lot of work & effort to maintain it. Both were unhappy because their marriage wasn't what they fantasized it would be.
I think that sums up most marriages today, really, and why the divorce rate is as high as it is. Sadly, we've grown up being fed unrealistic ideas of what love and marriage are "supposed" to be, so when reality hits we're completely unprepared. 😞💔
I've been here, I WISHED TO GOD, I wish to GOD that I could take back "Everything" I ever said to her in a heated argument? I was WRONG!!! I was Sorry , I hope that one day she forgives me❤
Me too, she was afraid to tell me she had a miscarriage Or even that she was pregnant because for some reason she thought id be against having kids.. Then when she found out i Wouldn't she said she loved me even more .... Then she ghosted me.... 😞💔🤦🏼🤷🏼 I have no clue how shes doing now!? (( But we never even had a fight!!?? Never had any words of anger or even a misunderstanding!? 🤦🏼🤷🏼😞💔))
Well then maybe you shouldn't say hurtful and spiteful things out of anger....plain and simple 🤷🏼♀️ fuck the whole "Sticks and stones" because words do hurt. Especially if it came from someone you adore more than anything in this world and someone whom you thought would NEVER say those things to you. You BOYS will never learn will you?
@@beccamcdonald9846 well dam. They are human. Women do the same. It is very very human to want a bell unrung and we dont have that power. These people have dropped their pain publicly, no credit given for that, why would you be that way? Why say thse thngs about thm? It puts you in a worse place than they feel they are in. At least there is remorse there while it makes you look as you have none, you did cant unsay this. We have to not hurt ech other. We rarely get do overs.
Revolutionary Road is the movie. No, she did from an (at-home) abortion that Leo’s character did not want his wife (in the movie) to abort, loss of blood. Plus, it was the best friend or neighbor’s child she was carrying, she cheated with him.
Men’s rage can have the same impact as a physical beating towards their wife. Let this video be a warning to those who have an anger problem. Please get hep before the ones you love and those who love you are damaged or hurt beyond repair.💕
She hated him that she felt trapped that she didn't want to be in this no more why are you here why are we doing this you can't blame him that was her feelings in the first place
I agree,the last thing I said to my husband was Man up and he died unexpectedly next morning in bed.I always said be careful what you say it could be the last thing you say,and I didn't take my own advice..I'm haunted forever..
@@marylabelle803Im so sorry for your loss💔 Prayers and condolences to him, you and all your families,friends and loved ones❤ i know he's watching over you from heaven❤
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No matter what kind of movie Leo will always give his 100%. Such a legendary actor.
He also gives a 100% in finding young women to prey on as well so....
@@MyGhostEchoesyou don't think those young, money hungry hoes aren't trying to do the same?
@@MyGhostEchoes ?
@@MyGhostEchoesAbsolute slander. They’re grown women. He’s not preying on anyone, they made their own choices to get with him.
@@MyGhostEchoesgrown women *
Deceptive description... This was not a miscarriage scene, this was her aborting a baby scene. Get it straight
That's what i thought was happening but everybody else was sayinf otherwise
Yes
I felt like it was pretty clear, we see her prepare for the abortion
So she took it out on the baby?!? 😮
@@Davis6437 she was very depressed and in that case it was an act of self harm (very dangerous to her) and at this stage the fœtus can't feel anything
The part many don’t grasp is that once you push a woman to no longer care…there isn’t any coming back from that.
Facts
Who fucking who you say that like it's only something that can happen to women same thing happens to men all the time stop trying to make this a fucking woman versus men thing sounds like both from the clip that we watch are both assholes why the fuck should we have any care for that woman she made that damn choice she was taking shit out on him in Leo here got to his breaking point and fucking snapped that's not his fault she fucking caused that so stop trying to make this about everything being men's fucking fault you pieces of shit
I can relate
So true
Yea...
Abuse is abuse and it’s real. Got out two years ago from an abusive relationship and met the most amazing man that treats me like every woman needs and wants to have. I’m blessed for the life I have now.
It takes an awful lot of courage to leave an abusive relationship. You did it & deserve every happiness in your life. Well done ❤
Here 🍪
Good for you, I was in an emotionally abusive marriage, he cheated, I finally left. Now I also have a good man who shows me everyday what real love is. I'm happy for you ❤
Same here, I got out of mine almost a year ago. The difference between the way my ex treated me and how I get treated now it’s amazing. I feel the difference within myself and I am so thankful for the man that saved me from that 🥹
None of you have en seen this movie.
In a parallel world Jack and Rose survived the Titanic and got married.
He was a time traveler
❤
This made me ugly laugh 😂😂😂😂
In another they survived and didn't get married.
Holy crap I just realized that it's the same actors!!!!
If a woman stops arguing and fighting with you it is over.
Always fighting and arguing doesn't sound like much of a relationship in the first place so it's probably best that it's over.
It sure won't be because she accepted responsibility or admitted being wrong.
Women talk sweetly and in a low voice at the beginning of the relationship but once they become comfortable and get into bitch mode, you need to get out of the relationship. I don't know what the frustration is inside them, but even with simple arguments, they yell in their highly pitched voice. Many people feel that yelling does prove their point true and right.
@@ToThoseWhoGotHurtByMeIAMSORRYif someone is raising their voice to you, instead of thinking they turned into “bitch mode”…. Perhaps look inside and think, “why is she reacting this way”
There is a 0% chance that she turned into a “bitch” just for fun.
“Bitch mode” is a response. So if more than one of the girls you’ve dated has a “bitch mode” then 🥶🥶🥶 why do they get so angry with you?
damm right
When a woman is indifferent in a marriage, it means she has stopped having feelings for you. That is a dangerous place because there is no way back after that.
Very true. This is what happened with my ex-wife. She just, in her words, "fell out of love" with me. I gave her the world, but it wasn't enough. When anyone loses that feeling, nothing can bring it back. I tried like hell, but when it's gone, it's gone.
so you're saying the only option is to leave? if there is no coming back
@@toddvergith9485 you need to ask yourself why this happened in the first place. It takes a lot of patience , hard work , tolerance and love from a woman to make marriage work. She becomes exhausted . You ignored her signs.
But when she is done , then its over.
@@toddvergith9485... you may have given her the world... but did you every bother to ask if its what she wanted, or did you assume she'd want whatever YOU chose to give her? Because clearly, she didn't want the 'world' you decided she wanted
@@Drax-zif someone doesnt want the to be with you... YES, the ONLY option is to leave. Literally.
The movie name is “Revolutionary Road”🛣️
Thank you
Thank you too but is it in disney
Thank you
Thank you. I'm so invested in this movie after watching this clip.
Thank you🎉
When someone stops fighting. That’s when they’ve truly given up.
Edit: I think this movie is called Revolutionary Road.
Right. I just did the same.
Yup. That's when I got divorced. I didn't care enough to fight.
@@susanbarnes9800i hope your ex husband is living a wonderful with someone who’ll fight for him
@@susanbarnes9800men should really not get married. If your in marriage your always fighting and miserable, if you stop fighting you lose half you lifes earning and have to pay child support for 18 years. Men just do yourself a favour commit but never marry, theres no reason for marriage for men.
Exactly on point
Words hurt. Sometimes forever. You can forgive, but you never forget.
Muy cierto
then move out!
Forgive, never forget because what is there to forgive if you forget
Sound vibrations are nothing more than that
Then forgiveness is not truly given.
I was in a 3 year relationship and had both my kids with my girlfriend at the time. Got abused for 2 of those 3 years and prayed and asked to god for help. Prayed every night and morning and during my shift for guidance and one weekend I decided to take her and my bestfriend and a couple other friends out and she cheated on me right infront of my face and that was the last straw for me. I broke up with her and fought for custody for my 2 girls and won. And ended finding my fiancé now 6months later. And my relationship with her is just amazing. Words can’t describe how blessed I am. But 1 year goes by and my ex takes her own life by overdosing. I just wished her nothing but the best in life. But yeah my life with my fiancée and 2 girls is just amazing
It wasn't about abuse
Happy for you. Keep on seeking God. Bring your children and fiancé along.
Your ex wife wasn't the problem not you.
Look At GOD ❤❤❤
Jesus Christ loves you and is watching over your family. It's okay that you're happy!
John 3:16
Some bells can’t be unrung. Words matter and what you say is never forgotten. You tell someone you wish they were dead or that you hate them…..no matter how many times you tell them or show them that you love them….in their head they hear your other words of hate forever😢😢.
There are ONLY 2 ways you can show a man you love him. Trust him, and respect him.
If you do ANYTHING that shows him that you don't trust him, or if you EVER disrespect him, he feels unloved! Keep doing this, and he'll find someone who will trust him and respect him!
Nah not really. That only works that way if the person the words were said to is too immature to forgive. People do and say fucked up things and most people don’t change or regret it at all but there are some that do. If a person genuinely is showing you through actions that they’re aware they fucked up and hurt you then you not forgiving them is equally as fucked up as what they originally did. I know a man who everyone judged as a bad person all because he beat his wife into a coma while she was pregnant but what literally none of them took the time to learn was that she cheated on him many times over and he had forgiven her over and over and the last time it happened he genuinely thought she had changed and hadn’t been sleeping around anymore but then she came up pregnant which was quite literally not possible with him because as a child he was in an accident and lost both testicles among other issues. He was destroyed mentally and emotionally and even after he explained that he knew she was cheating again and why he knew she still tried to lie about it and claim it must be a miracle. He was preparing a case against her so he could divorce her and not lose his stuff and she destroyed his house and a lot of the evidence he had about her cheating in the past and that time. He snapped after discovering that while she was destroying his evidence she also dumped his mother’s ashes in the tub and washed them down and then shattered the urn. He beat her until he collapsed and the police showed up and found him still unconscious because a neighbor heard the violence and called. He beat the case because he had a very good lawyer that helped him prove that he wasn’t in a good mental state and she exacerbated the problem pushing him completely over the edge. He felt absolutely awful that he ended the babies life before it could begin and eventually took his own life by shotgun. He was such a kind and caring man I’ll never understand how that woman could cheat on him. He worked non stop to make sure she had anything she could want and more and stood up for her when needed and everything. My point is he needed someone to forgive him because he really had changed and regretted his decision made in anger
She rung the words first!
They only hear that if they don't forgive you. That's why Jesus taught us to forgive each other and to love one another. If that's all they hear then they have become a slave to bitterness and resentment. That's why we forgive one another. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies.
True 😢😢
These two people are really good actors. Really invested in their roles. Wonderful to watch them work.
It’s leonardo Dicaprio bruh
Course he’s a great fucking actor
@@lucakrokrowinkel9576all right calm down man don't need to be a knob
You should watch Titanic
Great story with actors who understand the narrstive❤❤❤
@@lucakrokrowinkel9576it's funny that everybody knows his name, think he's a God actor, made lots of Amazing movies and yet the oscar guys are like: nope lol
When a girl stops fighting, she's no longer trying to make it work but is waiting in silence for it to end.
A toxic girl trying to justify toxicity of a woman but when a guy ever raise his voice even your type of girls labelled them as toxic masculinity
@@AshishKumar-if4dt don't get personal✋maybe u know a lot about toxicity but u dont know me.
Oftentimes it’s because she can see something the other doesn’t, or flat out refuses to. In any given situation she could know there isn’t a way to make it work that *wouldn’t* be detrimental, or at least undesirable, to one or all sides. So she stops fighting. Because sometimes, she has no other recourse.
yep. My first marriage was like that. I just wanted him to stop yelling and so I got quiet or just nodded and agreed. So glad I am not in that situation anymore.
Just perfect discription
When a woman stops fighting back or arguing that how you know it’s over 😞❤
Just look at that man act...giving 200 percent of his soul...❤❤
This was by far the greatest depiction of a broken marriage .Didn't want to continue to watch their misery but had to see how the movie ended
What happend
@@clarie456she died he moved with the kids and started over. It’s a really sad movie she actually forced an abortion because she didn’t want another baby because she wanted a career.
@@Ohwell267 oh dang
What's the name of this
@@pheleshiamcendree6276 Revolutionary Road
During my first pregnancy, my husband was so furious with me that I forgot to put my ID card down. And he was mad at me all week because of various other things too. At that time I felt hopeless and very heartbroken. And at the end of the week, I got miscarried. In fact, I have been looking forward to pregnancy for 2 years. Believe me, when a woman is pregnant, she bears the emotional burden not only herself. But also the baby she was carrying.
She preformed a self abortion
Did you check up with a OBGYN to see what caused the miscarriage I promise it wasnt because you were sad we need to kill this stigma before it hurts people in the long run, Think of how many young women will hurt themselves after reading this and thinking their emotions hurt their child.
@@3Po1ntJayquit gaslighting her. It's science proven that a woman's emotion affects her baby. As you're not a woman i would like you to hush. Thank you
@@uzougwu1511Thank you.
@@uzougwu1511 Cap cite your sources right now, stop simpin gettin sad does not cause miscarriages that shit is always from underlyin reasons
He is so amazing, and so is she. Two of THE VERY BEST EVER!
Now I can see why Rose didn’t help Jack to survive. Is clear as water
From a quick read of the plot. I think people are generally missing the point. The main theme (again from a very quick read so forgive me) is that they felt a societal pressure to do the right thing, to keep their job, to stay married when they didn't like who they had become (though they obviously seemed to love each other), to not move to a foreign country and start again when they had "responsibilities". The pressure broke them. The girl confessed she didn't love him anymore. The guy is buckling under the pressure of middle age, with a job he doesn't like and in a marriage with someone that seems not to care about him. She is also buckling seeing a man she no longer loves destroying himself while being trapped as well. So the abortion is her way of getting out and ultimately killed her.
So maybe people think it is harsh but it really isn't as simple as don't yell at your wife or she'll kill herself. The bigger message I feel is that they should have gotten away and given up on the external pressure and expectations together. They both were stressed. In the story that was going to Paris and starting again.
Very true, very insightful: Thank you ❤
God gave us an out and he wouldn't take it; i took pills while pregnant, not trying to hurt my baby but i didn't know what else to do-- GOD WAS FAITHFUL AND SAVED ME AND OUR BABY!!!
God gave me an out and i took it-- he hates me to this day. . . So much happened in between what i said and what took place afterwards. . . how he tricked me when my son was 9 and never sent him back home . . . There Is So Much More
My son is an adult with his first child, i am praying everyone involved returns to the foot of the throne of the Father!!! i love all, forgive all, and pray for all-- GOD GIVES YOU A WAY OUT, TAKE IT❤❤❤❤
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@@tofuzutf
No, the real lesson is that love is a commitment in action, and not a feeling. You can still choose to love one another in a place without romance, and romance can be built from the loving action we do. Their avoidance of their duty to love one another led to the killing of their child.
All she had to do was show him love, respect, and appreciation, that would've inspired him to be better, and their baby could've thrived in that love.
Thanks so much for ruining the movie for me.
Hubby and I went to watch this and it was gut wrenching. He says he could never ever watch it or any clips of it again because it was just too upsetting. I watch them. I watch them to remind me that I’m so blessed to not be married to a man like that. I was a single mum and my ex was a lot like Leo’s character. I chose to leave him because I felt I would kill myself one day if I stayed on with him. Thankfully, I am now married to a wonderful man who adopted my son and we have had two more sons. And he loves them equally.
Please what is the name of this movie please
Please movie name..
I happy for you. I was in a situation like this too with my son's father and also got out. You and I are the lucky ones. ❤
Name of the movie?
@@wodlthedaughteroftheking8062i looked and looked through the comments for an answer and found none so i looked up movies with both actors and found it.
almost positive it’s Revolutionary Road
They say people dont appreciate you until youre gone.
Listen to your wife because she really loves you and knows your heart. Everything not about money it’s about being happy. Success and living up to others expectations has a price
Leo surely ALWAYS brings the Top-Tier acting skills to his work. No1 can ever say THAT man is overrated.
I say it all the time. Most overated actor in Hollywood. He drools in every single movie.
@@vince7189nigga you can’t even spell overrated
I think he deserved an Oscar for this role. The movie is great, very deep and both their acting is great. They are so convincing together as a struggling couple that still loves eachother, but somehow, through all the problems and desillusions of life, can't really be happy or really make it together.
@@vince7189alright buddy
One quintilian percent
It’s still okay if she yells at you, makes scenes. She still hopes to fix your relationship. The scariest part is when she suddenly goes silent and accepting. That’s when it actually ends…
P.S. Damn guys… so many broken marriages. I hope yall find your happiness in the nearest future 😞❤️
💯
Ain't that the truth, I'd take arguments everyday over her just not saying anything at all...my wife used to argue all the time now she's silent and everyday I feel like I'm losing more and more of her..don't know how to get back to where we was 😢😢
it actually ends way before...usually women leave at least 6 months before. They look for other mates while they stay with plan A. Once plan B works plan A wont even know it until it happens.
@@Gabriel902884 well… it depends. Sometimes she’s depressed to the point of not having interest even in the closest people. Let alone looking for a partner.
Agreed. It's over when one spouse goes silent.
The chemistry between these two is legendary 💜 even if its just acting.
He made a mistake now he might never be able to say sorry for that one mistake it truly shows how delicate a relationship can be.
He didn’t make a mistake though they were arguing it’s both of their fault
What mistake the last bit was out of hand but her words hurt him
Right! He did make a mistake of not knowing that words cut deep and she did what he asked, even though she didn’t want it in the first place so she felt it was right. He probably didn’t think she was still thinking about his words the morning she made breakfast. I kind of hate how it ends but that is the truth of how some relationships go.
If a woman stops arguing then there’s no going back. In the beginning they may try to solve the problem and may argue for there is a hope that the other person will understand their point of view. But later on if she stops doing anything..it means her hope has gone. The other person no longer understands her . I know this feeling.
Edit:(🙄I think i became famous!)
Yea
I never met that kind of woman
You should've seem the movie she needed help
You Get me girl
So leave him..if it bothers you
"Revolutionary Road" is a powerful and emotionally charged film set in the 1950s. It revolves around Frank and April, a seemingly perfect couple living in suburban America. However, beneath the surface, they are trapped in a cycle of unfulfilled dreams and stifled ambitions. As they confront their own desires and the pressures of society, their relationship begins to unravel. This thought-provoking drama explores themes of conformity, disillusionment, and the struggle to find meaning in a seemingly ordinary life. With exceptional performances and a compelling narrative, "Revolutionary Road" is a must-watch for those seeking a profound cinematic experience.
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Great writing skills!
What is “revolutionary road” on ??.. like which app 😊
Where did she "Miscarry" and he got "Mad"??
Admin,
You dont see the point behind?
Evil movie industry?
In a time when we see everywhere bad messages like here in this scene,...all kind of woke s...
Didnt watch this movie and i will not.
Very well written !! I love how you described their struggles,”stifled ambitions”, “broken dreams”!! I know a lot of couples this relates too…Accept the couples I know have a lot of kids already…
Verbal abuse can crush your soul. I’ve been divorced 20 years now, but I can still remember those words, it’s like they were just spoken. You never heal 100%
I left a verbal and physical abusive relationship after 24 years. I find, as you do, I remember the words , the actions--the veins sticking out from his neck, his teeth grinding together, the threats. It doesn’t happen like it use to, thankfully, but just watching the little I saw was more than enough.
@joanhosley189 I’m sorry you had to live through that but I’m thankful you got out. 💔❤️
I really felt sorry for both of them, they really tried.
All that passion they had on the Titanic couldn’t last forever.
😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s a movie
I was just crying to watch the clip and then this comment made me LOL 😂
They are best friends in real life
He realized that he prefers them under 25
My fiance had been acting strange all week. That morning I got up early and for the first time ever I checked his phone. I discovered he had been flirting with another woman for about a month and talking about meeting up with her again. When he woke up that morning I confronted him and he denied everything and then I showed him his phone. He was very angry that I had looked at his phone and started yelling at me. He told me when he met her he realized that maybe I was not, the one. I yelled at him to leave my house immediately. About 10 minutes after he left I felt the blood. I had a very difficult miscarriage and had to have an emergency d and c. We were never the same after that and soon broke up. Words are very powerful and to this day I wondered what it might have been like to have that baby. It was my last chance as I was already in my early 40s and never had a baby. I live alone now but I think about how different things might have been if I had been able to be a mother as I always wanted to be. Men play at life like it's a game.
Exactly why you Should have had children In Your twenties.... When you wait until after 30, you are high risk... 40??? EXTREMELY high risk of complications, deformities/abnormalities, disorders, and miscarriage. So much so that it is borderline IRRESPONSIBLE to try.
Bummer you didn't prioritize family and children earlier in life. Too many women piss it all away partying in their 20s, thinking they can figure it out in their 30s or even 40s, and it's wishful thinking to even ASSUME you can provide a man with children at that point.. But y'all ignore the extreme risk and possibility of failure to do so from a medical standpoint.... It's sad unfortunately.
Women who don't get married and have children In their 20s as they should, are in for a rude awakening when their "ho phase" is over, and often times that ship has sailed. And life alone gets lonely as hell for an unmarried middle-aged woman with no children.
Warn the young women around you, they don't seem to understand THEIR clock is ticking. We men HAVE NO CLOCK, our window for marriage and family doesn't close, women's do and faster than they like to delude themselves into thinking. 🤔
Get a husband and prioritize family and children, OR buy a dog and die alone. That's the options ultimately
It's you women who act like life is a game. And you play on EASY mode and still fuck it up.
May you always be blessed! I’m praying for you.
@@mrdark9916said the 19 yo who’s never been in a real relationship
Wow, I'm sorry for your loss. That's something that leave a lasting scar. Life can be so unfair. I pray that you find a way to heal from that pain someday. Pray maybe you might get a child to love, there are many seeking moms like you.
Kate and Leo have been together in films soo much
When a woman stops fighting, it's over...
My ex would to get mad and make fun of me if I cried when we fought. I told him it was because of how much I cared and he would just roll his eyes and say something mean. I asked him if he wanted me to stop crying and he said yes because he was tired of it. I told him the day that I stopped crying was the day that I no longer cared.
I eventually stopped crying.
Practically my situation. When I stopped going to bed to vent to my ex. I still care because I have a son with him. But no love luster anymore
There are some words that cannot be forgotten or forgiven. Always choose them carefully.
Yeah, the ones that receive these words can eventually give up because of the habit. I can vouch for it.
Very true.
So very true. Words have such power to harm or to heal.
Forgetting is different,but everything can be forgiven with God's help
@@HeartEllisif we forgive everything we'll lose our self worth. There's a limit to everything
Man Jack and roses relationship has really gone off the deep end since he sank to the bottom of the ocean and froze
I love how you said there relationship really went off the deep end. lol
😂
😂
You could say he's grown rather cold to her now.
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Spoiler alert: She died from hemorrhaging after a self-induced abortion because it was illegal to get one at the time period of this movie. Sad thing is we are headed back in this direction because someone else’s religious beliefs on the beginning of life is being forced on to others!
That happened to me too. But my husband left me and Moved in with another woman. He didn't even stay at the Hospital with me 😢
I'm sorry dear😢
Im sorry to hear that. Hope that the Lord continue to look after you🙏 Move on is hard but it is necessary. Get up, shake off the dust on your feet, chin up🙏 Lost my baby too. It is hard, i dont think i can forget this but here is life.
I hope you’re okay.cyber hugs darling
She is kind to him the next morning because she knows that there's a great possibility the next time he sees her, she'll be dead. They have children together, and she knows that would destroy him. She's given up the fight because it doesn't matter anymore, she needs to escape at any cost. She feels desperate and trapped and sees no other way out so she takes the risk. That gets missed that about this movie a lot. It's such an incredible movie, beautiful acting from them both. I think that Leo really became a "grown up" in terms of acting with this movie.
Why are you making it seem that every woman is a victim in a relationship?
@@andrewmatlala6130 they never said that they just said in this situation that is the case
@@tiannajackson7250it is? Are all the things he said about her not true he seems to care about her and the kid is he abusive or something i haven't seen this movie
@@andrewmatlala6130agree. As a woman I can say sometimes women are troublemakers in marriage.
@@derpyVfoxoX6he seems nice to me. After the fight still reconciles and gives a beautiful smile to his wife. Fight happened and as a grown-up adult we should wake up and solve the problem. Not to give up and kill the baby. It's a dumb way to life.
I think these two are the only on screen couple that can pull off this kind of gut wrenching emotion together..They have come so far together as friends in real life that the trust level is so high...Kate is my fav actress...she's done so well in each movie I've seen her in...
Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy.
Words cut deeper than swords ~
Idk why.. but I can never forget words
It will always ring in my head over and over every time I’m around that person
Movie name - Revolutionary Road
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Think you'll find it's called Titanic II: The sinking not taken.
Thank you
Thank you 🎉
@@Obsidian10🤨
Thanks😊
Being a person who is always silent during fights, let me say one thing clearly - being silent doesn't mean we are weak. It means either you hv hurt us or we have given up on you . We know our worth n value our time. That's why we let the front person speak n scream. I never argue when I know there is no point. Even though I'm not at fault, I'll stay quiet. That's the only way to make someone realise how much they have hurt me to the extent I don't even argue now.
Pov - if you think someone is weak during an argument Caz he/she ain't arguing. It's either they hv given up or they are angry but controlling themselves.
Or in my case, I don't know what to say or I can't talk. Because I don't want to fight I want to communicate.
But they are not communicating they're fighting. I'm quiet because I'm trying to find the right kind of words to communicate To show I am not attacking, I am not defending, But there's nothing I can find to try to express that to the person so I don't talk. Because me talking won't do anything To make anything better could even make the situation worse.
Sometimes can just tell that the people don't really want to communicate and work things out they just want to express all their anger frustration big feelings at you.
And when that happens Responding in the same won't help the situation. It will only add fuel to the fire. And I don't want to get burnt.
@@wimsylogic65 yes!!!! Same. I don't want the front person to think I'm gonna attack them so I try to be calm but that does not mean I can't speak bruh. There is a limit to everything. I try to sort things after the argument in a calm way . But that doesn't always happen if I know the person doesn't want to solve the argument. Then I'll just leave it
Same with angry crying!!! Just because I'm crying doesn't mean I'm sad... It's usually because I'm too angry to deal with the situation at the moment and it's just best to cry it out and let me be.
@@chellerounds7608 exactly
My point EXACTLY
These two are perfect when they act together...
Words are powerful. Be wise and say the right things.
Do not hurt that person you love with words. Abuse is not just physical.
And when they stop fighting, you haven't won.. you've lost.
Kate and Leo are basically best friends in real life. It takes really trusting a person to act a scene like this and know you have that back up afterward
What a crap load of bullshit
I wouldn’t say they are best friends.
Nah, Kate is in Leo's friend zone.
Yea they're friends but only because she's about 25years older than they type he goes for
Wow...simply wow....I wish I had smt am good at
Abuse isn't just towards the woman
There are men who are abused too
Some of us grew up abused, mistreated, and misunderstood, only to be treated that way in life by narcissist greedy self absorbed people. I get so tired of being called a bad guy when i lose a job or get down on my luck, I didn't choose to be abused as a kid, but i can choose how to be now. Do unto others as you wish to be done to you
It's so sad..she had Big dreams, but she got pregnant and married and felt stuck and depressed..then he finally agreed to start a new life abroad and she was so excited and when she got pregnant he decided they would stay and he took the promotion at his job.. she saw herself becoming trapped again and thought having an at home abortion would save their precious plans but there were complications that caused a hemorrhage and she bled to death.. very sad story 😢
This couple turns everything to gold. Dynamite together. ❤
Which movie?
Evil.wench
Revolutionary Road :)
True👍
movie name: Revolutionary road
Thank YOU!!!!!!! I've been scrolling endlessly looking for the name of this movie!
Me too
Where can I watch it? On Netflix or somewhere else?
Thank you for posting the name of this movie, @raziabegum13! 😊
@@christinegipple1207 no problem 😊
The fact that these 2 are practically BFF’s in real life really makes this relationship heartbreaking. Super talented.
Jack never forgot that Rose was selfish with that door.
I found it. Revolutionary Road is a 2008 romantic drama film directed by Sam Mendes and written by Justin Haythe, based on the 1961 novel of the same name by Richard Yates. It stars Leonardo DiCaprio and Kate Winslet as Frank and April Wheeler, with Michael Shannon, Kathryn Hahn, David Harbour, and Kathy Bates in supporting roles.
Thanks ❤
Wow. Thank you.
Thank you!
Thanks
Thanks 😊
The song isn’t let me down slowly it’s “so far away” for those wondering
Who's the artist, thanks 😊
what's the name of the movie?
@@feridebonu6415Revolutionary Road
It’s really good and sad
@@xavierbugscrawford6117The original is by Martin Garrix
I believe this is the cover by Adam Christopher, it’s on TH-cam
@@feridebonu6415revolutionary road 😊
Leo was just a good looking guy in titanic but later in the years he proves that he is amazing actor he gets mature with every movie big fan of him now hats off
This movie NEEDED to be made; and I cannot possibly think of two more deserving individuals to do this film. They both have appeared on the screen together and separate and they SHINE ✨! They are able to captivate us and pull us in. They are able to make the character relatable to so many individuals. Across do A LOT of learning about their characters and their ailments and what emotions one would truly be feeling. They study everything. And bring this raw, uncut, necessary, beautiful portrayal of what real life was and is like.
To all of us who survived - I’m proud of you.
To all those who didn’t - I’m so sorry this world failed you. You deserved more and you are still worthy of love and respect even if you aren’t physically with us.
I love you all. Keep fighting the good fight
their chemistry is insane
Leo and Kate are soulmates
Girl 😂
🦆
She is to old for him. He likes them fresh
Yup if she was 21
@@brittany7573NAHHH
That's a real strong woman 😢🥲
That's how leo can pull the complex scenes with sincere emotions with simple draw line to reality that viewers can feel its about them.
The "submissive" wife is what a lot of men say they want. They don't know what level of responsibility true submission creates.
Are you talking about the responsibility of the husband? Because his wife is submissive?
Ohh so sorry you have 1 fuckin job lol 😂
Cry us a river
Agreed
Like how , bother to explain plz
Absolutely submission is ultimate trust that you'll be taken care of. Most people don't work hard enough to deserve it.
Leonardo is such a great actor! Could feel every single emotion in every word😢
Absolutely the starting two lines. Dam Those veins popping out crying n so real hell ya. almost cried 😢
Both are sweethearts,and great friends ,embarked on their career together ,great
Those two can act really well
Ive been in her shoes. No one can truly ever know that pain. Men please value and show your wifes all the love in the world. We go through tremendous highs and lows with our bodies yet we stay silent. Love and protect eachother.
That’s not talked about enough. As a man though let me assure you we have deep and painful struggles too. The grass is not greener
@@MrColdchillin81
Yes I totally agree with you. I have a father who has deep struggles and he keeps a straight face and never complaints he is so strong, it makes me sad I wish I knew how to help. I have a son who also struggles and I have no idea how to approach him because he always responds with “ Im okay mom”
hes such a good boy but I know out of the house hes shy and has his issues, few friends ,no girlfriend. Youre right it goes both ways :(
@@sahirasanchez5847can you explain what happened in this scene
Why did they cut the part where he says she shoulda gotten an abortion? The "I wish to god that you had" is what he says after. He literally told her to do it.
Nope she made that choice cause she didn't love him nomore....no words should make you do this
@@skank1825words did make you the worst thing for your life.
No. She didn't do abortion. But due to her emotional turmoil she got miscarriage as you can see blood at the back of her, it was already gone. she just ended it, she knows the baby is gone. She just remove the dead baby out of her. Instead of going to hospital. She might die also by doing so.
She's a cheater it might be not his child , he dodge a bullet.
@@HRY898 He also cheat, tho. With his coworker.
When a woman is oppressed, and torn down enough, she will start removing the chains that bind one link at a time, even while maintaining the facade. She will either break free, or break and go too far past the line and the world will lose the spark of her being.
Abuse is more than physical, it's mental and emotional as well. Both of which start so subtly that your in up to your neck before you even notice anything wrong.
Kindness over games, love and consideration in all things with your partner. They are the most vulnerable to your careless, angry, or hateful words and actions. You wound them so much more deeply. These scars never fade. These actions teach the kids that it's okay to treat the parent this way, and they have the power to destroy her completely. The love of a parent doesn't stop, even when they have been broken and cast aside by the kids.
Leo is the most amazing actor there is.. he digs deep and gives all ❤
This is the reality of marriage, it takes a lot of work and communication to make it last. People can stay together but hate each other inside so much and walk away out of the blue years later
Yep
This is what happened to my parents. They got divorce after 45 years of marriage. The divorce hurts my siblings and I soo much. We have good family bonding. Only Allah knows what is inside my mom and my father hearts. I alway pray to Allah that He will bring our family together one day.
The strength of a woman is immeasurably when she reaches her breaking point.
She had no strength. She milled her baby and died. That doesn’t take strength. It takes strength to live
@@MrColdchillin81That is true. It's easy to give up. Facing obstacles, overcoming them and moving forward in life takes strength and determination. I have overcome cancer, 3 miscarriages and heart failure. It wasn't easy. It was fuckin' hard! I could have chosen the easy way out and just deleted myself!
The title is wrong. She didn’t have a miscarriage. She did that to herself. Leo’s emotions are top notch in every movie. Amazing actor.
Leo is so under appreciated. He's a great actor.
The one thing I've learned about dealing with an angry man is he can say some hurtful things, unload everything he's feeling and walk away. While the woman holds everything he has ever said in her body and soul and never forgets it. But a man can disregard what he's said, never apologies for it until something tragic happens and is too late.
ROFL ok, let's not try to pretend you delusional women aren't EXTREMELY cruel.
Total and utter lack of accountability, as usual.
The VAST majority of ruined relationships and broken homes are CAUSED by women. INITIATED by women. And as the direct result of women.
You are utterly delusional if you're trying to act like angry men are worse then you angry crazed animals.
Truth. I'm currently separated from my husband and soon to be divorced. He's got a temper. So anything could set him off. While I was pregnant one he got angry and picked a fight and said he wished I'd have a miscarriage. Now I'm in a whole thing with him about our child and what's best for our baby
It also seems true the other way around. The women yells some hurtful things at the man and he'll forget about it later its honestly intriguing.
You literally wrote what I would have wrote. Wow 😢 thank you for that
Has nothing to do with gender .
Both sexes can be horrible at managing their emotions and can say things they don’t mean
I remember my husband yelled at me real bad and said some hurtful things during it. Hurt my feelings to the core, I was a couple of weeks pregnant when it happened, the very next morning I had a miscarriage 😢😢. I knew it was because of the argument and the severity of the broken heart and down feeling caused it. Words are powerful and deadly, got to be careful. We moved past that point with a lot of work having to be put in by him. When I got pregnant again the only thing he could say to me was don't lose this one alright. 😮 My response was watch what you say to me then be kind with your words.
not tryna shit on your parade but this is BS can we end this BS stigma that women just morph into horrible people because the are pregnant and as far as your miscarriage goes i truly am sorry to hear you lost your baby, but it didnt pass because your partner yelled at you i guarantee there was an underlying issue
@lilpotato7297 as an L+D RN...respectfully, YOU are wrong and that other person is right. While stress certainly does effect your baby, it isnt going to cause you to miscarry unless your cortisol levels are already high from an underlying condition. When there is a healthy implantation and development of a fetus...then it takes A LOT to cause miscarriage, like a car accident. Simply having a stressful week, and getting into a screaming match is NOT going to make you miscarry. The main cause of a miscarriage in early pregnancy is that there is something developmentally wrong with the fetus, or there wasn't proper implantation. Neither of these is caused by stress.
Good lord. An argument didn't cause that to happen. For fucks sake! Victims everywhere. Its sad but shit just happens.
Yup as usual, you women coming in with your sob stories, and with total and utter lack of accountability.
I bet you were just minding your own business and that Uber scary man attacked you for no reason, yup that's typically the story ROFL when the man isn't around to refute it...
Damn that was wrong to yell at you while pregnant but wow the way you worded that makes it sound like your putting the blame of the death on him and he's accepting that. If so shame on you for being ignorant and evil-hearted because you know he wasn't the cause unless he beat you in the stomach. Most likely just was just an unviable birth which happens a lot.
Incredible performance from this two actors, reunited for a great drama worthy of an Oscar.
I am glad she did what was right and didn't bring a bby into this already abusive world.
It reminds me of my ex, and maybe if we got married I'd end up this way too. I watch this calmly, not getting triggered. I'm blessed. I chose to burn the bridge, lock the door and never look back. Those who are still in this kind of relationship, I hope you find your strength and faith on yourself.
Jack and rose be hittin on a different level💀
Im 43, When i was 16 a female and her family decided an abortion and it slipped out they had an abortion without asking me anything, I had no right, no opinion, To this day that shit still breaks me to the core, Tore my head up and still continues to this day all these years later, I feel for any man that has to go through that, Men should have the option to keep their own child but we dont and its sad that no one gives a shit
I don't think people realized she didn't miscarry, she aborted.
They don't or haven't ever seen the movie.
@@KeedyNdabuildingahhh... Finally nice to meet you. May I have the title of the movie?
I haven’t seen it but I knew she self aborted 😢
@@Vysachurevolutionary road
@@Samson16436thank you!!
Some backstory for those who don't know. Leo recently found out that his wife's 25 birthday was last week.
name ?
😂😂😂
Lmao
@@sakurauchia4471
He's lying. A joke, playing on his notoriety for not dating women past a certain age
🤣🤣🤣🤣
When someone stops fighting, it means they’ve given up. She’s given up on trying to get her husband to love her because she knows he never will. She’s given up on trying to make her broken marriage work because she knows it’s already over. She’s given up on having a happy family with her husband because she knows that no family she creates with him will be happy. She’s given up on fighting for any chance of a happy life because she feels like it’s completely out of reach. She’s done and nothing matters to her anymore. Not even her own life. She decided to remove the child in her womb. The child that was sired by her wretched husband. The child that will bind her to this miserable life even further. The child who would’ve been condemned to suffer in a home where their father doesn’t love them or their mother. She knew it could kill her, but she didn’t care about that anymore. If anything, part of her might’ve even hoped that it would because at least then she’ll finally be free of her misery.
Went through this with wife. Broke both our hearts
The ONE and ONLY DICAPRIO! This man acts the role and it is so human, he will make you shed tears, laugh, scream, cringe. One of the BEST! ❤❤❤
Those two together really can bring a story to life.
their chemistry is just 😩💓
These two are casted as lovers in more than one movie is a sign😭😭😭😭..
I lost twins right at the 4 month mark. Ive been married 33 yrs now with 3 adult sons. But my husband still tears up whenever we have that memory boil back up because of what he said when we found out I was having twins. What happened was going to happen, there is no one yo blame. But he is still tortured because of how he responded to the news. Its his cross to bare, not mine.
Well words are powerful and carry a lot of weight. The power of the tongue. Life and death is in the power of the tongue. Proverbs 18:21
@@cherryblossom6702💥
What did he say? And, absolutely. Yes. If he said ANYTHING even slightly negative he should feel guilty. Horrible.
I need the English version please.
My ex husband said "oh thank God " when I lost my first pregnancy. That was the first and last I had with him.
They have acted 3 movies together and my gosh, their chemistry together is amazing!!!
whats the other one besides titanic
@@redefinedliving5974^^
They’ve only starred in Revolutionary Road and Titanic together haven’t they? What’s the third one?
No.. only 2
No.. only 2
Women understand what a man feels before being prompted by anger to state what he really feels. His words are just confirmation, and she can no longer deny the truth.
When parents divorced my dad didn’t want to but my mother had enough of him, they used to fight a lot and they were always aggressive, luckily they never went physical but dad always new how to verbally abuse my mom, the day came when she finally said I don’t care about what you think and I don’t want to be with you so she, my little sisters and I moved away after a while ( I do remember one time mom took us out scared after a bad fight and we stayed on a parking lot with mom crying thinking what she was going to do) my father isn’t a horrible person, he is very intelligent but he is not a family guy, he need to learn how to act like a proper father and go to therapy because he. Become like my granpather, and he wasn’t a great person) now both are in peace with each other (minus the times they fight on the phone cuz dad can be an asshole toward my sisters) and they only interact with each other when it’s about my sisters, I on the other hand barely interact with him now (he is my step father so we don’t really have much relationship as father/son) ironically now we live in the same street but things are okish
It takes two to make a marriage work. neither Frank or April were fully invested in their marriage anymore. Frank wanted the picture perfect propagandist image of a family from that era. I think April was depressed. She wasn't where she wanted to be at that point in her life.Which is why she was so eagered to relocate. She'd hope a new environment would revitalize them. Judging from the convos they had about the early stages of their marriage, they seem to have had a whimsical idea of what marriage is. I think they failed to realize that marriage takes a lot of work & effort to maintain it. Both were unhappy because their marriage wasn't what they fantasized it would be.
I think that sums up most marriages today, really, and why the divorce rate is as high as it is. Sadly, we've grown up being fed unrealistic ideas of what love and marriage are "supposed" to be, so when reality hits we're completely unprepared. 😞💔
@@AlishaArleneexactly
I've been here, I WISHED TO GOD, I wish to GOD that I could take back "Everything" I ever said to her in a heated argument? I was WRONG!!! I was Sorry , I hope that one day she forgives me❤
Me too, she was afraid to tell me she had a miscarriage Or even that she was pregnant because for some reason she thought id be against having kids..
Then when she found out i Wouldn't she said she loved me even more ....
Then she ghosted me....
😞💔🤦🏼🤷🏼
I have no clue how shes doing now!?
(( But we never even had a fight!!?? Never had any words of anger or even a misunderstanding!? 🤦🏼🤷🏼😞💔))
Well then maybe you shouldn't say hurtful and spiteful things out of anger....plain and simple 🤷🏼♀️ fuck the whole "Sticks and stones" because words do hurt. Especially if it came from someone you adore more than anything in this world and someone whom you thought would NEVER say those things to you. You BOYS will never learn will you?
@@beccamcdonald9846 you don't know marriage
@@beccamcdonald9846 well dam. They are human. Women do the same. It is very very human to want a bell unrung and we dont have that power. These people have dropped their pain publicly, no credit given for that, why would you be that way? Why say thse thngs about thm? It puts you in a worse place than they feel they are in. At least there is remorse there while it makes you look as you have none, you did cant unsay this. We have to not hurt ech other. We rarely get do overs.
@@LBCB94025maybe she had your baby and is still scared to tell you?! You should find her and see what’s going on 😢
These two are best friends in real life that's why their chemistry is amazing
Revolutionary Road is the movie.
No, she did from an (at-home) abortion that Leo’s character did not want his wife (in the movie) to abort, loss of blood.
Plus, it was the best friend or neighbor’s child she was carrying, she cheated with him.
Men’s rage can have the same impact as a physical beating towards their wife. Let this video be a warning to those who have an anger problem. Please get hep before the ones you love and those who love you are damaged or hurt beyond repair.💕
You're saying what women do to men doesn't affect them just as much?
U don't shout if u don't like her
@@imthedude5127exactly
@@imthedude5127 It goes both ways; no matter the gender. Thanks for the clarification
@@imthedude5127 she was commenting the facts in reality based on this video. No need to dig more. Guys are so easily triggered nowadays
In simple terms he got his wish
“What the hell are you carrying my child , I wish to God that you hadn’t”
Watch what you say when in anger.
She hated him that she felt trapped that she didn't want to be in this no more why are you here why are we doing this you can't blame him that was her feelings in the first place
I agree,the last thing I said to my husband was Man up and he died unexpectedly next morning in bed.I always said be careful what you say it could be the last thing you say,and I didn't take my own advice..I'm haunted forever..
She's also cheating on him I'm not sure it's his biological child he dodge a bullet.
@@marylabelle803He'll probably know from your heart now. You've shown remourse and he's seen your plead for forgiveness.
@@marylabelle803Im so sorry for your loss💔 Prayers and condolences to him, you and all your families,friends and loved ones❤ i know he's watching over you from heaven❤
Sometimes you need forgive not overthink because losing that person would hurt more than any words said