Your frame naturally gets stronger as you age, assuming you lived a life in which you challenge yourself and went after achieving your dreams. Also, if you have a good understanding of life, and you're self aware and aware of your surroundings, you become a lot more efficient to picking your battles. People who never let frame go are just narcissist, toxic people.
8:42 1- " you see this? there is more" ( the full course) 1.5- " succesful personalized anecdote" ( step by step stuff I use ) 2- " scarcity" ( for a limited time ) 3- " there is even more" ( the online classes ) 4- " loss frame" ( you can't afford to miss) 😁 in all fairness, as a psychologist , I have learned much more from Todd and Mystery than I have from textbooks and papers.
When you first learn game, it’s almost like learning a new language, actually a language that you didn’t know existed. It’s kind of good, and bad, it’s good because you now know what you’re supposed to do, but it’s bad because you’re too much in your head. But as time goes along, and you practice out in the field, things start to become second nature to you - and that’s when you start to see progress. And eventually it just becomes part of who you are, and you no longer need to think about any of it - you just know what to do! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Hey Todd, just wanna say I'm following VGA and the idea of opening women from several feet away drastically improved the responses I get and how good the approach feels. I'm still on week 1 (going at my own pace) but there doesn't seem to be a space to write to you, so I just have to thank you here.
Todd, I have followed you form some years just about when you were ending with RSD, you have help me out a lot I just wanted to thank you for bringing these Ideas out, I wish you much success always. Best Wishes.
I reluctantly agreed to be exclusive with my BAE….she is so happy because my frame is so solid but fluid when needed …..she can’t get enough of me….she loves my Social Understanding. Thanks so much Todd for everything you teach….your 100% spot on.
Your BAE? Bro, you have crossed over into being an urban queen. Why in the world are you speaking like Beyonce'? Does your gf know you say that? Sounds suspect af.
A thing I’ve found helps me, is to write down things beforehand that I may do, but never commit to doing them. When I do this, the behaviors seem to seep into my behavior over weeks and month.
When you first learn game, it’s almost like learning a new language, actually a language that you didn’t know existed. It’s kind of good, and bad, it’s good because you now know what you’re supposed to do, but it’s bad because you’re too much in your head. But as time goes along, and you practice out in the field, things start to become second nature to you - and that’s when you start to see progress. And eventually it just becomes part of who you are, and you no longer need to think about any of it - you just know what to do! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Coming from someone still in early stages of learning game I can understand why some people cling too hard to frames at first: See anyone who found game was at some point in a low place in life and couldn't get a head socially and his search for answers online found videos and eventually started learning. But coming from such a negative place, frame control sounds so appealing it's like "What if for just one interaction I was not the loser I have been for years? What if this girl was completely sold on me being an Alpha male who's got life figured out and women lining up to be with him?" the desire to live out that fantasy makes guys want to have perfect frame control as they think it will allow them to be that guy for real once the girl is sold. But I guess it does take a few tries before they figure out that in order to BE that guy and not just seem like you are for brief second, you need to perfect game and perfect game is imperfect which creates t his paradox where you don't know what to do just know that you need to have better game.
Well, people know what yr doing so they're not happy to put up with it. They don't believe u guys anymore. So you damaged the dating game...because they don't want manipulative abusers
Hey Todd, I think you demonstrate the last level very well because you're not rigid, you're willing to make little concessions in an interaction sometimes but use humor and wit to turn things in the direction you want and gradually advance your position like subtle maneuvering in a chess game. Was this video shot in the morning? By the way, I wanted to ask you about your experience with long hair? Was it slightly worse for outer game or did it not make any difference? Did you attract different kinds of women or have an easier time with certain types? Curious. Thanks for doing what you do.
I hope that sale is still gonna be there in a weeks time, waiting for early December pay cheque, i I Really Need This you have no idea. thanks for sharing.
The greatest frame: I'm such a frame-master that I'm kind of bored/tired of frame. I used to care about the tiniest frame. Now I don't even get out of bed for frames worth less than $10,000.
Is it just me, or is he talking about both contexts of frame control in this? 1. Where you stick to the macho/funny/sacastic/ROLE you play in a set... And 2. Where you frame and reframe an statement or idea... Or am I miss interpreting something?
Frame is basically the subtle context of the interaction. You could be complimenting a girl but how it is perceived really depends on the frame you set.
Today I approached a girl in market who was looking slight older than me she was wearing black top. I said hi and she immediately said who are you elder brother. I said you're wearing black seems like you're going to kill somebody is it so she laughed and asked again who are you. I didn't knew what to say and I left the conversation. What I should have said? It was a shit test?
What I want to know is if the paid material is full of examples because I’ve watched like 100 of this guy’s videos and still rarely understand what he’s talking about.
Todd, can you make a video about personality development? I think this is what most of the guys missing, jumping into Game without even being self aware the they have a shitty to non existent personality.
Oh a become very rigid and negative when someone break my frame, like i dont wana be in his dumb ass frame!!! When you are positive and someone comes wit horse shit frame you can feel that negative state and is discusting!!
Hours and hours of content... imagine previous generations in the past decades have gotten relationships and everything without internet and courses how to do it. This has to stop. Even putting one's self in the box of thinking that he needs to improve in game is a bad frame that holds people back.
Your thoughts on life and the way people get together are outdated, things aren't the same as they were years ago, social media, feminism, the entitlement of women, the lower need to have a provider and a family by women All these things have changed how men and women find each other, the best men keep getting all the women though but what's nowadays considered as the "best" wasn't clearly what used to be
@@By.daniieel Yeah, the world is experiencing some weird twist but how does it change the need to learn game now more than before ? It is even simpler now. Game is only 1% of the things you need to get girls. If you have the looks and height you are good to go without game. yeah you can add money here in the group. To me game is not needed. I mean you need it, but not in that amount as the preachers tell us. Game is simple, you need basic skill and understanding of dynamics. I guess you talk to people on a daily basis. What do you need more ? Oh fuck, i got myself into a debate. This place is not good for that purpose. But yeah. GL EDIT* The journey is trial and error. That's how you learn game. You talk to girls, go on dates and you will eventually adopt and learn thru the process. Thats how we humans still exist on this planet, right ? haha
Yeah you dont really need dating coaches to teach you game to get relationships. Game is a social skill that every human can learn just by being social, most people that come here are socially inept.
@@By.daniieel social media, feminism, or women having more power doesnt matter. The body language, social cues, hints, laughing at a dumb joke etc.. that doesnt change, only a socialy inept man would be stupid enough to miss that.
You don't need to even put a title to make us watch. We would have watched even if you'd put burrrp.....fart as your title. P. S. Todd trying the green screen today
Todd, can you make a video about personality development? I think this is what most of the guys missing, jumping into Game without even being self aware the they have a shitty to non existent personality.
Your frame naturally gets stronger as you age, assuming you lived a life in which you challenge yourself and went after achieving your dreams. Also, if you have a good understanding of life, and you're self aware and aware of your surroundings, you become a lot more efficient to picking your battles.
People who never let frame go are just narcissist, toxic people.
But my frame is the best frame, why would I ever let it go ^_^
😂😂😂😂😂😂@@celticcook3950
Happy to see one of the OG’s still coaching since others are washed up. Cheers Todd much respect
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8:42
1- " you see this? there is more" ( the full course)
1.5- " succesful personalized anecdote" ( step by step stuff I use )
2- " scarcity" ( for a limited time )
3- " there is even more" ( the online classes )
4- " loss frame" ( you can't afford to miss)
😁
in all fairness, as a psychologist , I have learned much more from Todd and Mystery than I have from textbooks and papers.
When you first learn game, it’s almost like learning a new language, actually a language that you didn’t know existed.
It’s kind of good, and bad, it’s good because you now know what you’re supposed to do, but it’s bad because you’re too much in your head.
But as time goes along, and you practice out in the field, things start to become second nature to you - and that’s when you start to see progress.
And eventually it just becomes part of who you are, and you no longer need to think about any of it - you just know what to do!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
How is work as psychologist?
Facts
Yes, game is practical psychology. Like you, I have a degree in psychology, and I have learned more from Todd than any professor.
Yes, game is practical psychology. Like you, I have a degree in psychology, and I have learned more from Todd than any professor.
I experienced this same thing with getting negative and rigid, hyper-obsessed about frame. I'm so glad Todd addressed this issue.
Hey Todd, just wanna say I'm following VGA and the idea of opening women from several feet away drastically improved the responses I get and how good the approach feels. I'm still on week 1 (going at my own pace) but there doesn't seem to be a space to write to you, so I just have to thank you here.
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Don’t be so hard to the game; know when to break the rules and be confident that you’ll be ok.
Todd, I have followed you form some years just about when you were ending with RSD, you have help me out a lot I just wanted to thank you for bringing these Ideas out, I wish you much success always. Best Wishes.
The timing i discover your videos is always so perfect with the events going on in my life lol. It is kinda scary. Great video though
I’ve found my day-to-day frame level has risen over the last few years just by practicing in everyday interactions
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I reluctantly agreed to be exclusive with my BAE….she is so happy because my frame is so solid but fluid when needed …..she can’t get enough of me….she loves my Social Understanding. Thanks so much Todd for everything you teach….your 100% spot on.
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Your BAE? Bro, you have crossed over into being an urban queen. Why in the world are you speaking like Beyonce'? Does your gf know you say that? Sounds suspect af.
A thing I’ve found helps me, is to write down things beforehand that I may do, but never commit to doing them. When I do this, the behaviors seem to seep into my behavior over weeks and month.
When you first learn game, it’s almost like learning a new language, actually a language that you didn’t know existed.
It’s kind of good, and bad, it’s good because you now know what you’re supposed to do, but it’s bad because you’re too much in your head.
But as time goes along, and you practice out in the field, things start to become second nature to you - and that’s when you start to see progress.
And eventually it just becomes part of who you are, and you no longer need to think about any of it - you just know what to do!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Coming from someone still in early stages of learning game I can understand why some people cling too hard to frames at first:
See anyone who found game was at some point in a low place in life and couldn't get a head socially and his search for answers online found videos and eventually started learning.
But coming from such a negative place, frame control sounds so appealing it's like "What if for just one interaction I was not the loser I have been for years? What if this girl was completely sold on me being an Alpha male who's got life figured out and women lining up to be with him?" the desire to live out that fantasy makes guys want to have perfect frame control as they think it will allow them to be that guy for real once the girl is sold.
But I guess it does take a few tries before they figure out that in order to BE that guy and not just seem like you are for brief second, you need to perfect game and perfect game is imperfect which creates t his paradox where you don't know what to do just know that you need to have better game.
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Well, people know what yr doing so they're not happy to put up with it. They don't believe u guys anymore. So you damaged the dating game...because they don't want manipulative abusers
This guy unleashed my deep beast inside of me by shifting my mindset! hope it works for you too
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Well .. so now you want to manipulate & you think people are so dumb eh !!
Hey Todd, I think you demonstrate the last level very well because you're not rigid, you're willing to make little concessions in an interaction sometimes but use humor and wit to turn things in the direction you want and gradually advance your position like subtle maneuvering in a chess game. Was this video shot in the morning?
By the way, I wanted to ask you about your experience with long hair? Was it slightly worse for outer game or did it not make any difference? Did you attract different kinds of women or have an easier time with certain types? Curious.
Thanks for doing what you do.
I can tell that this advice is coming from a good place.
I just started game. What a life changer.
Agree, calibration is very important
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#4 sometime s it is better to be happy/joyful than to be "right"
Here's an idea for the title: "You're overthinking frame control..."
Great video Todd
Lookin like a newscast reporting talking about a local stabbing. Love the content!
The title should be "Analysis Paralysis"
Thank you Toddy
Valentine saves nerds from turning into serial killers by giving them basic social skills 😂
Great video!
Wow thank you much
I hope that sale is still gonna be there in a weeks time, waiting for early December pay cheque, i I Really Need This you have no idea. thanks for sharing.
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Myron Gaines needs this video.
True
"Awareness of Frame Control by Level and What This Means for YOU"
😂
What is frame ?
Can the next video be explaining what the bloody hell a frame is ?
Feel so bad watching todd get older🥺.. time to get consistent with your workouts !
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Wife and kids did that to him most likely.
I've seen these eyes before and the speech. This guy is on anxiety meds and probably on a high dosage
I've seen these eyes before and the speech. This guy is on anxiety meds and probably on a high dosage
4:37 he was trying to come up with the correct word and I thought to myself "blunders" and he actually said it.. That was wild...
How do you define frame? Attitude, vibe? Tone
The greatest frame: I'm such a frame-master that I'm kind of bored/tired of frame. I used to care about the tiniest frame. Now I don't even get out of bed for frames worth less than $10,000.
Informative
Are there essential components to developing and maintaining “positive frame?”
Can you recommend an attention getting Cologne?
Brilliant
VERBAL GAME ACADEMYYYY
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What is frame control in the first place?
Todd, please set video language for auto subtitles
Gotta learn frame control
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Is it just me, or is he talking about both contexts of frame control in this? 1. Where you stick to the macho/funny/sacastic/ROLE you play in a set... And 2. Where you frame and reframe an statement or idea...
Or am I miss interpreting something?
State vs frame? don't compromise your state by worrying about frame?
What does he mean by frame?
Shit. Last time i went out that was exact my problem. Blowout a great interaction I was having with the cutest French girl 🥲
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Frame control is key
What the hell is a frame in this context
Okay, but how can I evolve?
Soo what's frame? Leading the interaction?
A way of thinking about the world.
@@cameronmiller6240 so basically 'The glass is half full rather than half empty' that sort of a thing
@@PacificNight888 yes!
Frame is basically the subtle context of the interaction. You could be complimenting a girl but how it is perceived really depends on the frame you set.
Today I approached a girl in market who was looking slight older than me she was wearing black top.
I said hi and she immediately said who are you elder brother. I said you're wearing black seems like you're going to kill somebody is it so she laughed and asked again who are you. I didn't knew what to say and I left the conversation.
What I should have said? It was a shit test?
I see todd.. i click it.. simple🤷
What I want to know is if the paid material is full of examples because I’ve watched like 100 of this guy’s videos and still rarely understand what he’s talking about.
Todd can you put english subtitles on the video?
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Hey Todd!
Todd, can you make a video about personality development? I think this is what most of the guys missing, jumping into Game without even being self aware the they have a shitty to non existent personality.
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*"If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can't hear them..."* If you are reading this, I hope you have an amazing day!
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Possible title: How to manage frames without over doing it
Don’t be such a stickler for the game that you get in your own way and come off a d bag
LOCARIO BEINTINOVIO
Hey Todd, I thinks it is possible for those who have started clinging to much to their frame to once again become oblivious to their frame
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Do you have any refutations to John Anothony's accusations about your dating life, lay count and hotness of the mother of your child?
4th!
😁
Bible
i love you more than my girlfriend
“Don’t be obsessed with frame”
Number of times the word frame used in this video: 4,347,512
In dating apps i keep unmaching women because i suspect thet reframe me i finaly git a clue about my behaviour ...sad part im 44
Dont be too "gamey" be a normal social person
How to be self aware of your frame in game
Oh a become very rigid and negative when someone break my frame, like i dont wana be in his dumb ass frame!!! When you are positive and someone comes wit horse shit frame you can feel that negative state and is discusting!!
Hours and hours of content... imagine previous generations in the past decades have gotten relationships and everything without internet and courses how to do it. This has to stop.
Even putting one's self in the box of thinking that he needs to improve in game is a bad frame that holds people back.
Standards of women back then was lower.
Your thoughts on life and the way people get together are outdated, things aren't the same as they were years ago, social media, feminism, the entitlement of women, the lower need to have a provider and a family by women
All these things have changed how men and women find each other, the best men keep getting all the women though but what's nowadays considered as the "best" wasn't clearly what used to be
@@By.daniieel Yeah, the world is experiencing some weird twist but how does it change the need to learn game now more than before ?
It is even simpler now. Game is only 1% of the things you need to get girls. If you have the looks and height you are good to go without game. yeah you can add money here in the group.
To me game is not needed. I mean you need it, but not in that amount as the preachers tell us. Game is simple, you need basic skill and understanding of dynamics. I guess you talk to people on a daily basis. What do you need more ?
Oh fuck, i got myself into a debate. This place is not good for that purpose. But yeah.
GL
EDIT* The journey is trial and error. That's how you learn game. You talk to girls, go on dates and you will eventually adopt and learn thru the process. Thats how we humans still exist on this planet, right ? haha
Yeah you dont really need dating coaches to teach you game to get relationships. Game is a social skill that every human can learn just by being social, most people that come here are socially inept.
@@By.daniieel social media, feminism, or women having more power doesnt matter. The body language, social cues, hints, laughing at a dumb joke etc.. that doesnt change, only a socialy inept man would be stupid enough to miss that.
Leave it to Todd to over complicate "game" so he can sell his products.
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Who hurt you? 😂😂😂
Example for title : How not to be hyperanalytical
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Any fighting game players here? lots of overlap in this vid lol
Todd t o dd 2d’d
isnt this the dude who annoyed 3 girls?💀💀
You don't need to even put a title to make us watch. We would have watched even if you'd put burrrp.....fart as your title.
P. S. Todd trying the green screen today
Not green screen
Even if he puts "shit toss"
Dude the older you get the sadder this all becomes. Hope you find someone to settle down with soon :)
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I thought he was married?
Just kept a count of word frame he repeated throughout the video😂
What a crappppp
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Todd, can you make a video about personality development? I think this is what most of the guys missing, jumping into Game without even being self aware the they have a shitty to non existent personality.
Facts bro some guys just learn “game” to get laid without being self aware and wonder why they don’t get none
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