HOW TO BUILD TRUST WITH YOUR HORSE

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  • @jennyrenken8451
    @jennyrenken8451 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    In August, my horse passed. I had him 20 years. I found a great horse, a mare, just one week later. I went from a more whoa than go to a more go than whoa. She and I are still getting used to one another. I am 73 years old. My horse is very willing. I have learned a lot from your videos. Thank you for this. You are very wise.

    • @EmilyO9411
      @EmilyO9411 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      so sorry for your loss. congratulations however, on your new mare.

  • @blaiseaimee7098
    @blaiseaimee7098 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Everything in life is so fast, and I always have to remind myself that horse time is SLOW. That's one of the things that is so wonderful about them.

    • @Schmusan
      @Schmusan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed❤❤

  • @belogical3961
    @belogical3961 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love the thought that a horse could help me manage my emotions.
    I kind of get excited inside thinking about how a horse could help me and my mental health. It just makes me want to praise God for what a wonderful world He created and by what means, He helps His children.
    This is so cool.

  • @-_PlutoLuto_-
    @-_PlutoLuto_- 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don’t own a horse, but I do riding lessons and sometimes, the mare that I ride doesn’t seem to trust me as much as I trust her, this video was very helpful!

  • @sandraengelland5106
    @sandraengelland5106 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I'm 58 and got my first horse a little over a year ago. I took lessons for 18 months before I bought my mare. We now take lessons together. So much to learn, especially managing my anxiety when loping, as someone who only did trail riding before I started lessons. Thanks for your encouragement and wisdom!

    • @joshuafehr6930
      @joshuafehr6930 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      you don't train a horse the horse trains you!😂lol

  • @michellen1125
    @michellen1125 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thank you for your tips. I haven’t been on a horse in 40 years and last week had my first lesson at age 70. I loved it! I am watching everything I can on your channel.

    • @charlottecreasy4183
      @charlottecreasy4183 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm 56 and hadn't ridden since childhood (and no lessons back then! Just riding friends' ponies) and am now having weekly lessons with my daughter. Loving it. We want our own horse.

    • @jennyrenken8451
      @jennyrenken8451 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I plan on taking a lesson or two with my new horse in the spring. I'm 73. I've loved this girl's videos. She makes it simple and clear.

  • @MirandaKidd-zk1ic
    @MirandaKidd-zk1ic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you soo much sooo helpfully and I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @auntieliz930
    @auntieliz930 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love it! I’d love to see more of the initial basics videos like this. You already have some great basics videos. How to halter a horse that has never been haltered or is very new to it, etc. There is a severe lack of beginner how-tos that cover the basics. You have some nice ones with how to pick up a hoof for example.
    I’m working with my horses from a starting place of care that leads to that trust and allows them to still let me know what they think about things and gets that communication going between us.

  • @EmilyO9411
    @EmilyO9411 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh my gosh this is just the exact video I needed! I am close to purchasing my first horse and I'm so excited. Thanks for this! 😁

    • @joshuafehr6930
      @joshuafehr6930 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this is just a tip to remember. You don't train a horse the horse trains you ! 🐎lol

  • @donnahentschel5726
    @donnahentschel5726 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoyed this video very much. We cannot be reminded enough that there are so many ways to spend time with our horses to strengthen our bond and gain their trust. When I retired I tried to make up for the previous 10 years when I barely saw them outside of feeding and cleaning the stalls. This past summer when it was too hot for riding we walked them in the early evening, about 30-40 minutes up the hill. This especially helped my mare (17) who apparently had never actually seen cows before. Through the course of the summer she transitioned from a sweaty mess to mild snorting. I'm glad we did that before trying to ride past them.

  • @TaylorParnell
    @TaylorParnell 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    LOVE THIS SUBJECT ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ TRYING TO DO THAT WITH MY BLACK HORSE HE IS VERY TIMID AND HAS COME A LONG WAY ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nchorsegirl7
    @nchorsegirl7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m second. Love your channel. Are u going to do any shows with tucker and what are your goals for 2024. Can u please heart my comment.

  • @paigemontague4022
    @paigemontague4022 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the great video! I really struggle with this as a nervous rider but I really don't want to let fear ruin my riding.

  • @just_zoey31
    @just_zoey31 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I absolutely love your videos and this has been very helpful, could you maybe do a video on how to desensitize a horse to say, crowds or loud noises?

  • @cindywines2126
    @cindywines2126 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am 71 and lost my sweet Buddy who was 30. I saved him from a Texas kill pen. He was a well trained ranch horse but he had been abused. He was head shy. I have two horses left. Princess is also a Texas rescue and she is coming along.

  • @momtaylor3169
    @momtaylor3169 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    @EquineHelper can you make a video for sensitizing your horse to new-ish cues that the horse knows, but isn't super soft about it?
    I ride on a competitive equestrian drill team. My horse has come a long way from two years ago; she neck reins and makes downward transitions just off my seat and voice, but id like to get her even more soft and reactive to my cues, especially leg pressure sharp turns.

  • @AniruddhaR
    @AniruddhaR 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a horse already I trust. But I bought another horse recently that I don't trust that much so thank you so much for making all of these videos you're so helpful to me and keep making videos like this and I really care about you and also I would love to learn more from you.

  • @charlottecreasy4183
    @charlottecreasy4183 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    lovely video, thanks. I look forward to having a horse of my own and doing all this!

  • @lpfrank
    @lpfrank 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

    • @CarmellaAbel
      @CarmellaAbel  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your support!

  • @swensonfamily4902
    @swensonfamily4902 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for making this video. And I was wondering if you could make a video on like what to expect from your first riding lesson and what to wear. God bless y'all ❤

  • @Schmusan
    @Schmusan 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re the best! Thank you for this❤

  • @EliPfarms123B
    @EliPfarms123B 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m 13 and I ride horses i my family has 2 horses and your the best TH-cam ever ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kearnsey64
    @kearnsey64 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You make me want to own a horse again!

  • @joannesmartens9442
    @joannesmartens9442 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Like always, very interesting.👍

  • @Ramnit2
    @Ramnit2 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't own a horse myself. I am however taking riding lessons on a ridning school close and have been doing so for almost 3 years. Even though i most of the time ride on the same school horse when i having my riding lessons. I assume that building up trust with the horse on the riding school is just as important as if i had my own horse.
    I am thinking that is must be quite different for a school horse to build up trust with the rider(s). Because a school horse on a riding have many different people riding and not just the same person all the time

  • @jekimjo
    @jekimjo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video!!! ❤️

  • @WildandFree400
    @WildandFree400 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this video! I have a question, I have 7 horses that all need to be exercised and get some attention but I only have enough time for some of them through out my week to get enough exercise, and I am wondering if you have a way that I can keep giving all my horses attention? I guess to sum it up would be, How do you give all your horses attention but still have time for yourself?

  • @Kpearl84
    @Kpearl84 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you considered going bit less to help build trust with your horse? Bits do cause a horse pain, Do you keep your horse stalled up all day when you’re not riding them?

  • @mdk0516
    @mdk0516 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do you approach and give trust to the horse for the 1st time?

  • @AniruddhaR
    @AniruddhaR 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    And I subscribed to your channel.

  • @joshuafehr6930
    @joshuafehr6930 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    gestion I want to be a equine massage therapist any tips?
    or advise😉

  • @angelfoodcake1979
    @angelfoodcake1979 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have done your gain and maintain your horse's respect course. How is this new course different?

    • @CarmellaAbel
      @CarmellaAbel  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I would say that if you have done the respect course but still feel like something is missing, the trust course may be for you. It dives deeper into recognizing what exactly you may be communicating to your horse (knowingly and unknowingly). There’s also a few simple exercises I walk through to help your horse calm down and gain confidence.

  • @exportsferreyra
    @exportsferreyra 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What would we had to do if this doesn’t work? 😪❌😱

  • @AniruddhaR
    @AniruddhaR 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why wouldn't I?

  • @crasher209
    @crasher209 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always trust. This is another biological being you are riding on.